#rage bait ask?

[patrochillesvibes]

if Achilles is attracted to men then what is his type??

Daddies 😍😈

Achilles is a classic brat. Willful, mouthy, pushy, impatient, impulsive, cheeky, rebellious. So I think his type would naturally be a Daddy. Or perhaps just a soft Dom. Of course every Dom is different, but it’s usually the softer ones who have the patience for brat taming.

Being a Daddy is a state of mind. Putting 100% of your pussy into caring for both physical and emotional needs -Daddies are all about the nurturing. Having a strong sense of fairness. Being strong mentally and having that magnetic confidence all Doms have. And most importantly, being sweet and playful.

Sound familiar, right? coughPatrocluscough So I think Achilles will be attracted to a Dom with these traits.

Aside from being a particular brand of flirty and a rather playful BDSM play, bratting is a way this type of sub establishes trust. BDSM is all about trust. Subs hand control over to their Doms, and this cannot be done safely and consensually without trust. Brats don’t submit without a fight because it’s how they measure who they can trust. Think of it as the saying; ‘if you can’t handle me at my worst, then you don’t deserve me at my best' 🥹 (sorry I'm just very passionate about brat play)

So while yes looks do play a role in “types,” the personality is significantly more important to a brat like Achilles. Very few are capable of not just engaging with brat play, but also equally enjoying it. For a Dom, without enjoyment there is no tolerating brat play which can then lead to a bad relationship.

That’s not to say that looks are unimportant to Achilles. Things like honor, status, reputation are very important to him. The Myrmidons, Achilles in particular, are very rich with treasure, have the most beautiful slaves, and have the reputation of ransoming over killing. So I think it’s probably very important to Achilles that his partner be popular and have a good reputation. He would need to be at least conventionally handsome, though if his reputation were *that* good it would make up for the lack of looks (think Socrates and Alcibiades). (I also think Achilles has that flavor of vain where he has to be the pretties, so his partner can't be /too/ pretty.)

So for Achilles his type is 1. Daddy, 2. solid reputation, 3. conventionally-ish handsome.

[jiraisupportgroup]

why do you get to sit in your heated home with daddy’s money and tell everyone who can and can’t wear jirai kei?

I don’t usually respond to stuff like this, especially because I’m fairly certain this was just ripped from a popular j-fashion creators video, but:

I feel like I make it quite clear that when I talk about jirai kei it’s just my opinions. I openly state that I’m likely a dumbass and you should take my word with a grain of salt considering I’m not a spokesperson for the Jirai Kei community, I’m not an expert on Jirai Kei, I also don’t speak Japanese so I can’t rly access a lot of “OG” jirai kei content that launched the community.

Additionally: I’ve never stated that anyone can’t wear anything. The closest I’ve gotten to that is when I state that I don’t generally believe “jirai kei” is the appropriate term for the fashion (therefore you can’t rly “wear it” if we want to be super technical) or when I said that “fashion jirais” who complain about the community can fuck off.

Never at any point in that did I say that anyone can’t wear anything. If you want to wear girly kei or dark girly or larme or ryousangata or whatever the fuck you want to wear - by all means please do. My main point is if you don’t like the jirai kei community, don’t interact with it. You can post coords and find friends and have a lot of fun with the clothing if that’s want you want to do. You can buy Liz Lisa & MCM bags and generally live your best ryousangata life. You don’t have to interact with the jirai kei community to do that. Block the people you find annoying. Block tags, block accounts, block whatever you don’t want to see. No one is going to be mad at you for not wanting to interact with the “dark side” of jirai kei (as people love to call it for some reason) UNLESS you’re adamantly saying “the dark side is wrong” and then using a shitload of jirai-related tags. Other tags for these clothes exist. Separate the two if you want, I don’t give a fuck; jirai kei doesn’t own the clothing.

I’m not going to sit here and outright defend people in the jirai kei community posting people’s coords and bullying them, I’m not gunna sit here and defend the fatphobic or racist things that have been said on jirai kei twt. I will point out that those posts are not actually super common in the jirai kei community, and the people that post them generally aren’t very well liked by other landmines either, they also tend to be very young. It’s a really big community. There are going to be “bad apples” especially because it’s a community based around mental health issues. You can’t look at that handful of posts and say “the entire community is toxic and awful”. Venting & the like are very common, but it’s pretty rare that I see people actively posting hate like that, and there is a huge difference between the two. Most of the landmines I see are too scared to even make vague callout posts. Maybe that’s just Tumblr, idk, but honestly the amount of hate I see in this community is rather small.

