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if you love her go get her but "her" refers to the transfem part of you that you're repressing
#stop pushing her away#if you love her get her and integrate her into you#you are her she is you#transfem positivity#trans#bunny banter
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Camry i am begging you, open your fucking eyes manā¦
THE BEAR 3.03 ā Doors
#the bear spoilers#i love him so much#but babes#sheās right there#always#apologize for acting like a little bitch to her#and LISTEN TO HER#aaaaahhhhh#like idk if i like ship them or whatever but bro#they love each other#so much#she deserves the world#and so does he#stop pushing her away#and the whole claire thing#just aaahhh#*Snap Out Of It - by Arctic Monkeys starts playing*
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Yall i dont think im gonna be able to stop thinking about usha and g13, actually.
Ushas an old old woman, clueless with tech. Lived long enough to develop various bonds with a LOT of people and relies on them a lot for help. In turn, shes VERY loyal to her close conpanions (a great example would be how she tends to back paula up a LOT, the way she sets up russel and paula to 'fake date' wink and all). She's very warm and very emotionally intelligent even if she's a bit clueless sometimes. Her logic is borderline incomprehensible, but it has heart.
G13 on the other hand, is a hacking prodigy. Hes young, hes sought after for his skills for better and for worse. But in turn, he's essentially lost himself in the process. He may be able to scrape nuke codes, but he'll never make a friend. He lacks any loyalty for anyone and anything except for himself and his interests, and if they dont satisfy those two points, then its worth nothing to him. His logic may be sound, but its cold.
#val rambles#nsbu spoilers#never stop blowing up#dimension 20#usha rao#g13#okay ill black out and maybe think more about it again oops#anyway the conclution is that HE will be learning about the importance of la familia (threat)#i could make an addition to this. something about how despite these differences both of them have a level of percived lonliness.#something g13 is. VERY slowly starting to realize when he first sees doug#anyway following the idea that the cards favorite movies signify a degree of. what character arc ends up being#i genuinely think they WILL show him the power of la familia he isnout here trying ti takenover and suddenly BOOM familia beam (threat)#i love adding to the tags and NOT rebloging but. something something about how they push others away#where for usha it comes off as not wanting to burden others she trusts while for g13 its bc he flat out trusts no one#also episode 2 notes that usha also has a set of trust issues due to her reliance on people she DOES trust.
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Something I really like about timebomb is that Ekko actually knows what he's getting into.
I'm not really seeing it get talked about but in season 1 they mention that Ekko and the firelights help people addicted to shimmer get off it and lead more fulfilling lives within the community. I should probably rewatch the scene for the exact wording (might be misremembering tbh) but that comment implies A LOT.
First: Ekko's mission is helping people where he can, he would probably try and help Jinx even if he wasn't in love with her
Second: He has experience dealing with severe mental illness as that often goes hand in hand with drug abuse, namely depression/suicidal ideation like what Jinx was exhibiting
Third: He's probably mapped out best course of action FOR dealing with this and has already figured out his own limits/boundaries. Meaning he knew what he was getting into trying to talk Jinx out of suicide, and was thus more equipped to deal with the aftermath
Fourth: He's probably helped ex members of Silco's gang. The firelights seem to have a theme of healing and repairing and recovering, so they've probably also learned to forgive. If they're mission is to rebuild the lanes into a safe space, they can't exclude people they don't like, they have to make room for them. I think they fought Silco out of necessity, and I doubt Jinx would be the first person they help who's killed one of them.
