#not just the bad guys but the good guys fucked her over as well
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sirfrogsworth · 10 hours ago
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So, I did know the basic psychology of this. Or I have a good guess at least. But I was too tired and just needed a way to end the post quickly. I am running on fumes nearly all the time and sometimes I just do whatever I need so I can publish something and feel like I accomplished a goal.
But a few people are having issues with what I said.
They mentioned that autistic folks find comfort in repetition and feel like I am calling that sad. I definitely see that as a possible interpretation and I appreciate them mentioning feeling that way.
But I just wanted to use a little bit of energy to address why I don't think I was referring to these normal, healthy coping mechanisms. I mentioned in a reply that my father actually needed to watch the same show over and over because he was too sick to concentrate on something unfamiliar. I get why it can be helpful.
Firstly, I don't know many autistic people who trap everyone they know at a party and play the same 12 songs over and over.
By and large, that aspect was what I found most sad.
But aside from that, I see this repetitive behavior as a very different thing.
In fact, I would say it isn't the behavior itself... it is the *reason* for the behavior.
I see Trump's repetitive behavior more as living in the past, stuck in his ways, being stubborn, and unwilling to try new things. Something I see a lot with elderly conservative folks. They yearn for a better time in the past when they forgot all of the shitty things and only remember happy times. They say music was better in the good old days and refuse to consider any good music could be created outside of that golden age.
Trump is stuck in the 80s and 90s. He was young and healthy and grabbing pussy and fucking models (with and without consent) and going to parties of important people. He was invited to celebrity weddings and was literally Regis Philbin's best friend. Society generally liked him. He was just the goofy rich guy with the hair and many of us thought he was really good at business. Something enhanced by The Apprentice which was heavily edited to make him seem like a business genius. He likes people thinking he is good at business more than he likes being president.
I actually think he hates being president and only ran this time to stay out of jail.
Trump is not well liked as he used to be. No matter how many cult members love and praise him, he remains deeply unhappy. His wife refuses to touch or even kiss him in public. She does this little hand escape thing every time he tries to hold her hand. And when he tries to kiss her she makes him do that French thing where he has to kiss the air near her head.
Every one of his current "friends" is just playing the game. They are hoping their fealty will help them climb the ladder. I doubt he has a single genuine friend left. Except maybe Rudy Guiliani, who turned into a fucking nutball.
He was traumatized from being inches away from death and I think that was the real reason he moved his inauguration inside. A life long New Yorker is pretty well adapted to the cold.
He probably has erectile dysfunction. He is said to need a diaper. People say he smells really bad. Getting old sucks for everyone, but it is devastating to a narcissist of Trump's caliber.
Trump is in a psychological prison of unhappiness and all he has left is his rallies and his parties where he tries to trigger memories of better times. He has the world's thickest nostalgia glasses.
Why do you think he says "Make America Great AGAIN"?
He says he is going to restore the US to its "former glory."
Almost every personal and political goal of his is based on restoring how things used to be. Which is why he so easily fit into the regressive Republican party despite being a New York Democrat for most of his life.
Trump has elderly nostalgia brain and he is stuck in a loop. He is desperately trying to recreate his glory days.
I get why people had an issue with the caption. And I should have waited until I had more energy to clarify.
In the end, this man is stuck in his ways and stupendously uncurious of new things.
And those are terrible traits for a president.
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sturniolo04 · 2 days ago
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WTF 1 c.s.
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Girldad!Chris x Girlmom!Reader
A/N: If you don't like the preadded name in my stories, you can either add your own name or not read it; it's up to you- Charli
Dividers: @issysh3ll
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For as long as you can remember Chris has always been protective of you but especially when you little bundle of joy, layla arrived. She was his pride and joy and God forbid she date just yet.
"who are you texting"
you ask your daughter seeing she was constantly smiling at her phone.
"just my friendd"
she drags out as chris enters the living room taking a seat on the couch next to you.
"does this friendd have a name"
you question mimicking her.
"um sam"
she states slowly a pink tint rising on her freckled cheeks.
"i hope thats short for samantha like a girls name"
chris huffs finally connecting the dots.
"its a boy dad"
layla huffs out.
"no no nope you arent dating are you"
chris questions raising an eyebrow.
"well no but he asked me to hocomeing and i said yes"
she shyly squeaks out.
"well thats good for you im happy for you lay lay right babe"
you states looking at chris as he shrugs his shoulders.
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After hocomeing things picked up with your daughter's highschool relationship which didnt neccessarily sit right with Chris being the protective dad he is.
"babe i just dont like that she is growing up so fast like ugh"
chris exclaims distraught out of his mind as he flops on your guys shared bed.
"its fine but arent you happy that she's happy she seem happy"
you reason with him sitting next to his laying figure on the bed.
"yeah i am happy that she is happy i trust her but not him"
chris huffs out as you giggle laying your head on his chest as he rest his hand on top of your hip.
"yeah well whats important is your babygirl is happy right?"
you states leaning your head upward to look up at him and he agrees locking eyes with you and then connecting your guys lips.
"okay lets go we have to go to Matt's house for dinner and see everyone"
chris huffs out as you groan rolling off the bed getting up and going to layla's room.
as you went to knock on the door to let her know you guys were getting ready to leave for dinner you paused hearing what sounded like heavy breathing or moaning of some sort.
"shh shh"
you whisper motion your pointer finger up seeing chris made his way over to where you were in front of your daughters door.
"what do you hear"
he asks you quietly.
