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āNo matter how many goals you save, some people will only remember the one you missed.ā
~ Iker Casillas
#yeahā¦so Iām dealing with the hate Manuās getting REALLY well#howās everybody else doinā? šµ#I just wanna give him a hug rn#also#please do not send hate to any of these people!! this is just my way of ranting and showing how widespread this is#the fact that heās been through all this and still chooses to fight#the definition of resilience#but it shouldnāt even be necessary in the first place#manuel neuer#fc bayern#fc bayern munich#fc bayern mĆ¼nchen#die mannschaft#dfb team#german nt#germany nt#briās (shitty) edits
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This chapter broke me. The fact that the wife turned out to be a good person, the fact that after loosing everything in the war, Martha has managed to continue with her life has resound in me. It wasn't easy of course, maybe it was the hardest thing she had to overcome in her life (and this woman has been in two wars), but we are discovering this through her flashbacks, she is telling this as a storytime to Becky at teatime. So what does that mean? She already got over it, she survived. And you may think 'well of course, its been years' but i wouldn't judge her, i would even consider other reactions normal, like staying stuck in the past, because loosing the things and people you loved most to an absurd war simply is not fair.
Martha, you're so strong, i love you so much. I chose the picture of her breaking down after her performance because I understand how her dancing, having the chance to have a little of what she really deserved to live, could have reminded her of what it felt like to be alive.
#sxf#manga spoilers#sxf manga#spy x family#this chapter broke me#i loved this chapter so much#endo sensei why do you do this to me#henry henderson#why martha why...#martha and henry#spy x family chapter 102#martha is my favorite character now#resiliance is a word#martha the definition
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i need to get this out of my head before i continue clone^2 but danny being the first batkid. Like, standard procedure stuff: his parents and sister die, danny ends up with Vlad Masters. He drags him along to stereotypical galas and stuff; Danny is not having a good time.
He ends up going to one of the Wayne Galas being hosted ever since elusive Bruce Wayne has returned to Gotham. Vlad is crowing about having this opportunity as he's been wanting to sink his claws into the company for a long while now. Danny is too busy grieving to care what he wants.
And like most Galas, once Vlad is done showing him off to the other socialites and the like, he disappears. Off to a dark corner, or to one of the many balconies; doesn't matter. There he runs into said star of the show, Bruce who is still young, has been Batman for at least a year at this point, but still getting used to all these damn people and socializing. He's stepped off to hide for a few minutes before stepping back into the shark tank.
And he runs into a kid with circles under his eyes and a dull gleam in them. Familiar, like looking into a mirror.
Danny tries to excuse himself, he hasn't stopped crying since his parents died and it's been months. He rubs his eyes and stands up, and stumbles over a half-hearted apology to Mister Wayne. Some of Vlad's etiquette lessons kicking in.
Bruce is awkward, but he softens. "That's alright, lad," he says, pulling up some of that Brucie Wayne confidence, "I was just coming out here to get some fresh air."
There's a little pressing; Bruce asks who he's here with, Danny says, voice quiet and grief-stricken, that he's with his godfather Vlad Masters. Bruce asks him if he knows where he is, and Danny tells him he does. Bruce offers to leave, Danny tells him to do whatever he wants.
It ends with Bruce staying, standing off to the side with Danny in silence. Neither of them say a word, and Danny eventually leaves first in that same silence.
Bruce looks into Vlad Masters after everything is over, his interest piqued. He finds news about him taking in Danny Fenton: he looks into Danny Fenton. He finds news articles about his parents' deaths, their occupations, everything he can get his hands on.
At the next gala, he sees Danny again. And he looks the same as ever: quiet like a ghost, just as pale, and full of grief. Bruce sits in silence with him again for nearly ten minutes before he strikes a conversation.
"Do you like to do anything?"
Nothing. Just silence.
Bruce isn't quite sure what to do: comfort is not his forte, and Danny doesn't know him. He's smart enough to know that. So he starts talking about other things; anything he can think of that Brucie Wayne might say, that also wasn't inappropriate for a kid to hear.
Danny says nothing the entire time, and is again the first to leave.
