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t4transsexual · 6 months ago

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we need to normalize using certain terms as short hands. theres a lot of ways to stealth and that may include someone medically transitioning to male and telling people hes a trans man, when in reality hes nonbinary or genderfluid or multigender or agender or maybe even just a woman who transitioned, or hes questioning his gender entirely but just knows transitioning and living as a man is the right answer no matter what he is. basically if you thought someone was one thing and they tell you theyre something else actually, even if this was a recent revelation or they were stealthing, believe them

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brainmoss · 2 years ago

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God gives the greatest tits to the transest soldiers

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paintingskyblutf2 · 4 months ago

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i genderfluided so hard i lost my gender

new spy tf2 doodles

#tf2 #team fortress 2 #team fortress fanart #team fortress two #tf2 fanart #spy tf2 #tf2 spy #painting sky blu art #not gonna make a poll this time cuz I'm sure genderfluid spy hc is more popular than agender spy hc so...#I'll just say (agender) spy tf2 is just like me fr. off-topic: i am working on a tf2 au but im still yet to finalize (+draw) the designs #i'll redraw the spies from this post once im done with the designs

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cosettegf · 4 months ago

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i love the penumbra podcast and i love second citadel and i really enjoyed listening to the finale but i feel. weird about the way this show treats its female characters???

#as in... in a show that prides itself on defying gender boundaries and heteronormativity it still seems to frequently push its female and #genderfluid characters to the side? and ik it can't really be called bury your gays in a podcast where most of the characters are queer #(and i also do think it is important for a narrative to give character the endings that make sense rather than prioritising keeping alive #those who weren't meant to live past the end of the story so i'm not necessarily saying that it's sexist #or that caroline and quanyii should have lived for the mere fact of them being second citadel's only lesbian characters)#but it still does feel off somehow? i don't feel that it's easy to say that they were used as a vessel through which to keep the other #characters alive but i just ?????? i don't know if this is something that anyone else feels? i love tragedy in fiction but it just feels #as if this doesnt mean anything...i can see in part how their character arcs were complete but they deserved to have their happy ending and #rather than feeling the devastation of tragedy after having listened to this episode i only feel mild frustration that they weren't able to #live to see the world that they helped save? i think i will have to think of it as a once and future king thing where when olala rises so #too will caroline #i have had complicated feelings about this whole podcast for the last season or so but i can't tell if it is genuinely the podcast or if it #is just the fact that i dont need it as much as i used to and that my love for it hasnt lessened that instead my heart has just grown #bigger around it #so maybe im completely off base with this and that its just an extension of my weird feelings about almost all of season 5 in general but #hmm #also i did not care for caroline that much through the best part of this podcast so its not as though i am annoyed about her dying because #i loved her so much because honestly i didn't love her as much as i wanted to (or as much as i loved olala and quanyii and rilla)#and also!!! it was nice that they were able to be together and have closure!!!! i think it was well done in a general sense i just ???#i can't articulate it any clearer than this #second citadel #tpp #tpp spoilers #the penumbra podcast #the penumbra podcast spoilers

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theskullkid · 24 days ago

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gandalf: (saddled up on his horse) get a pony, loser, we’re going on an adventure bilbo: bitch what

thats how it went right

i had that in my head for too long i needed to share it with the world

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musclesandhammering · 9 months ago

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Real queerbaiting almost always has to do with an individual character’s identity rather than any romantic pairings but y’all aren’t ready to have that conversation.

#‘this show is such queerbait!’ *proceeds to talk about how two dudes didn’t kiss each other*#more often than not it’s 2 dudes the creators have said multiple times do not have romantic feelings for eachother #yet the fans always outright ignore that and act like they’ve been tricked & deceived #when like… no.. they straight up told you this gay ship wasn’t happening #& you just refused to believe them lmao #now if you wanna say ‘this was a missed opportunity to have a queer ship in this show’ then 90% of the time I’ll agree w you!#but there’s a massive difference between #‘I think this would’ve been a good chance to have a queer pairing & im bummed they didn’t take it’#and #‘I was intentionally queerbaited & these writers hate gay people’#and most of you guys are just. Unable to understand that #for example:#lokius not being canon was not qb #them butchering Loki’s genderfluidity & not acknowledging his bisexuality after specifically using it in their advertising?#that absolutely was.#destiel wasn’t qb #a missed opportunity to explore angels’ gender & sexuality? yes 100%.#johnlock wasn’t qb.#a missed opportunity to explore Sherlock’s sexuality? Definitely #yall get on my nerves screaming queerbait & crucifying creators as homophobes #just because your shitty no-chemistry-having toxic ass mlm ships didn’t go canon #after you delulu-ed & conspiracy theory-ed yourselves into thinking they would 😒#queerbaiting #fandom wank #anti destiel #anti johnlock #Loki #homophobia in fandom #johnlock #destiel

