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…you view choking/breath play as entry level? ya’ll gonna die. seriously.
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#it’s one of the most dangerous kinks out there#you HAVE to have someone experienced#or have to try it out multiple times before introducing it as a kink#and even then you shouldn’t do it very often.#this is why i think fanfic is one of the number one reasons abusive and dangerous kink dynamics are the most common now a days#you can not introduce or even TRY choking unless you make your dom do the research#even if they claim to be experienced.#and it is NOT entry level. you should not be doing it at all in a new kink related dynamic#not unless you’ve known this person for years or they’ve prioritized the safety discussion and types of choking first#THEY should be the ones to bring that up.#i think even as a dom with a new sub you shouldn’t unless you’ve had the talk#there is seriously so much potential for serious damage#if someone tries to pull that out in the middle of sex without having a FULL discussion first stop and pack up your clothes and leave#i like breath play/choking myself and i would NEVER do it with someone who doesn’t know what the fuck they’re talking about#not as a dom OR a sub. if your sub asks for that midsex or in a scene without talking about it first#immediately stop. and consider whether or not you should even continue with the sub.#doms rely on subs to be vocal and active when it comes to their safety in a scene#doms have to know you WILL safe word and won’t just grin and bear it or continue when it feels good even if it hurts you.#if you as a dom accidentally choke someone out and they like it and ask you to do it again you need to dump them#no ifs ands or buts.#it requires experience and a lot of study and safety discussions before even attempting it.#you have to ease into it first and test things#no WAY is it an ‘entry level kink.’ that’s how people fucking DIE.
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#you matter#you deserve happiness#no ifs ands ors or buts about it#be good to yourself too#you deserve it#self compassion#self care#self love#self respect#self forgiveness#be kind to yourself#talk a little nicer to yourself#treat yourself like you'd treat a good friend
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Yo, I’ve been following you on tumblr for a Minute, but yesterday I found this in my Extremely Local Cafe and was like!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! So uh if you wanna meet more local trans artists hmu
AYYYEE MY BEACON HAS BEEN ANSWERED
#Dm meee#we’re friends now no ifs ands or buts#I live like 3 minutes from that coffee shop it’s me and my gfs favorite spot ♥️
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“Kaz Brekker ripping out oomens eyes was so hot” this “ Matthias’s helgate look” that. FUCK THOSE. Let’s talk about Jesper Llewellyn Fahey shit talking J*n Van Eck to comfort Wylan after he found out about his mother and then telling that piece of shit that he would read to Wylan. Because me and my daddy issues would have married that man right then and there for that ALONE.
#you shit talk my asshole dad I will marry you#no ifs ands or buts#jesper fahey#no hate to kaz or Matthias I just love him#jesper llewellyn fahey#jesper fahey girl#six of crows#jesper surpremacy#i am trash for jesper fahey#shadow and bone#robin speaks#wesper#the only man that matters#i love that man
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Blocking people left and right because they never learned how to behave on fandom spaces 🤦♀️
#idk what’s up with people in fandoms recently but you all are annoying#bestie you don’t like my post about my ship#move on#scroll on#ignore me#but if you comment shit on my posts you are getting blocked#no ifs ands or buts#blocked for eternity#fuck off
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Bones someone did a "Worst Parents" poll over on Twitter and it's going about as well as you'd expect.
"God people will do anything to hate on mentally ill male characters" and it's the guy who hits and yells at his son.
"Crowfeather's only crime was being a bit mean" hitting and humiliating your son= bit mean.
Yes these are things I've actually read
I'm not saying Curlfeather (who was pitted against him in the poll) is better or worse than Crowfeather, but I've seen a lot of people downplaying his abuse towards Breezepaw and acting like people are crazy for thinking Curlfeather was better
It's really wild to see it in action, isn't it? When a dad manipulates (Po3 book 2) and smacks his son (Po3 book 3) for absolutely no benefit besides his own ego, it's "mental illness" and ergo not a big deal. As if they think mental illness is a get-out-of-jail free card for child abuse.
The "Crowfeather Mental Illness" Crowd couldn't HANDLE the kind of mentally ill characters that I stan. They are weak and will not survive the winter.
When they say "stop being mean to boys with a disorder" they mean "stop holding an abusive father accountable for teaching his son slurs so he could get back at the ex-girlfriend who dumped him." When I say "stop being mean to boys with a disorder" I mean that I want to give Breezepelt a gun so he can enforce it himself. We are not the same.
