#this is more a story about learning your worth and personal strengths and loving yourself than valuing knowledge as the only factor of wort

[sanguinaryrot]

not sure how dnd lore works but i want to know your take on a scholar orc

So i had an immediate reaction to this. Scholars are called Sages in the DND handbook and it is a background which leaves the class open to me. Sages are usually associated with Wizards but i think i am going to. Shake It Up a little. just a little!!

When you're fed supposed truths about yourself for long enough, you eventually begin to believe them. Urul knows he is dumb because people tell him he is. Even people he's never met. "You're just a big dumb orc, what could you possibly know about magic?" But Urul wants to know. He's been searching for truths about the universe for years now, reading what tombs he can get his hands on from the outskirts of towns and big cities and consistently praying to Aureon to grant him wisdom and intellect. He knows devotees of Aureon are usually wizards, and in most case also bureaucrats, but this doesn't stop him. But no matter how much he learns, people still call him dumb. And after he is assaulted by a group of adventurers when Urul attempts to enter the library in town for the first tome, he tearfully visits his alter, and he wishes that he would have been born human so that he wouldn't have been made so dumb. But in a vision, he is visited by Aureon. His undying dedication not only to him but the pursuit of knowledge even in the face of constant adversity over the years has impressed him, and he urges Urul to take up his mantle, to spread his divine word. To show the world an orc is just as capable as a gnome. Urul is still discriminated against, but he is strengthened by what his god told him the first time he spoke to him. "You aren't dumb. You never have been."

Send me a class and a background and i'll write a brief description of a character fitting that description :0 !!

[nagy-bari]

on the appeal of Chilchuck Tims

short spoilery rambles on why i zero-ed in on this old man instantly and how i realized the patterns he gets to people.

subversion of the trope: oh they just look like a child while actually they are XXXX years old and--- yes. he's older than he looks, with a good 10 years and it's a boyman design now instead of a loli girl.

BUT wait there's more!

he's older than he looks and he has the experience of his actual age: that man is a father. of 3. the story he's in is his midlife crisis. he's planning on retiring from dungeering after this, he asked for payment UPFRONT (and got it) he has insane (for other characters, but really he's just normal, tries to be normal) work ethics - he got paid, he does the job, he's good at the job, he knows his own worth, strength and limits.

This Man Is Self Aware. He knows his weakness, the job's weakness (how adventure parties slip up and why) he knows he's seen as a bit closed up and he's OKAY WITH THIS.

what he's not okay with? not knowing if a party member is a cannibal or not when they are on this insane survival trip and he's the cook. what does he do?

he knows how to communicate and how much to disclose. Rare one, i know. With the party having an average gossip queen, an autistic foodie, and mysterious chef he knows when to take the lead so they can still function.

so to round it up:

Subversion of the 'looks young actually old', closed up and grumpy rouge who's motto is 'never trust those who don't ask for payment' and has the 'it's called personal life for a reason' philosophy rooted into their blood. Good? good.

BUT WAIT THERE'S MORE

because he knows he and all halffoots look young to others he actually started up a guild so they can re-enforce their rights as adults and independent people, so they are taken seriously and they can work against bad stereotypes and all.

we see his struggle through volumes, how hard it is for others to finally understand that a short live-spam people is actually just as old and mature as a long live-spam would be, it's mostly the numbers that are different.

we can learn with the other character to take him seriously, to accept the differences.

so he has good work ethic, looks out for his people, has plans for his and other's future, CARES for the future in general and ACTS so it will be a reality- rather sooner than later.

so he's charismatic and lovable while still being the usual tsundere setup for any joke.

BUT WAIT

THERE'S MORE

we first learned that he's actually is an adult (middle aged in half-foot culture)

is an estranged husband

who was left by his wife

cause he cheated-

BUT WAIT ACTUALLY NO

HE LIES ABOUT THE CHEATING!

cause he wants to keep his work persona intact, and it fits more if he says he cheated, cause then people won't BOTHER him with further details

BUT HE DIDN'T

he just went home one day and the wife was gone, with a note

and we learn ALL of this through a subversion of a UNICORN BICORN TALE - a feckin roll up of the whole pure maiden true virtue stuff - and we find out cause the feckin monster SNEERS AT HIM for lying then bites him.

so he's really soft with all the hidden 'better keep to yourself' and don't jump to conclusions cause that only fuels drama, which will hinder your work. but he was clearly hurt by this.

so the subversion here? we are Marcille. the whole fandom is Marcille. we are just as nosy and gossipy as her and it's a tiny little metanarrative joke and i love it, it's wonderful writing and it keeps you wanting more and more, you want this grumpy middle aged father to finally tell you his life story, the mundane little things, to see him brag about his children and all cause he's so goshdarn professional about everything.

but is it subversion at all?

wait...

there's more.

while we get actual introduction to his daughters we truly never seen anything about his wife.

it reaches the hights of Mrs. Columbo level of secrecy and i love it.

but! we know:

they were childhood friends

married when Chilchuck was 13 (almost full grown adult for their culture) and had the twins(?)

left their village at 14

3rd daughter at 15

he started adventuring at age 24 and formed the guild.

wife left when he was 25

Chilchuck started to work with Laios at 26.

he's now almost 29.

they were childhood friends and married for a good 10 year. he was there when he was needed to be a good dad (he's clearly proud of his daughters) and their fallout only started when he started adventuring.

let me say it again.

they. were. childhood. friends.

as much as we see the unfolding of young love in media, with all the teen dramas finding true and forever love in highschool and live happily with the white picket fence for 50+ years we see less of the loves that fizzle out, but were and probably will be friends.

love this. love this little detail cause there's so much in it. The confusion, the still remaining anger, the fustration. they probably would be able to talk it out. they've known each other for most of their life, but his logic and compromises for work (clear communication and a clear head) does not work here.

we don't know how exactly he feels and i love that, but we know he struggles to be open about 'mushy' feelings, grand gestures and all.

he knows his limits. His wife probably knows it too. That's why she's with the middle daughter. The assumed-ly closest to her rather than the oldest (locksmith) or the youngest (conartist?freelancer?life-artist???)

if we learned anything from Dungeon Mushi, it's that Kui Ryoko is a master of diverse characters visually and personality wise as well.

you can reverse engineer the wife if you want to from the girls but i love the joke and the actual comfort this whole Mrs. Columbo it gives.

cause Chilchuck has Columbo vibes. He's competent in his work, knows his limits, knows how to help others and when, knows when to quit and when to move on. and this tiny flaw of his, this domestic mystery we assume is his background (and ground of his disarming normality) is just enough to keep you thinking and re-think and re-think and just grow to love and appreciate the little details and love that was poured into this character of many in this wonderful story.

BUT WAIT

THERE'S MORE

yes he's a father

the dad jokes. oh my good the hidden dad jokes all through-out the series.

the 'i don't want a pet' ---- 'proceeds to be unseparable from said pet' meme with Izutsumi

the actual care and attention he can give when someone is distressed

the TALK with Senshi. that moment.

he's a proud father

but he's above all - practical

well that's all the mad rambling i had in me for now

if you read through this thank you

and do share your thoughts and finds - and ideas about the wife.

[talistheintrovert]

as somebody who has been (and remains) suicidal, I think Love For Love's Sake was written for me specifically, in the same way The Eighth Sense was.

I have no desire to speculate over the game mechanisms or what was real and what wasn't and who his sunbae *really* was because that's not the point. It's not about that, it's about the fact that suicidal people deserve compassion. It's about the fact that small acts of kindness can change everything. It's about the crushing pain of feeling left behind by everybody in your life and rejected by the people you want love from the most.

Being a human being is hard. It's harder when you have trauma. When you're mentally ill. When you're neurodivergent. When you're queer. All of those things separate you from the people around you in small, indefinable ways, and it can and will ruin your life if you let it (and even if you don't let it, sometimes it will do it anyway). I don't know about the rest of y'all but I'm in constant danger of becoming Tae Myungha. So I have no interest in exploring whether or not the ending is "real" or what made it happen, because that's not the point.

