#speaking as a younger sibling
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I get asked alot where I'm from bc I don't actually have an Irish accent and it always leads to the awkward moment after bc people just dont believe me when i say "im from Ireland i grew up in county [redated]" so I've started turning the question around on people asking them where they think I'm from and it's been pretty fun in particular today when I had two workmen around at the same time one saying I sounded "vaguely American" while the other said I sounded "nuteral polite english"
#people usually find out i have a english mother and chalk it up to her#but if you heard my mother speak youd know we have different accents#and my 4 siblings (2 younger 2 older) all have irish accents which we have the same mother#surely she couldn't target the accent at me#anyway my best guess is that its something to do with the autism/adhd/dyslexia combo#but I can't find anything online to support that theory
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I know that it's common fanon belief to see Starlo as the younger sibling between him and Orion, but I actually like the idea of Starlo being the older brother and what it means for his family dynamic. Generally, the older sibling is expected to be the more responsible and mature sibling in the family. There's this expectation that the older sibling sets an example for the younger sibling(s) and that they'll look after the family/business once the parents get too old to do so themselves. So, what does it mean when the older sibling sorta betrays those familial expectations by behaving immaturely and ditching the family to do their own thing?
I'm trying to figure out how to put this into words in a clear and concise way, but I feel like if it's a case of Starlo being the younger brother, then there's this sorta "Ah, that's just the younger brother acting like a kid, y'know how it is. He'll grow out of it" dynamic, whereas if Starlo is the older brother, then it's more of a "Okay, he should've grown out of this by now, why's he still acting like this? Even Orion is more mature than him; what is going on?" sorta deal. (This frustration would be especially felt by Orion, who has to pick up Starlo's slack in his stead because his older brother isn't mature enough to work like he's supposed to!!!)
These are just personal musings, don't take my word as gospel! You can still do tons of interesting things with the Sunnyside family while having Starlo be the younger brother and Orion the older one. I just find myself gravitating more towards seeing Starlo as the older sibling.
#idk how much grounds i have to speak on this because I'm the youngest sibling in my family and I'm not all that close with my older sibling#(nothing crazy going on there. we just grew into different people and we don't interact much in our daily lives)#but like. with older siblings there's generally all these heavier expectations around you. you're supposed to be what your#younger sibling looks up to. you're supposed to set the bar that the rest of your siblings get measured against.#so what does it mean when--from the family's perspective--you set the bar pretty low by running off from your family/responsibilities#and dedicate your life to LARPing as a cowboy?#obviously Starlo's family loves him. but they don't seem all too supportive. Orion is annoyed by his brother's antics.#Crestina expects him to grow out of it. Solomon is the most positive about it but that's bc he thinks that Starlo did it to#indirectly save the family business.#they only seem to come around post true-pacifist when Starlo opens up to them more and they sell corn in the W.E.#there's something that's lingering on the tip of my tongue about this but i can't articulate it.#something something age =/= maturity and all that? i guess?#char: starlo#char: orion
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Can we all consider the thought of how Zane might be physically older than all the other ninja, but mentally speaking he’s also just a teenage little shi
He’d be the middle child of the lot and you can’t deny me of this. He is NOT mentally 50 do you see that guy
He’s that one weird sibling you always have to teach stuff too despite them having more potential than you and you’re just stuck with it.
Zane is not mentally older than Cole, or even Kai of were being honest here. Everyone is aware of this fact and none of them have the heart to break it to him that no one considers him the oldest. Ancient nindroid or not.
#lego ninjago#ninjago#ninjago zane#i see so much of zane being physically the oldest since he’s a nindroid#but like mentally speaking no he isn’t#did you watch the early seasons#younger sibling energy there man#not youngesy but definitely younger#zane ninjago#zane julien#in dragons rising hes the same as the other og four on his late 20s to thirties#menatlly speaking#tbh they probably only tak einto consideration of mentally ages too#with lloyd and zane and coles whole ghost thing being a thinv#cole couldn’t age during it and tha ehole ghost thing might’ve been a year or a half#soooo#yes im speaking from#experience
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saints im gonna need you to elaborate on regulus and ron. please.
ok i’m going to need you to meet me on the level of like. ron is sent back on an order time-turner mission to keep harry’s parents alive, or something similar.
