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This is a small paragraph from 'Small Things Like These' (Claire Keegan).
As a parent of 2 neurodivergent children, this is literally my mind every day. When they cover their ears to the sound of a car; when they strip off their shoes and clothes the minute they can; when they gag at the smells and textures of food and drinks; when they cannot muster a single word for people they've known all their lives.
#claire keegan#small things like these#books#quotes#bill furlong#cillian murphy#autism#autistic#parenting#parenting autism#sen parent#irish books#neurodivergent#neurodivergence#neurodiversity#asd#asc#aln#sen#send#parent
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Parenting autistic kiddos...
When you sing along with music and get screamed at to "Shut up! It's too loud!" ...but they can sing whatever they want, in a two-lined vocal stim, at the top of their lungs for the entire day!
#parenting#parenting autism#autism#autistic#autistic children#parenting children who are autistic#asd#aln#asc#autism spectrum disorder#autism spectrum condition#additional learning needs#spd#sensory processing disorder#sensory#sensory seeking#sensory avoiding#stim#stims#stimming#autism stims#autistic stims#send#sen#send parent#Sen parent
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obsessed with this / source: @taryntkachuk's story on instagram
#gen z as parents#brady tkachuk#matthew tkachuk#taryn tkachuk#keith tkachuk#chantal tkachuk#ottawa senators#sens#nhl#hockey
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In truth hes very proud of Senjuro for always trying so hard.. eventually he'll manage to say it out loud.
#rui and senjuro are so.. ugh collapses to the floor they aren't Really children of neglect but by god .#(youre projecting) I KNOW.😭 and ill mumble more at the end tags#senjuro rengoku#rui ayaki#demon slayer#kimetsu no yaiba#senrui#kny#my art#like ugh#most of the cast of kny is suffering neglected child syndrome . among other things but that list is too long.another day perhaps#Senjuro is a child of neglect. yes Kyojuro was there and did a wonderful job while he could but. its undeniable that Sen has been neglected#and i feel it. in every interaction senjuro has. he is so very kind and so very willing to help but has so little avenues to go through#with Rui its projection in a very personal way but also i just really feel it in my bones something was off#like his parents seem very kind but also like so many instances of his backstory felt. hand motions. why wasnt someone there.#yknow what i mean?????#anyway whats fucking point am i trying to make#rui and senjuro are both children of neglect and their veiws and mindsets are heavily affected by this and i think together#they could take care of eachother and give eachother a sort of security theyve been missing for so very long#they will be eachothers loving home.#coughs. sorry anyways#ive been keeping it to myself because .worries of no one caring you know how it is#but i have an au very dear to me where Rui assists Senjuro in becoming a kakushi and secret demon slaying and eventually Shinobu#starts helping him as well :-]#senjuro deserves to be taught how to fence if normal swordplay doesnt fucking work#also realizing very late that some reasons i adore senrui are why i adore endouma. i am one note. nobody look at me
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A Journey To Love | Why should I?
#🙂#his parenting style is really straight forward#a journey to love#cdrama#i kinda like this drenched haired puppy#liu yuning#character: ning yuan zhou#chang hua sen#character: li tong guang
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Whumptober Day 9 is here and it's dark as fuck!
The prompts were:
Obsession (optional prompt: Friendly Fire)
Broken window; Bruises
Frame me up on your wall, just to keep me out of trouble - Irresistible by Fall Out Boy
#Sen's writing#Whumptober#Whump#Tim Drake#Tim Drake & Bruce Wayne#Bruce Wayne#Janet Drake#Bad Parents Janet and Jack Drake#Dark#Dark fic#tw child abuse#please read the tags y'all#Batman
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My son has had one of those weeks where everything is an annoyance and he has just cried at anything. And it's 10x harder to deal with when he's unable to communicate what is upsetting him. He's signing goes right out of the window and then he gets frustrated at his tablet so doesn't tell me through there.
