#nonegativity

[supersonicob]

So something highly interesting happened to me yesterday 03-12-25. Ok so on the previous evening I went onto Facebook to see if my long lost friend would respond to me since he was so upset with me about choosing my now recent ex over him… I expected him to either ignore me or say he’s not interested in even hanging out. But surprisingly he did respond and he even excepted my invitation to hang out at a local jazz club. So before I went to work yesterday afternoon we hung out and talked and he did something so surprising and unexpected. He leaned down and kissed me. Now this guy is 6’5 so I legit feel like a tiny person standing next to him and I’m 5’5. So to hug me and kiss me he has to bend at the knees to get to my level or lean over. It’s quite entertaining to me honestly. So anywho, we got to talking and come to find out he’s no longer upset with my choice I made 12 months ago and he is just happy to “have me back” and made a statement that he’s not going to let me go this time around. It was endearing to me to hear a man say these words to me when all this time I thought I would end up single until the got damn apocalypse.

I guess it’s safe to say I am now in a new relationship with my friend I honestly should have married 18 years ago. Both of us are mad that soooooo much time was wasted for us. But we also both agree that everything we went through personally in our lives taught us valuable lessons and we have waaaaay better insight on life in general. And we both have our beloved children we do not regret having. ( even though we regret the person we had them from/with, we do not regret our mini humans though) we know we belonged together years ago after 1 month of hanging out.

so my friend/new boyfriend really helped me lift up my mood. Because on the 11th I was making my drive home from St.Augustine Fl. (My place of zen and peace) and I ended up making myself cry at the realization that I wasted AAAAALL my adult life spending countless hours, years, energy, MONEY, and time on unworthy people. I’ve spent hundreds of thousands of dollars at this point on people I thought I could make something work with. But I was brutally rebuffed and manipulated. (I guess i didn’t have as good a judge of character as I assumed I did) so that realization broke me down and I made a vow to myself that I needed to put that kind of love and time and energy into MY DAMN SELF! Every time I have the thought to buy myself something new and nice I instantly get “BUYERS REMORSE “ but let it be the idea to buy something for someone else, and my brain goes “ yeah let’s make it rain BIG HEADS on this UNWORTHY MANIPULATIVE NARCISSISTIC MALE” I throw bands without any remorse/regret at all. And for years it perplexed me as to why my brain functions like that. Things I need or nice things my baby wanted, I would put it off and postpone the purchase for weeks that turned into months, but if it was for a “friend” or “boyfriend” it was instantaneous. And it made me angry when I’d think about that. So like I said on 3-11-25 I made a vow to myself that I needed to make up for 41 years of self neglect and putting myself last or at the bottom of the stack. If I see something nice I want or felt I needed then I won’t put it off, I’d buy it. And tell that “Buyers Remorse” vibe to stand down. And I felt uplifted and happy with my vow. Especially the love I gave away to “friends” and “boyfriends” I needed to give that love to myself. And I understood that in this society people are not focused on relationships this society is broken. But then my friend came back into the picture and is saying he’s not going to miss another opportunity of us not being together.

Yesterday the 12th when we hung out. As I mentioned he was showering me with so much love 💗 the cuddles the kisses 😘 the hugs 🫂 it came at like every 15 min intervals it was so cute and much needed. I shared with him how mean the recent ex really turned out to be and he made his statements about him. He was understanding of what dude’s personality disorder is and then said that it is OUR time to make it work out. And I couldn’t agree more with him. So what started out as a friendly invite for a drink or two at a local jazz lounge. Has now turned into something special, that new anniversary date went from 03-03-24 TO NOW 03-12-25 (lowkey the date makes me giggle when I go to my calendar) for the simple fact that it should have been my friend this whole time and I should have listened to him when I told him over video chat I had chosen the other dude to be my man, his reply was to squash it instantly and break it off with him THAT SAME DAY. But I didn’t listen. So here we have come full circle on the same damn month as last year and it’s just the date that changed. And all is the way it should have been since ages ago. And we have both decided to make up for lost time. I’m still keeping my vow though. I need to give myself back the love I dished out to so many unworthy people from the ages of 18 to now. I’m just happy to have my friend back who’s just randomly made himself my man so he doesn’t lose me again (his words).

Funny how life turns out.