everything is going swimmingly - its wonderful and grief-inducing to see young sirius, young remus at hogwarts - but this is ron. and i think, ever since learning about the locket, something just doesn’t sit right with him about the idea of a neglected younger brother saving the world and then dying alone & unacknowledged. ESPECIALLY because young!sirius reminds him so strongly of bill. nothing could be more offensive to ron than regulus’s ending.
so ron seeks him out. he meddles. and he knows that isn’t technically the POINT of his mission, but he just wants to know firsthand what regulus was LIKE. and he is entirely unprepared for how quiet and dear and noble and tragic regulus- neglected by everyone else- actually IS.
meanwhile regulus is completely blindsided. and has no idea how to deal with this jocular, handsome gryffindor (friends with the marauders! his brother!) who is CONVINCED - for mysterious reasons he cannot and will not explain - that despite all evidence to the contrary, someday regulus is going to be very brave. and that regulus is an unshakably good person.
#a#OOGGH the difference in their upbringing - both younger brothers in the shadows of their sibling(s)#except ron was clearly raised in a loving household and regulus’s couldn’t have been further from that?#help me#starweasel#<- what do yall know about this .#saints speaks 🐇
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Travis Stoll in my wips: I hope Connor is safe. I will literally fucking lose it if one more sibling of mine dies. I want my mom but I watched her die and my dad just basically told me to be the dad now, but i'm too much like him and I am barely hanging by a thread and want to run. I know i'm always smiling but the light inside me is dying, Percy/Thalia/Dad, I cant fucking do this no more im so tired.....*suddenly grins* I love my wife/Percy and snakes :)
Connor in my wips: *in a Burger king crown* Walking around New York with my boy twink situationship whom I piss off with Hamilton music (Malcolm), my besties (Lacy and Drew) and this satyr I found in detention with anxiety (oc: Satyr, they didn't ask his name) probably gonna go almost die or have an emotional breakdown about my sexuality on a roof to a Gigi Perez song! Travis, don't leave me ever🥺
#Travis is an older sibling. He can not help but revolve everything around his siblings#Connor is a younger sibling and regularly sends Drew brainrot#wolffox speaks#pjo#percy jackson#the difference between them is that one of them has a support system cause everyone he comes across that's not Luke or Hermes adopts him#and the other is basically his father#The Stoll brothers#Connor Stoll#Travis Stoll#Travis wants to be a Herpetologist when he's older and actually manages to let go and move on with his life#Connor is a theatre kid and wants to irritate Malcolm till the latter either kills him or marries him#Fable is Connor's song to me
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Arthur Bennett was chemically made in a lab for me to go insane over I think. he’s got a guilt only an older sibling could have and a drive for vengeance that is half driven by his own self hatred. yet still he strives for peace. he’s desperate to cling to any humanity, any hope. he’s aware he’s fallible. it doesn’t save him
#he’s also a fuckin vampire sniper dude#tell me that’s not the hottest thing you’ve ever seen. I’ll wait#ok but fr#it’s that he’s so desperate and so angry and he wants so desperately to bring about peace but he just fails#he becomes so unrecognizable at the end and it’s so tragic bc you can see every moment he could have chosen different. but he doesn’t#he’s self aware of his failings and that’s part of his failings ironically enough#and that combo of older sibling guilt and survivor guilt and I’ve done terrible things guilt is fuckin unreal#he wants to be human and live in the sun and have this world of peace. but it’s a future he’d burn down for the twins without question#there’s no way he should have made it out of that arena. he’s always ready to sacrifice himself for the twins (for his younger siblings) bu#he just always survives. that seems to be his curse. so now he has to live with himself. now he has to face a future and try to get better#or fall further down. and I’m obsessed with him because as much as he could get better he really could just get so much worse#he knows he has the monster inside of him. he knows what to avoid. he knows what he could have become. and still he becomes it#if you saw this on twt hi lol#jrwi#jrwi the suckening#the suckening#the suckening spoilers#jrwi spoilers#arthur bennett#z speaks
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I am actually (tentatively) intrigued by moonpaw's mind ghost. the idea of an entity that can make themselves look identical to you and appear to other cats (sometimes?) and maybe do nefarious things with your face is a fun spooky concept.
