#that was traumatizing

[lanae111]

Anyways I don’t feel like I’m the same person after that finale

[nettlepain]

sometimes i remember when i got suspended from catholic school due to acts of lesbianism

[aroacebooknerd]

a part of my soul will forever rest in the room that I watched season 4

I’m dead

it was good and disappointing, I was kinda hoping for some trauma resolution but whatever but what ruined it WAS FIVE AND LILA WHAT THE EVER LOVING FUCK IM IN. DENIAL.

I screeched so fucking loud, I don’t think I’ll ever be the same again

the entire time I was telling myself that it’s okay it’s okay it’ll end soon and he kept GIVING HER PUPPY DOG EYES AND LOOKING SO SAD THAT DIEGO AND HER WERE TOGETHER AND I CANT-

[phoebepheebsphibs]

I will never understand how this happened but I’m laughing all the same

[beanxiv]

me too ami. me too.

@strawberrypockybox @jukey

[khwxbeeda]

Accidentally switched off dark mode and now I'm blinded-

[alienzcat]

OMG???

[berryunho]

my korean midterm just fucked me harder than any kpop boy in any smut I've ever read in my life

[soracities]

"Absolutely no one comes to save us but us."

Ismatu Gwendolyn, "you've been traumatized into hating reading (and it makes you easier to oppress)", from Threadings, on Substack [ID'd]

[scribefindegil]

being a writer leads to a genuinely helpful but also very stupid kind of mindfulness where you'll be having a sobbing breakdown or the worst anxiety attack of your life and think "okay, I really need to pay attention to how this feels. so I can incorporate it into my fanfiction."

[panoo]

lol

i have no idea what completely random interest i gonna draw after this

[thedeafprophet]

I love when trauma makes characters messy. I love when characters don't know how to show love. I love when they lash out. I love when they're vile and break down. I love characters who aren't perfect victims. I love when stories don't excuse behaviour but allow you to understand it

[mumblingsage]

I'm wondering if, as a society who cares about vulnerable people, we could stop saying "traumatize" when we truly mean "upset"?

I am sick of hearing sad books or movies "traumatize" their readers. I simply do not believe that happens. A traumatic experience might be adjacent to books (I have vivid memories of books I was reading around certain experiences and even how the contents of those books affected my processing of the experiences). But it's not caused by the book. And, y'know. The weather is Christofascist Censorship Attempts outside.

Meanwhile from the other side I continue to be surprised at just how badly people fail to understand trauma and traumatic experiences in general. Watering down the term isn't helping. Find other hyperbole to express that The Bridge to Terebithia gutted you, chewed on your heartstrings, and made you cry your first pair of contact lenses right out of your preteen eyes.

(ETA here although it's impossible to edit reblogs: over the months since this post really took off, there has been valuable discussion in the comments. I stand by the passion with which I wrote this post and with the general message, but not all the exact wording. I talk more about the way I'd re-write this post in a response here, replying to an addition that added a ton of useful context [other additions touched on similar themes, but that person had it all together in one reblog]. With that said, I am muting this post.)

[balrogballs]

What’s your core memory of watching the Lord of the Rings films for the first time because I will never forget how my extremely South Asian dad — during the emotionally climatic scene where Arwen is riding to the Havens and sees a vision of her son — paused, pointed, and said “Mashallah, Sister Arwen has accepted the hijab, alhamdulillah, praise be to god” and giggled for a good five minutes 😭

last time i shared this in a uni tolkien club someone called him a misogynistic fundamentalist because irl tolkien clubs are fucking deranged so please let me clarify that he was, in fact, joking.

[nightmaretour]

"Brain damage" only sounds like a harsh and offensive way to describe brain injuries because people constantly use it as an insult. It's a totally neutral descriptor of what it is. I have brain damage. My brain is damaged. It's not ableist to call it that, it's ableist to call people you don't like brain damaged because you think it's an inherently bad thing to be.

(Yes abled bodied neurodivergents, that includes you)

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