#skinny thinspo rexie mia

[oof-imfat]

Just binged and I need to undo it to lose the weight. Any ideas please help!!

[wannaglowup]

Lemon water does nothing except pee

[rexiexoxo]

body dysmorphia

im considering quitting my dance class because i cant spend so much time looking at myself in the mirror. i have no idea what i look like. sometimes i can see my ribs and bones and sometimes my stomach is basically exploding out of my pants. sometimes my face is chiseled and small and sometimes my face is just so round and structureless. i wish i just knew what everyone else saw. i constantly feel like im looking in a funhouse mirror. 

[angstynorwegianbitch]

things i can’t for when i get skinny

sleep better

make my parents proud

feel more comfortable at my desk

be able to swim in a bikini

look good in shorts

be skinnier than my friends

be able to look good in light colored pants

feel comfortable eating in public

be able to run outside without feeling judged

be able to participate in pe without looking dumb

look small in boys’ hoodies

shock everyone i haven’t seen in a while

[horriblyunprepared]

ED MYTHBUSTING

Eating disorders are NOT contagious! Stop treating them like they are. It’s a mental illness, just like any other...not contagious!

Thin celebrities aren’t The Reason™️ people have eating disorders, although the way thin bodies are presented may cause or contribute to feelings of insecurity or shame about food and the body.

The invention of size 0 and 00 are not The Cause™️ of eating disorders—and they aren’t unrealistic sizes, some people are just small and need those sizes.

That whole idea that we look in the mirror and see a big fat person when we actually look like skeletons?? It’s just not universal, and it’s strange to assume that it would be. I’m sure some people do have that experience, but it’s not universal. My eyes are fine, I can see my body just fine, it’s about feelings—not about what my body actually looks like.

Not everyone with an ED is super skeletal skinny, or white, or female, or able-bodied, or teenaged. Just like everyone else, we come in all shapes, sizes, colors, ages, etc. We aren’t all skeletal, white, teenage girls 🤷🏽‍♀️

For some reason, in all the fiction I’ve seen about EDs, the girl with the ED has divorced parents with whom she has a rocky relationship? Dysfunctional family situations are a big risk factor and can contribute to stress and disordered eating. But everyone has different experiences and, needless to say (I hope) some of us have good relationships with our parents, some of us have parents who aren’t divorced, etc etc. This one feels particularly harmful though, because it kind of implies that it’s the parents’ fault that their child has an eating disorder because they got divorced.... And divorced doesn’t always mean bad! *EDIT* Divorce can also be very good, as it ends marital conflict that can be traumatic to children and can remove children from a toxic and abusive situation. Unfortunately, this doesn’t erase the trauma that happened before the divorce and doesn’t mean that the divorce itself won’t be traumatic either. Children need love, care, and stability—which they can adequately receive from divorced parents, if no abuse is involved, but sometimes this isn’t provided and the trauma can manifest as an eating disorder.

People with anorexia DO actually eat. Sometimes, we even eat normal, balanced, sufficient meals. Which leads me to...

Not all days are bad days, at least not for everyone. I have an eating disorder, but some days I feel totally fine and normal. Just like any other mental illness...it’s not constant uninterrupted anguish.

“Diet culture” is not The Cause™️ of eating disorders, but it may contribute to feelings of shame about food and the body.

Eating disorders are “about” a person’s relationship with food and their body...but they aren’t really ABOUT a persons relationship with food and their body. For some people, it’s about control, or shame, or gender dysphoria, or fear of adulthood, or purity. For some people it’s about a fear of abandonment, fearing that people will leave you and not take care of you unless you’re sick.

Not everyone with EDs hides their body under baggy clothes! Not all of us feel the need or want to cover up.

Like all mental disorders, EATING DISORDERS ARE NOT A LIFESTYLE CHOICE. They’re complex mental disorders, trust me! No one just chooses to starve themselves, force themselves to vomit, eats until it hurts, or exercise till they pass out. These aren’t fun quirky lifestyle choices.

Not all of us “look sick,” you can be a normal weight and still have an ED. This goes back to #5. I’m olive toned and tan which makes my complexion look healthier than the skeletal, white, teen girl you’re expecting—that doesn’t mean I’m doing great.

Getting up to a healthy weight or “looking healthier/better” doesn’t mean someone in recovery is actually doing better. If they were in inpatient care, they likely HAD to gain weight to get out...this doesn’t mean the mental part of this MENTAL ILLNESS is cured.

On the other hand, being thin doesn’t mean someone, even someone with a history of EDs, isn’t doing okay. Again, and I cannot stress this enough, people with EDs come in all different shapes and sizes. Even if someone is “too thin” and in recovery, it doesn’t mean they’re faking, all bodies are different maybe this is normal for them, or maybe they arent at a normal weight for them but they’re really trying to gain weight and get better. Maybe they’ve broken the ED in their brain and are waiting for their body to follow—don’t invalidate their progress by commenting on their size.

Anorexia and Bulimia aren’t the only eating disorders! There’s orthorexia, diabulimia, binge eating disorder, OSFED, etc. No one is worse than another per se, everyone has different experiences, different severity, and no matter what ED someone has it is always deeply painful and everyone deserves help!

Not all eating disorders are connected to or caused by a single traumatic event or by any traumatic event at all. Everyone has different experiences, and some people are just predisposed to develop eating disorders...

