#queerplatonic? me? pLEASE
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dbh community how bad is it that im sso utterly downbad for hank and connor . [plllatonically.] nnoo dont kys youre so sexy hahah!!! nnnooo dont start the android uprising ur too pretty !!! /q
#detroit become human#dbh#dbh hank#dbh connor#im hyperfixating again#can you tell hyperfixations make me really like the men in them#I WANT THEM SO BAD#i cant tell the difference between platonic and romantic attraction#queerplatonic? me? pLEASE#i want theem.#PLEASE#im on my knees#begging rn#i hate romance#but they kinda..
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john & arthur + “love”
#PLEASE tell me if I missed any bc I’ve only listened once and this is just from memory!!!!!!#AND YES I AM MAKING CHEESY QUOTE COMPILATIONS FOR THEM.#BC AAAAAAAAAA#also this is absolutely celebrating both the romantic and queerplatonic undertones of their relationship. take your pick!!!!#jarthur#private eyes#malevolent#malevolent podcast#arthur lester#john doe
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"A New Day Will Dawn."
-Said some guy named Luke probably.
Welcome to my #HHStargazersAU! Stay Tuned~♡? -Bubbly💙
#spacebubblearts#HHStargazersAU#hazbin hotel#chaggie#radioapple#lucifer x alastor#charlie x vaggie#queerplatonic#or not as long as you enjoy this really#hazbin alastor#lucifer morningstar#charlie morningstar#hazbin vaggie#human au#angel#demons#let me COOK#world building#hopefully this was worth it#if ya'll want more do please let me know#I need the motivation haha TvT#vaggie x charlie#alastor x lucifer#appleradio#duckydeer#duckiedeer#humor#mystery#we barely scratched the surface of this AU and I am gonna BURST if I don't share it with anyone else I swear to GOD-#You think you know what's gonna happen? Excuse me while I laugh behind your back for a second NO YOU DON'T XD
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Charlie: Dads? I'm Bisexual
Lúcifer: Oh, Bisexual? I thought I named you Charlotte! :D
Alastor: Ugh! Really? And you dare call yourself a father! Allow me to show you how it's done!
Alastor: Hi, Bisexual! I'm Aroace, pleasure to make you acquaintances! >:D
Charlie:
Charlie: I think I'll go back to bed, proud of you, Al...
Poor Charlie is stuck in a eternal loop of dad jokes. Save her!
@mikka-minns ? May I tempt you with some Queerplatonic Radioapple being cringe co-parents to Charlie?👀👀
@madamealtruist
#charlie: have two parents they said! it will be fun they said!#charlie: vaggie! please come pick me up!!#charlie morningstar#alastor hazbin hotel#lucifer hazbin hotel#queerplatonic radioapple#radioapple#aroace alastor#hazbin hotel#hazbin hotel incorrect quotes#<- i have like 5 more of those in my drafts👀#<- all aroace alastor related cause i can't get enough of him <3
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if the only time you bring up A Secret Third Thing is when someone has suggested generally celebrating or uplifting platonic/queerplatonic fictional relationships in spaces that ordinarily obsess about romantic ones to the exclusion of all else perhaps consider why you’re doing that and also stop.
#gav gab#im tired lmao#‘i think platonic relationships are worthy of celebration too’#‘BUT WHAT IF THE NATURE OF THE RELATIONSHIP DIDNT MATTER IT WAS JUST THE DEVOTION WHAT ABOUT A SECRET THIRD THING!!!’#cant help notice you never do this when romance is being discussed#:)#cant help notice you only bring this up when people want to be specific about enjoying SPECIFICALLY platonic or queerplatonic dynamics#wonder why that is :)#wonder what you actually mean is you want to change nothing about how you prioritize relationships#and also escape any kind of challenge to that#rather than just owning that you don’t fucking care about platonic or queerplatonic dynamics#which is whatever just please be straight up about it#let’s not do this wink wink theatre please#TO BE CLEAR this is not about any time anyone uses the phrase ever#please don’t come at me for that im not saying The Whole Phrase is inherently bad#just that ive noticed some patterns in when people use it and what brings it up
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simple and happy <3
#my art#art#hazbin hotel#hazbin hotel fanart#hazbin hotel vox#hazbin hotel alastor#alastor#vox#radiostatic#queerplatonic radiostatic#alastor x vox#alastor has a tail#im so hyperfixated on them someone lobotomize me#PLEASE
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qpps who both used to hate physical touch until they met each other and now it’s their love language
<3
#physical touch >>>>>>>#please touch me /nsx#qpr positivity#qpr pride#qpp positivity#qpr#qpr concepts#queer platonic partner#queer platonic relationship#queerplatonic#lgbtq#qpp
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Me: "Woagh! A Found Family! YES, I love found families, I wonder if the fandom agrees—"
Fandom: "They're all kissing sloppily."
