#the magician reversed

[numinously-yours]

Pick a Card: Are you aligned with your highest good?

This week’s free reading topic is: Are you aligned with your highest good?

We are asking the cards:

Yes, No, Almost

2.a If yes, what are you doing well?

2.b If no, what is blocking you?

2.c If maybe, what can you do to get closer?

3. If you continue on your current path, what can you expect?

4. Possible upcoming interference

5. Final messages from your guides

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Group 1:

Yes, No, Almost – Seven of Swords

At this time, it does not seem that you are aligned with your highest good. You are running away from something. You are trying to take the short cut to get where you want to go, but these short cuts don’t actually lead you there. You are letting yourself be tricked into following this path because you’re convinced it’s easier. But, that doesn't mean it’s the best for you. (PS, none of this reading comes from a place of judgement for me as your reader).

What is blocking you? – The Sun

I want to say “your mindset is the clouds that block the sun from shining”. Whatever it is that scares you about moving forward creeps out whenever the merest bit of sun comes out to tell you that you’re doing all the right things. Then you revert back because taking the leap is scary and feel too hard. The Sun card does remind me of youth and having fun, so there may be a part of life that you’re being urged to take more seriously. While the universe does have your back, you can’t be a passive player in your own life. You absolutely deserve to have fun, but if you want to be on the right trajectory your visions of your personal power need to grow.  

What can you expect if you continue? – Nine of Pentacles rev.

I can see your self-esteem taking a hit if you continue the path this way. Eventually, you’ll start realizing that you needed to be making changes sooner rather than later and you’ll feel some self-guilt. You’ll go through this reflective period where you look back on the times you knew you needed to change or act differently, but you just didn’t. Unfortunately, this is going to just add fuel to the fire and at some point, you might think “what does it matter if I’m already this far gone.” There is always time to find your best life, pile 1.

Possible interference – Ace of Pentacles

Something that may get in the way of making these changes & getting back on track could be materialistic manifestations. Along the way, you’re going to want to fill your life with material things that “you’ve always wanted” or that fill you with excitement at the time, but will not ultimately bring you peace. These are just things that are filling the void. When new and exciting opportunities present themselves to you, take time before making any decisions. Figure out if these things are going to provide long term progression for you or if they are only going to make you feel good for a short period of time. Investments are worth it, trinkets are roadblocks.

Final messages – Page of Wands & Ten of Swords rev.

Your guides see your limitless potential, group 1. All of your excitement and fun energy that may get the best of you are still some of the best parts of you! You just have to channel it differently. Create some plans maybe or test the waters before you decide to fully commit to something. Directly from the guidebook “The page of wands can appear when a spiritual path may be calling you.” Your guides want you to know it’s not too late to make changes and re-invest in yourself. They are here to remind you that, even if you don’t know what the reasons are, that everything happens for a reason and even though changes are scary, you will see their purpose(s) soon.

Group 2:

Yes, No, Almost – Ace of Swords rev.

With this, I think you’re almost on the path but you don’t feel ready to decide which way to take. You may have been having some “it’s too good to be true” feelings lately and so you’re hesitant because you don’t want to end up feeling like you got played.

If almost, what can you do to get closer? – The Devil rev.

Oh yeah, this card absolutely reflects the above notion of being nervous/afraid to take the next step. There are self-limiting beliefs from your past that need to be confronted. Do some shadow work and reflection on deep feelings. I know journalling isn’t for everyone, but just start writing. You don’t have to write for the purpose of immediate reflection, but reflection can occur once you start writing. Try finding a way to integrate your shadows into your life more constructively. For example, “I failed at this thing because I suck” can become “I think I suck because I failed at something previous in life, but everyone fails at some point. This is just a part of life.” You’re not eliminating the feeling that you’re having, but you have the understanding that why it’s presenting itself. Lastly, if there is anything you feel shame about that is preventing you from moving forward, find an outlet to reduce that shame. Reflect on that and, just like the shadow feelings above, determine if it is a capital T Truth about yourself or if it is just a part of your life and it doesn’t actually define who you are.

What can you expect if you continue? – Four of Swords

In this particular reading, I think that continuing to ruminate on the feelings that are holding you back is going to put you into a state of stagnation. I don’t necessarily think you’ll move backward, but you’re not going to move forward either. You may get more in your head by convincing yourself this is where you want to be and so you might end up settling for something that isn’t good enough for you.

Possible interference – The Tower

Confronting your shadow self might slow down the process, BUT it is a necessary step, so I don’t think it’s necessarily a set back but more of a detour. Sometimes we have to break down structures to their foundations in order to build them up stronger. I think this card presented itself to let you know that you might begin feeling like you’re falling behind and so it’s going to feel like interference. You’re going to wonder if you’re doing the right thing. After tower moments, though, we come back stronger than ever.

