#reminders.

[loonashifter]

look at me. you are not defined by what the 3d shows you. you are not defined by your intrusive thoughts. you are defined by your 4d. you are defined by your dedication to becoming the true version of yourself. okay? remember that.

[maxmoffs]

gonna just post this quick psa yap about my interactions here on wanda and the rest of my blogs from here on out , then i'll be fully committed and indulged into finally ! fulfilling my owed starters , inbox and drafts and writing entirely, just because i want to get it out of my chest and so that im fully comfortable and happy with my blogs and want to be able to come on without feeling so anxious ! this is the most I’ve approached everyone and bravely finally after being shy and hesitant so pls be proud of me uwu . it’s been a long time coming i know , im finally actively interacting, i do know that i had been so yappy ooc the past weeks that just went by! its because i haven't been doing anything but work and training and with the christmas holidays chaos, so it had gotten me incredibly sporadic which is the reason for my lack to keep a consistent flow of my writing on all my blogs no matter how much i wanted to ! i actually have no idea who is following me or not still from the last time ppl had been more enthusiastic of when i made wanda weeks ago uuhuhu , but i hope all of you are still interested because when i write and post all my owed writing its both old and new bahaha just bc i hadnt had the proper opportunity to write wanda as how ive been wanting to with full focus like right now bc i had been so busy :( <3 please continue below for the psa , i appreciate you if you do get where im coming from <3 because after this , i want to just feel happy writing wanda and the rest of my muses . without feeling like i have to prove my worth or place , but im finally at a good mental balance of both , and i now have slower days since christmas is finally at its end of holiday chaos for me work wise which was the only thing holding me back and life is life and i will now stop for apologising to be slow ! i now have discord anyways , which is also finally open and im migrating to as an avenue to 'yap' and plot with those that dont mind my excitment hahahaahah so as long as we're mutuals , im already a big yapper and will always be welcoming , so you are welcome to add me just pls understand that i do get overstimulated or busy sometimes but i'll use it more now ( arden1ly . )

im gonna just consider this as an add to my rules . but as i continue here on out now , i think i will now stop following people first anymore unless obvs we are moots and you're moving blogs . and will just focus my time and attention to those of you that just want to write with me and wanda and my multi , who are already here, my mutuals and my mains / friends who's stuck by and been patient and understanding with me . i will always be an open book , and will always always keen a nurturing and safe environment because i love writing , and love being able to write with everyone as best i can, but will no longer go too above and beyond to push myself to others and i will always be here to come back to when the interest rises again of interest to write with me , because at the end of the day ! im here to write with you ! and along with that , a bonus when i create wonderful friendships which i also know and feel that i have now <3

it is what it is, and i have lost a few wonderful moots i had been writing with a couple of weeks back out of the blue that i never even noticed probs bc of that very reason , i have kept myself quite so very open book and half of the time i literally dont know whats going on so i tend to really keep my and i noticed that it definitely scared ppl that my inability to hold my excitement can be sometimes excessive so i will try to refrain from it now , because ive always advocated kindess and positvity on my blog and nothing else ! but i know tumblr is so scary! and can be so judgemental , and im a super open book but also can barely keep up so sometimes i barely scroll through tumblr, but i always try my best. from here on out though , obviously i will always and stay welcoming especially if you are a mutual already here , but i just no longer want to keep apologising for my speed / slow -ness , or for my personality bc really half of the time its just me approaching with excitement to write and interact, but ive noticed that its probs annoyed ppl , and i dont want to also be annoying for anyone <3

[tiredbabybat]

A reminder for myself and others

It's ok if your idea of tidiness doesn't match what society thinks

It's ok if you get overwhelemed and struggle to clean

It's ok if your version of tidiness isn't instagram worthy, organised cabinets

It'd ok if your version of tidiness is throwing everything into a basket or stuffing it into drawers and closets so atleast your area is clean

It's ok if it takes you ages to clean because you need to rest

It's ok if you can't do anything else for a while because you've spent your energy on cleaning

It's ok if you need someone else to clean for you

It's ok as long as you're doing your best

🦇dni k1nk,g0re,pro-3d,m4ps,not safe for kids🦇

[hueningkai]

yesterday was a long and stressful day ... one of our best employees left. she's an amazing, talented, well-rounded and experienced individual and we are truly at a loss without her ... and it all boils down to the same people who cause others to leave. it's really so sad that these same people, who are supposed to be role models to children, are so unkind, prejudiced and entitled. but this employee, she has a way of saying things that makes you stop and listen. therefore yesterday when she referred to the few of us who remained at her leaving meal as the "core team" who are, in her opinion, the best people for the job ... it struck me. she then went on to talk about me and one of my most beloved colleagues. she told us how amazing we are, and that people just don't appreciate us. she told me I'm amazing, empathetic, patient, passionate ... that I hold the children and their interests close to my heart ... that I have a big heart. it was overwhelming because I do see myself as these things, but to hear someone from an outside perspective confirm it? I cried. it reinvigorated me. people at work have lost the spark ... they're too busy being competitive, bitchy and generally not focusing on the children but I am not any of those things. this age is so important, it sets up the foundation. the way we teach them now is what is so fundamental. as I said to my colleagues, the problem is some people have a linear way of thinking and if you don't fit into their box then in their eyes you're not a good employee ... which is ridiculous. we all have strengths and flaws and it's what makes a good team, bringing together all sorts of people. I used to view my sensitivity as a weakness, but now I realise it's not. I get told I care too much and that other people don't think like me. that's their loss! I may spend a lot of time thinking about the children I look after and how I can improve their experiences and how I can better my teaching. it's what I do. I want these children to feel safe, happy, heard. and if other people are going to lose sight of what's important then so be it ... because that's not my work ethic. and I'll be damned if any child gets left behind because of ignorance and a power rush.

to summarise, here's what my beloved colleague and friend (not the one who left, she's referred to in the messages and I felt it gave context to leave her name in ...) sent me.

[tricktster]

[keitrinkomfloukru]

[paper-mario-wiki]

in case you're wondering what the greatest AMV of all time is, it's this one from 2008.

[sulkybender]

[daclium]

Researcher

[transvampireboyfriend]

i think "it takes a village" shouldn't be just "to raise a child". we should understand it takes a village to do literally everything we do. all day every day. without our communities we would not have drinking water or electricity or clean streets or food or shelter or anything. we cannot do any thing alone. we just can't. and with that comes the fact that you are not alone. you already have a community, seek to be an active part of it, you will feel better. reach out and thank them, they're happy to have you too. i promise. it takes a village to live.

[loonashifter]

look at me. there is no wrong way to shift or manifest. you are doing everything right, and have been the whole time. stop doubting yourself. let go and trust the process.

[maxmoffs]

I’m in espionage crime mood , and if you are comics or red room type / have verses like it pls write with my as.sassin semi-oc please !!! he’s a sideblog so u really won’t see him much , but if you’d like to write with me there too, please do anytime !! I’m gonna jump between him , here and the multi ! spam me with memes !

[remindertoclick]

Hi everyone! Here's your Daily Reminder to Click for Palestine!

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[rafeandonlyrafe]

well 🧍‍♀️ as a reminder this blog is NOT a safe space for trump supporters but it IS a safe place for women, queers, trans ppl, people of color, undocumented people, and any marginalized group.

[nyenyel]

Putting Mabel through that straight to bi to aromantic pipeline