Tae Myungha entered the game broken and alone and was given a chance to make somebody else feel less like he did and he took it because he CARED. Because he had that capacity for love and strength for other people, but he couldn't find it for himself. The game made him confront that fact until he reached a point where he could actually allow himself to want things again. To want love and companionship and to feel like he *deserved* those things, because even though it's not about whether you deserve it or not, it's difficult not to feel that way. The game, and his sunbae, over and over again just wanted him to open himself up to being taken care of after leaving a life where nobody took care of him. It's tragic and beautiful and full of hope despite it all, and yeah it's morbid, but as somebody who has been where Myungha is, it also just feels very... normal. Struggling like that. Drowning under the weight of it all. The hard part is continuing even when all you want to do is give up, but this story is trying to tell us that it's worth looking for one more bright spot, trusting one more person, believing in yourself one more time.

Learning to receive love is just as important as your willingness to give it.

THAT is the point.

[natelikestowrite2054]

The Infection. Wanda Maximoff. Chapter 1

Wanda's not here. We are all that remains.

Summary: After a mission overseas, you return to the compound and meet up with Peter Parker. But something unknown attacks the base, and you soon learn who's behind the carnage.

Warnings: Infected Wanda, uneasy atmosphere, violence, suspense.

Author's Note: I hope you all enjoy reading this first chapter. There will be more to come.

You huffed as you dried hair after taking a well-deserved hot shower. Today had been grueling and unforgiving. The muscles in your body ached badly from the slightest bit of movement, and your eyes could barely stay open. But this wasn't a first-time experience for you. It was one you had done numerous times with the Avengers. The scars down your back, chest, and arms each held a story worth telling.

It had been over a year now since joining their team. A day that you'd never likely forget about. But unlike a majority of them. You didn't wear a suit of armor, possess secret powers, or have superhuman strength. No, you were a normal person, but not without the means to defend yourself. Your old life had taught you many lessons, and that was what aided you the day it all changed.

You neatly folded the towel and hung it over the heated rack. Sighing, you picked up your phone and opened it to check if Wanda had seen your messages. Two messages you'd sent half an hour ago had still gone unseen. Now you were getting worried. You typed up another message to send to her.

Wanda, I'm starting to really worry about you. You only said a few words to me or anyone when we left Sokovia, and then you suddenly disappeared as soon as we got back. If you need space, I understand, but please communicate with me. I love you so much, and I'm here for you. ❤️

Your mind pondered on the circus of theories as to what could've made Wanda so distant that she'd dissappear from everyone.

Did going back to Sokovia reawaken her painful memories? Should you have said more to comfort her? Was she planning on breaking up with you?

You snapped out of those delusional thoughts and exited the bathroom, switching off the lights and carrying your uniform over your forearm. The smell of fabric triggered deep memories of nostalgia from days long gone. You gently placed the outfit on the bed and searched for clothes for the evening.

Ding!

Your heart skipped a beat hearing the notification. You nearly stumbled forward, trying to get your leg through your sweatpants, hoping that Wanda had finally answered your messages. You scooped up your phone and opened to see it was a text message from Peter Parker.

Hey, I'm swinging in now. Meet you at the entrance?

Oh shit. You mumbled, realizing you had forgotten about your plans to hang out with Peter. You had been so overwhelmed with the stress of Wanda that you'd completely forgotten about tonight. It was something you'd planned out for some time, and you had been looking forward to it.

Peter wasn't a part of the Avengers, and that made it almost impossible for you two to see one another. You first met Peter when Tony Stark recruited him to help with a mission. Peter preferred to work alone and stick to being a friendly neighborhood Spider-Man. But the day you two met, there was an instant connection.

You ruffled your hair, trying to ease the sudden anxiety of forgetting the hangout. Reluctantly, you texted Peter back.

Sure, I'll meet you by the entrance.

A few seconds later Peter replied.

See you soon.

You pocketed your phone and fixed your hair after messing it up out of frustration. I suppose tonight wouldn't be so bad. After all, you were in need of a break after the eventful day. You walked out of the room into the hallway toward the elevator. Your fingers pressed the top button, and the doors grumbled open. You stepped inside and waited for the lift to arrive at the bottom.

Once you had arrived, you eagerly squeezed through the still-opening elevator doors. The anxiety and excitement of seeing Peter clashed inside you like swords on a battlefield. Your eyes caught him just walking in through the front entrance. He seemed to be struggling to stuff his mask into his jacket.

"Are you struggling a little bit there, Parker?" You snickered. "No, it just won't. Ah, I got it," Peter said. He turned to look at you only to be greeted with a tight embrace. Peter hugged you back, and you winced. "Oh, are you okay?" Peter gasped. "Yeah, I'm just sore from today. I'll talk about it later. But it's great to see you again, Peter. How have you-" An unwelcomed smell entered your nostrils, and you immediately asked, "Okay, why do you smell like pizza?"

Peter clearly embarrassed and turning red answered sheepishly, "Because I've been delivering pizzas."

"Wait, you're delivering pizzas now?" You asked almost a bit taken aback. "When did this start?" "Oh, I started a few months back," Peter told. A thought came to your mind and it made you snort. "Please tell me you've been swinging around in your costume when delivering them, oh please," you prayed. Peter smiled to hide his embarrassment as he admitted to it. You laughed, imagining how confusing it must look for New Yorkers seeing Spider-Man deliver pizzas. "Oh, my gosh, that's brilliant. I can imagine J. Jonah Jamerson is printing a front page for that one. Speaking of that, what happened to taking pictures of yourself for that knucklehead?" You asked, nudging Peter's side.

"I-I've still been doing that. The pizza delivery job is just some extra work." Peter explained. "How come?" You asked. "Well, it's just I've been a little bit behind on rent." Peter told.

"Do you need money?" You asked. "No, no, please, I can't take any of your money. I'll figure something out." Peter assured.

"Peter, if you need help, we -" Peter immediately dismissed your offer again. "No, it's fine, really. I have it under control." You breathed out through your nose to keep your sigh of frustration hidden. "Okay, but please, if you change your mind. We are all here for you."

"I appreciate it, Y/N, thanks." Peter thanked with a cute smile.

You pressed the button for the elevator doors to open. "Tonight, we're just going to relax and enjoy ourselves," you said. "Are you up for a movie and some board games?" "Sounds great, let's do it." Peter agreed. As you both entered the elevator, you pressed for the top floor.

"Is everyone here tonight?" Peter asked. You scratched an itch on your nose before answering, "Yeah, everyone's here. We recently got back from a mission in Sokovia." "Sokovia?" Peter repeated with a peak of interest dripping from his quirky voice. "Yeah, Wanda informed us of another Hydra base there," you explained. "Did you find out what they were doing there?" Peter inquired. "Not yet. We're still reviewing the data we saved before it was all wiped clean. But from what I could gather is that Hydra was running some kind of experiments."

"Experiments?" "What kind?" Peter asked. "Some kind of human testing. We were concerned about there being new super humans. But again, we won't fully know as half the data was destroyed when we began our assault."

"Mhm, so everything else is okay?" Peter asked. "Yeah, everything's... f-fine." You answered, not trying your best to hide the stress and worry for Wanda that was eating you like a cancer.

"Hey, you okay?" You glanced back up at Peter and stuttered with your explanation. "Y-Yeah, I'm fine just tired."

"Are you sure?" Peter asked again.

"Yeah, I'm sure," you whispered with a half convincing smile.

The mini screen in the corner of the elevator caught your attention. For some bizarre reason, the floor numbers seem to have frozen in time. But that's when you noticed the shift in Peter's expression. His eyes were wide like a deer caught in the headlights.

"Peter?" "Peter what's wrong?" You asked. Those few seconds felt like a lifetime time before Peter answered, "Y/N, something's wrong, something's -"

The elevator suddenly stopped.

You both froze in place, feeling the rumble of the elevator throughout your bodies. The lights from above flickered on and off until darkness followed. "What happened to the power?!" You exclaimed whilst frantically pushing the buttons on the panel. Nothing worked. Peter stepped toward the doors, prying his fingers in-between them. The young hero grunted with effort as he separated the doors. It sounded like nails on a chalkboard. Peter stepped out first, keeping his arm out in front of you in a protective manner. His eyes scanned the darkened hallway for any sudden movements.