"um i think i dont know maybe im crazy..-layla"
you dismiss the thought you had earlier as you begin to turn the knob being meet with well.
"OH MY GOD"
you scream immediately closing the door back looking at chris.
"was that sam were they-"
chris questions as layla finally opens the door peaking her head through.
"hi"
she squeaks out.
"um hi so um we are leaving to go to dinner"
you state treading your words slowly.
"okay let me get dressed"
she huffs closing the door.
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"so we just walked in on our daughter"
you huff out as you and chris are sitting in the car waiting for layla
"gross i dont even ugh"
chris groans placing his hands on his face accepting his daughter pivotal decision. Layla finally hops in the car.
"dad im sorry"
layla pouts out feeling bad that her parents had to walk in on that.
"its okay lover as long as your happy thats all that matters"
chris maturely replies back.
"so how was you know-"
you slowly ask curious as chris begins to chuckle.
"mom gross but it hurt like a bi-"
layla huffs.
"language"
you exclaim as chris chuckles.
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"so wait how did you get caught again"
nicks asks layla as they are sitting waiting for dinner to be served.
"they walked on me and him"
layla groans placing her head in her hands.
"no fucking way"
nick chuckles.
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oh-no-its-bird · 3 hours ago
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You are making me EMOTIONAL thinking about baby kakashi losing his teeth and not having his dad around to ask about things now, not even specifically for fang reasons either 😭😭
I think I was late and lost my first took when I was almost seven and idk exactly when Sakumo died officially but. Idk. Something something the tragedy of potentially not even having a parent around to explain what is going on when you lose a tooth for the first time
I'm so glad u sent this actually bc I was thinking ab wanting to write a post ab this premise but wasn't sure how to phrase or start it
Kid Kakashi struggling through starting to lose his baby teeth after his father dies <33
Google tells me that children start losing their baby teeth around 6, and the general age I've seen for Kakashi when Sakumo kills himself is usually around that same number, so, it works out!!
You bring up such a good and fun point actually in just. Does Kakashi know what's happening to him? Has anyone explained to him that your teeth just naturally fall out when you're little?
One day, Kakashi goes to class and sees Obito, who's a few years older than him, bragging about how he "just lost my tooth the other day"
And Kakashi quietly goes to himself, "wow this guy is so bad at fighting, he got his tooth knocked out and he's happy about it. What a weirdo."
Obito is IGNORING the judgmental stares coming from Kakashi's direction, assuming Kakashi is just jealous of his super cool milestone of growing up
Thinking maybe Obito even comes over to try to brag about it, but Kakashi just goes "??? Why are you bragging about losing your teeth ??? God, you're such a freak"
And Obito is like, "I know ur just jealous BAKASHI. Because you are still a BABY while I am on my way to being a MAN"
And inside Kakashi, still deeply confused and weirded out, is like, 'why the fuck would I be jealous' but outloud he just glares and goes, "I've never lost any of my teeth because I never lose."
To which Obito loses his mind because he's like 9 and to a 9 year old that sounded kind of sick and how DARE Kakashi try and be cool about this
(In the background, Minato is well on his way to losing his mind trying not to laugh. Rin meanwhile is squinting and doing mental math as she tries to tell if Kakashi is joking or not)
But anyways like. Kakashi later losing his own teeth and freaking the fuck out about it. Is he sick? Is he dying? Should he go to the doctor?
Oh my god wait ok but Kakashi cornering Rin after a training session and demands she help diagnose him bc he doesn't want to go to the actual doctor or ask Sensei for help. And Kakashi admitting she's a "good med nin" and Rin is kinda going omg Kakashi conpliment,,,, life goals,,
But also like Kakashi thinks he's dying and she's SUPER flattered he thinks she can help but she's like. 10. And a med nin in training.
So she's kind of sweating like "omg what are ur symptoms, why do u think ur dying?"
And Kakashi is like my "fucking teeth are falling out !!!!!!"
And Rin is like "woah that sounds super scary and seriou— Hold on a second."
Kakashi goes as far as to take off his mask to show her, which goes to show how desperate he is rn because he'd usually never do that.
And Rin is torn between being tempted to pinch his cheek and pull at it like it's Mochi and also like. She's struggling SO hard not to laugh at this point because she knows if she does Kakashi will literally never forgive her
So Rin has to break it to Kakashi as gently as she can (and without laughing or cooing at his cute kid naivety) that don't worry, you aren't dying, this is normal
Kakashi doesn't believe her at first. But when he does he's suddenly overwhelmed by embarrassment. He will never recover. Hes so fucking glad he didn't actually go to the doctor or to sensei because at least Rin he can swear to secrecy FOREVER
Kakashi has to deal with his suddenly too big for his mouth adult fangs and keeps going to Rin to help heal the cuts they keep leaving on his lips ,,,,
Somehow Obito catches wind of this, and hears "Rin + helping with Kakashi's lips (???)" And thinks they're kissing and loses his goddamn mind in spectacular fashion.
Toddler drama....
Idk where Im really going with this, it ended up taking a life of its own
Uhhh anyways. Moving this conversation entirely:
You can copy pasted this exact concept onto Naruto for a really funny (and kind of awful) au where Naruto loses his first tooth and becomes convinced he's dying
He does actually try to go to the hospital but they try to turn him away, but when he blurts out that he's scared he's dying a particularly mean spirited doctor pretends to examine him then goes "oh no. You really are dying and have a week to live. Boohoo."
