#personal perspective

[divinebunnii]

when the safe word is “gentle” because you don’t want them to stop, just be… more gentle.

safe words don’t always have to mean total, full red. safe words can mean go slower, i need a moment but don’t pull out, can you not do specifically whatever it is you’re doing, etc.

sex is supposed to always have open communication, and if you’re like me and struggle to say full sentences or give specific instructions, come up with a list of words that have different meanings to you and your partner(s).

talk, put everything out in the open, be vulnerable, trust this person / these people, make sure you’re all on the exact same page, and most importantly, be safe ~

[goldenboots1]

Controversial opinion

It’s sad that Max fans are now taking digs at Max for being loyal to that hold Man who nearly lost his integrity for getting a literal child into a racing car. He got so much criticism for his actions “he’s getting senile” I know Helmut isn’t liked by many RB fans but the job he did for RedBull was fantastic. Credit where credit is due. We as fans can’t deny what he did. Especially for Max, Max is where he is now because of Helmuts actions. And I know some of you think he’s stupid for standing by his side but Max hasn’t forgotten. And I bet it’s incredibly difficult for him rn because he also knows what Christian did for him. What this team did for him. But it was Dietrich’s and Helmuts decision to go with Max. It’s sad to see what happened to RedBull now that Dietrich isn’t with us anymore. He wouldn’t have let this happen and I bet it would make him super sad to see in what direction his dream is going now.

[lacewise]

I truly believe that every person who said corporate landlords were better than independent landlords and more housing regulations were plants and no amount of evidence will change my mind—that’s a bias

But I am a business major and I know way too much about private equity and financial deregulation and scams, so what I’m actually reacting to is probably less psyops and more Dunning-Kruger—that’s a nuanced thought

I know I’m not wrong about private equity because private equity has become so oversaturated everyone is noticing the correlation between them “investing” in businesses and those industries deteriorating in a cynical race to the bottom (sources: Wisecrack, Last Week Tonight, Wired, ProPublica, some actual textbooks I don’t want to dig out right now)—that’s literacy

The rich are puppeteering private equity to avoid the three generation cycle and are causing capitalism (as it’s meant to work) to stagnate and fail because they’re too lazy to teach their kids real skills and they are preventing information and knowledge sharing and literacy to prevent market competitors that would likely lead to their business’s end in the future (I am not the first to notice this)—that’s a perspective

And that’s why everything knowledge- and information- related has become so fractured, compartmentalized, paywalled, and saturated—to bury or hide anything that could derail this train of events—because they don’t believe in capitalism either, but not the same way the middle class doesn’t—that’s a perspective-based conclusion

🌈 The more you know 🌈

[mischief-night-ghost]

If anyone gets upset over Frank not engaging in conversations with his followers can blame themselves bc they are probably the culprit behind it.

I'm not upset, I'm putting perspective that this man was attacked by thousands of hostile children without remorse probably for about 24 hours at least, and none of them came with a cause for him to get better/learn; their claims of being mature/like adults are far from true from that evidence they've presented. And it's also on him too for being almost the same way.

I'm not being like "he's excused", but I think, again this whole 3 day period: perspective. He's probs embarrassed and the accusations that he's something that he clearly is actually so against isn't going to make it better or automatically cure him.

I'm disappointed myself, but there's a remedy to a situation like this, and it's just pure merciful education. Think about it like gentle parenting. "I'm disappointed in you bc you did this. This is why I'm disappointed, and here's what you can do to make the situation better for all of us, including yourself. I hope we all learn from this and grow together as a society". And that's all that rlly needs to be said.

It's all over my timelines which is why I keep posting about it excessively, but I can't help it bc I'm seeing way too much of 1 side and it's all extremely negative/cancel culture involved and it's tiresome.

[k00299892]

LSAD Radius Project

Week 1

Peer Group 36b

18/09/23

The theme of my first year project in Limerick School of Art and Design was RADIUS.

