#or qpp or whatever you want

[logan-the-artist]

i’ve done Logan comforting Virgil, but i think Logan deserves some comfort on especially bad days too.

[guard-en]

stealing time to breathe

[bayofwolves]

struggling with how to address the nature of conor and abeke's relationship in a revised history of erdas. it deeply saddens me that coneke will not be happening, even though shaneke has always been my endgame. even so, conor and abeke have a really special relationship that i don't feel can be brushed off as simply platonic. i'm keeping the forehead kiss and all the other tender moments they shared before that. in fact, shane is supposed to notice how close they are, which causes doubts to form in his head.

i was thinking of having a scene where conor and shane just talk about this, but this is where the struggle begins. i'm not sure if i want there to be explicitly romantic feelings between conor and abeke. i fear it could needlessly complicate things, especially with the fact that i plan for conor to end up with someone who is very close to abeke in particular! plus, the love triangle is a tired concept -- a perceived love triangle that ends up all being in one guy's head is much more fun. like, shane spending literal years (since seeing them together in the second devourer war) stewing in repressed jealousy and doubt all for conor to cheerfully break the news that he and abeke never felt that way about each other and shane never had any competition? that's great. it's just great.

i feel like this path would be a lot more satisfying and less awkward than if conor were to say he did have feelings for abeke but he won't pursue them for shane's sake, or he knew abeke would choose shane over him, or some "maybe in another life" type shit. that, or they just start fighting over her for real. this would make the reveal of conor's endgame partner feel very odd, which i really do not want because i love the dynamic and potential these two have. it's become one of my favourite rarepairs and i cannot wait to explore it. but if conor did have feelings for abeke prior to this, their relationship would be... questionable, i'll put it.

so yeah, obviously i'm leaning towards the first option, but like i said above -- i can't say with certainty that conor and abeke can be called platonic. since taking up this project, my view of their relationship has slid very far into platonic territory (compared to how i used to ship them romantically), but it's clearly still something a lil bit more! i just can't label it for the life of me.

besties who cuddle and forehead kiss to help with the Trauma? besties who have deep talks for hours into the night when everyone else is asleep? besties who are intrinsically connected in a way that makes most people think romance but they know for a fact it isn't? platonic soulmates??! platonic soulmates. i found it. i found the term. conor and abeke are Platonic Soulmates.

(this is what i love about making a long tumblr post as i think. i figure things out along the way)

** i also feel the need to note that the shane-conor feud will not take up much of the plot at all. no matter how you execute it, jealousy subplots are too overdone. shane's real rivalry is with rollan.

[bluejayblueskies]

god that long post about marriage and how it's a legal contract first and foremost frustrates me bc it's really great info except for that one person smack in the middle who goes 'and this is why your poly aro QPR dreams make me fucking nervous' as if the problem is the people who want QPRs and not the fact that marriage is culturally and socially bound to traditional romantic relationships

[mechanicalbowtye]

read the scratch upd8. little too close to home

[windrunnered]

(love ur pfp btw)

kaladin makes me go insane and he needs to understand that hes in love with adolin and adolin needs to be in love with him too and it needs to be a real live triangle and i havent even read rhythm of war or finished oathbringer(though im very close)

thank you!!! blendy-pens is a great artist! 

never have i been more glad that i try to be rigorous with my tagging because boy do i reblog spoilers. hopefully you have row spoilers tagged so i don’t tell you all the secrets by accident, my friend!! i thought it was a forreal love triangle in my head from just sheer will and a speckle of headcanons. kaladin -> adolin -> shallan -> back to kaladin, you know?? my vision!!

i’ll always hold it to dear to my heart that after that wor duel that adolin and kaladin are basically boyfriends. “adolin gets gloryspren when he sees kaladin and kaladin gets joyspren seeing adolin” headcanon my beloved. i just slightly prefer kadolin to shakadolin because i know how to write shallan the least, i just love them sooo much. there’s so many feelings for them in oathbringer!!!!

i shan’t say anything about rhythm of war but they’re definitely boyfriends in rhythm of war too. in my heart they’re real

[al-dente-icecream]

made a griddlehark playlist last year when i first got tlt brainworms and since nona's release cam and pal are living Rent Free so they also got the special little music list treatment . i also spent way too long making the covers look good bc i am nothing if not commited to a spotify aesthetic for some reason . anyway . enjoy !

