#she is asexual

[hidefdoritos]

had the bestie over for snuggles and a movie night. we couldn't get comfortable tonight but we finally settled on her sitting up against the arm of the couch with one leg tucked under the back/cushions and one leg out on the ottoman, and me curled into a bundle on the third couch cushion and resting my head on that thigh. and watching Home Alone, which is always a classic.

anyway all that to say that technically, I can brag that I spent my Christmas Eve between a beautiful woman's legs.

[everythingwasnormalhere]

pls rb if you think cuddling doesn't have to be s3xual

im tryna prove a point to my bf's mother help me out

[vibestilax-updates]

Some whispers about dani,feel free to ss and save♥️

[chroniccoolness]

genuinely a lot of you need to sit the fuck down and think about whether you actually support transfeminine people or you're just chasers. cause a lot of this site's support seems to be "uwu fuck me big strong dommy mommy" "I want a sexy trans goth gf so bad" etc etc and it's so gross. like i dont think attraction the inherent problem here or anything but when every single post asking "do you actually support trans women/transfeminine ppl?" has some chucklefuck in the notes going "haha yeah, I support her ON TOP OF ME!" it gets really obvious that you do not actually know how to support them without sexualizing them. and that's. really incredibly not okay.

[notbrucewayne48]

"aphobia doesn't exist"

bitch literally not that long ago an aroace youtuber animator was insulted by almost half of its community for being it

[the-siren-in-your-fridge]

Being aroace with a squish is really like. You look so nice and cute and pretty (not like that), I’d like to snuggle up in bed with you (not like that) and play with your hair (not like that) and lay there for a while (not like that) and hold your hand all the time (not like that) and hang out with you one-on-one (not like that) and get to you know you on a deep and personal level (not like that)

[ink-stains-and-constellations]

I got bored today and made an entire slideshow explaining my sexuality, romantic orientation, relationship, and pronouns.

Am I out to anyone but my partner and my brother? No.

Am I planning to come out to anyone anytime soon? No.

But if I ever need to explain any of it, I have a slideshow.

[ymbly]

anyways shout out to the older aromantics and asexuals yall under appreciated fr

[theartofmadeline]

This Barbie is AroAce!

[valhalla-awaitsfor-us]

the way tv shows are ALLERGIC to create interesting and plot relevant ace/aro characters, my god.

Yes, im looking at you sex education and Heartstopper. There is a bunch of tv shows and movies that i can also name, but those two are just big disappointments since they should actually uplift different sexualities… I guess we are not fun, guys.

[canonically47]

actually all the disney princesses who don’t have a romantic interest are aromantic. yeah yep all of them. elsa, merida, mirabel, so forth, all of them are aromantic. you cannot escape the aro beam

[gregorovitch-adler]

Translation: Junior, I have told you several times that Lily prefers to be single, remember?

Lily is the new aroace icon. That's all.

[heartless-aro]

People when a character is aromantic or aromantic coded: Wowie! They’re aroACE! Because they aren’t interested in romance! Look at how aroace they are!

People when a character is aroace or aroace coded: Isn’t it cool that this character is asexual? Asexual icon! They’re such great asexual representation :)

[bayonettas-tits]

It's hilarious how 90% of people I've seen say "asexuals aren't discriminated" in the next breath say something discriminatory about asexuality.

[minyardsdarling]

thinking about andrew who knows quite a bit about the lgbt community and labels from when he was trying to figure himself out. thinking about him knowing vaguely what asexual means, but only in the sex-repulsed sense (because let’s be honest, that’s the kind of asexuality that gets attention in media). thinking about neil figuring out that he’s aspec and telling andrew because he promised no more lies. thinking about andrew hearing this and barely being able to hold himself together, saying “okay” and blowing cigarette smoke in neil’s face because if he tries to say any more words he’ll have a panic attack. thinking about andrew who manages to hold himself together until he’s alone, and then he’s hyperventilating and dry-heaving and overthinking every time he and neil have ever done anything because neil said yes, he said yes, but what if he was only saying yes because he thought he had to? what if he was only saying yes because he felt obligated because of the deal they’d made? what if he was only saying yes because he was afraid of andrew and thought andrew might hurt him if he said no? thinking about andrew who has always promised himself that he would never be like them, and yet here he is.

(this could all be solved with communication if andrew had just asked neil what he meant by asexual but these boys are shit at communication)

[angieblogging]

can we just all collectively agree that it is okay for aroace characters not to date or have sex if they clearly show no interest in it or repulsion?

can we respect that and not ship them?

or are yall too deep into amatonormativity…???