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Reasons I'll like but not reblog an artist's art:
1. I am, it's just in a queue
2. It's art I really like, I just don't want it on my blog (which is just an archive for posts I want to go back and look at later)
3. It's something I like but don't really understand the context of like a fandom I'm unfamiliar with or OCs and don't want to reblog because it makes tagging difficult which messes up my organization
4. It would go on a blog (either main or side) where I have no followers and don't have the blog TO gain followers or communicate with and it literally would not spread to anyone for that reason
5. I've been on this site for 8 years and even then have memory issues and use likes as a way to mark what posts I have and haven't already seen/reblogged
6. And the one you want to hear the least: yeah. Sometimes art is nice enough for a like but not a reblog. It's called preferences. It's not a matter of technical skill or effort put into the piece or fandom they're not in or whatever. Sometimes you just don't vibe with something that much. That is NORMAL. A like and no reblog there shows, at least for me, "hey I can appreciate the concept behind it/technical skill/etc" but I won't reblog because for some other reason I just don't like it enough to have it on my blog. If the idea that not everyone will like your art enough to show it around to your friends is that big of a blow to your ego then you need to stop posting it because that is EXTREMELY unhealthy. It does you no good and only serves to ruin your relationship with your art. Stop
I have had it with this likescolding. “Tumblr doesn’t have an algorithm so likes don’t actually do anything” motherfucker I am not clicking that heart to give some post better ~algorithmic visibility~ I am clicking that heart to help my internet friend microdose on serotonin as god fucking intended
#saying this on a blog where i specifically have tried to let go on tagging things and dont comment on stuff#but this is how ive operated for the past 8 years#if an artist says reblogs > likes even if it's something i really like i wont actually click like#if you want to beg for less engagement thats on you. i wont engage then lol#some of the above reasons other than 'i just don't like it that much' i will leave replies on the art complimenting it like#i support artists#but this mindset you've all got is deeply unhealthy lmaooo#and the whole argument of 'but spreading my art gets people to commission me etc etc' is a big ol conversation about capitalism#and forced monetization of everything to determine it's value#but to cut all that short: if you're trying to survive off of commissions only and you're struggling to get an audience#the solution is to cater to an audience. that's it. yeah you'll probably lose a lot of passion and shit in the process which sucks but if#your complaint is a lack of engagement because you absolutely desperately need commission money#find a group of people and give them what they want. if its about surviving then SURVIVE#just posting your ocs or landscapes often wont do that on tumblr#not unless you're really lucky#all this is assuming you've got a style people find interesting etc etc#basically the reality is you're better off changing yourself than unreasonably asking other people to change in that situation#if you want customers you have to work to get them#(all that is directed specifically at people who dont just want attention and use the argument they need commission money)#not even covering a past reason i would like and not reblog: being raised in a cult and having queer art on my blog being a fight to not get#sent to conversion therapy
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The funniest LGBT+ headcanon for Nat, which is also the only one I have for Nat, is that she's bi but she doesn't like anyone on her team like that.
#it mine#yellowjackets#natalie scatorccio#nat scatorccio#but otherwise i generally headcanon her as straight#biac au where she gets sent to conversion therapy for being goth
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men are so goddamn fucking infuriating!!!!!!!!!!!! we were sharing examples of gender based discrimination in our own lives in sociology class and one guys example was how he works as a caregiver for children and people think hes a pedo when he takes the kids to the park. another was a GUY who is STUDYING to become a FUCKING MIDWIFE and he was saying how so many people dont want men to be in the field of midwivery and how thats oh so hard for him :( WOMEN DONT WANT YOU. DO SOMETHING ELSE
#of like 8 or so who shared only 2 were women and they both had actual examples. some of the men had actual examples but#none of them had an example that was. misogyny like one mentioned religious trad gender roles and the other said#his parents sent him to gay conversion therapy camp#i couldnt think of a good one to share myself or else i would have. should have just made something up thats a Real thing
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hello its mom!! wanted so say i'm proud of you ! you made it so far <3 keep it up!!! love you <3
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#imagine if my irl mom found out I ran this blog lol#I would be sent to conversion therapy and she would be so disappointed in me#Don’t even want to imagine that talk#sheeeeeeesh#walmart the official#walmart
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the human experience is so wonderful and broad
#rosie babbles#so there's a star trek episode about a trans lady alien from a species w/o gender that just finished#and my dad's like 'ah. a 1984 metaphor'#meanwhile i'm just thinking 'they sent her to conversion therapy'
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But what if Truman had been gay tho
#Like it’s 1998 would they have given him a male love interest or would they have sent him to conversion therapy#Anyways I have a fever of almost 40° so I���m watching all the movies on my top ten list#We’re doing Bolt after this#the truman show#truman burbank
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y'all my mom asked me to travel w her this weekend because she didn't wanna travel alone and like. we have a rough relationship but i'm a girl's girl u know i didn't bother asking where she was going i was like yeah sure. cause i'm a girl's girl.
