#not really radfem related lmao

[velvetvexations]

And I can absolutely guarantee you no one would give a single flying fuck if a trans woman replaced a trans guy in a meme comic with herself. Because it's no big deal, and it's simply about finding something to be mad at the evil "TMEs" about or whatever. Truly, we must fight transphobia at the front lines! (Other trans people parodying meme comics)

Absolutely not lmao. But then it's fine, because, like, trans men are privlaged, so stealing their memes is like pirating a Disney movie, whereas stealing a transfem meme is practically snatching the food right out of a Victorian orphan's hands.

Are you not excited for the future where art styles are trademarked?

I'm still not entirely sure if I identify as a kinna non-binary or if I just feel myself to be a very butch transfem who likes using certain terms for myself to emphasize the unique nature of my femininity.

But I don't know what else to call it except for exorsexism when I get the five millionth side-eye for "AMAB trans woman," especially since I know people would go off the edge accusing me of being a TERF twenty times more if I said "male" like I actually want to.* Like, dadgum, can people not handle a girl choosing to identify in some way with a term traditionally associated with her body-type because she likes it without assuming she's another Blaire White?

Like this is that soul-gender shit I get riled up about, the word "male" isn't real! The ♂ is not a magic rune that wards against femininity! I can choose to identify with that and still be a woman, and when I enter a women's space while identifying openly as a male woman, that's going to piss TERFs off more than any of them ever could.

*I also identify myself as an AMAB trans woman to support AFAB trans women and other transfem folk, but I think using 'male' would do that just as well too

I DIDN'T KNOW IT HAD ANYTHING TO DO WITH TRANS PEOPLE EITHER

Eyyup. The safest queers always pretend the world outside the community is completely hypothetical so they can get down to the crucial business of praising them for breathing.

The comparisons to acephobia at least gives me hope things will get better, but I hope it's fucking soon.

It's the closest people who're privileged enough to care about meme theft get to dealing with things like that, of course it's basically the same to them, if they stepped outside their gated community for a second they'd have a religious experience like the Great Renunciation of Siddhartha Gautama.

Some day we'll find out what number comes after one.

<3 <3 <3 <3 <3 <3

Why can't haired people make their own memes? Why must they consistently debald the memes of bald people?

It's different when it's transfems because, uh, well, radfems say so.

They really can't help themselves.

Apparently it's hypocritical of me to call that racist, though, because I once told a tankie to bark like a dog without even looking at their* profile. Like, I'm sorry I very generically insulted someone who turned out to be Black, I guess.

Also, I apparently harass Palestinian blogs, which is truly wild and I can only guess must come from me occasionally bringing up hypocrisy when I yell at tankies for being enthusiastically pro-genocide when they feel like it.

*I do not recall the pronouns this loser used

The issue you're noticing is that transfems don't get socially murdered nearly often enough for transradfems to sustain themselves, and they can't influence any real issues, so they have to make up problems to fuel the martrydom that places them above all other trans people.

Oh, that sounds spectacular! Kinna gross, but like, in a spectacular way!

They don't think it's possible for AFAB trans people to detransition, to them it's all just cis women pretending to be trans to rip them off and hurt them.

It's real fucking bad.

I'm very sorry anon, and I completely agree.

You'd be surprised by me not liking most modern art.

I'm really happy you have that, and that we can relate to each other. <3

Are Black people saying the "why this _ mad" meme is exclusive to Black people? Is that discourse that's happening?

[gor3sigil]

Hi ! I’m a 29 year old trans man from France, and I really like reading your blog. You write very eloquently and what you have to share is important. It’s bittersweet for me to finally encounter people talking about transandrophobia. I’ve been trying to talk about it for years. My heart breaks when I think about all the young trans men and transmasculine people who grow up hating themselves because of both the societal transphobia and the transandrophobia of queer spaces. I detransitioned for 4 years, partly because I felt so alienated. A woman I loved and looked up to, who calls herself a feminist, told me that after my first testosterone injection I could not talk about feminism anymore. She said I was now on the side of the oppressor. She stated that she would support me as an individual but that her fight was for women, cis or trans, and I had to stay quiet and let women speak. She, in fact, did not support me as an individual either. When I was an androgynous non binary person she would compliment me all the time. When I transitioned, she started to grow colder and patronizing with me. She blocked me after I made a general post to talk about my experiences and explain, in a very gentle way, how trans men experience misogyny in a lot of spaces, misandry in queer and feminist spaces, and transphobia everywhere, and how our fights are intertwined with feminist fights.

Another trans man from France hooray !! I'm very glad you shared your experience, partly because I relate to it a lot (idk if you've seen the post I made about how I detransitioned for a year and it was partly due to the mistreatment I've been getting because I was a trans dude), and also because it's so important to spread the word. I'm really sorry you went through that. I had the same type of shit from women that I considered my sisters before transitioning, who ditched me like crap when I started using he/him pronouns. Since you're french too, I'd like to point something that I noticed in the french trans community (maybe you'll disagree and that's totally fair), is that anti transmasculinity and radfem ideologies are VERY LOUD in queer spaces and that trans men often play a part in it. I saw 2 separate videos recently from two trans men youtuber (who I will not name publicly for obvious reasons but you can ask me in DMs if you want) who both made videos asking if "Men are trash" included trans men, and both I found... Well, wrong, in a lot of ways. Because the main argument is that trans men who medically transition, do so with the intent of being treated and perceived in society AS men (or if this wasn't the intent, this is what happens anyways), and so basically take the role of men in the patriarchy, so the role of the oppressor. The second video was a bit more nuanced with the idea that not all trans men do transition medically, some don't pass etc but still, I find it appalling to see that almost every transmasc creator I see, who makes content in french at least, talk about transmasculinity in a way that is almost exclusively "AFAB perisex person who wants to be a Neo Cis Man". Which is, at least from all the people I've talked to since coming out in 2017, not the case for a vast majority of people, and even when it IS the case, trans men don't, and I say that with my whole chest, they DON'T have cis men privileges and they ARE NOT in a position of power over women, ESPECIALLY cis women. Well, that's my way of seeing things anyways. I really hope our local activists will stick their heads out of their white, skinny, cis passing trans men asses and start taking a look at the actual experiences of the many more of us. It'd be a nice change of pace. Thank you for your comment and sorry for the rant lmao

[limeade-l3sbian]

Relevant but not really to the OC request, like 6 years ago I had a trans Harry Potter OC as a way to "haha it's Harry Potter related but TRANS" and I used it to convey my own struggle with feminity. Since I never felt like I "fit in" with other girls growing up, I used this "trans girl OC who struggles to feel like a girl and feels like she's tricking everyone all the time and never feels like she's a real girl" to express myself and the more I would investigate, the more I would develop this trans story, the more I realized "huh... It DOES sound like a guy acting what he thinks a girl is like when he could still wear the dresses and be girly pink and be a guy..."

