#not related to the blog

[dolce-tenebra-toscana]

Studio ghibli marathon today ✌️

" Whispers of the Heart " and " Porco Rosso " are my absolute favourites!

And after this lil rant, let's all imagine a chibi Risotto dressed as a tiny Totoro while he waits for the bus with his lil umbrella!

Or a chibi Ghiaccio flying a plane while yelling blasphemies and cursing the fascist 🤣

[succubunniii]

[remanence-of-love]

[worthless-mess]

"You’re so polite" thanks i was raised in constant fear of upsetting people.

[minimalist-quotes]

Better to admit you walked through the wrong door than spend your life in the wrong room.

[daiwild]

asexual klapollo art i shouldve kept in drafts

[wowlookwhosspirallingagain]

i don’t want to live like this. i only exist at this point. all i do is distract my mind so i don’t kill myself

[professionallyunstable]

kinda tired fighting for a life i don’t even want

[dimsunsstuff]

I got possessed by the idea of angel pigeons

[wastedmishhty]

[dolce-tenebra-toscana]

When you go to a friend's house to see Puss in boots 2 with the expectation of have a good laugh and chill....

But find yourself bawling your eyes out cause Goldilocks story hits too close to home...But that also reminded me how lucky i am as an adopted child, because my family really made me always feel like my existence made theirs " Just right"

I love my old folks so so much...After i'm done crying and laughing i'll give em a call

I mean, my mom and dad kinda look like big scary bears when they think i'm in danger ahah.

[succubunniii]

[remanence-of-love]

[elainiisms]

me when the group starts talking about boys

[bioethicists]

this is going to sound simplistic + i promise you it's not: stop following people whose entire schtick is being cruel or fighting with others online. even if the ppl deserve it! even if it's not a ~problematic~ cruelty! even if you agree with all of that blog's opinions!

it's one thing if someone snaps back when provoked or posts the occasional "get a load of this guy". nobody needs to play up respectability for people who haven't given them respect in return. but if someone's online identity centers around being needlessly mean for laughs + they're constantly seeking out socially acceptable, easy targets for petty cruelty, that's a red flag. there's a huge difference between not taking shit/cracking a joke + mocking others as your several-hours-a-day hobby.

especially if, when they are inevitably in the wrong + mocking someone mercilessly to their 50k followers over something petty goes south (shocking!), they become extremely defensive or block everyone or play the victim or dismiss it as "well, how was i supposed to know they were autistic? i'm autistic + i don't meow in public" or whatever.

this isn't a "well i knew all along" post bcuz nobody should be shamed for being in the dark about something like this but many of the popular bloggers who have later been exposed for serious harassment or abuse should not have shocked us. if someone's blog is 90% shit like "you should light yourself on fire because you watch x anime" or "look at this so-called lesbian bitch + her ugly fucking boyfriend at a kink convention- it's giving drowned rats", should it really shock you that they are also being cruel or abusive in less internet-acceptable ways? if they've already shown you that they get a such a thrill out of being vicious that they do it daily + are regularly rewarded with thousands of followers?