Naruto loses his fucking mind and makes a "things I want to do before I die" bucket list and then spends the next week desperatley trying to complete it bc hes convinced he's gonna die on the final day
This list includes but is not limited to:
- become Hokage
- start a family
- eat every single different kind of ramen on Ichiraku's menu
Idk how to make the first and third especially funny but like.
"Starting a family" ending up somehow leading to Naruto very aggressively trying to get literally anyone to hold his hand in a similar fashion to "Uchiha Sasuke's 10 step plan to get revenge" where Sasuke tries to get Shikamaru to marry him in his quest to "live a good life" to get revenge on Itachi, while Naruto hears Sasuke is looking for a husband and very loudly tries to get him to pick him instead
Which is actually a really fucking funny one on its own and now I'm just thinking about that instead, so I'll leave this post here
I got a little distracted, but. Thank you for ur ask !!!
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musicfeedsmysoul12 · 12 hours ago
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ok i'm placing this in an au you don't write for anymore so if you're not comfortable writing that's understandable but i figured since it's just a setting and not the actual characters and you wouldn't have to deal with the fans i'd still try to ask
but anyways Brain Dead Ship in Miraculous Ladybug AU
I like the setting. It’s fun, it’s just the fandom was toxic for me. But anyway…
1. Danny gets the Black Cat by accident and now he has a god eating all his cheese! Luckily Plagg is a nice guy who is to bad. (And if Plagg is more a father than his own, Danny doesn’t bring it up. Nor does the tiny God.) Tim however opens a box his parents had and hey, flying bug! Now though Tim realizes he can be a hero! This is like before either become heroes.
2. Danny still goes into the portal despite Plagg hissing not to fucking do it. He still becomes Phantom and all, having Plagg to keeps his identity even more hidden. The powers of the Black Cat help him a lot. Meanwhile Tim is running around Gotham as a magical super hero while jumping Bruce who is deep in mourning to knock the guy out to drag him to safety. Diana coming just has her praising the new Ladybug holder.
3. Fast forward. Danny is in college and moves to Gotham. A reveal went down and it went… well it went. His parents are in shock over what happened. They aren’t… doing well. No harm is done but it’s not good. Meanwhile Tim is part of the Batfam as the feral son who routinely jumps them to drag them to bed or the such if they need it.
4. Tikki and Plagg recognize each other and drag their holders together. It’s crush at first sight and the two begin dating. It’s just pure adorableness.
5. The rest of the Miraculous are scattered and now the two have to team up so they can find them all instead of leaving the world to destruction as anyone can find them!
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writingpiecesak · 18 hours ago
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Jealous much?
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Bakugou lovesss it when you’re jealous.
And I mean he loves it. It’s not a reoccurring problem/issue in your relationship with him since he’s always been one to reassure you, in his own way, and you were always chill about these things.
These things being:
Girls writing love letters to him his junior year.
Girls confessing their love for him senior year.
Sororities inviting him out to group dinners (he wasn’t even in any frat houses).
Even on the street, if he’s just hanging with his boys, women gather the courage and hand him their number. To which he simply takes and watches the shred of hopefulness fills their eyes and literally explodes the piece of paper on fire.
He says it makes him laugh.
But this time. Ohh, this time your buttons and patience was being tested. If you didn’t know any better you’d say this was an elaborate prank for Katsuki to see how’d you react.
The one girl just wasn’t taking the hint. Or maybe she was and she simply isn’t taking no for an answer.
You stepped away from your boyfriend momentarily to see if the retail associate can find your size in their inventory while Bakugou mindlessly walked around checking out the store. That’s when this regular looking girl walked up to him and started a casual friendly conversation. It wasn’t anything bad at first until…
“So, would you wanna grab coffee sometime?” Her lashes fluttered.
“Uh, no.”
“No? Why not? It’s just coffee.” She chuckled lightly.
“I have a girlfriend.”
“Oh, well..I don’t see her.”
That. That one comment changed your whole attitude.
Most of the time when Bakugou says ‘no’ the girls nod their head and walk away. Half the time when he says ‘I have a girlfriend’ they apologize and wish him a good day and walk away. Rarely when Bakugou takes their number and burst it into flames is when they usually didn’t take the hint.
But this was just down right nasty. First not respecting his answer of ‘no’ , and second asking ‘why not’ when she shouldn’t just taken the no as an answer. And third! She didn’t seem to care or mind that he has a girlfriend, you!
You scoffed upon hearing this close by, marched right back to over the two and immediately matched her energy.
“Now you see her.” You said while wrapping your hand around Katsuki’s biceps, giving it a small squeeze of ‘I got this’.
The bitchy girl just smirked and replied, “I don’t see much.”
“Bitch you’re about to see a whole lot.” You threaten taking two steps forward. Luckily, your man stepped in.
“Fuck off.”
He grabbed your wrist and lead you both away before she can throw another snarky comment. You huffed and puffed in anger and annoyance, not believing there are girls/women in this world who simply don’t act like a girls girl when going after a guy. You argued, mostly to yourself, about the way you would’ve liked to wipe that smirk off the girls face. How you would’ve wanted to have her ‘fake ass lashes ripped off and stuffed in her mouth’ (in your words).
“Oh! You’re laughing! You think this is soo funny?”
“Actually yes.”
“Suki!” You stomped your foot once he released your wrist.
He brought his face closer to you at eye level, his hand snaking its way to your waist and placing a soft kiss on your temple. He then lowered his lips to your ears and whispered.
“You’re so fucking hot when you’re jealous. I need you right now.”
