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Sky Ferreira x Calvin Klein by The Cobra Snake
#grunge#halsey#indie#effy stonem#the cobra snake#indie sleaze#sky ferreira#2014 tumblr#bring back 2014 tumblr#2014 grunge#2014 soft grunge#the nbhd#cory kennedy#2010s aesthetic#2014core#2014 revival#2014 aesthetic#2010s#2014 nostalgia#2012 tumblr#photoshoot#shoegaze#love? idk#nobody asked me if i was okay#marina#marina diamandis#marina and the diamonds#cobra snake#2014 sleaze#sleazecore
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Sky Ferreira - Nobody Asked Me (If I Was Okay)
Never thought I'd have a moment like this All I wanna feel is your kiss So many words on the tip of my tongue So many things that you should have done Right now it hurts that I want you to stay Nobody asked me if I was okay In six seconds I count ten reasons to go
#sky ferreira#spotify#alternative#music#song#playlist#tumblr#nobody asked me#if I was okay#nobody asked me if I was okay#Spotify
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#mrs flood who are you: time lord edition
#dwedit#doctor who#mrs flood#fifteenth doctor#the master#jacobi!master#tenth doctor#jack harkness#martha jones#twelfth doctor#ninth doctor#*#okay here is my argument: mrs flood IS a time lord but her presence here has nothing to do with the doctor#instead she's here because of ruby. she's seemingly part of/related to the pantheon of discord & we know that ruby is connected to them too#so i think that she was deliberately placed as ruby's neighbor by the pantheon/oldest one/ruby's mom/? in order to watch over her#it also explains why she was there to check on ruby in 1.04. once she realizes she's on the phone w carla she says 'nothing to do with me'#and she leaves. which implies that it COULD have had something to do with her. if it had been something else going on#ANYWAY. to get to the time lordness of it all. rn i personally believe that she's a time lord that's been hiding on earth for 50+ years#bc i don't think she recognized the police box as a tardis initially. that first quote should be taken at face value.#instead picture this: she's watching over ruby as per usual. a police box is there - weird but nbd. then it dematerializes in front of her.#she drops her groceries. she's shocked. she kinda looks scared. if she already knew it was a tardis why would she react like that?#so imo she knows OF tardises. she DIDN'T know the police box was one. and she's worried the time lords have found her hence the fear.#but when nothing happens and nobody comes at her she realizes she's still safe#later when she sees the doctor she realizes the tardis is his/he must be a time lord. he doesn't identify her but that's happened before#so then when she asks him who he is i think what she's actually asking for is his title. WHICH time lord are you.#bc lbr if she knows abt tardises then she knows about time lords and if she knows abt time lords she knows what it means for ruby#to be joining him - and that's why she wishes ruby good luck. meanwhile this is clearly the outcome she WANTS (them to be together)#bc she gets visibly upset when the doctor seems to decide to leave without ruby.#and for once i'm not master clowning bc the list of names the doctor gives out is VERY interesting. some of them we've never heard before:#the bishop; the conquistador; later he adds the pedant and sagi-shi and reiterates the bishop AGAIN. so i wonder if she's the bishop.....
