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Oh... Oh, let me just watch a few episodes on the road. Check if I like this show or not before watching it on my TV...
#dandadan#okarun#< prev tags#the lies we tell ourselves...#they are reaccuring and sTUPID.#aaaaaaaaa
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This is the only thing I'm going to say about the election until it's over:
Anyone who did not vote for Harris or who attempted to dissuade people from voting for Harris, you are indirectly responsible for whatever shit Donald Trump does if he gets elected. That blood is primarily on his hands, yes. But it is also on yours. I hope you can live with that because I sure as hell wouldn't be able to.
#'but gaza' trump wants TO OBLITERATE THEM. HE LITERALLY WANTS THERE TO BE NOTHING LEFT OF GAZA AT ALL. WHY DO YOU THINK#I DON'T WANT HIM IN POWER?????#yeah I said I wouldn't election post I lied sorry.#I know most of you don't actually care what happens to american citizens because we're all Violent Hypocrites who should kill ourselves#and somehow every single civilian is responsible for the actions of a military and government that comparatively few of us are actually par#of but FUCKING HELL. You don't care about THE PEOPLE OF GAZA??? Because that's what you're telling me if you're in favor of#doing anything OTHER than the most likely path to get trump out of politics. which is voting for the candidate DIRECTLY OPPOSING HIM.#the thing about america being an empire that needs to die. is that before it dies. it is still affecting the rest of the world.#I can't make you care about me and my loved ones. but I am IMPLORING you to have some fucking compassion for all the people#who are going to be DEEPLY negatively affected elsewhere if trump gets into power.#THEIR HARM. THEIR DEATHS. ARE ON /YOU/ IF YOU DID ANYTHING TO FACILITATE TRUMP'S VICTORY IF THAT'S WHAT HAPPENS.#I don't believe most of you actually have any amount of the sympathy and compassion for others you claim to have.#I don't think any of the causes you throw yourself behind are actually meaningful to you. I don't think any of this is based on a#genuine desire to build a better world. I think you just want your Internet friends to think you are a Good Person.#if I see anyone. ANYONE. acting like a trump presidency is what we 'deserve'. or that it's necessary to 'teach [xyz] a lesson'#I am NEVER speaking to you again I don't care how long I've known you.#us politics#I am a disabled queer woman. almost everybody I love is also disabled and queer. you think we're acceptable collateral damage fine.#but don't cry that I'm being a bitch if I say that that makes me not trust you and not want to have anything to do with you.
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smth i love about zevran, amongst many others, is i dont think he ever really Lies to u- if he does, its usually a lies he also telling himself (being in the crows isn't so bad, that he isnt interested in love, etc). like if he doesnt want to tell u smth he just... tells u he doesn't wanna tell you
the moment hes not under the crows thumb hes just like "oh sweet i dont have to do this all this shit anymore"
#if you make a lockpicking joke im not kidding im instantly blocking u that stopped being funny 15 years ago#morrigan is much rhe same way- her lies are lies shes telling herself whereas ali and leli either do lie or lie by omission#i think its a genuinely interesting connection between all of the lis- the lies we tell ourselves and the lies we tell others#dao#zevran arainai#dragon age origins#dragon age zevran
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Me: This new story I'm working on will be short. This time, for real.
The narrator: The story was not, in fact, short.
#writing life#writers life#fanfic writers#the lies we tell ourselves#why do I always do this#every time
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Man is the only creature who refuses to be what he is.
— Albert Camus
#life#people#quotes#love#book quotes#inspiring quotes#poetry love#daily life#life quotes#quote#human#humanity#lies#lies we tell ourselves#real you#you#reality#run away#acceptance#why don't we accept ourselves
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Chapters: 1/1 Fandom: 전지적 독자 시점 - 싱숑 | Omniscient Reader - Sing-Shong Rating: General Audiences Warnings: No Archive Warnings Apply Relationships: Kim Dokja & Yoo Joonghyuk, Han Sooyoung & Kim Dokja, Han Sooyoung & Kim Dokja & Yoo Joonghyuk Characters: Kim Dokja, Yoo Joonghyuk, Han Sooyoung, Kim Dokja's Company Additional Tags: One Shot, Hurt No Comfort, Could be read as romantic idk, Light Angst, spoilers for after the final scenario, Introspection, Character Study, Spoilers for Oldest Dream identity, Blurb Summary:
“I don't think you're real,” said Kim Dokja.
“Why not?” asked Not-Yoo Joonghyuk. “You've wished that your whole life.”
Or
Kim Dokja dreams of his companions.
#I wrote this a whilee ago#orv#omniscient reader's viewpoint#kim dokja#the false things we accept as absolute facts (the lies we tell ourselves)#thats a long ass title#ann writes
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AITA for not helping more with my half sisters?
u/JohnnysBigD
I (M30) am the oldest of my siblings and my mother's only child. I have three younger, unmarried HALF sisters (F 19, 17, and 12 (?)) My father recently died and made me promise to look after my half-sisters and stepmother (F40). This is because basically everything he owned went to me and will go to my son (M4).
The thing is, they are fine. They have 500/year, which for 4 women living so simply is pretty good! And they got a great deal on rent from my stepmother's cousin so they don't need much from me at all. And this older lady has taken an interest in the two oldest half-sisters, she might leave them something when she dies. Plus I think the older one will marry well no matter what (F19 is really good looking, 17 used to be but she got sick or something). So I don't know why I would need to help them with anything.
Also, I really needed to build a greenhouse on the estate for my wife, and build some fences etc. and I bought this adjoining field, I would have been a fool not to buy it, so I'm really not that rich right now, I'm just getting by. I was almost in debt even, like 1000 pounds away from debt.
