#sorry if this got a little rambly

[fenny-self-ships]

GUYS MY BEST FRIEND MADE ME A LITTLE POUCH!! LOOK AT IT LOOK AT IT-

It has all of our INITIALS on it and our little SYMBOLS and I filled it with COINS just like they would have wanted 🥰🥰 this is now one of the greatest things I own

The lovely lady who made it for me just made a selfship blog by the way!! My darling Ada is @kurooscopy if any of y’all wanna check her out 😈😈 she is super cool and a very talented writer thank you Adaline for making my whole week

[havegaysex]

I think it's most important to accurately set expectations in a relationship. Explaining your cptsd and needs at the beginning of the relationship is a huge part of that. Him thinking you were exaggerating is his fault.

In future relationships starting out by explaining your needs and accommodation needs is so important and it's awesome that you already are doing this. It's important to continuously set expectations that are reasonable, and this is true for both parties for what you need and what you can give.

My partner and I both have cptsd and a lot of childhood and ongoing trauma. I'm physically disabled and she's not, but my partner has more active ongoing family trauma than I do. We communicate it with each other on what we can give and what we need.

When I need more than my partner can give we try to find a middle ground. If I'm crying and want comfort but they are emotionally drained maybe my comfort for the time being is that I cry and she brings me some weed and we sit together while I cry so I'm not alone, and later when she's a bit recharged she'll give some words of comfort. If one of us says we'll do something before the other gets home and that thing isn't done we try to offer a heads up and a simple explanation as to why we didn't do what we said we would, and not some half ass excuse the actual reason why, on some days that's because I said I would do the dishes but then I slept all day, sometimes it's that they said they would clean the bedroom but got a call from family and cried the rest of the day. What's important is that there's open communication both ways.

You communicating your needs and someone else thinking you're exaggerating your needs isn't your fault.

It's important for the other party to communicate when they feel they are being asked too much. And it's important for you to be ready to receive that kind of communication and work with it.

Hey Kat, the last anon reminded me of something I'd been thinking about. Do you think it's unethical to ask for more than you can give in return in a relationship? My last boyfriend broke up with me over this, I thought it was reasonable at the time, but since he and his friends who I believed to reasonable people all seem to think im some sort of monster for this. It's not as if I sprung my need for accommodations on him suddenly (I have CPTSD and it's... kinda bad), I did my best to lay it out when he first asked me to go out. It appears he believes I was exaggerating.

Now I'm wondering if its my responsibility to just say no to potential partners because it's not going to be fair to them. I'd appreciate someone else's perspective if you're willing to give it.

I think that in any relationship, you should support your partner to the best of your ability while communicating openly about your needs and boundaries as you go. And I definitely don't think that having more care needs than your partner or needing more help than most people makes you inherently unworthy of a relationship. It's obviously something you need to communicate, and something a potential partner has to know and consent to, but it's not something that makes relationships impossible and it definitely doesn't make you unworthy of love and care. Because to the right person, the things you can give in return will be worthwhile.

[kaleidoscopiccc]

oh you hate musicals? oh so youre allergic to all fun and whimsy then? youre against all joy and giddiness brought in front of you huh? you just hate any and all happiness and silly times dont you?

[redwitchrune]

had some time to think and watch people watch the minecraft movie trailer, and i think I've realized my main gripe with it. out of all the directions they could have chosen, why did they go with the one they did???

like. okay. i watched both phil and mumbo watch the trailer who had very different and opposite thoughts. i think mumbo was right in that it seems like it's trying to be an absurd, camp, and silly movie that makes fun of itself. the style (how ever mismatched) leans into that and the humor seems to go in that direction. and I think for what it's trying to be (camp, absurd, making fun of itself), it will probably be an okay movie! the focus won't be on minecraft, it will be on the minecraft world, if that makes sense. the look and mechanics over the feel and vibe.

on the other hand. i hate that they chose this direction. minecraft is such a game of stories, of the hidden stories, of what you make of the mysterious and wonderful world around you. you have the end poem. you have the music. you ha e the ruins. you have new expiernces and wonder and fear. yes it's a big world, but it also feels small. it's just you! in this abandoned and recovering world. and it loves you.

