#reminders.

[loonashifter]

look at me. you are not defined by what the 3d shows you. you are not defined by your intrusive thoughts. you are defined by your 4d. you are defined by your dedication to becoming the true version of yourself. okay? remember that.

[maxmoffs]

okay okay okay …..I get what u all mean now by tumblr dms being so ugly annoying it’s now getting on my nerves . 😅🫧 listen i did not know this, I haven’t talked to ppl online in so long fjddk so pls do bare with me im still getting used to it , but pls do understand my light warning now , that I can be slow, i will always try my best to reply / get back to u as best as possible . this is just bc of life and is something that i hope is understandable , of course u can nudge me always but i do see u 🫧 , but also yes I’d love to develop wanda and all my other muses closely with yall/my mutuals anyway, so feel free and don’t be shy to approach me anytime when ideas spark for any muse that interest u that I have 🫶🏼 u may add me on d.iscord , if u want to ever yap to me ooc and/or just for plotting !! just im me that it’s u

🪩’rd user: arden1ly I used multi user hehe 🤏🏼

[tiredbabybat]

A reminder for myself and others

It's ok if your idea of tidiness doesn't match what society thinks

It's ok if you get overwhelemed and struggle to clean

It's ok if your version of tidiness isn't instagram worthy, organised cabinets

It'd ok if your version of tidiness is throwing everything into a basket or stuffing it into drawers and closets so atleast your area is clean

It's ok if it takes you ages to clean because you need to rest

It's ok if you can't do anything else for a while because you've spent your energy on cleaning

It's ok if you need someone else to clean for you

It's ok as long as you're doing your best

🦇dni k1nk,g0re,pro-3d,m4ps,not safe for kids🦇

[hueningkai]

yesterday was a long and stressful day ... one of our best employees left. she's an amazing, talented, well-rounded and experienced individual and we are truly at a loss without her ... and it all boils down to the same people who cause others to leave. it's really so sad that these same people, who are supposed to be role models to children, are so unkind, prejudiced and entitled. but this employee, she has a way of saying things that makes you stop and listen. therefore yesterday when she referred to the few of us who remained at her leaving meal as the "core team" who are, in her opinion, the best people for the job ... it struck me. she then went on to talk about me and one of my most beloved colleagues. she told us how amazing we are, and that people just don't appreciate us. she told me I'm amazing, empathetic, patient, passionate ... that I hold the children and their interests close to my heart ... that I have a big heart. it was overwhelming because I do see myself as these things, but to hear someone from an outside perspective confirm it? I cried. it reinvigorated me. people at work have lost the spark ... they're too busy being competitive, bitchy and generally not focusing on the children but I am not any of those things. this age is so important, it sets up the foundation. the way we teach them now is what is so fundamental. as I said to my colleagues, the problem is some people have a linear way of thinking and if you don't fit into their box then in their eyes you're not a good employee ... which is ridiculous. we all have strengths and flaws and it's what makes a good team, bringing together all sorts of people. I used to view my sensitivity as a weakness, but now I realise it's not. I get told I care too much and that other people don't think like me. that's their loss! I may spend a lot of time thinking about the children I look after and how I can improve their experiences and how I can better my teaching. it's what I do. I want these children to feel safe, happy, heard. and if other people are going to lose sight of what's important then so be it ... because that's not my work ethic. and I'll be damned if any child gets left behind because of ignorance and a power rush.

to summarise, here's what my beloved colleague and friend (not the one who left, she's referred to in the messages and I felt it gave context to leave her name in ...) sent me.

[paper-mario-wiki]

in case you're wondering what the greatest AMV of all time is, it's this one from 2008.

[keitrinkomfloukru]

[tricktster]

[daclium]

Researcher

[transvampireboyfriend]

i think "it takes a village" shouldn't be just "to raise a child". we should understand it takes a village to do literally everything we do. all day every day. without our communities we would not have drinking water or electricity or clean streets or food or shelter or anything. we cannot do any thing alone. we just can't. and with that comes the fact that you are not alone. you already have a community, seek to be an active part of it, you will feel better. reach out and thank them, they're happy to have you too. i promise. it takes a village to live.

[loonashifter]

look at me. there is no wrong way to shift or manifest. you are doing everything right, and have been the whole time. stop doubting yourself. let go and trust the process.

[maxmoffs]

okey I did it ! I forgot how to use d.iscord pls bear with me 🥹 I’ve noticed how hard it is to message here consistently, obvs my dms are always gonna be open for when we on tumblr ! but if you’d rather plot and talk more on disco when im not on tumblr here u go! 🫧

[rafeandonlyrafe]

well 🧍‍♀️ as a reminder this blog is NOT a safe space for trump supporters but it IS a safe place for women, queers, trans ppl, people of color, undocumented people, and any marginalized group.

[nyenyel]

Putting Mabel through that straight to bi to aromantic pipeline

[atalana]

the curse of adhd:

i will remember with absolute clarity, when the thought strikes me that i have a text to send someone, that this is the fourth time in three days i've attempted to send this specific text

i will forget, in the time it takes me to pick up my phone, that i picked it up intending to send a text

[bisexualvader]