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You can't hide from me forever.
#i'm falling further and further away from any sorta social norm#queer or straight or otherwise#and I'm finding there's nothing worth trying for anymore#but without witness my existence is nothing#what's the point#if there's nobody missing you#because you're still alive#if there's nobody thinking about you#because there's too much on the mind#you all have your people now.#the undoing given psychological form in my youth will catch up and I will#forget.#and give my autonomy away to my mind.#for a month#months#year#years#i keep pushing away my saviors#my warmth and my light#and i find myself stuck here#with the rot that I have made#this life is one of service#any pleasure is transgression.#you deserve no space#you are to be displaced#replaced.#it's always better like that#why don't you sit back and let something else take control#again and again#you have no life and you have no place in anyone else's.
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Any other LGBTQ+ Headcannons that are canon is the comic??;)
*patiently awaits Cupioromantic Donnie*
hmm... had to think about this for a while and talk about it with co-author, but here's what we got. we mostly base this stuff on how plausible it is in show/if there's evidence for it. with a dash of personal experience. This only applies to residuum, btw. I have different personal headcanons for these characters outside the comic.
april: lesbian. this is mostly based off of the fact that most aprils get with their caseys & the comment she said to dale. which could be taken as disinterest in dale specifically, but she seemed more concerned with impressing that popular girl earlier and that reads as more... saphic, i suppose. or at the very least homoromantic.
raph: raph is just raph. we look at him and basically just *tv static*. go crazy. all we got is jokes or stuff that has too little evidence to support. so, yeah, he's whatever you want him to be i guess?
leo: trans. already said my reason in the other post. also, gay. if gay were a power source he could power the entirety of the united states for five months straight without a single power outage. failing power grid notwithstanding (< thats the actual word. its supposed to be mushed together like that. wack.).
donnie: as much as i'd like him to be ace/aro spectrum rep, he just doesn't have the evidence in show for us to apply it to him in this comic. it's funny, for being hc as ace so often he sure is the most outwardly romantic/sexual turtle in the show lmao. one! cherry: "you're so cute, but you're so mean! why do i always go for your type?" two! astrogirl?? (whatever her name is) he is very very romantic with her. he has a type y'all. also just look at those two, he's a leg man lmao (bootyyshaker9000 anyone? ha!) anyway. and with the bromance/instant chemistry he had with that one guy in the purple dragons... Pan. or possibly Omni as he does seem to favor... cute brutal femme... Yeah. Omnisexual.
(you have no idea how fucking bad i want this boy to be ace spectrum. hes got the colors y'all!! The Colors!!!!! but alas... i am bound by my canon plausibility creed for this comic)
mikey: ace. possibly ace/aro. he shows interest in literally no-one. we're aware that the common hc is pan but... we know a pan 13 year old, and let me tell you ahahahaha, kids going through puberty are very uncomfortable to be around sometimes, especially around their partners. or crushes. and mikey... well, that boy is ace behavior personified lmao. aces in the back you get what we mean right?? right??? anyway commiting to aroace
#residual asks#rottmnt#i really get a kick out of he/him butch lesbian raph and ghostbear-sexual raph#but i'd never use those seriously. or at least in this comic#co-author says what they get if they really had to choose for raph is ace homoromantic#but otherwise...#he's just raph#like we can't apply any identity to him. and we really mean ANY identity. not even straight or umbrella terms like queer#its a very odd feeling#i also really like trans april but we don't have enough evidence for it#in fact there's actually counter evidence- but don't let that stop your dreams y'all. it just stops ours :P#sorry for stepping on your donnie dreams anon#but honestly i think that label applies more to 2012 donnie imo#i really do personally prefer ace/aro donnie. but i'd make everyone ace if i were able lmao#co-author would also do the same thing ahaah#i just don't like depicting romantic relationships. or attraction ahahaah#with mikey... we get why people hc him as pan... but like its a fandomism stereotype#that literally every fandom applies to optimistic friendly characters. and honestly i really don't like the fandomism stereotypes#i just find them... unenjoyable i guess#cuz like y'alll... your sexuality isn't inherently determined by your personality or vise versa#cuz like i know for sure that in fandom spaces- if i were a character- i'd be stereotyped as pan or a hypersexual cis het#to which i am neither. at all.#and co-author would be stereotyped as the demure femme book lesbian#which they are VERY much not#and i know this because i've been fandomified by people in my life more than once#it is a very uncomfortable experience y'all#whoops rant in the tags#residuum#rottmnt residuum#residuum wb
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i am so genuinely sick and tired of the way bisexual women are being treated in queer spaces nowadays.