[theclosetedskeleton]

THIS IS GOING TO SUOUND PRETTY VENTY BUT

the more I think about it the more I realize why I call myself "overdramatic" and my internal self talk is like that is because !!!! guess what camera pans to my parents

[felikatze]

thank u three hopes for permanently putting queerplatonic sylvain/mercedes into my brain. it will never leave

[flowersbian]

I got bored so here's a little get-to-know-you tag game I think could be fun :3

Name(s)

Pronouns

Star sign

# of siblings & fun facts about them (if you have any)

# of pets & their names

Fandoms

Favorite color

Favorite song

Favorite author (of anything readable-- books, fanfics, zines, webtoons, whatever!)

Hobbies

Favorite fic type

Favorite holiday

Do you have any partner(s)? (romantic, qpp, anything!)

Fun facts about you / anything extra you wanna share!

────────

Name(s): Loki (highly preferred), Elye

Pronouns : they/them mostly, he/she okay too

Star sign: Pisces

# of siblings: I've got 2! An older sister and a younger sibling. The fun fact about them is that they're also both queer; in fact, my mom is too. The only non-queer person in my immediate family is my dad.

# of pets: 4 cats! Phoebe & Frankie are our girls, Lenny and Murray are our boys :3

Fandoms: MCU (kind of), BSD, OFMD, Ranboo (does his fanbase count as a fandom?)

Fav. color: Don't have one

Fav. song: Aurora Borealis by Lemon Demon

Fav. author: Alice Oseman

Hobbies: singing, acting, drawing, writing, procrastinating

Fav. fic type: Fluff, definitely. I am a sucker for well written coffee-shop and flower-shop aus, too. Smut's fine, but only if it's romantic. I can't do angst if there's no comfort.

Fav. Holiday: Hanukkah or Halloween! I love autumn and winter

Partners?: Yes! I have a girlfriend (queerplatonic) who I love very much, and a boyfriend (romantic) who I love very much :]

Fun facts:

- Even though I'm a cat person, I really, really want a dog.

- I actually used to play sports. Because I don't do gendered leagues anymore, I don't play, but I've been looking for mixed/gender-neutral/queer sports teams. Baseball and basketball specifically!

- I started questioning my identity in 2019; I'm no closer to finding a label now than I was then. The difference is, now I don't want a label. I just am. :]

tags: @neonganymede @cha0ticlesbian @x-chiara @exceleo @brinnybee @autistic-katara @gandalfthemorallygrey @ohboyanotherlokiblog @roachandrenfri @ourflagmeanslokius @exceleo @edettethegreat @swiftlyspidey

[qpr-culture-is]

qpr culture is finally being comfortable with doing things people traditionally see as romantic because you realize they aren't inherently romantic. you can do whatever you want with your qpps as long as you're all comfortable with it! nothing about it is romantic or has romantic connotations unless you want it to. love (or lack thereof) is your oyster

this ^^

[trashhole]

SEND ME GAY ROBOT DOODLE REQUESTS!!!!! (Happy pride)

A little bait gift for the starbee community

Life is being homophobic to me so I’m opening requests/asks for some tf ships for pride month, ships consist of:

- starbee (these will be prioritized, sorry I love starbee)

- scavengers (except krok, nickel, or cons4eva because idk how to draw them)

- redferno (?)

- simpatico

- possibly soundrod (idk they’re hard to draw)

I’m open to other ships too but I might not draw them if it’s none of the above or something I deeply dislike (no megastar or bumbleop sorry). I’ll draw humanformers too but they’re going to be lesbian because I don’t like drawing men (don’t come at me, I had to draw barren old men all year). I’ll draw anything on the lgbt spectrum so if you want something platonic for qpp or aroace relationships go ahead. I’m pretty open minded so if you have anything I haven’t stated here just shoot me a DM.

You can send an ask, reblog this, or dm me for your request , whatever is the easiest for you, please don’t be shy I’m desperate for requests.

Please send requests please please please please-

[catinasink]

welcome to the sink ig

have i hit post limit? nyo :3

most recent edit: 22.6.24 (day month year)

quick intro

minor, i go mainly by cat or nico or pluto but i also go by neptune or octavian or leo or calypso or eris or dysnomia or rusty or blue or cerulean or opal or infinity (more about that here or at the bottom), any pronouns

agender + pan + polyam + cupiro + aegoace + apl

dont call me your friend + no /p tonetag

do not send me chain asks + dont tag me in tag games

more

i gaypost, ventpost (w/ rbs off and properly tagged), make random posts about whatever im into at the moment, rb posts about whatever im into at the moment, lyricposting, etc