I am exhausted and my head is pounding and my mum is a hero for providing me with an evenings respite for looking after him while I have just 3 hours to myself
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incredibly plot-relevant information for these two btw
Sen's degree is on language studies and communication because [REDACTED]
#my art#yeah the feral fucker actually knows how to redact a professional e-mail and use dragon excel it was all part of the training arc#in the end of the day Joule is the smarter of the two his parents just neglected his education bcuz “he is gonna die anyway lol”#which to be fair yeah that was the plan#but also sen's clan knew the same but they sure as fuck wouldnt let her kil kill murder bite without knowing how to save herself legally#like just in case#dont worry once they stop trying to make each other die Sen spends a whole ass arc teaching Joule to write and read (wholesome)
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my day be so fine then boom I start thinking about the work culture of spirited away and all the implications that it brings
#the message of work in spirited away is something that can be so personal#the fact that she carries the burden of responsibility at such a young age. having to save her parents while working hard just to stay alive#the literal discrimination in the workplace ooouuuu thats so real i fear#me watching the workplace scenes go down was literally just a constant echo of “real.”#spirited away is such a fantastic movie man.#spirited away#sen to chihiro no kamikakushi#random ramble
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【KHR】 Xanxus + KHR Misc Rambles 🔥🍷
Mainly KHR and Xanxus related rambles.
(Put the rest of the rambles of this under the cut)
(KHR: VARIA ARC SPOILERS)
Fandom wikis are a disaster tho cuz I remember seeing people put fucking. Nonsense fanfic theories on Xanxus' wiki page, which is just???
But I would still love to create and add wiki pages for LimGuda, JuAli, KuroEne, IdaTatsu
We work hard in niche popular ship and rare pair city!!! 💖✨
I have a thing for settling into niche popular (ie. LimGuda) and rare pair ships (ie. XanLena, JuAli, KuroEne, IdaTatsu) 💖
If only to spread the word for them 📸💥
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Why are people putting their shitty speculations/theories into Xanxus' wiki page bruh.
This isn't even canon, just speculation.
C: OH YEAH THE WIKI IS LIKE THAT LMAO
Pretty sure somewhere in the wiki is a bit that says Shamal raised Gokudera 💀
Me: Dr. Shamal's whole concept is just so. Fuck off.
Like no Amano we did not need a (minor character) sexual harasser pervert man misogynist that constantly sexually harasses women (including underage girls 💀)
And he refuses to treat men as an adult doctor cuz he dislikes men & thinks he'll get the cooties.
Dr. Shamal /neg /derogatory 🚮
"Put in litter" emoji!!! 🚮🚮🚮
I still hate how Dr. Shamal is supposed to be the "Role model" figure for Gokudera just cuz his own ass father basically abandoned him
C: Xanxus' wiki page wtf
????
What are they smokinggg
Me: RIGHT LIKE WHO THE FUCK IS PUTTING THIS SHIT
C: How young was Xanxus when he got taken in?
5? 6?
Me: We never get an age confirmation for when he was taken in by Timoteo (Vongola 9th)
But considering how small kid Xanxus is, I'm just gonna assume anywhere from 5 - 12
C: That's way before any developmental cap
Even assuming Timoteo was such a loving father, he could have probably taught him better and raised him to be different
Me: RIGHT LMAOO
"The kindly Ninth"
Ok /neg
TIMOTEO BEING DESCRIBED AS KIND MAKES ME WANNA GAG HONESTLY
Like no. Timoteo was definitely an emotionally neglective pathetic ass "parent"
He never address his emotional needs or ever find ways to address Xanxus' emotional issues/rage
And even in KHR manga canon he never apologizes for what he did to Xanxus specifically.
(KHR: Varia Arc - Spoilers)
Varia Arc - Xanxus' Backstory
Ok I'll sum this up quickly.
Context: Basically what happens in KHR manga canon is that Xanxus was born in the slums and developed a rare flame, the Flame of Wrath, at an early age, and eventually got taken in by Timoteo (Vongola 9th).
Xanxus was made to believe that he'd be the Vongola 10th boss (and was supported by most of the family, except Timoteo ofc), and his arrogance grew as he got older from being raised on a pedestal.
Timoteo kept the secrets hidden that Xanxus could never be Vongola 10th (assumably cuz he was too distanced from the main bloodline)
Xanxus eventually finds out the secret of the Vongola inheritance and rule by breaking into/melting a locked chamber with his flame.
Enraged that he could never be the successor and at Timoteo for betraying him by keeping the information hidden from him, teen Xanxus eventually gathered the Varia members as his subordinates and started a coup d'état against Vongola 9th (an incident later referred to as the "Cradle Affair")
Xanxus got punished with a fate almost worse than death, Timoteo uses the Dying Will Zero Point Breakthrough technique that essentially freezes him in (magical) ice.
Timoteo never apologizes for (basically) freezing his son in magical ice and just, essentially leaves him there in ice prison. For 8 years.
