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#she said GOTCHA#911#911 abc#911 fanart#leviart#myart#buddie#eddie diaz#evan buckley#B9911#ROSA DIAZ
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#go off#she had the time today#this is the Katya I know and love and miss#who’s outspoken on important issues#people were really missing the point that she said ‘the fool’#so I’m glad she cleared it up with full support#about fucking time#it’s never too late#tired of people using the lgbt community as a gotcha#being against genocide is not conditional#katya#katya zamo#katya zamolodchikova
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can I say something controversial.. LOVE the equalist!Asami aus. would absolutely hate it if it was canon
#IDK IT'D JUST KIND OF BE. ok so its a villain character and ooh she falls for Mako or Korra and turns on her father ok gotcha#but instead we see her. RIGHT at the moment of decision. her father offers her that glove and she has everything to#gain by accepting it and her father's ideology. she has everything to LOSE by rejecting it - her only living family her life her home -#but she rejects it ANYWAY because its RIGHT. because her father is a tycoon turned extremist and she knows she cant#betray her very new friends like this. even when things sour between her and Mako and she'd have every#right to just walk away from all of them completely ... she DOESNT. AUGH.#im ok. anyway. like I said. I love the au. it's cool. but I think I prefer canon. also idk if this even IS controversial lol#asami sato#tlok
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I am this close 🤏 to taking the word "siblings" away from the Sonic fandom and putting it on a shelf. People here seriously use it as a shorthand for "any characters I don't ship that have a good relationship in canon." It's wild. Y'all are out of control.
Because let me tell you, I've had a (step-)brother for 28 years. And I have never once talked to him like this:
(He's the "prince." It's teasing bordering on flirting. And the other two aren't even borderline.)
This isn't a "they're canon dating" post, it's a "they don't interact like siblings" post. Sisters don't flirt with their brothers unless there's something messed up happening in that family. And Rouge, canonically, flirts with Shadow. Meaning that she definitely doesn't see him as a brother, and likewise, we have no reason to believe that, canonically, Shadow sees her as anything more than a friend.
Here are the confirmed sibling relationships in canon:
Sonic & Tails
Scratch & Grounder
Rough & Tumble
Shadow & Maria as of this month
Sonic & Sonia & Manic in Underground
Sally & Elias(? was that his name?)
Aside from some more obscure pairs in Archie or similar adaptations I may have missed, that's it! Everyone else? Friends. They're just friends. And you can say "I see them as just friends" and sound far less clownish than when you decide literally everyone, including characters who flirt with each other (or at least have one-way flirting like Shadow and Rouge), are "siblings."
Thank you and goodnight.
#in sonic fandom you're either dating or family. there is no in-between. and it's annoying as FUCK#tbqh even though i've used ''ARK siblings'' as shorthand for Shadow & Maria for a long time now#i kind of hate the siblings confirmation bc i feel that their relationship is (or should be) more complicated than that#bc he exists to be a cure for her. and she knows that but also she's 12 and he's a good friend and listener#and makes her feel less alone on the ARK. he gives her hope in ways other than the cure#and he ends up wanting to cure her not just for his purpose but bc he genuinely comes to see her as his first & only friend#before the confirmation i would have said their relationship was BESTIES. esp since like#even if you WANTED to go nuclear fam on it#Shadow would be her UNCLE since Gerald made him & Gerald is Maria's grandpa#but anyway. point is. i don't think people even understand why Sonic & Tails are siblings (it's explicitly stated in canon)#and instead just use it as a ''don't ship this'' gotcha#which yeah the romo ship btwn them is gross but that's not why we say they're siblings#we say it because Sega says it. all the time. Tails's Sonic Channel bio says Sonic sees him as a ''cute little brother''#that doesn't apply to others like Knux & Amy or ffs Rouge & Shadow#like what is this a Folgers commercial? good lord#they're friends. they're just friends. you can even say best friends. just put the word siblings down i beg of you
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ellen really just said "i got tested and i'm not autistic, but then again yes i am because its a spectrum" HELLO????? that's not how it works omg i hate her so much
#she also said 'they cancelled me for being gay in the 90s and now i'm getting cancelled for being mean which feels very similar'#NO IT'S NOT??? just don't be mean?? like that's a choice. you can just choose to be nice.#aaaand she also said 'if i were a man they wouldn't have cancelled me' which is true like james corden is still in business and he's#pretty much the male version of ellen. but 'men get to be mean and racist and underpay their workers so why can't i' isn't the gotcha you#think it is#the moral of the story should be that no one should be allowed to be shitty without repercussions#not that we should let both men and women be shitty without repercussions#anyway she's so lame
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people really do not know what they're talking about when it comes to Elizabeth Woodville's social status, huh?