i have two cats (kim and shego (or floorshitter)), an older sister (she/her), and the irl i mention the most is pb / pissboy (he/they) (i use pb and pissboy interchangably)

pst timezone

intp-t, scorpio sun sagittarius moon scorpio rising

i speak english + russian, learning german + hebrew

sorry if i sound rude when i speak to you, i try not to be

couple sideblogs, including: @nymph-of-the-sea, an rp blog for calypso; @catinabath, which is on a different email as well, currently i use it to inform yall if im on post limit or not; and two gimmick blogs :]

matching descs with @shrimpysstuff, matching banners with @homoashell

i have a family 👍

i swear + use the words faggot + tranny + dyke sometimes for myself (untagged)

i have three lovely qpps i love them sm mwah <33

uhhh ao3 is catinasink

info about my fics

uhmm discord server :3 preferably only join if youre a minor / around the age of a minor mostly for the comfort of the people there i guess? not sure

tags

most of my og posts (not including asks): #cat's rambles

asks: #cat's asks

schoolposting: #cat's schoolposting

venting: #neptune is complaining again

lyricposting: #cat's lyricposting

art: #cat's art

music i write: #cat's lyrics

yearning sighh: #nico catinasink is yearning

queued or scheduled posts: #queue you

submitted posts (usually on post limit): #eris' submissions

@this-is-me-lolol interactions: #basil my beloved <3

pissboy mentions: #my lovely pissboy

sink lore: #happenings of the sink

dreamscape nexus: #dreamscape nexus

the penis saga (more here): #the penis saga

warrior cats: #sorry chat rusty catinasink is rbing warrior cats again

will wood: #opal catinasink is listening to will wood again

will wood daily images: #swiss cheese is giving pluto catinasink will wood encouragement

more abt my names

you can use any prns for any name, or you can use this list if you want

cat, it/its

nico, he/they/it

pluto, it/they/he

neptune, it/they/she

octavian, it/he

leo, he/she

calypso, any

eris, she/it/they/he

dysnomia, she/it + any neos

rusty, he/it + any neos

blue, they/them

opal, any

cerulean, he/she/it/they/fae

infinity, any

have a good day

[smol-grey-tea]

We ain't mentioning that it's been more than a month since you originally tagged me @imsorrywhatsalifeagain

Tag game

Tag game: tag 9 people you’d like to get to know better.

Last song: Currently, am curating a playlist for an oc of mine. Rn playing is Have it Out by Mother Mother, which I decided not to add.

Currently watching: At this present moment in time, I am watching: Hannibal the series, Doctor Who (hundredth rewatch), Pose, and American Horror Story

Three ships: Eri x Red x Lance, or even Faith x Red + Red x Lance. Like love triangle type of polycule w them. But everyone is dating in the Eri version. Umm, and Tei x therapy. But if we're not just talking about romantic ships, then Tei x Yuri. Idk what they have, but it's something

Favorite color: Reb

Currently consuming: Ummmm well the last thing I ate was a kakugiri ramen which was delicious. That was a fair few hours ago now tho n idk what my parents are gonna make for dinner. If they don't make something for me tho, I'll have a steak and gravy pie. Oh my god I can already smell the chips that would go really well with it.

It was quite difficult choosing what to eat for lunch: I was more craving a tom yum but it's in my routine to usually have the kakugiri, so I was conflicted..... Hell, we'll probably get the tom yum next time, all things considered

First ship: How'm I supposed to remember that, that woulda been ages ago............ I guess something I started shipping a long time ago would've been Jaehee and Zen?

Relationship status: I also am aroace. @alwaysminiatureking is me qpp, but want another relationship.....

Last Movie: Uhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh I guess What by Bo Burnham counts as a movie? But does it count if I barely watched it cuz I quickly fell asleep to it?

Currently working on: I'm doing a bunch of stuff. As mentioned, am going thru songs to put on an oc playlist. If you mean more in general tho, I'm downloading dvds, I'm writing both fanfic and original stories, I'm trying to move out, I'm knitting a scarf, and whatever. Tomorrow I'm going food festival in town <2

Tagging @alwaysminiatureking @aro-manita-muscaria @eternal-brainrot @silverfang6 @imaginaryskeleton @klavierpanda @harlequindaydream @thetricktofalling @deathdesu

[aspecmemesdaily]

bro weird stuff has been happening to me lately. so I’ve known I was ace for a year now and that’s still going strong but also I never like. thought about romance like other girls did and never thought about a wedding. I never want a boyfriend and the idea of getting married scares me. and I wanted kids but I thought babies were ugly, and never thought about who their dad would be or anything. but like over the last year I

Really love babies and little kids, and now am miraculously really good with kids. I changed my major to education and finally found my calling (elementary librarian)

when I watched the pilot of fallout and I saw her wedding dress (I love that style soooo much) something clicked in my head and suddenly I started making little plans for my future wedding

it’s still hard for me to imagine a specific person as my husband but I realized I want that best friend for life thing. (my brother and his wife were kind of the turning point on this one because they just have so much fun and love each other so much. I realized it’s a different love than what I’d ever wanted before and now I really want that for myself?!?)