Me: "Aw, man. C'mon."
#fandom#heterohomo.txt#i hate this fandom#ramshackle#skippstone#JUST LET ME HAVE MY FOUND FAMILY PLEASE#NO ROMANCE#NO QUEERPLATONICNESS#JUST PURE BROSHIP#found family
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Polymour
I invented a word to describe someone you love
Polymour:
(noun) A person with whom you share a deep and intimate connection that is distinctly polyamorous and non-amatonormative; someone you love and share a relationship with, especially a relationship-anarchistic, non-romantic, and/or queerplatonic relationship
denotes love, significance, non-exclusivity, and a freedom from role-defined relationships
I think that practical use is the single best way to learn a new word, and certainly the best way to create one, so here's the gap in my life this word was made to fill.
So I've been in love with two people for a while, and we're all a-spec and very poly, and I'm very relationship anarchist. Relationship anarchy is in fact the only relationship model that makes any sense to me, that accurately works well with how I feel and doesn't feel like a trap, contract, or obligation.
I don't really like the word "partner", but these two people I loved and connected with, one of them did use the word partner and I wanted the validity of their other relationships. We will call this person MV.
The other person I connected with and loved, well they felt even more trapped by romance than I did, and it was clear we cared about each other very much, but "partner" was never going to be a word to enter their vocabulary, and I wanted to share in that too. We will call this person V.
So, I was MV's partner and V's friend, but to me, these felt the same. I loved them the same way, and our relationship structure was identical. They were (and are) both deeply important to me, but both words seemed insufficient. Speaking to anyone else, "partner" felt more obligatory than the way MV so freeingly used it, and "friend" sounded way more distant than the intimacy V put behind it. I didn't like either word, but more than anything, it hurt that I couldn't just say I loved them. It upset me that I loved them the same but our words were different.
What really sealed it was talking to a colleague about my two loves, I said MV was my partner and friend, and that V would never describe themself in those terms but that I loved them both the same. My colleague listened, and was happy for me, and it really seemed like they got it!
The next time I saw them, they had bought me two movie tickets, for me and my partner. It was sweet, but I could only think about how to upgrade the tickets to include all three of us, thinking those two would each go to Mv and V and I'd buy my own ticket to share treat them both to the movies and- And it hurt.
It was only a few days after that I invented this word in the shower. And it works so beautifully for us!!!!! V could relax because they knew that our love for them wasn't going to be the amatonormative trap we'd both suffered, and MV was just as relieved as I was to have a word that wasn't still so romancey and role-defined. We have a way to tell people that we're important to each other without worrying about those people's pressures or expectations, because well, we invented it.
Like everything good about relationship anarchy, instead of roles and contracts or hierarchy, we just get to focus on the love we feel.
When someone hasn't heard this word (because they obviously haven't), instead of managing someone else's baggage, we just get to teach them how we all love each other.
So it works well, for me and my polymours.... <3
#polyamory#relationship anarchy#amatonormativity#a spec#aromantic#asexual#queerplatonic#polyamorous#queer#polymour#I'm really happy to share this one :3#If you put it on a wiki or online resource somewhere please let me know! That'd be so exciting to know other people want to learn and use it#don't worry about asking permission we put it online for a reason :3 In fact PLEASE use it
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forget "they're both into each other but don't know it," I need more "they're both aromantic but don't know it."
they are trying so hard to not come on too strong and look like they're flirting when really they both just want to be friends/qpps
#this post brought to you by please dont say you love me by gabrielle aplin#aromantic#queerplatonic#qpr#kitty.txt
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OKAY SO
Me and my one friend (not my wife who divorced me, this is a different friend) started this long running bit where we aggressively flirt with each other. It was just a bit at first but we both enjoyed it.
ANYWAYS this started at the end of May but at a 4th of July party with my friends they were all telling me and this friend to just already get into a relationship cuz we were both single and lonely and desperate for a partner and we already had this flirting bit going so it made sense. We were both flustered and didn’t enter a relationship mainly cuz I wasn’t sure how I felt and they said they didn’t want to push me into anything cuz they knew I was aroace.
BUT now that I’ve been thinking about it I actually would really like to be in a qpr with them. We have a lot in common, we have similar interests, we bounce off of each other well, and we already aggressively flirt with each other so we’re already pretty comfortable around each other.
HOWEVER I don’t wanna ruin what we got goin on right now. I mean they HAVE said that they found me attractive but they also said they have a crush on someone else and I don’t wanna make things awkward.
