#that was a rant

[dick-helmet-magneto]

which pair do u think is more chaotic and unhinged, mcavoy/fassy cherik or stewart/mckellen cherik?

Both equally but in wildly different ways. McAvoy and Fassbender's version would never hurt each other. They love each other too much. There is an invisible line. They would be fighting each other and then call time out just to run across the battlefield, stepping and rolling over their friends just to help the other up if they had been knocked down. They are unhinged and chaotic together.

Stewart and McKellen are chaotic and unhinged against each other. They care but secretly. They will say and do anything to each other but then put them in separate rooms and they worship each other. Charles Xavier has done more for mutants than you'll ever know style. They are enemies that are secretly in love.

Fassbender and McAvoy are in love and secretly enemies. They are the same, wanting the same thing but in vastly different ways. They are waiting for the day their feud is over so they can live happily ever after.

Stewart and McKellen are fighting until the end but dying in each others arms whispering words of love.

[irisesforyoureyes]

if you can watch a child scraping the remains of his dead mother, a brother carrying his dead sibling on his back, a mother kissing the beheaded body of her son goodbye, a husband watching her pregnant wife burn alive, a child searching through the rubble for his dead family, a father clutching his dead baby to his chest, a fiancé never getting to become a wife, newborns to toddlers to adoloscents’ bodies starving to literal corpses and still fucking go on about ur lives normally after witnessing the worst humanity could possibly offer and not feel sympathy towards the plight of living in gaza or still have the apathy to say you're 'neutral' then you’re so abhorrently fucked up. ITS WILD TO ME HOW PEOPLE CAN STILL PUT UP ARGUMENTS IN FAVOUR OF ISRAEL hamas that hamas this shut up youre no better than the actual murderers. CHILDREN SHOULD NOT BE USED TO SEEING AND BEING AROUND SO MUCH DEATH!! and no parent should ever have to hold their killed babies in their arms. how cruel you have to be to disagree with this logic?

[peachdues]

I hope this doesn't come off offensive or anything but if you don't mind me asking, what was Sam's honest reaction when you first started writing smut for fictional characters? Was bro like "girl what are you on?" Or was bro like, "Honestly, same."

Not offensive at all! I’ll always talk about Sam.

Honestly he wasn’t surprised. He’d known I’d been wanting to get back into writing for a while and we both read/swap fics all the time. I started writing right as I was wrapping up my finals in my last semester in law school/started the absolute hell that was Bar prep and he was actually really happy that I’d found something to do that wasn’t bar prep.

I know I talked about it while doing it, but obviously I have a greater following now than I did then — Bar prep is brutal. You get no time from the end of the semester and exams (and law school exams range anywhere between 3-10 hours per exam, and there are multiple) before bar prep begins. For six weeks I was locked in a room, studying 10-16 hours a day. Browse any Reddit or Facebook bar prep page and you’ll SEE how mentally unwell people are. You’re isolated from all your friends and family — even your law school friends. I missed birthdays (including my own), date nights, events, etc. because I simply had to study. You’re constantly feeling like you’re going to fail this exam (and in fact, bar prep weirdly encourages that idea??) so yeah, you’ll see a ton of people talking about how depressed or even suicidal they feel during it, and those who’ve made it through constantly stress the need to find something that gives you a sense of purpose outside of the Bar.

For me, that was writing. Sam was a huge encourager of it (even the smut) because he was worried about me and my mental health. He was watching me stress, not eat, and go to bed well after he was asleep only for me to wake up before he did and start the nightmare all over. I think it was a relief for him to see me find even the smallest bit of joy outside of that hell. He’s the one that asked to read what I wrote — I didn’t ask him.

In short: Sam has supported it from day one. He knows I use my sexual experiences to inform my smut writing and it doesn’t bother him. At the end of the day, he knows and is confident in the fact that I only have eyes for him, no matter how much I thirst post about fictional characters (and it’s true — he’s the only person I truly think about in that way). So it’s never bothered him!

[reginrokkr]

Before I say anything, I want to preface that this post isn't meant to throw shade at the character this is about, more so about the direction the company takes with her and a suspicion of mine as for what that reason may be that will be addressed soon.