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indulgentnine · 3 days ago
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“Oh fuck, you got the real obsessed ones. We can likely get you some better security in the online factor if you like where your big guy can’t reach,” Velvette hummed, though amused by this. Those types were in the norm to her, and she often put them on blast, or they were struck down before she even saw the worst of it by her own team. As much as she would rather laugh at the material.
As the phone was shown to her, she looked over the outfit given and let out a whistle in reaction. “Even better then, darling. Making sure you’re not embarrassed for that kind of wear right off the bat cause you were going to be put in it anyway,” she comments and leans over to boldly zoom in and move around the photo to see some of the work on the piece.
“Not too bad, but we’re better than Lust’s fashion. We’ll get you into the good shit. It’ll have those weirdos clawing at the merch like they need it to survive,” she gleams, already excited at the high profits to be made from the holiday and the prospect overall, “This Opal, one of your managers? I’ll be speaking to her as well then. In-person or over the phone, it doesn’t matter. We’ll have some terms set for how much can be shown. Don’t want to spoil all the goods or you’ll just be pushed to Val’s department.”
Pulling away from his phone, she looked at her own with a flick through some of her contacts. “You got a bloody good body going and I can figure out how to make look even better, love. Contrasts will be our friend perhaps with how your skin pops. Focus a lot on the hips, maybe some ads for heart shapes made from them in the posing. Bitches love that shit.” This brainstorming she often did on her own with specialized staff, but she found herself just rambling on now with Gritt.
"More in the know? I got weirdos sending me soiled underwear, and pictures of plushies that look like me in jars. It's... freaky, but I've kinda gotten used to it. Shi keeps them far away from me." Gritt said, he'd reached THAT kind of fame level.
"I've done some revealing wear before. Sultry Styles in Lust needed someone to show off some of their new stuff, Opal and I had a talk about it and agreed to some. Uh... hang on, think I can find it." Gritt pulled out his own phone, scrolling until he found a picture, "Like this."
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Slim build with a set of hips, even for a guy he had a good frame. His scars weren't visible with the clothes he wore, other than the diamond shape on his head, however they were very obvious in this picture. Imp scars always turned white.
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edwinisms · 7 months ago
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I know how it sounds at first, but I really gotta feel bad for the boys that sacrificed edwin; I mean even the term “sacrificed edwin” paints them in a more sinister light than they really deserve– considering that wasn’t really, actually their intention.
they were bullies, they were homophobic (and/or were self loathing gay boys themselves taking it out on edwin, or were equally likely peer pressured into acting a certain way), they planned something stupid and mean to do to an innocent, anxious boy with the goal of scaring the shit out of him, all because he was effeminate and an easy target. but they didn’t know or expect any of the ritual stuff to be real. they were all laughing and joking during the ritual because it was just that to them– a joke. a cruel joke, but a joke.
teenagers can be mean and stupid and they usually regret it as adults and grow out of it / grow from it. they were stifled the chance to grow out of it, at least while alive. none of those boys deserved to be instakilled and sent to hell; they’re really not that much less deserving than edwin himself. they were all just kids, after all.
#random thought but. yeah……#I mean think about if crystal happened to be killed somehow pre-demonic intervention#she would’ve been deemed deserving of hell by the standards we’ve seen. no doubt about it. if the dragon guys were pulled to hell then yeah.#she would be as well. simply put- she was a bully#she was also a teenager. not a fully developed person. a very damaged and neglected teenager at that#it’s kinda like the criminal justice system right. it’s like. hey you really think sending them to be tormented is the most humane and#efficient way to heal these kids of what makes them act out and allow them to grow and improve?#Crystal’s such a good case to look at because she’s. well. to compare to The Good Place which you can probably already tell I’ve watched 800#times and adore with all my heart. she’s kinda the michael of the group#no one knows it at first but she’s actually kind of a terror to people most of the time. but she’s put in a situation where she#suddenly has a support system- people who care about her and want the best for her- she’s given a purpose and realizes how much better it is#to use her powers to help rather than hurt (well. sometimes helping can involve hurting but you get it)#and by the time she’s regained her memories and has a place in the agency it’s much easier to reflect on her life and be like huh!#this system kinda fucking sucks!#not that edwin wasn’t an example unto himself but he was a ‘clerical error’ not a ‘rightfully’ condemned person#with his situation someone could argue that the problem isn’t with the system being wack as a whole- it should just be maintained better so#these ‘errors’ don’t happen and all the good kids go to their afterlives and the Bad Evil Kids go to hell.#yes yes I know they’re not in hell forever (hopefully) but uhh Simon was still there for over a century and for fucking What?#gay self-loathing and catholic guilt? his intentions were clearly not Truly Evil and more than anything he seems to have been punished using#how much he hated himself for being gay and how guilty he felt for it all. like shit aren’t those feelings enough of a punishment? if he had#lived through that ritual and edwin hadn’t– do you think he would’ve been Okay? I think it would’ve crushed him. chronically#man. anyway#this was an especially long ramble huh#rambling#edwin#edwin payne#dead boy detectives
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itshomobirb · 2 months ago
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if my parents keep talking to me im going to (remembers that suicide jokes are bad for mental health) go outside and dig a hole to narnia