I was drawn to Arthur's Quay and the hunt museum as I wanted to give my perspective and my personal connection and views to this project

My peer group and I started of at St John's Cathedral in Limerick

[macksting]

image transcript: My mom's childhood village was the crown of the Philippines. Located at the very north, it is isolated and sinking. It was also the very village the Japanese first landed on when they occupied the Philippies during World War II. My grandpa's dad was a drunk. And gramps and his mom would usually go out looking for him. Grandpa swore he saw a mermaid that would sit at the docks near the Japanese ships. "Antonio. Antonio. Antonio." "Every year that fucking sea takes someone from the village," I was on a car ride home when Mom once said. She said it as though the sea was alive. An ever open and sentient maw. My uncle's once-girlfriend drowned at that sea. She asked my uncle to go swimming with her that day. (He declined.) Her parents asked my grandma if they could have a photograph of my uncle that they could bury with her. (She declined.) I guess she was the sacrifice that year. There was an old man who had an old grocery store at Mom's village. He was so wrinkled his face looked like an old nautilus shell. He was still alive last I visited. The beach my uncle's girlfriend died on is gone now. The sand mined away by Chinese corporations. It used to have black sand. Starfish. Coral. Now there was only black stone mourning. A lonely and angry sea. What I thought was a rainbow puddle on the shore one day I came to play on the beach was an oil spill. As Dad carried me away, the sea looked as thought it was bleeding. It was storming outside, and the wind was beating against the walls outside. It sounded like wailing. "Mom, what is that noise?" "Just whale spirits. Go to sleep." The town creaked and groaned during that storm. The mermaid does not forget this sinking town, swallowed by the sea and human wrath and greed. I wonder if anyone else remembers her. I wonder if she remembers my grandpa.

my mom’s childhood town

[fulminare-within-her-soul]

Okay.

Okay, but like-

Why do people spend an insane amount of money on frivolous things for their toddlers? Or take them to events they won’t even remember, where they’re probably just going to become overstimulated and either fall asleep or bounce off the walls?

Why are (appropriate) books kept from curious kids because the book is apparently “too advanced” for them???

hopefully i don’t get smote for voicing this

[hinamie]

to moving forward

[akulea]

Kalau dipikir-pikir, akar kemiskinan atau keterbelakangan desa belakangan ini muncul atau terdefinisikan dari modernisasi. Sebenarnya, menuruktku, desa itu tidak identik dengan keterbelakangan. Desa itu tidak identik dengan primitif, desa itu tidak identik dengan kemiskinan. Moderinasi oemerintahlah yang menyebabkan masyarakat desa merasa dirinya miskin. Modernisasi memberikan ruang bernama haraoan hamoa nan kosong dalam masyarakat desa. Mereka merasa miskin karena tidak mamou memiliki apa yang dimiliki orang kota.

Padahal menurutku, masyarakat desalah yang PALING KAYA RAYA di muka bumi ini. Modernisasi pemerintah dan oknum-oknum tertentulah yang membuatnya terlihat miskin

[cicigreen03]

Me scrolling through my preferred ship’s tag on AO3, sorted by most recent, hard no tags filtered out:

Reads the summary - It sounds interesting and has no obvious spelling or grammar issues

Looks over the tags - No extra characters I dislike, all tags are ones that suit my current mood

I open the fic and start reading. At no point does kudos or comments or even title ever come into my decision.

If I like it great, I kudos and comment (I’m trying to get better). If I love it, I kudos, comment, and bookmark. If I don’t like it, I click back and try another.

Another AO3 thing I’m curious about, how do yall decide if something is good enough to read? Usually I follow a rule of 1 kudos for every 10 hits. One because it’s easy math and two it’s yet to fail me. Thoughts? Do you just go for it and pray it’s good?

[divinebunnii]

i can understand jealousy but i just don’t feel it. we are together but yes it’s okay to think that person is beautiful, it’s okay to admire their body or their essence, it’s normal to lust after other people because they just don’t look or act like me. do i think they have a chance of getting you away from me? not at all, because we both admire and enjoy hedonistic tendencies together, we both understand that emotions are a spectrum and as humans it’s in our nature to want to look and wonder and awe. we are always seeking something to fulfill curiosity, that doesn’t mean they are greater or better than, it just means we appreciate divinity in all forms and all directions it comes from

[purefilly-connection]

The Challenges of Living with a Compressed Spine: A Personal Perspective

Have you ever broken a bone? Living with a compressed spine has been a journey filled with challenges and moments of perseverance. While I have never experienced the pain of a broken bone, the discomfort and obstacles I face daily are reminiscent of the struggles one might endure with such an injury. A torn meniscus and a spine that seems perpetually out of alignment have made walking and…

[tmarshconnors]

"The Media is ruled by Satan. But yet I wonder if many Christians fully understand that."

TMarsh-Connors host of Angry British Conservative podcast.