Bruce watches from a distance as he intercts with Vlad Masters; how Vlad Masters interacts with him. He doesn't like what he sees: Vlad Masters keeps a hand on Danny's shoulder like one would hold onto the collar of a dog. He parades him around like a trophy he won.
And there are moments, when someone gets too close or when someone tries to shake Danny's hand, of deep possessiveness that flints over Vlad Masters' eyes. Like a dragon guarding a horde.
He plays the act of doting godfather well: but Bruce knows a liar when he sees one. Like recognizes like.
Danny is dull-eyed and blank faced the entire time; he looks miserable.
So Bruce tries to host more parties; if only so that he can talk to Danny alone. Vlad seems all too happy to attend, toting Danny along like a ribbon, and on the dot every hour, Danny slips away to somewhere to hide. Bruce appears twenty minutes later.
"I was looking into your godfather's company," he says one night, trying to think of more things to say. Some nights all they do is sit in silence. "Some of my shareholders were thinking of partnering up--"
"Don't."
He stops. Danny hardly says a word to him, he doesn't even look at him -- he's sitting on the ground, his head in his knees. Like he's trying to hide from the world. But he's looking, blue eyes piercing up at Bruce.
Bruce tilts his head, practiced puppy-like. "Pardon?"
"Don't." Danny says, strongly. "Don't make any deals with Vlad."
It's the most words Danny's spoken to him, and there's a look in his eyes like a candle finding its spark. Something hard. Bruce presses further, "And why is that?"
The spark flutters, and flushes out. Danny blinks like he's coming out of a trance, and slumps back into himself. "Just don't."
Bruce stares at him, thoughtful, before looking away. "Alright. I won't."
And they fall back into silence.
Danny, when he leaves, turns to look at Bruce, "I mean it." He says; soft like he's telling a secret, "Don't make any deals with him. Don't be alone with him. Don't work with him."
He's scampered away before Bruce can question him further.
(He never planned on working with Vlad Masters and his company; he's done his research. He's seen the misfortune. But nothing ever leads back to him. There's no evidence of anything. But Danny knows something.)
At their next meeting, Danny starts the conversation. It's new, and it's welcomed. He says, cutting through their five minute quiet, that he likes stars. And he doesn't like that he can't see them in Gotham.
Bruce hums in interest, and Danny continues talking. It's as if floodgates had been opened, and as Bruce takes a sip of his wine, it tastes like victory.
("Tucker told me once--") ("Tucker?") ("Oh-- uh, one of my best friends. He's a tech geek. We haven't talked in a while.")
(Danny shut down in his grief -- his friends are worried, but can't reach him. When he goes back to the manor with Vlad, he fishes out his phone and sends them a message.)
(They are ecstatic to hear from him.)
It all culminates until one day, when Danny is leaving to go back inside, that Bruce speaks up. "You know," He says, leaning against the railing. "The manor has many rooms; plenty of space for a guest."
The implication there, hidden between the lines. And Danny is smart, he looks at Bruce with a sharp glean in his eyes, and he nods. "Good to know."
The next time they see each other, Danny has something in his hands. "Can you hold onto something for me?" He asks.
When Bruce agrees, Danny places a pearl into his palm. or, at least, it's something that looks like a pearl. Because it's cold to the touch; sinking into Bruce's white silk gloves with ease and shimmering like an opal. It moves a little as it settles into his hand, and the moves like its full of liquid.
Bruce has never seen anything like it before, but he does know this; it's not human. "What is it?" He asks, and Danny looks uncomfortable.
"I can't tell you that." He says, shifting on his foot like he's scared of someone seeing it. "But please be careful with it. Treat it like it's extremely fragile."
When Bruce gets home, he puts it in an empty ring box and hides the box in the cave. He tries researching into what it is. he can't find anything concrete.
Everything comes to a head one day when Danny appears at the manor's doorstep one evening, soaking wet in the rain, and bleeding from the side.