#yes Elizabeth was without a doubt considered too low-born to be queen#no she was not a commoner and nobody actually called her that during her life (so I'm not sure why people are claiming that they did?)#Elizabeth's social status was not a problem in itself; it was a problem in the context of queenship and marrying into royalty#Context is important in this and for literally everything else when it comes to analyzing history. Any discussion is worthless without it.#obviously pop culture-esque articles claiming that she was 'a commoner who captured the king's heart' are wrong; she wasn't#But emphasizing that ACTUALLY she was part of the gentry with a well-born mother and just leaving it at that as some sort of “GOTCHA!”#is equally if not more irresponsible and entirely irrelevant to discussions of the actual time period we're studying.#Elizabeth *was* considered unworthy and unacceptable as queen precisely because of her lower social status#her father and brother had literally been derided as social-climbers by Salisbury Warwick and Edward himself just a few years earlier#the Woodvilles' marriage prospects clearly reflected their status (and 'place') in society: EW herself had first married a knight and all#siblings married within the gentry to people of a similar status. compare that to the prestigious marriages arranged after EW became queen#Elizabeth having a lower social status was not 'created' by propaganda against her; it fueled and shaped propaganda against her#that's a huge huge difference; it's irresponsible and silly to conflate the two as I've seen a recent tumblr post cavalierly do#like I said she was considered too low-born to be queen long before any of the propaganda Warwick Clarence or Richard put out against her#and the fact that Elizabeth was targeted on the basis of her social status was in itself novel and unprecedented#no queen before her was ever targeted in such a manner; Clearly Elizabeth was considered notably 'different' in that regard#(and was quite literally framed as the enemy and destroyer of 'the old royal blood of this realm' and all its actual 'inheritors' like..)#ngl this sort of discussion always leaves a bad taste in my mouth#because it's not like England and France (et all) are at war or consider each other mortal enemies in the 21st century#both are in fact western european imperialistic nations who've been nothing but a blight to the rest of the world including my own country#yet academic historians clearly have no problem contextualizing the xenophobia that medieval foreign queens faced as products of their time#and sympathizing with them accordingly (Eleanor of Provence; Joan of Navarre; Margaret of Anjou; etc)(at least by their own historians)#Nor were foreign queens the “worst” targets of xenophobia: that was their attendants or in times of war commoners or soldiers#who actually had to bear the brunt of English aggression#queens were ultimately protected and guaranteed at least a veneer of dignity and respect because of their royal status#yet once again historians and people have no problem contextualizing and understanding their difficulties regardless of all this#so what is the problem with contextualizing the classism *Elizabeth* faced and understanding *her* difficulties?#why is the prejudice against her constantly diminished & downplayed? (Ive never even seen any historian directly refer to it as 'classism')#after all it was *Elizabeth* who was more vulnerable than any queen before her due to her lack of powerful foreign or national support#and Elizabeth who faced a form of propaganda distinctly unprecedented for queens. it SHOULD be emphasized more.
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what is stoners problem 😭 she wants heterophobia to be real so fucking bad, like it’s so fucking disgusting she disregarded everything you said about those accounts harrassing you, comparing you to tras and just added more screenshots that aren’t even wild 😭 why don’t you combat heterophobia by @ing those accounts instead fkn cop out crybaby
my favourite is her including these in her receipts of vile misogyny on radblr, and in true fashion exhibited EXACTLY the behaviour i was talking about when i said people are arguing other women are being misogynists over statements that arent misogynistic...
