#safe space for minors and lgbt+ ppl

[candy8448]

┏━•❃°•°About Post°•°❃•━┓

Hi, hello there! Howdy!

Call me Candy/Cory

Bigenderflux (Male & Female)

She/he/xe/xer

(mirror & neopronouns are pretty cool too)

I prefer alternating pronouns btw, but its cool if you only use one or the other

Dont use they/them for me, i dont like it

Minor

Timezone: BST

Main Fandoms:

Linked universe / The legend of Zelda

Other fandoms:

Warrior cats

The promised neverland

Dungeon Meshi/Delicious in Dungeon

Skyrim

Super paper mario

Anime

I do a lotta art, i ramble like a madman and i occasionally write fanfiction :)

You can find my tags (as well as my other blogs) on my masterpost

┗━•❃°•°thats it, that's the blog°•°❃•━┛

[trannydykes]

yeah but misandry (or androphobia) just isnt a thing. and saying that it becomes a thing once youre trans is kinda weird? like i think itd be the trans bit thats getting bigots riled up.

and im not arguing trans men arent discriminated against, im just saying. its not because theyre men. and if its not because they're men, then its not androphobia

and also, the "society doesn't want them to be masculine" can be said about any man/masc person who doesnt perfectly fit into male gender roles. thats not androphobia, thats patriarchy. and sadly when youre a man, trans or not, you get to deal with the hyper-masculinity of patriarchy like every other man. doesnt make it androphobia.

i get it sucks to have ppl de-masculinize you after finding your place as a transmasc person, but thats not because of transandrophobia. its because you live in a hyper-masculine patriarchal society that rewards only the most hyper-masculine men and punishes any deviation from that norm. I can get how you look at the intersection between the patriarchy and transphobia and say 'its transandrophobia" i see that, but it would benefit everyone more if we all acknowledged it for what it rly is, instead of saying 'theyre attacking me because im trans and a man."

also i do appreciate you clarifying you arent being aggressive or condescending, because i dont like fighting with ppl online so its nice to respond to a reply like this, thank you for your politeness. I am also trying to be as non-aggressive as possible in this response and I hope that was conveyed. (also apologies for typos/fuck ups in sentences i have a migraine today)

also after careful deliberation ive come to the conclusion i was right the first time and transandrophobia isnt real. because even if the male part of your identity is being attacked, androphobia cannot be a thing. you're experiencing transphobia.

and if you want to get a focus on transandrophobia to the point where it's taken seriously, take transmisogyny seriously. because everyone ive seen claim to experience transandrophobia is a transmisogynist.

[sweeterboylove]

🍒 soft faggotry 🍒

(18+ space; minors please do not interact)

Emil/Anthony, 24 year old aromantic homosexual. I'm a trans man (post top surgery, on T pellets, saving up for phallo) and as close to a hopeless romantic as an aro person can be. I use he/him and rot/rots. I do not use they/them. Big fan of lip gloss and skater skirts, and love a man in tight levis. My gayness and transness are intrinsically linked. This blog occassionally has soft-core nsft. I don't toss around slurs willy-nilly, but I do use fag often enough and am unlikely to tag it. however, I always tag slurs when used in a negative context.

If you want to talk real world problems, come see my old gay-blog-turned-something-political blog @pansyboybloom. Transmisogyny is rampant in this community, and (trans)misandery/androphobia is not possible in a patriarchal society. Free Palestine, no conditions.

this is a safe space for all mlm and nlm, not just male ones. fem/women mlm, fem/women nblm, bigender, multigender, genderfluid, etc. if you id as mlm or nblm, you are wanted. that being said, as an aro binary trans gay man, this content will focus more on my lived experience

non mlm and nblm queer ppl are appreciated and welcome! my main is @transskywardsword

Slowly trying to read more, so I occasionally liveblog books. Read so far:

- Cruising: An Intimate History of a Radical Pastime (Alex Espinoza) - Whipping Girl: A Transsexual Woman on Sexism and Scapegoating of Femininity; 2nd Edition (Julia Serano) - Real Queer America: LGBT Stories from Red States (Samantha Allen)

