#pinterest anon

[therealslimshakespeare]

https://www.tumblr.com/precious-little-scoundrel/762081538731114496/love-the-new-board-so-much-and-i-want-nonnie-to

Oh yay happily!! I put that photo in there specifically because based on my experience, and the experience of some of my friends, a big part of the 😫😫 danger 😫😫 of your first college relationship is that you get wayyyyyy too close way too fast and lowkey… sort of trauma bonded. But I obviously use that term just to explain what I’m getting at/ sort of lightly and not exactly accurately haha because it’s too extreme to fully be used to describe what I mean. But basically. You’re out of the house for the first time, living on ur “own” and like. I just feel like you get way too attached way too quickly, there’s nothing/ no one stopping you from seeing that person alllll the time. Or even basically starting to live with them because whatever you’re just young and fun and in love. And then if that person is your first for a lot of things, like Spencer would be for Lu? Even silly things like, let’s say you go out and get absolutely wasted and u miss ur parents and they take care of you? Or the bigger things like intimacy. You can become codependent so fast and dangerously attached. And I could see that happening to Lu. Like for example, him being the first guy to see her scar even. All those things could get twisted in her mind and just. It’s not good. So I thought the pic in the bathroom was like an example of if she were to get in that headspace with him.

Everybody look they answered!!!!⏰

[my-castles-crumbling]

Anon Advice Asks - February 27

teen angst anon, pinterest anon (new), comparing anon (new), mature anon (new), @teasiswriter

teen angst anon

teen angst anon here!

I’m going out of my normal cycle to tell you about the super fun thing that happened to me, so sorry about that (can you tell how neurotypical I am?! I’m literally the most neurotypical person ever omg)

ok, so basically, I’ve been collapsing (blacking out, but not loosing consciousness) a lot lately, so when I went to the doctor for my routine “dying of a chronic illness” checkup, I was like “hey! Ummm … this feels bad, right?” And she was like “YEAH thats not good”. So she was like “we’re gonna run a bunch of labs, and see what’s going on about that”. So me and my parents went today, and they were like “ooh more tests got added - that’s gonna be a lot of blood” and my dad was like … can she just do it all today? Because if she has to do it in two, she’s going to be scared for the second one. Which, is fair. So they’re like “yeah technically?” So it ended up being four vials of blood, which isn’t terrible? I think? But, the Phlebotomist told me to tell her about my favorite subject in school (History). So, me being me, I decide to tell her about the Spanish Inquisition! I did pass out, which sucked, and then when I woke up I puked. So anyway. I’m still kinda delirious and I’m sure this is not the most eloquent story I’ve ever told, but whatevs.

also - on another note. In regards to my friend, my parents know, and she has a therapist. And, my best friend and I are currently in the process of convincing her to tell our school. Worst comes to worst, we’d rather she get hospitalized than be in her parents house.

oh my....I really hope the tests at least give you some answers so it was worth it, because that sounds awful.

As far as your friend, it sounds like you're doing really well with helping her. I'm so glad your parents know and she has a therapist <3 I hope you convince her to tell the school!

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Pinterest anon

okay so we're currently having our finals and i sent one of my friends several pinterest edits and reels this week. tbf, there's like thirty of each and obviously i didn't really expect them to watch it during the week because finals. so i asked them yesterday and they were like "im busy not now after the exams" except they sent one of our friends a seven minute long voice message, sent several reels themselves yesterday and posts after saying "i don't have time to watch them" (them being the ones i sent) when i first brought it up like it's not that they don't have time, they clearly do, but they don't feel like watching them and that's fine but like just say that you don't feel like it or that you feel too lazy to reply literally anything that's even remotely more conceivable than a blatant lie like i know for a fact that they had the time but they just didn't want to which is also okay but like stop with the bullshit maybe??

Hi!

Okay I'm not trying to make excuses for your friend because i totally understand where you're coming from and you have a right to your feelings...but I know for me, when people send me a LOT at once, I get overwhelmed and I don't want to look at any of it. Like when I see I have 16 unread texts, I can't bring myself to look at any of them, but if I only have one, it's easier. Maybe it's something like that? Again, you still have a right to your feelings but maybe it's something like that?

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Comparing anon

HI CASS!!!

uhmmm I don't really write these (ever), but I really need to get someone's opinion or just to tell someone.

but iv been getting better from a really bad period, but I can find myself slowly drifting back and I'm terrified because it was such a bad time for me. but the thing is I really just need to talk someone or just a hug tbh, but I don't have many friends or talk to them outside of school. however I talk to one friend and I love them so much, but their barely message me if I talk to them and always reply really short and give me nothing to go off. and ik their going through a hard time right now but won't let me in so I have no idea how to help them. ANYWAY, as much as I love them, I find myself constantly comparing myself to them, and base my mood around on how they treat me and honestly their making me worse, even though they probably don't mean it.

sorry for yapping on and on, but I just don't know what to do cause they are literally the only person I keep in contact with and don't want to lose the one thing helping feel connected in life, but it's making me fall deeper into the hole of badness and yuckiness.