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perhaps the most important question i’ve ever asked:
does anyone have tips for people trying to stop being chronically late to everything in the world that aren’t weirdly judgmental and aggressive or flat out lies
#when i tell you every single resource i’ve ever found or tried to get through or anyone i’ve ever asked#has been just so. mean about it#not even intentionally#not always at least#but there’s so much inherent shame tied to being late to things or being a person who used to be late to things#that i don’t think people can untie that from their ‘helpful tips’#it’s all ‘i used to also be a lazy uncaring piece of shit! you don’t have to be a horrible wretched loser anymore!’ and it’s like. okay.#you see how that’s not helping. right.#making me feel worse about it is NEVER helpful. i promise you i already have tortured myself over it FARRR more than any ‘on time’ person#ever had#this has been a comic i’ve been stewing on for ages as well but. well there’s of course the shame#idk it’s something that people are always despicably mean about bc fundamentally people who have never struggled with it#see it as a personal choice to be late#and as something one needs to just ‘try harder’ to fix. and that if you don’t#you inherently don’t care about other people’s time or even other people in general#and that feels horrible! it feels really bad!!#i mean i’ve got it from EVERYONE. disability allies. other adhd folks. disability resource offices#it’s something that nobody ever cares to acknowledge or try to accommodate for#bc time blindness and exec dysfunction are NEVER taken seriously as disabilities. they’re always always viewed as a personal failing#and i’m sick and tired of it. bc all this does is make people struggling with this Hate themselves#and worry endlessly that maybe they Are selfish and actually Don’t care about anyone else#there’s a bit too much here to keep in the tags i should really do the comic for adhd awareness month
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dear diary… one day I met the little prince…
but just as the storybook said… we got separated… all I know is that somewhere out there… we see the same stars…
ps. they found each other again...
#sickly dazai and protective chuuya childhood friends au that nobody asked for#i have a very very special soft spot for wholesome childhood besties aus okay#im sorry if these are getting unnecessarily longer akjsdhfkalf I just love brainrotting abt them sm augh#yes its the little prince reference for me ~#i have no thoughts my head empty but I survived this hell of a week and I'm so darn proud of every single one of you who did too#have some fluff !! (ignore the angst what angst)#bsd#skk#sketch#sketches#my art#bsd dazai#bsd chuuya#little prince skk au
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so i watched all 3 trolls movies in 1 sitting the other day and i uh
FALLOUT TROLL VEGAS IS ALL I CAN THINK ABOUT RN I FEEL CRAZY... bonus doodads:
#fallout#fallout new vegas#fnv#fallout fanart#craig boone#arcade gannon#veronica santangelo#trolls#trolls 3#trolls fanart#dreamworks trolls#can i even tag those is that allowed#goofy ass crossover that nobody asked for#ALSO DAMN COUNTRY TROLLS ARE HARD TO DRAW#“CAUSE SINGING KILLED MY WIFE OKAY” HAS BEEN A VOCAL STIM FOR ME BTW#WORST THING IVE EVER DRAWN
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#btw if rachel zegler looked at me like that i would forgot how to speak english#look at the big brown eyes on this woman#brown eyed man this brown eyed man that LOOK AT THIS WOMAN#this is THEEEEE brown eyed person of all time#WHATEVER YOU SAY GORGEOUS#LITERALLY WHATEVER YOU SAY#rachel zegler#rachelzegleredit#rachelzegler#mattie edits#rzegleredit#rzegler#rachel zegler gifs#also cannot believe the internet tried to get everyone to hate this woman a couple months ago#and i cant believe it worked???#bro she could kick my cat in front of me and i'd be okay with it#literally because she's just that devastatingly gorgeous#whatever u say gorgeous whatever u say#nobody ask me how long these gifs took it was an embarassingly long time i was trying to overcomplicate it and do a thing but it flopped
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playing slay the princess as intended (watching your friend stream it and then roleplaying as improvised ocs for each of ur runs)
#anethia collectibles#slay the princess#so ...#run 1 is i think the witch/thorns where we chose to be very stoic and silent throughout#run 2 is the paranoid/nightmare route (fav) bcus i wanted to get to ask more qns that round and somehow that ended up leading to my poor#little curious guy getting so broken and fractured :3#run 3 is the hero/deconstructed damsel route ....#run 4 is the tower! and being a little shit who is by hell and highwater NOT kneeling down#run 5 is the spectre ... roleplayed as guy who is for reasons he doesnt understand just wants it to be over#and MEOW anyway#nobody told me this game was an rpg .....#but its cool ! i love romances :]#i think its awesome ... the way the hero and the princess are . changing over time . over with each reset#the way they find each other in the long quiet ...... its something so#i love it ...