#the dude that's dating my sister

[mothhball]

how do I tell my sister that I don't really like her current boyfriend without seeming like a hater like,,, something about him gives me the ick.

From what I've seen, he's constantly starting petty arguments and being melodramatic. My sister is no saint either, but he's lowkey gaslighting her into thinking she's the damaged and insane one in the relationship. At least from my perspective.

I just don't have a good gut feeling about him idk And obvi I can't outright tell her because they've only been dating for 3 months and are still very much in the honeymoon phase.

He just seems like an exhausting person to be around idk

ETA

I love my sister but she's also the type of person who's unable to stay single for longer than 4 months very wild from the perspective of someone who's chronically single (maybe my unwillingness to put up with stuff like this is the reason idk)

[janjoona-almajnoona]

Shout out to the random ppl who helped me figure out im aroace (random tt about it)

[mylittleredgirl]

fyi how long it takes me to post a m*a*s*h update makes it SEEM like i have a lot of self-control and am only watching one episode a day but that is incorrect. i'm watching everything like three times and rolling around in the details like a ferret let loose in the snow. i grew up in the vhs-recording 90s where you'd get two star treks and an x-file every week, and i'd get up at five in the morning to rewatch one of them before school every day AND tune in for every rerun and that has not changed. sometimes i get comments on fic like "wow your dialogue sounds just like them" YEAH it fuckin SHOULD some weeks i hear these people talk more than my own family. this is completely normal and healthy by the way

[fagtrickbateman]

genuinely so fucking nauseating that tumblr staff feel like they don't even need to provide a real explanation for BLATANTLY and REPEATEDLY targeting transfem users. this has been happening for fucking years and they haven't done a single thing to change it.

[hannahhasafact]

I feel like I’ve been absent from the online realm for awhile so here are some updates:

New job been good. In a baffling turn of events, being paid well really helps your emotional state.

Been running around like crazy, def not treating my body right (I keep staying up way too late because I never have enough time in the evenings to get everything done). I fear a crash is soon.

Starting the apartment search! Everyone around me is saying I should move sooner than later, but I’d like to build up some PTO before I do so I can have an extra day to move. Also, I have time (I’ll HAVE to move out before January but I *should* be month to month). Hoping to move late fall.

I feel like I’ve been putting art on the back burner lately which really sucks but honestly? I feel like I haven’t even had good time to do art. I’m still participating in art fight but I’ve only finished two things and this current drawing is taking forever.

Started rewatching House, which was fun but then there was an episode that gave me the ick so I stopped. Kind of bummed though, I was having a great time until that moment

My sister is going through some things and while I get why she’s reacting the way she is the way she’s been reactive to everything I say or do has been exhausting. Also worrying about her has also increased the exhaustion. And she always wants to do things and I’m like “god I just want to rest but I also worry if I don’t do things with her it’s going to make her mental health worse” So yeah, having a real catch 22 sitch rn

So yeah. I feel like I always sound really negative when I type this kind of thing out but honestly I’ve been pretty good lately. But holy fuck do I need a nap.

[jessicas-pi]

TFW you go on one (1) fake date together to win a bet but then all your friends won't leave you alone about it

Ezra ignores Wedge's question and Tarik's scoff and Aylan's elbow, which is repeatedly jabbing him in the side, and looks across the mess hall, catching Sabine's eye. The girls surrounding her are absolutely freaking out. As he watches, the littlest Togruta clasps her hands to her cheeks and screeches while one of the pilots pretends to faint dead away.

(picture without text under the cut)

[taylor]

still reeling over the fact that almost 2 months ago the guy i was talking to (not dating, but definitely 'seeing') took another girl TO MY AND MY ROOMMATE'S APARTMENT to FUCK HER ON OUR AIR MATTRESS while i was ON VACATION THOUSANDS OF MILES AWAY

honestly. how do i get myself into these situations

[marscats37]

One of my sister’s boyfriends keeps sharing transphobic memes on Instagram like I wonder if she’s embarrassed ? I’d be embarrassed.

[algolagniaa]

I’m genuinely in the least abusive, most caring and respectful and loving and healthy relationship of my entire life not only just including past romantic relationships but relationships of any type. so it’s v frustrating to me when people pretend it’s abusive somehow + the exact same as them romanticizing/fetishizing abusive relationships and wanting to be in an abusive relationship bc hypothetically at some point in time she might hit me. which hasn’t even happened + she won’t even go as deep into kink as I would bc she cares about my safety and wellbeing first and foremost

[lovsome]

u know what romantic attention actually does feel really good

[willkimurashat]

I don’t wike it☹️

[ctl-yuejie]

pride month is definitely for baking brownies

wasn’t really vibing with the date (he was sweet but had nothing to say about himself and also nothing he wanted to know about me), started going south when he went into the bushes to relieve himself and wouldn’t understand that i didn’t want to touch his hands afterwards

tried to be polite when turning him down (we were walking towards his house) but then he started insisting we would try this and if it is sth that creeps me out it is a guy not accepting a no. also turns out he lied about his age.

said he was 25 when he’s 32. he thought i was 22. i like to belief that it is reasonable of me to question him for hitting on a “22″ year old saying he’s 25 when he is indeed 32.

[moreausposts]

have we as a fandom given them our own lore yet? because this is very very important to me

[tvrningout-a]

i love that i have chiyo on one hand who, in her own canon, has kissed a total of one boy and proceeds to never do it again until she's well into adulthood bc kissing means having feelings and having feelings is scary. and then i have rin who probably can't count how many people she's kissed, and the only reason she hasn't kissed anybody else recently is bc, y'know, there's a war and she's been kinda busy ( but don't worry -- she's gonna hit the tavern and get smooched if it's the last thing she does ). just what a spectrum here asdf

[timeisacephalopod]

On one hand my one sister is Big Stupid and pregnant again, which I wouldn't care as much about if this wasn't the fourth kid with the fourth shitty fucking father who will do nothing but cause even MORE pain and suffering to my sister's life, and on the other hand my other sister keeps sending me apartment ads which is very sweet because she ALSO just had a baby (in August and also her situation is stable, I'm very proud she managed to pull off what she did considering where she's come from. Her boys, especially Older Nephew were SO excited for the baby and I love listening to Older Nephew talk about his sister, it's so heartening to see him so happy and excited. Something tells me my other sisters 3 girls won't be nearly as impressed, especially not Oldest Niece and it's gotten to a point where I feel somewhat compelled to try and mentor this poor kid but I don't know SHIT about kids and don't want to let this poor kid down like everyone else has, she deserves better than that).

Granted my whole life I've preferred Apartment Sister to Making Poor Life Choices sister but also recently Making Dumb Choices has made some serious improvements to her life, very impressive ones too, so it's just disappointing to watch her backslide especially into the same bullshit she's been doing since she was 18 and is now 32. But at least I'm not the only one apartment hunting 😂😂 her efforts are super appreciated given that she just moved herself as well, plus having a fresh baby (very cute baby too). Now with any luck my OTHER sibling will get her shit together hopefully before we're on child number six with father number six with all the same fucking personality flaws and mental health problems not one of these men take even remotely seriously because that's exhausting to me let alone my damn sister.

[thepinkseashell]

GIRL HELP ANOTHER MAN JUST ASKED ME OUT. FUCK MY STUPID BAKA IRRESISTIBLE TO EVERYONE EXCEPT PEOPLE I ACTUALLY WANT TO DATE LIFE