it just feels like that whole aspect of the game doesn't matter here. it's just the surface level appearance, mechanics, and look of the game. it honestly feels more like minecraft legends than normal minecraft, but even then it's missing the whimsy of legends.

yes it looks bad. yes it has like four different art styles. I think for what they're trying to do it will be Okay at best. but what it could've been. that's the real loss. It could've been about nostalgia. about love. about the universe. about making your own world with your own hands. about the quiet emptiness left behind you now have to live in. those raw experiences that won't be considered. whatever

[bloobydabloob]

Holy shit I love your Dirk interpretations, it's so true and I could talk about this shit forever. I feel like another part of his character that people seem to forget (along with Roxy for some reason) is that he's from the future in solitude in an apocalyptic wasteland. I just see that part of his character always removed which is disappointing because I feel like that's a pretty big part, especially regarding his themes around technology, his brother's theme of Time, his own isolation, and how he plays in the vastness of the universe and spacetime.

Art I drew related to the subject because I like to respond to asks with art.

But absolutely. I certainly understand where the lack of discussion over his isolation + upbringing comes from, considering a majority of the fanbase that I have seen builds their ideas based on their own version of postcanon. I’m not entirely sure how that would be fixed, but certainly even in the somewhat recent past I would see a lot more content regarding his upbringing both literally and symbolically. I don’t have much to add regarding the things you’ve mentioned, because they just are what they are. Dirk being confined to a singular room left to him by a father figure he never met, in a future where the only other person left on the planet is someone he cannot pursue a relationship of because of himself, with purely 3 robots to keep him companion, one being an exact replica of his own brain who is *also* trapped inside a pair of glasses, is about as literal as it gets to me.

The contrast to me involving the flooded, organic world in comparison to the little speckle of Dirk’s apartment packed with the dude and his technics is not only a representation of his isolation and entrapment within himself, but also of his lack of control. I think his obsession with & themes of control are a direct product in the case of Dirk specifically *of* this kind of upbringing. His themes of technology are also related to his themes around control. So much of his character is actually revolved around this to me like so much. Dirk is so deeply disconnected from humanity in every way and so much of his character + symbolism is based around that.

It doesn’t even have to be about the symbolism or anything though. It’s just pretty *interesting* in the literal sense that he lives in the middle of the ocean in the future. There’s not only a lot to theorise on to do with his young life there, but on how it might affect him in the way he acts for the rest of his life. The latter part is probably what I see mentioned the most by people talking about Dirk regarding this, I’m surprised I don’t see more discussion on the former too though. I really ought to actually talk more about Homestuck stuff on here. I will do it myself.

Roxy & Dirk’s relationship is largely ignored though because there is a narrative a certain demographic spreads that Dirk resented and blamed Roxy for her interest in him, and thus too many people believe that their relationship was or would continue to be an abusive one. Realistically, I believe it’s important to acknowledge that the way Roxy treated Dirk regarding his homosexuality wasn’t right while still acknowledging the obvious amount of respect and admiration Dirk had for Roxy. I mean we have a huge piece of dialogue from their post trickster mode conversations on the quest beds from Dirk purely stating how he feels about Roxy that people completely ignore somehow. I think this usually happens to characters that are women though. I know everyone says it, but it is true. Jane gets the exact same treatment of boiling her down to solely her negative aspects. The things I see completely mischaracterising both of them are horrific.

I mean how much more explicit can it get that their relationship is obviously very important to Dirk? But I digress. I think the best or I should say “most interesting” interpretations of their relationship usually come from DirkRoxy shippers actually.

I would be interested to hear about Dirk’s relation to his brother’s theme of time though. I don’t have any thoughts on this and I don’t recall ever hearing anyone talk about it before. If you or anyone else would be willing to enlighten me I’d be thrilled.