Final messages – Knight of Wands

Your guides want you to reignite your passion for life! Instead of continually focusing on the big picture, focus on the small things that make you happy. There are things in your life that feel just right. Lean into those! Once you start meeting goals, you’re going to see how unstoppable you are. This is going to help you along with your shadow work and will make that feel a little less daunting, too. You may feel like your passions are silly, because other people think so, but if they bring YOU joy, it doesn’t matter what those people think. You will find people that share your energy. That’s when you’ll know you’re on the path.

Group 3:

Yes, No, Almost – The Emperor rev.

This pile was teetering between no and almost. You may have been interested in group one, but came this way instead. I think the reason for it being “almost” instead of “no” (as group 1 is) that you know what you need to do, you just don’t feel like it. Whereas, group 1 knows what they need to do but they do different things instead. You aren’t necessarily reverting backwards, but you’re also not moving forward.

If almost, what can you do to get closer? – The Magician rev. & the Eight of Wands

Maximize your potential, group 3, and take that action! You know what you have to do and nothing is going to happen until you do it. It could help you to determine specific goals and manifestations. This may help you feel more successful along the way, encouraging you to keep the momentum up. Maybe by creating, and reaching, the smaller goals you’ll start seeing the evidence you’re waiting for – that change IS possible.

What can you expect if you continue? – The Star rev.

If you continue to keep yourself in this rut, you’re going to start losing faith. It will turn from feeling like you have the power to do it if you just DO to feeling like there’s no point because “it won’t happen anyway”. It’s almost a self-fulling prophecy in this case. You may become disconnected from your goals and you’ll start to settle for less than you’re worth.

Possible interference – King of Pentacles rev.

One of the keywords for this card is literally “stubborn” which is the exact feeling I have when determining “almost” above. Your stubbornness is your biggest enemy right now. There is no shame in admitting that you are stubborn. Growth is a good thing!! You’re allowed to do things you said you wouldn’t or didn’t want to. You get more information every day that consequently adjusts your expectations. “Succumbing” to those does not make you weak or silly.

Final messages – The Hierophant

Your guides want to leave you with the understanding that, no matter what, they’ll still by your side. Remember to lean on them when you’re struggling making these changes and taking plunges. Listen to your intuition and do things even when they’re scary. If you’re afraid of following in someone’s footsteps and do not want to, this message is to tell you that you are not that person and if you stick to your core beliefs, you won’t turn out like them.

Group 4:

Yes, No, Almost – Six of Swords rev.

Yes, stop resisting it 😉 Overall, I really sense that you’re on the right track but something is holding you back from believing that it’s the right track. Maybe it’s the fear of the unknown or past traumas, but there is something about the journey that you’re resisting. I can tell you KNOW you’re on the right path but maybe, like group 2, it feels too good to be true so you don’t want to invest. It’s okay to invest!

If yes, what are you doing well? – King of Cups rev. & Queen of Pentacles

You’re doing a really good job being kind to yourself. When you get in the doubtful moods, I think you have a way of bringing yourself back to reality and looking at your situation practically. You’re working your butt off to genuinely take care of yourself and your mind. Something I noticed with the cards is a lot of green, which can relate to the heart chakra. I definitely think you’re working from the heart and treating yourself with the love that you deserve.

What can you expect if you continue? – The Empress & The High Priestess

This is such beautiful energy! Continuing to do this work, picking yourself up when you’re down, giving yourself pep talks, and simply believing in the divine is truly going to build your confidence, self-esteem, and belief in yourself and your intuition. You are really getting to know yourself. You are getting to know your true goals, your true values, and your true motivations.

Possible interference – Ace of Swords

The only real interference I see here is your mind becoming overwhelmed with all of the new possibilities that are going to appear. Your mind may feel cluttered with options which has the possibility of making you feel overloaded. Just take a step back, meditate on the options, and make informed decisions. You’ve shown that you are capable of this, so keep it up.

Final messages – Ace of Coins rev.

Don’t give up! Finding your way is tough when the unknown is hovering over you. You may hit delays in your journey that will make you want to just lay down your swords (pun sort of intended with the ace of swords above lol) and surrender. It is okay to take time to plan and to fully understand what your goals are. It’s also okay if you don’t know what those goals are right now! Your goal can simply be living in the now. Continue to be practical and nurturing and you’ll be a-ok.

[yourmoonmomma]

Daily Reading - Sunday July 7th 2024 - The Magician reversed

July has not been off to a good start for most of y’all, huh? This card is similar to the others that have been pulled this week, it speaks to a difficult day where it is best to focus on rest and recovery. You may be struggling with mental health today, or just general worry for the future and what it may hold. It is a good day to reach out to others to talk about how you’re feeling, or to book a therapy appointment. Things are not as dark as your mind is making them out to be, have faith that the sun will come back out from behind that dark cloud in your brain.