"W-What's going on?" You muttered.

"Y/N, listen to me. There's something very dangerous nearby. Whatever it is, we need t-"

The thundering sound of clanging echoed through the floors above. You looked up toward the ceiling, listening to the deafening noises. But what came next was unlike anything you'd heard before. A loud screeching roar beyond human capability, and it made every hair on your body stand up. You started to hyperventilate, feeling the vibration of it throughout your body. "W-What was..." You choked out through your panicked breaths.

"Come on!" Peter exclaimed as he shoved the staircase door open. You raced after Peter with the adrenaline, igniting and fueling your body like a soldier charging onto the battlefield. As you climbed the stairs, the sound of gunfire and yelling was growing louder with every step. "Come on, Y/N!" Peter yelled from above. "We're almost at the top!" You leaped up the last set of stairs when you heard the screeching of Peter's shoes. You halted thinking Peter had come face to face with what was responsible. But as you looked up, there was nothing but what remained of the stairway door.

You slowly stepped up onto the walkway and inspected the scene of the crime. The door had been torn apart from the center and pulled inward. But what caught your eye made your heart skip a beat. Carved deep into the metal of the door appeared to be the workings of something with sharp claws.

"What could've done this?" You whispered.

Peter unzipped his grey jacket and swiftly took it off, revealing his tightly red and blue fitted costume. You turned away to look back at the door and bravely decided to investigate further. "Y/N, wait." Peter warned. You ignored it and squeezed through the gap in the door. Once you were through, your eyes gazed upon more of the same claw marks on the wall. Following the trail lead, you down the blackened hallway where the doors leading to the living room had been ripped clean off.

"Peter." You quietly called. Peter emerged through the gap and saw the carnage before him. "Oh my God." Peter gasped with wide eyes. "Okay, Y/N, I need you to listen to me. You need to get out of here and call Nick Fury. I'll go and investigate." Shaking your head, you argued, "No, I'm not leaving you here." Peter stepped closer and put both his hands on your biceps with a firm grip. "Y/N, please just listen to me. Whatever did this is dangerous. I sensed it before the power was cut. I can't let you get hurt." Again, you shook your head, ignoring Peter's reason. "I can't let you face this alone, I won't run knowing I could've done something." "Y/N it's too dangerous, and you don't have anything to protect yourself with," Peter pointed out.

"I'm staying." You repeated arrogantly.

Peter stared into your eyes. His expression was mixed between frustration, anger, and worry, knowing he couldn't change your mind. Peter pulled down his mask and repeated, "Okay, but promise me that the moment something happens to me. You save yourself. Promise me."

"I promise Peter." You answered confidently.

Peter nodded, and you both started to move cautiously toward the living room. He kept his arm out in front of in a protective manner. Anxiety made your hands clamy, and your heart thumped loudly in your ears as you entered the room.

Your eyes scanned the darkened area. There was no sign of anybody. Glass was scattered all over the floor, the couches and TV were tipped over, pieces of Tony's equipment broken and discarded like trash. Even one of the large windows had been shattered. It was like a battlefield. You continued following behind Peter with sweat dripping down your face like raindrops. When you felt something underneath your foot. You lifted your shoe off the object only to see it was a gun.

Natasha's gun.

You scooped up the pistol and checked it only to find the weapon had been completely emptied. Whatever Natasha was trying to bring down didn't surcome easily to bullet wounds.

Peter's eyes surveyed the area in front of him when he suddenly felt his spidey sense trigger drowning out his footsteps that came to a hault. You felt Peter's hand grab your shirt in a bone crushing grip. He whispered in a low tone, "Y/N, don't move." You froze like a statue, not daring to move another muscle.

Peter's breathing was shallow. His sharp spidey sense ringed loudly. Peter desperately searched for the threat, but there was nothing but the darkness that swallowed you both like a nightmare. The young hero needed to concentrate on where the threat was and quickly. Peter took a deep breath in and let it out. All went quiet. Peter's spidey sense homed in on the danger, and he moved his two fingers to the center of his web shooter before whispering the bone-chilling word.

"Run."

Peter shoved you out of the way. Emerging from the darkness were a pair of long tendrils that grabbed ahold of Peter's wrists and ankles like an octopus seizing its prey from within its lair.

You landed hard on the ground, crazing your cheek on the broken glass. Turning your head, you saw Peter pinned against the wall by the long, dark tendrils. Suddenly, one of the tendrils perked up and lunged toward you. Just as it was about to snatch your ankle, it was yanked back by one of Peter's webs. "Run, Y/N, RUN!" Peter groaned out.

You quickly stood to your feet and sprinted out of the room toward the stairway door. The sound of Peter's yellling traveled through the walls and followed you like a haunting spirit of mockery. The thought of what that monster was doing to Peter was too much bear, but you couldn't stop. You had to escape whilst Peter held it off.

The last flight of stairs was just below you now. You wasted no time and leaped down them, landing on your two feet. Grunting, you pushed the door open and sprinted toward the exit. You could make out the sight of the far-off street lights through the glass windows above the front door. Freedom was just ahead you could almost taste it.

Suddenly, you stopped hearing a loud rumble from above. The ground shook like an earthqauke was unfolding. Your eyes followed the sourace above when the ceiling collapsed, forcing you to retreat. You helplessly watched as Peter fell through the rubble. He reached out to fire a web to save himself, but it was too late. Peter crashed onto the title surface, cracking it. His body went limp as he laid trapped underneath a pile of rubble.

"Peter!" You cried.

You ran to Peter's side. But stopped upon seeing a dark shadow land in front of you and to your horror you saw it was...

Wanda.

No, it couldn't be. But it was indeed her. The right half of her body was consumed by a black and red substance that stretched all across the right side of her body like torn clothing. But the most disturbing feature was the right side, her mouth littered with rows of sharp fang like teeth.

You turned to flee. But Wanda was too fast. She raised up her right arm, and the black and red goo stretched across her hand like multiple streams transforming into a long tendril. It attacked with incredible speed and wrapped tightly around your throat. You kicked and squirmed as the oxygen supply to your lungs was cut off.

Wanda slowly turned you to face her and pulled you uncomfortably close to her face. Her wide pupils stared deeply into yours like a vengeful demon. "W-Wanda." You choked out in a pleading tone. The cold, slimey tendril tightened like an anaconda. All you heard leaving Wanda's lips was a chuckle that echoed through your ears.

As your world began to turn dark, you continued to thrash desperately, trying to break free, but you slowly felt yourself scumming to the sleep.

"Sweet dreams, little lamb."

[heartlilith]

The Power of Investing in Yourself

Investing in yourself can look different for everyone. Think of an investment; buying a house, a share, a business. Investments are something that get better and better with time. They become more valuable, the worth increases as time goes by. You, yourself, are an investment ... the most important investment of all.

The ways you can invest in yourself are limitless. From drinking water everyday to getting a college degree - it doesn't matter what you are doing, but the fact that you are doing it.

Ways to invest in yourself: Journal, go to therapy, eat healthy, drink water, read books, do things you enjoy, meditate, yoga, working out, going to college, studying, learning, going to the doctor, resting, having goals, skin care routines, taking a class, etc.

When you invest in yourself a lot of things happen, all of them being positive. There are no negative outcomes when it comes to investing in yourself.

#1: It makes people want to invest in you too.

Think of it this way; you're a CEO of a huge successful business. You're looking to hire people and you're reviewing their resumes. There's one position left to fill and you have 2 applicants.

The first applicant's resume is pretty good. They have a degree in business, have prior experience, and a glowing letter of recommendation. For hobbies outside of work they mention working out and taking walks. When asked what their strengths are, they write, "Being organized, a good communicator, and able to work well with others". Pretty good resume, could definitely get the job done and do a fair job.

The second applicant also has a college degree, a glowing letter of recommendation, and prior experience. This applicant also enjoys working out in their free time, they read books, they like doing pottery, taking dance classes, and hiking mountains. When asked what their strengths are, they write, "Being reliable, organized, ready to take on challenges. Finishing things I start and being a good communicator". They are even certified in CPR and took a public speaking course.