Anyway I'm a radfem now

Anon peaked herself, lmao.

[jazzyderaoz]

This is a strictly 18+ blog

You must have your age stated in your bio to follow/interact. I will block minors instantly + add you to ban list for the foreseeable future. In addition I will block and permanently ban any nasty little pisstakers. I don’t engage with human slimes of any kind; inc but not limited to: radfems, lgbtq+ exclusionists (any variety), phobes, maps, abusers or anyone I take a disliking to inc boundary stompers.

psst…. (Deraoz is pronounced /Dee-ray/os-z/)

Hey I’m Jasper, (but Jas, Jazz or Jazzy works too-if you’re feeling brave.)

My pronouns are he/him. I’m a queer transmasc guy from the UK.

~~~

Some stuff about me:

I’m 26, been dominating for around 5 years now, but topping a little longer. I almost exclusively top, but I have and do make exceptions to that rule when I’m in the mood, though it doesn’t happen often.

I’ll be posting mostly t4t content here, I’m bi, though I’m especially attracted to transmascs/transmen.

Physically I’m masc-presenting. I’m genderqueer and male-aligned. I still possess my natal genitals. My personal style tends to be jeans/t-shirts/denim or leather jackets. I’d call myself a guy, a boy, a queer, a mess, a dumbass-

I’m a kickboxer, it’s important to me to maintain my strength and stamina (😏) and it’s euphoric for me as to maintain a masculine build. Know that when I talk about manhandling my subs, I am usually more than capable of doing so whatever their size.

I love to dom but outside of that I’m soft as anything, love to cuddle, love taking really good care of my subs. Love being a protector type x

If you send me an ask I’ll almost certainly flirt with you, can’t help myself tbh - but I’ll take the lead from you as to how nsfw your ask is. Totally sfw question, fair enough I’ll be real with you. Tell me you’re wet and want me to fuck you? My reply gonna be horny as hell so be prepared for that…

I’m big on pet names. If you don’t want me to call you something in particular (in an ask for example) please let me know. Pet names I use most often are baby(boy), honey, sweetheart and darling - I also like to call my subs lovely/little___ etc.

My aim here is to get you as hot and bothered as possible. I love to get sent asks, any dirty little fantasy baby, I want to hear it.

~~~

Keep Reading for Kinks / Hard Boundaries etc.

🟢 Kinks & Turn-ons: 🟢

-> Praise (me@you)

-> Hair Pulling / Bruising / Rough Play

-> Size Difference

-> Desperation/Edging

-> Humiliation

-> Manhandling and Restraint

🔻Some Boundaries:🔻

🔸 Please don’t send any asks/prompts trying to top me unless you’ve asked first, I’m picky about it lol.

🔸 No petplay - related asks in my inbox pls. I won’t block you but I won’t reply to them either.

🔸 Hard limits resulting in me blocking you should you feel the need to try to include me in them; - -> noncon, piss/scat, ageplay, high intensity masochism/sadism (verbal abuse/HI spanking esp) - (lower intensity/softer I'm occasionally up for - I'll spank you with my hand just not a riding crop lmao)

🔸Content Masterlist:🔸 (🔞)

Writings: 💛 - longer writings || 🧡 - shorter thoughts

💛 on my lap, riding my cock

🧡 want to suck on tdick so bad

🧡 get on the fucking bed

💛 desperate little mess

🧡 tiny little boytoys

🧡 aftercare (softjazz) - sfw

💛 messy little plaything

💛 manhandling + semi-rough use

🧡 humping, pinned against the wall

💛 pull my hair and fuck my mouth

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Tags:

#tag:softjazz - (For yearnings/soft postings)

#tag:manhandling

#tag:sizedifference

#tag:edging

#tag:asks

#tag:jazzyrealtalk - (For actually saying shit/opposed to just straight up hornyposting lmao)

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Anon Tags:

#anon:🌻

#anon:🕸️

#anon:🐝

#anon:💙

#anon:🏝️

#anon:✨

Credit for dividers here

[butch-reidentified]

Every new fracturing discourse topic upsets me so much because men will go to bat for each other regardless of quite literally everything else all that matters is that they're men. Religion doesn't matter. Crimes don't matter. Political stances don't matter. Relationship status doesn't matter. Ethnicity sexuality history nationality still matter to some extent but they'll still find a way to be together to the detriment of women. Men will side with fictional men and men they haven't even met when women speak of their own experiences. All that matters is that they're men and from that point on they will find reasons to relate to each other and to find parts of each other to befriend and relate to. I'm so fucking SICK of women not understanding this and dividing ourselves further.

YES exactly. the extent of my engagement in this has rly been just me begging women to stop & listen, to clarify what I (& my wife) are saying bc theres so much assuming, misinterpreting, misunderstanding, etc being spread and that's like, one of my personal biggest bothers (being disbelieved when I'm being honest, specifically, which is why I make it a point not to lie, but relatedly, being misunderstood/misrepresented). it's like my one genuine trigger in life. and so this has been like my worst nightmare in terms of that, just totally out of control misrepresentations of me being spread beyond any damage control i could attempt.

my one real trigger (legit gets to me more than many of my actual traumas have) worst nightmare interpersonal scenario, and I am STILL trying so so hard to lead with sisterhood and grace toward other women. to the point I've chosen to stop actually even engaging and allow such a triggering situation to continue, allow such misrepresentations to spread & worsen, just bc i want to prioritize female liberation, like i said the other day. it's not easy. it's really really not. but i am NOT gonna go to war with other women, god ESPECIALLY radfems/rad-leaning. whywhywhy are we focusing on this???

i actually think it's a great irony that the post that started all this was me saying (paraphrased), "if you're not into female-exclusive/feminist witchcraft stuff, i don't get it, but it's totally cool just please don't be unkind to women who are into it." this discourse didn't start over "women who arent into witchcraft suck and should be into it" or anything remotely like that, it started with me saying let's be kind to radfems who do some harmless thing we don't also do. it's so meta fr lmao

[a-room-of-my-own]

About the infamous List(TM), it is an actual list kept by m*nalez, she has it in the pinned post of her blog. Whenever someone disagrees with her on political issues, even ones not really related to racial issues, they end up on the list, even if the person disagreeing is also non-white. Recently she's been complaining about Zionists (read: anyone who doesn't call for the complete destruction of Israel) and already has dedicated tags for users who said mild pro-Israel things. If you're not careful she'll come for you next lmao, tbh I'm surprised she hasn't yet given she is unreasonably suspicious of any white European women on here. I will say her list does contain some people who were genuinely very racist but those were randos nobody had ever even heard of, and didn't even claim to be radfems or anything like that

Ha. Interesting.