My wife thinks I'm perfectly in the right, but sometimes my half sister gives me this look that does something to my stomach and I think that feeling is guilt?
Edit: To be clear, after my father died I let them all stay at the house rent free for 6 months, which is a lot! And I was going to bring them food and stuff at their new house.
Edit 2: Yes that is all I have done for them, they moved really far away. I also tried to invite them over once but my wife had already invited someone else over.
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u/YoYoMama
I think the worst thing about this post was how deliberately you wrote "half" every time you referred to your sisters. I guess that's the only way you can tell yourself that it's okay to break a deathbed promise.
I really hope you get haunted you massive AH.
YTA YTA YTA YTA YTA
AITA Jane Austen Masterpost
#AITA Jane Austen#john dashwood#sense and sensibility#elinor dashwood#The lies we tell ourselves#so we can sleep at night#knowing we broke a deathbed promise#you know John Dashwood would make a dick joke in his username
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#Magic#modern magic#objects of power#polls#the lies we tell ourselves#to make sense of a senseless world
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truly feel like after a certain age at the VERY LEAST Anxiety should disappear. Like, okay, you've been anxious and depressed since you were oh, right, 13 is that it? more or less. So that means your sentence is over. Welcome to the fun 30s. No more of that!
and yet
#personal#i truly believed that for like. the two months leading up to my 30th birthday#i was so at ease with turning 30#and then yknow. anxiety attack on your birthday party; then another year of waves of depression and anxiety in turn#and now i'm here#god i hate being here#the lies we tell ourselves about progress mmh.#but really tho. yeah your knees are going to hurt even MORE but hey! no constant diffused anxiety about everything that stops you#from being a normal human being#win/win!
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This may be difficult for many to realize, but if someone is 'your person' but you can't be honest and can't be yourself...
THEY'RE NOT YOUR FUCKING PERSON
#lies we tell ourselves#years of making a mistake doesn't change that#it is most difficult to be honest with ourselves#if you're not honest with yourself; you're dishonest with everyone and everything#healing is a process#choose the challenge#choose yourself#stop choosing excuses and cowardice#over it#spilled ink#spilled truths#don't create storms then get upset when it rains all the time#feralchaton
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"It will be ok."
That statement is always true.
Eventually.
For the people who survive.
But it's not ok because things turned out good, it's eventually ok because humans can adapt to almost anything that doesn't outright kill us instantly. It's rarely pleasant, and usually hard, but we adapt.
In abusive relationships, you think you're ok because you maybe have it under control and at least it's not worse.
In times of food shortage, it's ok because you get used to hungry and find ways to distract yourself and at least you're not alone.
People with terminal illnesses will tell you they're ok, because they're adapting to living with the end, not because they're actually ok with it coming.
So when someone says, "it will be ok," I find that true but not the slightest bit comforting.
Ok does not mean good. Ok means that you'll adapt and rationalize and normalize whatever awful shit happens, as long as it doesn't kill you quickly. Humans are very adaptable, it's kind of our thing, and ok is just our way of saying we're adapting.
#thoughts#it's ok#adaptation#the human condition#it will be okay#lies we tell ourselves#everyday lies#okay#reflection#language
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y’all ever set up a queue and you’re proud that you’ve actually done some writing so you wanna show it all on the dash immediately which completely defeats the purpose of the queue? no? just me?
#ooc . [ mun talk ]#I Never claimed to be smart.#but my queue is moving too slowly for my impatient ass.#I shall however not change a thing about this.#I’m an adult.#I don’t need instant gratification u.u#(welcome to todays episode of ‘all the lies we tell ourselves’).
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If all your self-worth is tied up in your looks, you are destined for misery.
#awareness#personal development#growth#self improvement#manifest#manifestingreality#loa#self loathing#self awareness#mental health#human experience#healing#the lies we tell ourselves#spilled truth
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Suddenly she realised that what she was regretting was not the lost past but the lost future, not what had been but what would never be.
— F. Scott Fitzgerald
#f. scott fitzgerald#book#book review#author#authors#classical#literatura#life#people#she#realism#real lies#lies we tell ourselves#quotes#love#book quotes#daily life
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It’s nearly spring which means I’m doing just fine I hardly ever cry now and nothing reminds me of you.
- Cora Finch
#poetry#seasons#spring#starting over#moving on#growth#sad girl spring#what we say vs what we mean#the lies we tell ourselves#sad poetry#micro poem#micro poetry#spilled ink#my writing#cora finch#heartsongs#poem#327#I'm doing just fine
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"X is just a guy" is a popular phrase to throw around these parts when talking about blorbos, but I swear, and I am 100% stone faced serious when I say this, not a single character has ever done it quite like Geralt from The Witcher books.
#sure your guy is maybe just a normal man in an unfair supernatural circumstance#but is acknowledgent of his guyhood a conclusion of a gut wrenching character study about trauma personal and generational#about the lies we tell ourselves so we can ignore the hurt we feel#did your guy spend the entire story desperately dehumanizing himself clinging to his alledged non-personhood#did he insist at every opportunity and despite an overwhelming mountain of evidence to the contrary that his torturers were successful#that they did make him into a monster without feelings without morals without future#are the people who did this to him the only family he ever had and the only people who would ever accept him now that he's this?#did they also go through the exact same process themselves do they genuinely love him on top of that?#does your guy reference his acquired infertility every time the topic of sex comes up#only to end up raising a daughter with the equall infertile love of his life?#does he defy his non human credo all the time by being unable to stop being kind an empathetic#and never acknowledges it because he can't bear thinking of himself as anything but ''a witcher''?#is he just a guy?#geralt of rivia#the witcher#the witcher books
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