#they got slightly offended and were like hm. the reason i feel unhappy about this must be bc theyre actually misogynists.#also yeah lol at this point this is another instance of misogyny being used as a term to replace 'heterophobia' in order to seem more#legitimate as a complaint#still not over how they used screenshots of people who harassed me and obsessively picked apart my trauma as some kind of gotcha against me#once again where the fuck were they when those women were active? they find those blogs so appalling but when i was going thru that shit#alone it was radio silence. big strong warriors against misogyny but none of them said SHIT back then. i was left to#deal with that alone as did other lesbians being targetted.#also yeah its nauseating how she ignored me saying these women sat there picking apart my trauma wishing rape on me mocking my rape etc#like ok so ur gonna use that against me and then not even acknowledge me saying ur using ppl who did that to me as some gotcha against me
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yesterday was my babygirl’s gotcha day so here’s a before and after one year apart
before: Rat™️
after: fluffy baby 🥰
#she’s a rescue dog and is only 2 and is already full grown at 8 pounds#if anything happens to her i will kill everyone and then myself#they said she was a maltese and poodle mix but she looks more like a toy poodle to us#anyway#HAPPY GOTCHA DAY BB <3
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okay i get it but i also think its important to acknowledge that there is a difference between knowing from an audience standpoint that a character should be queer VS it firmly being acknowledged verbally within the narrative as a solid aspect of that character's identity irrefutably
#this reminds me of keeley jones from ted lasso like i get it shes “always” been bisexual but its so hard to tell if the writer is being#sincere in their representation or not#people joke about queerness bc haha lol look a gay person or look hot super model slept with woman#in keeley's case it was literally a joke intended to shock rebecca like that is not confirmation that is a joke the writer is making#it needs to be said or expressed in a way that is outside of a throwaway haha gotcha joke#the doctor has been kissed by men and kissed men in moments of celebration and theyve been laughed off#hes made comments that the audience is SUPPOSED TO think are jokes. queer audiences just see past that and straight audiences dont#its important that it was not only said but talked about even if it was in passing. it wasnt a punchline or the set up for a joke#donna comments that a man is hot > the doctor agrees enthusiastically that the man was really hot >#they both acknowledge the doctors attraction to men and his openness about it > donna says it was always obvious#its not about creating his queerness its always been there its about finally being in a place to say it out loud#from a narrative standpoint you could say now he's the kind of person who talks openly about his attraction and feelings#from an audience standpoint i hope we can acknowledge that its bc they couldnt outright say he was bisexual/lesbian/queer/trans/nombinary#now they can#thats the difference i think#doctor who
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Nothing says "lmao i'm so clever i'm going to put a foot in my mouth and won't notice until i actually choke" as this one conversation i had with my coworker a while ago about AI
him: lol every book is a dictionary remix lmao
me: 12 years
him: ?
me: you do realise you just tossed 12 years of my life into the fucking trash, right?
him: yep! haha :)
me:
him:
me:
him: *awkwardly walks away, doesn't say another word for the rest of the day*
#he was literally laughing like he won something when he said that 'yep!'#like 'haha gotcha ;)'#before he realised what he just said#it as so funny xD#(past the.. you know... wanting to bite his head off on the spot because i was PISSED)#anti ai#and yes he KNOWS (and knew) i write#he just straight up didn't put two and two together#delete later#idfk why but this convo is from... 4? months ago?#but it just fucking STAYED with me#every time i feel like shit it's there to haunt me#i guess it offended/hit me more than i thought or want to admit#katie thinks she's relevant
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my mom was just mean to me for like no fucking reason lol. day ruined
#purrs#long story but basically i thought she did something that would damage my relationship w someone we know and i asked her if she did it and#she literally said yes she did and i asked ‘are you being sarcastic’ and she didn’t reply for a few minutes (it was over text) so i went out#to talk to her and asked if she did it and she said no she didn’t and that it was a stupid thing for me to even ask. ok then why did you#say yes then. why did you not just say of course not did you have to be cruel and do a gotcha. like lol#her sarcasm drives me fucking crazy and i can’t tell tone over text and i don’t fucking trust her so that’s why i felt the need to ask and#she just called me stupid so. awesome. she could’ve just said no like it wouldn’t have been that hard but instead she had to do this weird#sarcastic thing that she always does and then lash out at me for… falling for the trap she set? like what the fuck is wrong with you#my feelings are so hurt lol i was just chilling out enjoying myself hurting literally no one and now im trying not to cry#delete later
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he is trick or treating for mealworms
#columbia the beardie#dawn post#reptile#lizard#halloween#i actually hate doing DIYs but i would commit murder for him so i will damn well make him a costume#i bought the felt like 6 months ago because i wanted to make him a superman and batman cape#never got around to that but here’s Count Columbia#yday was Columbia’s gotcha day and he’s been with me for four years now 😭❤️#i told my coworker that he’s gotten dumber over the years and she said pets take after their owners
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yall are literally making this up at this point lol having women in it doesn’t make it ~female dominated~ when said women doesn’t have the same amount of screen time and plot relevancy as the white men in the cast 💀 get a grip on reality ffs