( p.s IV REALISED HOW MUCH IV TALKED, IM SO SORRY, YOU DONT HAVE TO REPLY TO THIS IS YOU DONT WANT)

Hi!

Please don't feel bad at all!

Honestly I think the first thing to do is to talk to them. Share how you're feeling. Hell, even show them this ask. It could be that they're struggling so much with their own shit that they don't realize what you're going through. I know it's scary to lay your feelings out like that, but communication is so important in a friendship, and this sounds like an important friendship for you. <3

Keep me updated!

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mature anon

Hello Cas!!! I'm a nonbinary person, and I struggle a lot with pronouns in my native language. In my language, we don’t have neutral pronouns like they/them in English. The people in the community have basically created a new one for us, but when I tell you everyone makes fun of it, I mean, it's treated as so unserious and pathetic. There are even memes going around mocking nonbinary people for using those pronouns, as if it's just some joke.

People associate those pronouns with a joke, with a meme. They basically bullied a nonbinary person for using them, and those are the pronouns I feel the most comfortable with, in fact, the only ones. But people see them as immature. I'm 26 years old, I have a full-time job, and I'm expected to be "more mature than that." But you have no idea how much it HURTS every time people use other pronouns for me. I can't correct them, and even the most liberal and open-minded people don't accept those pronouns. Gender-neutral pronouns simply don’t exist in my language.

It's honestly so hard, and I feel like the only time I can be myself is here on the internet, behind a screen, using they/them pronouns that allow me to breathe. I don’t know why it matters so much, but it does, especially knowing I will have to live my whole life like this. But this is a safe space for me, and your account feels like a hug to the soul. I guess that's why I'm sending this message to you.

"I don't know why it matters so much" um it matters because it's who you are! Of COURSE it matters! This sounds SO infuriating and invalidating and I am so sorry <3 It makes me happy that I can give you a safe space, but you deserve a lot more than that, and I'm sorry you're not getting it. I'm sending you all the love and hugs and respect, because you deserve respect for your identity.

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@teasiswriter

Hellooooo! I hope you’re doing well

Earlier I mentioned my old abusive friends but I’ve been thinking about them and some other trauma more often and I m not sure what to do? I mean I was planning on suppressing it until I got to college or something and could get a therapist, or if i was asked about it by someone I could trust? But I was told that suppressing it is bad for me. What should I do? Do I think about it? Remember it? Deconstruct what I feel about it? That sounds exhausting, that hurts. But I’m not supposed to suppress it apparently… and I don’t have anyone to talk about it with right now

What do I do with it?

Yeah suppressing it isn't great. But you're right that working through it can be scary and exhausting. Do you have a trusted adult you can talk to about it (teacher, parent, family member, family friend, coach, guidance counselor)? Or maybe if you could find some online forums to talk about it on? If not, as long as it doesn't make your mental health worse, you could try writing about it, drawing about it, something like that?

[princessbrunette]

i’m so glad you like it!!! every time you drop new character lore i’m like “just working. working hard so i can please ya 💻🧃”

-pinterest nonnie

akjdfjxj i love that <33

[bitchinbarzal]

Now that Oma and Opa are there, Luca's asking for a fondue birthday dinner the night before his birthday.

- pinterest anon

mama hisch is like kid…. A little warning would’ve been nice

[hinamie]

u should think of tiny megu. To keep the stress at bay. You should draw him actually. Ooooo you wanna draw tiny megu getting the love he deserves so bad /j

he's with his 2 best friends

[ghostybat]

Pretty!damian!agenda!!!!talia and damian shopping trips!!!mother and son matching sets!!!! Talia offering to get jon "better clothes" and damian telling her the way he dresses is perfect cuz it expresses who he is and that's how he loves him but mother u indeed have great eyes i will take that Italian cut suit u picked out

Hold on this kind of reminds me of the fanfic 'Cause I Made My Mind Up You're Going to Be Mine by poisonivory. This part specifically

LOL. But I just know Talia and Damian are the most well dressed people out there! I like to imagine Damian in a lot of flowy fabrics, I also like to think he doesn't limit himself to clothes that are just traditionally masculine, I definitely think he's the type to wear whatever suits him best whether it be more on the feminine side or not you know