Who would you choose?

Applicant #2! Even though half the things they wrote don't correspond with the job, it lets the CEO know a little more about the person. "They take on challenges" - well I'm sure they do because hiking mountains seems pretty challenging. "Reliability" - they're able to stick to their hobbies. "Being a good communicator" - they took a public speaking course. It shows the CEO that they invest in themselves, and that's someone that they want to invest in, someone that invests in themselves.

#2: Investing in yourself attracts opportunities.

Going to a cooking class, the library, or even to the gym - you're bound to meet new friends that share a common interest with you. Through those friends, you could be introduced to other hobbies that you enjoy. You never know what could happen when you meet people, they could be your "in" to an amazing job. They could be a bridesmaid or best man in your wedding. They could introduce you to the love of your life. They could impact your life in miraculous ways.

Investing in yourself is attractive. Would you rather date someone who plays video games all day or someone who takes care of themselves and has hobbies? It's a lot more interesting and appealing to be around people that have extracurricular activities because those activities create stories to tell. Stories to tell creates connections. Connections create relationships and so on.

You never know what's going to come knocking at your door. Maybe you're out at a restaurant and someone near you drops to the ground and needs CPR. You took a CPR class one day and now you're saving someone's life. Maybe you start selling the pottery you make. Maybe you take your interest in astrology and monetize it. You never know.

#3 Increases confidence and independence:

Investing in yourself increases your confidence because you're working on different skills. If you're in a pottery class and you make your first vase - you're going to be happy and proud of yourself. It's an accomplishment. If you start an astrology blog and gain 10 followers, you're going to be happy. It's an accomplishment. When you go to college and get a degree, you're going to be proud. It's an accomplishment.

It doesn't matter how big or small the accomplishment is. When you create goals and complete them, a chemical reaction happens in your brain and literally makes you a happier person. Day after day, goal after goal, your confidence will rise. You will feel good about yourself.

Investing in yourself makes you more independent. When that guy or girl ghosts you or rejects you, it won't hurt as much. You won't be in the house all day waiting for them to call. You won't ruminate on why this and that happened. You'll be busy. By the time you get home or finish a project/goal, you'll notice that you were so focused that you forgot all about it. You'll have your own agenda. Not only that, but your relationship with yourself will be strong. You won't blame yourself as much because you know who you are. You learn who you are by spending time with yourself.

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The Percy Jackson Saga

What a saga! I´ve still yet to finish it (while writing this, but i´ll post it when I finish it), but it´s SO fun, such a light read.

My history with Percy Jackson series has MANY comes and goes and it intercepts with many characters of my life that definitely not align with the Percy Jackson books at ALL. Seriously, If by any chance you´re a pre-teen reading this and you seem to be a bully who reads percy jackson, why do you think percy has SUCH a bad time in the school?? Anyway, getting over the personal comment….

I was mainly attracted to it because the series has come out (watch it !! its definitely interesting) but the nostalgia has come back with a kick and I definitely relate to little Percy, Annabeth and Grover (none of them would love me calling them little, but they are kids!!! Give them a SECOND of peace please), a little misunderstood, a little lost, not only when I was a teenager, but now on my 20s I can def relate (in a sense) to this lost feeling.

I doubt it ever goes away, Hell (or Hades?), Its difficult even to the gods what is happening in the books!! Everyone has to make tough decisions every once in a while, sometimes is whether to have the literal sky to help the goddess Artemis to fight Atlas, sometimes is leaving a job!

And I definitely relate to the strand of white hair after going trough the stress. And yes, everyone has a difficult choice and sometimes some are tougher than others, (like cmon… my job change example its what Ive been going through but Im guessing that maybe having the sky on your back may be a lil more difficult) but difficult choices are difficult choices, and these books have helped me, at least, to get anxious over whether Percy was going to be able to save his mom, instead of me getting anxious of my life choices.

I´m sure that anybody reading this may be going through a tough time (I mean, not to wish that upon you, and if you say “nah thanks i´m good, having the best time of my life” great for you!!) and i definitely believe that these books may seem focused for children, and yes, the repetition of what happened the last books that appears in every book after the first one, it sure is annoying, but overall its a huge break for the brain! Its a nice reading, a nostalgic one, and a hug to the heart.

A good reminder that good friends are worth lifting the sky and more, that families may not be what we always expect, that blue food is DOPE, that what we see may not always be what it truly is, that friends are not always what they seem to be, and that enemies (or people who we are taught are “enemies”) may not always be enemies.

[Finally, as a last comment since I´ve finished reading now] Sometimes it is not only good but necessary to go back to your child-self. To embrace new experiences with the forgiveness of a mother, the strength of an adult, but also for the inner ability of a kid that's learning how to walk, to stand immediately back up and continue trying. Embrace your strength but also your weaknesses, continue always learning, get around people you would sacrifice yourself for. Remember that its good and also essential to rest (sometimes on a lost island surrounded by the daughter of Kronos that's actually good and leaves you with a bunch of questions), and never forget to get back home (or at give out a sign when you're well so that everyone around you knows that you´re fine, turning the light blue of the Empire State can be an example).

If you´re going through high school, read this.

If you´re a lil lost, read this.

If you´re pretty sure you may be a lost child to a Greek god, yeah sure, but also read this.

If you wanna learn more about greek myths! I mean they are not super explained sometimes, but they sure deserve a good google search afterwards, which is good brain food!

If you really like sloooooow burn romances, yeah maybe you may like this (super far from the actual trama of the story but its so TRUE how long Percy takes to realize y´know…the thing)

If you like cute Cyclops, who are NOT murder machines, read this!!

And you must definitely read this if you like the water!! -Vera

[marshmallowprotection]

Haven't got time to check out the written blurb, but I don't remember if I ever said how much I love the ship name 'flowerpot'

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That's adorable

I adore it

YEAH. OMG. I LOVE IT SO MUCH, TOO. @creator-kami and I have contained our CMCs in a flower pot with Saeran and Ray. Imagine if you will four flowers blossoming at the same time in a pot you didn't expect flowers to grow in. These flowers grow together to be strong and vibrant, and unlike the flower pot Ray held in Another Story with a direct allegory to his brother, there's no overwhelming fear in which the stalks need to be trimmed to survive.

It's not a question of survival.

It's allowing the flowers to sprout naturally and taking a chance on nature deciding how things will play out. Which, that's how we both figured out the inner-workings of the Flowerpot ship. They work to grow and be better together, and by finding strength together, they find the courage to face their problems head on. When one person struggles, they work together to find a solution, not because there's some kind of push to "fix" something—but because sometimes you need a loving hand to show you how to heal yourself.

I think that's the great thing about their dynamic. They don't force each other to be better for the sake of being better. They help the other realize that they're holding back, and what kind of life can you lead if you don't become your truest self? It's about vulnerability, too. It's about trusting someone to catch you when you're afraid you won't be able to jump at all.

Like, ah, in the roleplay, one of my favorite things so far has been Tsubaki and Saeran pushing each other to hold onto their dream, no matter how many times someone has tried to silence it. In doing so, they actually became each other's dream, and I cry every time I think about it. Their dreams evolved the more they allowed themselves to be honest with each other!

Ray and Lila indulge each other in their love of cute things and they never have to be insecure or afraid to be their truest selves. There's no shame or judgement when they're together, they don't have to sit there and think about what other people think of them, and that does inevitably help them feel better about sharing their art. There's no real reason to be afraid of critics. They learn how to have fun without that sense of: Am I allowed to express myself this way?

Tsubaki and Ray understand each other's deeply seeded fears. They fear not living up to who they want to be and if it's okay to challenge their perception of who their role models were versus what they were really like. They find peace and comfort in knowing there's someone in this world who can smile at them and say, "I don't think it's wrong to feel conflicted."

Saeran pulls Lila out of her slumps and put a fire under her belt. He pushes her to bite back, to be confidant, and to say what she means so people don't walk all over her. Lila encourages Saeran to be gentle even if he's afraid of being misunderstood. He learns how to slow his words down so he can think before he leaps so his heart can be seen as it truly is.