#the hero is so guilty for hurting the princess that he loves and he is scared of hurtign and he wants peace and he doesnt want the eternity#of it .... he loves the . shifting mound (?) is it (?) as much as he hates the work she makes her do as much as he loves todo the workforher#like a blank slate knowing nothing . except that broken wounds can be healed . and then he meets her. and then he meets her over and over#its a million meet cutes for the hero and the princess snd a sweeping tale of love and devotion and salvation in the long wuiet#how many more vessels do you need .....#and its fun to. at least how i played it . the things the hero picks up on#knowingly or unlnowingly with each run#its soooo#every 'remain silent' feels like a callback to the first libe#telling the voices 'itll be okay' after the brightness of the damsel snd that 'ill be okay' after the selfishness n suffering of apotheosis#or after the deconstructed damsel route . and then to the last run. becoming the damsel. seeing it throughcher eyes#and its so . this culminating ammassing of allcthese voices .... and it comes to it all being reflected at eachcother#spectre posseses hero and shifting mound and player becomign whole#anyway i like this love story i find it very tender and swet#... anyway ! this is . none of this is analysis these are just my ocs and the story i made up whilst playing
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#also you cant say that you would never cry in public because you might some day so if you did how would you want people to react#txt#gekkering#this post was brought to you by someone is crying in this room with me and i dont know if its more polite to just pretend i dont notice#like i would want to be ignored personally but also soemtimes i think about that guy who was liek#(tw suicide) like crying on a bridge about to jump and nobody asked if he was okay so he felt like nobody cared. and i dont think this#person is gonna kill themselves cuz i ddidnt ask if tneyre ok but like woukd it help at all#you know
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I just saw a post that was like. You should always follow your instinct!! Your friends do hate you!!! And like. No?? Do not do this. To yourself or to your friends. Especially with super close friends. Your friends love you. It's why we are friends.
If you're really worried about it. Ask. And I get it. I'm autistic too. It's hard and you notice little changes and you overthink it but. I get busy. Things happen in my life. And I always have to tell myself life happens to everyone. Even if it's hard to see outside your lense.
Tldr. If you're worried. Ask them or talk to them. If you're right. I'm sorry. That sucks but you don't want to be friends with someone who isn't compatible/ mean to you anyways. You'll make new friends. You'll make better ones. I did.
And. Trust your friends.
#autism#friendships#idk im not saying the feeling is completely unwarranted i just think#nobody deserves to think everyone hates them#on the flip side#your friends dont deserve you doubting them 24/7 either.#if youre worried about thwm#ask if theyre okay. ask if you did anything. just ask !!!!#and yknow. i never fault my friends for not texting or for being quiet. bcus. i get busy too#or one hard thing abt online friends for me is. i hate being on my phone for too long qjwhwjwjw#sometimes I just think about them but forget to text bcus my phone is in mysterious place number 7#be nice to yourself and your loved ones. thank you
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H. H... H E L P M E S H E I S...
S O H O T-
#HELPPPP HELP ME#OH NOOOOOOOOO#I AM NOT OKAY#NOBODY LOOK AT ME#I JUST WANT A BIG EVIL LADY TO CRUSH ME IS THAT TOO MUCH TO ASK?#AAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAA#portal 2#glados#kabra art
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clara voice: is that what i look like from the back?
#15&ruby: smash/pass#15&ruby: whAt?#15: i take offense?#ruby: you wOULD?#15: well its different for me#ruby: thats YOU#15: exactly#ruby: so clonefucking is a yay then?#15: oh definitely. you wouldnt?#ruby: no but hang on does this even count?#15: what you wanna get the clonefucker jury out here?#call the council of clonefuckers official to judge him enough of a clone to be worth fucking?#ruby: you are... weirdly defensive about this#15: experience. you'll get it when youre older#ruby: okay 6 word horror story?#15: god i know right#ruby: but would you also do a real clone tho. one that looks like you#15: i mean#ruby: bit vain isnt it?#15: can you blame me tho#ruby: ...#15: Can You Blame Me Tho Rubes??#ruby: im not answering that#15: sigh. oh well. everyone always asks would you fuck your clone. nobody thinks to ask would your clone fuck you?#imagine the temporal road trip they embark on to play smash or pass with every previous doctor#what do we do with existential horror? we sexualise it <3
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I need people to realize how horrible 'stalking/constant surveillance/breaking into each other's homes is how the Batfamily show love' is. Like i really need someone to just acknowledge how horrific saying this bullshit is.