[fauna-a]

V The Magician Reversed

¡Evil Nat AU!, or better: what if Lovelace was Nathaniel’s master? I had already written something about this concept, here; this is the beginning, when Lovelace is plotting and Nathaniel… well.

The man who came to take him that morning didn’t look like a magician as they had been described to him: he didn’t have a beard, just to start, and wasn’t old at all. He smiled, even, and this amazed Nathaniel so much that for a moment he forgot about the fear and the pain of abandonment.

«Hello» said the magician, scrutinizing him behind his shining glasses. «My name is Simon Lovelace. From today I will be your master».

The first teaching he got was forgetting his name: from that moment, he was called just ‘boy’. The second teaching was that Simon Lovelace was his master: not his father, his friend nor his confidant, his master; and, until their relationship would have been professional, it’d be perfect. Lovelace had been brought up like this and was still on good terms with his old master, who sometimes came by.

The boy didn’t like old Schyler very much, but, again, it wasn’t about liking or not, but if he could be useful. And Schyler was a powerful, competent magician, and of great experience.

The boy had understood quite quickly that the only to get in that little circle was being useful, even better: indispensable. He studied day and night: Lovelace had given him free access to his library.

«Start from here» he had said «And go on. When you’ll meet anything you don’t understand, come to me and we’ll see what to do about it. But don’t neglect your lessons».

Lovelace wasn’t particularly prodigal with compliments, but he could recognise talent, and he could read people.

«What is it with that smug face?» he asked the boy after a correct answer about Aldebrand’s Pentacle. «You’re just doing the bare minimum, nothing more». He drew near the boy and put his hand on the boy’s shoulder. «No one likes know-it-alls, boy. No one likes finding out to be the least smart in the room. If you want to make it to the Parliament, remember this very well».

«But it’s not fair» the boy blurted out querulously. «If I know it, why shouldn’t I say it?»

«I didn’t tell you to not say it, boy. Pay attention! There is a right way and a wrong way. Do you maybe think you could enter in the Prime Minister’s office and say that your idea is better than his? Think!»

The boy thought. He learned to keep his mouth shut in front of his master’s colleagues and show only what people expected from a nameless boy. He was patient, even if his entire being rebelled against it.

And, finally, it was his turn.

The imp was summoned by his master, but the circles had been prepared by him, as were the candles, the herbs… And the orders would have been given by him.

The imp appeared in the shape of a baby, vicious and red-faced; the boy hesitated only for a moment, then pronounced the words of command.

It was done: he had exerted his willpower for the first time on a demon. The nameless boy turned around in his hands his Scrying Glass, his first real gift from his master, and smiled. A thin smile, easy to hide or change as necessary.

«Boy» Lovelace called him «tonight a man will come here: you stay out from my study».

«Of course, sir».

«Don’t worry, boy» Lovelace’s glasses flashed in the dark. «We’ll find something to do for you, too».

[l3xistentialism]

THE MAGICIAN RX 🃏 | Our ability to manifest our thoughts into action is embodied by The Magician: utilizing our inherent wisdom and tools that represent each element of our existence. Mercury transmutes words into action, and those actions can lead to palpable change. The type of change is determined by the person using their influence wisely. Reversed, The Magician’s power is skewed; and in some instances, these misfires are accidental. When the actions of The Magician Rx are deliberate, the situation becomes more manipulative and sinister. While The High Priestess Rx can represent those who hijack spiritual leadership roles for a number of reasons, The Magician represents confidence artists and those who deal in fraudulence for material and spiritual gain. In our readings, it can be an indicator that we are not firing on all cylinders and utilizing our skills to its fullest potential. This can sometimes look like low-energy or less than stellar results, but it can also show up as us cutting corners and taking advantage of our situation and those within it. Taking the time to build up our stamina, request help when we need it, or allow time for rest and reflection can be a way to rectify when The Magician Rx represents how we’ve been moving. Calling back our power requires us to first recognize where we’ve been spending it recklessly or giving it to those who don’t deserve it/cannot handle it with care.

Deck - Modern Witch Tarot

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Tarot Christmas Calendar, Day 11

I have been away for a long while, mostly because of health issues and then work commitments, which have come as a lifesaver at a time of great uncertainty. I wish I could devote more time to Tarot, but it seems that for a good while I will be very much tied down. However, I still want to celebrate the holidays approaching, and hopefully give my book a boost in the process because it is lovely and I firmly believe it would make a great gift to Tarot beginners and veterans alike - if you like Tarot or know someone who does, consider supporting a small creator like me and get them the book!