Tsubaki and Lila encourage each other to believe in their dreams, to have faith in this world and the people in it, even if it seems difficult to imagine. They see drive and purpose in each other's eyes, and it's nice to know even if you're afraid of getting close to another person because you admire them and you're afraid they may not like you, it's always worth offering your hand because you may never know what you're feeling until you allow yourself to feel it.

[racheljoyscott]

Hey i love your blog<3

Do you know how to make friends , i got bullied in 8th grade by my group of friends because i defended a girl from being body shamed and i lost all my confidence to talk to people and making friends im a freshman going into sophomore year and i want to make friends this upcoming school year<3 i’ve been inspired by rachel to become more friendly like she was for the upcoming school year like reaching out to people bc ik whats it’s like to be bullied but i get really scared to talk to people bc i feel like im gonna get judged💜

Hey Anon! Glad you came across my page. I'll give you two sets of advice, my own and what I think Rachel would tell you.

You are almost the age I was when I started this blog so many years ago! I still, to this day, am thankful every single day that I learned of Rachel's story. I found her at the most pivotal stage in my teenage development. It shaped me more than I can express, and she completely altered my character progression. Rachel is extremely inspiring. Just listen to her stories and I promise it'll have some good effect on you. It's worth every second.

With that being said, this is my advice. The hard truth is, there will always be mean people tearing you down. Whether it's mean girls at school, a mean boss, or even your roommates in college. To make friends, be yourself. Learning to follow your own interests and live through your values will take you so much farther in life. And you'll be happier. Friends will come. I didn't have many friends in middle school or for a good chunk of high school. But looking back, I think I was better off having my few close friends than forcing friendships with the popular kids. Be a friend to everyone (with limits), but don't worry too much about having/not having friends. I promise you, being yourself and being kind to all people will give you confidence and bring you so much value to your future self. I think these early years are really impactful on your future. Put good out there, build a foundation for your career, and do your best in school. But given you are already following Rachel's footsteps, I'd say you're on a very good path :)

Based on what I know about Rachel, I'd say she'd be proud of you for sticking up for that girl! Please, please, never let other girls, especially mean or judgemental girls, take away any bit of sparkle or strength you have. If you are already using your voice for good and to help others so young, keep making it stronger. No matter what you say, you'll learn someone has an issue with it or judge you for it. Everyone has a bit of social anxiety when it comes to things like this. Especially at your age in high school. To combat it, Rachel wore really funky and eccentric outfits that kind of forced her to get used to discomfort and judgement. (Also because she was really cool!) To combat mine, I learned that people don't remember or care nearly as much as you do when you think you embarrass yourself. I even think of Rachel when I have trouble approaching someone. Because really, you never know what people are thinking or going through. She asked God to use her to reach out to people and to help others. Maybe that person sitting alone wants someone to sit with them, or maybe they don't! But it's for you to find out. Either you make a friend in the process, or learn more and more on how to approach people and make small talk. Life's all about chances but they're usually worth taking.

My advice to overcome the fear of being judged is to do your best. Whenever I fear how I'm being perceived or judged, I tell myself I did the best I could today. Even if I did screw up, at least I helped someone out. I was kind to a stranger. I put a smile on someone's face. Held a door open. Etc. At least I tried to be good and did something small to positively impact the people around me. Because truly, that's all that matters. And that's all because I found Rachel's story. :)

Please reach out to me if you ever need anything else, and I encourage you to use my blog to learn more about Rachel. She was always a friend when I didn't have one. There is truly so much you can learn from her! Good luck! xx

[siriuslysatorusimping]

Hi Kiko! This year has been moving really fast. It's Mardi Gras season for me right now! We are on spring break as a result and I'm trying to get a bunch of work done for my prospectus so I can hopefully be ABD by next month. I'm also currently working through a back injury that I've been managing since 2020- finally got the okay to start lifting light weights again :) And I'm spending my first Valentine's Day in three years single. I'm loving myself more than my ex ever did, so I'm actually really fucking grateful. Got myself chocolates and I'm getting takeout from my favorite restaurant tonight (they have gumbo soup dumplings and matcha cheesecake. It's amazing). A year ago, I thought my whole world was ending. I was in the process of realizing my engagement was falling apart and my grandpa was diagnosed with cancer. I was diagnosed with chronic illnesses and told I'd never not be in pain again. And while there are still rough days, I'm in less pain than I was most of last semester. I'm learning to really treasure my time with just myself and my cat. My parents and I are getting to spend time together just the three of us. And I got a cool shirt that kind of looks like the one you posted about Rinko wearing in Gokudō, soooo I'll be wearing that to my next cosplay convention :) Your stories genuinely helped me survive last year. I am so grateful I stumbled upon this little corner of the internet, and as odd as it may sound, I try to channel Rinko on my bad days. It gets me through. We're here to help get you through, too, love! Sending so much love and a metaphysical king cake your way! <3 Rai

RAI!! HELLO!!!

Mardi Gras is WILD but so fun lol

HAPPY SPRING BREAK AND GOOD LUCK ON WORK!!! ABD ALREADY?? Amazing. You’ll do amazing. I just know it. My best friend is in that boat now and it’s crazy to think about. (Especially since she’s literally growing a human inside her, too.)

I’m so, so, SO HAPPY for you that you’re loving yourself and building a better life for yourself separate from your toxic ex. BUYING ALL THE CHOCOLATES. YES. GUMBO IS ALSO INCREDIBLE.

I love that your life is already better than a year ago. I hate that you had to go through so much, but it’s beautiful how you were able to find your strength to get through it all and come out even better! 💕

I’m so grateful and humbled that Another Level and Rinko helped you. They helped me too. They saved me. This little corner helped save me. Realizing that something I created could actually make any kind of difference really did save me from despair because I believed nothing I did was worth anything and would never amount to anything.

Rinko is so fun and beautiful and strong and I’ve realized that many of my favorite of her traits are ones I wished I could have. Her courage specifically. Her courage in the face of so much misery and hardship and choosing to still be the person who loves and cares and is kind. I think that’s one reason people loved her so much. She’s not stupidly or obliviously nice. She sees and hears and feels the pain and anger and bitterness but still chooses to not let them define who she is. She knows that there’s enough hatred in the world without her adding to it. She’s not perfect, she makes mistakes and she gets angry and she sometimes lets those drive her, but at the end of the day, she still doesn’t let them define her entirely. They’re just part of her existing as a human.

Rinko is a beautifully messy human, just like the rest of us. We’re all messy and emotional and imperfect, but without those things, life would be boring and empty.

I started writing this days ago and I had to save it to my drafts because I wanted to dedicate enough attention to it because messages like these really do pull me out of the darkness. Life has been kicking my ass so hard. Everyone around me keeps saying I’m doing so well and handling things in the best way possible, but that in itself is so exhausting. I’m exhausted. To be perfectly honest, I feel so, so fragile. But I know that’s a sign of my strength because I get up every morning and keep going even when it feels too heavy.

Rai, you are a beautiful human who is doing so incredible and you are so strong for working to be better for you. I’m proud of you and I’m proud to consider you a friend 💕

Also, I’ve been working on lil chibi designs for myself because I want to use them to order a custom case for my new earbuds and I will share one of the lil Gojo chibis I’ve been making.

Admittedly, writing has been difficult lately. I’m in the mood to write angst but I can’t figure out what it would be and I also want to write the Valentine’s Day blurb so badly. I’ll get it done eventually, I promise.

[onlyjaeyun]

Dude I fucking loved CH wth 🤭

I'm being so honest right now, you had me invested from the very beginning, there's something about the way you write your characters that make them feel like actual humans, and I loved every second of it

Starting with oc obviously, i was completely enamored by her, bc yeah she's an absolute baddie, she's good at her job, knows what she's doing, is loving, honest, smart, and so freaking pretty. But she also has some heavy ass baggage, is still learning how to navigate her way through life, puts her loved ones (found family) above anything else, which we know has its good and bad side, and is learning to love and honor herself in a more healthy way

The pain was real whenever the angst waves came around, seeing all the shit she had to put up with, and never prioritizing herself, but that only made me love even more those steps of growth, confidence, self respect, and accountability she kept on taking after every hardship. (I legit started tearing up at the part about owning her pleasure, and understanding that regardless of whoever her sexual partner was, the decisions, vulnerability and enjoyment are hers to own and live to the fullest).