#the reason why incels are using it as a ‘gotcha’ about female representation is because they don’t feel ‘threatened’ by women in background#roles. they get angry when said women are the main characters and their stories don’t depend on men#and now they pretend they like jyn but it’s only because she have been only in one film and not coming back because everyone knows how#they were fucking shitty to her and felicity when the first trailer aired
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talking to my mom is such a blast. meeting of the minds
#marzi speaks#pseudosexuality moment#<- for what the tags shall entail#it’s great we both engage in good faith share our perspectives#and then we both come out of it having learned something new#and it rules!!#we had a really good discussion about kink and sex tonight#and we talked about negotiation and sex positivity and the specific things we liked and didn’t like#and how important it is to communicate that with a partner#and how all of this ties into being acespec#i even explained pseudosexuality to her! and she seemed to get it pretty well! about as well as i do anyways lmao#and then i mentioned my kmda crush bc he’s a good example of it being easier for aspecs in some cases to be attracted to fiction#to which she was like ‘that makes sense- it’s like fantasy’#anyways i was trying to explain why i liked him to her. and i was like ‘ok kmda. my mom grew up in the 80s. kmda. 80s. what connection. OH’#and i said he had the JD appeal and my mom went ‘ah gotcha mkay’#eventually the discussion turned into how stories like heathers are being simplified and reduced for the sake of remakes#and that was also a really good convo#but i really enjoyed talking about kink stuff with my mom. we bonded :]#also it was cool to see where we differed. some things i was like Yes about she was like Absolutely Not about and vice versa#it was also fun to see where we had similarities. rope bunny solidarity 🤝 it’s the GAD lmao#anyways i love talking to her. she’s so smart and when she sees something she doesn’t understand she doesn’t judge it or shy away from it#she just asks for clarification and tries her best to understand and contribute to the conversation#and usually we both end up learning from each other!!! it’s so cool#also a lot of my friends (at least that i regularly see irl) are not nearly as freaky as me so i rarely get to talk kink with ppl#so it was nice to just get to have that conversation
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Oh wow, a real physicist!! I’ve read a few of your posts on philosophy of science, and I think you’ve mentioned that you aren’t a religious person, but I’m curious if you have any thoughts on the compatibility of physics/science in general and religion?
Well, the tl;dr I guess is that it depends a lot on what specific religion you're talking about, and on how you approach religion.
"Religion" means a lot of different things to different people. I wouldn't say I'm not a religious person. I keep kosher; I keep the holidays; I try not to let my job spill over onto weekends (both for myself and for anyone I work with); I talk about religion a lot; I study every single day, and have done so my entire life--not always the Torah, although always something related to my understanding of religion (the universe and my place in it): science, social justice, but yes, also sometimes the Torah. To me, in the context of my religion, that is being religious. Certainly not extremely so, and I do have plenty of extended family who are much more religious to contrast myself with. Therefore whether I say I'm religious or not is usually contextual, based on what I'm comparing myself to.
Now, I want you to notice two things in my previous paragraph. The first is that I listed studying science as a religious practice for me. And I do consider it that. It's not the only reason I'm a scientist, but it's definitely related. Among Jews, this is a fairly common attitude--0.2% of the world's population are Jewish but ~25% of Nobel Laureates in the sciences are, and some of that is directly because there is a religious fervency among Jews when it comes to academic pursuit, including science.
But you can meet plenty of people from other religions who feel similarly, even if it's not the mainstream attitude in a lot of other religions like it is in Judaism. At my previous job, the other two PhD physicists were both Catholic, and both of them felt similarly, that being a scientist was a part of practicing their religion; the mainstream Catholic hegemony has actually encouraged this attitude on and off over the centuries (despite some very obvious historical cases where they were anti-science), and especially it was a pet issue of Pope John Paul II, who was the Pope for the whole childhood and early adulthood of my coworkers. There are certainly conservative Catholics, especially in the US, whose views are not in line with Papal pronouncements in this respect, but officially the Catholic church is pro-science (including pro-evolution), and is known for funding astronomy and medical sciences in particular. Meanwhile, in contrast, the engineer at my last job was baffled to hear all of this from the rest of us over lunch one day. He'd grown up Mainline Protestant (i.e. not Evangelical), which is not a hierarchical religion and so allows a lot of individual variation in opinion, but generally takes a neutral stance toward science. He felt as though science versus religion was a choice he'd made, and he'd chosen science and rejected religion. In contrast to his feelings on it, I've known other scientists from science-neutral religions who have not felt any need to make a choice, but rather that science and religion are simply unrelated and therefore cannot be in conflict; I've worked with Buddhists, Hindus, and yes Mainline Protestant Christians who all felt that way. And then there are yet other religions, Evangelical Protestant Christianity topping the list, where science and religion are in direct conflict and people from those religious backgrounds make an active choice of one or the other, or make an active choice to keep those parts of their life fully compartmentalized from each other.