(disclaimer: I am religious. I will never talk about it here and am fully against evangelicalism and missionary conversion work, but if my spirituality makes you uncomfortable, feel free to leave, absolutely no hard feelings!)

how to use rot/rots pronouns:

Subject Pronoun - rot

Object Pronoun - rot

Possessive Determiner - rots

Possessive Pronoun - rots

Reflexive Pronoun - rotself

[hero-israel]

What do you think of Reform Jews? I don’t have a problem with it necessarily, but I have noticed it has been the movement of choice for many anti-Zionists to convert into and it’s been making me feel iffy about reform Jews I meet lately bc I don’t know if they’re just a Jew who have been burned by Orthodoxy for their sexuality for example and just want a safe(r) space for them to be both Jewish and Gay, or if they’re a Jew who just converted to legitimize their antiZionism and antisemitism shdjdk which I know is my problem bc I shouldn’t make assumptions about ppl just bc they’re reform

You shouldn't make assumptions about Reform Jews. Or about converts either.

Converts are Jews - full stop - and must always be welcomed, as their souls were welcomed at Sinai. I find it next to impossible to believe that there is any significant trend of people converting to Judaism in order to be anti-Zionist troublemakers. Given how long and involved conversion is (and Reform conversions are just as valid), "haters coming in to attack us" probably happens about as much as razorblades in Halloween candy.

When it comes to anti-Zionist Jews, the call is coming from inside the house. To an overwhelming extent they were born Jewish along one of two paths:

Ultra-Orthodox haredi Judaism (Neturei Karta, Satmar, "True Torah Judaism," etc), who hate Israel both because it was formed by mortal men with smelly armpits instead of by Moshiach with a red heifer, and because Israel is much too tolerant and liberal with too many rights for minorities instead of being a theocratic kingdom where all non-Jewish faiths have been totally eliminated. They "support Palestine" only because it isn't time to wipe out the Palestinians yet, and are every bit as cynical and apocalyptic as the Christian Zionists who want Israel to persist until it is destroyed in the Rapture.

Raised lapsed and unobservant, with Jewish identity totally irrelevant to their lives, to the point that even antisemitism meant nothing to them, so from either the "push" or the "pull" aspects a Jewish state was senseless to them. Judith Butler, Noam Chomsky, Eli Valley, Norman Finkelstein, Alan Rickman, Jackie Walker, Arthur Hays Sulzberger.

It is very hard to convert to Judaism, and we should want more people to persevere through that. It is very easy to throw away a culture and history that seems totally irrelevant to oneself, and we should want those conditions to stop entirely. The latter is a much more real cause of anti-Zionism. It is totally backwards to presume converts must be bringing weakness and subversion with them. I always expect they have joined us out of love and I have never met a case otherwise. The way we slow down the growth of anti-Zionism within the Jewish community is by helping to build dialogue and warmth among people who were born Jewish but for whatever reason feel disconnected and apathetic about Judaism. Show them the community they can still have with us; when we don't, they enter college with a gnawing void of meaning inside them and are easy prey for "Jews for Jesus in Palestine" groups (i.e. If Not Now, formed and led by evangelical Christians).

And since I am Reform, my family is Reform, my children are Reform, "what I think of Reform Jews" is that we're just fine, thanks. The basic "point" of Reform Judaism is to attempt to realize equal treatment for women, LGBT Jews (with gender-neutral ceremonies if requested), and children of interfaith parents, with clergy roles available for all of the above (rabbis, cantors, mohels, etc.), and girls reading from the Torah at their bat mitzvahs; this used to be really distinctive but with overall social trends it no longer is. In terms of social politics, inclusion, and Hebrew-to-English ratio during services, a Conservative shul in 2023 is pretty much a Reform shul in 1993. Where Reform congregations do still stand out is in their full embrace of patrilineal Jews, and in my opinion other congregations should follow that lead as well. I expect they will.

I deliberately left out Jews of color from that list as I think all denominations have been poor at welcoming them. Anyone who wants to give it a go first, please feel free.