turns out we're flying to a trump rally.
she got me shirts and everything.
i'm literally a genderfluid lesbian (who is never a guy if anybody wants to start shit abt that). i dress alt most the time. i literally AM alt i listen to rock and shit. fuck two of my celebrity crushes r shin ryujin and emma watson i don't know how much gayer that can get. i don't even LIKE politicians or politics in general because i believe all power inevitably corrupts.
literally going to a rally to a man that fucking hates ppl like me dear god how am i supposed to gaslight gatekeep girlboss my wa out of this
on the bright side however i can at least style the women for trump t shirt (she wants me to wear this one to the airport) so it just says women. however the actual trump rally.... hhh
yall this is literally so tragic i might make a tiktok abt this
#sai speaks#donald trump#trump#fuck trump#2024 elections#usa#politics#usa politics#2024 presidential election#kamala harris#this is the result of me going along w whatever my mom says so i dont get sent to conversion therapy i have nobody to blame but myself#istg if im caught on camera im NEVER getting a gf#lgbt
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who up mourning what could have been
#thinking again about how my therapist recommended puberty blockers when I was 13!!!!!!!!#I know. I know I can never go back and even if I could nothing I could do would change my dad's mind#he still thinks he was right to not let me and pull me out of that therapist#he rlly sent me to a Christian therapist hoping she'd do some gentle conversion therapy ahdkskdhsk#and then was shocked when she supported me#Anyway. I wish.#like I like my life now but I wish I didn't have to be soooo dysphoric for soooo long#sams ramblings
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thanks for that post. 10 years of medical training, humiliation and exams, followed by lack of employment due to cutbacks to healthcare, just so I can read your reblogged little post about how doctors say they know everything and humiliate patients. And the notes about how all doctors do is tell people they're fat. Which of course is the truth 100% of the time. Right. Great. Good to know nothing I ever did amounted to anything, that my own generation hates me. Thanks for that, thanks for the anxiety attack, for making me cry on the bus home, you shitbrick. There's no good doctors, mate, you're absolutely right. This doesn't hurt anyone, we don't try to go into this field because we care, because we want to help. We just want power and money, right? Because we're famously overpaid, us the doctors? True, right? Love and peace. I wish you the best. I'm going to fucking kill myself
crazy how you’re studying to become a doctor when you can’t read
#ask#are you fr#in that post i literally noted that i have had good doctors that have helped me very much#but yes it’s all my fault you’re feeling this way. GO TO THERAPY#look im not looking to be mean. but you clearly misinterpreted my post#took it extremely personally#and then sent me this unhinged ask saying youre gonna kill yourself bc i made a post discussing how a field you happen to be in#sometimes hurts people and its a systemic issue#yes all doctors are horrible money grubbing little bastards who do nothing but lie. thats exactly what i said no misinterpretation there#dawg if ten years of dedicating your life to something can be cut down by one person on the internet#giving critique and sharing their experience#then well i dont know what to tell you. that sounds like a personal issue#sorry if youre feeling bad but i need you to realize that this is a deeply weird message to send to a complete stranger#if you would allow me to play doctor for a moment. i think you could maybe use a good long nights sleep and a snack with protein#maybe i worded the post badly. and i’m sorry if i did. i could have done better. but this is not a fucking appropriate response#you could simply open a dialogue and ask me to elaborate#ya know. learn from patient experiences so you can be a better doctor#i would have been happy to have a conversation about it and explain what i meant#but now you called me a shitbrick and blamed me for your depressive episode so. now i’m not being nice
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mia castries has childhood trauma.
