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i think the scariest thing about mass shootings in America is knowing that one day you will be connected to one. you may be a part of one. you may be a victim of one. you may know someone who was in one. who died in one. who was there. no matter what, no matter how safe you feel, it will always be there. it is inevitable.
#the shooting yesterday made me think a lot#i went on tiktok and searched it which might not have been the best#i just didn't know what happened#and i saw thousands of comments from texans#families of texans#all saying they were there#saying their brother was there#their sister#their friend#it is horrifying to think that one day I could wake up and my sister could have her last day on earth just because she was outside#that i could go to the mall that I WORK at and it could be my last day on earth#in 2018 the middle school of the town I grew up in had a mass shooting#in 2019 they stopped a student at my school from bombing it#what do we breed into american culture that this kind of thing happens regularly#and that we all move on#everyday#we move on#do we all wake up everyday accepting it could be our last#or do most of us not even think about it#i'm starting to think of it that way
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probably my most powerful interpersonal communication hack is to, whenever possible, ask either/or questions rather than yes/no questions
for example, when chatting with coworkers, i’ll often ask if they have any fun weekend plans. but let’s be real - we all feel like friendless losers when someone asks that question and we go “uhhhhh… no.” so instead, i phrase it as “so, do you have anything fun planned over the weekend, or are you just going to enjoy having some time to relax?”
phrased like this, there’s rarely any awkwardness. you’ve presented two options & given both equally positive connotations, so your conversational partner has an automatic “out,” so to speak
but it works for higher stakes conversations too!!!! my mom was saying this weekend how she and her neighbor both like walking around the neighborhood & that she wanted to suggest they take a walk together sometime, but was worried about how to approach the conversation
so i said “how about you just say ‘i’ve noticed we both like taking walks! would you be interested in going for one together, or do you use walks for some precious alone time?’”
now Walking Neighbor has an automatic “get out of jail free card” if she wants to say no!!!! which means my mom doesn’t have to worry about the conversation being uncomfortable, because she’s set it up to go smoothly
either/or questions rather than yes/no questions. it is really like magic
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I-80 highway through Wyoming. nicknamed The Sisters, for the three sets of hills that create an optical illusion of the road rising into the sky
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Thinking of becoming a guy that thinks wolves are the most badass and aspirational animal, but about ants. Like wearing t-shirts about being loyal to my Queen and training to bench 5x my bodyweight. Studying ant warfare. Posting shit like this
#Ant photo by Alex Wild. Inspirational ant image by me.#In a sense‚ the Ant mindset is antithetical to those who follow the Wolf. The lone‚ individualist “alpha” inclinations simply do not apply.#The Ant values her work and her sisters. She is a humble worker and brave soldier. So small‚ yet so strong... Because she's never alone.#This post was a lie. I'm actually already this theoretical person.
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I have delivered🫡
Based on my HC from… literally half a day ago blasting 600 strikes on repeat can do wonders apparently
#Odysseus turning Poseidon into sashimi#ares god of war#HES LOOKING OUT FOR HIS SISTER#odyseuss#epic the musical#epic musical#artists on tumblr#greek mythology#vengence saga
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#girlblogging#just girly things#female manipulator#female hysteria#just girly posts#gaslight gatekeep girlblog#gaslight gatekeep girlboss#quotes#hate men#poem#poetry#quoteoftheday#female rage#manic pixie dream girl#coquette#lisbon sisters#lily rose depp#palo alto#i love old men#sweet little nymph#the feminine urge to#girl interrupted#cinnamon girl#lana del ray aka lizzy grant
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The way Jinx honored Isha
#😭😭😭😭#I’m obsessed jinx designed this after her#I still wanted more though#that was HER BABY#she held on to Claggor’s goggles for years but isn’t actively holding onto something of isha#also this is one of the only acknowledgments of isha after her death#like arcane seriously#she was like a sister to vi#AND one of Sevika’s babies#she deserved MORE#isha and jinx#arcane isha#arcane#arcane league of legends#league of legends arcane#jinx and isha#isha arcane#jinx#arcane jinx#jinx arcane#jinx league of legends#arcane 2#season 2 arcane
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“Hey man please make something normal at craft night this time”
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"Lesbian Weddings" by Wendy Jill York
source: The Femme Mystique, edited by Lesléa Newman
#lesbian literature#lesbian#dyke#thatbutcharchivist#archived#lesbian books#lesbian history#lesbian photography#black lesbian#black femme lesbian#black femme#black butch lesbian#black butch#stud lesbian#i pray i am using the term stud appropriately here#will edit if not#author: lesléa newman#year: 1995#publisher: alyson publications inc.#the femme mystique#photographer: wendy jill york#black lesbian couple#black couple#the gal on the left looks a little like my sister tsega ... i miss her so much 😭😭😭#femme4butch#femme4stud#butch4femme#stud4femme#femme#butch
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#girlblogging#girlblogger#just girly things#thought daughter#thoughts#this is what makes us girls#coquette#girl hysteria#hell is a teenage girl#lana del rey#ldr#ultraviolence#female manipulator#female rage#female hysteria#manic pixie dream girl#girl interrupted#the virgin suicides#lisbon sisters#sofia coppola#relatable#im just a girl#girlhood#so me coded#nonchalant#whisper girl
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#me and my sister#based on a text between me and my sister#the blank brothers#the blank sisters#the brothers#the sisters#meme
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rules for thee and not for me
#sorry the t/rf thing was like an actual roach infestation so I made a new post and deleted the old one and turned off reblogs#but I didn't want you to be without the og comic so here you go guys#nice fresh and clean#old tags ->#funnies#btw you're allowed to watch the silly sisters and the giggle brothers just keep your morals consistent istg#its very embarrassing when you criticize someone for enjoying something from a problematic creator#whilst openly being a fan of another thing with an awful creator and defending them because you like that thing#really weird hill to die on
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one of the best ways i’ve found to combat that inherent depressive pessimism without veering into toxic positivity territory is simply the phrase “i’m open to the possibility”
this particularly works with anything negative i’ve forecasted. “i woke up feeling like shit today, so my day is gonna suck” isn’t a particularly helpful thought, but “it’s a great day to be alive!!!!!” feels hollow and insincere when i have a pounding headache & am running on three hours of sleep
instead i’ll tell myself, “i really don’t feel good right now, but i’m open to the possibility that coffee and breakfast might perk me up a bit.” or “i’m in a lot of pain today, but i’m open to the possibility that my workday might still have fun parts despite that”
sometimes, when your impulse is to slam the door on anything good, but you’re not exactly up to going out & hunting it down yourself, leaving the door open just a crack makes all the difference
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creds: @beautifuiprincessdisorder
#girlblog#coquette#just girly things#girlblogging#this is a girlblog#pink#girl interupted syndrome#lana del rey#this is what makes us girls#lisbon sisters#the virgin suicides#esoteric#im just a girl#just girly thoughts#just girly posts#girl interrupted syndrome
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sisters, always.
#vi arcane#jinx arcane#league of legends#LoL#arcane#arcane netflix#vi and jinx#vi and powder#arcane season 2#as a big sister#i understand vi#way too much
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