But to the rest of the Vongola family, this truth was concealed, so it was widely believed he was kept on strict surveillance instead.
In the present KHR plot, 8 years later, Xanxus gets freed by an unknown person, and, when presented/confronted with his traumas that get dug up again, goes off the rails.
Understanding that this is the only way that he could become Vongola 10th boss, when both the Vongola 9th boss (Timoteo), and the chief external advisor (Iemitsu) approved of Tsuna as the Vongola 10th boss successor, Xanxus plots a scheme in his goal to become Vongola 10th boss.
He has Vongola 9th stuffed inside a deadly robot draining at his life force (LMFAO), then sets up the Ring Battles - a tournament style set-up where he and his Varia members will compete against Tsuna and co., to fight for the Vongola Rings, in deadly matches, in order to decide who will become the Vongola 10th boss and Vongola 10th generation guardians.
(KHR: Varia Arc - Ch. 122)
When this relevation is revealed:
Tsuna ends up splitting the robot that Timoteo is inside (unaware that he was trapped inside).
Timoteo only apologizes to Tsuna for "allowing Xanxus to escape [from the ice he was encased/trapped in]"
Timoteo then reaffirms that he chose Tsuna as the Vongola 10th successor, and not Xanxus
And never apologizes to his own son
Like WHY is THAT your priorities. Apologizing for allowing him to escape?
FUCKING HATE THIS MAN SM I CAN'T STAND HIS ASS!!!
LIKE WTF IS THIS
This chara can fuck off so hard honestly
Dawg he reminds me of Il (AkaYona) with how they're both a badly written woobified parent chara framed as sympathetic (completely undeservingly)
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That was your own teenage son and yet you robbed him of his own agency AND the chance to steer his own life and become a better person.
He lost vital years for growing (8 years...), and it shows in the adult-like composure but teenager-like emotional immaturity that Xanxus has.
It's so needlessly heartless and cruel. As I said, this fate of getting locked away in ice (jail) to be forgotten forever, is almost worse than death.
I'm never gonna get over how fucked up it is in context that Timoteo resolved this sitaution by ice-ing his son.
Reborn's words in the KHR manga also confirm what I initially speculated as well: Timoteo misused the Dying Will Zero Point Breakthrough technique, the freezing ice technique.
It was originally created by Vongola Primo (1st generation Vongola boss) to seal away Dying Will flames.
The Cradle Affair situation could've ended with Timoteo just freezing his hands temporarily.
It's not supposed to be used to FREEZE PEOPLE...
He didn't want to deal with the problems he caused by being a shit ass neglective parent tho, so he just froze Xanxus and kept the ice locked away in chains and metal.
Someone like Reborn, who is privy to many of the Vongola family's secrets, even thought he was kept under surveillance after that (which would've been more reasonable).
KEPT OUT OF SIGHT. KEPT OUT OF MIND. FOR 8 YEARS???
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The fact that Xanxus was so enraged (both when he was a teen during the Coup, and as an adult now) is so valid honestly.
Vongola 9th getting trapped inside a robot by Xanxus & the Varia is perfect karma lmfao
I'm glad that KHR's framing on its villains/antagonists is mostly neutral, but I really can't stand the way it treats Xanxus' harboured rage/resentment as something he was in the wrong for
Like it's so obvious that he thinks of "love and friendship" as worthless because his views are so obviously affected by his upbringing - he only knows "love" from the worthless man that betrayed him.
Added with the fact that as an assassin leader, the leader of the Varia, a mafia boss, he never would've had the need for the "Feelings first" attitude that Tsuna has. It is wholly unecessary to him.
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In retrospect, to be "loved" genuinely, is what he (Xanxus) always needed. But he didn't get that. He certainly didn't get it from his shit ass incompetent parent.
Like it framed his harboured resentment and the fact that he was so emotionally broken and riddled with grief and trauma, as something he was in the wrong for (and frames Timoteo as sympathetic).
Which is just... (.) 💀
Magi, which has such a sympathetic and cathartic framing of its antagonist/opposing figure charas, would never do this to me!
Like I agree Xanxus went off the rails overboard (valid of him tho lmfao considering his context) but none of his actions, deserved that kind of fate.
In conclusion, Timoteo can fuck off
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You (Timoteo) treated him, your own son, like a rabid animal fearful that they'll bite someone, and not an actual person.
He NEVER expresses regret for his actions in what he did to his own son which is so fucked up.