I don't know how long my intrigue will last, but it exists for the moment
#yarrow speaks#the elders' quest spoilers#wc changing skies spoilers#wc changing skies#the elders quest#i like spooky ghost shit#not starclan ghost shit necessarily but whatever this is#although i am puzzled by the decision to just make them a separate littermate#making moonpaw a chimera specifically seems as though it was the inspo for this being haunted by a dead twin idea right??#however weird the implications of that are#i feel like they must have changed their mind later on and pivoted to just making them a fully separate sibling#maybe that will be for the best.#but this has very strange implications for how ghosts/spirits work#not that erins care about that. but my canon-world fanfic does.#of course they could always reveal the ghosts identity to be something else entirely and not even her dead sister#moonpaw doesnt see her as a kit when she is standing behind her so that implies to me she is aging alongside moonpaw as if she never died#at least in appearance obv#i would assume her mental state influences how she looks as a ghost. like how starclan ghosts often appear as their younger/happiest selves#until proven otherwise anyway
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Day 5 was Family Man
“He’s got an aim like his mother’s.”
@officialrhysandweek
#if you’ve ever had younger siblings or changed a diaper in general there’s a 90%’you’ve gotten peed on#being high lord isn’t going to protect him#honestly there should be way more cute dad Rhys#holy shit tho can babies winnow???#what a fucking nightmare parenting job that would be#what if Nyx learns to speak mind to mind before verbally?#this kid is going to learn to be soooooooo sneaky with two mind reading parents#officialrhysandweek#I have questions now about how magic works for children in this universe#acotar#maasverse
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i could see there being some kind of story there where mike and nancy used to break each other's stuff (on accident, like siblings do, not on purpose like billy). imagine in season 5 there's a quick little "hey mike, remember when you broke my walkman?" that's treated like insignificant sibling banter, but like most things about this suspicious family, it's secretly super significant
BE SERIOUS
#stranger things#those damn wheelers#speaking as a younger sibling#mike is most likely to do the breaking#because he would've been a little baby#but they've both been shown barging into each other's space so it could go either way
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When your older brother is still shorter than you despite him having years to grow up
Diego: You haven't grown at all!
Five: I'm sick of it- It's always the same damn joke every time I visit you!
#tua fanart#the umbrella academy#five hargreeves#diego hargreeves#Apologies in advance for any grammatical errors#It sound fine in my head but then again I have confused some words before 🥲#my doodles#I'm trying something different with the style#This is directly inspired by the fact my younger sibling is taller than me#I firmly believe Diego would continue speaking Spanish post-kugelblitz
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having ur older siblings tell u abt their life when they were ur age is such a crazy experience
#same with finding out what ur younger siblings do. like ew wdym u pursue romantic relationships get out ur like 7 in my eyes#jude speaks 🦢 ༉‧₊˚.
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hello.
pantalone w/ a younger sibling!reader (or older.... but that changes the plot slightly!) who runs the most popular chain of casinos in teyvat. shockingly, pantalone doesn't chide or chastise them or look down upon them for their choices. he encourages it, actually.
the house, his darling younger sibling, always wins. and his rivals always wind up in further debt because of them <3 even if they lose, ultimately, they still win. it's a fucked up game rigged in their favor, but really, is that not how all casinos work?
he can't be mad that they're supporting him the only way they know how... well, it's not the only way they know how, but they're supporting him with what they're best at. and he can't really be mad, not really--every time he looks at his sibling, he is reminded of how they really are cut from the same cloth as him.
#aphelion speaks 🌸#cw gambling#tw gambling#HEAR ME OUT THIS DYNAMIC IS SO.#pantalone who is downright possessive of his wealth#and then his younger sibling who is... not!#but both siblings share that suffocating air of arrogance. one look at [name] and it's SO obvious who they're related to +#+ based on their attitude alone.#they're not cheating in any way and they get annoyed when people suggest it. they're just really good. +#+ they lose sometimes too... sometimes. they're just a good strategist with an even better poker face. just like their brother fr
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I’m from PH too but it’s not everyday we see a 19 year old like you. You look and act like a minor
Dude, I'm literally turning 20 this November. Look, I'm just as in denial of my age as much as you are, but I'm sorry to break it to you I just look like this 💀💀💀 I got nothing, dude. I'd rather someone tell me 'Wow, you look young for your age!' especially since the whole internet seems to be terrified at the prospect of ageing. I'll just take it as a compliment and move on with my day.
