#rage bait ask?

[patrochillesvibes]

if Achilles is attracted to men then what is his type??

Daddies 😍😈

Achilles is a classic brat. Willful, mouthy, pushy, impatient, impulsive, cheeky, rebellious. So I think his type would naturally be a Daddy. Or perhaps just a soft Dom. Of course every Dom is different, but it’s usually the softer ones who have the patience for brat taming.

Being a Daddy is a state of mind. Putting 100% of your pussy into caring for both physical and emotional needs -Daddies are all about the nurturing. Having a strong sense of fairness. Being strong mentally and having that magnetic confidence all Doms have. And most importantly, being sweet and playful.

Sound familiar, right? coughPatrocluscough So I think Achilles will be attracted to a Dom with these traits.

Aside from being a particular brand of flirty and a rather playful BDSM play, bratting is a way this type of sub establishes trust. BDSM is all about trust. Subs hand control over to their Doms, and this cannot be done safely and consensually without trust. Brats don’t submit without a fight because it’s how they measure who they can trust. Think of it as the saying; ‘if you can’t handle me at my worst, then you don’t deserve me at my best' 🥹 (sorry I'm just very passionate about brat play)

So while yes looks do play a role in “types,” the personality is significantly more important to a brat like Achilles. Very few are capable of not just engaging with brat play, but also equally enjoying it. For a Dom, without enjoyment there is no tolerating brat play which can then lead to a bad relationship.

That’s not to say that looks are unimportant to Achilles. Things like honor, status, reputation are very important to him. The Myrmidons, Achilles in particular, are very rich with treasure, have the most beautiful slaves, and have the reputation of ransoming over killing. So I think it’s probably very important to Achilles that his partner be popular and have a good reputation. He would need to be at least conventionally handsome, though if his reputation were *that* good it would make up for the lack of looks (think Socrates and Alcibiades). (I also think Achilles has that flavor of vain where he has to be the pretties, so his partner can't be /too/ pretty.)

So for Achilles his type is 1. Daddy, 2. solid reputation, 3. conventionally-ish handsome.

[jiraisupportgroup]

why do you get to sit in your heated home with daddy’s money and tell everyone who can and can’t wear jirai kei?

I don’t usually respond to stuff like this, especially because I’m fairly certain this was just ripped from a popular j-fashion creators video, but:

I feel like I make it quite clear that when I talk about jirai kei it’s just my opinions. I openly state that I’m likely a dumbass and you should take my word with a grain of salt considering I’m not a spokesperson for the Jirai Kei community, I’m not an expert on Jirai Kei, I also don’t speak Japanese so I can’t rly access a lot of “OG” jirai kei content that launched the community.

Additionally: I’ve never stated that anyone can’t wear anything. The closest I’ve gotten to that is when I state that I don’t generally believe “jirai kei” is the appropriate term for the fashion (therefore you can’t rly “wear it” if we want to be super technical) or when I said that “fashion jirais” who complain about the community can fuck off.

Never at any point in that did I say that anyone can’t wear anything. If you want to wear girly kei or dark girly or larme or ryousangata or whatever the fuck you want to wear - by all means please do. My main point is if you don’t like the jirai kei community, don’t interact with it. You can post coords and find friends and have a lot of fun with the clothing if that’s want you want to do. You can buy Liz Lisa & MCM bags and generally live your best ryousangata life. You don’t have to interact with the jirai kei community to do that. Block the people you find annoying. Block tags, block accounts, block whatever you don’t want to see. No one is going to be mad at you for not wanting to interact with the “dark side” of jirai kei (as people love to call it for some reason) UNLESS you’re adamantly saying “the dark side is wrong” and then using a shitload of jirai-related tags. Other tags for these clothes exist. Separate the two if you want, I don’t give a fuck; jirai kei doesn’t own the clothing.