Secondarily to your point; my house is not fucking heated. I can barely afford to run the AC in the summer or the heat in the winter - typically I turn it on when my BF is here and turn it off when he leaves to save money. I have my own apartment. I work for my own apartment. I can barely fucking afford it. I make about $2700 a month and my bills add up to be about $2400 a month (and it’s not like an expensive or nice apartment it’s literally full of roaches and my oven doesn’t work). I usually end up spending about $100 of the leftover on cat food, and then have $200 left over for gas to get to work AND food AND toiletries for the MONTH.

I don’t have “daddy’s money”. I live by myself about 8 hours away from my family; they don’t have shit to send me. My dad died 3 years ago and left us with 50k in debt because he decided paying taxes was optional. When that happened - I was making 17.50 an hour and I had the HIGHEST WAGE out of anyone in my family. I was trying to finish college which I was attending on a scholarship bc I couldn’t fucking afford it, I was working overtime, trying to organize my dad’s funeral bc no one else in my family could do it, and paying tax payments. “Daddy’s money” was a negative sum. I frequently send leftover cash to my family if there is any just to help them in any way I can.

The cute and nice things I can afford are typically bought either because I pick up overnight shifts at my secondary serving job or from sugar daddies. Although I stopped sugaring about 3 years ago.

I started working when I was 15. I started SW when I was 17 to help my family pay rent. I did SW from about 17 years old to 21 and stopped shortly after my father died because I didn’t have the time anymore. And I fucking hated it but it made money.

Don’t fucking come at me saying I’ve got a nice house and daddy’s money when I’m sitting in a roach-infested apartment that I work myself to the fucking bone for & I spent multiple years trying to pay off my dad’s debt.

Fuck right off with that dude.

[mysterycitrus]

I know I’m beating a dead horse here but I can’t stop thinking about that anon saying “don’t infantilize a 10 year old” like… that is a 4th grader. He still has baby teeth. I was playing with dolls at that age. Why would you NOT infantilize him???

beloved anon that ask is so much funnier when u see the full dissertation in my inbox

like this is written by someone from a different dimension. jason todd hurts mia and tim and shoots damian but apparently damian reciprocating is where we draw the line. the fundamental misunderstanding of red robin 2009, specifically the line cutting scene which was transparently a retaliation by damian to tim make a contingency plan for him. the idea that dick allowed tim to fall from (??) instead of tim landing on his feet because it wasn’t a serious attempt on his life. like tim and damians tenuous reconciliation is the throughline for like half of red robin and gates of gotham. idk man. what did u want dick to do in this situation? put damian in baby jail?

[fandom-hoarder]

https://www.tumblr.com/deansbisexualflannel/761196850237800448/i-adore-him-and-his-kindness-enough-said?source=share

Ahahaha oh yay, another rage bait poll istg 🙃 Thanks, I hate it.

Despite the fact that I don't know Jared personally and have never even met him in person, and further that I'm always preaching about how even actors' public personas are still a character they play for "us," I did of course vote "I love him" because he brings joy to my experience of fandom. I enjoy his commentary on Sam and the way he likes to tell a story when acting; his presence at a convention is always a treat; and fan stories about meeting Jared are always the sweetest.

I don't advise reading the comments, but I did and I'm like: I don't think you're mature enough to say you're wiser now, if your current feelings are hating Jared for something you think he said in the past. 🙄🙄

"Racist or otherwise problematic." Sure, Jan🙄

(WHERE are these racist comments? I've never seen them, but I've seen the accusation a shitton. Is it just another idiotic misunderstanding, like with his tattoos, or did something actually happen. 🤨 I KNOW that Jared has made mistakes, and also that he's owned his mistakes and tried to make amends, while also working on his mental health and mindfulness in general. I also know and accept that we are all imperfect human beings who are doing life for the first time, and what really matters is being willing to learn.)

[catgirlxox]

Girl, it's 2024 and this guy think he's funny 🙄😒

are you fucking serious

and ofc it’s about Duped 🙄 someone in the comments said it’s Ben vs The Writers and you know what yeah. Ben gets dragged through the mud with a badly written plot line but he himself isn’t a badly written character. And this episode ENTIRELY ignores who he really is in favour of making him the bad guy for “conflict.” If we want to be mad about bad writing how about we acknowledge that first. Even the episode itself does that considering they have to make Ben split his personality into three parts to make him look like “the worst boyfriend in cartoon history.”

