#sorry for the vent i am simply
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honeysuckle-fae · 11 months ago
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I <3 ptsd I <3 locking myself in the bathroom to hide from my mother I <3 feeling like she would just open the door to talk to me if I didn't lock it I <3 knowing that when I was a kid we weren't allowed to lock doors and I <3 that if we did she'd just unlock them with her fingernail <3
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inkly-heart · 6 months ago
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please don’t be sad little sprout, you are loved 🌱 🖤
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kyonite · 6 months ago
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every day I see someone online like "all my friends hate me" and I want to shake them by the shoulders like. that is a mean thing to say about your friends!! they don't deserve that. It's such a hard lesson to learn and you have to keep internalizing it until you die but you all need to fucking start sometimes!!! if ur friends are ur friends then they don't hate you. that is how friends work. I'm sorry your childhood was bad or you've had toxic friend groups in the past but it is mean to your friends to continue to think this when they've given you no reason to. It is a mean thing to think about them.
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purpurussy · 4 months ago
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#tw suicide#idk i feel like i am probably gonna kms after TIT#i would do it sooner but i asked one of my friends to come with me and it would suck if i made him go alone#and it is something to look forward to which is helping me hang on i guess#but ughhhh once uni starts again in september i know everything is gonna fall apart.#i already got an extension on my thesis due to being a useless shell of a person who can't motivate themselves to do anything atm#but i was supposed to get some work done over the summer and have so far done nothing#hence why i want to kms before i have to talk to my fucking supervisors again and admit yet again that i simply cannot do this 😭#and it's not just this. my executive dysfunction has been so bad over the past couple of years and it's only getting worse#to the point where i can't imagine being able to work at all. and if i can't work i can't get out of my parents house#and then what the fuck is the point.#every time i see someone on here talking about bonding with their parents over dnp I'm like damn what's it like#to have parents who actually want to talk to you DSFGJJKL i know they let me live in their house at my big age#but that's only bc id literally be homeless otherwise and they're not like evil. they just don't love me#also went through a deeply embarrassing breakup recently#tl;dr ive been in love with this person for over a decade and i thought they were the dan to my phil or vice versa.#then after 10 years they left me and i'll spare the details but it has me wondering if they ever loved me#i thought it was a ���let's live together and get a cat one day” relationship#but now i feel like for them. it was just a “sex and video games” type situation#i am trying soooo hard to at least be creative bc that makes me happy sometimes but it's hard to not be overly critical of myself#and now im getting to a point where i can barely even find any joy in this space any more. for a bunch of reasons#most of which revolve around me being extremely sensitive. and this is like my last bastion of dopamine so that fucking sucks#idk i don't see the point in my life any more. a social worker actually told me recently that i should consider euthanasia so.#it's just completely over for me i fear#this is not even mentioning all the damn migraines. and all the other ways in which my body simply doesn't work properly#sorry for this weird ass vent I'm not in therapy any more bc i couldn't find a therapist willing to treat me+all my diagnoses at this point#and im scared my friends will stop wanting to talk to me if i talk to them about this. several of them already have#the 2 friends i have left anyway. that's a whole other thing. when they said it's hard for autistic ppl to make friends i took that persona#so uh at this point it's vent here or develop a substance abuse problem. and im already halfway to having a substance abuse problem#anyway dan and phil for the love of god please fucking post something tonight. unfortunately you are my only hope
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arsenicflame · 4 months ago
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the cycle
-i feel stable enough to start to reach out and reply to my friends
-social interaction makes me feel good
-i feel like i can do things, i start having ideas and want to create
-i start to upswing hard
-everything starts to feel like its got to be the best thing the world
-theres a tipping point
-everything starts to feel like its the worst thing in the world
-i run out of energy to message people
-i start to feel bad about not replying or being able to keep up with the things i started planning
-i realise i have to remove myself from all situations that are feeding into the downswing
-i consciously do not interact with friends, still feeling bad about it, but knowing its like knocking a pendulum
-i stop existing as a person on 99% of levels
-i start to balance out, feeling hollowed out and barely human, but not hitting any low lows & generally sitting stable
-i think i feel calm enough to start replying to friends
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dandyshucks · 1 month ago
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man I can't even be mean to myself w the idea of Guz anymore djfkdl its been so cemented in my brain that he loves me that i tried to be angry-mean at myself during a breakdown a little while ago and tried to tell myself that he'd be disgusted w me and hate me but i honestly didnt believe that at all and it felt silly to even say it to myself 😭😭 all i could see in my mind's eye was him being worried and trying to help, i couldn't even conjure up the idea of him hating me or being angry w me 😭😭 and now i feel a little silly like maybe im crazy for being so convinced that he'd love me but aaaaaauugghh okay im not gonna go into some sort of stupid morality spiral over that omfg its literally fine. I am not a bad person for thinking fictional character would love me. even if its not Normal™ i dont think it's actually hurting anyone or immoral. its fine its fine its fine lol
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echo-is-super-cool · 3 months ago
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please stop.