[gorkaya-trava]

hi! I'm Rhine, 21, he/they/she, and looking for moots here!

• nonbinary sapphic

• autistic & spoonie, diagnosed with OCD, severe depression, ED and PTSD

• csa and abuse survivor, I post trauma-related stuff really often

• dsbm, symphonic bm, atmospheric bm, blackgaze, dark ambient, death metal, blackened death metal, post-hardcore and other stuff I don't remember lmao. if you're a metalhead you're VERY welcome here <3

• current interests: genshin impact, the elder scrolls, dead space, the owl house, good omens, the lord of the rings, moomin valley, sanrio characters, heaven officials' blessing, black metal scene, tarot readings, magical crystals, magic in general, mineralogy, makeup

• somewhat a writer/poet

• third year musical student (viola and screaming crying throwing up)

• english isn't my first language so it kinda sucks sometimes

I'm not pro ana or pro any self-destructive behaviors by no means, I just suffer from these and share my experience with them. if you're not comfortable with things I post, please block me and don't report, this is my safe space and place for venting <3

dni: terfs/radfems, transmeds, queerphobes, misogynists, ableists, nsfw/k1nk blogs, n*zis, pro-russia/pro-p*tin/z-patriots, minors

[wetcatspellcaster]

Hello again, Ms. gender nerd anon here, re-sending my ask! Thanks for confirming it got lost!

I just wanted to say that I really appreciate your stance on misogyny in BG3 fandom (those “shipping Astarion with women is conversion therapy” takes are wild).

Gender dynamics in your fics are also a breath of fresh air because of how full of default heterosexual sado-masochism* and female submission in general f/m Astarion fics are (nothing wrong with being submissive, but the tendency itself is not above criticism imo). I absolutely love Rosalie’s wit, intelligence, agency, initiative, insecurities and vulnerability, she’s such a deep and well-rounded character. She’s a badass but not in a stereotypical “strong woman” type way which just acts “masculine”, e.g. fights, is assertive and sure of herself, etc. I think you’re doing a great job at portraying more egalitarian f/m relationship and sexuality.

I also remember you saying something like (I’m paraphrasing here) the problem you see with “I can fix him” trope is heterosexism that often accompanies it.

Considering all this I wonder if gender dynamics and using a feminist lens is something you consciously think about when writing Rosalie/Astarion and if yes, how do you approach that?

Thank you!

* https://preview.redd.it/6ak4wpp4zimc1.jpeg?width=577&auto=webp&s=933cf03cb5cc08346d3dff9bfc4a3266a0b68651&app_web_view=ios

PS I also read Howl’s Moving Castle recently and really felt something of Howl and Sophie in your fics, it’s lovely!

PPS English in not my first language so sorry for any awkward phrases/mistakes

hi anon, thank you for coming back with the long-awaited question (also there is no need to stress about the English used here, it's all very high level lmao so please don't apologise!)

I'm not interested in commenting/speaking ill on other fics or trends within Astarion fic so I'm only going to discuss this question in relation to my own writing. [Beyond once more reiterating that the popularity of m/m ships in fandom has its roots in racism and misogyny (a preference for white male characters above any female characters, especially those of colour when they are the canon interest), and the belief that 'gay' ships are inherently more virtuous has its roots in um. radfem ideology. and again, misogyny. Fair enough if you like what you like but please examine your biases and plz stop hating women and dressing it up as queer positivity.]

This ended up being very, very long, so it's under the cut lads! I did promise I could talk about gender in fiction all day long.

So first off, anon - people like what they like. There's nothing wrong with that - most of what I write, it's not done with any virtue signalling in mind, it's just that I'm writing what I like, as well. That is, I'm going to be honest, in large part my answer to your question.

In all honesty, I do not write my bg3 with an inherently feminist lens or mindset held in my brain at the time of drafting, beyond the fact that I'm a feminist in my own day-to-day life. If I was to attribute it to anything... I would actually be really basic, and just be frank: I really like women. I find women hot. I like a lot of female characters, more than I like male ones.

I'm really touched you think Rosalie is a well-rounded character, as she is intended to be written that way, but honestly? I just find her hot. I give her good lines and fun moments equal to Astarion's, bc she's v sexy to me. I like giving her hot things to do, and at a very basic level, it's for me, lmao. I made her well-rounded, bc I like her and I find her entire character aspirational and attractive. Fic is, often, just for pleasure. In the same way other people write what they find hot, I write what I find hot, and if you were to examine my fics and my bookmark history (Sophie/Howl is up there honestly, but Jareth/Sarah from Labyrinth is the biggest giveaway lmao) you would know that I just find this kind of dynamic.... where there's a villain and a heroine who breaks him.... or a woman who reads a man for filth... hot.

But if you want an answer that goes deeper and more theoretical, there are two things that I can give you!

I find it both reassuring and funny that you bring up both heterosexism and not making Rose 'masculine', bc Rosalie is consciously one of my most femme OCs. The pink/purple colour scheme is a dead giveaway. I think this was because, in Early Access, all of the femme companions are gnc in some way, which was fucking awesome, but that meant there was a gap in the market for my funky pink tiefling!

Most of the characters were also quite edgy - I've talked about the Early Access disapproval, and the way it felt like you were being bullied by the pixels inside your gaming PC, and how this informed my choice of OC. At the time, I was also playing in a D&D game full of edgelords, and was getting quite bored (mid-pandemic) with this entire belief that playing 'good', or being idealistic, is naive/dumb, or boring, or trite, or overdone. A lot of my writing is triggered by a spite reflex, so in Rose, I doubled down. I put a lot of tropes about femininity that get a lot of hate in fandom into Rosalie, bc these often overlap with the idea that being emotional or naïve is undesirable bc (you guessed it!) misogyny. It's better to be jaded and cynical, bc that's a traditionally masculine view of the world. This idea that being 'good' is stupid is fed by many things, but it is gendered, and making Rosalie a high femme woman was a conscious decision.