Like even fics where they're shown as happy and healthy and with good ties, you've always got this thing where none of them have privacy or any boundaries with each other. Which is directly antithetical to actually having good relationships. And this invasion via hacking and stalking and breaking into homes is portrayed as a positive, good thing; it's just how they show love and care to each other, after all. But for some reason I just personally don't find stalking, lack of privacy or boundaries, and emotional manipulation funny, endearing, or healthy, and just end up disgusted at the attempt to sweep it all under the rug.
#my dc posting#dc#batman#batfamily#jason todd#barbara gordon#bruce wayne#dick grayson#tim drake#damian wayne#listen i can only take so much of it before i just breakdown okay#apparently controversial opinion but a family where its normal to vreak into each others homes and manipulate each other and stalk and#invade boundaries and autonomy and privacy can NOT be healthy#no matter how much you try to dress it up all cute w 'this is just how they are' 'its how they show their love' its never not gonna be#unhealthy and bad and toxic#like yeah they do do that. they are like that. either acknowledge it or stop trying to justify it#god this actually irks me so much#i try to idk. suspend my disblief but theres only so much i can actuallt fucking take before just#its just. im trying to read happy fluffy fics. but i cant be comforted by a family that normalizes breaking boundaries n invading privacy#and its specifically that the author aleays disregards it. instead of fixing it or making it better they opt to keep it and come up w excuse#s for it#and thats what actually triggers me#'i broke into ur house cus if i asked if i could come over ud say no' is actuallt fucking horrifying stop trying to make it seem loving???#im writing this while having a panic attack dont mind me 👍#but its like. if you can write the batfam w/o bruce hitting his kids or any other horrific thing that they do#then why must you keep the boundary&privacy breaking? why cant anyone even seemingly try to write a batfam#where theyve worked their issues abt this out best they can n have healthy established boundaries w each other??#like if u can write them all hanging out together 24/7 n bruce being s good dad why is this one simple thing the One Thing#nobody even tries to address properly???#'aw dick broke into jason's saehouse bc he wanted to hangout but jason would say no if he asked' aw. maybe dick should learn 'no means no'
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WIP Monday!
i've been tagged over the last few days by my loves @thiamsxbitch, @fruchtfliege, @hemlocksandfoxgloves, @ksbbb so I thought i'd give y'all a lil snippie of a new wip, because why finish something when you can start something new!
“We should do No Nut November,” Liam said, plopping down on the couch beside Theo. He had been handing out candy all night, eagerly opening the door of their apartment to the kids in the building who were trick-o-treating. Now he was tired and the last of the candy was gone, so he turned off the light and came to sit beside Theo who had been lounging on the couch while he half watched a movie, half watched Liam.
Theo choked, having chosen the wrong moment to take a sip of his drink. Liam pounded him on the back and eventually he was okay, waving off Liam’s concern. “I’m sorry, what?”
“I said: we should do No Nut November,” Liam repeated, looking way too nonchalant for the words coming out of his mouth.
“Again, what?” Theo cleared his throat. He tried very, very hard not to think about Liam and anything related to come— so what the fuck was Liam on about?
Liam huffed, completely oblivious to Theo’s inner turmoil. “I just think it would be fun. We could make it a bet.”
“Liam…” Theo said slowly. “You do realize what No Nut November is, right?”
“Um, duh?”
“Then how on earth would it be fun?” Theo was completely baffled.