For the Christmas Calendar, I have drawn a card for each day, and shall post the poem for that day! Enjoy!

DAY 11: I - THE MAGICIAN REVERSED

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Tarot card pull of 1/3/2023

Is he the right one for me? Can we make it work?

I got the magician reversed

The guidebook says I need to focus on the what while the universe works out the how.

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The Magician (I) Reversed

KEYWORDS

Weak, Powerless, Lack of Self Discipline, Lack of Qualifications, Lack of Education, Unskilled, Inadequate, Out of your Depth, Indecisive, Lack of Confidence/Self-Belief, unfocused, Scattered, Distracted, Poor Timing, Impatience, Frustration, Don’t have the Resources,  Unworkable Plan, Lack of Planning, Procrastination, No Thought Given, Action without Thought, Not Knowing What you Want, Delusional, A Know-it-All, Cocky, Arrogant, Boasting, Showing Off, Trying to go it Alone, Communication Problems,  Travel without Purpose, Ungrounded, Unbalanced, Personality Disorder, Schizophrenia, Personality Disorders, Unlawful, Trickster, Illusionist, Charlatan, Hallucinations, Con-man, Swindler, Exploiter, Imposter, Amoral, Liar, Thief, Criminal, Hacker, Force, Bully, Violent, Assassin, Mercenary, Elusive

The Magician reversed carries some extremes meanings and it is wise to consult all surrounding cards before attempting to interpret him.  If in doubt pull a couple of extra cards with the intention of shedding extra light on why The Magician is appearing reversed.  Unfortunately, his presence in the reversed can highlight the fact that you have no power or feel powerless in your situation.

Things may not be going as planned when the reversed Magician appears.  You were under prepared for any set-backs or hitches thinking it would all miraculously fall into place.  In fact miracles may be thin on the ground when the reversed Magician appears in a spread.

In general his presence can indicate either a lack of confidence or perhaps too much.  You can be acting cocky or feeling totally overwhelmed by the task in front of you.  Have you been given or accepted a job that you now realise is too much for you?  The reversed Magician suggests that you might be under-skilled or inadequate in this situation.  He is telling you that you have neither the right tools nor a workable plan to make it a success.  You may find it hard to finish anything you start because you really don’t know what you are doing.  It may be obvious to those around you that you are out of your depth in this particular situation.  It may not be a time for going it alone.  Seeking the help of those who have the necessary tools or skills may save the day.

The reversed Magician speaks of lack of knowledge and intelligence.  He seeks power and influence but there can be an absence of education and basic qualifications. This may find you pulling a few strings to get where you want as you cannot do so on your own merit.

You can be acting without giving much thought to the outcome.  You have nothing in place yet and no idea of what it is you really want yet you keep on going. However, the reversed Magician can imply that you know exactly what you want, how to go about it and that success is guaranteed but the time is not right.  He can suggest that you are not in a position to focus your attention or commit fully to the project at this time.  He can indicate that you may be trying to run with a new idea or project before you have adequately finished another.  Impatience and frustration may be evident as you desire to be free to get going with your plans.  You might be advised to return to the lesson of The Fool which will help you tie up any loose ends before you are free to pursue new goals.  You will then be able to give it your undivided attention. You may feel pessimistic and negative as a result.

In the reverse, The Magician’s ability to communicate or articulate his ideas to other becomes blocked.  You may not be great at speaking in public or find that your lack of articulation is letting you down when trying to express yourself or impress others.  If you are trying to promote a new product or break into the overseas market it may not be received too well as your sales pitch may not be working for you.  On the other hand you can be all talk but no action.

In his negative self, The Magician can highlight a misuse or abuse of knowledge and power to control others. He now assumes that his power comes from him and not through him.  He will use any means to get his own way.  He has no time for anyone who attempts to block his path or has different opinions to his. He becomes a dangerous and sometimes sinister figure.  Losing his connection to either the heavens or earth he can become ungrounded and mentally or emotionally unstable. He is controlling and often a violent bully.

He lacks willpower and self-discipline; using cunning and underhand ways to get what he wants. He can convincingly lie and cheat.  He becomes the Master of ‘The Scam’.  He becomes the con artist who can swindle old ladies out of their lifetime savings or entice you to sign a contract that will enslave or entrap you.  Be very cautious and suspicious of anything you are about to get involved in when The Magician appears reversed.  Check all fine print on documents or contracts.  Check for fake Identity Cards, references or credentials.  He could be trying to set you up.  You would be advised to do an internet search on this guy to see what sort of reputation he has.  The annoying thing is that he sounds so convincing and kind.  Surely someone with such charisma as him is beyond suspicion??? True, but he could be trying to ‘pull a fast one’.  If this reversed Magician is around you at present then be on your guard as anything he is trying to push may just be the work of a master illusionist with a hefty sprinkling of faerie glamour.