These all might be a bit of a stretch but I think it really fits. Beyond that, it shows that Ekko can ACTUALLY help Jinx. As much as unconditional love can do, Ekko has the tools for Jinx's recovery and a path ready for her. He also probably knows that her "healthy" will look different from AU Powder's "healthy." On top of that, I expect he knows how to respect her even in the middle of psychotic breaks and won't agitate her already frail mental state
#if you would like to (respectfully) disagree with me I'll GLADLY talk with you. I can think of nothing but Arcane atm#timebomb#ekko arcane#putting it in the tags bc I want to let people agree with my timebomb takes without having to listen to my other ship opinions#uh on that note I have some Caitlyn and Vi opinions that go a bit hand in hand with this#but I think that in contrast Caitlyn and Vi are mutually self destructive#see neither of them seem to make the others mental health... better.#Vi is desperate and needs love wherever she can get it#and Caitlyn... I'm not sure. I have a hard time reading her but a lot of the vibes I get off her feel like she just likes having the power#over vi#I KNOW THAT'S A STRONG CLAIM#hear me out#Vi in her search for unconditional love does a lot of enabling#a good example is when Caitlyn arrests that henchman in episode 3(?)#Vi is VISIBLY uncomfortable with that and for good reason!#Caitlyn just locked someone up for life for... nothing?#kinda like Marcus did to her (yes Marcus was trying to protect her but I doubt that's how Vi sees it)#but Vi doesn't voice this or push Caitlyn on it#instead she asks Caitlyn not to change#not great communication on Vi's part#but also indicative of how little their values align#and how little Caitlyn actually considers Vi and her problems and history#Caitlyn doesn't help Vi heal and she turns on Vi the second Vi stops enabling her and letting Caitlyn do as she thinks is best#neither of them are ready to deal with the others problems or communicate well#again. willing to discuss this. my opinions are swayable.#I just personally found Caitlyn made the most sense and was most compelling when she was going down facist dictator path#sure she could be more but I don't think the show ever really transitioned her away from that#you can see it in the way she treats Maddy#hhhhhh I should go to bed rather than spill every last thought I've ever had
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āIāve always liked Lady Whistledown,ā Penelope said, her chin rising until her bearing was almost regal. She looked to Cressida, and their eyes caught as she added, āAnd it would break my heart if it turned out to be someone like Lady Twombley.ā
ā Chapter 11, ROMANCING MISTER BRIDGERTON
#bridgertonedit#tvedit#dailybridgerton#userteresa#userseeleybooth#tusergabriela#mikesmom#bridgerton#penelope featherington#eloise bridgerton#bridgerton s3#romancing mister bridgerton#two women battered and bruised by society telling them all the things they cannot do :(#this had to come from eloise. she's the one who knows better than anyone else what happens if you go too far in your efforts to break away#but i'm glad that el is back to her usual self. pushing boundaries again#though with more maturity. i can't wait to see her stop hating babies!!! like when she finally realizes that she doesn't hate babies she's#just not interested in ever being pregnant... claudia jessie's gonna deliver so hard (as she always does)#mine
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the thing about eliot spencer as a character, right. the thing about him.
(and as always your mileage may vary on my analyses so if we disagree that's cool actually)
is that he is in fact a somewhat emotionally constipated idiot who is occasionally sensitive about his perceived masculinity and gets defensive about emotional intimacy around other men (largely hardison, who's much more comfortable expressing affection and embracing a softer kind of masculinity), but eliot displays enough emotional awareness and sensitivity and respect for women etc etc that anyone who's been subjected to that era of television will put on rose-tinted glasses without even looking twice.
(and he is, don't get me wrong, incredibly emotionally aware for a professionally punchy guy with enough trauma to sink the titanic. it still startles me to see.)
on top of which we have the layers and the accessories and the excellent hair with the secret braids and the way he barely has an ego and he's good with kids and protective of his team without taking it too far, and some of us never stood a fucking chance.