statistically, bisexual women are at a higher danger of things like rape, sexual assault, intimate partner violence, stalking, etc. than anyone else when grouped by sexuality. yes this includes heterosexual women, yes this includes lesbians, yes this includes gay men. but the rest of the community as a whole seems to delight in stereotyping them as predators, accomplices to predators or undeserving of support just because of their identity. because people care more about the strawman of "bisexual woman with a boyfriend" than giving real people who are at a statistic vulnerability to actual violence a support network.
#bisexual#bisexuality#biphobia#i can talk for hours about how the stereotypes about bisexual women (promiscious cheaters etc.) actively contribute to both the#victimization of bisexual women as a whole (because predators feel more entitled to their bodies because they think bisexual = promiscious)#and also the ostracisation from the overall queer community that a lot of bi women face (bc of the cheating bi stereotype among others)#and how THAT in itself also contributes to bi women being more vulnerable to violence because they are seen as unwelcome in what would#otherwise be a support network from them. but despite wanting more community nobody who isn't bisexual ever fucking brings this up#and instead focuses on ''oh this bi women made a bad take'' ''bi women with boyfriends are definitely actually straight guys''#and it just pisses me the fuck OFF#this doesn't even begin to dig into what happens when biphobia is mixed with other forms of prejudice like racism and transphobia#tldr y'all should be protecting bi women not driving them out of queer spaces and dogpiling on the cringe bi woman of the week
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Girl help I went on Facebook and there are people there who think Eddie Munson is straight
#eddie munson#steddie#that is a queer man if I ever saw one#I legit always forget most people assume all fictional characters are straight and cis until proven otherwise#even people in the community :/#they’re like ‘where’s your proof?’#and like first of all I absolutely do have proof#but why do we need any?#these are my dollies I play with in my head#fiction isn’t real! have fun with it!
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can't believe people are still out here accusing real ass people of queerbaiting. at this point just admit you like forcing people to come out before they're ready because that's what the result of this continues to be. coming out to anyone isn't an obligation for any queer person and people shouldn't have to alter their behavior or personality or presentation just because you personally think they're cishet. that is literally your own personal problem to work on. keep it to yourself
#anyway i can't believe i actually saw - in my pride month - someone accusing onlyoneof of queerbaiting#and using gayness for 'clout' like. 1) if any of them actually came out it would probably end their careers. casually#like why do kpop fans constantly forget that queerness isnt a globally accepted thing#2) the fact that they even do these gay storylines in their mvs is insane to me and they already got so much hate for it#like literally what clout are you talking about. this was honestly a risky thing for them to do#and the only reason it paid off at all is bc they have a pretty big supportive international fan base#but otherwise libido literally could've been the end of it for all of them#3) despite getting straight-up hate instead of pretending like it didnt happen and trying to just move on they doubled down#like idk how ooo of all groups is getting ridiculed by gay people like you are sooo online like#meet a gay person from a different cultural background than yours im begging you#you can't say that gay people have to come out without compromising our autonomy#you literally sound like a homophobe forcing us to be categorized and this is why this mindset is not fucking safe#im talking again
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why do i keep seeing posts about hypothetical allies who "don't know the correct terms but are enthusiastically supportive"
why are we making up this specific guy so much. why are you so obsessed with the idea of a straight person who would call you faggot but mean it in a nice way, because they just don't know any better.