In his most negative sense The Reversed Magician has neither conscience nor morals. He often turns his great and brilliant bright mind to unlawful activities.  He can be found as the head of a criminal gang or organisation. He will stop at nothing as he believes the end justifies the means. He shows no remorse and offers no mercy to those he finds disposable.  He becomes the Assassin and the mercenary who will mingle undetected in the crowd while he carries out the most heinous of crimes.

The wonderful mind of the upright Magician who seeks new discoveries to aid humanity now uses his mind to develop weapons of mass destruction and warfare when he reverses.  He uses science to mutate and control energy forcing it into all kinds of obscene creations.  He is the IT genius who prefers to spend his time creating computer viruses rather than useful software programs.  He is the hacker who can get by any internet security or firewall to steal your identity and your bank account details.

The Reversed Magician is often out of touch with reality. He can appear as several personalities within the one.  He can suffer from hallucinations or schizophrenia. Violent and severe mood swings can surface which can seriously damage any relationship he is in. The Magician reversed is often a compulsive liar, and a very convincing one at that.

In relationships, the Reversed Magician can suggest a domineering, controlling and possessive partner. He is a bully who with his dysfunctional mind can inflict mental, emotional and sometimes physical abuse. On the other-hand, the Reversed Magician could point very much to the opposite. He may be weak, indecisive and overly reliant on his partner to sort his life out. Like the Emperor Reversed, he could seek a strong domineering woman as his partner.

Travel related, the reversed Magician suggests aimless wandering and travel with no purpose or plan.

THE MAGICIAN -RELATIONSHIP, LOVE & SEX ASSOCIATIONS

1 rx  – setbacks, delay, failure to launch, reversal, lack/extreme of power, forceful, demanding, controlling, selfish, self-centered, arrogant, loneliness, egotistic, introvert, underground, egotistic,

A relationship not going anywhere. A promising start but has failed to progress. Not interested in pursuing a relationship any further. Preferring the early stage of a relationship. Commitment issues – not wanting to follow through. The potential to be unfaithful or disloyal. Incompatibility – relationship does not have the magic ingredients. Poor timing – timing is off. You may not be at the same place right now, or are travelling different paths or directions. Trying to force or push through with a relationship that has no future. Haven’t spent the time cultivating a relationship between you and this person – expected your charm to do it for you. Someone is not impressed with you – disinterested. Your power trip is a turn off. Your charm is not working the way you had hoped.  Lost your touch. This person is not the one or you can’t find the right one. May be over-idealising or deluded in your search for the right one. No one ever makes the grade. Magic bubble bursts – discovering the subject of your desire is definitely not the one. No magic in the relationship – the spark is just not there as it should be. Desperately clinging on. Haven’t a clue what you want in love, just going with the flow and taking whatever comes your way. A thoughtless approach to relationships. A weak indecisive and dithering partner. Looking to your partner to make all the decisions and organise things. Submission and deference. Giving your power away in a relationship. Relinquishing power to your partner after marriage (voluntarily, culture, religion, tradition or force). Not being able to stand up for yourself in the relationship. Allowing your partner to rule the roost or get their way all the time. Street angel/house devil – two very different sides.

Hanging out with bad sorts. Married to the mob. Getting involved with known criminal or drug baron. Controlling relationship. Domination and submission. Possessive/Jealous.  Bullying your partner. A partner who is intimidating, threatening and abusive. Scared of the power your partner wields over you. Holding or exerting power over your partner. Dangerous or violent partner. Staying with someone because you are too frightened to leave. Split personality. Mental disorders. Others are drawn to this person for all the wrong reasons or display fear towards them. He/she seems to exert negative control over others. Has dubious friends who do not seek your friendship. Something is wrong – look behind the facade or act to find out what is going on.

Pretending to be someone you are not. Lying and deceiving to get a date or someone into bed. An imposter. Being impressed and taken in by looks or credentials. Social climber. Looking for a trophy partner. Like to brag and boast about your partner. Showing your partner off – parading them around. Prestige is important to you in a relationship, not love. Totally delusional in love – out of touch with reality. You are being played or taken advantage of. You might need help to get safely out of this relationship. A lack of conscience or morals.  Staying with someone; not because of love, but because they are powerful/wealthy. Someone is interested in you for all the wrong reasons – power, status, wealth, prestige, recognition, fame – they do not have true feelings for you. You are being used. Do not allow this person access to your power, assets or money. Someone sees through your facade – you have been rumbled. You may have to do a disappearing act to avoid the consequences. A partner who can magically appear and disappear at will. Someone who is living another life, or running two relationships. A lack of transparency about their actions or comings and goings.