Same thing with all the relationships in the story, from the Nishimuras bond, history, and fight to actually be left alone by that bitchass family, to each of the friendships, between the boys, with yn individually, and with tsuki 😭😭😭 I love them so much you have no idea, they're SO FUCKING ADORABLE, AND REAL, AND GOOD AND REASSURING TO EACH OTHER I CANNOTJDJDIW

Anyway yeah, those are the type of friends people need, their advice, company, humor, love, admiration, respect, protectiveness, and sincerity. I just thank for taking so much time into developing each of their dynamics, personalities and quirks

And how could I not, our main ship, my babies HoonYn and their entire fucking story, interactions, chemistry, and bond had me giggling, crying, punching the air, kicking my feet, and sobbing of frustration, pain, and pride all in the span of 5 hours (yes I read the entire series in one sitting, no I did not sleep at all, yes it was absolutely worth it)

Anyway, I feel like that's a whole lot of rambling and I'm barely making any sense -also I'm sleep deprived and English is not my first language, so I apologize for all the mistakes here-, but overall, I just wanted to congratulate and thank you for conveying so many struggles we have to get through in the daily, you didn't shy away from the mental health struggles, the flaws of the characters, the shittines of life itself, the absolute NEED for honest and understanding communication in ANY kind of relationship, and the inmense impact a friendship can have in our lives, as well as our own strength, determination.

I really don't know if this ended up making any sense, but yeah, thank you for your hard and amazing work, you're a great writer fr, please take care of yourself and have an awesome day <3 <3 <3 <3

🥺 asks like this with such detailed feedback is just..like an actual live letter you guys

thank you SO so so so much, i know i sound like a broke record at this point but there's just not enough words of gratitude could use to show you just how much i appreciate this and you. thank you for taking the time out of your day to send me this and for being so kind, sweet and enthusiastic about it.

asks like theye give me a glimpse of my work from your POV and it never fails to make me so excited and happy and just so so so excited, i hope you know this is everything to me. im so happy to know just how much you've enjoyed reading it and all the characters too so rhank yoj for all of this, i love you so much 🥺🥺🥺🥺🤍☁️💫

[chai-hat-tea]

Living in an average indian household where my father is anti feminist and treats my mother like shit and has been raising his voice on her for his whole life this feels like someone made this story up. And I can't explain how much this has impacted my growth mentally because yes I feel worthless and it feels ok if someone raise their voice at me because...... That's what I've seen my whole life. That's what my father taught me. Learn to adjust, that's what they tech girls here, and that's what I am doing, always adjusting because that's how it's supposed to work.

https://www.tumblr.com/chai-hat-tea/716574574939144192/my-mum-has-six-brothers-they-all-live-in?source=share

Anom Nom…I’m so sorry you have to deal with that. I’ve not experienced this first hand, but I’ve seen enough of it to know exactly what you mean. My situation isn’t as bad as yours, but my parents do believe in this logic and I’ve had situations recently where my dad has used his manliness on me and almost hit me. So I know exactly what you mean.

And while I’m not the best to give you any advice, I need you to know that whatever you have been through is wrong and to never be accepted. It’s going to take constant practice of unlearning this and relearning that you’re your own hero and you don’t need someone to be one for you.

It’s never okay for anyone to “put you in your place” because they know better. They really don’t. Believe me. You’re worthy of all the good things that have happened to you, are happening and WILL happen to you. I agree that it’s normal to adjust in any relationship and a little extra as being an Indian women, but I need you to promise to me that you won’t settle for anyone. Whenever you adjust or compromise, the other person needs to be worthy of it. Promise me.

I don’t know what your situation is, but if you ever want to come off anon and talk to me, I’m all ears. If I can’t do something about it, let me at least lessen that emotional burden you carry with you everywhere.

So, to summarise:

1. Go to a therapist and talk it out if you can. Or talk to anyone who can at least help lessen your burden.

2. You’re worth all the good things and more. Don’t let the men (or adults) tell you otherwise. And definitely don’t let anyone raise their voice at you.

3. You’ll get your happy ending. I know it. And if you can’t see it for yourself, then I’ll do it for you. ❤️

Sending you my love and strength because you matter and you’re worth it.

[mylifeismydream]

A New Chapter of the Heart

Love is often seen as the domain of the young—a passionate whirlwind of first crushes, nervous dates, and spontaneous romances. But what happens when the decades roll by and you find yourself in your 40s or beyond, still open to romance? Perhaps your life has already been shaped by marriage, children, and careers, or maybe your path has been different—one of self-discovery, adventure, or unexpected twists. Whatever the case, finding love after 40 is not only possible but, in many ways, more profound and fulfilling than ever.

At this stage, you bring to the table something invaluable: experience. You’ve lived, learned, and weathered life’s storms. You’ve likely endured heartaches and joys that have molded your understanding of what matters in relationships. Unlike the rushed urgency of youth, where love can sometimes feel like an emotional sprint, finding a companion later in life is more like a deep, steady walk. There is no need to hurry. Every step can be taken with greater intention.

In our 40s and beyond, we are no longer seeking the idealized versions of partners we might have dreamed of in our 20s. Instead, we are looking for a partner who complements our journey—a companion who adds richness to the life we’ve built and who appreciates us for who we truly are. The pressure to impress or conform to societal expectations begins to fade, replaced by the desire for authenticity.

The beauty of love later in life is that it doesn’t demand perfection. By this point, most of us have learned that life is beautifully imperfect. Our wrinkles, our scars, our stories—they all tell of the journeys we’ve undertaken. The right partner at this stage will see these not as flaws but as the markers of wisdom and resilience.

Letting go of preconceived notions about how love should look is key. You may not experience the dizzying, head-over-heels rush of first love, but you will likely find something deeper—compassion, understanding, and a shared sense of life’s journey. The connection you form now has the potential to be more lasting and intimate because it’s built on mutual respect and shared values.

Perhaps the most critical lesson of all is this: before you can find love with someone else, you must love yourself. At 40, 50, or beyond, self-love takes on a new depth. It’s about embracing who you are, understanding your worth, and nurturing your well-being. When you approach a relationship from a place of self-love, you are not seeking someone to complete you but someone to walk beside you, enhancing the person you already are.

Self-love also means recognizing when a relationship isn’t right for you and having the strength to move on if necessary. In your 40s, you’re less likely to settle for less than you deserve. This wisdom allows you to approach love with both an open heart and a clear mind, choosing a partner who respects and cherishes you.

In many ways, love after 40 is love at its finest. It is love that knows the value of time, the fragility of life, and the power of companionship. It’s a love that is richer, wiser, and more enduring—a new chapter that proves it’s never too late to find your heart’s true companion.