this is an incredibly weird rhetorical advice, why am i seeing posts about it again
#juney.txt#usually in contrast to some hypothetical queer person who ''knows all the terminology''#but is malicious in some way#or otherwise not as much of an ally as this hypothetical straight person#really sends a good message#anyway it's also just incredibly weird how we're treating Not Calling Queer People Derogatory Slurs#as like this massive hurdle#that it's too hard to teach straight people to overcome#like if this hypothetical straight guy can't internalize ''hey don't call us that. that is a word used to hurt us''#what the fuck kind of meaningfully useful ally are you even expecting them to be#words aren't hard. this isn't rocket science.#''we won't trust you if you call us trannies or faggots because those are words bigots use to dehumanize us'' look how easy that was#god it's just this stupid narrative of ''those loonie lefties trying to be overly pc'' isn't it
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that post that's like "learning social skills helps with social anxiety" applies to dating also btw
#i guess they have a circular relationship because also going on lots of first dates was really trial by fire for me in learning lots lf#new social skills#meeting new people was never my strong suit and i was very afraid of it and would avoid it but like!#when i first tried going on first dates i learned a lot about how to meet people and met types of queer people i'd never met before#and actually it was good for me even though it was often weird and stressful#and it was a lower-stakes way to practice social skills that i otherwise would've just avoided using until they atrophied#anyway whenever i see a dating profile that's like 'i'm afraid of talking to women lol' i'm like ok relatable but what's your plan to learn#i think also just like it doesn't have to be through dating but it is good for you to meet other gay and trans people offline if possible#when i moved to wisconsin i only knew my coworkers who were mostly also twentysomethings who'd been hired straight from college#and it was good for me to meet and make friends with other local gay and trans people who were involved in different stuff#idk i just don't know how many more 'i'm obsessed with romance but scoff at the idea that i should do anything about that' posts i can read#like if i said i wanted to run a marathon but i never practiced running people would fairly be like okay that's prob not gonna happen#idk i know it's no skin off my nose i'm just like. if you never take any steps towards expressing your desires#how do you think they're going to just happen to you#personal nonsense
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I was really hesitant when Audrey Plaza called A³ "the gayest MCU property yet" because Taika and Natalie Portman said that about Love and Thunder and yet... but, Y'know. After the first episode of A³ I must say.
Agatha All Along is for the gays.
#agatha all along#its amazing how accurate a queer person is at gaging whether something is *actually* super gay#i love taika too but based on every interview I've read he is at the end of the day a straight man. a cool one yes but straight nonetheless#im happy to be told I'm wrong in that but i havent found anything proving otherwise#meanwhile i read audrey plaza is bisexual so#she would know
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Broke: Mai is masculine, Ty Lee is feminine
Woke: Mai is dark feminine and Ty Lee is light feminine
#honestly#toph's the one who's not much girly#otherwise all of atla girls are girly#they're all girly and badass and i love it#usually the strong female character is masculine and they do it in a way that derides femininity#atla subverts it by having toph who's the tomboy#and all the other girls who are feminine#another piece of media that did the tomboy right#without deriding girly girls while writing a tomboy#is arcane#with vi#no one points out that she's masculine#her femininity is never questioned#and you have mel and caitlyn being girly and badass#and vi herself never looks down on women who're feminine#ty lee is obviously is girly#but mai and azula are too#i hate that that fandom thinks mai in particular is masculine#like damn y'all haven't seen masc presenting women have ya? (doesn't matter straight or queer)#atla#avatar the last airbender#arcane
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for a side that says to be so pro sasuke its hilarous when they start fuming when you mention canon stuff about his characterization
#saying that sasuke speeches at the end are retcon as if they dont fit completely w his previous actions#throwing up because ppl mention sasuke fits certain heroine tropes and has femenine attributes because it would destroy the straight super#masculine idea they have of him#pointing that sasuke’s clear lack of interest in women but fixation in a guy is fots queer coding#claiming sasuke has better relationship w taka than with naruto simply bc they like#them more themselves#despite sasukes own actions and words saying otherwise#and on and on#like i thought you like sasuke??#mine
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hey, your video compilation of 4chan post about shield is a great ressource for fandom psychology. Interesting to see another user who lurk the wrestling board and use tumblr. Did you ever work on compilation of the tumblr fandom during the peak of the shield era ? I did not research it yet. xoxo
glad someone liked that video, only in times when im super fixated on something will i end up searching through the 4chan archives for more content...unfortunately 4chan vernacular tends to get a laugh out of me (if it isnt absolute lowtier content, had to scrape through a lot of that). the shield stuff i tried to get from when it was at its peak and you'll see posts on there from 2013+, but i also got modern stuff now bc the boardspeak actually changed with it.