#borbtalks#'borb u got a letter from vsp. why are you paying for vsp. i dont think u need it bc of xyz. oh you're getting mail from y insurance?#they're a good company. im also covered under them. are they cheaper than ur previous one? they must be. did u know medicare has a page#online where u can compare all the plans? well did you? ik you've been on medicare longer than me but idk if you knew :/#sooo do u have a valid drivers license? oh when did u get it renewed? when does it expire? we were looking at car insurance earlier...#oh btw when are they gonna reevaluate u for disability? do u know? when did they last reevaluate u? when do they reevaluate others?#ANYWAY. what if i brought over x's dog. the dog that stresses ur cats out so much that they puke everywhere and spend all day hiding :)#wdym it'll stress [cat] out. what if he. didn't get stressed? :)'#like SHUT UP SHUT UP SHUT UP#cant even walk into the bathroom without her trying to talk to me. can't make dinner w/o her trying to talk to me#and of course im the bad guy in telling her not to stress the cat out#just by saying 'vet says he's not supposed to get stressed out. he's at a higher risk for blockage if he does#which will KILL him.'#same woman who sat next to me while i was the phone w/ the phone company. petting the cat and whispering 'oh borb abuses u doesn't he?#maybe ill just steal you away one day. keep u away from borb. oh yes borb treats u oh so horribly.'#and my dad. sitting on the other side of me. said absolutely nothing.#i get it. im the family's designated fuck up!! the designated brat !!!! and no one gives a shit if my feelings get hurt !!!!!!!#i swear. my mother could smack me and everyone would rush to her side and comfort her stinging hand
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indi-glo-archive · 8 months ago
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the young royals fandom is so fucking weird about sara and i hate them for it
#i don't even think it's that the whole fandom is weird about sara. there's a good bit of people who are chill about it#i think the people who are weird about sara just won't stfu about it#like. i have had two blogs. my current blog is very tiny too. and every time i've made a sympathetic post about sara i get a negative ask#i get told i'm just projecting and my own autism means i don't understand her as well as they do#i get told she's a uniquely terrible person for her actions when the show is about teenagers all making mistakes#and being complex people#i get bad faith interpretations of her every action that don't dismiss her potential motives or ways she's been mistreated#i get told 'well yeah she has autism but that doesn't mean she's allowed to [complicated way to say be autistic]'#and this is all while the rich white prince is repeatedly forgiven for fucking with his partner's feelings for 3 seasons#bc 'he has anxiety!! it's soooo hard being a prince!'#which like. i'm not saying there's anything wrong with that. i'm the fucking ben hope guy and i try not to be hypocritical#but in the interest of not being hypocritical why him and not her#outside of racism and misogyny and selective ableism against people with more stigmatized disorders and classism#and also the shipping bias i mentioned the other day. bc people really glossed over him basically abusing his boyfriend this whole season#just bc they wanted wilmon endgame#it is. exhausting. fuck y'all fr#anyways. instead of responding to the ask i'm doing this vent post on a separate account#hashtag growth if you remember og indi-glo
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because-its-so-sharp · 2 years ago
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"It’s reasonable to assume based on the Zuko Alone flashbacks that Azula has no qualms about what she says. Assuming she is 8 at the youngest, that’s certainly old enough to understand what is and isn’t appropriate to say and understand it’s affects on other people"
.... .... ... guys .... let's take a moment.....at that point she's:
(1) an eight-year-old
(2) raised in a violent authoritarian warmonger culture
(3) by her father the narcissist lord of it all
(4) and her mother who doesn't like her (and gleefully laughs while reading Iroh's war letter out loud to her children...kay)
Please tell me that you don't think that an eight year old with such an extremist upringing can be held accountable for *anything*. I repeat *anything*
... burning a doll? (This one is so ridiculous... lets just stop with the doll its getting embarrassing).
...and for saying saying Iroh is weak for giving up after Lu Ten's death?
Um
She's been raised as princess of the fire nation.
Your dear Lu Ten and Iroh spent their adult lives at war killing earth benders and destroying countless families ... six hundred day siege much?
They did that because they were raised to think and act like that. To think honor in battle is the most important thing and the right thing.
So if you want to hold an eight year old, (or a fourteen year old), who has been raised completely isolated in this culture, accountable for some shit she says or burns... or the missions she carries out as a child soldier for her nation... that's creepy.
You either literally cannot understand the situation (which.. alright) or you scare me for adultifiying a young child.
She's a child that was used as a war machine by her father and nothing else.
If you're nine and you see daddy burning big brother's face off for disrespecting the rule of honor... mmm what would you do? Suddenly realize that imperialism and war is bad and your father doesn't love you for you but for how you can serve him in the field?
I mean Iroh did realize that the FN was wrong (kind of)... when he was well into his forties.. after waging war for 600 days on Ba Sing Se and losing his son over it.
And it took Zuko only three years away from the fire nation, constant unconditional love from Iroh and a betrayal, to realize the FN was wrong.
(Which is human and normal and good for them).
But you're telling me... the eight year old that was daddy's favorite (daddy = extremely violent and strict, narcissistic, who uses his own daughter as a child soldier until she has a psychotic break) should know better? Or the fourteen year old who risks her life mission after mission for her nation? (Defeating the Avatar is literally the most deadly mission you can give your child).
Azula threw her life away for her nation and father.
She risked her life on every mission, dedicated her time to training obsessively and stuyding her enemies, to the point where she can't hold a conversation with a kid her age without it turning to be about the war.
That's not evil, it's horrifically sad and scary.
Dude this is the girl that *sobbed* at her mother's hallucination telling her she loved her.
Because deep down she knew damn well that Ozai only loved her as his personal soldier and shield (DoBS). And her mom ... idk best case she couldn't show Azula love, worst case she didn't love her, both because she projected Ozai onto her.