[theloulouge]

Life Lens - Entry 240

At this point in my life, I really don’t want to hear any negative talk about other people. Their issues and drama are their business, not mine. I’ve learned that getting involved in other people’s negativity only brings me down and distracts me from my own growth. I’d rather focus on the positive aspects of life and surround myself with people who uplift and inspire me. Everyone has their own…

[realtalkwithmattycom]

Be a hero

#realtalkwithmatty #MindfulnessCoaching #HeroMindset #SelfCareFirst #MindfulBalance #PositiveVibesOnly #MindfulWellnessCoach #DramaFreeLife #MentalWellbeing #SelfLove #PositiveMentalAttitude #WellbeingMatters #NoMoreMiserablePeople #FocusOnYourself #NoNegativity #MindfulLivingCoach #PrioritizeYourself #ChooseHappiness #ProtectYourPeace #beahero #SelfPreservation #NoToxicity #SaveYourself

[michelleofficialsblog]

With words unkind they seek to harm,

A tool they use to break and disarm.

But little do they know of happiness true,

Their own pain they spread, like a venomous brew.

For the weak of heart, they take their aim,

To inflict wounds that scar and maim.

Yet strength lies not in causing pain,

But in finding joy despite the rain.

Their own inner turmoil, they cannot face,

So they lash out in a bitter embrace.

Their ignorance blinds them to the light,

And they wallow in darkness, devoid of sight.

But do not be swayed by their cruel ways,

For your spirit can withstand their malicious plays.

With resilience and faith, you can rise above,

And find happiness and peace, like a soaring dove.

So let their words fall like drops in the sea,

For your heart and soul are free to be.

No amount of hate can break your core,

For love and joy are forevermore

[derww]

bacowaffles0

to make a video about coolest ever lifesteal arc: ❌❌❌

to make a video about fucking pandas: ✅✅✅

[nadiajustbe]

Absolutely no negativity to this, it's just... will someone tell them that's not how it works lmao??

[mr-shimurka]

Hi, I love your hellsing art! I want to ask for your opinion on the criticism that some artists draw Alucard too conventionally attractive, and that in canon he's a "sewer goblin" who looks like he "crawled out of a ditch".

I like your art of Alucard because it captures some of his creepiness; he looks kinda unsettling with his unnaturally tall height and gangly proportions. I also like the fact that he has some wrinkles and body hair instead of being the typically hairless, young-looking bishounen common in anime.

To sum it up: I like that he looks like a weird, gangly, hairy old man.

Aww, thank you, dear!! Тhank you for supporting me🥹

Hell YEAH!! He's uncunny scrunkly old Vlach! And it's... beautiful! And hot :D

I don't like bishounen type at all and very inappropriate to him. I like different styles and respect other artists, you, guys, are amazing artists💖

[stochastique-blog]

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Good Morning🙏 #ThankYouLord #PowerOfPrayer #LoveThyNeighbor #DoGood #Change #Life #TooBlessedToBeStresses #Prayers #Healing #NoNegativity #GodGotYou #YouWokeUpThisMorning #GodIsAboutToDoIt #TashaCobb #GoodMorning https://www.instagram.com/p/CqaWTcgAP02/?igshid=NGJjMDIxMWI=

[mintixtheweirdo]

I WOULD CHANGE MY INFO IN ALL MY SOCIAL MEDIA (INCLUDING NICKNAME) SO DON'T LOSE ME

[vanillray]

/noneg marnie is cool I just don’t understand her sometimes

[redswaberkez]

Nah Helena is perfect cast. Fc is perfect and flawless in a bisexual way. Im gonna fight for helena till bloody sweat i swear-

Fight club would be actually flawless if they replaced Helena Bonham Carter with like a Wallace Wells-style twink fag, Chuck Palahniuk is literally gay why hasn’t this fucking happened already.

[mionzoka]

5 for the ask game

(Don't answer if you don't want to /noneg)

"Do you practice other styles/have you tried other styles in the past?"

Well, yep, I drew Arti in the other style once👀

[noodlesblogchannel]

Evil, aggressive and sneaky genius/noneg

[senchhcollc]

«never ask mizuki fans what happened in october 2024 [or approximately, i don't remember]» — some dude from youtube with content on sekai project

AND.. THAT'S IT!! honestly, i sympathetically drew my daughter already— oh, yeah, more precisely, my son already and it turned out even well!!

to be honest, i thought he was the type of person who is idc gender, but now.. i don't know, i feel sorry for him in connection with the storyline. i would call it non-binary, but there is a catch here. as far as i remember, he feels like a guy and doesn't want to be a different gender and just wants to dress up in cute things [if not, you can correct my words without aggression]. soooo here's the deal. i hope he comes back

:: — it's me, when i recently found out that mizuki is now morally not going to be a daughter for me, but a son /noneg /pos

[derww]

thinking about e playing smpciv as a lifesteal despite his ass still playing mainly bliss