ironically it is way easier to deepdive and compile stuff from 4chan bc it has a much better archival system than tumblr; ive also looked for lots of old stuff on deviantart due to the crossover but i found that it has a pretty shitty way of archiving/sorting older posts (just like on here. ive been on tumblr since 13 so i know what sorts of areas to look for, but its still very hard to find it directly on here. i havent spent as much time as i did getting those posts for that video so i can try harder.)
fandom psychology is interesting to me too so im happy you saw my video with that angle. ive collected lots of old shield fangirl content off of sites like weheartit and pinterest (ironically those are often better at keeping images up for longer periods of time) too but i didnt know if i should make a comp, maybe i will. i also looked through random forums and places like lolcow dot farms (which only really granted one of the screenshots...not too much discussion over there for good or bad. i was hoping to find discussion abt shieldfangirls or wrestling rpf but surprisingly they didnt think to make a "point and laugh" thread abt those topics). i find it interesting how much shieldrelated psychosis was on both sides of the spectrum (tumblr vs 4chan)....i could talk more on it but im a little brainless and sleep deprived rn
heres some extras i had that didnt make the cut (plus just some of my favorites):
and these were from a thread talking abt the modern stereotypical tumblr wrestling fan (specifically talking abt aedubs young bucks fans/the elite fans)
(*fangirl in this is a term im using loosely of course)
#surprisingly there is actually LESS shield blingees than dx or cm punk blingees. that at least i could find. theres a large number of#desktop background edits from deviantart and content like the fanfic edits/“outfits i would wear to meet the shield”/ogflowercrown phone bg#collages. and the like. i could compile all this shit i just didnt think it mattered to anyone LOL#sorry for the long post everyone#the most interesting thing abt the shields hayday and eventual fall on 4chan was 1) how many guys unironically loved seth up until he#“turned shoot faggot”/or the first knee injury. he was a fan favorite on there even with the contrarian posters saying otherwise (most of#4chan is just being. the contrarian so that tracks). and 2) the huge divide between guys who hated ambrose (usually bc he was over with#female fans...theres still that divide with how straight men dont understand favs among women. also goes along w my noted difference in fav#among queer men/women etc etc - but they would mask this by saying they hated that he was a jobber (true) or his inring technique was slopp#) and guys who adored ambrose bc he was a promo guy...they loved his early promos/“he just like me fr”.. (and a large grouping of dudes who#would call him cute). i dunno just stuff i noticed#also. obviously a lotta mox hate due to dickriding cornette#the shields peak is interesting to me so i might continue to compile more shit like this when i get the time. i have the shield dvds too#and wanted to do a LONG journey of p1rat1n6 all their scenes off of pcock while i still have my sub. but it would take a while#also. love ur acc bc i too enjoy thinkin abt the fem versions of dude wrestlers#fleshclipstag#tactical-asks
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getting outed at work sucks 👍
#statement.txt#young queer at my job outed me to one of our coworkers#this is the THIRD PERSON she has outed me to#i live in the deep south bro i may use my name but i girlmode otherwise#im so worried that this is going to wind up being a bad situation for me#my workplace is queer friendly but we also again live in the deep south#do you really think that this is actually that safe.#im gonna have to have a talk with her bc the first ppl she outed me to were older ppl who very easily could have been EXTREMELY transphobic#luckily they were not transphobic to me but like. HELLO.#one of those people apparently does want her to be straight and doesnt understand her being queer so like why out me to her?????????
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Me when I remember that forcing myself to think a character is straight until proven otherwise is actually damaging to my mental health because it subconsciously tells myself that I can’t be someone like that —a hero, the good guy, have power, be anything— and queer because it is a rare thing (near impossible) for someone to be both.