[restinslices]

Let it be known that this blog will ALWAYS be a safe space for women, lgbt+, the disabled, the mentally ill, ppl low on funds, plus any other minority group that this country chooses to fuck over on the daily. You will NEVER receive any hatred or judgement here. This blog is a safe space for my bread slices and it’s always gonna be that way.

[littlesatanicassholebitch]

♱ my babies: @roguemetalmaster13 @tinyluvs @gaycrystalbitch @sw34terw34ther @woahlifehitsyahuh <33333

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pronouns/nicknames page

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♱ I need moots!!!!!!!!!!

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♱ will include explicit sexual content

♱ MINORS DNI

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♱ im a chaos witch :)

♱ Have a bunch of mental illnesses, I'm the utmost understanding of limitations, moots have a safe space

♱ Part of the LGBT community, currently don't have a label but I ain't straight

♱ I'm a drag queen, so if you don't like it, suck my dick 🖤

♱ CISHET MEN, MINORS, GENERAL BAD VIBES PPL, HOMOPHOBIC, TRANSPHOBIC, BIGOTS, RACISTS, ANTISEMITICS, JUST SHITTY PEOPLE DNI

I like:

Glam rock , mainly mötley crüe, guns and roses, bon Jovi and Queen, ghost but I wanna find new artists to listen to

Taylor Swift, Lana del Rey, lady gaga, and lots of random people on my themed playlists

I read fanfic/am a fan of: Stranger things, Grey's anatomy, Lucifer, Rupauls drag race, peaky blinders, modern family, b99, superstore, community

SLASHERS!!!!!!! Tiffany Valentine, Hannibal lecter, Jason vorhees, leatherface, Carrie, Jennifer

I play a lot on the PlayStation, I have all the ps+ games and bought a few, playing mainly rdr2, tlou, Minecraft, SpongeBob rehydrated atm, but I tend to switch a lot

[xburnmeintheashesx]

"proship dni" people fr be like, oh this is a safe space we will protect u from harmful ships, except whats a harmful ship is subjectively decided or a consensus is commonly reached in the fandom

Then support the most controversial shit that makes me, a pretty vulnerable person, yelp in fear.

What i find funny is that they police ppl about ship but then they promote the most unhinged shit, say the most unhinged takes, or participate in the very behavior they denounce in real life...

Meanwhile people that are accused proshippers become too scared t even interact with minors out of fear or developed OCDs, further isolating minors that actually need help.

The internet degeneracy has gone real...

And what's worst is that no party is actually fighting to protect minors better for actual clauses like putting age of consent at 18 and putting romeo + juliet laws for below. or actually cracking the law so relationships between minors and adults are ACTUALLY unlawful not just sex (only Puerto Rico and Japan have such laws I believe)

Wonder if I made a petition for an act to actually help minors that isn't just anti-LGBT bigotry how much signatures it'd get

But nooo let's punish good people who make mistakes or people who just make 2 adult blorbos with a 7 year age diff kiss and actually defend the baddies who show like no remorse for their actions

[rjxbread]

groans i am thinking and also ran out of tags so i’m gonna groan again in a sec

[aroaceconfessions]

I hate that a lot of aphobic ppl on tw says things like: “They don’t kill u :)” and I’m always like…um, do you actually want to see news of aroaces getting k*lled? Would they approve aces being in the LGBT+ just if they get m*rdered? If you do, maybe, just MAYBE, are turning the community more and more into an elitist club of opression. Becoming bullies to the minorities that are more invisible than you. An enemy more like homophobes are to you. Allocishets maybe hate me bc of lack of knowledge about asexuality, but aphobic queer ppl KNOWS what this is about. It’s funny, because they say nobody hates us for being ace, but in the end is usually the Kpop Icon Lesbian who throws death threaths actively towards positivy aces posts & experiences. They don’t respect the gay/bi/lesbian/trans aces either, only the other part of their identity. “They are LGBT+ for that, not the ace side” like that’s a compliment for them. So, in my personal opinion, should aroaces be in LGBT+ spaces? I would like so much to say “Yes, bc we are”, but the reality is very different. I don’t want to be part of it. Why should I be in a place were they hate me with a burning passion for no reason, while they say “Respect everyones identities ♥” in June? Why should I be with ppl who I assumed will understand me better than allocishets, but they don’t? Why should I be safe in a place where I see comments waiting to see me death for being ace to be finally valid? I expected to be welcome, but I’m not.