The second thing I want you to notice is that so far I've said nothing about faith. I didn't even list it among my own religious practices--because it isn't there. I'm a Jew, it doesn't have to be. In fact, I'm a third-generation agnostic/atheist: not even any of my grandparents believed in G-d, although each lacked belief in a different way.
Taking a faith-based approach to the world does hinder scientific practice, in my opinion, and in the opinion of most of my scientist friends. A scientist needs to be willing to discard their most deeply held beliefs about how the world works when presented with evidence to the contrary.
For me, as a Jew, it's just a non-issue. My most deeply held religious beliefs are all about how to set up a moral and ethical framework, not about the way the world works; they're not based on faith in things that can be in conflict with evidence. (And since they're about the framework rather than the specifics, I have the flexibility to change my individual moral stance on an individual issue when I'm presented with evidence that a previous stance was based on ignorance.) So here, I'd agree with that subset of Mainline Protestants, as well as people from Eastern religions, who say there cannot be a conflict because my religious beliefs are simply unrelated to any of the questions science is trying to answer. (With the caveat that more knowledge helps put beliefs into more effective practice, and therefore science can help religion. Interestingly, while I as a Jew mean this with respect to beliefs about how to practice ethics, Catholicism takes this a step further to beliefs about religious cosmology, saying that things like the Big Bang Theory and evolution elucidate how God performed the acts of creation. The majority of Jews don't take religious cosmology literally enough for this to even come up as a question; among those who do, most parallel the Catholic approach of agreement and elucidation, and relatively few parallel the Evangelical Christian approach of anti-science.)
There are other people, from strongly faith-based religions, whose personal philosophies are all about faith. These religions are the ones where I think there's a major incompatibility between science and religion--when the incompatibility is in an approach to understanding the world rather than about the specific stories. People from these religions tend to have two options. They can either compartmentalize so strongly that they practice an entirely different way of understanding the world when doing science than in the rest of their life, which is cognitively pretty difficult. Or, they can choose between science and religion, rejecting one in favor of the other.
All of that said, there’s yet a third issue which is a bit of a pet peeve of mine when it comes to philosophy of science. And that’s when people who claim to be taking a scientific approach are actually taking a faith-based approach to science concepts. You see that when people talking about “believing in” evolution--sometimes they’re using that phrasing as short-hand, but sometimes they really mean it in a religious way. But you also see it a lot with people who confuse meta-science for science, or who confuse analogy for fact. That’s muddying the waters in a way that I find intellectually dangerous. It leads to misunderstanding the nature of science, and occasionally can even lead to cult-like thinking (Less Wrong springs to mind as the paradigmatic example, but I’ve also got a friend who is in a new-age-y “science”-based cult).
#science and religion#I'm showing my age a bit here but to my last two points there was an episode of Friends where Ross and Phoebe were arguing#about evolution back and forth for the whole episode#and the big gotcha at the end of the episode was that when Phoebe asked Ross (a paleontologist) if he'd stop believing in evolution#if presented with sufficient evidence#he said yes#and she took that to mean (and the writers seemed to think) that she was the intellectually stronger of the two#rather than that Ross was being a good scientist#anyway that really bugged me
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uhhhh hmmmmm wellllll the power better introduce a trans character soon or so help me
#like. y the last man (hulu version) had trans men among the survivors - which#even if they could have been folded into the narrative a BIT more seamlessly when strangers singled out yorick as a rare sight to see#- basically felt like an accurate reflection of the world we live in#i also am inclined to give y the last man more leniency bc the showrunner had said she had ideas to integrate trans women as well in s2#and also because they spelled out the science more clearly. as strictly a chromosonal thing#and ALSO because idk. just. in vibes. y the last man wasn't fucking at all with the idea of essentialism or the idea that#the Event might be in any way a feminist stroke of luck#but the power is kinda playing with fire (heh) here bc#in the early stages it is seen by many characters as a chance for women to finally have... you know..#power#so it feels like... a miss that the show treats it as an awesome thing that all women and only women happen to have#i kinda think this plot sucks and i hated the book and i'm not surprised that the show maintains the whole like#''what if girl power but then girls were also bad?????'' lame ass attempted logical gotcha#i mean the book lost me when it had a scene where a group of young women at a rally in nigeria#gangraped the only male character who was a sort of feminist in progress#i'm just not buying what this show is selling i fear#ugh. i miss y the last man (hulu version) bring back y the last man!!
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