#the lesbian struggle

[sappho-favourite-pupil]

But like, in english, how do you know if they mean "i love you" as a friend, or "i love you" as in seat on my face, please?

[sapphonomicon]

You know that girl you matched with on that dating app that you never messaged because you were intimidated by how hot she was?

She's still hoping to hear from you. Send the DM! The worst she can do is what you've both already done and sit in silence.

[sappho-favourite-pupil]

Idk, is Tiana willing to kiss me now, or what?

I'll just wait for her, on this very leaf.

[sapphicherri]

making a sub touch themselves in front of me and being so sweet and condescending about it the entire time<3

having trouble baby? i know you can do it, keep going for me. you cant give up yet pretty i wanna watch you cum, you can do that for me can’t you?

[dattebroyo]

in another life

[proxycrit]

I interrupt my zelda posting with caitvi because Arcane changed my brain chemistry

(ight, now i go back on hiatus! If you want to see my sketchbook which I WILL be posting until the day I wither, check out patreon! Now excuse me as i crawl back into my warm little den)

((Im also currently significantly more active on my instagram posting commission work, if you wanna see it :0))

Edit: ah dang it the hyperfixation’s set in.

[starryeyesmasc]

need to ride a girl’s strap asap I’m done being cool about it it’s needy lesbian time

[dingledraw]

When you gotta hear your straight friends talk about men 🤢

[itsaluxeeee]

oh god I’m so gay

[llove-r]

my toxic trait is thinking I can learn something I’ve never done before like play guitar or crochet in 2 hours or less and if I can’t it’s simply because I’m just not good at it

[blazing-butterfly]

Manga cover: *shows two cute girls being friendly or suggestive with each other, and no other characters*

Me: Oh what's this, a cute manga about the close relationship between two girls? Possibly even - dare I hope - canonical yuri?

Manga description: Blando Genericson is just an average guy with nothing special about him, but for some reason these two amazingly beautiful girls are both in love with him!

[sappho-favourite-pupil]

#SERIOUSPOST

We all know "representation matters", but i feel like we don't talk about how important can it be. Because, i gotta be honest: i probably would have never - or it would have taken me much longer - to realise i was attracted to women, if it wasn't for the representation i saw.

This feels a little problematic to say, because it kind of sounds like i'm saying that seeing wlw representation turned me into a lesbian, which is not possible of course. What i'm trying to tell is, yeah, i've always thought girls were prettier than boys, i've always randomly picked a male classmate to be my crush, i've always said that i did not want to get married or have kids (with a man)...But, despite all this, i didn't figure out i was lesbian.

Even despite the fact i've never felt romantic, and let alone sexual attraction, for any guy i've met, i did not figure out i was lesbian.

And it's not that i didn't know about lesbians or gays, because i did know they existed (for a certain period of time i was even slightly homophobic lmao), it's just nobody had ever shown me an actual alternative to heterosexuality. The moment i was exposed to wlw/lesbian representation, i knew that was what i wanted in my life, without a doubt. I was a bit surprised, but honestly i do not even remember being scared about it, because the fact i had always liked women was suddently so clear and so natural that i was like "yeah, sure, it makes so much sense".

I feel like this is the reason why nowadays people are discovering to be queer earlier than ever before, and it's not because the internet is infecting them with the gay or something, but because they get much more representation than any past generation.

For someone is easier to figure out they are gay, some people i know say they've always known, since a very young age, and that's awesome. But, yk, most people don't even know being gay is an option, and even if they do, they can't begin to imagine how that would be and how would that make them feel.

I think parents and istitutions and everyone should make an effort to increase representation, and to spread information and not misinformation, because it may be important to young queers like it was important to me.

I feel like most straight/cis people underestimate it, but i actually cried for a good ten minutes, when i saw my "sexual awakening", the character who helped me figure myself out more than any other, ending up married to another woman.

And she is that character, in case anyone is wondering.

[fuchial]

being someone who is openly a lesbian in real life is NOT for the weak because tell me why straight girls are treating me like im some weird ass predator 😭😭 I DONT WANT YOU.

[acornered]

I've never really self-identifed as butch because my style sensibility leans more toward effeminate gay man/eccentric grandparent but while my girlfriend was visiting, the clasps that held the shoulder strap of her handbag kept breaking (thanks temu), and finally I got fed up and fixed it by

a) wrenching off the old clasps with a pair of plyers and

b) replacing them with the only clasps I had on hand, which were 2 giant carabiners

and yeah, now that I think about it, that is incredibly butch lesbian behavior.

[mewvore]

Gabby helps (?) Millie make an informed choice about her first strap 👀🌹

[loseractivities]

tatney 4ever :3c wowww, what a cute happy lesbian couple. im so happy they both live. im so happy they both live. im so happy one of them doesnt die