[confused-rat]

Lily saying no comment in response to an ask is sending me. LILY JUST IGNORE ASKS smdh

[chaosnojutsu]

Neji deserved to die during the war arc. He did not offer anything relevant to the story at that point, and he was pretty much written off post Gaara rescue arc along with the rest of Team Gai. No point in having him around in Boruto tbh

tell it to someone else :)

[radfemsiren]

https://www.tiktok.com/t/ZP88PjC3Y/

I rlly hope the link is right lmao

ANYWAYS

Sorry for clogging up your asks with tiktoks babe but I saw this and saw red lmao

First of all, if she were a millionaire, why couldnt she go to an actual hospital when she was giving birth to EIGHT KIDS and only got an epidural when her piece of shit husband was not there????? Why was her studio turned into a school room??? Why was she giving a ugly ass egg apron and not jewelry or clothes????? Or anything that her husband "would" know she would love?????

And second, the fact that we're expected to make jokes and just move on bc she's a millionaire???? Hello???? Let me go ask the many queens and noble ladies who were killed by a demon spawn clawing its way out of them. Let me go ask the many "trophy wives" who are secretly abused by their husbands!!

The lady in the tiktok usually has good takes but this is the lamest more over done reaction lmao.

For the app that warrants there is no perfect victim (WHEN ITS MEN) it sure as fucks seems like they dgasf about women who are abused in other ways that aren't physical

Ughhh the good old “she’s a rich white woman, she’s FINE” excuse.

Shitting on wealthy white women and denying they ever experience misogyny doesn’t make it better for woc, like I’m so over this argument 😭

Reminds me of this white girl that had a panic attack because this dancer in Times Square touched her without permission. He understood she didn’t like it and apologized and moved on, because he’s a performer he knows how to do crowd work. But everyone on TikTok freaked out and called her racist, and literally said this was the next Emmet Till. For not wanting to be touched on the arm by a random man! 🙄

She didnt call the cops or anything, she just cried and moved closer to her friends. She could have OCD or trauma or literally any reason why the touch was upsetting, but still she got attacked. It’s so annoying!

[beefcake-penguin]

#people just do NOT know how to be FANS of media anymore. they don't know how to interact with each other or with the text without anger#fandom is supposed to be FUN#it's supposed to be fun to speculate and headcanon and write fanfic and draw and go a little bit feral for your faves

This!! It's okay to just enjoy things! It's ok to walk away from media you're not enjoying!!

10/10 tags, my friend 💪🐧❤️

Thank you, broski! It drives me kind of beefsane (beefcake insane) when I bop along online to see how a community is enjoying a show or movie or game that I'm also enjoying and the fandom is just:

"OUTRAGE!"

"ANGER!"

"UGH!!! THOSE BASTARDS ARE 'QUEERBAITING' US!"

"IF YOU LIKE THIS FICTIONAL CHARACTER WHO KILLED SOMEONE IN A WORK OF FICTION, YOU MUST BE A MURDER-APOLOGIST!"

"WAIT, WHY DID THOSE BASTARDS STOP 'QUEERBAITING' US?!"

"THOSE CHARACTERS SHARED A SCENE AND A STEAMY LOOK! LET'S HARASS THEIR REAL-LIFE ACTORS/ACTRESSES!"

And I just sort of immediately go: "💪🏽😐... hmmm... I just came here to have fun... 💪🏽😔" *leaves in beeffeat (beefcake defeat)*

Which is why I'm so grateful to people like you and so many of the other moots (my beloveds 🐧❤🐧) that I've made here. I deleted my old ancient tumblr from the Before Times(tm) due to how stressed it made me and just the fact that my life at the time was already full of things causing me stress and making me have panic attacks and anxiety attacks on an almost weekly basis. Being unable to even come to my own blog without being stressed about what imaginary slight someone might accuse me of in my askbox really just took the wind out of my beefy sails... but I'm so glad I came back to this site with the goal to much more carefully curate my experience, because it really is so nice to be able to be a little insane about mutual blorbos and occasionally subject your poor unbeefspecting (beefcake unsuspecting) mutuals to one of your out-of-left-field hyper-fixations, too.

Which is just my long-beefded (beefcake long-winded) way of saying: people like you and my other be(ef)loved mutuals are what makes fandom communities great, my friend. 💪🏽🐧❤

Penguin-hug for you:

[tojisun]

Can I repost your works please 🥺

this gotta be a rage bait. but on the off chance that it isnt, no pls

[jiraisupportgroup]

When is the scar reveal LOL

You don’t know people, you only know what they post online. You really don’t know what their life is like or what they’ve been through / continue to go through.

You are not entitled to anyone’s trauma or scars.

No one (including all of you darlings reading this) should feel like they have to share those things in order to be valid. No one should ever feel like they need to show medical documents or pictures of their scars or stories of their trauma in order to be valid. (To be fully transparent I almost did in this reply but I chose not to bc I want to make a point here & I want to practice what I’m preaching here because I think it’s important).