Idk imma have to talk to my alloromantic friend (this friend and friend I wanna be in a qpr with are both ace so that’s all good) for advice and his opinions. Cuz right now my only plan of getting closer and flirting is asking them about their ocs
I’m kind of a disaster lmao
#Sorry for the rant#I will take any advice you may have to offer#Please give me advice if you have it#smolldust#rambling#smolldust rambles#Ace#aro#aromantic#asexual#aroace#qpr#queerplatonic#queer platonic love#queer platonic#queer platonic attraction#qpr advice#queerplatonic attraction#queerplatonic relationship
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Alloaro culture is wanting a similar word to qpr for a committed partner you have sex with sometimes that is not romantic: qpr isn’t right because it has the word platonic in it.
hi! in a very gentle way, i am vibrating to let you know this is incorrect :)
from the POV of someone who's been around the aro community since ~2013-2014 on tumblr, the only time i've seen folks start to say that qprs couldn't include sexual components has been when
they've learned an incorrect definition of QPRs, or
in one particularly notable case, the individual proposing it turned out to be quite sex negative and upset at the mere thought that people could think that qprs could include sexual activity. this individual suggested an alternative term for individuals desiring sex in QPRs in a rather explicitly alloarophobic measure. when gently called out from what had seemed to be a genuine attempt at coining a new term, the above came to light. smaller cases of this pop up every once in a while, but this one got some notoriety.
queerplatonic was always meant to mean "queering the idea of a platonic relationship", "queering the idea of what a relationship means", and by explicit definition, has always been broadly and radically inclusive. any relationship, so long as the partners involved agree it is a queerplatonic one, is queerplatonic. no exceptions. this can mean it involves romance, sex, traditionally platonic elements, and anything and everything those involved desire out of it.
tldr; the word platonic is in queerplatonic to say it is counter to the idea of a restricted "platonic" relationship.
#Anonymous#aro culture is#aro#aromantic#actually aro#actually aromantic#ask#mod phoenix#pls don't ask me what the term had been or who the blogger was. i forgor#idk when it was anymore either cause it was uuuuhhhhh really distressing#i do think this blog existed tho so probs 2019 ish#sex negativity cw#alloarophobia cw#queerplatonic#i know it can be easy to get an incorrect or like. sanitized take online of what things mean#but generally speaking if the word is queer + [something] that [something] is being modified to be counter-cultural intuition#not just queer people *doing* the culturally intuitive version of that word#like... our system is genderqueer broadly speaking [i ID as agender or genderfuck primarily but most of the system also IDs as genderqueer]#and trust me this is not queer person doing Cis Binary Gender this is queer person says 'fuck that gender shit imma do what i want :)'#also pretty please know this is all being said in like. a smiling happy-to-share way!#this is not being said as like. 'uhhhhm aktually' mansplaining
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yall i just want a queer platonic partner is that too much to ask
#redacted asmr#redacted audio#leg is going insane#IS IT GOD????#is it too much to ask#i just want someone to love me#and won’t trigger my commitment issues#ignore me please#UNLESS UR UP FOR IT#LIKE IM DESPERATELY ASKING HERE#I DONT CRAVE ROMANCE MAN I JUST WANY LOVE#aroace#aromantic#queerplatonic
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Hey girl*, Joker Persona 5 and Goro Akechi lesbian makeup photo redraw, ok?
because i just remembered i never posted this here.
#based off of twitter dynamic stuff with my friend so like queerplatonic to me#but i don’t care if people tag it as ship or whatever#i probably will too just so people might see it#anyway joker is genderfluid to me#shuakeshu#shuake#akeshu#<—WHY ARE THERE THREE OF THESE#i’m literally dying guys can we just use one#persona#p5 joker#ren amamiya#amamiya ren#akira kusuru#joker p5#joker persona 5#GUYS PLEASE WHY DOES HE HAVE SO MANY TAGS#i don’t know which to use i’m struggling#goro akechi i guess#that’s my tag for him#goro akechi#artpollogies#i’m sorry i tag so extensively you can put me down now#art#friends
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reanimator au where everything is the same but meg lives and is dating francesca and they always talk shit about dan. also every friday herbert gets to tag along
#listen. listen to me#under different circumstances meg and herbert could have been best friends#perhaps even..... queerplatonic#im supposed to be doing homework but i suddenly had the mental image of meg doing herberts nails please#herbert west#megan halsey#dan cain#danbert#megcesca#-? idk#reanimator#bride of reanimator#obituaries
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people who think of queerplatonic relationships as just really close friends make me mad and sad, it's so much more than that.
#unamed talks#non tickles#queerplatonic love and attraction is completely different sector of relationship. it has platonic in the name ye but it isnt just friendshi#there's more to it#its much too abstract for me to explain but please
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