#this was an inclusive “you”

[oidheadh-con-culainn]

i know this is the Unhinged About Blorbos website but at the same time isn't it just a little bit embarrassing coming back after you had a particularly unhinged moment and now you're like. okay it's fine. I'm normal again. but the evidence of how not-normal you were feeling earlier is still there and potentially spreading

[krysmcscience]

I have some questions about karaoke night, Alex Hirsch. Very Important Questions. Which I will happily scream at a poor hapless baby triangle who can have no answers for me, and possibly also does not have object permanence yet.

Follow-up that is I guess suggestive, but let's be real here, Bill's a fucking triangle:

Dude slipped right into his birthday suit, lmao

this is so stupid :D

Anyway, I don't care what anyone says, this brilliant individual knows what's up - Bill is absolutely way more of a monsterfucker than Ford could or ever will be, full stop.

[jackalopegirlantlers]

holding my trans girl friends softly by the cheeks, close enough we can feel each others' breath, making intense eye contact, and telling them "you have spent so much of your life living for others. it's time for you to live for yourself. you deserve to exist and be safe and comfortable in public. you deserve to take up space. you deserve to be loud and silly and angry when you need to be. you deserve to be comfortable with your body and feel pretty and cute and beautiful and sexy. you deserve to be horny. you deserve to be fucked like a girl, if you wanna be fucked. you do not need to apologize for existing. you do not need to apologize for smiling and laughing. you do not need to apologize for your 'cringey' fandoms. you do not need to apologize for your kinks. you do not need to apologize for enjoying sex. you deserve laughter and love and happiness and support."

inspired by this post (and also by recent events in my/my friends' lives that are making me sad and angry)

[dkettchen]

cursed construction core hi vis bra that came to me in a dream

In the dream I saw it in the window display of a hardware/DIY/trade shop, implying it was meant to be a practical garment designed for actual female constructions workers in a Female Armour level missed-the-brief attempt at gender inclusion

The practical support from the visible underwire combined with the hi vis implying it’s not meant to be worn as an undergarment, I just-

I blame my binge-reading ND Stevenson’s gender comics talking abt masculinity and femininity incl the one abt Victoria’s Secret lingerie yesterday for this monstrosity x’D

[cipheramnesia]

Tumblr stop recommending me horny sapphic blogs that all say men dni in the pinned post, go back to sending me posts from the one that's just horny all the time please, I want the fat furries and the queer freaks that are way less respectably normal about me and my body.

[cosmicredcadet]

Soulmates are inherently amatonormative and it's so wild how many people refuse to acknowledge that and instead go around trying to "make it more inclusive" which mostly just leads to then forcing aspec characters into a amatonormative narrative.

[shopwitchvamp]

I mean this gently but I have to say somethin' here- I've been getting so much "make your skirts cheaper" "I love this but why are they soooo expensive" etc lately and like look, I know a lot of this is because times are hard.. (otherwise why would I be hearing this more & more this year when prices haven't changed compared to last year) but I just wanna say that one of the only ways I could lower prices (if I was ruthless and didn't care) would be to cut sizing options. Like idk how to word what I'm trying to say, but just know when you shout stuff like this at other brands & they decide they need to find a way to cut costs to lower prices, being size inclusive is gonna be one of the first things to go. I have no plans to do this myself, but for example, a D Size Skater costs me almost twice as much (talking about only the direct from the manu cost, there are other factors too such as that they weigh more so that adds more shipping costs as well) as an A Size Skater. Say I cut D Size altogether.. and many companies would have by now while also not even lowering the price.. I could increase my profit margins significantly right away. Now lets say I cut both C and D and become a shop that only offers the standard range of SM-XL. Wow! Suddenly profits are up so much!! Or maybe going not full corporate greed, I could handle lowering skater prices by like $10 (random number not based on real math idk what things would actually work out to because I'm not gonna do it). But now no one over a size XL can order from me. I fear none of what I'm trying to get across is getting across but I just mean to say, in order to offer what I offer, the prices need to be what they are. They aren't set arbitrarily high & lowering them would mean needing to make choices that I will not make (becoming less size inclusive or making my business unsustainable in the sense that it would not survive long).

[samwisethewitch]

Potentially hot take, but I actually think it's really important for white witches and pagans to learn about black and brown spiritual practices (from practitioners of those traditions choosing to talk about what they're comfortable sharing with outsiders) not in a "I'm going to learn hoodoo!" kind of way but in a "these conversations are how we kill harmful stereotypes and learn how to be a good ally" kind of way.

[fixing-bad-posts]

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[houseswife]

listen. this may sound like a reach but I don’t think house’s eagerness to go to the lesbian bar with thirteen was fetishistic glee. because like. okay. straight men love lesbians. but it’s only ever in a “conventionally attractive porn stars making out”, “I’ll pay these 2 strippers to kiss” sort of way, not exactly in the sense that they like to surround themselves with regular, real life sapphics. in fact, most hetero men despise the lesbians they meet in real life because they see them as either unattainable or unappealing disappointments to their fantasies. now, listen. house isn’t stupid, it’s not like he thought thirteen was gonna let him in on some hot girl-on-girl voyeuristic action, and he certainly knew he wasn’t about to get laid himself at a bar of ALL WLW. he’s an overconfident perv, sure, but not the kind who thinks he can ‘convert’ a gay gal, nor would he even desire to. the damn patient of the week is a guy who tried to ECT himself straight, which house obviously doesn’t believe is reasonable (this episode also gave us the shot where both house & thirteen are shown making a face in response to “I’m as straight as any of you!”)

with all of this laid out, you kinda have to assume that he was excited about the bar for another reason. dare I say it was simply… the joy of existing in a queer space as a queer person?

[creatingblackcharacters]

Just because it happened to come up-

Do not ever think that just because a piece of media is made by a person of color, that the media is automatically "not able to be prejudiced". Antiblack in particular, given the scope of this blog. Antiblackness is worldwide.

Am I saying that you, if you are a white blogger, should use this as a "gotcha" freely? No. Because white folks still benefit most from racism, and you still need to consider your own role. But a piece of work written or painted by a person of color can still be antiblack, intentional or not!

[blubushie]

Coming back briefly.

I NEED perisex people to stop fucking doing this shit. I need perisex people to stop defaulting to "it" when discussing intersex people/characters, like the medical system and general society doesn't already dehumanise us enough. Like we aren't already mutilated and medically abused for the crime of not being "properly" male or female but instead an "it" that needs correcting. Like we aren't already dehumanised and objectified and treated as defective humans enough.

[eddiesketti]

Happy birthday Childe 🥳⛈️

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[rhiangalaxy]

SQQ thinks they're flirting but they're actually scheming on how to get more Shizun Headpats

Edit: [ID: A Scum Villain comic. Luo Binghe and Ning Yingying speak with excited smiles, Yingying gesturing by raising a hand up. Shen Qingqiu watches them with a smile, thinking, "Nice job, Protagonist!" A System screen floats next to him, saying "Live System Reaction" above a sweating kaomoji. End ID] (ID courtesy of @princess-of-purple-prose)

[k-wame]

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