So I can't fucking stand his "warm grandad" side he shows to Tsuna. He never shows it to his own son.
Especially when the way Timoteo is treated in both the Varia arc and later arcs as a warmly grandfatherly figure.
Really feels like Amano's "fix-it" writing in trying to frame and woobify (redeem an asshole chara undeservingly) this series' awful parent charas as "See! He was actually good after all!"
I still don't trust the framing of Timoteo in the Simon arc. Like oh this man finally wants to take responsibility now?
For everything except how he treated his son. Lol.
Pack it up cuz none of Amano's "fix-it" writing could ever make me like this chara (Timoteo)
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C: LMAO
There's a huge gap in how Timoteo treats Xanxus and how he treats basically everyone else
Me: Dr. Shamal is just 💀
D*E CISHET TRASH!!!
C: Lmfao valid
Me: It was just this before. Which is completely fine
Me: And then all of a sudden in 2023 someone inserted their stupid speculations into his wiki page
C: Bhbhbh fucken cursed
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(KHR: Varia Arc - Ch. 134 Spoilers)
Also it would just make more sense if Xanxus's verbal tic/habit of saying "trash" or "scum" (カス[ども], Kasu [domo]) came from how, after being taken in, how his arrogance grew as he became older.
Since he looked down on other families and other Vongola Boss candidate successors from branch families, and saw himself as superior cuz he was basically raised on a pedestal after being taken in and was raised to believe that he'd be the 9th boss' successor
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R: Never trust fandom wikis
C: For real
R: The shipping wiki either 😁
C: LOL
Sounds like a disaster
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R: YEAHH ;;; shipping wikis are so biased it hurts. Why are you putting a ship that was never confirmed canon as canon 👹
Me: Oh yeah… Since it can be edited by anyone I imagine it can be a mess as well
C: Yeah it seems likely he just started saying it at some point
Ahh yeah. Yeah he really thought he was king of the world
C: Help jsngndfsd
C: It feels like it's trying very hard to make Xanxus' character's tragedy and trauma ONLY his early childhood 😭
To a lot of characters you can apply that they start to use the insults that have been directed at them, but Xanxus just… doesn't feel like that
Because yeah he's arrogant as hell, he thinks he's above everyone.
C: Exactly omg
Me: RIGHT like that's why it bothers me sm…
Xanxus' character tragedy lies in his WHOLE context (ie. His early childhood, the entire Cradle Affair situation)
It's really so insulting to me that it dismisses his character's whole tragedy (in his early childhood and teenage years) while trying to make him come off as some uwu sad boy that was hurt by other people, so now he calls them trash back. That isn't Xanxus.
Dawg if you're at least gonna put fanon speculations can you at least put good ones. LMFAO
Xanxus just doesn't feel like that kind of character. He thinks he's the king of the world, and so, looks down on everyone.
C: Yeaaaaa that's very true
It's just. It's not Xanxus man
C: Yeah
He's simply above everyone
#Not gonna tag this cuz I'll lose it if I get people justifying his shitty dad's actions in my mentions#Literally nothing could justify just how poorly he dealt with his own son and the Cradle incident#But thankfully it's becoming more widely understood that majority of the parents in this series are dogshit lmao!#I obviously sympathize with the morally questionable & bankrupt evil meow meow mf cuz his whole deal is so interesting and compelling to me#Not the badly written woobified parent#sen's rambles#ktky#rbrn#xx#xnln#xanlena
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My son, 5, (ASD, probably ADHD) just said he wishes he was born a girl because being a girl would make him happy. 🥺
I'm not sure if this is a "take me seriously" moment or just an 'ism and something he's saying. He does have a trans aunt (born dad's brother). He's never met her, sadly as she lives further away now.
I didn't pressure or ask questions other than why does he feel like that (that's when he said because it would make him happy). Might be something I have to watch and listen to him over if the feelings don't change. I am inclined to believe it's just something he is saying, BUT he has always been quite feminine in many ways and has always preferred girl characters, traditionally feminine toys and clothes, and female company over male company.
Not that that means anything.
I do believe fluidity with gender identity is common with neurodivergent individuals, yes?
Should I be asking him questions, or did I handle this okay?
