#nonbinaric

[pillarsalt]

"I'm too special to be just a woman" has got to be the most annoying form of female nonbinarism they've come up with.

[garfieldb0t]

returning to my roots with a quick toasty doodle for their birthday !!

[scootarooni]

asexual pride VFlower!!

[bigmack2go]

Why do disabled people, fat people, authistic ppl and nonbinary always get hc’ed as asexual?

Dgmw have your headcannons, some of them i have too but it’s like all of them are fanon ace? Like i love the representation but is it really representiom if it’s just a concstant stereotype thats e v e r y w h e r e? And mostly no one else gets hc’ed as aro/ace it too! Like do you think just because i’m authistic and disabled and nonbinary i’m ow so innocent and i can’t have sex??? What??

[rjalker]

You can also have the Sphere be any gender you want, not only because the character is public domain but because canonically, the narrator never bothered to ask, and just assumes that the Sphere is a man who uses he/him pronouns because of his own biases.

The same way the King of Lineland assumed the narrator was a woman who used she/her pronouns.

In Lineland, Straight Lines are considered men. In Flatland, Straight Lines are considered women. This is a very blatant challenge to everything the narrator views as self-evident, and a challenge for the readers as well.

There's no reason you have to go along with the narrator's assumptions about the Sphere's gender. He never asked, and he had many opportunities to do so.

The King of Lineland assumed the narrator was a woman. The narrator assumed the Sphere was a man. We know that one of them is blatantly wrong, and Edwin Abbot Abbot did that on purpose. So why assume that the other one is right?

[wereoz]

they all look so dykey here idk how to explain it

[sickly-sapphic]

my lil contribution to intentional nonbinary peoples day 🤍✨️

[ID: A swirly background with the flag colours of the nonbinary flag - yellow, white, purple and black - as the background to all slides. Purple text reads; What even is... cisgender nonbinary? Background by xrainestormx (pinterest).

The Basics. Cisgender Nonbinary isn't the most well-known identity, so it's not a shock that many people have no idea what this label means, or how a person could be cisgender and nonbinary - especially since transgender nonbinary is a far more common identity.

Gender Neutral Parenting. Overtime, the idea of raising your children outside of a gendered environment - including not labelling them as male or female and not using gendered pronouns - has gotten more popular, especially amongst gender diverse parents. These children, raised with no gender, are now growing up and finding themselves in a unique position - cisgender nonbinarism!!

Assigned Not-Your-Business At Birth. For some people, they view their assigned gender as irrelevant. They are nonbinary because they always have been, regardless of assigned sex or gender they were raised as. Identifying as transgender may not feel right, because it feels less like transitioning and more like... existing how they always have.

Intersex Nonbinaries. While the idea that intersex people are "cis nonbinary" is a misconception - some intersex people do identify this way. Due to their intersex variation, identity, or whatever reason they may have, they view their sex as nonbinary and therefore cisgender nonbinary feels most comfortable.

CisTrans and Unlabelled. Not every nonbinary person with fit conveniently into the cis or trans boxes. Some will feel their identify lays somewhere outside these two boxes, or mixes within it. CisTrans is an identity slowly clawing its way into common knowledge, as are unlabelled nonbinary folk.

Respect Cisgender Nonbinary People. End ID]

[doodles-in-sand]

Have I ever posted warden who stares at gay people

Here they are

[themaveriqueagenda]

maverism: the radical notion that maveriques are people. /reference

[hotsugarbyglassanimals]

“well what does butch and femme even mean!!”

butch = complete rejection of femininity, and reclamation of masculinity (as a woman or nonbinary lesbian) to solely attract other women/sapphics.

femme = subversion and reclamation of femininity (as a woman or nonbinary lesbian) to solely attract other women/sapphics

These two identities are gender nonconforming due to the fact that womanhood itself is defined as a compliment to manhood. Historically, womanhood was only considered to serve men. Lack of attraction to men has oftentimes defined lesbians as “failed women”. For example, you can see this in how medical gatekeeping forces trans women to have to perform hyperfemininity and heterosexuality in order to receive access to transition care because those standards were considered the defining features of womanhood. This gatekeeping was significantly more widespread in the past (and I hesitate to say if that’s gone away in the present).

Butch and femme are two sides of the same coin. Counterparts. They are nouns, complete identities, not just descriptions. Butches protect femmes, femmes protect butches. They are also not mandatory or required to be a lesbian, so it’s not necessary to fit into either category. They are not “another gender binary.”

Butches are not “basically men” and they do not benefit from masculinity. Femme does not inherently mean hyper feminine, and it does not require performing patriarchally imposed expressions of femininity (such as wearing make-up, shaving, only wearing dresses). Butches and femmes are still butches and femmes even when wearing plain t-shirts and pants some days. It’s not an outfit to take on and off.

“Futch” does not exist as a material identity because butch means a strict rejection of femininity, while femme is a subversion of femininity. There are also roles that are considered with butch and femme, while futch does not have anything of the sort. “Futch” = neither, essentially.

This post is meant to be simple to get the basic idea across, as there’s more aspects to butch/femme culture that I didn’t go over. Butch and femme also involves specific behaviors in relation to courtship, roles, or protection of each other. You can read stone butch blues to get a better idea of that aspect as a starting point. That’s all! 👋

[amalias-whatsoever]

the genderfluid experience is not understanding the concept of non-binarism until you do and understanding the concept of binarism until you don't

[richierambles]

yknow... when my friend first told me garrison went straight man -> gay man -> straight trans woman -> lesbian trans woman, i didnt believe her

now, well... holy fuck man

[dovewingz]

haii does anyone have resources (or personal anecdotes) on stereotypes + bad taste depictions to avoid when writing transfem / trans women characters 🙏

[rjalker]

Sure, dream.

Pride flag from my dream about smashing the gender binary in all its forms.

Download here from the Internet Archive.

It is public domain, so you're encouraged to share and repost it anywhere you want, and use it for literally anything you want. There's no point in a pride flag people aren't even allowed to use.

First the version I scribbled on my phone at 2:50 am so I wouldn't forget:

[ID: A digital scribble of a pride flag design on a square canvas. The background is soft yellow, with a hollow white square in the center. Inside this square is a large black diamond with a white ray from each point and side, and four smaller black five-pointed stars on each inner corner of the square. The whole thing is slightly lopsided and leans to the left. End ID.]

And then the less scribbled version I made once I was actually properly awake and had my laptop turned on.

[ID: The same flag as above, now made with sharper, clear straight lines. It is centered, and symetrical in quarters. End ID.]

pro tip: binary people also benefit from smashing the gender binary. Just like men also benefit from smashing the patriarchy and white people benefit from smashing white supremacy.

[kill-a-man-for-kynan]

Vax: I trust Kynan. Percy: You think they know what they're doing? Vax: I wouldn't go that far.

[matiasthecamilion]

Sometimes it's feels like I'm boy bc definitely I'm not girl