Very little to offer anyone. Lack of education or qualification leads to low self-esteem and poor self-confidence – feel you can’t compete against your love rivals – backing off. A know-it-all who has an opinion on everything and anything. Can’t get a word in edge-ways with this person. Very much a one-sided conversation. Talks only about them-self and shows little interest in asking about you. A narcissist personality. Not being able to suitably express your feelings. Getting tongue tied when you are in the presence of your hearts desire. Not having a clue what to say. Being out of your depth in a relationship. Poor conversationalist. Finding it hard to initiate a conversation with anyone. May tick many boxes but he/she has nothing of interest to say for themselves.  You might find their company boring or tedious. Can walk the walk but cant talk the talk. Look the part, but little else. All surface superficial personality. Now you know why he/she was single and available. Not the great catch you expected. Can talk only about one subject and beat it to death – seem to have no outside interests. Totally misjudged this personality – conjured one up to suit your needs but it is painfully clear they do not match.

Feeling lonely on  your own and never having anyone to share life with. Changing the focus of attention from career to relationship. Perhaps you are tired of being single, staying in and keeping a low profile. Time to live a little like the Fool. However, if in a relationship, you may be missing the single life and freedom the Fool enjoys. You may seek a way back, or continue to lead a single life while in a relationship. You may have pulled back from  a relationship just as it was going somewhere for fear of losing autonomy. Just as you can make a relationship happen as if by magic, you can also dismiss it rapidly too. Now you see it – now you don’t. You could be jumping in and out of a particular relationship as it suits you, magicking it up and turning on the charm when required. You have successfully pulled off this trick many times. It never fails to work. Going underground, or into hiding to avoid a person. Pulling a disappearing act.

Sex

Sexually inexperienced/pretending to be sexually experienced (first-time). Sexual incompatibility. Sexually disappointing/weak/boring. Sexually submissive. Sexually conservative and unadventurous. Bragging about sexual prowess. Approaching sex as a performance. Being insecure about your sexual performance. Sexual performance not living up to your expectations. A lot of fuss about nothing. Not feeling sexually drawn to your partner. Turned off. Refraining from sex. Not sexually active. More important things than sex right now. Saving yourself for the right one. Abstaining from sex. Missing sex. Sexually frustrated.  Using position to gain sexual favours. Using power to sexually entrap. False promises, lies and deceit to get sex. Working your power of influence to condition someone for sex. Personal gratification – not caring about your partner’s sexual needs. All about you. Sexual exploitation. Grooming someone for sex. Leading innocence astray. Defiling innocence. Bondage. Dominatrix. Rough sex. Demanding sex or taking it without consent. Feeling a sense of entitlement to sex. Sexual predator. Rape. Prostitution. Vice. Pimp. Sexually perverse. Reading/watching porn. Unsolicited dirty phone calls or debauch text messages.

Impotence, erectile dysfunction, loss of virility. The use of Viagra to maintain an erection or sexual desire. Ceremonial sex magick. Sex as part of a ritual.

How He/She sees me – Not in a very positive light. You have lost your power over someone. They no longer are infatuated or obsessed with you. Not interested in you.  They do  not see you as assertive enough or powerful. They may see you as lacking in drive and ambition. Out of your depth. Not committed faithful or loyal. The relationship doesn’t have what it takes to succeed.You don’t have what they are looking for. No magical ingredient between you, no chemistry. They do not have a future with you, or hold out hope of one. This could be misleading for you might be sending the wrong signals or think they will wait around indefinitely, having nowhere better to be. They might think you are not interested in them. You might over-estimate your pulling-power and become too laid back about securing a certain person. You simply are not putting yourself out there and making an impression. You might be seen as too introvert, not commanding enough in your presence.  They might be intimidated by or nervous of you. They may be trying to avoid you or think you are trying to avoid them.   You might be out of their league one way or another, punching above or below your weight. They doubt or mistrust your sincerity. As very sure of yourself, overly-confident and cocky. You are seen as a smooth talker and manipulator, someone they need to be cautious or wary of. They may have been warned off you by others.  There may be a powerful animal attraction between the two of you, but you are viewed as potentially dangerous, risky to get involved with – A fatal attraction. They would be asking for trouble. You may be seen as controlling or domineering, possessive or jealous. They may not feel able to trust your intentions. Only looking for a trophy partner. Don’t believe you have true feelings for them. You are superficial, easily impressed. They may see you as someone who is self-centered, only interested in yourself, someone too caught up in their own importance. Egotistic – preoccupied with your own needs. They could see you as damaging to their career or reputation. Interested in only one thing – Out for what you can get or take. As a sexual predator or womaniser – only looking for sex. You might be viewed as a fake or phoney, someone who is pretending to be something you are not in order to attract partners. They may see you as very one-sided, one-dimensional.