Passionate Blogger and Vlogger: TMarsh-Connors is a passionate individual who dedicates their free time to blogging on platforms like Tumblr and DeviantART. Their commitment to the written word and visual content showcases a multifaceted approach to sharing thoughts and experiences.

Weekly Podcast Host: Besides blogging, TMarsh-Connors hosts a weekly podcast titled "Angry British Conservative," demonstrating a strong voice in discussing political and social topics. The podcast is available on various platforms such as YouTube, Apple, Google, and Spotify, reaching a diverse audience.

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Shares Personal Perspective as an "Angry British Conservative": The choice of the podcast title, "Angry British Conservative," suggests that TMarsh-Connors takes a bold and unapologetic stance on political matters. This indicates a willingness to share personal perspectives and opinions, contributing to a dialogue on political and social issues.

[vizthedatum]

a warning and emotional release, written as a poem I'll never publish (2024)

Things I wish I could have told you, But I wasn't sure I would get through:

How much I loved you Even if it was solely in my mind's view.

You weren't right for me then. You'd agree if we ever met again.

Maybe things could have been different If our lives were more innocent.

This poem is not about us. Not that I'm not willing to discuss.

So here they are: my warnings and my truth (please don't try to dispute).

I didn't mean for this to happen! I was suffering from a famine.

A famine of my own doing That you only had a glimpse of viewing.

We met when I was at rock bottom. And you thought I was kind of awesome?

So it was just easy to love you like a fool. Two peas in a pod, using each other as a tool.

Meanwhile, my life was falling apart. Back then, I never felt smart.

I was fighting not to give up everything Resigned that this was the best I could be marrying.

I married the love of my life. I desperately wanted to be their non-binary wife.

I wanted to be theirs unconditionally. So that they would treat me with more dignity.

It's not their fault they were this way. Trauma made them the way they are today.

I loved them with all my heart and my soul. Do you hear me? Can you even imagine the toll?

Was it even then a surprise? That we both found solace in yet another disguise?

I hope this isn't cryptic: They're fragilely antagonistic.

Not necessarily a bad person, Just another distraction.

I wish them so much healing, But please see past what they're concealing.

They're a rape apologist on their best day, Caught up with what's "right" to say.

They're the type of friend that will only enable, Because they are so unstable.

They won't tell you the truth, Because they want to save face and look smooth.

Their partner is suffering, And it's hard to watch her stuttering.

Maybe I'm still just angry. It was just lousy polyamory.

I didn't mind things being simple. Even if the sex was truly dismal.

I left my spouse after all my plans had fallen through. We were dating, but they emotionally withdrew.

They continued to be in contact with them. The legal danger it could impose on me didn't occur to them.

They withdrew contact after they got their own validation. Meaning they didn't believe me when I told them about my situation.

It wouldn't have been such a big deal usually, But it's not like we were just friends; we were dating informally.

They were a part of my inner circle, And it felt like they wrote me off as hysterical.

Are you still with me? Do you even care? Does it even matter if you're unaware?

You distance yourself so much, So I hope you're out of their clutch. It's not like you didn't have your flaws, but you were consistent with your withdraws.

I was angry at you, too, but it was really me that I needed to renew. I see more clearly now. I'm working on being more careful with what I allow.

[thecoachingdirectory]

What’s your perspective on your role in life? Sometimes our influence is supporting and regenerative although unfortunately, it can often be destructive even if that is not our initial intention. We can be drawn to the negative rather than what is possible for us. What is your personal perspective? Check this out to learn more.

[arioagio]

Begitulah,

Mau melangkah tapi takut, mau diam saja tapi masih banyak yang harus dicapai.

Perasaan seperti ini memang harus dikendalikan dengan segera. Harus diatur emosi, harus diatur pikiran yang ada.

Keraguan, kemalasan, kekhawatiran kalau sudah singgah di kehidupan rasanya jadi serba sulit. Apapun yang mau dilakukan pasti ada hambatan. Ada saja sejuta alasan.

Kembali lagi ke diri sendiri.

Ya. Selalu ingat saja hal ini. Apa yang kita dapatkan hari ini adalah apa yang telah kita lakukan di hari-hari sebelumnya. Kalau kesedihan dan kekecewaan yang didapatkan hari ini, ya mungkin saja itu hasil dari apa yang telah dilakukan.

Semua adalah pilihan masing-masing.

Kalau mau enak ya terus berusaha. Kalau tidak ya itu juga sebuah pilihan, pilihan yang tanpa harus menyalakan sesama atau keadaan sekitar.

So, good luck.