#eliot#eliot spencer#orig#further discussion in further tags#I'm being perhaps a little critical and there are other ways to read eg the fragile masculinity moments#but I Do think they were intended this way and largely come across this way#I'm quite happy playing with a fanon eliot who's better at this shit is the thing? it feels faithful enough to the original.#but this is something I'm chewing over in a rewatch and it's interesting so far#the fact that he pretty consistently respects women doesn't stop him from treating men and women differently y'know?#the fact that his bantering with hardison expresses affection and gets quite soft over time#doesn't stop him from pushing hardison away on a semi-regular basis. often physically.#the fact that the fandom unanimously decided he's an utter gentleman in matters of dating#doesn't quite negate the time he physically stopped aimee from getting away when he wanted to talk to her#though that's one I might disregard because it's so early and I think they hadn't quite figured out the characters then#and it was admittedly a brief moment followed by very consensual happenings#perhaps. honestly. eliot may be reflecting the attitudes of the show here.#which were very progressive for the time and are still startling on several fronts now but also showing definite signs of age#arguably fanon eliot (as I understand him) is eliot adjusted for inflation. as it were.#there's a lot going on here I'm having a normal amount of thoughts about it I'm. stopping now
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psyche and medea's relationship drives me NUTS they saw the best and worst parts and learned from each other, and both of them come to the same conclusion of if there's only one person on your side, let it be me and it makes me GENUINELY ill
#both pit against each other by the same man#both team up and realize the parts that made them 'worse' or 'lesser' was what the other was missing all along#both give each other that sweet understanding by virtue of the bodyswap#medea learns to open herself up to compassion and love#and under medea's hands psyche learns the power behind rage#all because they took a tumblr and fell into the fountain of god together#FUCKFNSJFN#MEDEA GOING TO GOD'S FACE AND SAYING I DON'T BELIEVE IN A GOD THAT WATCHES FROM AFAR. I BELIEVE IN THAT STUPID GIRL#THAT PSYCHE'S IDEA OF A NORMAL LIFE STILL INCLUDES MEDEA IN IT#THAT MEDEA IS CONVINCED THE ONLY WAY TO STOP EROS IS TO CORE HERSELF LIKE A FRUIT#AND TO DO SO MEANS PUSHING AWAY THE PEOPLE THAT LOVE HER MOST IN ALL THIS WORLD#FUCKKJSKFNJFNSMKDKF#HEAD IN MY HANDS HEAD IN MY HANDS#i'm plagued by these two actually. psydea canon psydea powerful#psydea#your throne
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The reason Kevin didn't jump on the opportunity to date Gwen is because he didn't think he was good enough for her.
#ben 10#gwevin#thinking about how kevin only reciprocated after they stopped the highbreed....... y'know. when he helped save the world#HIM. kevin levin. homeless addict who tried to kill people. HE helped two people who should never give him the time of day save the world#it's proof to him that he CAN turn himself around. he CAN be worthy of Gwen#this is also why he lashes out at her in s3. because he just started thinking he could turn his life around and then that mutation happens#he convinced himself that gwen was one foot out the door because he was never worthy of her to begin with#and if he pushes her away himself then somehow it'll hurt less when she inevitably leaves#but she never does. why doesn't she?#seeing kevin actually become a happy and confident person through uaf and into omniverse goes so hard šš
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the bit in the latest rings of power between eƤrien and elendil is actually breaking my heart
eƤrien showing a vulnerable side of herself to her father and to the audience???? the hug????? elendils smile when he finally hugs his daughter after not only months of not seeing her but also months (?) of animosity between them, then the immediate shift when she accuses him of being prideful??? elendil reinforcing the belief that pharazon has instilled in eƤrien that her own father hates her and then giving her no reassurance whatsoever????? eƤriens face when she realises that pharazon was right??? eƤrien knowing that her fathers love and respect for mĆriel was stronger than any respect for her????
are they trying to kill me?????
#i didnt expect to be so invested in them#i was in it for nori and the stranger tbh#but im so invested in the entire family#isildur too#him and estrid are so mmmm#and im also such a sucker for father/daughter dynamics in media#also eƤrien get behind me i'll protect you from the fandom#they dont get you like i do#but yeah if they dont have another hug in better circumstances i will riot#i know theyre gonna die but i need them to die knowing they love each other#and i need elendil to stop unintentionally pushing his daughter futher away from him and into the hands of the men manipulating her#theyre both so interesting#and so flawed and so great#rings of power#trop spoilers#trop season 2#lotr rings of power#earien#elendil the tall#elendil#eƤrien
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Galadriel refusing to learn any lessons ever is such a win. Girlidiots everywhere getting their representation at long last
#she has made the same cocky mistakes since the beginning of the series and I love her for it#she said I refuse to ever question my instincts or change my judgement or fix my rampant paranoia or stop pushing ppl away#and stuck to it#love that#galadriel#the rings of power#trop
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it's always two impossible bitches with delusions of self control and a collapsing black star of obsession telling each other "let's keep going, it's not an addiction if we don't ever try and stop"
#they did not try. she did not try. she said i am looking away from the consequences i am lying and i am telling you i love you#this is the doctor who version of post-battlefield fucking like#she decided that if her self delusion was intense enough she could stop pretending to care when he pushes her too far#meanwhile this choice gives him Permission for all his worst infleuences#twelveclara#dw lb#everyting is FINE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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just harvey not being able to handle when donna cries.