[satanicmacchiato]

culpa, hammer, majesty, satanic, genesis, macabre (for the ghost asks)

Ahh yay!!

Culpa - When did you first discover Ghost?

It was probably between 2015/2016 that one of my partners at the time tried to introduce me to Ghost because they figured I'd be into them based on my music taste, but I'm a horrific procrastinator and just kept putting off giving them a try, not for any particular reasons other than I'm terrible at following up on people's recommendations

Fast forward to summer of 2017 and said partner and I found jobs at the same arena in our city and Ghost opened for Iron Maiden!!! As event staff I got lucky enough to be placed on the floor the whole night, and so I ended up getting to see the whole concert.

At the end of the night I think I was like, "wow so this is who you were talking about!!!! They're so cool!!!"

And then I finally jumped down the rabbit hole from there!

Hammer - If you could resurrect one Papa, who would you pick?

Definitely it would have to be Primo, he kind of paved the way and had to deal with the days when people hated Ghost enough to try to boo them off the stage and flip them off, he deserves to be fleshed out more and to sing in a stadium full of people there just to see them and sing along to their songs

Majesty - Do you have a favorite ghoul?

Cirrus! She simply slays

Satan - Do you believe Ghost is satanic?

Yes, but very much in the sense of modern Satanism where of course they don't believe in the literal devil, but still they're a safe space for people who are rejected by the church

(And yes of course... there are gonna be herds of people who are, "lol but i'm a christian and i like ghost." okay. good for you. quit burying your head in the sand about the harm church communities have done to minority groups like LGBT ppl or the way many individuals treat people with different belief systems.)

Genesis - Would you kill Copia if it meant you could bring back all of the Papas?

It hurts but yes I would, Copia is so fleshed out now and honestly I would like us to have the chance to get to know the other Papas more in the same way

Macabre - Do you enjoy the interviews and the lore, or do you like sticking to just the music?

I love the interviews and the lore so much!!! And I ESPECIALLY love in-character interviews that further build the mythos

Ghost Asks!

[lovingboy]

american gays who make fun of gsa kids are SO frustrating and are not aware of their privilege in the slightest. a lot of lgbt people don't even have a gsa to make fun of. not everyone lives in the USA. i tried to open a lgbt club at my school and i got severely fucking bullied for it. We never even were able to officially open one thru the school. All we had was a secret one. When we had our first meeting only 5 ppl came out of fear of homophobia/hate crimes. Shut the fuck up about how gsa kids are cringy and realize how privileged you are to even have them in the first place.

also a big reason ppl make fun of gsa kids is because of ableism. like y'all deadass list a fucking list of neurodivergent symptoms as the reason u find them cringy. Like u do realize that, right..

also we NEED safe non sexualized queer spaces for minors and its so fucking disheartening to see y'all rip apart the only place like that we have. The only explicitly gay places we have are places like gay bars and pride which always have copious amounts of alcohol and sexualization and there needs to be more gay places safe for minors and rn the only thing like that is gsa's. So get ur head out of ur ass and stop making fun of mostly neurodivergent gay kids to make urself feel superior. I fucking hate u all. Ur not better than them cuz ur "cool and not cringy". Stop acting superior because you're NOT. Sit the fuck down and gain some perspective.

[antiresperidoneclub]

i havent posted anything in awhile but happy pride month yall! and, very much in me fashion imma take this time ta make another informational post! this installment is called

why assimilation is overall harmful to the queer community + the damage of pseudo-right wing ideas spread thruout the trans community!