I still don’t really want to date anyone but I am feeling more open because the idea of finding someone who I love is just so exciting to me nowadays.

this is just all weird for me because my lack of interest in these things were a big part in what convinced me to look into asexuality and aromanticism and It’s so weird to lose that aspect of it but still feel no sexual attraction. I’m still me, but I’m growing into another version of myself and it’s so strange but wonderful and scary. idk growing older is weird when big opinions and feelings shift from what they’ve always been.

Thank you for sharing this, @jack1701.

I cannot give you a definite answer as your experiences and feelings are unique and only you can label yourself or choose not to label yourself at all. You don't have to fit into a specific box and I am not in a position to assign you a certain label, but I'd like to mention a few things that you might want to take into closer consideration if you so desire (The following points are just my opinion and may not be accurate!):

QPRs: Queerplatonic relationships are relationships that go "beyond" traditional notions of friendship, but don’t necessarily fit into the category of a typical romantic relationship. They can be a way to have that deep, lifelong partnership you’re envisioning without the pressure to conform to conventional romantic or sexual expectations. QPRs are quite common for partnering aspec people to be in. There is no set definition for a QPR and its boundaries—you and your queerplatonic partner (QPP) decide individually what you want to do or not do (e.g. hug, cuddle, kiss, live together, raise a child, pay taxes, idk??) and what you want to call each other (e.g. partner, friend, boyfriend/girlfriend, idiot, shnookums??, whatever...), etc.

Cupioromantic: This label falls under the aromantic umbrella and typically describes someone who experiences little to no romantic attraction, but still desires a romantic relationship (regardless of whether they are in one, aspire to be in one, or not).

Aegoromantic: This label also falls under the aromantic umbrella and typically describes someone who enjoys the idea of romance or romantic fantasies but doesn’t desire a romantic relationship for themselves. You may think of it as a disconnection between oneself and one's romantic fantasies. It's explained quite well here, I think.

Other arospec identities such as demiromantic (only experiencing romantic attraction after a deep emotional connection has been developed) or greyromantic/grayromantic (experiencing romantic attraction rarely or only under specific circumstances).

But you don't have to label yourself just now or ever, and no label is permanent. Just keep being yourself and do what feels good for you.

All the best!

[clowninguhround]

I'm a clown, I'm a God, I'm whatever you need

𓆩♡𓆪I'm a corruptor, heaven doesn't want me and hell doesn't need me 𓆩♡𓆪

Hi freaks! Welcome to the circus, this is the system rq account. This was an account that everyone in the body shared, but we've decided to divide it. Want to know who you've been talking to or which one of us you've been crushing on? Stick around to find out!

Blog remodel began on July 28th any ID before that date is subject to change, some I plan on transitioning to and some I'm not, please feel free to inquire!! Also feel free to ask for flags or terms to coin, I love doing it

Peep the strawpage

No DNI, if you hate to see it then don't look, I'm happy to do the same.

In a consang relationship with my papa @haygale

My qpp

@ghost-in-the-graveyard

This be the pronouns page. You're morally obligated to look because it took much effort

Headmate signoffs:

Love~ 💋

Randi~ 🍁

Vex~ 🐍

Spikes~ 🐇

Momma~ 💞

Fink~🐭

Puppy!! ~ 🦴

BN-🥀

Aggie - 💥

Anthon - 🧢

For now this is mostly Randi and Vex's account, they will post the most and have posted the most up to this point

Anon signoffs: 🍓(puppy), 🍄, 11, 🔑☄️, 🪽🪦, ✉️, bitey, 🐾, 🫀, Gossip Girl

Nitty gritty below <3

I don't participate is discourse, I will most likely not disclose my personal stances. I will never encourage harm to others in earnest, I do not care about the views and opinions of those I interact with here, that doesn't mean I agree.

My nsfw blog is @jestergestures

Bye bye lovers <3