Tdlr; Fuck Iroh's stupid doll.
And
*if you use the same measurements and standards on Azula which you use on Iroh and Zuko*, then Azula is an angel and her future is an endless field trip of "redemption" (which she doesn't need).
Someone get the girl out of the straight-jacket, out of the asylum and far away from her family and the war front. Jesus.
Dude if this was the real world a teenager who was this traumatized and abused, while at the same time completely unloved and abandoned by everybody ro be locked up in an asylum strapped into a straight jacket would off themselves.
Controversial AtLA opinion?+headcanon
Iroh was never misogynistic/ignorant towards Azula and her mental health.
Yes, in B2E9 Bitter Work, he tells Zuko that she’s crazy and needs to go down when Zuko thinks Iroh would want them to get along. But Iroh’s interactions with females in the show have never been misogynistic. Yes, he’s pretty creepy towards Jun but he doesn’t think she’s ‘lesser’/‘not worthy’ or whatever. He believes in Yue when they had to save the moon spirit. He’s nothing but grateful to the earth kingdom mother/daughter that heal his rash and feed him and Zuko. He talks with Toph and even says ‘I didn’t pour your tea because you can’t, but because I wanted to’. He knows Toph’s not an invalid and is nothing but polite to her. He does accidentally misgender Smellerbee, but after she snaps at him, he immediately apologizes and corrects himself so I wouldn’t really say that’s misogynistic.
I HC that Azula SAID something horrible to Iroh which caused him to cut ties/stop trying to help her. During the Zuko Alone episode, we see flashbacks of Zuko and Azula (who appear to be 11 and 8ish respectively). She talks about Iroh dying in the war nonchalantly and burns a doll he got her (cuz she didn’t like it). Being around 8-9 or so and casually mentioning family members dying isn’t normal so I think she vocalized her opinions to Iroh (or at least enough for him to find out). I think Iroh would try at first to get through to Azula, but Ozai just had too much influence over her. He stopped trying to help her completely when Zuko and Ozai had the Agni Kai and the former was banished, choosing to support his nephew (since it’s clear by this time that Ozai favored Azula).
He was able to redirect Azula’s lightning and throw her off her ship in B2E1 and he’s able to hold her and a bunch of Dai Li agents off w/ Zuko long enough to escape in the B2 finale. He even held Azula, Zuko and the Dai Li agents off to help Katara escape w/ Aang’s body as well. I definitely think that whatever happened between them, happened vocally/with words. Iroh can stand up to Azula’s bending (while Zuko had to train) so I think Azula would know that the way to get to Iroh would be with words (like how she baits Sokka w/ Suki in the Black Sun eps).
So yeah, I guess that’s it. The gist:
Iroh isn’t misogynistic/ignorant towards Azula and her mental health, but rather, something happened between them that caused Iroh to cut ties (Azula saying something incredibly awful to him seems most likely).
A lot of things with Azula seem open to interpretation but based on Iroh’s interactions with other females, he doesn’t seem like a misogynist, so if he’s only ‘like this’ with Azula, I feel that’s more of a personal issue with Azula herself and not ‘females’ in general.
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lesbiansanemi · 3 days ago
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Currently trying not to vomit over the fact that I essentially just lost almost a thousand dollars brb
#why me. why is it always fucking me am I just not allowed to have good things WHAT have I done to earn this kinda karma#my stupid fucking idiot roommate decided to resign the lease at the complex so I naturally contacted the landlords like hey. how does that#work with the security deposit cuz I paid that years before she even moved in do you guys need to come inspect the place after I leave#and they were like oh no ☺️ it just carries over to her. and I’m like. so. so even though I am not living here nor am on the lease#whether or not I get NINE HUNDRED FUCKING DOLLARS BACK hinges on this JACKASS not wrecking the place???? actually not even then because say#she DOESNT wreck the place when she moves out TURNS OUT the deposit goes to her cuz it’s her name and account attached to the fucking#apartment and I’m just left sitting here like how. how is that fucking fair how does that make fucking sense I have to trust that she doesnt#ruin the place OR GET FUCKING EVICTED BECAUSE SHE HAS NO JOB AND NO WAY TO PAY RENT and then also trust her to just give it to me when she#moves out. I’m actually sick I’m actually gonna fucking throw up and the landlords were like yes exactly ☺️ perhaps you could work something#out with her and she could buy you out of it and I’m just like. she doesn’t have a job she still hasn’t paid me for LAST months utilities#let alone this months do you HONESTLY THINK she is EVER going to pay me the 900 dollars I’m fucking owed#and it’s like does this actually affect anything? no. I didn’t budget with that money cuz I didn’t actively have it and that’s not smart but#like…. 900 dollars….. I could have paid off the rest of my credit card with that and also it’s just infuriating that that money is basically#just being GIVEN to this fucking bitch who I KNOW is not gonna keep that apartment in good shape and that’s again if she somehow doesn’t get#her ass evicted cuz she’s not paying bills why they even LET her sign her own lease there I do not understand she literally has no proof of#income but ig they probably didn’t check that cuz she technically already lived there I’m just so. I’m so tired and I’m so done can I PLEASE#stop being the one who constantly gets screwed fucking over in EVERY situation no matter fucking what#while all these fucking idiots and shitty fucking ppl get whatever they want and actively BENEFIT from me getting fucked over???? I’m done.