CW: queerphobia, transmedicalism, bl*ir wh*te, k*lvin g*rrah, violence against queer ppl.

so, where do we start?

assimilation, what is it?

assimilation is a deliberate effort made by a minority/ marginalized group to (instead of become free) join the majority/privledged, which is wildly more accesible ta abled nuerotypical cis white lgb folks.

now, how does that apply ta th queer community? before that, we hafta look at th stark distinction between th LGBT community and th QUEER community.

because sadly its now different

imma make this as short as possible but basically,

despite its intentions when it was formed decades ago, th LGBT communiy an th way it functions is percieved is different. case in point, th term LGBT has been heavily gentrified and commodified especially by corporations tryina sell it to non-lgbt audiences. youll notice a majority of LGBT voices an advocates are usually white cis lgb ppls or are assimilationists. th term LGBT aswell has been heavily diluted and decontexualized from its roots, such as fightin for rights wit riots an demonstrations, bein heavily tied wit black an indigenous liberation, socialist ideals and memorializing th struggle for our freedom. its also (as apart of its gentrification) is bein forced ta be more 'family friendly' in an effort of control an ta make cash off of us an further assimilate us.

the QUEER community is a somewhat niche nowadays as it sticks fairly close ta th original goals as th LGBT community once had. such as wantin an willin ta fight for liberation rather than succumb ta assimilation. its also seen as a threat as it directly challenges th authority (capitlism, cops/military, goverment, white supremacy, fascism) for its mistreatment an oppresion against queer ppl and other marginalized groups. if th LGBT community is th privledged assimilations that can be proffited off of, then th queer community is more alike 'outcasts' or 'rejects' that arent as palatable ta a cishet majority ie; trans women/ trans/queer ppls of colour, more radicalized queer folks, or those impoverished.

so, with that said, how has/does assimilation harm queer ppl?

as i said, assimilation is disspraportionatly accesible ta able-bodied, neurotypical, cis, non-poor white LGB ppls (shocker) meaning th majority of queer poc, trans people, impoverished, and diasbaled/neurodivergent folks get left behind and continuosly stomped on in an attempt ta eradicate us. and it should be noted theres 2 types of assimilation

1. forced assimilation; forced assimilation is where marginalized ppls thru cultural eradication/genocide r forced ta strip themselves of their identity an join th majority which results in oppresion, discrimination, an further erasure of th ppls themselves. this is heavily seen within th queer community wit th AIDS crisis where those who survived were later branded as 'brave' by th very system that sought their demise in th first place, leavin our community in shambles.

2. chosen assimilation; chosen assimilation is where usually a small group/ or a singular person will disregard their people in an a attempt ta be spared from oppresion or discrimination. in terms of queer ppl (especially trans folks) th main contendors r blair white, kalvin garrah, an buck angel. blair is a stellar example of attempted assimilation. she not only rejetcs, but constantly puts her own people on blast publicly ta her audince of white cishet conservatives an (more often than not) fascists. not only that but she deliberatly associates wit th very ppl who seek her erasure an oppresion in an assbackwards attempt at salvation. more concrete examples include 1. showin herself as 'one of th good ones' or 'normal' 2. acting as if shes cishet 3. constantly self-hating ta appease those mentioned above 4. spewing dangerous an misinormed rhetoric aimed at trans ppls which directly affects trans poc an non-passing trans women. next, kalvin garrah. i was gonna write a whole thing on him but instead ill (below) link copshatemoe's videos about him.

so, now that we know how assimilation both forced an personal harms queer ppls in general, what about trans ppls an th trans community?

transmedicalism and its disasterous effects towards the trans community.

transmedicalism is a belif system of sorts that follows ideals such as

beliving trans ppls must be suffering from dysphoria to be trans

a trans person must want to transition to be trans

being trans is a mental illness/ neurological condition/ birth defect cause by unbalanced horomone levels or th existence of "male and female brains"

belivies HRT or surgerys are a 'cure' for dysphoria/ 'transness'

that neopronouns or non-lesbian, gay, bisexual, or binary trans folks are invalid or 'wannabes' who see th "lgbt community as a club of sorts to join jus because"

borderline or blatant rascist, transmysoginistic, ableist rhetoric.