BUT in her character, I also had this secondary question - in a group where everyone is berating you for being kind, if you're a rabid people pleaser and traditionally feminine caregiver, why are you refusing to back down? How are we getting to the 'lawful' part of lawful good - which I interpret as having an inflexible moral code? And this was where I bought in the idea that someone is trying to make up for lost time, and created the device of her agoraphobia, and the tadpole as anxiety medication.

I think this is perhaps what makes her feel well-rounded, but also takes her from 'passively' feminine to 'actively' feminine - she's had all the traditional femme upbringing BUT she then has a tadpole hijacking all her AFAB socialisation, everything that's told her to not to take up space or back down or defer to other people.

I'm not going to lie, this is something I am struggling with at the moment: an awareness of being raised and socialised as a woman, and as an autistic woman who's masking practices are inherently tied up into the codes of femininity and the behaviour expected of her. I didn't realise this at the time of writing. But I guess Rosalie gets access to a confidence she didn't before, through a magic cure, and this is something that alters the dynamics of her character in a way that allows her to have a more active role. She doesn't feel the need to mask much anymore (see! this is why I find her HOT!!!)

..

The other gendered lens I will admit to bringing to the table with Rosalie, and consciously employing, is the traditional gendered dichotomy between emotion (femininity)/intellect (masculinity) that was held in the 1800s-1900s. This is because this theory used to fascinate me, I've read/studied a lot about the idea of gendered modes of reading books and understanding the world - for instance, there was a moral panic that's reflected in books like Northanger Abbey and Madame Bovary where it was feared women couldn't read literature properly, and that the lines between fiction and reality became blurred for them, because literature incites emotions and women are inherently more emotional beings. It was believed that they couldn't differentiate between the emotions fiction made them feel, and their real life. This persists till today, in a derogatory approach to female fandom, to immersed readers, and the media products that girls like (e.g. the Twilight books, and associated derision of its readership). In this dichotomy and belief system, women are overly emotional and thus stupid/idealistic, and the admirable way to be is critical, detached, intellectual - ie. everything the man making these rules thinks he is.

This DOES come into play with Rosalie, in a big way, but that's kind of BG3's fault. The whole idea of a mindflayer, is someone who is intellect without any emotion, and this makes them threatening, and powerful. I coupled that with a woman who sees her depression (and thus her emotion) as a weakness, and who is using illithid tadpoles as medication. I've talked a few time in asks, about how the bad ending for Rosalie would be her turning into the mindflayer for the good of the group, becoming that ideal of intellectual detachment that she thinks will be all everyone wants from her. It would be: The Bleeding Heart, versus The Exalted Mind. I sat on that decision screen, CRYING, for a really long time, bc I knew she would turn illithid in a heartbeat, for all the wrong reasons. To me, it felt like a new version of suicidal ideation had been given to my mess of a character. (Thank god for Astarion in this instance, honestly).

As a wizard, Rosalie is operating in that intellectual paradigm that critical thinking = good. Being cold and analytic = good. She is not that, until she has the tadpole: she never aspired to power, she feels in thrall to her own emotional state, she feels like her emotions make her weak and have actively disadvantaged her progress. So she is facing this battle between what she thinks she should be - intellectually confident, certain, calculated and cool - and what she thinks she is - emotionally messy, easily manipulated, sad and weak - without realising it's a fake mutually exclusive binary, and she can in fact be both. This is a journey I hope to take her on in An Honest Lie, and she's already undergone in Pieces (although, there's a bit more emotional repression in this timeline, if she was actually well-adjusted i think she would've fucked the Ascendent at least once lol).

What I did bring to the table was a extreme frustration at traditionally feminine-coded traits (moral idealism, goodness, empathy, over-emotional modes of being in the world) being constantly derided or treated as stupid. I also wanted to write a wizard who wasn't a pinnacle of intellect, but was struggling with that fact, and I made her high femme for a reason!

So... yeah! TLDR, I write women with personalities bc I like and am attracted to women - the same way a lot of male characters get attention or become the most fully fleshed, complex beings in existence, bc their writers like and are attracted to them. I do not write consciously feminist attacks on other people's dynamics, what I write is the dynamics I find incredibly sexy instead.

So I guess... my advice on how to approach things???

write what you find hot

give attention to the characters you find hot

if there are any dynamics you find interesting in theory, you can explore them!

I did make a conscious choice to subvert some tropes in Pieces, but this was mostly to avoid writing noncon bc it's not my thing, I didn't have any interesting in doing that to my OC, and also, i don't think I could write it well. So I guess the other thing you can do is, if there's a trope that frustrates you or you don't like the gendered politics of something, think of a new interesting way to write it or flip that dynamic (....like a Power Word Kill!)

[myopicry]

I've already sent you an ask (more like a ramble on aesthetics and its relation to women) around a week ago, you're probably inactive atm (which isnt a bad thing btw!) but i'm gonna send another thing in (something unrelated to my last ramble lol).

now that i've spent time both in radfem/"terf" spaces and trans positive/inclusive(?) ones, i've noticed how scared the latter are of being even *slightly* associated to the former. it's oddly funny and kind of silly when you think about it. ppl have talked about this before but i'm referring to stuff like "op is a terf" and "terfs dni". the latter has been especially poignant to me recently for some reason: a trend ive seen is that ppl often write that in their bio after having created a post which some radfems or GCs reblogged/engaged with and they've used the classic "so terfs have come across this and i just wanted to let it be know that i dont like you guys" (altho worded much less kindly). it's like they're *terrified* of being perceived by ppl who share their views as even just somewhat affiliated to the "other" in any way, shape or form. or they're terrified of the other following them and interacting with their content. it feels very defensive and overly "loud" to me, idk?... the "op is a terf" has been talked about a lot in the radfem/GC spaces, so this might be a shorter section (update: it's not, lmao), but as that one post said: "it's a thought terminating cycle". I think that's one of the reasons i haven't checked out what the hell these "terfs" were actually saying and arguing (apart from screenshots of JKR tweets) for so long. it rlly proved to me how engaging with media from other "sides" is crucuial, even if you probably wont agree most of the time. if anything, i think i just wanted to be a good ally: i love debating and i wanted to know how to respond to "terf rhetoric" better. i remember feeling surprised by what i saw, not feeling the immediate "this is illogical and bad" feeling, and having trouble arguing against certain points. i couldn't even find good counter arguments from other ppl. and then there was a domino effect (altho i havent adopted all radfem and GC POVs and dont consider myself as a radfem or rad leaning/GC). even some trans friends of mine were surprised when i reported my findings to them. i'll stop here even though i can talk about this for much longer, but those "terfs/radfems dni" bios rlly stick out to me now and made me think lol. hope to see you back soon! ~🪼

