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Mandana Update
TRAINING // My goal this year was to improve Mandana’s ability to work around dogs. I knew this was going to be an issue bc we had very limited resources for training with dogs for the first few years of her life. I didn’t have regular access to a car so we walked the city to do our training and that led to us being charged by nearly 20 different dogs over a couple years. This year our resources improved a lot so we started going to a training center frequently and practicing outside dog parks more.
During our training we uncovered that a big part of Mandana’s dog reactivity is related to resource guarding and her feelings of codependency. Her training masked a lot of it because she feels very supported by being with me and following my cues so she often didn’t appear reactive and was very reliable when on leash but when she is off leash on her own with dogs she panics in a very loud and forward way.
We hired a canine behavioralist and am making progress. I pulled her from public access but the behavioralist is confident she can easily be an amazing service dog and that these are minor problems that are very fixable. I’m not too worried about her service work right now. I wouldn’t have gotten her to begin with if I had a problem with “washing” a dog from public access. My health has improved so much with my weekly injections that I can get by in public with mobility aids for now. Besides that I want to focus my energy on rehabbing my body and making sure Mandana feels safe & happy in life.
Our training right now is very focused on behavioral modification and we are capitalizing on our good communication and cooperation skills. We’re learning how to use consent to facilitate dog interactions instead of her feeling like she has to control the situation on her own by being pushy. If you’ve made it this far in the post just know that we are on a bit of a time crunch, not to get her back into public access but to ensure we are ready to welcome home our next prospect who should be born in October if we’re lucky ;-)
#belgian malinois#service dogblr#dogblr#owner training problems#positive reinforcement#behavior consultant#behavioral modification#cooperative care#consent in dog training
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Comments on raising an owner-trained service dog as a disabled person.
If you are disabled and have raised/trained your own service dog (with or without outside help) please contribute your wisdom along with the age & breed or type of dog. You don’t have to reveal if your dog has washed but please keep that in mind when adding your comments and how your advice might affect future handlers.
#service dog community#future service dog#service dog prospect#sdit#medical alert service dog#mobility service dog#assistance dog#service dog#service dogblr#disabled community#owner training problems
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also first hike of the year where we've met strangers, and both girls did very well with their trail manners. i always ask them to sit on the side - uphill or on a rock, ideally, because it gives them a bit more mental barrier - while i stand between so people won't have to pass them directly.
sparty has always been good with this because she values food rewards over socializing with people. troj is different and while she won't approach people unless spoken to, if people look at her and talk at the same time, she sees it as an invitation. i haven't been hard on it because she's very calm and the people we've met have seen it as a friendly gesture (which it is) but its happened a few times now and its definitely one of those Things That Make Sense To Troj.
anyway an old man with trekking poles commented on our "good cooperation" which was nice
#making up for cheating leash laws by making Very Clear that dogs will not cause problems#plus its a VERY easy thing to train but people always seem rlly impressed which makes me seem like a better owner than i am lol#the first time i noticed troj was chilling outside when a pedestrian came by and troj was just kinda curiously watching them#and they went 'are you? friendly?' and troj went 'yes!! yes i am!!' and walked up to them with#the biggest puppy eyes and most swishy-swashy tail ive seen in ages and i think it clicked in her head somehow
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∠( ᐛ 」∠)_ya boi made washi tapes, please consider Purchasing them. at cozylittleartshoppe on etsy. good print, good sticc, i am obsessed
#small business#washi tape#portal 2#infinity train#the owl house#etsy#support small business#there were sticky notes! they dont stick very good. they kinda have a couple problems. im still talkin it thru with my manu as of queueing#the print is ok - the print is great actually! they just dont. stick. and that's one thing#but they leave just a liiiitttle bit of sticky residue on the Next notepad in the stack#and you can see it#and it sticks just a little bit on the front of that next note. like 1/10 sticky; MAYBE 2/10 if ur unlucky.#if you tend to washi-tape your notes up anyway it's probably fine but im not sure what i'll do with them yet#but i have Two Hundred of them so uhhhhh#i'm thinking i'll sell them at a big discount. because they're still pretty ok as memo pads! but i have to see what my manu decides to do#which is such a shame because they LOOK really really really cool!!!!!! they just dont Sticky good#but also i have people buy seconds all the time and say 'i dont even know whats wrong with this' so i wonder if#my standards are way too high and people really would be ok buying these for like 50% off or something#hrmmmm. send dms/replies/asks (anons on) if you have any opinions#im hearing from other shop owners that generally unless its officially post-it brand it doesnt stick very well#but custom print post its are very expensive OTL so i think for now i'll just make non-stick post its in the future#the washis are beautiful and perfect though. i love the washis. beautiful perfect flawless tapes. they even have stickers on the side!!