I understand that you’re hurting and it really does truly hurt to see people in mental health spaces that seem to be “better off” than you; honestly I recommend blocking them. Protect your peace & everyone is happy.

Often times they’re not even that much better off; their struggles are just different and their illnesses manifest in different ways. I understand the pain, I understand the feeling of “god they have it so good why are they complaining, I wish I was them, I wish I had it as good as they do” but often time if you were in their shoes you still wouldn’t be happy. It doesn’t help to throw stones around when all of us are made of glass.

We’re supposed to be supporting each other, and we can’t do that if we’re busy competing in the Trauma Olympics™️. It’s not helpful for anyone, not you, not me, not the community, no one.

[guarshroom]

I can be normal about Random Crits in TF2.

[anti-rop]

how do you rate youtuber analysis? particularly nerdrotic and disparu who seem to make the most rop videos

I’m not a big fan of these two channels — they do raise good points on occasion about RoP and the state of modern Hollywood productions, but realistically, they’re no better than the Amazon shills because they pander to and capitalize on the politics/morals/outlook of their viewer base to get clicks and are incredibly toxic. Not to mention, the thumbnails they use for their videos are rage bait to get more engagement from people who disagree with their opinions. 

While yes, I think we should absolutely call out bad adaptations, significant lore changes, bad writing, and the general slop being produced presently, accounts like this with their anti-woke and toxic outlook will inevitably work to discredit the real fans with genuine critiques and criticisms because we either get lumped into this nasty group or have our voices drowned out by these larger accounts. 

I enjoyed the videos put out by Council of the Rings. The analyses in their RoP review videos are much less political, rage-baity, and invoke the lore more than Nerdrotic and Disparu do to point out things that Amazon got wrong, so it feels more like a genuine critique instead of just preaching about things being ‘woke’. I also enjoy the videos about what they would do to improve RoP and how they would approach a series set in the Second Age. This channel puts out deep dives into the lore and character breakdowns too.

[rs-hawk]

Don't say filler if you're not talking about anime then and people won't say crap to you about using the term wrong. And the reason that post is your most popular instead of your writing is because it's a stupid fucking post so pepple are reblogging it and making fun of you and your writing is shit so it doesn't get the same kind of circulation even to laugh at

Anyway, my post popular post is now this by like, more than just a few thousand notes. Thinking about adding a part two even though it's like a year old post so lmk if you'd like to read more about Siren Boyfriend or something similiar?

Also I uploaded some sketches of Astreion on my Ko-Fi if you subscribe to my Cup of Coffee tier for only $3 :)

P.S. This is just so obviously bait. At least try.

[nkogneatho]

your content feels ragebait

if my content is any form of bait, it's masturbate

[the-lights-are-loud]

Oh, I did both… Guys do I need to get diagnosed with stuff?? The symptoms are starting to pile up

no. if you weren't in special education as a child and you are now perfectly capable of reading and writing then you do not have autism. the high functioning people with mild aspergers syndrome do not have autism either. most people with autism either cannot read at all (30%) or read below their grade level (60%). if you are using a computer by yourself without supervision you don't have autism and you do not need a diagnosis based on other people without autism making posts about their ~totally legit~ autism symptoms of "liking their fave songs". this is the first step into munchausens by internet, and many young people have ended up dying because of it. you are normal, be grateful!

This is cracking me up, because I was talking about ADHD when I posted the quote at the beginning nearly a year ago. I also have said several times that I have not been diagnosed with it, but have done research and have found more symptoms than "liking my favorite songs." Since starting this blog, I've learned a lot about what I considered was normal, versus what really is "normal."

I am grateful that I never had to be put in "special education classes." I was fairly advanced in school growing up and had different mental struggles that I won't go into. I didn't start to think that I had ADHD until about 2 years ago when I looked into symptoms of female ADHD and adult ADHD.

According to the NHS, "Munchausen syndrome is a psychological condition where someone pretends to be ill or deliberately produces symptoms of illness in themselves." They usually do this for attention.

According to the University of Virginia, "about one-third of autistic people are unable to communicate using speech, and most are never provided an effective alternative." This causes many people to think that Autistic people are less intelligent. They have a harder time regulating emotions or reading social cues, making them seem more childlike. "The study published in the journal Autism, reports that five times more nonspeaking autistic teenagers and adults demonstrated knowledge of written language conventions than would be expected from previous estimates of their abilities."

I recommend reading both articles.

Next time you give me numbers, give me your sources. Because saying 90% of all autistic people can't read at grade level or at all is a bold statement with no proof. The autism spectrum is not linear, and it is different for each person. Also, people who are diagnosed with something have it, even if it is "mild" or "high functioning."

Thank you for the ask and next time don't assume what an internet stranger has or deals with daily.