You are not the only one, there is competition for this person. They are considering which one is most suitable and has the best to offer. They just don’t see you as too keen or enthusiastic enough. You are slipping into the background. You might be seen as the one that got away, the golden opportunity they should have siezed. Compare all suitors to you. They may look on you as their ex-partner/lover, someone who once meant a lot to them. Forcing yourself on someone. Trying to force them to have feelings they do not.  Determined to make them love you whether they like it or not. Coming on too strong, being overbearing. Too much personality. Thinking you can wave your magic wand and command anything you desire. Not taking no for an answer. Afraid to say no to you.  Scared of you. Need to stay away from you. Keep you at arms length. That you won’t let them go or end the relationship. As potentially violent or abusive.

See you as ambitious or wanting access to their power or position.  Someone who is unlikely to stay around unless there is something to be gained – once there is something in it for you. They might see you as missing the single life, wanting to be single again or acting as if you are single while with them.

Yes/No – No, there is something wrong, something is missing. It lacks depth and commitment. The potential is not there, not strong enough. The relationship does not have what it takes to succeed right now. You may seek each other out for all the wrong reasons. You may be trying to run with it when the timing is off or is inappropriate. You may be too busy in other areas of your life to give this your focus. No, stop and turn back if you feel apprehensive or nervous about this person, or if you have witnessed unpleasant behavior or worrying personality traits. Check to find out who or what you are about to get involved with. They may bring trouble your way or endanger you. They may not be who they say they are. Do they have a bad reputation you are choosing to ignore?

[doppiopinkman]

mfw the crusaders are stardustful

[mclmora]

dont mind me, im just dropping my favorite asra’s illustrations (hes so freaking beautiful)

[sharon-snowman]

Not sure whether I posted similar idea before. It came from my old sketchbook.

It's has been a long time since last time I drew with pencil. Flipping this makes me think How could I think so many weird (fun) ideas???

[starboysbrainrot]

the sound of myself - disasterpeace.

[numinously-yours]

Choose a bird: How to be the best version of YOU

Thank you to those of you who messaged. I appreciate both your ideas AND your patience. I really thought things were settled down when I asked for your thoughts and then they ramped right back up. But here I am!

Choose a bird from above for a free reading. Today's topic: how to be the best version of yourself. I asked the cards three questions:

What does the best version of yourself look like (to you)?

What steps can you take on your journey to your best self?

How can you avoid getting caught up in others' perspectives?

Your choices are below! Like, reply, or reblog if it resonates, and tag your group if you feel inclined :)

Group 1: Aibo Tarot

What does the best version of you look like? Three of Wands

The best version of you is someone confident standing on their own. You may be dependent on other people for your happiness but you want so badly to be happy on your own. There is a fear that if you start your own journey that you won’t find other/more people that make you feel comfortable and safe.  I have a sense that the people you surround yourself with are simply fine, but they also don’t make you feel empowered to do your own thing or speak your differences. There is a lot of keeping the peace because that’s easier than being alone. It doesn’t mean these people are bad friends or negative influences necessarily, but you know there could be something more. You are longing to find that. You are longing to find yourself, too.

What steps can you take in the process? The Tower & The King of Pentacles

It’s time to create your own tower moment. It may sound counterintuitive since the Tower represents upheaval and chaos. Typically, it’s not something someone is excited to bring upon themselves. But, I think in your case, it’s going to be more beneficial than detrimental. You have to burn some bridges. You have to have some falling outs. Yes, moving forward from your comfort zone is going to feel weird as hell. It’s going to feel scary. You may be worried that ending friendships or setting boundaries was a bad idea, but it is all for the sake of becoming the best version of you. Trust me.  The reversed King in particular is asking you to “give yourself permission to break free and do something different.” Just as a phoenix, your tower will rise again from the ashes even stronger than before.

How can you avoid getting caught up in other’s perceptions? Moonlight, Four of Cups, The Magician

The visual for this pull is below because it was kind of a fun way for the cards to drop 😊 I asked this question and the first card fell: Moonlight in reverse. This moonlight card is specific to this deck, so it doesn’t necessarily have the same meaning as The Moon does in tarot. The first phrase that came to me when I was looking at the card was “turn that frown upside down”. Because the card doesn’t have a traditional meaning, I wanted to shuffle one more time for cards that DO have trad. meanings. These are the two that came out – in this order! THE FROWN IS TURNED UPSIDE DOWN! What does this mean in execution, though?