If you haven’t guessed by now there is no single Cause™️ of eating disorders. People have different life experiences, different brains, different habits....

People with EDs are not an enemy to people in larger bodies, fat acceptance, body positivity, etc. That would be like saying that people with depression are an enemy to happiness and positivity, and I think we can all agree that that’s not the case. Body positivity is wonderful, and I’m sure there are far more people with EDs than you think who are strong advocates for body positivity or who want to be able to accept the body positive message but aren’t currently capable because of their disorder.

Having an eating disorder doesn’t mean that you just hate food, that you judge others for eating or what they eat, that you fat shame others, etc. I know a lot of people with EDs who LOVE food and are wonderful cooks. Some people with EDs may feel uncomfortable being around people who are eating, but not everyone feels that way. As with any insecurities, people sometimes project their body insecurities onto others—it’s not a great thing to happen, it’s not fun, but it is fairly normal and it doesn’t mean that someone with an ED is necessarily judging other’s food choices or body.

Treatment and recovery are different for everyone—and they should be different for everyone. It’s wrong and dangerous to administer the same treatment to every person with an ED. People with both Type 1 diabetes and an ED (usually, have been misusing insulin to lose weight) need vastly different care than someone with a different condition, and beyond that different people just need different care. No single thing works for everybody, it would be nice if that was the case though!

Please feel free to keep adding, it’s really important to bust these myths, stereotypes, and misconceptions. Just like everybody else, people with EDs are widely varied and diverse and it’s important that we recognize this to make it easier for people to recognize disordered eating and get help.

Feel free to comment on this post. Are there any ED myths I missed that really bug you? Am I wrong?? Let me know!

[ineed-a0cal-icedcoffee]

Iso

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Something small and inconspicuous but reminds me everyday what I'm working towards.

[super-cxstiel]

Damn she is such goals 🤤

[anablog2cope]

what’s the maximum weight you’ve lost in a month? is it possible to lose 10? trying to get back on track after binging for months

[wannaglowup]

Best meanspo is your that pretty friend

[rexiexoxo]

relapse

i forget abt this acc every other month but omfg i need to find the self control i had a couple months ago again. my old body was so light and beautiful and i miss it. i’ve gained a little bit because i’ve had family events back to back and i need to start working out again. someone pls help... 

[prettygirlsmakegravesxx]

What exercises get y’all that ) | ( ab line if yk what I mean??

[xxskinnyxx]

Is it okay to put milk in tea?

I'm not entirely sure if milk is okay to have. It's just really gross without it, and of course over time I'll cut down into not having it. I just don't know if I can take the taste of straight black tea right now.

[lemonade-frost]

*drinks water instead of eating as a form of flirting*

[ineed-a0cal-icedcoffee]

Kill me now. Fck my life.

Disclaimer: I’m meaning no offense to anybody who shops here. Just somebody with an ED and already struggles with my weight and the idea of having to shop at a store that caters to plus size women: (which is amazing that we have such stores now) gives me so much more anxiety and in my mind it’s like accepting that I won’t lose the weight, and I want to keep my goals and work towards a smaller healthier version of myself one day. Where this kind of comment won’t bother me so much.

I went to get coffee or something the other day honestly I don’t remember what I was doing but the comment just kind of took me back and ruined my day.

I don’t know why it did, because I would never ever shame someone for shopping at these stores.

But there was an employee being really standoffish where I was.. I think it was target as I was getting a starbs from one there.

And she just looks at me and says..

“Nice top, where’d you get it? Lane Bryant?” And then smirks and looks back down at her phone.

And I don’t know why it upset me so much, maybe because I’ve always been stubborn and never shopped there, but I was so upset over it I cried when I got home and have not stopped thinking about it since.

Maybe because you could tell she intentionally put venom behind her words but I felt awful and ashamed and I’m pretty sure I threw that brand new top away or at least in storage.

I would never backhand compliment someone on their weight, what they’re wearing, or anything physical. That’s an expression of who we are/ want to be/ or how we want to portray our personalities.

And anybody who has to deal with these comments on a regular basis, I am genuinely so sorry for how mean and cruel people are today. You are worth living for. Your body is worth living for. Working for. You are not worthless and you are wanted and needed in this world. 💘

If anybody ever needs a friend of someone to talk to I’m always here. I’m 23 so I do have middle school and high school life experience for my younger audience. And for my fellow 20 y/o girlies, I wish you all the very best and hope that if you’re having a bad day, it gets better. 🌼

[super-cxstiel]

Tiktok really be hinting at me huh

[zerocokewarning]

Big Oof

I need a weight loss plan for my new daily life...

I have DRIVING SCHOOL twice a week

I DRIVE once a week with my dad

I have THERAPY once a week

I have ONLINE SCHOOL from Monday to Friday

and I NEED TO LOSE WEIGHT AGAIN.

I feel so overwhelmed with this. I need to be functioning properly to drive a car. I don't want to put anyone in danger so I need to eat...But when I restrict my mind is going crazy about food. If I don't restrict I can focus on driving for the moment but I feel miserable the minute I step out of the car. Can anyone PM me and help me out? I'm scared...I need to lose weight. Slowly this time. Like 1kg per week would be alright. Cause if I lose 1kg per week my tattoo won't be fucked. I hope at least...