As I mentioned before, I was looking through content related to Jinhsi in order to make more posts about her —headcanons or otherwise— until I've come across the lines dedicated to Jinhsi through Sanhua's stories / voicelines. This in combination with my reflections on the story (the first part to be precise, when Jinhsi announces her official absence) made me realize that there are a few irregularities when it comes to the direction Kuro made her have.

Starting from the fact that she's Jinhsi's bodyguard, her personal one most accurately said. It's no surprise that anyone of high standing that has a personal bodyguard will have a deeper bond with them than just that and so is Jinhsi's case with her (it's crystal clear to me that Jinhsi cares a lot about Sanhua, to the point where she's an agreed topic of conversation with Changli in which both think she should take it easier, or that instance in one of her stories where Jinhsi introduces herself in one of her nightmares in order to bring her some peace of mind), but there are a few things that are off to me.

Like the fact that she's trusted with paperwork. By this I don't mean to say that Sanhua isn't capable of dealing with it, I'm sure she is. But that would be work out of her scope as a bodyguard. Given that Changli was also setting off Jinzhou at the same time as Jinhsi did, it would be, perhaps, the most adequate to do to entrust one of the people who she has to ask for permission when she wants to implement certain decisions— as it is known that in Jinzhou at least they count with a political system hard for corruption to spring due to the implication of more figures than just the leader. Even more so assuming that said figures might be older and with more years of experience on their backs.

Moreover, there is also this line in particular that makes it inappropriate to me, once again, because Sanhua is her bodyguard. If she were Jinhsi's retainer that might make more sense for her to be concerned about matters like this one, but not in this particular case. One could argue that Jinhsi and Sanhua are friends or their relationship borders a genuine friendship and I would agree with this, but this in particular would be even more awkward if we consider that Sanhua would act this way in a political building. Perhaps it'd make more sense for Changli given that she's Jinhsi's mentor and mentorships tend to be more personal, but not this. An easy example I can think of is of Noctis, Ignis and Gladiolus from FFXV, where Gladiolus is the bodyguard (who also taught Noctis to fight) and Ignis the retainer. There is a crystal clear separation of duties there that, if applied to WuWa, is oddly mixed into Sanhua.

Where I want to get with all of this is to say that in my portrayal of Jinhsi, she will entrust Sanhua with the duties she has a bodyguard but not other things like paperwork or anything that concerns political matters. It's saddening how strange all of this was to me when I began to think about it in more detail because I like their relationship, but I can't help but think that some of these decisions are for plain fanservice purposes that won't be taken in consideration in this blog.

[gaydiation-poisoning]

Revali from BoTW for the character opinion bingo!

Ohhhh you're gonna get me killed by the fandom for this one, that there is a character I have some BAGGAGE with

Okay here's my thing

I kinda despise Revali And it sucks because I really REALLY don't want to

Story time

I grew up playing Wind Waker, it was my first video game ever, and from that game the Rito were my favorite race, and they remained my favorite all these years. You probably wouldn't be able to find someone more hyped than me for the return of these beautiful birds.

So. April 2017. When I got my hands on BOTW I decided I'd save the Rito zone for last, I'd kept myself blind so I could go in and experience everything purely.

So imagine my surprise when I unlock the champion I'd been most excited for, the Rito, the champion of my favorite Zelda race from my earliest childhood memories.

And he was a complete fucking douchebag

At first I was like oh :( well okay maybe we'll be given some more information on him and it'll be better!! After all characters with huge egos can be extremely fun!!!

So I maintained hope that maybe the upcoming DLC would give us something

December 2017

We got something!! A teeny tiny fragment that suggested maybe Revali's ego was just a coverup for a deeply troubled bird, it was hardly anything at all but it was something.

But then his journal made him like 10 times worse in such a way that the DLC honestly didn't do much but make him more insufferable

So I was deeply saddened, they'd given us something but simultaneously made him more unlikeable. I thought that would be the end of it. But then!! Hyrule Warriors Age of Calamity was announced. And I was THRILLED. FINALLY. we were going to get AN ENTIRE game alongside the champions, I was gonna get more content for Best Girl Mipha, and FINALLY AN ENTIRE GAME'S WORTH OF CHANCES TO GIVE REVALI SOME CHARACTERIZATION. YES!!!!