And since you apparently know how every single 19-year-old act then tell me, how do you want me to behave? And how do you want me to convey that through fucking text? What, do you want me to capitalize my words? Use proper punctuation and grammar? Ooh, do I seem like a big girl to you now that I'm typing properly?
Do you want me to spell it out for you? I play a character here, you fucking dumbass. You don't know me. You can't just sum up my entire personality solely from text posts and some art alone. If you seriously think I 'act' like this irl then, boy, do i have news for you.
Not everything you see here on the internet is the full picture. It may come as a huge surprise to you but I don't show the entirety of my personality here. The fact I even have to say that to someone who I assume is older than me is laughable. You'd think for someone who thinks they can spot a minor, they'd be smart enough to know that.
Every time i post something in this blog, I'm not thinking whether it's 'a true reflection of my soul' or whether 'I'm conveying my real self'. I'm not thinking any of that bullshit. I just try to think of a joke or do something entertaining so I can get a snort from another stranger on the other side of the planet. I admit most of them are a hit or a miss but I like making people laugh. I like getting a 'lmao' from another person, it's nice. And my art is just shit I draw during my free time. It's really not that deep. This is such an unserious blog.
Maybe, that's why you're saying I act like a minor? It's because I'm immature, overdramatic, over-the-top, or annoying? When we grow up do we just suddenly become just as miserable as you? Is that it? Everyone matures at a different age, some minors act more mature than me because of various circumstances. Oh, but they're adults, right? Cause they have more emotional maturity? Cause they act more professional? Cause they're more serious?
If you think I'm lying about my age or whatever then unfollow me, block me for all I care. Make the both of us happy.
#this is such a huge waste of my time but i do want to clarify this since i /am/ running a blog thats not suitable for minors#ofc im not saying my whole personality is fake. i am being me just amplified tenfold#do you think all those youtubers are running around screaming 24/7?#okay in hindsight maybe youtubers arent the best example here but you get my point#i guarantee you if you met me irl god you would be so fucking disappointed#as for looking young im not surprised i get it all the time#i have a little brother whos way taller than me so i always get mistaken as the younger sibling. hell even my classmates were surprised#when i said i was a year older than them#and who's 'we'? theres more of you bozos? are you speaking for an entire country now?#this is why i should just stfu and stick to art. it's boring as hell but at least i dont get to interact with idiots like these#people like you ruin my fun#franswers
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ness loves it when you have any kind of familial issues but with father / mother issues in particular he is so so happy because it means you are rootless just like him . makes him want to tuck you into his ribs and keep you safe. your parents weren’t good to you but he is, isn’t he? he doesn’t need his parents, and you don’t need yours. not when you have each other
#i fear he loves a reader who is isolated and feels a staggering loneliness in their very being#ness is very kind towards your friends it’s family he’d get jealous of <- so i think he’s relieved to hear you don’t speak to them much.#well . i think he’d get along with your sisters n younger siblings ….#would he just have brother beef LMAO …#ari noises ✩
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Saya is stronger than me if i found out my brother has been ghosthunting with a scummy chimney who trashtalk him 24/7 i would haunted clowned his ass for his trash taste and his boyfriend cuz if there’s anyone who can pissed him off it’s me
#speaking as a someone with older sibling#death mark spoiler#death mark#death mark game#spirit hunter death mark#spirit hunter#its a rule for a younger sister to bully their older brother#death mark yashiki#death mark saya#kujou saya#saya kujo#yashiki kazuo#kazuo yashiki#kujou masamune#masamune kujou#yashita#satoru mashita#death mark mashita#mashita satoru#death mark meme#death mark posting#look if youre gay could atleast pick someone better
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if chris had an older sibling he'd be 20% more well adjusted than he is now. if chris had a younger sibling he'd be 20% less adjusted than he is now
#this is based solely on vibes i don't have any real justification for this ghlkdsjfkl#i feel like being responsible for a younger sibling would make him so much more high strung though i will say that#obviously it would also depend on other factors like the sibling's gender and how close they are and their age gap and etc#but as a general guide this is what i feel in my soul#chris bean#marshy speaks
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