hi hi! apologies for the delay! I did in fact spend some personal time offline, it was quite nice and it is probably a much healthier thing than spending most of my day on tumblr lmao but I can't deny I did miss speaking openly about my opinions on things, especially certain observations that I absolutely would not be able to discuss with my irls unless I wanted to sit them down for a multi-hour lecture just to make sure I wasn't misunderstood ^_^|||

anyway I just saw both your asks (eloquently written as ever!) and will respond to this first just because I saw it first lmao. not much to add other than maybe rambling myself about some of my own similar experiences and what not. you've put it into words great though! there is almost this "mystical" denouncement of terfs/radfems/gender criticals who are mislabled as just radfems etc. within trans spaces, and as I've looked more and more into "terf" ideology this kind of hatred really does go back far, to a point where it's basically impossible to even mention radical feminism or gender critical feminism without immediate hostility. like a sort of legend or custom, being wary/outwardly hateful of the demonic terf. maybe this is why when I heard gender ideology being likened to a religion, the analogy really clicked with me, because on some level trans-inclusive spaces really do make terfs feel like "the devil", some root of all evil, the parallel to the "divine" that they liken themselves to. I'm fairly atheistic myself in regards to just religion in general, so understanding being gender critical as essentially "gender atheism" helped me realize how logically flawed and slightly harmful a vehement belief in trans ideology could be, just as a non-critical perspective on any religious ideology can be.

I definitely relate to the point of basically falling into the radfem rabbit hole accidentally. I don't really feel like I'm properly a radfem or especially an activist (I do just write what's on my mind and that I can't really get engagement from my pre-existing social circles lol) and I honestly got into the ideas not through radblr but imageboards and forums through my bad habit of looking for material to "invalidate" me as some kind of "doom-scrolling" practice, but instead of finding blind hatred (even in the most niche of internet corners, where the ideology does get radical indeed) I found logical, cogent arguments and reasoning for why these people were so against gender ideology. I mean, yes, there was still hatred, but there's hatred on every corner of every internet space, and it also made me realize how my belief in not committing "thought crimes" by even entertaining "terf" rhetoric was simultaneously making me blind to the genuine flaws and ickier aspects of the trans + queer community that I was just sort of ignoring with cognitive dissonance. as a woman and someone with really god awful people-pleasing habits, I was unfortunately quite good at ignoring things that made me uncomfortable in order to maintain social acceptance and a good reputation in the eyes of others, and even if I don't share every radfem or gc belief, I can't deny being exposed to them all was absolutely integral to unraveling some of that unhealthy behavior.

based on my personal experiences, it is really actually quite disheartening to see that "radfem/terf dni" thing happen so much online. you really can't expect to never challenge your own thinking. in fact, challenging your preconceived notions is the only way you can grow as a person in your personal philosophy and conception of the world. I get it though, it is probably scary to engage with the "forbidden fruit" if your whole self-proclaimed all-accepting community says that this is one thing that is absolutely intolerable and will get you kicked from this welcoming "club". I will say, having opened this proverbial pandora's box of theory, I get a bit more angry and cynical at the state of the world (how did I never notice the staggering affects of misogyny before?), and I get a bit more sad that I'll never be able to have that unquestioning community with people who are supposed to understand me. I wonder if there are more people who would honestly be able to understand the nuances in critiquing gender ideology out there, but they fear that ostracization too. if by some random chance anyone like that ever reads this exact post (lol what are the odds) I always like to remind people that a burner email and account on something like tumblr is incredibly easy to set up!

alright, lemme get to your other ask because it is really interesting and thanks again for visiting!! I genuinely missed engaging with this kinda stuff offline, and I also get tired being the one to drip feed new ideas to people in person. it's really nice to just get a nice well written insight to engage with unfiltered (well, as unfiltered as a tumblr post under a pseudonym can be lmao)

[hi-im-dingo]

Hey how ya doing, lemme introduce myself

Pfp created by chemicataclysm from Picrew

The name is Dingo. I'm 20 years old, go by they/he/it/bark/guts and I'm transmasc genderfluid (+some xenogenders). I'm bisexual demirose, and ambiamorus. I'm a full on sub/bottom I can't even think of being a dom or topping it gives me major anxiety lol. I am mainly t4t most of the time. Unless said so, my posts are all mlm. I do get shy almost 24/7 so sorry if we are ever texting/talking and I go quiet all the sudden hah. I'm single, and it's gonna stay like that for a while until I get more therapy. I love marine life and big cats so much please we must talk about them they are the best

I'm both mentally disabled and mentally ill af lmao /srs. Please be patient with me if we ever talk and please use tone indicators

I finally decided to make a side blog for reblogging nsfw stuff. I shall remain anonymous and not tell my main blog, so I can't follow back. Sorry :(. If you do find it, no you didn't <3

Even though I am a nsfw account, I do NOT sext or flirt, and do not ask for hookups/pictures. If this sounds mean I'm just setting boundaries for my mentality. Only those very close to me can do these. However I will allow nsft asks, and they can be nsft related as well and what you would like to do to me :3 I also would like to meet you guys, so my DMs are open. However due to my anxiety I take a while to respond sometimes. I also sometimes get sex repulsed due to some past events so I'll disappear for a while from this blog

Alright might as well tell some stuff/kinks I'm in to and along with turn offs

Terms

I am a dude so refer to me with masc related things, but I am fine with pussy, clit, tcock, and chest. I do prefer to be called handsome. Those who are close to me can call me cute, adorable, hot, etc. and only I can call it boypussy if it's myself. Don't ever refer to me in a feminine way

Turn ons:

Being the pillow prince I am teehee :3

Free use to an extent

I call it being playful, but others call it being a brat lmao

Degrading, teasing, and humiliating to an extent

Fear play to an extent

Praising/being called "good boy"

Light bondage (like a simple hands behind back, maybe even blindfolded)

Voice kink

Denial, edging, and overstimulation

Breeding (no pregnancy)

Biting

Ice play

Height/size different (I'm 5'2" lol)

Cockwarming

Spanking

Spitting

Thigh riding

Light claiming

Predator/prey dynamic

Receiving oral

Taking things slowly and romantically

Consent and communication is the best /srs

Aftercare, cause that's important frfr

Turn offs

Blowjobs/deepthroating

Choking

Anal

Petplay

Non consent/r*pe. Fucking nasty why would you ever be into that.