November 2020. AOC comes out. Holy. Fucking. Shit. Revali what did they do to you? To my shock he'd graduated from a little unlikeable to downright unpleasant to watch. Even my best friend, a diehard Revali fan through and through, could not STAND what they'd done with him. We got a whole game with this guy and they basically spent the whole thing trashing this guy's character. He was arrogant to the point of annoying, horribly rude to characters who had done nothing to earn it, and overall was just kinda a ballache. And not even in the 'fun annoying character' way.

But hey!! AOC was getting DLC as well!!! That is meant to flesh out the characters more!!! We'll definitely get something there!!

October 2021. Guardian of Remembrance comes out. Yeah this DLC gave us fuck all really. That goes for all the champions, but I think Revali suffered pretty bad in this regard. Some of the scenes with Tulin were cute but they didn't do much in terms of Revali's character.

And....that's where we are now. Tears of the Kingdom is on the horizon, and I highly doubt we're gonna get much on the Champions in this game but...well I've maintained hope for six years already, why stop now?

So yeah my feelings on Revali are...complicated to say the least. There's so much I love about him, his design is probably my favorite of the Champions (next to Mipha), he easily has like...the best voice in the whole fucking game, and the character POTENTIAL is absolutely incredible. But all in all it feels like they've done nothing with that potential, for what is supposed to be the most Character driven era of Zelda to date, it truly feels like they've let his character stagnate, if not actively regress in a way that I REALLY do not vibe with.

I can see what people can love about him, god knows I've done more when provided with less in a character. It's not the ego that gets me, I love cocky characters, ffs my favorite BOTW character is Master Kohga for crying out loud, and that man has a damn near god complex. (Kohga, incidentally, has LEGITIMATELY EXPERIENCED MORE CHARACTER DEVELOPMENT THAN REVALI. WHAT.)

Like I'm not saying I want his character to do a full 180, just a couple more scenes like what we got in Champion's Ballad, just a couple more cracks in the facade would have done wonders. But instead they just kept him rather one note. Feels bad man.

Ultimately it feels like they're just going in circles with this character, arguably the Champion with the most potential to be interesting and they're doing fuck all with it. I can see why people love him, but idk, I've dealt with a few people irl with egos like that and that's probably not helped.

Idk, I guess this character managed to regress perfectly into a niche I cannot stand, and it sucks because it feels like such a personal loss to me.

I guess to put it very shortly

Revali is a bully. And I'll take a full blown villain over a bully any day.

[thecoldsoldiers]

🕯️ Steve

Till the end of the line, right?

Can you stop pretending like you did a single thing for anyone other than yourself? You weren’t a good leader. You fought your friends, hid secrets from them and called on them to fight when they were happy to be healing. You assembled this team of great people and left them, abandoned them. People keep speculating you died in the battle because that would make sense. You dying in the field as a hero alongside Stark, not running away.

I used to love you, I know it was illegal but I loved you. I would have done anything to protect you. I’m here, alone. Surrounded by Stars and Stripes that are a taunting reminder of what you used to be. I’m glad you settled with Peggy, lived your life, probably had a couple of kids, all while I was being used by Hydra. What a hero.

Maybe Zemo was right, the serum changes people, makes them worse.

God. I used to love you. I miss what we used to be. How did you survive in this modern world? I’m so tired. I left a dumb flower by our old place. I can’t bear to look at those stupid statues of that facade of you in that uniform.

[chiisana-lion]

[grungekitty-77]

Not that anybody asked, but I think it's important to understand how shame and guilt actually work before you try to use it for good.

It's a necessary emotion. There are reasons we have it. It makes everything so. much. worse. when you use it wrong.

Shame and guilt are DE-motivators. They are meant to stop behavior, not promote it. You cannot, ever, in any meaningful way, guilt someone into doing good. You can only shame them into not doing bad.

Let's say you're a parent and your kid is having issues.

Swearing in class? Shame could work. You want them to stop it. Keep it in proportion*, and it might help. *(KEEP IT IN PROPORTION!!!)

Not doing their homework? NO! STOP! NO NOT DO THAT! EVER! EVER! EVER! You want them to start to do their homework. Shaming them will have to opposite effect! You have demotivated them! They will double down on NOT doing it. Not because they are being oppositional, but because that's what shame does!