[musicarenagh]

Linah London: Finding Strength and Soul in 'I Am More' Linah London is ready to take over the music industry and you guys need to take note of the name. Released October 5th, 2024, her debut single, “I Am More” is a lot more than just another pop track. Linah’s own experiences of being objectified in past relationships are what created a deeply personal anthem. Inspired by the 2000s R&B sound, but featuring modern pop elements, I Am More is a catchy, powerful message to yourself of self worth. Linah’s emotional depth, and undeniable talent, are on display in the track, which has been produced by 6 Points, the man behind 2 Chainz and London on Da Track. Linah took some time to share with us her musical path, the inspiration behind her debut single, and what she hopes for as an upcoming artist. Let’s meet the woman behind the music and find out the future of this promising newcomer. Listen to ‘I Am More’ https://open.spotify.com/album/22gnBEgvWCrS1UK8Ww1uGo?si=5_iVN6NWQ1S5DHP6lnh2rA Follow Linah London on Spotify Soundcloud Youtube Instagram Congratulations on the release of your new single "I Am More"! How does it feel to finally share this new music with your fans? I feel amazing and excited to get this song out! Can you tell us a bit about your musical journey so far? How has your sound devolved leading up to this single? I have come a very long way, actually! I started out writing disco/pop music as I had an obsession with that era. Then I met someone in the industry who guided me to write more hip pop and R&B material. I was always writing pop simultaneously but I would say, my sound is a lot more polished! I still think there’s more to come though so watch this space 😊. What inspired you to pursue a career in music, and what keeps you motivated to continue creating? well, I remember as a 3-4 year old kid watching a video tape of Michael Jackson my mom had put in to basically keep us entertained, I stood there in awe and I remember it clear as day. I remember, as young as that, saying to myself, whilst my heart it beating fast, and the feeling of adrenaline pumping through my body, saying ‘This is what I want to do!’. That childhood dream carries me through and pushes me to create! What's the story behind "I Am More"? What message do you hope listeners take away from this song? I struggled with self esteem issues throughout my life and I have worked extremely hard to learn to love and accept myself. As a direct result of this, I stopped settling for less in my love life. So this song is a celebration for how far I’ve come but also a form of repellent for anyone who does value my worth. [caption id="attachment_57458" align="alignnone" width="1443"] So this song is a celebration for how far I’ve come but also a form of repellent for anyone who does value my worth.[/caption] How does "I Am More" differ from your previous releases, and what do you think sets it apart? I would say, this song is a celebration of self. What sets this one apart is, it represents my maturity and how far I’ve come as a person when it comes to self growth. I feel so many people out there can relate to this and I hope it serves as an anthem to their personal growth! The title "I Am More" suggests a theme of empowerment and self-discovery. Can you elaborate on what this means to you personally? It means freedom to me. Were there any specific experiences or influences that inspired the lyrics and tone of "I Am More"? Yes! I was constantly fetishised by the men that were coming into my life. Couple that with low self worth, it was a mess. Now, I’m no longer in that space, these people still try to get somewhere and the words ‘I Am More’ serve as an affirmation to self. #dontsettle How do you think your music can inspire others to embrace their individuality and self-worth? I’m not entirely sure “how” but my hope is that it wakes up the inner queen/king and all in between and allows for positive change in each person’s life. How

would you describe your musical style, and how does "I Am More" fit into that genre-bending sound? I would say I write catchy R&B songs and sometimes Afrobeat inspired songs. I would say ‘I Am More’ fits perfectly into that R&B/Pop sound. https://open.spotify.com/artist/1CicwpN7mbAi7ljCITpnjw?si=cWgqZqqtRPK1UMn899GIRw What's next for you? Can you share any details about upcoming projects or collaborations? I have loads more singles coming up for release. I’m excited to share my art with the works and hope it resonates with the people that need to hear it! How do you see "I Am More" fitting into your overall artistic vision, and what do you hope to achieve with this single? I am more of the type to birth it into the world and allow the universe to take its course with it. “Let go and let god” if you will. My only hope is that it reaches someone who really needs it in their life and it helps somehow 🧡 What do you like to do outside of music to relax and recharge? I love Pilates, reading a self help book and dance classes so that’s my go to! What's the most meaningful lyric or line from "I Am More" to you, and why? The entire chorus as it serves as an affirmation to me that I Am More than my flesh and what makes me beautiful lies beneath my skin.

[inifinds]

Best Never Give Up on Love Quotes For that Special Someone

Love is a force that binds us. It lifts us up when we are down and gives us hope when we are lost.We will explore the essence of love, its challenges, and the power it holds.Through insightful reflections and inspiring quotes, we will go on a journey to understand love and discover why it is worth fighting for.The Essence of True LoveA quote by Honore de Balzac reads, "True love is eternal, infinite, and always like itself." on a mustard yellow background with black and white accents."True love is eternal, infinite, and always like itself." - Honore de BalzacTrue love is a rare and precious thing. It is the love that withstands time and remains constant through all of life’s trials. It is the love that weathers every storm and remains steady. True love is worth the effort, for it brings unparalleled joy and fulfillment.Personal Insights: ​True loves is all there is.  It's the universal in all its simplicity and chaos.  Remain grateful and less judgmental on those you love truly.​​​​​​​Next Steps: Reflect on your relationships. Identify moments that define true love for you. Write them down and cherish these memories, for they are the cornerstone of enduring love.Overcoming Challenges in Love"Tough times never last, but tough people do." - Robert H. SchullerEvery relationship faces tough times. It is during these moments that the strength of love is truly tested. Overcoming challenges together can strengthen the bond between partners and deepen their love.Personal Insights: There was a time when my partner and I faced a significant challenge. It seemed like an insurmountable barrier, but we faced it together. Through open communication and mutual support, we emerged stronger and more connected than ever.Next Steps: Think about a recent challenge in your relationship. How did you handle it? What did you learn from it? Use these lessons to build a stronger foundation for the future.The Importance of Hard Work in Love"There are no shortcuts to any place worth going." - Beverly SillsLove requires hard work. It is the effort every day that builds a strong and lasting relationship. Hard work in love means being present, understanding, and patient.Personal Insights: I have learned that love is not just about gestures, but about the daily acts of kindness and understanding. It’s about listening, compromising, and working together to build a shared life.Next Steps: Set a small goal related to hard work in your relationship. Whether it’s spending more quality time together or improving communication, start working on it today.Learning from Inspirational Figures"The best way to find yourself is to lose yourself in the service of others." - Mahatma GandhiInspirational figures can teach us valuable lessons about love and perseverance. Their stories remind us that love is a journey filled with difficulties, but always worth the effort.Personal Insights: Mahatma Gandhi life of servitude shows that love requires resilience, patience, and a deep commitment to each other.Next Steps: Research and read about an inspirational figure who overcame challenges in love. Reflect on their journey and find lessons you can apply in your own relationship.The Power of Love"Love is the most powerful force in the universe." - UnknownLove can change lives. It gives us strength, purpose, and a reason to keep going. The power of love is unmatched, and it can transform even the hardest of hearts.Personal Insights: I have seen love heal wounds, mend broken hearts, and bring people together. It is love that has the power to change the world, one person at a time.Next Steps: Take a moment to express love and appreciation to someone important in your life. Let them know how much they mean to you and how their presence enriches your life.Building and Maintaining Successful Relationships"A great relationship is about two things: First, appreciating the similarities, and second, respecting the differences." - UnknownBuilding a successful relationship requires effort, understanding, and respect. It’s about finding common ground and appreciating each other’s uniqueness.Personal Insights: In my relationship, we have learned to celebrate our similarities and respect our differences. This balance has allowed us to grow individually and together.Next Steps: Identify one way to strengthen your relationship this week. Whether it’s planning a date night or simply being more attentive, take action and show your commitment.Embracing a Positive Mindset"The best way to predict the future is to create it." - Peter DruckerA positive mindset is crucial in love. It helps us see the good in our partners and the potential in our relationships. Positivity fosters growth and resilience.Personal Insights: Maintaining a positive attitude has helped me get through the toughest times in my relationship. We're not perfect and not holding a grudge is important as we both grow and learn from each other.Next Steps: Practice daily affirmations to boost positivity and strengthen your relationship. Remind yourself and your partner of the love and potential you share.Celebrating the Little Things"Enjoy the little things, for one day you may look back and realize they were the big things." - Robert BraultLove is found in the small moments, the everyday gestures that show we care. These little things are the building blocks of a strong relationship.Personal Insights: I’ve found that it’s often the small, seemingly insignificant moments that mean the most. A shared laugh, a warm hug, a simple note – these are the things that keep love alive.Next Steps: Make a habit of noticing and appreciating the little things in your relationship. Show gratitude for the small acts of love and kindness.Facing Life’s Toughest Moments Together"When everything seems to be going against you, remember that the airplane takes off against the wind, not with it." - Henry FordLife’s toughest moments can test the strength of our love. Facing these challenges together can deepen our bond and bring us closer.Personal Insights: In times of crisis, my partner has been my rock. Together, we have faced illness, loss, and uncertainty, always finding strength in each other.Next Steps: Think about a tough moment you’ve faced together. Reflect on how you supported each other and how it strengthened your relationship.The Joy of Finding the Right PersonA quote by Dr. Seuss on a yellow and black background reads, "We're all a little weird... and call it love." The website "initialfinds.com" is mentioned at the bottom."We’re all a little weird. And life is a little weird. And when we find someone whose weirdness is compatible with ours, we join up with them and fall in mutual weirdness and call it love." - Dr. SeussLove is about finding someone whose imperfections complement our own. It’s about embracing each other’s quirks and finding beauty in our differences.Personal Insights: Our relationship thrives because we embrace each other’s imperfections. We celebrate our quirks and find joy in our unique bond.Next Steps: Embrace the imperfections in your relationship. Celebrate the quirks that make your partner unique and love them for who they are.Next StepsNever give up on love, for it is the most powerful force in our lives. Choose one quote from this guide and make it your mantra for the week. Reflect on its meaning and how it applies to your life. Embrace love with all your heart, and you will find that it can change everything.Additional ResourcesWe support local book stores!For more insights and inspiration, check out these additional resources:- The 5 Love Languages: The Secret to Love That Lasts by Gary Chapman- A must-read book that helps you understand how to communicate love effectively. - TED Talk: The Power of Vulnerability by Brené Brown- Watch this enlightening talk about the importance of vulnerability in building strong connections. - Link: https://www.ted.com/talks/brene_brown_the_power_of_vulnerability - Psychology Today: The Science of Love- Dive into the psychological aspects of love and what makes relationships thrive. - Link: https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/basics/love - Mindful Relationship Habits: 25 Practices for Couples to Enhance Intimacy, Nurture Closeness, and Grow Closer Together by S.J. Scott & Barrie Davenport- This book offers practical tips for maintaining a loving and mindful relationship. 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Be a Kind Sole: Autism Awareness Starts with Compassionate Soles