intentional or not, that assimilation is key an becomin 'as close ta bein cis as possible' is th goal of transition.

now, i could spend ages rantin about how these belifs are blatently wrong but however rather than disecting them lets jus go over th direct harm these belifs have caused th trans community.

lets start wit nonbinary folks. nowadays as ive seen transmedicalism has become more open ta acceptin nonbinary folks but regardless they were one of th first punchin bags. since bein nonbinary in any facet isnt exactly 'medically sustained' its already seen as bullshit, but past that it opens th gates for neoprounouns an non-convetional identitys. enby ppls would be attacked constantly or called "trenders" in an attempt ta discourage them from even existing. this 'highschool bully' type of mentality along wit th superiority complex behind transmedicalism created a stark divide between "normal" trans ppls an th "weirdo, faker" trans ppls. not only did these attacks further stigmatize an already oppresed minority but also forced ppl ta hide themselves from they own community ta avoid ridicule an bullying. this type of harrasment has left these ppls wit trauma an fear of they identity bein challenged not only online but also in IRL queer spaces while they already hafta stay hypervigilant around cis ppl, now it seems th same around binary trans folks. not only have nonbinary ppls have been impacted however, binary trans ppls were left wit insecurities, wonderin if they dysphoria is 'rlly that bad compared ta others' and worrying about things they usually didnt care about. probably th biggest of those is 'passing'. passing is th action of looking as cis as possible ta blend in an avoid general treatments sustained by cishet ppls. i as a transwomen was directly affected by this rhetoric which caused me years of my transition spent not becomin myself, but becomin as close ta a cis girl as possible. this lead me ta become embarresed by my own community also factored in by havin virtually no trans friends IRL. this was th shared experince of many binary trans folks an nonbinary trans folks i know an am friends with. in conclusion, transmedicalsim has not only ostrasized an traumatized queer folks, but has also left insecurities an damage ta binaty trans folks aswell.

so, with that in mind, how do we combat, well, all of this an much more?

liberation

liberation is th action of freeing a marginalized group from its oppresive chains. an how would this look/work for th queer community?

majority of cishet ppls think that queer liberation ended wit marriage equality but thats very much not true. multiple basic human freedoms have been stripped from not only cis lgb queers but also trans people aswell. rights such as affordable housing witout discrimination, medical options for trans people being completly accesible or downright free, safe spaces or areas where were able ta exist free of fear of persecution or discrimination, better healthcare treatment towards queer ppl, things sometimes neccisary ta ones transition bein more accesible such as name/document changes, and many more things. but remember, none of this is possible witout ingigenous liberation/land back, black liberation, or under capitlism

anyways, i have 0 way ta end this so happy pride month an a very happy juneteenth!! if ur black ur more than welcome ta leave any gofundmes, cashapps, venmos etc in th notes or reblogs!

also, if you have any additions or points/topics i shouldve made or covered pls reblog wit them!

-alexis

[tendousrabies]

Bear with me for this is gonna be long as h3ll but im gonna be listing my byf, dni, gender identity etc. here so y'all will know :) if there's anything in the dni that should be added please dm me! I wanna make this as much of a safe space as possible! Especially if its in the Race and Ethnicity Section, Im a non-jewish white person and ik im not as educated on this stuff so if you're Jewish And/Or POC and there's something im missing I'd love to know!

Im a Nonbinary Male who's a Bigender Demifluidflux Demiboy, who's always 50% male but is fluidflux between xenogenders. I'll put my pronoun page in my bio for y'all to see what i go by and stuff

BYF: I will probably post a lot of headcanons and stuff with occasional sh1tposting, if thats not the kinda thing you wanna see then this account isn't for you, i will probably say slurs i can reclaim, im a male gg stan (ik some ppl r uncomfy w that so I'm stating it here), also if you haven't noticed, i censor cuss words with numbers.