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fantastic-mr-corvid · 9 months ago

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self discovery/realizations through ocs was funny the first few times but please can it stop<3 life im begging you!! its not funny anymore!!

#so i figured out Celia's gender or should i say why she presents the way she does #and i wish it was genderfluidity or genderqueerness #i fucking wish #i uh. may be a lil more affected by something than i realized #and may not be the gender i thought i was #im like fine i just need to process this #i will be fine i just need to process & figure out what it means

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the-gayest-sky-kid · 1 year ago

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they dont tell u this but the moment you let yourself just use or not use words and stop caring is when you are truly free

#i stopped caring about my identity a while ago and just let it be whatever and like #yk what? its been pretty good #maybe i dont need to understand it and label it and write it down #maybe it can just be there. itself #and it can be whatever i want and it can change every 6 seconds just based on what flag or word I like more #or what i feel more #maybe today i feel more bisexual and asexual and arospec but tomorrow maybe im gay and aego or maybe just mspec or aromantic #maybe im all of them #maybe im genderfluid or bigender or demigendered or nonbinary or maybe im just trans. in some weird incomprehensible way #i like that one more often i think. just being that #maybe its more boy or maybe im okay being girl or a creature or nothing or maybe im just dapper yk #and you know what. honestly #maybe im just a fag!!!! and its okay!!!!!!! i can just say that because thats me #and i really like that #idk. feeling kinda teary #i just. idk i feel more secure in this than i have abt anything ever #im just this hodgepodge of everything that maybe can just be that. and if i want to name it sometimes i can name it whatever i want #sorry that got really personal i just feel. okay rn #like a good okay #personal posts and stuff idk

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foolbo · 1 year ago

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me when i want to dye my hair green and he wants to dye his hair purple so were basically t4t halcarol

#hal jordan #green lantern #carol ferris #star sapphire #they tend to draw carols costume more pink than purple but violet is closer to purple than it is to pink so #“beast boy and raven !!” no. hal and carol <3 #anyways not to say that hal and carol are already NOT t4t #because they totally are #but me and elliott are 2 trans men (kind of)#im like if a boy was genderfluid

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clownmoontoon · 1 year ago

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Are the angel and demon in good omens together for reals? You've made me so curious about the show now with all these posts and I'm like omg what's happening in the show, do I need to watch lmao I've been curious about it for a while but never seen it

HMMMMNGNGNNG THIS IS AN INTERESTING QUESTION...

i feel like youre asking me is it Canon that they have Feelings for the other or is it smth the fandom made up bc theyre ridiculously compatible and the canon wont do it for us

WITHOUT GETTING TOO SPOILERY REST ASSURED GOOD OMENS IS OUTRAGEOUSLY AND OPENLY A QUEER SHOW

with many a queer ship! (main and side and background characters!) and the two main characters are NONBINARY which makes me very very happy ;u;

💘 are the angel and demon actually in love with each other in canon?

YES ABSOLUTELY 100% AND HOPELESSLY SO <3<3<3

💔 are they together?

ATM NO BC THEY ARE PINING AND SO STUPID AND BAD AT COMMUNICATION LMAO </3

@neil-gaiman (the show creator and writer) has assured us they WILL end up together and have their 'happily ever after' and we just have to trust!

the second season just released recently (last month? i cant remember) which is why everyone is freaking out lmao neil has said that the 3rd season WILL BE THE LAST and the conclusion to this story SO WE'RE JUST GOIN A BIT FERAL BC OOF THAT S2 ENDING WAS SO GOOD AND SO EMOTIONALLY DEVASTATING

💖so is it worth the watch?