I’m not going to sit here and outright defend people in the jirai kei community posting people’s coords and bullying them, I’m not gunna sit here and defend the fatphobic or racist things that have been said on jirai kei twt. I will point out that those posts are not actually super common in the jirai kei community, and the people that post them generally aren’t very well liked by other landmines either, they also tend to be very young. It’s a really big community. There are going to be “bad apples” especially because it’s a community based around mental health issues. You can’t look at that handful of posts and say “the entire community is toxic and awful”. Venting & the like are very common, but it’s pretty rare that I see people actively posting hate like that, and there is a huge difference between the two. Most of the landmines I see are too scared to even make vague callout posts. Maybe that’s just Tumblr, idk, but honestly the amount of hate I see in this community is rather small.

Secondarily to your point; my house is not fucking heated. I can barely afford to run the AC in the summer or the heat in the winter - typically I turn it on when my BF is here and turn it off when he leaves to save money. I have my own apartment. I work for my own apartment. I can barely fucking afford it. I make about $2700 a month and my bills add up to be about $2400 a month (and it’s not like an expensive or nice apartment it’s literally full of roaches and my oven doesn’t work). I usually end up spending about $100 of the leftover on cat food, and then have $200 left over for gas to get to work AND food AND toiletries for the MONTH.

I don’t have “daddy’s money”. I live by myself about 8 hours away from my family; they don’t have shit to send me. My dad died 3 years ago and left us with 50k in debt because he decided paying taxes was optional. When that happened - I was making 17.50 an hour and I had the HIGHEST WAGE out of anyone in my family. I was trying to finish college which I was attending on a scholarship bc I couldn’t fucking afford it, I was working overtime, trying to organize my dad’s funeral bc no one else in my family could do it, and paying tax payments. “Daddy’s money” was a negative sum. I frequently send leftover cash to my family if there is any just to help them in any way I can.

The cute and nice things I can afford are typically bought either because I pick up overnight shifts at my secondary serving job or from sugar daddies. Although I stopped sugaring about 3 years ago.

I started working when I was 15. I started SW when I was 17 to help my family pay rent. I did SW from about 17 years old to 21 and stopped shortly after my father died because I didn’t have the time anymore. And I fucking hated it but it made money.

Don’t fucking come at me saying I’ve got a nice house and daddy’s money when I’m sitting in a roach-infested apartment that I work myself to the fucking bone for & I spent multiple years trying to pay off my dad’s debt.

Fuck right off with that dude.

[serenhob]

I think people need to understand that 'fakers' are a much smaller issue to disabled people than 'fake claimers'

First of all a lot of people who 'fake' mental illness/neurodivergance are not 'faking it', they may not be neurodivergent/have a specific mental illness but most of the time they think they have do.

Faking normally implies a degree of awareness or malice but a lot are just relating to things that they are not fully informed of and coming to the conclusion that they are neurodivergen/disabled. Who/what does this effect?

Not a lot. There may be some misinformation (which obviously isn't good) but nothing overtly harmful to disabled people. To access any degree of accommodation you need a diagnosis so people aren't taking anything away because they will be denied.

And yes there are those select few people who do have awareness and malice in what they are doing, often to illicit sympathy and get money. It is these types of people who fake a physical disability in addition to mental and neurodivergence. But these are very rare.

Fake claimers however, are far more common and pervasive.

They are everywhere, they do it to actually disabled people. It is very disturbing to see in real life.

I have genuinely had strangers come up to me and say that I don't actually need my cane and try and take it off me. My own family members have taken my cane away from me and left me until they brought it back. I have had people tell me that when they push me and I fall that I made myself fall over. I have had people tell me that because I was able to hold onto my cane as they tried to take it away from me that I am lying about needing pencil grips. This is actively harmful.

And it not only happens with the people around you but with those there to help disabled people.

Due to personal bias there are professionals who say that you dont look disabled/autistic/neurodivergent/etc just because you do not present in a certain way (particularly with neurodivergent people who are denied for not being a 6 year old boy because that's how they think its 'supposed' to look).

Women and people of colour have been denied and misdiagnosed with conditions like hysteria, Bpd and anxiety disorders or, if it is physical, stress, hormones, periods, etc in place of the disability they actually have all because their conditions research was focused on white men/boys.