I am pushing my dreams further away from myself whenever I agree with a homophobic fan that a character is probably straight and I’m probably crazy.
#naw it’s not just a headcanon to me now#if this is a headcanon to me than them being straight is a headcanon to you#personally I WILL be seeing and believing that that character is queer until proven otherwise.#queer#lgbt#representation matters#headcanon#tagging the ships that inspired this#poolverine#konbart#samfro#mainly samfro#we aren’t crazy for thinking we can be heros#or for seeing ourselves in the heros that inspire up#deadpool and wolverine#lotr#dc comics#(and yes ik deadpool is pansexual people have still been treating me like I’m crazy)
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can some fucking people stop being to celebrities like “oh this person is either gay or queerbaiting because their personality is making me interpret them as queer because they act ‘stereotypically’ gay and that if you act like this you have to be queer. so we’re gonna either force this person to come out via peer pressure when they may not want to or be ready to or bully them for acting a certain way if they’re not queer because that’s the only way i can accept these people acting this way.” it’s really fucked up, based on toxic patriarchal values, and plain homophobic. analyze these parts about yourself and put a stop to it. it’s not funny. it’s not doing the lgbtq community a favor. it’s an asshole thing to do and you better be leaving that shit in 2023.
#this shit upsets me so deeply i hope you noticed#kit connor#harry styles#billie eilish#shawn mendes#honestly i’m not even a huge shawn mendes fan but what some people did when they were look omg he’s gay bc he acts 💅#fucking disgusting#let’s not even start with how people made gross speculations about him and camila’s relationship#don’t forget the fact that billie had to come out bc she was put on the spot and she can’t just exist as a queer person#it really rubs me the wrong way all of it#and the kit connor situation is self explanatory#oh right i forgot to mention#taylor swift#like read the prologue please#also i feel the large majority of the community drowns out the g*ylors but it still clearly gets to taylor y’all#she’s stated multiple times she’s straight. stop insinuating otherwise.#even if she didn’t#the public doesn’t have to act like they’re entitled to sensitive details of someone’s life bc they’re famous.#gain some empathy. grow the fuck up#lgbtqia#lgbtq#queer
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i have no desired answer for this!!!!! don't feel pressured to pick an answer based on what my gender actually is :)
responses will inevitably depend on what way you've interacted with me: have you been a long-time follower of mine, or are you new? or did you find this poll by chance, and don't even follow me? are we mutuals or online friends? do you frequently engage with my chatty text posts? have you heard my voice, talking or singing? do you know what i look like and how i dress? do you know which characters i kin? etc.
like all people i'm interested in how i come off to people, so if anything this is just a way for me to get a sense of that lol :P
#melonposting#poll#i'm not defining masculine or feminine here#one's impression of someone in that regard inevitably takes into account society's ideals of masculinity and femininity#whether one fully adopts them or otherwise#those ideals are inarguably there and they impact how people as a whole see each other#i'm not saying i'm using those ideals here. but someone might look at me through that lens#and y'know someone could be like hm. ellie doesn't fit society's ideal of masculinity#but in my view of masculinity which is inevitably in conversation with that ideal#i see them as masculine#y'know??#i thought of this partly because when talking about lesbianism with a friend once he said i was a femme lesbian#and i've always wondered 1) am i a femme lesbian?#2) what about me would make him call me a femme lesbian as opposed to a butch lesbian (or something else)?#3) if the average straight person knew i was lesbian would they think i'm femme or butch? what about a fellow queer? a fellow dyke?#cuz i guess i'm more feminine than your average guy but more masculine than your average girl#does one of those overpower the other? do they mix into a dual gender impression? or do they cancel each other out?#yeag :thumbsup:
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it’s funny how when people* find out I’m transmasc they start automatically assuming I’m straight like ??? Y’all…
#people as in cis perisex straight people who otherwise mean well but just assume that I’m a guy and therefore only into women#like nah y’all my flavor of queer flows in all directions#none is safe from me thinking they’re attractive. NOT EVEN YOU GENTLE READER.
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