Recognize the power you have in creating your own life and stop dimming your light. I know that it takes work to feel confident in spaces where you feel small but it is worth the practice! The more you execute your power, say yes to yourself, and make yourself heard the easier it will get. Not only easier in doing it but easier in believing it, too.

Group 2: Delos Tarot

What does the best version of you look like? Two of Cups

For you, I think to feel like the best version of yourself, you are wanting to be in a space where you can create and maintain meaningful relationships. It’s not that you lack relationships, but they feel a little surface level or superficial. You want to feel that SOMETHING, and you want to bring that something to others. You may have your own personal goals when it comes to relationships – wanting a work bestie, wanting a romantic relationship, wanting a strong relationship with a sibling, etc. But overall, the ability to form these relationships as a whole is really what you long for.

What steps can you take in the process? The Devil reversed

My first thought “quit thinking you’re the devil!” lol When in relationships, you focus on your negative qualities. You are always thinking of how you can bring more to the table rather than focusing on what you already DO bring to the table. You tend to psych yourself out when you get close to forming the bond that you crave. An actionable step you should look into taking is working on your shadow self. There are a lot of websites with lists of shadow work questions that get to the root of these types of fears. Shadow work makes you think of things in a different perspective. It could help you determine WHY you shut yourself off at certain times. It helps identify triggers in relationships so you can sense them when they appear and know how to deal with them. Then, I know this is easier said than done, but you gotta push through the discomfort, too. Perhaps your relationships fade when you’re right on the brink of vulnerability. Instead of ebbing backward, take that leap into the unknown. It’s the only way you’re going to get passed that piece.

How can you avoid getting caught up in other’s perceptions? King of Swords rev. and Strength

I know it’s way easier to say online but finding the courage to just be yourself is honestly going to be the best thing you can do for yourself. I feel that you may preemptively get caught in what you THINK others’ perceptions are of you before you know their true perceptions. I know you KNOW what your inner truth is, but you deserve to understand WHY it’s your truth. You have a lot to contribute to relationships and having this better relationship with yourself can also contribute to gaining courage to just be yourself. Doing that shadow work can be really good for you in that growth, too Each time you seem caught up in someone else’s perception, ask yourself why you’re caught up in it. Is it actually an accurate depiction of who you are? Are you trying to protect yourself before anything scary actually happens? Find the strength to be rational because it’s gonna change your mind set a LOT. 

Group 3: Everyday Tarot

What does the best version of you look like? Ace of Swords

The best version of yourself, group 3, is someone who is continually growing. You want to be open to expansion, ideas, spontaneity, and adventure. You may feel a little stuck right now. I definitely think you have the excitement and adrenaline inside you, and you’re ready to let it out. You’re not longing for motivation or inspiration, you’re longing for an outlet for the motivation and inspiration already inside of you.  You may wonder, “how do I explore new opportunities if I don’t know where to start?” “How can I continue growing when people and places around me aren’t growing?” Let’s find out!

What steps can you take in the process? The Devil reversed & The Queen of Pentacles

Let go of unhealthy attachments and nurture yourself if/when you feel guilty for doing so. Part of what keeps you feeling a bit stuck is not wanting to leave anyone behind. You care a lot about a lot of people and want them to experience this growth with you. They’re not quite ready though. YOU being ready doesn’t make you better than them, it just means you’re in a different place. Accepting the unknown that lies ahead is also important for you, group 3. No matter how ready you are, moving forward (likely on a solo journey) is scary! It’s like jumping off the high dive. You just…gotta do it. Lastly, as you move forward onto fun adventures, remember to keep some sense of practicality – this means being aware of what might be TOO much right now, but also knowing that you can do hard things.  

How can you avoid getting caught up in other’s perceptions? King of Wands reversed

Stop setting unrealistic expectations for yourself! I think this really speaks from that last bit of steps you can take. Being practical also means believing in yourself and your amazingness. I feel this extends to knowing you’re capable of being in these people’s lives while still going out and expanding your boundaries. It doesn’t have to be either/or, it can be both. The perceptions you’re caught up in currently might be self-created. People around you might not have even considered the thoughts you think they have. Stop yourself in your tracks if you find you’re going down a road of worry. These people are proud of you and WANT you to succeed. They also think it’s pretty neat that they’re friend is so cool 😉<3

[vaarsuvius]

the magician (reversed)

[happistar]

Day 19: Tarot card

Past, present, future. You're fucked dude.

[technically-human]

I love RV!Charles hat :3

I'm glad you like it!

It's a magic hat! It works as Charles' backpack in the original universe!

[schro4444]

I want Sonoko to meet Kaito as Kaito and show him a magic trick let them be magic aficionado friends again. Please. It’s such a good dynamic. 🥺

YOURE SO REAL FOR THAT ANON!!! she has graduated to doves :D