Ambulatory wheelchair users are told they don't need a wheelchair because they are not paralysed. Ignoring the fact that people use the mobility aid that suits them instead of being denied because they don't 'suit' the mobility aid.

If disability does not look how people initially imagined suddenly its not a disability at all.

It is a systemic and social issue that persists and is made worse by people getting upset over some random girl on tiktok saying she has Adhd.

If you do not like people being ill informed then advocate for education.

Fake claiming is a big part of abelism that we ignore and that needs to change.

[fandom-hoarder]

https://www.tumblr.com/deansbisexualflannel/761196850237800448/i-adore-him-and-his-kindness-enough-said?source=share

Ahahaha oh yay, another rage bait poll istg 🙃 Thanks, I hate it.

Despite the fact that I don't know Jared personally and have never even met him in person, and further that I'm always preaching about how even actors' public personas are still a character they play for "us," I did of course vote "I love him" because he brings joy to my experience of fandom. I enjoy his commentary on Sam and the way he likes to tell a story when acting; his presence at a convention is always a treat; and fan stories about meeting Jared are always the sweetest.

I don't advise reading the comments, but I did and I'm like: I don't think you're mature enough to say you're wiser now, if your current feelings are hating Jared for something you think he said in the past. 🙄🙄

"Racist or otherwise problematic." Sure, Jan🙄

(WHERE are these racist comments? I've never seen them, but I've seen the accusation a shitton. Is it just another idiotic misunderstanding, like with his tattoos, or did something actually happen. 🤨 I KNOW that Jared has made mistakes, and also that he's owned his mistakes and tried to make amends, while also working on his mental health and mindfulness in general. I also know and accept that we are all imperfect human beings who are doing life for the first time, and what really matters is being willing to learn.)

[popppyfur]

One thing I feel is missing in post-second film media is the fact that both Branch and Poppy are haters and threats to society. I love Trollstopia but I would like more moments where they screw each other over just because they have the chance.

YOU GET MEEEE ong they really were the biggest haters for no reason LMAOO like as i was watching tbgo for the first time ive always wondered why they were so damn aggressive w one another and now its like. im Enlightened. its so funny ToT need them to act more like little shits towards each other...

[catgirlxox]

Girl, it's 2024 and this guy think he's funny 🙄😒

are you fucking serious

and ofc it’s about Duped 🙄 someone in the comments said it’s Ben vs The Writers and you know what yeah. Ben gets dragged through the mud with a badly written plot line but he himself isn’t a badly written character. And this episode ENTIRELY ignores who he really is in favour of making him the bad guy for “conflict.” If we want to be mad about bad writing how about we acknowledge that first. Even the episode itself does that considering they have to make Ben split his personality into three parts to make him look like “the worst boyfriend in cartoon history.”

[purple-raspberries]

Hello, what's your name on Twitter, I can't find you. To be able to follow you 💖💖💖

Thank you! Im not on twitter, but I do have a Bluesky account that I keep forgetting to post about :D

It’s got a few text posts and some of my more recent art bc/ there’s was too much here to put it all over there lol

[shroomanddoom]

I can be normal about Random Crits in TF2.

[ravvestiges]

Happy Tummy Tuesday!

The censored part seems wildly unrealistic for a soft dick to fit the size of?

Come get proven wrong in my DMs then hun~

[jiraisupportgroup]

When is the scar reveal LOL

You don’t know people, you only know what they post online. You really don’t know what their life is like or what they’ve been through / continue to go through.

You are not entitled to anyone’s trauma or scars.

No one (including all of you darlings reading this) should feel like they have to share those things in order to be valid. No one should ever feel like they need to show medical documents or pictures of their scars or stories of their trauma in order to be valid. (To be fully transparent I almost did in this reply but I chose not to bc I want to make a point here & I want to practice what I’m preaching here because I think it’s important).

I understand that you’re hurting and it really does truly hurt to see people in mental health spaces that seem to be “better off” than you; honestly I recommend blocking them. Protect your peace & everyone is happy.