[realtapiocafan]

https://www.tumblr.com/realtapiocafan/774877061591515136

When I say that body language is telling me… I mean I’m how you can see the adoration these two have for each other it’s SICKENING 😭

found a version of the photo to just. look and appreciate them (credit to christopher polk but like. i needed a version without the getty watermark) and now i shall yap!

when i tell you i stopped breathing when i saw this photo, i'm not kidding. let me just attempt to put into words why this photo has me fucked up beyond belief.

op was very real for this. looking directly into each other eyes is very hot.

that's not a thing you really do with someone you don't know well, because uhh. it just gets awkward. but with someone you DO know, with someone you know so well that you don't even have to speak, that you can just smile at and they'll smile back and you feel so content in your HEART???

that's really, really fucking hot.

the eye contact actually makes my brain go brrr. both of them crinkling their eyes in JOY and not even paying an IOTA of attention to anyone else, because who tf even cares about the world around them? like 'lost in each other's eyes', is literally the only phrase i could use -because that's what they're doing!

the only thing that matters, in this moment, is just each other. nothing else.

this is literally what i'd imagine this moment to be: joe just playing with his phone, wondering where ja'marr is, still thinking about ja'marr as a model and god he may have discovered a new kink and -- "Joe!"

and he looks up and oh. there he is. joe stops breathing, not that he's really aware of, not that anyone really notices. because it's ja'marr with a smile like the sun and all crinkling eyes and joe can't help but grin back, doesn't understand how anyone could ever not grin back when faced with ja'marr fucking chase. does he really need to breathe when beautiful, stunning, gorgeous ja'marr is right in front of him, fresh off walking a runway? no. no he does not.

they know each other too well to need any words and that's. holy cow, but isn't that the height of romance? to know someone to that level, where you don't need all that small talk and shit. to just be so content with the person you love, that you don't even have to say anything. you know them so well, that they don't need to say anything out loud -you already know what's coming out of their mouths.

in my mind, they just stand there in silence for a few seconds. like a couple of idiots <3. ja'marr grinning ear to ear, joe's smile creeping up because he can't help it, both of them swaying towards each other like magnets...

you focused on the body language, anon, and YES. just ---there's no tension in either of them. shoulders relaxed, eyes crinkling, smiling. i doubt they're even aware of the camera. again, it's just them. just them, looking in each other's eyes and utterly relaxing. they're each other's safe space, the calm in the storm.

it's just ---'oh it's you' type of love. not just 'oh it's you and it's always been you and how could it have ever not been you' -but 'oh it's you. you're the reason why i feel safe. you're the reason i can relax with you in a way i can't with anyone else'.

and this sums up the entire picture, why did i even type all that ugh.

[melonpaya]

If you still do request, can you draw timeskip!Luz having a nosebleed and that kind of reactions over timeskip!Amity casually flexing her bicep in her tanktop

Would be even funnier if Lilith was there like “Luz are you okay?” Cus she is acearo

she gay as hell

[hanasnx]

slow sex w peter when he's all banged up and tense like this https://pin.it/27RgaHhFj 😵‍💫

— link.

the way he’d flinch and audibly wince and his voice is all shaky but he needs that pussy <33

[twentyfivemiceinatrenchcoat]

priest!geto who falls so deeply in love with you that he assumes you were sent by god to test his faith. is this anything /taps mic

[blossoms-phan]

https://www.tumblr.com/blossoms-phan/759822260880179200/date-night-with-dan-and-phil?source=share not the fucking double dates😭😭😭 imgonna

yeah, those really get me too ;_; here's some more for you

[httpiastri]

Can you post Paul boyfriend core pics 🤍 please

okay so i wasnt sure if you meant pics of him or just pics that give off his vibes….. so i did both hehe

[eyra]

[moodymishhty]

moodboard on tulip garden please 🌷

Tulip Garden Mood Board

ty for the ask !

[bitchinbarzal]

Mama T is stressed out at meeting the Tkachuks for the first time, it doesn't help that the Tkachuk bowl is a fight to the death each time.

She had a doctor's appointment the morning before, and they noted that her blood pressure was elevated. But she convinced them that it was stress.

- Pinterest Anon

Queue her leaving the box for a while to “get some air” the family think she’s flaked on them but actually a random consession stand worker called her an ambulance because she fainted

[bunnysnared]

BUNNY!!!!!! DROP ANOTHER SIMON DRAWING EVEN JF ITS A BARELY DONE SKETCH AND MY LIFE IS YOURS. IM IN LOVE WITH HOW YOU INTERPRET HIS DESIGN

here anon!! a couple of crops of sum simons,, just for you

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