Ageplay. Also nasty.

Scat, piss, vomit, etc.

"Daddy/mommy"

Face slapping, hitting, and punching

Misgendering/detrans, why the fuck you even do that???

Heavy bondage

Corruption (trauma related)

Somno

Public sex

Obsession/possessive

Knifeplay/cutting

Weapon play

Fake safewords

Tags

- # Dingo is posting : Any post that I make will always have this, even those with no nsft

- # Dingo is shit posting : Just me being a silly fella teehee

- # Not my post - self explanatory

- # Nsft : self explanatory

- # Not nsft : self explanatory

- # Serious post : for addressing anything very important

- # Please💀 : Scenarios, imagines, etc. from I really like. Will be seen with other people's posts

Anons

None as of now. Send an ask for any emoji you'd like to claim along with your gender and pronouns ^3^

!! DNI LIST !!

- Minors and ageless blogs. You will be blocked on sight

- Cishets. Once again, blocked on sight

- Anyone 25+

- basic dni criteria (homophobic, transphobic, ableist, zoophiles, pedophiles, incest supporters, etc)

- Proshitter/"anit-anti" or whatever you sick fucks call yourselves these days

- People who age up any minors for anything nsfw and shipping with an adult

- TERFs/radfems

- People who exclude neopronouns, xenogenders, aroace, and/or more

- fetishize age regression

- DDLG and anything relating to such

- Fujoshis

- YBC supporters/fans

- My ex and anyone who has connections with him

- Support/like yanderes (also trauma related)

- Dr. Rockso apologists

- Anyone who is neutral about any of the above

We got that all covered? Alright cool nice :3

I have a feeling this blog won't be 100% nsfw cause I like to be a silly guy most of the time lol

[mmmthornton]

This is a confession from a fellow grown ass radfem south parkie in trying times. I started writing and posting a fic that got really big when I was a TRA and i made a bunch of characters trans but then I peaked just in the middle of writing it and have put it on hiatus since. Every time i read back on the trans characters POV i wrote I gag like omg girl you wrote a goddamn AGP 🤮 and a part of me does want to finish it because i wrote so much for it (literally like 30k) but i cannot keep the trans shit in there for my health but if i dont then all the hundreds of kweer trans children in this fandom will come for me. Whenever i see them vaguepost about you the "evil south park terf blog" I do a little salute like honestly youre so brave and awesome I admire you queen.

OMG girl...i feel for you lmao especially because writing can be so taxing. Its gotta be TOUGH feeling like you can't go back to that work, and I sympathize with your situation. Have you thought about a side blog of some kind? I myself have a barely-concealed separate SP blog but its mostly so my problematic queen mutuals don't have to see AS much nonsense on their dash.

At the end of the day though, and take this or leave it.........you should just come out with it lol. Feminists aren't going to beat the "You're using secret phrases and secret blogs to spread ideology!" charges if we don't stop treating our genuine political concerns and critiques as illegitimate. I mean, you said it yourself, the trans babies who watch south park will be annoyed but 1) they're babies 2) its SOUTH. PARK.

If we can't share our unpopular and unsexy opinions related or not to fart jokes and edgy bullshit, we're dismissing the work of the stunning and brave trans women who made it possible:

[just-a-gl1tch]

I posted 226 times in 2022

That's 191 more posts than 2021!

83 posts created (37%)

143 posts reblogged (63%)

Blogs I reblogged the most:

@somescenecatholic

@glitter-loona

@sweetpeauserboxes

@crowcussion

@jupiter-nwn

I tagged 181 of my posts in 2022

Only 20% of my posts had no tags

#samuel (he/they) - 73 posts

#reblog - 44 posts

#aikatsu - 25 posts

#mixed origin system - 21 posts

#anti endos dni - 21 posts

#endogenic system - 20 posts

#plurality - 15 posts

#multiplicity - 14 posts

#alterhuman - 10 posts

#otherkin - 9 posts

Longest Tag: 122 characters

#i’m literally a fictionkin from an undertale au and i’m not all all surprised that i chose to make my own original au lmao

My Top Posts in 2022:

#5

Salutations 

Greetings and welcome to my blog!

My name is Samuel/Arson, I'm a minor and professionally diagnosed as autistic. Im Transmasc, Biromantic and polyamorous. and last but not least i am the Host of a Mixed Origin system.

This is a general blog for alterhuman experiences, art, and other randomness, nothing is ever set in stone here.

(PS. I am also alterhuman and My kintypes consist of Being an Error Sans & Bob Velseb fictionkin, A chantilly-Tiffany therian and a Chaos ConceptKin, be respectful ^^)

DNI:

Terf/swerf

Radfem

Anti-endo/sysmed

Homophobic/transphobic/etc.

Anti-mspec

support or are Pedophiles/zoophiles (Support as in: allowing and abetting not as supporting their recovery)

Trump supporters (please just don’t)

Fakeclaimers of any sort

Anti-therian/anti-otherkin

System carrd:

See the full post

10 notes - Posted July 8, 2022

#4

Failed Error drawings (warning: creepy looking)

I attempted, and i failed, i will try again next time lol. enjoy this jumbled up nonsense ^^

12 notes - Posted June 6, 2022

#3

New cat ears!!!

Okay so, Today My grandma Gigi allowed me to go to Hot Topic (which the other part of my family kinda is not a fan of) but anyways me and my lil sis were able to buy anything we wanted. and i found a bunch of cat ears! the one i choose looks pretty close to my theriotype and I am so happy! it even has little tiny bells on em!

Cute photo of my cat ears!!

The best part is that i can adjust the ear pieces! like oh ma gawd ^^

I could literally have such pleasant mental shifts with these! although i do think i could get some other accessories to go with these, i dunno but these will be perfect for now!

28 notes - Posted June 29, 2022

#2

Error!Sans Fanart

I put too much effort in this

28 notes - Posted February 27, 2022

My #1 post of 2022

question for the alterhuman community

For a long time I have been wanting to write about my conceptkin part of my alterhuman identity since barely anyone made short stories or literally anything related to that kind of topic due to how little the conceptkin community might be.