4x15, "Intent" // 6x16, "Character and Fitness"
#darvey#suits tv#he either pushes her away or has to physically look away bc he cannot watch#and then he instantly regrets that he can't do more to make it stop.#harvey specter#donna paulsen#he's like. so helpless.
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Thinking about how Link trembled before Mipha's statue in Breath of the Wild as he remembered who she was to him, and how his heart must have ached in Tears of the Kingdom when he saw her again in the beautiful court built in her name.
#he must have been FURIOUS seeing the sludge in the court#as well as /sidon/ of all zora having to clean it up#as if the disrespect towards mipha's memory wasn't enough#tloz#loz#legend of zelda#mipha#link#miphlink#<< can be taken as romantic or platonic#imo he cared about her a lot more than he let on#because even though he put all his energy into being a picture of strength for others#he still allowed mipha to heal his wounds#he still let her see him at his most vulnerable#when he could have just been āi'm fineā and pushed her away#also ignoring nuances canon literally describes him to have been the childhood friend of most if not all zora from mipha's generation#INCLUDING MIPHA#the fact they remember him so well is a testament to his character and how much he must have loved them#ANYWAYS. this post got carried away i'll stop here
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ram + leela + guns
goliyon ki raasleela ram-leela (2013)
#i said i was going to sleep but i canāt stop thinking about Them & these parallels#their first & last meeting. their first fight with ram as the betrayer & their second where itās leela#ram saying her bullet should pierce his heart the way her gaze did when he first saw her its all so !! :(#and ram holding his hand out (sazaa de nahin to thaam le mera haath) vs him pushing leela away when she goes to embrace him !!#goliyon ki raasleela ram leela#ramleela#ram rajadi#leela sanera#deepika padukone#ranveer singh#faera's
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kuroba toichi you need to stay dead or im going to fucking kill you myself
#you sick son of a bitch#if you truly love your son you wouldnt be alive#it's bad enough that you basically left the mantle for your teenage son to take up but you actually being alive????????#you just out there living your life while your son is destroying his relationships chasing after something that you started????????#his very motivation is your death and it's not even real??? the utter fucking betrayal???#and maybe being kid has kade him a better magician and has helped him find out more about himself#but he shouldve been able to have a choice if he even wanted to be kid at all it shouldnt have been a responsibility pushed upon him#AND IF YOU ARE FUCKING ALIVE AND YOU'RE JUST WATCHING YOUR SON RUNNING AWAY FROM THE POLICE WITH PRIDE INSTEAD OF GUILT YHEN YOU CAN#GO FUCK YOURSELF#Honestly the worst#also that theory that maybe chikage is travelling the world because she KNOWS toichi is alive and she's with her elevates this fuckery into#a whole different level#anyway go read cuethesun's tomorrow and the next day#good fucking food and bad parent chikage and toichi enjoyers will be pleased ;>#lol#dc prattles#as much as i want happy everybody is alive kuroba family#i need touichi and chikage if she knows too to feel the repercussions of their horrible parenting and i need kaito to be able to let himself#feel the hurt and betrayal that he is justified to feel even if he is happy that his dad is alive#but i dont trust gosho to handle that nicely if anything i think hes gonna just handwave it and wont address it properly#anyway my point is i just need more hurt and angry kaito also if shinichi is there im happy#sorry i sneaked in a kaishin i cant stop the brainrot unfortunately theres no cure š¤š#ALSO DONT GET ME STARTED WITH BAD PARENT KUDOS OOOOOHHHH
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Idk how to say it but- Insomniac Spider-Man is like:
love is the strongest thing you have, and it will destroy you. love is the thing that makes you reach for your better self, and it's the thing that makes you your worst. love is the buoy, love is the anchor, love is the albatross around your neck and the concrete around your feet. love is the truth, and love is the lie. love will save the world, as surely as it will destroy it. love is the thing you must hold on to, and the thing you must let go of. hold on. let go. hold on. let go. itās a dance. life is the music that keeps playing long after youāve stopped. you stop dancing so the music can still play.
#in which I ramble#Marvel#Spider Man#Spider Man 2 PS5#spiderman spoilers#more to say:#the thread between Peter and Norman#where if Peter had chosen to save May then New York would have suffered#so he chose to save New York instead of her#vs Norman's repeated attempts to save Harry#causing New York to suffer over and over#and still he will not stop#Peter being saved by embracing the support system around him#vs Norman falling by pushing everyone away
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