#parenting#parent#parenting autism#asd#autism#autistic#gender#gender fluidity#gender identity#asc#aln#additional needs#sen parent
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#translation: gastro /stomach bug. and the picture is our daycare informing parents about that#we're not actually sick and we're keeping Almond at home for the rest of the week to avoid that#mun posti#suomipaskaa#idk onko suomitumpulla ja mumblrilla paljo overlappia mutta jos on niin sen tägi ois varmaan suomimumblr#yritin keksiä jotain vauvanpaskapunia mutta ei nyt näillä yöunilla oikeen lähe
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Older Yoru and Older Nanaki meeting up is sm. In the alternative timeine
Like. Mass-train wreck dealing w/ his friends death and she walks in then out as if she didn't just give him a midlife crisis/midlife realization, suicide plan, plan to kill Kisaki and Hanma by burning down the ENTIRE FUCKING BUILDING and a broken heart.. like.. girl..
#ignore me#Yoru is a bisexual btw so both ways but the situationship wifh Nanaka is important in that timeline.#sen is MUCH MUCH worse with him.#dawg leaves him high and dry six-ways to sunday but Yoru still has that everfescent yearning for what once was#the nostaglia and the brief feeling of hope that something mightgo back to normal yet all there js is#is a slammed door tped shut with nails inherently drilled in.#sen wants no part in him esp after running into him w/ takashi on his shouldee years ago#dawg... chill they wre best friends.#yes this is a tr oc#new and improved. Ersu gets thrown in the dumpster for reasons i cant name but Wakana is his brother#Yoru dyed his hair partly because of Wakasa AND wakana. lmfao. the names.#anw part of his hair is dyed black is bc ofhis parents#or grandparents#i forgor...#anw Yoru Hoshimori everybody.#clap.
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Comment Prendre une Année Sabbatique Peut Transformer Votre Vie
✨ Envie de redécouvrir ce qui compte vraiment dans votre vie ? Prenez une pause ! 🛑 Dans mon nouvel article, je partage comment une année sabbatique a transformé mon quotidien de maman et femme. Osez vivre vos rêves ! 🌟 #AnnéeSabbatique #DevPerso
Dans une époque où tout va à 100 à l’heure, nous nous laissons souvent happer par un quotidien fait de to-do lists interminables, d’objectifs professionnels à atteindre, et de rôles à assumer. Mais que se passerait-il si, au lieu de continuer à courir, nous décidions de tout arrêter ? Prendre une année sabbatique, c’est bien plus qu’une simple pause : c’est une prise de pouvoir sur son temps,…
#année sabbatique#année sabbatique mamans#bénéfices d&039;une année sabbatique#bien-être mental#comment prendre une année sabbatique#congé parental#congé sabbatique parental#définir ses priorités#développement personnel#équilibre travail vie personnelle#équilibre vie pro vie perso#gestion du temps#parentalité et carrière#prendre une année sabbatique#projet personnel année sabbatique#quête de sens#reconversion après année sabbatique#redécouvrir ses passions#se déconnecter du travail#transformer sa vie
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Life update: my current rental is now up for sale so I have had to spend the last 3 weeks juggling finances, work, parenting and usual life style with house viewings, cleaning, clearances and chasing paperwork. Have now managed to find a lovely place for the family for obviously more money but gotta live right??
My son is in his last year of infant school in a mainstream meeting and we have been trying to secure a placement at a specialist school which looked to be heading towards a tribunal and appeal process but the local authority have decided not to contest and in September, he will have a place at the school we named. Which is amazing news and a huge weight off my mind. Something no parent of SEN child should have to fight for!
I am tired, my 'gameface' is starting to slip as I've had to juggle everyone's anxieties and emotional responses to these situations. Definitely feeling burnout and that I could snap at any given moment, especially when conversations have been had around stuff that really isn't important.
I absolutely need a small break away for just me.
#moving house#sen parenting#i am overwhelmed#i have not had sex in 2 years and im pretty sure thats a cause too
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Do you know how hard it is to have an additional needs child? The marks and bruises mentally and physically that happen, the blame - did I do something to cause this? (Very longs story that goes with that)
The words that cut like a knife and the blows that get thrown, the heartache of having to restrain your own child to protect everyone in the house, including them. The dirty looks and comments heavily implying I’m a shit parent and should ‘control’ my child better as she has another meltdown or if I’m just seeking some sort of support and reassurance. I’ve been through some shit in my life but this is the hardest. There’s no it’ll get better in time, theres no support, there’s no it won’t be like this forever or it’ll be over soon.
Love from a incredibly drained additional needs mum xo
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