#dpxdc#dp x dc#danny fenton is not the ghost king#dpxdc crossover#dpdc#dp x dc crossover#dpxdc prompt#man i just really need more dpdc stuff where danny and bruce have a good relationship. like man i NEED it. like i need to see these two#bonding together. and not in a cracky 'oh danny is a distant friend/cousin/etc' stuff but like. active participants in each other's lives#or as active as can be in this case. i neeeeed these two getting along and caring about one another#this idea came to me like last night and hasn't left since nd it was driving me up the wall to think about both positively and negatively b#i neeeded someone to hear about this or i was gonna implode#danny is the first son#tried to just get the general gist of the idea down but i definitely thought of the idea that bruce lowkey suspects vlad for having a hand#Vlad allows Danny to sneak off because he thinks Danny is alone. if he knew Bruce was there he'd be piiisssed and would put a stop to it#Sam and Tucker are alive they just got ghosted for a bit by danny bc he was in Major Grief and didn't wanna socialize. He couldn't go to#them because he didn't wanna put them in danger via Vlad.#oh that thing he handed Bruce? Yeah that's his ghost core. I have a headcanon (that isnt always applied) that ghosts can take their cores#out of their bodies at will and painlessly and without issue. and its common practice actually to do so bc they can be a not insignificant#distance away from said core before problems start to act up. and its common for ghosts to leave their physical cores at their lairs for#safekeeping because as long as the physical core is fine: so is the ghost. they can reform if their body gets destroyed. it also acts as a#fast travel sometimes. where they can reform at their core in an instant. its not inspired in the slightest by SU but i do see the overlap#most cores are pretty small for safety sake: its harder to hit if its small. and they're pr resilient too but its better to be safe than#sorry. so yeah. danny essentially gave bruce the physical embodiment of his soul and indirectly said#'if anything happens to me at least i'll be safe with you'#danny doesn't know he's batman btw#starry rambles.#was gonna go into danny becoming a vigilante beside bruce but im sleeeepy so i'll do that in a reblog. he's gonna go by nightingale if#anyone is interested. stereotypical but to be frank it is a *good* name imo. has a good amount of syllables and consonants to it#and the bird theme. and since its part of an ancestral name it has even more backing for it being bird-y without being meta
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WHISKEY TANGO FOXTROT | Martin Freeman as Iain MacKelpie
#this soft warm blue sweater was made for him#Iām getting major john watson vibes#silver fox in all his glory#how dare you be THAT handsome#It takes steel nerves and resilience to not fall for him#In that gaze I dissolve like a speck in the boundless ocean#the hair and beard combo is definitely my favorite#martin freeman#whiskey tango foxtrot#iain mackelpie#mf/movies
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I was thinking about āI am the dirt under your nailsā and first of all I donāt think it can be ignored that the title of e9 is derived from this line. Considering that, this line is evidently not meant to be a cutesy throwaway line between Cait and Vi, it has huge thematic weight and implications. If you think about the title āThe Dirt Under Your Nailsā in this context, itās clear that itās meant to refer to the fact that all of our characters have dirt under their nails. As in, their hands arenāt clean. Theyāve all committed wrongs, because theyāre all human, which is obviously a major theme of this season/show. The second part of this dialogue is ānothingās gonna clean me out,ā which fits with what Caitlyn says about how no amount of good deeds can undo those wrongs. This line is about accountability.
And thereās a reason why itās Vi who says this line to Cait. The most obvious is that Caitlyn has wronged her, but it goes deeper than that. In e8, Vi asks Caitlyn who gets to decide who gets a second chance. There are multiple ways to interpret how this idea impacts the narrative. Iāve seen it said that Caitlyn allows Vi to free Jinx because in giving Jinx a second chance she also gives herself one, and thatās an important point for Caitlynās character, but I think Vi wouldāve found a way to free Jinx no matter what. Cait just made it easy for her. What the narrative shows us is that Vi is the one who gets to decide who gets a second chance by having her decide to give one to both Jinx and Cait. Iāve seen people talk about howās Viās role is that of the witness ā to be the constant that observes all the change and corruption that happens around her, and to be burdened with the memory of all that has transpired. And thatās true, but thereās more to it as well. Remember this promotional poster? It has 3 different titles/captions associated with it (that I saw):
1) Horrors Iāve Seen
2) Everyone is Guilty, Vi
3) Itās Too Late to Point the Finger Now
The first one obviously reinforces Viās position as the witness. But the second two are about accountability. It always struck me that the second caption brings the collective guilt of our cast to Viās attention specifically. Now it makes sense: she is both witness and judge. The character with the āgood heart,ā the only one who remains largely uncorrupted/unchanged by the end. Who is motivated purely by her desire to protect while the vast majority of the characters around her are twisted by revenge and ambition. Itās absolutely intentional that she is the one who says that line.