that’s it, that’s the post
#new amsterdam#elizabeth wilder#wildies#mia castries#give me a sign#she grew up evangelical christian in california in the 1990’s#the girl she kissed she met at summer camp got sent to conversion therapy#then she retreated so far into the closet she nearly married a man#internalised homophobia kept her from being open to being with a woman#and years of religious upbringing#her mom would go on angry rants about homosexuals#and she was also obsessed with keeping face because of mia’s dad being a hotshot cardiovascular surgeon#her father would completely swap from being sweet to her to screaming and breaking things#they pressured her into going to medical school#she hated being a doctor simply because it was what they wanted her to be#then she found her own path in holistic med
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I think tomorrow I will finally crack down on starting the long and winding journey of getting top surgery.
#my sister sent me a link 2 a therapist who looks like shed be a good fit for me so ill start w emailing her#acted out a pretend therapy conversation in my head in the shower so i think i should start b4 i go bonkers#if anyone has like. tips and advice thatd b. appreciate
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Dead serious if u think "all children under [arbitrary age] NEED their internet access hypersupervised by their parents" I do not trust you. Sorry
#that's how people get outed. that's how people get sent to Fucking conversion therapy yknow#i have a lot of like. baggage with parents being controlling abt internet access when i was younger so yknow it's personal to me#anyway autonomy. youth liberation. etc#reading all of your kids' texts only guarantees they will not trust you and will probably never speak to you once you don't own them#open mick night
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Shit is getting too real for my liking
#so i briefly mentioned this but yesterday my sibling got into a big fight with my parents#apparently they recorded the conversation they had with our mom afterward and showed it to their therapist#and she sent them home with a book on how to deal with toxic people and said she wanted our parents to start therapy as well#and shes telling them that its a shit situation and we shouldnt be treated this way etc.#and like. i already knew it was a shit situation but hearing that people outside of it agree#i thought id feel reassured but i feel less safe than ever#also my sibling has more guts than i could ever hope to have holy shit#theyre opening up to their therapist and actually confronting mom and trying to make a change here and im so proud of them#(i just hide and try to avoid it lol)#but yeah just. idk. i dont like this one bit. i want out.#snowys talking again
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hmmm looked it up and it looks very difficult to persuade a court in a sibling custody case without evidence of neglect or physical abuse. i did not want to press a physical abuse axis in charlie and the vampos because the emphasis was supposed to be the prevalence of abuse in non-tangible ways. but i dont think running away bc your parents want to send you to conversion therapy, like, counts in the eyes of the law.
#although if they HAVE been sent to conversion therapies of certain kinds it could be grounds for neglect and physical abuse#either that or charlie's parents willingly disown and give up his younger sibling which i also dont see them doing#WRENCH thrown in my plans#t
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The Wednesday conversion therapy analogy was clumsy, definitely. But the way people are talking about it is making me somewhat uncomfortable as an aroace person, because aspec people are and were designated late bloomers and sent to conversion therapy too. And that is very easily connected with what Enid's parents are trying to do to her. It was clumsy. But it wasn't entirely off base and there are queer people who've had roughly that experience, so please be mindful of them when you criticise it because it IS some people's experience.
#aspec#arospec#acespec#asexual#aromantic#aromanticism#asexuality#wednesday netflix#netflix wednesday#enid sinclair#wednesday series#aspec folks are designated 'late bloomers' and sent to conversion therapy too you know
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Mania has me by the throat, and it is slamming my face against the table over and over and over 🙃
#chiren.txt#'everyone can tell that you're psychotic and they're going to call the cops and get you sent to conversion therapy' 'l#'like they did to civil rights leaders in the 60s they're gonna claim that you being trans is a sign of psychosis'#'and because you're actually psychotic you won't have a leg to stand on'
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