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Can the balanced dog trainers please stop fucking talking about positive reinforcement as if those dogs are not “obedience trained”? A majority of competition obedience dogs I know were trained with R+. Letting your dog wander on the end of a line because you want to do so does not = untrained. It is simply…a choice.
#dogblr#dog training#I try to hear both sides and follow a diversity of people but this really stands out to me#1.) balanced means using multiple quadrants. positive reinforcment is part of that#2.) balanced trainers come off really insecure in their own philosophy when they do stuff like this#you should not have to put down other dog owners and trainers to elevate yourself#if you have to do this constantly there is a problem#the reality is to me so many of these people scream ‘I’m important and smart look at me me me!’#the equating of r+ as = untrained in these circles is wildly prolific#‘I fixed this former r+ dog that was reccomend for BE!’#acting like all r+ people are the inexperienced pet folks who have taken a single puppy petsmart class#and not a wide variety of individuals with varying abilities#meanwhile how dare r+ and force free people put THEM in the same box as abusive aversives using people#it’s just…how do these people have time to be like this#like shouldn’t you be training dogs?#every time people talk poorly about positive reinforcment I want to take them to a zoo#the hyenas do cooperative care with positive reinforcement#the tigers wolves and bears and other large dangerous animal too#your domestic dog is not different or special or in any way more in need of aversive treatment
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An update on new yard for miss jellybean.... SHE LOVES IT 😭 she gets to sniff, run, and play in her private space without having to worry about mean reactive dogs from our old apartment 🥺 It's sooo nice to just sit outside while vibing and playing with her 😭
#personal#jellybean#Like i understand reactivity is v difficult to manage but damn#some of these owners dont even try to train or manage their dogs#they just run them around off leash while knowing they chase and lose their minds around other dogs. and PEOPLE sometimes#like my dog aint perfect either but i don't make that other folks' problem LOL#jellybean is technically reactive to people bc she loves them too much#but we dont just set her off unleashed to go bother people for pets and attention...#like. cmonnnn#ANYWAY#BEAN PHOTOS!!
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The moment she sees me holding my phone, she sits back down. Rude.
When I'm on my PC, a desktop. She gets on her hind legs, drapes her arms over the arm of my chair, and grabs at me. Cacoa is front declawed, so it's more like a smack-grab. She will do this while yelling and will progress to damn near screaming.
It's irritating.
#cat owner problems#black cat#cat#she was declawed as a kitten and NO ONE told us what it entailed. all we knew is every. single#. landlord. refused residents with clawed cats in the area we lived in at the time (nearly 20 years ago). not one cat owner we knew who was#a renter had a cat with front claws. fucking barbaric. if we had known? we would've gotten caps and trained her for trimming.#jasper was not declawed because we were told what the surgery does. we trained him for trimming easy. in fact he purred when#we trimmed his claws because hey he gets a treat.