#vi arcane#caitlyn kiramman#caitvi#arcane#the dirt under your nails#Caitlyn has dirt under her nails because sheās been digging in it#and the shot lingers on her face afterwards because she knows it#and with the theme of forgiveness featuring so heavily this season#how fitting is it that our judge is one who chooses to give a second chance every time?#also i think ambessaās line about viās resilience is important here too#being the witness is a hard job#but she is the one who is durable enough to do it#she wonāt lose sight of things the way that Cait and Jayce and Viktor did#everyone talks about her inability to change as a bad thing#and there are definitely downsides to it#but at the same time sheās so important to the story BECAUSE she doesnāt change#they need her to be the one who reminds them all where they started#vi#meta#mine
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@ the person who said Machete wouldn't have a cutie mark, I definitely see where you're coming from, but I disagree! Machete, against all the odds of his birth and existence, survived and excelled. His determination to continue would have earned him his mark.
In g4, at least, they're more than just a representation of a task you're good at. It's a reminder of who you are as a person, of a truth you hold.
I think Machete might have a fang or claw, a representation of the phrases 'with gritted teeth' or 'clawing your way up' or maybe a hoof reaching toward the sun
I also think a mark like that would seem strange and off-putting, and may have been a source of strife for him while in school. In MLP, it's not terribly uncommon for ponies with no cutie mark or a cutie mark they're ashamed of to cover it up with clothing, in the way canon Machete wears his outfit.
Idk just my two cents
#I think both approaches are good I can see you've given this a lot of thought#I really can't confirm or deny any of this stuff#as I said I never watched the show Ā“v`' I don't know the pony lore#but yea I see what you mean#I keep making him seem like such a wet noodle of a person because it's funny and he definitely is#but in actuality Machete is also supposed to be determined and resilient#way more so than he or anyone around him gives him credit for#he has his meager beginnings bad health endless neuroses and general unpopularity working against him but he has prevailed nonetheless#and manages to hold on for a good while even when he has to dodge actual assassination attempts#he wouldn't have survived so long and made it so far if he didn't have any fight in him#answered#tigirl-and-co#anonymous
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FUCK EUROVISION joost deserves all the happiness and good things in the world <3
#i wanna give him all the hugs#i hope he's taking care of himself#i love him so dearly and i admire him SO much....he continues to be the definition of resilience š#raquel speaks#joost klein
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#atsushi#midoriya#izuku midoriya#mha#mha spoilers#mha fanart#atsushi nakajima#atsushi and midoriya#cause i can#technically should be studying rn#but she'll be right#probably#anyway#had this idea stuck in my head#so its on 'paper' now#:D#besides#i like the idea of midoriya and atsushi being friends#both of them are very resilient#definitely a necessary trait for most protagonists but still cool :D#mha 430#bsd 117#got caught up to the bsd manga today...#yeahhh#:')#i feel like my drawing skills have improved a lot since i started drawing this duo#which is nice#:D:D:D#anyway i need to go study-#:):):)
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In hindsight, spending my childhood having adults tell me how resilient and brave I was should perhaps have been the first sign something was wrong.
#stella talks#.i mean listen resilience IS a good trait to have and a useful skill to cultivate of COURSE.#.but thereās definitely something about realising that almost 99% of compliments adults gave me as a child were just.#.gee stella you sure are good at dealing with trauma all the time!#.like hm. okay. but what if perhaps i do not want to be dealing with trauma all the time in fact.#.<- i say this but compartively i lead a very charmed life thanks to my family being genuinely wonderful supportive weirdos.#.the outside world may have been cruel to me but i did have a safe home at night.#.which i think is where my resilience comes from anyway.#.easy to be strong when there is somewhere safe to be weak.#.this was meant to be a quippy one liner oops.