I’m hesitant on doing so, I’m not the best writer and I feel might be judged and preyed opon for writing down my experiences and wants on tumblr (or really any online place)

so, what do you think? Should I? Should I write about my conceptkin experences and make art related to that or is that too taboo? I do not want to offend or hurt the alterhuman community at all! I just want to express my thoughts.

i would be grateful if I could get at least once response, either by comment, Dm, or reblog, I do not really care, whichever method Of communication would be fine and helpful.

sincerely,

- Samuel (He/They)

47 notes - Posted February 20, 2022

Get your Tumblr 2022 Year in Review →

[sharp-rosee]

As someone who's also become a radfem leaving the conservative sphere, I relate to everything you've said. I also HEAVY relate to the use of not feeling comfortable with using "he" pronouns for him; even writing this, it almost feels awkward to type lmao.

It's hard having your whole belief system basically turn upside down. I used to respect Blaire, too, especially his callouts of Onision, and when he heavily hinted that Crowder was a grifter.

I think Blaire would be moreso described as a traditional transsexual as he is a gay man and not an AGP like Contrapoints, and that distinction makes me more accepting of his chosen identity as he's not the type of TIM we usually encounter, so he also felt different to me, safer to defend.

Even so, he's still a male, and what helped me was looking up unedited and candid photos of him because in real life, he just looks like a feminine gay man just like James Charles does. Like any popular TIM with money at disposal, he crafted a very passing image of himself online, which is hard to distance yourself from when picturing him.

Another thing that helped was, disregarding his obvious conservative ideology, the fact he himself claims to be against eroding womens spaces, then expects others to gender him as one, and use the women's bathrooms/facilities himself, really just shows how much of a hypocrite he is. Especially because he uses the excuse of "Well if they pass...!" When he doesn't pass either.

I hope this helps, and it really does get easier and, In my case, finding radical feminism helped me boost my self-esteem more than consuming any doomer conservative content ever did.

Blare White is super misogynistic… he also supports trump. You know the anti abortion, pro rape guy. I think you may be defining who you love/idolize and what you say you think based on who entertains you the most on social media/YouTube and your personal connections rather than really getting into WHY each view is right or wrong factually/ethically, and aiming to be consistent. To be clear I myself am a radfem and (within that) critical of gender ideology I am not trying to convince you to not criticize gender ideology or to not criticize specific trans identified people. Yes: some people Blaire white and that kind of guy opposes are also fucked up people who do harm. But the enemy of an enemy does not alone make a friend and I encourage you to look with a more critical eye at anyone aligned right wing and against women, whether they are novelties or famous on YouTube or whatever else or not

Among other things remember Blaire white is just a man who calls self woman but hates the other men who call themselves women. His critique of them is typically either copied (without him really understanding) from feminist women, or at other times basically rooted in him saying those other trans women are ugly or don’t pass or haven’t done [insert random shit] “Blaire” thinks makes him a real woman and these other trans women into pretenders. It’s just an egotistical man getting attention and money off of this while still claiming he’s a woman and doing so for sexist (“I pass as feminine so that makes me a woman” = sexist) reasons. This issue that is actually impacting women and girls (a category that doesn’t include him)

Thanks for sending me this ask (and being so civil about it). Before I joined the radfem community (and when I wrote my bio) I was pretty conservative but the more evidence of woman’s oppression I’ve seen, the more leftist I’ve become. This has left me feeling kind of lost because the people like Blair White who I used to turn to for comfort on bad days and to hear what I thought were reasonable political opinions no longer click with me. I don’t resonate with her (I’m gonna use she/her even though I’m he’s a dude because I do have that personal attachment right now so it just feels right) beliefs anymore but distancing myself from her feels wrong because she’s been a part of my life for a while, y’know.

I don’t watch YouTube much so I haven’t seen one of her videos since I became a radfem. But, I do remember how my old community used to act so Ik if I did watch another video of hers I’d be disgusted and disappointed by her behaviour (I almost want to avoid watching her at all so that I can keep pretending I align with her side- also I’m aware this is pretty parasocial, I’ll work on that). While I’ve become more aware of this I’ve continued to defend and preach how good her content is as a way of pretending I do still like her to myself. I knew I was doing this but I didn’t really think about it until now.

I’m pretty good at thinking critically about the media I consume, it’s just something I’ve always done when discovering something new to enjoy. But I think Ive developed a blind spot for people I previously loved as while I agreed with them in the past. Now however, me promoting their ideology is hypocritical at best. I’ve been practicing separatism (that’s not the word I want to use Ik it) more and more in my daily life. I now realise the next step I need to take is starting to distance myself from these people as they’re making me into someone I don’t want to be (hypocrites are one of my biggest red flags).

Thanks again for the ask as it’s genuinely helped me uncover a therapeutic break through lol. Whether or not that was your intent it’s definitely gonna help me be a better feminist and improve my life so thanks.

[myopicry]

skimming through my old youtube subscriptions to clear out some channels in the list, and was looking around this one channel that I had a watch later video on (the channel was mostly long form video game analysis lmao I love that kinda shit) BUT there was a random video about radical feminism and terfs just in there. as someone with a new perspective on these exact subjects, I thought I'd take a look as the video claimed to deconstruct how radical feminism has always been "transphobic" (and why that's bad) and oops I made myself be mad at my laptop screen way too early in the day again. anyway keep reading if you want to see the surface level distilled anger at a generic "did you know women-I mean terfs-are evil?" video by a man.

but seriously, it drove me crazy because the youtuber presents arguments from radical feminists and their writings, and immediately takes it all in bad faith. equating someone's criticism of ideology as an attack against individuals/people, highlighting supposed contradictions whenever the authors try and present nuanced variability in their observations, and even when admitting the radfems have "interesting perspectives"--minimizing any solutions any radfem theory proposes since they're "boring", but at the same time somehow too radical because they don't even consider men in their separatist theory. and of course, he calls their conclusions terrible because the "terfs are just not interested in having any of these discussions, because they're clearly single-mindedly only discussion sex-based oppression as a way to hate all trans people. surely there is no other reason why a group of feminists would have these concerns and critiques about gendered stereotypes of femininity and womanhood. It must be because the mere existence of any gender non-conformity sickens them!" and straight up just calling women saying these things "cringe."

not only that but the video was (of course) made by a man. not saying there aren't meaningful observations and critiques you can make on radical feminist writing, or necessarily that a man can't try and make such critiques, but holy shiiiiit. is it always this bad when they try? maybe men should...stop trying to be the ones "defending" against the "evil, misguided philosophy" of radical feminism. a truly controversial take, I know.

