#they are transphobic lite

[lovesick0cupid]

"universal trans experience!" and its only applicable to american gender conforming binary leaning or strictly they/them frog nonbinary stereotypes

can we pls start accepting that no trans experience is the same im so tired

[gender-dropout]

SITUATION: Family members still call you a “young woman” despite the fact that you are transgender and are dressed very purposefully androgynous.

❌: “my family does not respect my self expression.” -> “my family is transphobic!”

✅: “my family does not equate only femininity with womanhood.” -> “my family are feminists!”

[chaos-in-one]

"Theyfab" is such a fuckin gross word and I wish it would fall out of public use already

[edwardallenpoe]

man I sure do hope people who say that trans people don't have to present hyper-binary or be passable are normal about masc/butch trans people, including trans women who don't want surgeries or hrt or use she/her pronouns. Man I sure do hope they don't just mean femme trans men and exclude trans women and nonbinary masculine people. Man I sure do hope that they aren't super fucking weird about masculinity, especially when performed by trans women.

[tenpixelsusie]

i hate anti-any queer label bitches and ESPECIALLY when they justify it with "it makes me feel dysphoric/uncomfortable when someone uses a label like this :(" why do I have to perform my queerness in a way YOU deem acceptable?

[fleapit]

So you want women to view trans men as dangerous men? You said in your tags you don’t like them being considered safe men.

are you kidding? i love being sexualized actually, it's good for the skin. im transitioning so i can be topless at the beach and be sexualized more, obviously. and im bi, so men and women BOTH sexualize me. it's awesome.

[upside-down-uni]

i onow its good if a book makes me mad, that means when i write about it ill have something to say. but i really do dislike the slow cooker of anger it puts me in where i just stew and stew until i can put words in order... this time its even more infuriating cause on a fundamental level i wont be able to write about it since my paper is about the translation and not the content! yelling screaming biting into wood etc

[paeinovis]

Question: when did it become acceptable for cis ppl to make fun of nb ppl's names bc tbqh it still feels transphobic

[enlichened]

BOTH transphobes and allies (and even some trans people) react to trans people existing by doubling down on gender roles/standards and it's REALLY making me mad

[lesbiansanemi]

Gay trans men be normal about women challenge. Especially trans women and lesbians

[phoquess]

Happy pride everyone I feel like someone should point out that if you have spaces labeled “no cis men” or “women and NBs only” you are gonna end up excluding someone who isn’t a cis dude. I want you to ask yourself how you’re going to enforce that rule. Are you gonna kick someone out if they look too cis male for you?

Just going by self-ID is not a super great solution either! If a trans woman isn’t out yet and doesn’t feel safe being out are you gonna exclude her based on what you think her gender is? Can I remind you it’s not really safe to be trans and out about it in some places these days?

Creating safe spaces: this is not the way.

[audhdnight]

w h a t 😀

[chiimeramanticore]

there are way too many people online who will post stuff wrapped in really intellectual sounding language and preachy progressive sounding wording but who actually just wanna argue with random strangers online

[mxliv-oftheendless]

As per usual, the comments under a Loudwire post did not pass the vibe check 🙃🙃🙃

[oozeclown]

middle aged woman saying out loud "never in my life did i think i would hate pronouns" after calling me she and seeing my knuckle tattoos. i didnt even notice enough to care about getting she/her'd or say anything but she had to voice that she hates pronouns i guess?

[malware-bytez]

I fucking hate people. "Oh so this this part of this creation myth the equivalent to [something from Christian creation myth]?" NO. IT'S A DIFFERENT STORY. IT ISNT BASED ON CHRISTIANITY. STOP BEING SO FUCKING CHRISTIOCENTRIC