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#nobody ask me why i have so many no nut november fics 👁️👁️ okay it's not a thing for me it's NOT (it is)#ANYWAY#have a thiam no nut november fic#jess.writes#thiam nnn#<- lets see if i remember this tag#my writing#my wips#thiam#thiam wip#theo raeken#liam dunbar#theo x liam#liam x theo#teen wolf#teen wolf wip
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a really good way to get blocked is to send me unsolicited opinions on my chronic pain management fyi
#'um advil is bad for you' 'um chiro isn't Real'#how about this. this is basic Body Upkeep and without these things i can't even move around#i really don't need any able bodied opinions actually ty. nobody knows more about pain management than the person Managing The Pain#sergle.txt#the Feigned Concern is really sweet and cute but it's actually totally okay if you wanna slam your hands in a door instead of typing an ask#if you actually cared to Ask about it instead of talking At Me w the confidence of someone who's never needed these things then you'd get i
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Usopp's constant negativity and anxiety are something useful and "positive" at the end of the day (eg: fight against Perona) because he doesn't necessarily need to change his views, he just needs to trust himself and his abilities more and he just uses what he has at the moment which is, you know, negativity. It is not something positive but it does keep him safe from danger and he will end up being proud of himself and stronger than he could ever imagine, but that doesn't mean he'll stop being negative. It's just another personality trait a lot of people have, and Usopp using it for his advantage is something great, I feel. He takes pride in being like that. He's loud and shameless about it.
Unlike Sanji, who dwells on his negativity on his own. Quietly. And lets it consume him without having any power over it. His self-sabotaging and self-sacrificing behavior often comes from a place of giving up out of fear of others getting hurt to save him because that's pretty much his core fear. Being a burden/Not being able to save the people he cares about from himself and his past. It's not something the manga shows that much in comparison to Usopp's negativity, but Sanji's pessimistic views are pretty much one of the reasons why WCI happens and why he puts himself in the worst situation in Wano.
And I think (this is why I'm writing all of this) that they're perfect for each other because Usopp could show him that being afraid and negative isn't something so bad. After all, at least Usopp is aware that if he can't do something, the crew will help him out no matter what. Usopp's negative, yes, but it's alright because he doesn't go through it on his own. Even if he does look shameless and "selfish" when desperately asking for help (he isn't, by the way. It's actually pretty reasonable to act like that). Sanji needs to learn to ask for help shamelessly too and he needs to stop putting all the weight of the world's negativity on his shoulders. They need to carry it together.
Like- There's just something so personal in Usopp going "Yes! I am scared. Frightened even. Please, help!" because he might not like that part of him and he's trying to be stronger and more independent every day, but he acknowledges that things can go south and his reaction is very fight or flight but pretty mostly flight to be safe. While Sanji's response is always to fight because he refuses to let others know he needs help in case something happens to them (and also because he feels ashamed of feeling weak). Usopp shares the responsibility and accepts that he's kind of a loser sometimes but Sanji refuses to do so.
This is just a thought about Sanji learning that being a coward and asking for help isn't bad because they're meant to do stuff like that, and Usopp growing to be stronger and independent but not necessarily stop being pessimistic because sometimes you just... Are like that. Sometimes you're scared. Sometimes you have anxiety. And that's alright. You can be strong anyway.
#now this is one of the 1289123719834718937981 reasons why sanuso works so well together#they're literally perfect for each other idc#i just find the way oda portrays usopp's negativity really cool bc he takes that one 'negative' trait and turns it into a defense mechanism#against perona i mean#water 7 literally happens because usopp actually lets himself drown in negativity for once instead of trusting his crew like he always does#he won't stop seeing himself as less important than them and instead of communicating that or asking for help he decides to leave#it's a reasonable response when you're on the verge of a mental breakdown tbh but sanji teaches him it's okay for others to help you#which is funny because sanji refuses to use that for himself but that's because he's stupid and hates himself#they both hate themselves a lot but love each other a ton so. great relationship. teaching the other how to love#me when i say 'loser baby' from hazbin hotel could easily be sanuso but nobody shares that specific braincell with me#one piece#black leg sanji#usopp#sanuso
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