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So I made this post a little while ago regarding dndads characters and the tma entities and didn't really include any explanations cause that would have been very very long for a somewhat niche post. But, if you'll humor me, I feel compelled to make the quickest case for Vast! Taylor cause I'm thinking about him lol, and specifically without even getting into personality traits, I just want to point to Taylor's track record and note that he (off the top of my head):
Climbed to the top of the tallest tree he could find and shot a clone of himself off of it
Had to be physically held back from jumping off the highest floor of a twelve story building
Did a high-dive into an ocean of paper and abandoned Normal in said ocean of paper.
Had the chance to at least partially spare Scary from the damage of a very high fall. Didn't.
Submitting this as evidence to the court, people of the jury thank you for your time.
#dndads#taylor swift dndads#posting this at the weirdest time but that's fine I just needed to ramble about this lol#but I like Eye! and Hunt! Taylor too those make sense to me#I'm just saying that if there's someone who would willingly yeet them-self into the void it'd be him (...And Hermie that one time but-)#it's also a personality thing though#that's harder to articulate concretely...#but idk he's *resilient* the way a lot of the vast avatars tend to be like he just moves forward lol#life is long after all#he's got Crew's determination... and Fairchild's... w-wealth and cane lmao#I think there's definitely something to be said about all the space stuff I just can't put a proper finger on it atm#even the fucking showering outside in the rain thing hahaha he's a ranger! he likes the great outdoors! the wide open spaces!#well was a ranger but you know what I mean lol
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Manu the miracle š«
#that pause after he said he didnāt know what his life would be like if he couldnāt play football again said everything#even though heās got such a tight grasp on his emotionsāin that moment you can see how much the injury rattled him#how much it still hurts to think about#you can tell he always has to be so strongāso composedā¦and to see a glimpse of his vulnerability makes my heart ache#I can only imagine how much strength and willpower he mustāve needed to overcome an injury like that#the dictionary definition of resilience#heās got mental fortitude like no other in the world#an inspiration to us all ā¤ļø#manuel neuer#fc bayern#fc bayern munich#fc bayern mĆ¼nchen#videos#footballer quotes
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Taghadh Fiodh (āChoice of Timberā)
Tagh seileach nan allt,
Choose willow of the streams,
Tagh calltainn nan creag,
Choose hazel of the rocks,
Tagh fearna nan lĆ³n,
Choose alder of the marshes,
Tagh beithe nan eas.
Choose birch of the waterfalls.
Tagh uinnseann na dubhair,
Choose ash of the shade,
Tagh iubhar na leuma,
Choose yew of resilience,
Tagh leamhan na bruthaich,
Choose elm of the brae,
Tagh duire na grƩine.
Choose oak of the sun.
ā Carmina Gadelica IV
#gaelpol#charms#theres some symmetry happening#shade and streams both indicate depths#rock and resiliance ofc#marsh and brae are both liminal spaces#between land and sea and between land and sky#and waterfalls and the sun are things that come down from above#feels like its moving upwards with each wood#definitely something to think on#Ogham
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The titular Sonic the Hedgehog would survive in Puella Magi Madoka Magica...
Reason: But, MAN, did he have a lot of close calls! Shadow's "death", getting killed by Mephiles, Shahra's sacrifice, Chip being sealed away, his falling out with Tails over him trusting Eggman, the Zeti almost managing to kill all his pals back on Earth, the Metal Virus in the IDW verse- and don't that's without us started with the series of bullshit he had to endure in the Archie comics! Indeed, we could go on all day discussing the close encounters Sonic had with despair-
But that's not how he rolls- that's the furthest thing from his life motto. Everything will come to an end, the clouds could choke out the last bits of sunlight, but that's ok; all that matters in the end is how one cherishes the little pockets of joy life provides for us. To him, the best way to live life is to experience it at its fullest.