You can't guilt people into building better habits, being more successful, or getting more involved. That requires encouragement. You need to motivate for that stuff!

If you want it in a simple phrase:

You can shame someone out of being a bad person, but you can't shame them into being a good person.

[kawareo]

"Imagine still posting fanart a whole year after the game came out" brother what are you talking about

[euniexenoblade]

the story of kfc fucks me up man. the colonel founded this gas station that expanded to restaurant, the chicken at the restaurant gets popular, makes KFC, it gets big and he sells it to a corporation for a lot of money. realizes he got sorta scammed out of the true worth of kfc so tries to get more money and they refuse and the courts side against him. then he starts a new chicken restaurant claiming the corporate people were not making chicken to his standards and kfc sued him because kfc owned the colonel's likeness and the courts agreed. a corporation owned this man's name and appearance. he wasnt allowed to use either, thus legally erasing his reputation making it harder for him to get taken seriously in any food venture. the man, to the day he died, was going into kfc's and throwing fits because the food had fallen into such bad shape he hated it was associated with him. and it's like, whether he's a bad man or a good man or whatever, a corporation owned his identity, stopped him from using his reputation and identity in other businesses, and refused to acknowledge his outrage that they changed his recipes and still attributed it to him. this is literally the obnoxious plot of a jay and silent bob movie, but it was this dude's real life. what the fuck.

[serial-unaliver]

I know a company that does both these things and no surprise, when you shop there, the employees are always miserable and agitated.You should kill your managers in such situations imo. The only reason I receive treatment slightly above this is i'm lucky enough to have managers who are also bothered by these business practices. The water one is especially bad if you have heat intolerance, I was so sick regularly before I switched to a department with more leniency regarding water.

Depending on where you live these things may violate labor laws though so if you're in the same situation look into it. However in my experience any labor law violations happen without consequence regardless

[sniffanimal]

uh oh! this post got too popular! time for me too append a big gif of a sniffer to the top

[ithappensoffstage]

I am genuinely so worried for all the young horny dykes going into adulthood thinking there's something "problematic" / "wrong" with them for being horny because fucking tiktok lesbians think any horny dyke content is "male gaze fetishistic"

[lobautumny]

This problem is nothing new, but this specific example with these numbers puts it into a fucking brutal perspective.

To put these numbers a different way: A Taco Bell burrito that used to cost ~7 minutes and 20 seconds of minimum wage work now costs ~30 minutes and 30 seconds of minimum wage work.

You used to be able to work at Taco Bell anywhere in the country and make enough money in one hour to buy at least 8 burritos (maybe 9 if you're a manager or something) and feed, like, 3-4 people a decently-filling meal. But now, the same amount of work at the same job will get you one meal for one person. And this change has happened over a mere 15 years.

Remember this whenever you see rich people demonize younger generations for our financial situations, when they call us irresponsible for not investing a ton of money in savings accounts.

[pteren]

hey my besties who live in red states: id like you to go out and vote anyway.

yeah, the electoral college means your vote doesn't count unless you win your state. it's a terrible undemocratic bullshit system. it's not going to change before this election,* so there isn't much point in complaining about it right now.

if you hold the belief that there's no point in voting because your voice will just be downed out by a chorus of bigotry- chances are other people in your state feel the same way. and because those people are not voting, it's impossible to know how many of you there are. the reason it's important to vote EVEN WHEN YOU KNOW YOU ARE GOING TO LOSE is to make this number public.

when the minority in a state still goes out to vote:

- other members of the minority party know they aren't alone in their state. this encourages MORE people to vote in the next election

- the majority candidates are forced to divert some of their campaign resources away from swing states to secure a state they were already going to win

- the minority candidates are encouraged to spend some time campaigning in your state instead of abandoning it as a lost cause

- assuming you also vote in local elections, the minority is more likely to win representatives in the house

- who knows there might be so many of you that you fucking flip it by mistake

there has been a 700% increase in new daily voter registrations in the few days since Biden dropped out of the race.

thousands of people are deciding, right now, that voting is worth it. some of them live in your state. there is going to be a spike in blue votes across the country. this election is going to have the youngest voter turnout in history. this is the best possible time to join them. join us.

what have you got to lose? one afternoon?