and then he ends the video trying to elaborate that it's sad how lesbian feminists might end up allying with people, but it's partially their own doing by aligning with a "trans-exclusionary" movement, ignoring how the entire video to this point has proved why so many otherwise left-leaning lesbians and/or feminists turn to the right because men on the left continue to talk over them and ignore them in favor of an ideology that hurts women and benefits men to a observably consistent degree.

like yes, flex your epic debate-bro skills with more select quotes from writers twenty years ago and ignore all the humanity of those who disagree with you so you can easily explain away an "outdated" ideology directly focused on women's liberation should just be seen as a pipe-dream at best, and "literally fascism" at worst. ignore the fact that women self-label as "terfs" because no matter how they try and compassionately and politely express their beliefs, society at large will demonize them for choosing to center women from literally every political angle. I don't know man, I just think if you really cared about leftism and feminism and even lesbians, you'd try a little harder to ask yourself "why" they might believe this, other than saying all the reasons might be false statistics or unjustified fear. but I guess to men, all women's fear is unjustified, huh? ah, the feminists making up bogeymen that definitely don't draw on aspects of lived experience basically every single woman can relate to.

aaanyway I'm going to use this experiences as yet another motivation to read more so one day I can be a reverse debate-bro and deconstruct videos like this in an obnoxiously long twitch stream. or, leftists who think creating hour long video essays instead of writing their observations in a blog like the rest of us is somehow better praxis (see, both these options are terrible praxis, is the thing) can hire me to be their desisted separatist sympathetic same-sex attracted woman of color "sensitivity" consultant and I'll just lecture at them until they give up on politics all together because of how much I yap.

maybe the most disheartening thing I realized was that no one in the comments would ever point out even the most obvious flaw in reasoning or any misinterpretation of points because they already went in agreeing with the thesis and thus turned their critical thinking brains off immediately going in. not to mention our collective young people brains are so trained on quick dopamine stimulation most of the audience probably already tuned out by the 10 minute mark. we live in a society or something.

[internet-necrosis]

Female centered media can be so healing!

I've been trying to enjoy as much female led media as possible, basically every time I watch something that has dudes I just ask myself "is this necessary? Is there a female centered alternative I can watch instead?" Which I know for a lot a women might seem kinda obvious, but fr I just never realized how much male dominant content I consume. Now that I've made this change, which wasn't even that hard to do in the first place, I just feel way less stressed in general. Microdosing female separatism but with media lmfao. I should probably note that I also try not to watch anything that's women who use the term qu**r or talking about makeup being empowering or some other libfem bs unless I have some good reason (which for my sanity I have yet to find). I've also been trying to not subject myself to more current news updates than I need, more social and political commentary than I used to, I want to learn more practical things or watch something that brings joy/contentment. Idk man too much drama and too heavy doses of reality got me burnt out on that shit. I want to learn something I can put to use, not something I can do nothing to change. I'm taking a break from that futility while I focus on my own personal growth and stuff.

Recently I've been customizing my own clothes to look more punk and have a more interesting fit for the colder weather coming up. Don't get me wrong I can't sew to save my life, but I refuse to buy things I don't need and I wear punk/goth/deconstructed clothes almost always anyway. I'm always taking safety pin donations lol. There's something really freeing in the fact that I almost never take photos of my strange outfits because as I'm sure I've gotten weird looks and maybe a sneak photo taken of me once or twice, I really do wear these clothes for me only. I love connecting with others who compliment and like my outfits though, but I don't think social media is the best place to do that anymore...I think it used to be. I gotta give this app credit for being my only social media site I go to anymore. Even then I can go a few really pleasant days without it and it feels really great! The less phone checking the better I suppose. I've been keeping a journal and that's been nice too, knowing no one is going to see what I type on there is so freeing and invigorating. Tbh it scratches the social media itch 99% of the time.

[crazyalien87]

Omg i just saw ur tags! Youre also a condescending jackass!

Bruh I don't think I'm "betraying womanhood" because i have bottom dyshoria and wanna have a fucking dick💀. Im not "somewhat gender questioning" bruh I've been back and forth on this shit since 2020💀. Also im not a cryptoterf but this aint the first time today (aka since last time i checked my blog's activity lmao) ive been accused of being it lmao. Are crypto-terfs really that common? I guess we'll never know....😂. Really tho i aint a "terf" im a "tirf" which means i dont hate trans ppl and men like those other radfems do but i still hate gender roles (which is what the og post was about bruh i dont hate my fellow nonbinary people).

I'd describe myself as cisish womandrogyne at this point but whatever. My physical transition goals have only changes slightly since like early 2021. The main thing Ive been concerned about these days is whether to transition bc 1) what if it lowers my dating pool (my last relationship with a het man scarred me a bit perhaps💀) and 2) what if ppl think im a weirdo for not passing as a binary gender after and transition and 3) is my dysphoria even bad enough to get phalloplasty? What if my dick is ugly :(. What if I get testosterone but then i get bald and harm my pussy? What if...

Idk bruh, in an ideal world I'd get T or maybe just minoxidil and I'd get a phalloplasty and a bbl...or I'd just not have dysphoria OR just have magic easy transition and not a multi-stage surgery with many months of healing💀. But im afraid to transition and reduce my dating pool to not even include lesbians and straight men anymore just like im afraid to come out as polyam irl and reduce my dating pool any further just like im afraid to get minox to grow my mustahce anymore just like....it's just dating tho im just afraid that ppl wont like me anymore if i just look like a woman with a dick and a beard💀 Maybe that's internalized transphobis but i aint trying to take it out on others and a lot of it is tied up in my 1 romantic relationship i had thag im still not over.💀

Also none of this shit was ur business but im came to tumblr to post this kinda queer shit anyway💀 u decided to speculate about my potentisl transness in the tags so here i am💀 judge me on my transness and internalized transphobianess u great arbiter of transphobia who totally knows better than me on anything related to transness at all💀

Infographic about how gnc men can still be men and if a male/amab person id's as nonbinary only due to being gnc that is bc of sexism and they can still id as cis man if they want

This is an edit of the original from this post, which is the same but opposite, it is about gnc women who think they aren't women enough. I posted it in a reblog, but thought it deserves its own post as well.

To be clear, I am not against nonbinary people. I'm just not against gnc cis people either, and I hipe to help people reocgnize the differences between them.