#I’m so fucking done I am never living with someone ever again never being finanacially tied to anyone fucking again and you know what. thats#great goes well with me basically being convinced atp to never be vulnerable with anyone ever again and never trust anyone ever again and#never dedicate ANY part of my life in a genuine sense to anyone ever again I will be fucking alone in every sense for THE REST of my fucking#life and that’s that. it’ll be better. this kinda shit will stop happening. financially emotionally psychologically I will stop suffering#because holy fucking shit I can’t do it anymore man I’m sick of it I’m sick of trying to be a good person and depend on people and be#vulnerable and always uphold my side of the responsibilities and arrangements just to get fucking spit on like man if this is what being a#shit person gets ppl maybe I should try because they sure seem to get all the benefits and whatever the hell they want consistently and#always while I try and be considerate of others and devote myselves to them and this is all I fucking get for it#and ik I KNOW this is just the straw on the camels back and this is a lot of issues compounding and it’s not even about the money atp#but I’m just. I’m so fucking sick and tired and beaten down and I’m tired of trying I just want to be completely on my own#so at least if bad things happen or I feel like shit I only have myself to blame and it’s safer that way and I’ll have to stop feeling like#this and dealing with these types of things UGH
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holoship · 1 month ago
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rewatching blood hungry makes me desperate 2 write terrible incomprehensible posts abt cm series 1 + 2 and psychosis/schzospec stuff and spencer <3
#o#i was thinking last week abt the part in imagining autism where the author writes a bit abt spencer in her analysis of the autistic#detective trope and i like tht book and i like and agree w/ a lot of her analysis of the trope and spencer in gen#but she does sort of skim over the schizophrenia stuff#and also i dont agree w/ her attribution of spencer saying 'i know wht its like to be afraid of ur own mind' purely to his autism#whn in the same ep he brings up diana's diagnosis and its still like firmly in tht s1/2 schizo scare story 'arc' lol (altho i dont disagree#entirely as the show often kind of conflates the two and not in like a well resrearched clinical overlap way haha)#but i guess thts also kind of a bigger issue at large in like all non-schizo communities haha#invoking schizospec stuff in any discussion not abt or by the community always gets ppls backs up lol#anyway i just think its interesting 2 see the divide in both the shows narative arnd spencer and like fan/critical interpretation of spence#in regards 2 him being autistic vs being schizospec#(not tht those r mutually exclusive lol thts literally me)#but i just feel like schizophrenia being this looming Threat above his head is such a weird addition 2 a sort of generic#schizo psychos fucked up crime show (my FAVOURITE shcizo psychos fucked up crime show tho fejr)#like its not GOOD but its interesting to me tht they sort of do two types of bad schizo rep at once#and blood hungry is my fav bad psychosis rep cause they do the mandatory 'psychotics r usually less violent thn the average populations <3'#line while also being like 'this guys a fucking PSYCHO' every two seconds fejrfe#and im being serious tht is very funny to me !!!!!!!!!!#blorp ..... anyway#trying 2 be serious abt tv!autism and tv!schizophrenia and tv!psychosis is kind of pointless perhaps haha
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fappellmoan · 1 year ago
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every time theres a ruby edit the search is ruby cruz boyfriend. leave her alone!
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horrorwebs · 1 year ago
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why are men literally the fucking worst
#theres a guy in one of my uni friend groups who has a crush on my friend also from the friend group#and she feels so so uncomfortable plus she hasnt done ANYTHING thatd give a hint that she likes him back. bc she doesnt#and now she doesnt feel ok around because hes so attached to her and so so needy and its like. well. way to fuck it up dude. fuck you#he has been acting so strange lately and not in a good way. strange awkward and needy and like. possesive.#her and i also have another friendgroup where frankly i feel much better with and she does too. and its like. well the guy is always like#butting in but now really being part of anything? like its not like he comes over to the grouo to be with all of us hes just sort of . there#talking only to her or sometimes me but its like not nice its weird and annoying#ALSO HES SO PATRONIZING TOWARDS HER ITS AWFUL#AND hes like. a bit older.... where its not like. the weirdest age gap i dont think so. but it IS a bit weird considering some of the things#he has said. like the other day he made a comment about how my friend 'well shes so young like people her age sometimes dont get [x]' like?#if you think she is SOOO young and SOOO out of touch with people your age well why the fuck are you asking others if you have a chance w her#get away from her really#sidenote: today she was telling me and a different friend about this problem and my other friend said it was really uncomfortable and bad +#that he used to think the guy had a thing for ME BEFORE??? and i dont know if he also thought -i- had a thing for him but please god no.#even the hypothetical made me feel super uncomfortable. also i used to feel like that a bit like he might like me and it was bad and gross#so i dropped a comment that let him believe i was a lesbian i think? also got much colder towards him . like. thats what you get fucker#about the lesbian thing i meant that he told me about a friend of his that had it hard coming out as a lesbian and i said like oh yeah being#like that was hard for me also. finding out i was not straight was tough etc .#dont remember if i said the word lesbian i dont think so but i did say i like girls and i didnt mention boys at all so i hoped itd be enough#also people dont really -get- what being asexuas means + didnt want to tell him im ace + techically i Can like boys bc romantic attraction#is undefined to me but i was definetely not going to tell him that bc 1. im much more prone to like a girl and 2. not trying to get his hope#up.#so anyway it was gross to realize other people saw it too so i mightve actually not been insane to think he had a crush on me but it was bad#and also. i really need for my friend to be comfortable in class so i might have to kill him who knows. well see#spikeposting#personal
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silverselfshippingchaos · 6 months ago
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r.une is so awesome! he's the kindest guy ever and I always drop by the thieves guild whenever I'm not doing anything just to hear his pretty voice