[liecanthrope]

wait because seriously being an adult therian fucking rips, especially when you start being independent.

dog with a blog? nah. dog with a JOB. i come into work with my tail and my theta delta necklace and the building implodes from my sheer swag. weirdo teenagers love me. also having your own paycheck means you can get whatever gear/treats you want (once bills are paid, of course - bet youve never heard a dog say that!)

living in your own apartment? well the pet limit is 2 but if i include myself im going over the limit. whoops! good thing i love lying to landlords (fuck landlords). living alone (no roomie) is even better bc theres no one to judge you for your animal habits. i can make a huge den in the living room and who is going to stop me?

i even have my own health insurance. bro. imagine being a dog with medicaid. im climbing the walls and howling and barking. i love being a dog filling out government paperwork.

having your own vehicle? THIS DOG CAN DRIVE! if i feel like going to the lake i can just go to the lake! nobody is stopping me! midnight ride with the windows down to howl at the moon? yes please!!

you can literally just go wherever bro. i moved 11 hours from my hometown to the mountains to feel more at home. i lived in the great plains and now i can just go out for a hike in the rockies and howl at the sky.

being an adult therian slaps so fucking hard i cant wait for the youth to grow up and experience the joy of freedom. yes being an adult is incredibly stressful but if youve been stifled living with family, you get a real chance to develop who you truly are. adult therians i love you im rubbing against your neck and mixing our scents. mwah.

[howlonomy]

Monster Clover, like this is so awesomecool.

They're such a little beast and it is amazing and please i need more, like written text even i just need the juicy lore and emotional moments that are circling in ur brain.

HAT: RETRIEVED!!

[royaltea000]

Pose practice! ᕦ(ò_óˇ)ᕤ

[bandtrees]

they would get divorced in one universe just to find eachother in another one

alternatively titled: sometimes you're the level-headed token flesh-head impulse-control-and-polycule-member of a stubborn, eccentric, and hearty telephone-headed drug addict, and there's cruelty in the world you deem fit to suicidally fight, and that either goes about as well as you'd expect it to, or you learn about love and the value of your life and junk along the way

[radioactive-earthshine]

NGL I have STRONG opinions about digital releases omitting the letters to the editor section of older comics. I feel like the letters are a part of comic history and should be aggressively preserved.

[quirkle2]

glowing freckles cuz i think that's sick as hell

[abs0luteanarchy]

sketch page

[antennatoheaven]

meta knight is the character ever. he got to wish for literally anything he wanted and he wished to fight against the strongest warrior in the galaxy, he has zero communication skills, he didn't like how everyone lazes around all day so he decided to overthrow the government and failed, his ship has his face plastered on the front for no reason, he decided to go down with said ship, he has a strict moral code but is willing to throw hands with an 8 year with no hesitation, he keeps getting his ass kicked by said 8 year old, he has a sweet tooth and feels the need to hide it even though literally everyone around him loves sweets. he's punched jk rowling in the face

[zipora666]

I know I said welcome home but-..I add some fandoms they be happy to be with it!

my happy energetic girls!!!✨💖🧡❤️

Pinkie pie Mabel and Julie just fitting so well! My fav girls!!!

[l3viat8an]

(Crackposting ahead)

My thighs clap when I run upstairs. I’m not ashamed. I think any of the boys hearing that would probably have them laughing their ass off but also probably hella turn them on secretly

Ayyy my thighs do that too! I love it XD

You’ll get a rather hilarious mix of reactions too! From the boys laughing to trying to hide their boners jsjsjsj

Like Mammon and Asmo are pretty much shameless, probably standing at the bottom of the stairs watching you run up (he gets a good view of your ass this way too) and trying to hide his boner-

Although Mammon claims he’s only there to keep an eye on Asmo ‘n make sure you don’t fall down the stairs or somethin’. like anybody is going to believe that jsksj

Lucifer acts completely unaffected, but he’s going to his office to hide his little chuckle-

Satan and Belphie would be laughing so hard, but you already know how much he loves your thighs!- They make wonderful pillows! and earmuffs too!!-

Beel is drooling- although he’s almost always drooling over you.

Is it too much to say Levi’s probably running back to his room immediately to jerk off- maybe- at the very least he’s definitely running back to his room to hide his hard on.

[hoodiemanic]

Hey everyone!! I was super surprised about my op comic getting 3k notes ૮꒰⸝⸝> ̫ <⸝⸝꒱ა Thank you so much ♡

Somebody said something about part 2 and who am I to say no? So here is the continuation :D Also in this au Sabo regains his memory slightly before Marineford

Don’t let his stoic expression fool you, Dragon has a bunch of makeup on his face to hide the bruise (Sabo did indeed punch him :) )