Often times they’re not even that much better off; their struggles are just different and their illnesses manifest in different ways. I understand the pain, I understand the feeling of “god they have it so good why are they complaining, I wish I was them, I wish I had it as good as they do” but often time if you were in their shoes you still wouldn’t be happy. It doesn’t help to throw stones around when all of us are made of glass.

We’re supposed to be supporting each other, and we can’t do that if we’re busy competing in the Trauma Olympics™️. It’s not helpful for anyone, not you, not me, not the community, no one.

[confused-rat]

Lily saying no comment in response to an ask is sending me. LILY JUST IGNORE ASKS smdh

[radfemsiren]

https://www.tiktok.com/t/ZP88PjC3Y/

I rlly hope the link is right lmao

ANYWAYS

Sorry for clogging up your asks with tiktoks babe but I saw this and saw red lmao

First of all, if she were a millionaire, why couldnt she go to an actual hospital when she was giving birth to EIGHT KIDS and only got an epidural when her piece of shit husband was not there????? Why was her studio turned into a school room??? Why was she giving a ugly ass egg apron and not jewelry or clothes????? Or anything that her husband "would" know she would love?????

And second, the fact that we're expected to make jokes and just move on bc she's a millionaire???? Hello???? Let me go ask the many queens and noble ladies who were killed by a demon spawn clawing its way out of them. Let me go ask the many "trophy wives" who are secretly abused by their husbands!!

The lady in the tiktok usually has good takes but this is the lamest more over done reaction lmao.

For the app that warrants there is no perfect victim (WHEN ITS MEN) it sure as fucks seems like they dgasf about women who are abused in other ways that aren't physical

Ughhh the good old “she’s a rich white woman, she’s FINE” excuse.

Shitting on wealthy white women and denying they ever experience misogyny doesn’t make it better for woc, like I’m so over this argument 😭

Reminds me of this white girl that had a panic attack because this dancer in Times Square touched her without permission. He understood she didn’t like it and apologized and moved on, because he’s a performer he knows how to do crowd work. But everyone on TikTok freaked out and called her racist, and literally said this was the next Emmet Till. For not wanting to be touched on the arm by a random man! 🙄

She didnt call the cops or anything, she just cried and moved closer to her friends. She could have OCD or trauma or literally any reason why the touch was upsetting, but still she got attacked. It’s so annoying!

[love4ng1e]

Hello! I would like to know your opinion on this.

So there is this guy on Twitter that says things like "you can't manifest things like flying/magic because they are humanly impossible" and he also calls ppl who believe that anything is possible, schizophrenic and psychotic.And this guy literally runs a loass account and he agrees that loass is real and works and stuff while saying things like that??!!

Imo, he is very limited cuz like circumstances don't matter!!

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Hi!!

My opinion on this is that this dude, whoever he is, doesn't understand the loa. Agreeing with loa doesn't mean you understand the loa.

At the end of the day, if he wants to limit himself, then he can go and do that. I'll be in my corner manifesting being friends with mermaids and shit 🤷🏾‍♀️.

It might as well be a rage bait. People are bored nowadays.

Much love!

- 𝜗𝜚

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[tvheadfalls]

We do need Some cringe culture, some shame culture though. If we don't have that that's how you get adult Sonic obsessives writing "stories" about their self-insert killing people based on real life who were Mean (i.e. didn't want to date them)

i assume this is about my "dont let the corporate execs that live in your brain stifle your creativity post" since i didnt recently rb anything about cringe culture

anon i promise your life will be a lot easier if your first reaction to posts that are meant to be encouraging isnt "well there is an extremely specific scenario where this could be harmful, i need to let the people know". trust me ive been there, its the tumblr pill. we can get better

[chaosnojutsu]

Neji deserved to die during the war arc. He did not offer anything relevant to the story at that point, and he was pretty much written off post Gaara rescue arc along with the rest of Team Gai. No point in having him around in Boruto tbh

tell it to someone else :)

[tojisun]

Can I repost your works please 🥺

this gotta be a rage bait. but on the off chance that it isnt, no pls