#ash rambles 💚#and he's handsome!#steal me away 🐉#ugh it's been so long since i've played s.kyrim#or uh. anything other than c.yberpunk#school keeps me busy and#i also got some wisdom teeth removed today! and two other teeth! it's... not the most comfortable! I'm trying to stay chill about it but#FUCK i miss solid food so much#anyways I'll try my best to get some sleep! I'm trying to downplay it but it's probably not a good idea to like. not rest after all that#so yeah if i havent been as activate as of late it's just a mixture of that + school + me trying to platinum cy.berpunk 2077#i think I'm at about 75% trophy achievement? which isnt bad at all#sorry i was talking about r.une#s.kyrim has ass lighting but. his eyes are actually green! i just think he's sooooo handsome!#I can't really kiss since my face is all swollen but i am mentally kissing him all over! he's just such a sweet guy! i know i ship with a#lot of men that are a little rough around the edges but. not him#he's just a genuinely nice guy#(ignorethat hes part of the thieves guild)#oh speaking of I've started to play o.ctopath 2 again. starting to drag myself out of my gaming slump#it's just... been such a crazy last few weeks. with school and life and my mouth... and the roadtrip in which our tire went kaboom in the#middle of nowhere.. everyone is okay but it's still definitely a moment that made me go 'what the hell is wrong with ash's life' LMAAAOO#gonna save that story for the grandkids! BAHAHAHAHAA#oh speaking of kiddos. i've been developing the kiddo for s.eifer a lot as of late! her name is selena + she wields a gunblade like her pap#and just like how her papa has a thing for s.quall (/hj) she has a thing for s.quall's kid LMAAAOO#ah shit it's almost 3am.. I'm gonna go to sleep! i should rest after today#good night my friends#or. well. good morning. since you know. it's so late ajdkahsjq#I'll get back to the regularly scheduled f/o posting eventually <3#your knight until the end 🤍#also also I've been reading john koenigs the dictionary of obscure sorrows and annotating it like the nerd i am. fucking hell it's so good#apologies to all my friends who keep getting spammed with me analyzing it LMAAAAOO y'all are the best
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unproduciblesmackdown · 1 year ago
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also quite the illustration in wags being like "'not asking permission' - wags" and plowing through someone expressing a physical boundary but he was already intending to use physical violence & violation & assumed corresponding distress as a tool to get his way....amidst the typicality, "correctness," permissibility of all that around here like five times an hour
#winston billions#and in all ways like the [oh well but at least it's Not That Bad(tm)] / some theoretical peak lasting physical harm....not that relevant#not unlike how billions didn't need to put all that effort into supposedly not yet going ''yeah prince is the worst ofc'' in s6#like oh he repeatedly took advantage of someone (not a cis man) he's ceo of; early 20s/abt the age of his kids so he could have sex#but then we have to be going ''oh but well at least it's Not That Bad'' like yeah wow & that doesn't matter That Much / make it That Good#it's all operating on the same logic & principles & that is the issue; there'll always be some theoretical worse instance....#and what's it do for what's deemed [worse instances] to then just use that against ''lesser'' instances#rian out here apparently w/no idea abt power but also somehow aware she has to assert Fault for it herself thinking emoticon#but also rian being clueless / continuing not to think abt shit at all / maybe thinking fucking an old man makes her Mature is all like#more stuff that doesn't quite coalesce into anything consistent & instead is all incompletely gestured at as some Explanation Aggregate#sorry i've noticed that this is a leaking bag of gravel labeled ''rian'' and not a character#anyways. and wendy Would do aba & ppl Do already give the organic aba & it's abusive. check the ''not abt ppl's wellbeing'' & the ppl who#get to be In Charge of anyone else & the ''corrected'' ppl Not getting to be treated as people#rian's treatment of winston....all the Aggressive behavior only allowed to Some & that serves to get those people's ways#all the demeaning treatment directed at ppl so that someone can try using them as a stepstool for their feelings / ego#&/or simply to try to get their [being a person] to stop being a roadblock to their existence aligning w/only what you want from them#next episode sure could be about how Actually This Place Is Horrible For Its Own Employees; it has been; it'll continue to be....#like a great time to deal with that. if wendy wants to consider if she's actually not doing anything Good here then like time for that too#might convince everyone else to (a) not quit for their own sakes & maybe even also (b) see wendy to make her feel better. again.#but maybe we still lose winston as the guy who (a) gets to peace out & (b) is just having one of the more miserable times over there#taylor's busier; sometimes in englander; no tmc niche; not close enough to tuk to chat; dollar bill's here; rian won't let him speak....#and whether taylor Themself being unable to convince winston to return gets them thinking abt things & stuff. not like they've been unaware#at all of this Environment being hostile & miserable lol but nobody just kind of matter of factly wanders out w/o Basically being pushed...#& it's been a minute since they were a fellow nonboss employee. & maybe Winston quitting just shakes up assumptions & then why not question#more things & like; even if they suppose they're fine enough for Now & Could be happy w/a billion or their own place or something like#maybe you too can just walk out you can leave w/o having been forced to some Crisis Breaking Point about it#and not spend years more at the sunk cost factory of more problems worse times etc etc....a concept#&/or idk maybe also just pondering like oh also the way people here or anywhere are negatively affected even if you werent paying attention#this is all still operating off the one theory though of course#but also the actual text of this post needs no further canon info or context to be True / about what it is lmao. wags die challenge
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