#yeah. Uh. Expect a remake of this flag real soon.#reason why I chose his SatBK render specifically is because the ending to that game solidifies his resilience and why he won't-#completely despair#also because 1. I am listening to Knight of the Wind rn; and 2. His magical weapon would DEFINITELY be Excalibur/Caliburn#Sonic the Hedgehog#puella magi madoka magica#Sonic#Would survive PMMM
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My roommate and I had a conversation last night and I keep rotating it in my brain and I Donāt Like It
#blue chatter#they called me a resilient person. and no the fuck I am not. I break down so easily over everything and my body is falling apart on me.#I scream in terror when someone knocks on the door too hard the fuck you mean Iām good at handling adversity#I pointed out that I freak out whenever my grade gets low even a little bit#and they were just sitting there like āyeah. and then you pick yourself up again and you do the work.ā#and no? not always? oftentimes I give up and donāt try hard enough to fix it and let points go that I could have earned#I barely ever go for extra credit opportunities and Iāve never gone to office hours of my own free will#I canāt even think about talking to a professor about a bad grade without wanting to cry? hello?#but they were insistent that even with those things I am still managing Incredibly Well in class given the circumstances. which made me#uncomfortable. like. I donāt think of myself as resilient At All and I feel a bit like Iām lying or tricking them.#I start shaking like a chihuahua when people are upset and Iām In The Vicinity. even when theyāre clearly not upset with me.#I really struggle to advocate for myself ever and even when I do I usually feel guilty and walk it back partway so I donāt cause a fight#and I always get way too emotional for the situation when someone has anything theyāre upset with me for. which isnāt fair to them bc I need#to be able to take constructive criticism without taking it as a personal attack on me.#like what the fuck do you mean *resilient*. I canāt even handle seeing a bug flying near my face or getting a B in a class. or being told#that I did something wrong. Iām actually significantly worse at handling adversity than I used to be. high school me was a resilientish kid.#and itās not like I was ever *good* at handling my emotions. even when it was essential for my safety. Iāve always cried way too easily#even when it actively made the situation I was in Much Worse. even when I knew better.#I would get angry and scared and sad and start shaking and crying and even screaming at my parents when they were mad at me even though#I knew that it would always make my life much worse. and extend an already beleaguered argument.#I brought this up with my therapist and she was like āwell. anybody would have done that if they were treated like you wereā.#which. okay. maybe so. I still feel like I should have been able to handle it and just shut up and move on and not make it worse.#but I am aware that this is probably a cognitive distortion. even so. that definitely doesnāt make me resilient.#I just. I feel gross being called resilient. Iām not. Iām weak and easily scared and unable to handle even small amounts of adversity.#the fuck is my roommate even *seeing*.#the annoying part is that theyāre generally an insightful person about other people and I know logically that theyāre probably right#which is why Iām not going to complain any more about this to their face bc I should just drop it and not make it a Thing#I talk too much about myself and my problems anyway. not every conversation has to be about my brain worms.#but the discomfort is Distinct and Unpleasant. and now Iām just having to sit with it. and Feel Uncomfortable. and try to accept what was#definitely intended as a compliment. I know itās draining to talk to someone who doesnāt accept any of the kind things you say about them.
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Tntduo VRC Disclaimer
ā¼ļøWE DO NOT SUPPORT WILLIAM GOLD OR DREAM TEAMā¼ļø
Wilbur Soot, Dream, Sapnap, and George in our eyes has become a community OCs due to their acts and we fully support the people effected by them. I(Silver) have experienced similar issues with cis men with no care for others and hope they find that Karma is only hell if you are to others.
Now, our content on VRC TNTDuo may be slow as we are still not sure how well the internet will take it, it's something that makes us happy so if it ever becomes a chore, we will most likely not continue, I hope you understand that. If you are a supporter or apologist for any of the mentioned CCs, you are not welcome here.
#tntduo in vr#tntduo vrc series#tnt duo#tnt duo gay#the mcyt community has DEFINITELY taught us alot about resiliance and boundaries#at least that can come out of it in a positive sense
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