i am not giving anyone money unless i know them well enough to.
i know those who give these are in war, but i can not fix that.
i can not stop a war.
i don't need to have guilt pushed down on to me for something i can not give.
i can not help, and stop war.
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a-s-levynn · 8 months ago
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suddencolds · 8 months ago
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#not snz#more musings 📝 / mini vent:#not sure why my social battery is so limited 😭 and also so inconsistent#i feel like i can't sustain the amount of... like continued/consistent enthusiasm i see others giving esp in group settings#i just don't know how to engage in that way without burning out#over the past few weeks i've been stuck in like#a strange state where i can't muster the energy to properly respond to even the people i'm most excited to reply to#which is strange??#(and if that is you i am sorry 😭 i love you and i will get back to you)#i think i can't even like manage to get myself into the mindset of enjoying something for myself (eg. a conversation with a friend)#i think a part of it is the stress from work leeching into my personal life#i feel like i've been working so hard and for such long hours but its the kind of work where the progress i've made is very hard to track??#:( i just want to be off of ******* work so i can work on ******* work again#i also want to get ahead enough on everything in my life so that i write y+v D:#i feel like i haven't had a properly restful day in weeks... even over the weekend i was busy attending to others' needs#i just want a break from it all... but i dont have enough time to take off... but i dont know how much more of this i can take#i remember also feeling during uni like i was drowning#like there were simply not enough hours in a day to deliver everything i promised. it's such an awful feeling#i just feel defeated. like i've felt exhausted for weeks and weeks on end and like i spend every waking hour working on something or other#but ofc there is nothing to do but to keep at it 😭 other people can handle all of this and more#there are so many people i refuse to let down
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fruutbaag · 1 month ago
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i barely feel like a person sometimes ngl
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theheroand · 10 months ago
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I need to stop engaging in things that make me compare the attention I get with others. unfortunately if I want to exist on the internet at all I have basically no choice. sorry about that 😔😔
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morphestic · 3 months ago
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I wish to be part of something so badly but my boringness and fear of creating bonds stop me from joining anything
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blushy-tigerrr · 9 months ago
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can’t sleep. feeling sad and anxious. not a good time. :(
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batz · 1 year ago
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neurologist says my optic nerves are fine/same as last few appointments but still tells me to start taking 12 diamox a day and tells me to get out before i can ask why . also diamox like. cannot fix an issue involving my veins. but idk im not doctor so whatever
im 100% not taking 12 pills a day tho thatd hurt me. past few appointments hes just been rlly wanting me to have more diamox even tho he keeps saying im in remission but he wont answer when i ask why i need the meds then
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piesa2 · 6 months ago
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everyone is pitying me and i dont know how to feel about that
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rumiracle · 6 months ago
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vent post sorry im not doing well honestly hahaha feel free to ignore my fault gang ♥
tldr: waah waah my friends hate me and my favorite person is going to leave me and ill be alone waaaahhhhh.... pity. its just me being a big fucking baby.
im tired of people acting like they respect or care about me. they say "oh, we're friends! you seem cool!" no we aren't. in a few months, the novelty of a new toy is going to wear off. you get bored, you stop talking to me, i stay around purely because you feel bad shooting a stray dog, you keep me around for a bit longer so that people will go "my gosh, you take in strays? how kind you are, friend!" and then eventually decide to just put me down.
itd be so much easier if they didn't act like we're great friends. they act like im funny, or interesting, or nice to keep around, or worth any effort. and then that pity stops, and then i'm just that new pity stray dog again. i mean, i dont exactly have any strong support webs- i don't have any reliance on any people, and i'm too tired to bite back these days. the road is clear. if anyone sees this, then here is your signal! feel free to get it over with.
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