"Be A Kind Sole Autism Awareness" is a campaign that combines the message of kindness with autism awareness, using a clever play on words. The phrase "kind sole" is a homophone for "kind soul," emphasizing both compassion and the idea of walking in someone else's shoes.

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This campaign aims to promote understanding, acceptance, and empathy for individuals on the autism spectrum. It encourages people to:

Learn about autism: Understand the challenges and strengths associated with autism spectrum disorders.

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Embrace neurodiversity: Appreciate the unique perspectives and abilities of autistic people.

Create inclusive environments: Make spaces and activities more accessible and welcoming for those with autism.

Challenge stereotypes: Move beyond misconceptions about autism and see the individual.

Support autistic individuals: Offer assistance when needed, but also respect autonomy.

Educate others: Share knowledge about autism to foster a more understanding community.

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Distributing informational materials about autism

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Promoting businesses and organizations that are autism-friendly

By encouraging people to "be a kind sole," the campaign reminds us that small acts of kindness and understanding can make a significant difference in the lives of those affected by autism. It emphasizes that acceptance and inclusion start with individual actions and attitudes, creating a more compassionate and supportive society for everyone.

Autism Puzzle Piece Colors are a significant aspect of autism awareness symbolism. The puzzle piece, adopted as an autism symbol in 1963, often appears in various vibrant hues, each carrying its own meaning:

Blue: The most common color, representing calmness and acceptance.

Red: Symbolizing passion and strength in autism advocacy.

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Yellow: Signifying hope and positivity for the future.

Green: Representing growth and new beginnings.

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These colors are frequently combined to create a colorful puzzle piece or ribbon, representing the diversity of the autism spectrum. The multi-colored puzzle piece emphasizes that each individual with autism is unique, with their own strengths and challenges.

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Deep thoughts

1.do they really love you? Who came to mind?

-people who are close to me comes to mind. Do they care or are they just using me.

2. What’s one song you wish people knew more about?

-honestly I try to not please people anymore so I kinda don’t care enough to this of this answer

3. Can you have sex without feelings.

Yes- feelings can be shut off like a light switch, I’ve had to do it many times.

4.What is the one thing that you wish to do before you die?

I want to see the world and have my name very well known.

5.how do you want to be loved?

I want someone to love me enough to stay with me…supposedly forever.

6. what’s something in your life you consider a miracle?

I’m still alive, after many near death experiences, I appreciate everyday.

7.what do you think love is?

Scientific answer: chemical reactions and physiological brain waves that attract and manipulate you to breed and reproduce.

My answer: I know what love is not…love is not selfishness or unkind.

8.If you could change one thing about yourself what would it be?

I would be thinner. Going to be working out and having a better diet and life style.

9. What’s one thing that’s happened to you that makes you a stronger person?

Learning to say no to people and put myself first.

10. What’s the most pain you ever been in?

Having someone I loved choose someone else instead me, and still want to be with me.

11. What brings out the best in me? Self love

What brings out the worst? People pleasing and sacrificing my own happiness for others.

12. What’s a childhood dream you never accomplished?

Being a movie star and animator artist. I will be working on these dreams daily soon.

13. When you lay in bed at night what do you think about?

I try not to think while in bed otherwise I’ll never sleep. I either sleep with my love and fall asleep sound asleep. Or fall asleep to tv, both silense my thoughts at night.

14. What is a quality of your parents that you admire?

I admire their strength for being immigrants and making it a living in a foreign country.

15. If this was a story of your life, what would you call this chapter of your life?

The night before conquering.

16. What’s your baggage?

No one can usually keep up with me or stay long enough, because my ambition are so high. I’ve learned to be a loan wolf for along time.

17. What still excites you?

The simplest acts of thought or kindness. Fun adventures and moments. Mystery excites me.

18. If you could say anything to the person who hurt you most what would say?

There’s not much to say…I’ve had them knock on my door not welcomed only to have them apologize for what?…seeing the person who hurt you most just recurs open the wounds you took so long to heal. I hope if I see them again ever, I smile and just walk away…with no words said. I hope to never hear them or have them coming back to me…it’s not worth any words.

19. Where is one place you feel most like yourself?

I haven’t felt much like myself in my life. I’ve always had to wear mask for other people. Finally in this moment in my life I’m feeling like myself again. When I draw and write I don’t have to act for anyone.

20. Where is your favorite place to escape to?

The beach has always been there for me. I escape for thoughts. I escape for healing. I escape for heart break. The beach is my favorite place to go to…because unlike people the beach is always there and will always listen.

21. If I only had one day left on this earth, what would you do first?

I would go sky diving or parasailing to see as much of the world before I’m gone.

22. Who is one person in this world who knows you best?

I’d hope my person knows me best…but maybe no one knows me best because a lot of things are not said. I don’t say things I know that upset or annoy people. So perhaps I’m the only person who really knows me best.

23. What are your life goals?

To travel the world and influence the world to be better for everyone.

24. What is one thing you like about yourself that you wish others would recognized?

I wish people would notice how much I understand and know about everything they’re going thru. I’ve learned to stop caring and stop knowing. I wish people knew I feel when they lie to me but I just play along.

25. What are you core memories?

Most of my core memories are forgotten and blacked out from trama. A core memory I had was I was the youngest and golden child for my father. And I had no place for my mother. Not the youngest. Not the oldest. Not the only male…just the middle child trying to be seen but never saw.

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Deep questions

1. Do they really love you? Who came to your mind when I asked that?

2. What's a song that you wish more people knew about?

3. Can you have sex without feelings?

4. What is the one thing that you wish to do before you die?

5. How do you want to be loved?

6. Whats something in your life that you consider a miracle?

7. What do you think love is?

8. If you could change one thing about yourself what would it be?

9. What's one thing that's happened to you that has made you a stronger person?

10. What's the most pain you've been in, that wasn't physical?

11. What brings out the best in you? What brings out the worst?

12. What's a childhood dream you never got to accomplish?

13. When you lay in bed at night, what do you think about?

14. What's a quality your parents have that you admire?

15. If this was the story of your life, what chapter would you call this?

16. What's your baggage?

17. What still excites you?

18. If you could say anything to the person who hurt you most, what would you say?

19. Where is one place you feel most like yourself?

20. Where is your favorite place to escape to?

21. If you had one day left to live, what would you do first?

22. Who is the one person in this world that knows you best?

23. What are your life goals?

24. What's something you like about yourself that you wish more people recognized?

25. What are your core memories?