YES PLEASE DO ABSOLUTELY 100%!!! not only is it one of the few openly queer shows out there its also one of the most (if not THE MOST) diverse shows ive ever seen! not just racially but in body type (including disabled!!) and age as well!

its delightful in writing and cinematography and aesthetically!

while watching ive laughed ive cried ive held my face in horror and anticipation and every other emotion!

✨ITS VERY VERY GOOD!!!!!!!!!!✨

#^^ PICTURED: ME GUSHING ABOUT GOOD OMENS #LMAO #good omens #anon #clown honks #@'ing neil so anon can go check out his blog bc YES HE HAS A TUMBLR AND ANSWERS QUESTIONS!! HES SO NICE AND SO GOOD TO THE FANDOM I WEEP 😭#some ppl interpret them as genderfluid or agender rather than nonbinary but since im nonbinary its just a preference for me!#them having zero gender and making a point to say so is very canon tho!!

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idledreams4 · 7 months ago

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I know I'm spending too much time on Tumblr cause y'all just call me Harlenn

I just got caught off guard when someone who I know keeps calling my by my dead name did exactly that.

I'm so used to hearing the name I want to that I got blindsided and also it's making me re-evaluate my friend choices...

#like I get that its a little harder to get used to calling someone you've known for 7+ years by a new name #(as opposed to people who've known me for all of a month lolol)#but good friends at least make an effort....#or I feel like they should #how many times have I told them now that Im enby? i have a choker with the trans and enby flags on it and they keep commenting on that #they keep asking about the bigender pin on my backpack #so I feel like AT THE BARE MINIMUM using they/them for me shouldn't be that difficult #hell call me an “it” like my brother probably would if he weren't so insistant that I am a “she”#just something other than the constant deadnaming and entirely incorrect pronouns #idle speaks #queenie rambles #(if you're curious as to why I have trans enby and bigender things its bc I have no clue what the gender is half the time)#i usually tell people Im nonbinary because its a general term and easier to explain/more accepted than being bigender #i could probably get away with saying Im genderfluid but it just doesn't really feel right to me #it works if Im talking about the whole system #but not to much for me on my own #and then there's that constant question of “am I just trans and haven't figured it out yet?”#but that's pretty quickly followed by “no but sometimes I like being a girl so that can't be it”#idk #gender is weird #confusion

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glitzybunny · 2 years ago

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Its that time of the month where I question my gender and sexuality again

#i have to humble myself with confusion #are we ace? or are we pan?#settled on pan-romantic greysexual but just would say pansexual to be easy with it #plus idk im wierd idk #idk its been so long since I've been like for realsies romantically interested in someone #and I don't think I've ever been like properly sexually attracted to anyone like at all I think #it been a billion times easier if feelings were easier to pin point #JDKEJSKDWJJFKEKDKSJ #I just wanna fall in love :(((#Im actually cool with being genderfluid #I haven't had too much quarrel with it #idc what im really like called pronoun wise #I just feel wierd sometimes and im like #its time for the masculinity to come out #pffff #ignore me pls #I just wanna idk hold hands with someone and cuddle #doesnt have to be more than that #at this point idc if its romantic or not #just pls #JSJDJWJXISJQKDKENJXJDJS #im so touch starved I wanna cry #again pls ignore me im going through something right now #also the food I ate and the drink I had #its not hittinf right #I think im going insane in the membrane #insane in the brain

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thanonymousotp · 1 year ago

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hmmgfhghh....... hhffhghh,,,,,, dilf kafka

#thanon.txt #genderfluid dilf kafka real #im very normal #i said id post it and i did because i am super normal #idk what else to say other than my funny guy hcs so true #if ppl can woman fictional men for themselves then i think #i should be allowed to genderfuck fictional women for my own vibes #(HALF JOKE?)