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Have my windows open because it's too hot in the house to close them but there's a fucking dog barking nonstop somewhere in the neighborhood
#I will grind that fucking mutt into sausage meat if you people don't shut it up#Dog owners love not training their animals and making it everyone else's problem
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these places banning bully breeds of dogs bc theyre sooo scawy when really they should be banning doodles
#from what ive heard . so many doodles are badly backyard bred and are usually gotten by idiots who dont know anything#about how to train or maintain a dog especially a dog with a coat like that. i hear that dog groomers hate doodles bc theyre#always so extremely matted and badly behaved 😭#but also authors note im joking i dont think dog breeds should be banned i just think that backyard breeding should be banned#and that dog owners should be more vetted before being allowed to get a dog#personally at this point i feel like people should have to get a license before being allowed to own a dog like how you have to#get a drivers license. i think it would fix sooo many problems if people have to take (a free and accessible) course on#how to properly take care of a dog before getting one.#screaming crying into the void i hate bad dog owners im so so sick of people who should not have dogs having them anyways .
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Redoing all of our mat work with a harness on bc there are holes in my training 🙃
#belgian malinois#4 years#owner training problems#service dogblr#dogblr#gear shyness#positive reinforcement#service dog training
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After one employee's role with the company was reallocated to-- he was fired, there was a lot of talk about starting active shooter drills, and while most of the shop floor guys were like yeah no we definitely know who triggered that particular HR move, I was moreso looking at my bosses like "so you knew he was crazy this whole time and still said nothing? ... For six years???" Gaslighting your own employees is a feat in and of itself, but for six years you kept telling every one else that they were crazy for thinking Sir Whacko was crazy?? Six years
#I think about this fairly often because wdyfm I thought it was a 'difference of opinion' and 'lack of effort to reach mutual understanding'#but no now all of a sudden it's 'we must ready the battalion' 'lock the gates!' 'guard the windows!' 'he comes!!'#y'all got me fucked up#corporate shenanigans#do you know the Effort I had to put in to not roll my eyes and mock these mfs when they said 'go get quotes for active shooter trainings'#broseph set off an entire building remodelling but for six years they told everyone else that he wasn't the actual problem#six years#smfh I could never#you could say many things about my company's owners but you cannot say that they can't stick to a bit#they HAD to have been doing that for shits n giggles cause ain't no fucking way
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# cats cats cats
I have been finding that my two kitties will make purposeful messes before I leave to make me stay and clean up.
#delete later#cats cats cats#catblr#cat owner#cat owner problems#i cant believe this#i dont like being late to things#but this one is gonna make me chronically late for things#how to train your cat#patty rambles
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wondering how much of my personality Nettle's adapted as her own
#got to reading the other night about pet personalities and how they tend to reflect the owner#and it got me thinking about how nettle is just such a wonderful cat?#i rarely have behavioral issues with her and her biggest offense is just simply getting up on things where she doesn't belong#she doesn't try to push things off edges or shred toilet paper#she listens p well with the occasional obstinate staredown#i LOVE when she wakes up from a nap and makes little meows until she finds/reaches me#she's independent but also adores attention and pets and has no problem making it known when she would like some#how vocal & DRAMATIC she is when she wants something (mostly play or outdoor time)#she takes well to positive reinforcement/training and the only real challenge she has is her paws but she's getting better#idk it's interesting and mostly heartwarming thinking about experiences with other people and their cats' personalty#Falling Apart and Coming Together#Thorns and Nettle
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When deciding who to work for there is a sliding scale of employers that goes from lil mom and pop shops up to corporate monoliths. I have worked at both ends of the spectrum and I can pretty definitively say that tiny businesses are hands down the most insane employers.
The sweet spot is a place that has like 10-20 stores; that’s the best possible work environment. They’ll be polished enough to have protocols that make work structured, but not so bogged down with bureaucracy that nothing can ever get done.
This story is not from that sweet spot. This story is from my time working at Oil and Vinegar. Now, like many little franchise stores, the idea was solid. There was on tap imported olive oil and vinegar and it was really delicious. Top shelf. Unfortunately, each location was like the Wild West because owners varied wildly.
My owner was the human embodiment of Mr. Krabbs. His eyes were just constant dollar signs. Throughout my training he informed me of the price of every single piece of equipment I touched and how much it cost to replace it.