DISCOMFORTS (Things that aren't DNI, but i would like if you didn't mention): Korekiyo Shinjugi x Girls, Kaito Momota x Girls, TodoDeku, BakuDeku, KacChako, Oumeno

DNI (Thats specifically trans related): truscum/transmed, anti-mogai, anti-neopronouns, anti-xenogender, gender critical, terf/swerf, you use trans terms when you are cis (ex. gender envy)

DNI (LGBTQ+ related): anti hh/tt lesbian, anti nonbinary gay/lesbian, panphobe/biphobe/omniphobe/polyphobe, fetishize any lgbtq+ community, acephobe or arophobe, exclusionist, lgbt+ phobic, anti polyamory, superstraight supporter or id as superstraight, use stud/stem for yourself when you aren't a black lesbian

DNI (Ethnicity and Race related) : anti-semetic, nazi/white supremacist, racist, xenophobic, islamophobic, anti-blm, poc-fetishizer, colourist, appropriate cultures

DNI (Types of Accounts): ed/thinspo blog, ddlg/ageplay account, flop account

DNI (Other): Call yourself fujoshi/fudanshi if you aren't japanese, think fujoshi/fudanshi means fetishizer, call bl yaoi (whether ur a fujo or anti-fujo), pro-map/nomap/map, anti kin, pro ddlg/ageplay, anti sfw agere, trump supporter, biden supporter (biden settler and biden supporter are different, its okay to have preferred biden, just dont full on support him, he's a terrible person too), republican or capitalist, pro-life, anti-vaxx, anti-mask, proship/antianti, sexualize minors, use slurs you cannot reclaim, mock tone indicators or dont use them for people who need it, anti rarepair ship

DNI (Thats related to certain media): You ship Tenko from danganronpa with men, You headcanon chihiro as trans or support those headcanons, You ship Eremika (Eren and Mikasa from AOT), You ship TogaFuka (Togami and Toko from Danganronpa), you ship junko with anyone, You slander any of my comfort characters, kins, or ships (ill put them down at the end), ybc/yy stan, any apologist tbh

MY COMFORT CHARACTERS:

- Tendou Satori

- Keiji Shinogi

- Gin Ibushi

- Kaito Momota

- Kiibo

- TeruTeru Hanamura

- Hifumi Yamada

- Jimmy Valmer

- Reigen Araraka

- Cioccolata (JJBA)

- Gamzee Makara

- Tsukishima Kei

My Ships:

Shuichi Saihara x Kaito Momota

Sally x Travis

Kiibo x Miu Oruma

Kiyotaka Ishimaru x Mondo Oowada

Tanaka Ryuunosuke x Nishinoya Yuu

Ushijima Wakatoshi x Tendou Satori

Bokuto Kotaru x Kuroo Tetsurou

Tendou Satori x Goshiki Tsutomu

Tsukishima Kei x Yamaguchi Tadashi

Kirishima Ejirou x Bakugou Katsuki

Josuke Higashitaka x Okuyasu Nijimura

Narancia Ghirga x Pannacotta Fugo

Gamzee Makara x Tavros Nitram

Leone Abbachio x Bruno Bucciarati

My Kins: Shinji Ikari, Crona, Mikan Tsumiki, Kazuichi Souda, Shuichi Saihara, Kiyotaka Ishimaru, Chiaki Nanami, Ryoma Hoshi, TeruTeru Hanamura, Toko Fukawa, Hifumi Yamada, Chihiro Fujisaki, Kiibo, Miu Iruma, Gundham Tanaka, Himiko Yumeno, Nagito Komaeda, Fugo Pannacotta, Bruno Bucciarati, Doppio Vinegar, Foo Fighters (JJBA), Kenny McCormick, Butters Stotch, Tweek Tweak, Mob (Mob Psycho 100), Gin Ibushi, Secco (JJBA), Jataro Kemuri, Inosuke Hashibira, Kaidou Shun, Yukako Yamagishi, Dipper Pines, Wirt (OTGW), Napstablook, Tamaki Amajiki, Kirishima Eijirou, Neil (Camp Camp), Tavros Nitram, Yamaguchi Tadashi