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cosmicallyavg · 2 years ago

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i get a lot of dw edits on my tik tok fyp these days and i keep seeing the ones that are like “lgbt characters in doctor who” and like everyone sort of collectively agrees that the doctor is genderfluid and pan but a lot of them forget the ace part?? like the other ones i feel are sort of up to interpretation on how you see them but the ace one is like.. non-negotiable . to me anyway

#its The most canon one i think #i wait to see if the editor included the ace flag and im always disappointed #almost always #there are some that use it #and i appreciate it when they do #bc like yes they are basically pan bc theyve shown interest in all sorts of people #(mostly young earth ladies but there have been others)#bc theyve really only actually been romantically involved with those earth ladies #and the master ig #(which is also up to interpretation but to me its canon 💀💀)#so i can agree with pan #and then genderfluid yes #bc they can be one or the other but tbh theyre kinda everything at once while simultaneously being none at all #so to me its more like. agender/nb #but tbf thirteen did say 'its fluid' so maybe thats more canon than i think #but nah the asexual part is like #confirmed by people involved in the show #maybe not specifically stated in canon #but theres multiple instances where actors/writers said it in interviews and stuff #so for people to just Not use that flag in those edits #really grinds my gears

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skrunksthatwunk · 2 years ago

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god goromi really fucked my gender didn't she

#anyway i painted the world's shittiest stubble on myself today and wore the fanciest most hostess-esque dresses i have and GRGXZGRGRHZZGZXX #if i wasnt living in one of the US' finest transphobic hell states i would go out and i would get so many bitches like that i look SO GOOD #and it's so gender. god. t4t relationship WHEN!!!!! SOON I HOPE #someone come dote on this gnc emo boy please she's withering away without his proper care like a sickly tomodachi gf #when i get to college i could do little dorm dates n shit. maybe host drag practice nights or smth <33 #that's the dream baby #god. goromi wasnt my genderfluid awakening character but she came right after i figured it out and i latched on SO HARD #shes literally THE pillar of my gender representation. load bearing one-off gag 80% of the fandom KNOWS is More Than A Gag (me included)#god she's so genderrrrr. i need to be her STAT #when i say thats the dream the dream is actually getting to present like that openly and unafraid regularly but uh (: not. not now #but someday. and i am confident in that #if not me then someone like me #but i still hope i can wrangle up some college queers to be funny and gay with yknow. tis only a few months away!!#i gotta take it off before i go downstairs again bc frankly im not ready for my family to realize Oh It's For Real. Like You'll Act On It #she's a fragile baby bird atm and frankly i dont want them to know yet #(they know im gfluid just. i dont talk about it with my mom and she still uses she/her only. i dont think ive had the pronoun talk with her #yet though so thats not even her fault really. but i didnt wanna come out to her when i did!!! so im taking my sweet time with this)#so im stalling a bit even though i REALLY need to do work and it's gotta be downstairs </3 #anyway if people could just univerally decide to use he/she for majima interchangeably all the time so i could do that unchallenged thatd #be so cool thanks #like i know theres merit in other interpretations and i love them but what about ME #anyway. mwah i love gender sure hope nothing bad happens to it #i need to be someone's girlfriend boyfriend so badly you dont understand. ggrgrgrgrggrgrgrggrgrdbzvxzvzvzhsdhf #sorry for yearning. I'll hold it off as long as i can

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i-am-agent-washingtub · 2 years ago

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#not that it's a competition or whatever #(i havent seen the phrase opression olympics for a while lol)#but its a little disheartening to see so much about transwomen nonstop and absolutely no mention of transmen #like yeah yeah trans and nonbinary and genderfluid and whatever but ONLY as long as it's more femme than masc #and it just.... feels kind of lonely #where are all the trans men #where's the celebration and concern and consistent fucking mentioning of them?#it feels like the continuation of misogyny and underhanded terf rhetoric where trans men don't count bc theyre just #little ladies underneath it all #like they're not a threat bc theyre not really men #and they're not really in danger bc everyone knows they're not ACTUAL men and no one wants to hurt a woman!!!!#and do these people actually care about trans people or is it just trans women?#is it actually about equality and protecting all people or is it just about women again?#uwu dainty sweet women who are inherently better in every way biological essentialism again #and who would WANT to be a man lol why should we even care about trans men they're betraying womanhood by #becoming one of those men beasts #whatever whatever like i said at the start it's not a competition im so happy for all the trans women out there #it just feels a little lonely for trans guys you feel?#and i have so much more i want to say but whatever I'm being enough of a bummer

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