He had cameras set up to watch us, and an app on his phone to access the live feed. He’d call us to ask what we were doing when he’d just checked a camera to make sure we were being honest.
Now, the trouble was he had two locations. His location further south did amazing. It was way more centrally located and got three times the foot traffic. The one I worked in was in the snottiest mall possible in Arizona and consequently the rent was through the roof.
It was not going well for my store. We didn’t get as much traffic, so there was only so much I could do in a day. I could dust, sweep, and wait for customers. I read a lot and was frank when he called to interrogate me. I always asked for additional tasks but he never had any. What could I do to prop up a failing business?
But this man was convinced there was some Secret Reason that the store I was in was doing worse. He crunched numbers, looked at staff, and eventually hit upon the most insane possible solution.
We used too much toilet paper.
We were probably stealing toilet paper! Bleeding him dry one single ply square at a time! How dare we need to use the bathroom?! His south location used half as much toilet paper as we did, we must be thieving little monsters!!!!
Friends. The south location was populated entirely by men. My location had three people on staff who had to sit to pee. It was so blindly transparently the source of the discrepancy but this man was convinced we were making off with toilet paper to bankrupt him.
So he implemented what he believed to be an entirely reasonable response to this base treachery. We were allowed to have one roll of toilet paper. At any given time, one roll was permitted to us. This was so transparently unhinged that we protested but he insisted. If we were low on toilet paper we needed to call him to drop off a roll that he brought from his home. Smiling jovially, he assured us he lived so close by that it would be no problem!
When we needed to call him often for more he started tearing his hair out. What were we using toilet paper for?! Why wasn’t his genius plan to stop our scandalous waste working??!
Finally, the manager, the only man on staff had to pull the owner aside and be like, “Look, man, their bladders are smaller. They need to wipe every time they pee. They need to pee even more on their period. Is this really the hill you want to die on?”
Yes. It was. The manager was fired unrelated reasons and denounced as a traitor. The toilet paper ration lasted until I quit and probably until the store closed six months later.
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I just got a new job and I’m relieved by how much I like it so far.
#positive post :D#positive personal post#I quit my last job after a big ole situation with the new manager#namely within her first week I couldn’t handle her attitude and lack of doing work#so I wrote a very long detailed message to her on all the ways she’s messed up and needs to improve#then I got suspended for a week (understandable no shade to hr for that one; only shade to the manager for being too cowardly to face me!)#then I considered coming back but the owner somehow thought a solution to this problem was ask if I wanted to work at a different location#because ‘obviously you need the money’#D:<#MAAM#I got my second to last check and quit that same day#the final day of my suspension#but within that time I’d applied to and interviewed at 2 places already#and by the time I grabbed my actual last check I’d gotten the job AND one with a pay increase#(and also better benefits and healthier work culture)#I’ve also only worked a total of 4 legit shifts plus the orientation shift#and it’s honestly telling that that’s all it took for me to fall in love#they’ve also been shortened training shifts to get me settled#and divided between 2 actual jobs: line cook and to-go#which we’ve all agreed I can do both as long as I’m comfortable#and I am!#everyone is so nice!#anyway#long story short#I’m really happy that my new job seems to be working out :)#and on top of that my boyfriend is also getting a newer better job#that way we both can have left the same toxic workplace#so yaaaaaaay
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Sit Still。𖦹°‧
—gif credit: not mine!! i can't remember where i found it but if i can find it again or the owner comments, ill add their username <3
logan howlett x fem!reader
cw: cockwarming (sorta?), innocence kink, p in v, logan attempts to teach reader how to ride.
a/n: apologies for this being so short but chapter two of bewitched should be out friday or saturday! also i'll be responding to some requests soon too in case i spam lmao
"a-are you sure 'bout this, lo?"
your timid voice echos around the bedroom, capturing logan's attention again. he's been dreaming for months of this sight in front of him; you sitting pretty in his lap, only wearing a pink lacy bra and a pair of matching panties.