[primordial-soupism]

Hey idk if this was long overdue, but I can’t pretend like the radical feminist movement hasn’t been watered down to bigotry. if u play along w/ the “superstraight” thing & don’t recognize that it is a group of ppl openly mocking not only trans ppl but LGB ppl as well to own the “TRAs” i have no idea what to make of u. if ur actually serious of dropping the T to add an S at the end, u have completely lost it. Reminder that the LGBT+ community is a safe space and organizational strategy to fight against a heteropatriachal society, if u have forgotten even this, don’t call urself a radfem. and if I’m in the minority here, I guess I will have to drop the label of radfem altogether.

[0kultra]

╔═══════════════╗ 𝙝𝙖𝙣𝙚𝙪𝙡 ✿ 하늘 korean. n. "heaven, sky". ╚═══════════════╝

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[tf2headcanonz]

Rules:

(as of 8/11/20)

DNI if:

you are trans exclusionary/transphobic/transmisogynistic (transmed/truscum/terf/tehm/non binary skeptic/gender critical)

exclusionist (aphobe/panphobe/anti mogai/reg)

racist (this includes anti-blm/pro blue lives matter)

conservative, right wing, anti feminist, anti sjw, trad or centrist

intersexist (believe that intersex surgeries are good and nessecary or fetishise intersex ppl (liking f*ta or anything similar))

ableist (includes believing that ocd, did, npd, schizophrenia, etc makes you inherently abusive or harm others, includes being a eugenicist)

romanticise abuse of any kind (includes pro shippers (incest n pedo shippers), yandere, etc)

pro ana/pro mia/thinspo/weight loss (the owner of this blog is in recovery! please respect that!)

minors do not interact with posts tagged #notsfw and #tw kink

Please Note:

this blog is run by a mentally ill, disabled person so please be patient with requests. it is okay to send your ask more than once incase tumblr ate it, or ask me if i got a certain request, just be polite and patient. I will try to get most requests done but please understand if there are some i cannot do.

this is also my first headcanon blog ever so please be polite if my writing isnt the best or if i dont write a merc to how you prefer. This blog is also meant to be a safe space for people so please dont come in here considering certain requests or anything cringy or bad.

Request Rules:

i do NOT write:

yandere or abusive relationships (please dont request for cheavy)

daddy kink/ddlg/mdlb/etc

violent kink requests (no blood play/gun play/knife play/bruising/needle play/violent choking/extreme degradation)

kinks i am personally uncomfortable with or i dont know how to write for (abdl/scat/piss/emeto/alpha-beta-omega/hunter & prey/monster fucker/vore/inflation/feederism) (list is subject to change)

not accepting matchup requests at the moment, will attempt those at a later date

do not request things like how mercs would react to s/o *dying* of suicide

i will not write ms pauling with non-sapphics (i gladly accept nlw x pauling)

kink and nsfw for pyro

bbc or interracial *kink* for demoman. i am a black writer and it makes me uncomfortable and upset for black characters to have their races fetishised

i WILL:

accept submissions as long as they are within the rules

i can attempt oc x merc, but please keep the age gaps mindful i am not comfortable writing young ocs with older mercs like spy or heavy, and please give a ref or description of your oc

write for characters outside of the 9 mercs, so i will accept pauling, saxton, maggie, bidwell, pauling, zhanna, merasmus, etc, however i cannot say i have good strength writing other characters just yet so be polite if i got something wrong

will write for poly relationships as long as the age gap is comfortable

angst/serious topics for comfort or recovery reasons (dealing with suicidal thoughts is allowed, also serious topics may be trigger tagged and put benath a read more)

lgbt headcanons, neurodivergent headcanons, etc for mercs and other characters

general headcanons for mercs and other characters

i lied i WILL do merc x merc/canon characters actually

nsfw and kink that is NOT on my lists of kinks i dont do (kink will be tagged tw: kink, and both will be put under read more)

i will do my best to follow anyones triggers so if you need anything at all trigger tagged please ask !

i will write platonic headcanons or queer-platonic headcanons!