"you want me to make you feel good, right sweetheart?"
a small sigh escapes you as you attempt to grind onto him again. logan places his large hands on your waist to stop you from wiggling around. he knows you can't help it, you're still new to this after all.
it started a month ago when you and logan were left alone together in the mansion. everyone was on a field trip a couple hours away. you were recovering from a cold and logan simply didn't want to chaperone. instead, he offered to stay back with you.
late one evening, he came in to check on you and ask if there was anything you needed. that's when you asked him the question that nearly killed him, 'will you take my virginity?' you didn't see a problem with it. the two of you weren't strangers, you trusted logan, and he obviously has experience since he's much older than you.
ever since that night, you two have been going at it like rabbits. tonight, logan promised to help you get used to being on top. more importantly, training you to take him from this angle.
"c'mon, baby..." he coos with one hand on your hip and the other holding a cigar to his lips. "do it just like i told ya'."
swiftly, logan removes the rest of the material between the two of you before resting back against the mattress. anxiously, you line him up to your entrance and slowly sink down until you're sat fully on his lap again.
"nice 'n slow for me, sweetheart. that's it, stay still..." logan hums, lost in your tight, wet heat. he can hear every little noise coming from your lips. "atta girl."
it's a struggle to take all of him at once. you can feel him deep in your gut, nudging that sweet spot inside of you. logan can tell that your nerves are still tangled in knots, practically strangling his cock.
"lo, i c-can't do it." you huff, upset at yourself. "too full to move."
"poor fuckin' baby." logan teases with faux sympathy. "how 'bout we try something else for now?"
too caught up with the soft grind of his hips, you nod your head mindlessly to his proposal. logan brings his thumb to his lips, replacing the cigar which is now back on the nightstand. he sits up, making you whimper as he does so. you lean forward to capture his lips with your own, whispering how badly you needed him to just fuck you himself. instead, logan's got something else in mind.
"ah!" you gasp as he starts to rub your button with the wet pad of thumb. "f-fuck, right there..."
the soft rocking of your hips makes your toes curl and fingers pull at his little kitten tuffs. logan's mouth moves south to your chest. one nipple in his mouth then the other until both are swollen and kiss bitten. vibrations pour from his mouth as he groans at the tight squeezing of your cunt around his girth.
"ah-ah." he tsks, hand coming up to grip your jaw, pinching your cheeks together gently. "what did i say 'bout staying still?"
"s-sorry, lo.." you whimper voice muffled by your squished pouty lips.
despite having incredible stamina, logan was ready to release just from looking at your pretty face. he never been this close to cumming so soon but feeling you tense around him and wiggle in his lap made his head spin. all of this movement from only his thumb drawing circles.
"christ..." he grunts in your ear, moving faster now and with more pressure. "you're tryin' a kill me, sweetheart."
all logan gets in response is incoherent babbles of 'don't stop' and 'please, please, please'. he knows you are close when you claw at his back and start to bounce on him little by little, just enough to make you see stars. it all feels too much yet not enough at the same time. logan's circles start to get sloppy as he approaches his high too.
"l-logan!" you squeal, heavy eyes trying to focus on his face. "wanna feel you..."
in a rush, logan picks up the pace, torturing your button with his thumb. a loud moan falls from your lips, trying to wiggle out of logan's grip as your orgasm washes over you with intense euphoria. logan growls in your neck from your tight fucking grip on his cock, pumping his load inside of your walls. some of it spilling out of you and drenching the sheets.
the two of you catch your breath in silence for a moment. your nails scratch his scalp softly while logan pulls you down to kiss him. after a second, you move back, smiling down at him in a way that makes him harden again.
"thought you were gonna show me how to ride?" you tease.
logan shoots you a cocky eyebrow raise before leaning back again, one hand on your hip and the other returning to his cigar on the night stand.
"alright, baby..." he chuckles, re-lighting the cigar and paying little attention to the roll of your hips. "let me see what you got."
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