#bone babble#Curlfeather's an interesting conversation for 'bad parents' though and imo one of the best examples to discuss#Because she's so much more nuanced than the common mode of WC child abuse#She never physically hurt her child nor did she emotionally belittle her#But she did manipulate her. She did put her into a position of power. And I'm not a hypocrite like certain Hawkfrost stans--#--I think that is very damaging and Frostpaw's feelings are valid and understandable#Curlfeather died one of the most graphic and horrible deaths in the entire series for her child. But... that doesn't fix what she did.#I wish that the books were able to capture the complicated feeling that Frostpaw could be feeling about her mother right now though.#Crowfeather though he was a piece of shit#no ifs ands or buts#he was just Bad and the conversation is HOW bad#fennelposting
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So I did the math and even if Lando won in Brazil and Max finished outside the points but every other race stayed the same Max would have still won the wdc by 19 points 😮💨
Which would also mean that if Lando won Brazil, and Max finished outside the points, AND Lando didn’t give up that sprint win or get that stop go penalty in Qatar and finished p2 - Max would of STILL won the wdc by 3 points 🤯
#I usually find ifs ands buts whataboutisms ect pointless to dwell on but I do think this particular math is interesting#since Brazil was considered the clincher for Max#just an unbelievable performance#max verstappen#formula 1#lando norris#f1 2024#f1#2024 wdc#abu dhabi gp 2024#I can post the actual math if anyone doesn’t believe it haha
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If you are blaming Checo over the misery of Red Bull as if RBR isn't known for this, then you are being completely ignorant. Imagine blaming the driver who has been asking for a better car and now that Max is going through it, it doesn't look pretty.
But one thing is for sure, Checo has been right all along! THE CAR IS FUCKING SHIT.
RBR is a complete joke right now. They need to get their shit together and really put effort into the cars. Because if I'm being honest? I don't see them winning any time soon. They're getting Top 10 by a miracle. Checo and Max are really trying.
#checo perez#sergio perez#sp11#max verstappen#mv1#mv33#chestappen#f1#formula 1#rbr#rbrf1#i said what i said#no ands ifs or buts#ali rants
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#who are queue? what do queue want?#for once it’s not an incorrect quote#babylon 5#b5#b5 meme#susan ivanova#the many faces of Susan Ivanova#Claudia Christian did her job and did her job WELL.#no ifs ands or buts
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Zeldris, my King, they can never make me hate you
You are everything that Meliodas is not (MAJOR PLUS)
Design goes hard. Powers go hard. Character goes hard. Fuck it man this dude is just amazing (I pray he is not ruined as I read deeper into the story 🙏)
#FUCK MELIODAS I STILL HATE HIM NO MATTER WHAT#Zeldris perpetually has ts on no ifs ands or buts#gotta love good character design#nanatsu no taizai#seven deadly sins#zeldris#meliodas
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If your reaction to seeing a woman excelling at a sport, any sport, is to immediately start believing she's a man then you're misogynistic.
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ppl who dont understand loving a character while also hating them fascinate me, clearly youve never stanned a complete and absolute dickhead before
#mine.txt#i mean the char doesnt have to be That much of an asshole to be someone you both love and hate ofc#but once youve gone to that extreme theres basically nothing stopping you from indulging in whatever feeling a char gives you#regardless of assholery#this was ages ago so idr where i found them#but like there was this person who couldnt believe that ppl would actually stan villains and not just the heroes cause they were evil 😭#i think?? i found them on youtube???#idk its been a while#but that baffled me cause even when i was a kid thanks to my interest in noir and darker media#i had a streak of being a fan of morally grey asshole characters#who were like. Objectively assholes who i can gurantee Nobody would like irl no ifs ands or buts about it#but who were still really interesting and complex and flawed#you didnt like them cause they were nice or good or even Likeable#you liked them cause on Some degree you respected or at the very least were entertained by them#whether it be their integrity; their conviction; their goals; their audacity; their suffering; etc#there was always Something that intrigued you#you may not like them on a personal standpoint but they put on a good show and thats what matters#unfortnately it was also common for chars from these media to be laced with bigotry but its just how it goes im afraid#theres a few that dont really contain those but they tend to be either hidden gems or for younger audiences#idk i should watch and play noir stuff again i think i missed them#like that kinda stuff heavily colored my preferences in things
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i think i’ve learned a lot when it comes to not applying my own values to the media i consume
for my script analysis class yesterday, we discussed two gentleman from verona, and nearly every classmate of mine was up in arms about how sexist the story is.
and i'm not saying it's not, or that it's not infuriating to read. but i'm also not putting my energy into getting upset about something written 500 or so years ago. and i'm not about to put my own beliefs onto these characters that are not me. i'm going to let their choices speak for themselves, and interpret it in the context of the story.
all that said, this now brings me to the point of alastor in episode 5, and how viscerally people are responding to it. those of you up in arms about the choices he’s making, and the violent threat he gave husk, you’re missing the entire point of his character, of this place they’re in, of the story being told. he’s an overlord, and he became an overlord by killing much bigger overlords and broadcasting their deaths over the radio.
HE IS NOT A GOOD PERSON.
if you started this show with the belief that every character working the hotel is a good person, you’re in the wrong place. watch the good place if you’re looking for a good wholesome story about getting dead sinners into heaven, because that’s not what this show is about.
you’re more than welcome to hate him after seeing the way he exerted power over a being whose soul he owns, but you’re doing the media you’re watching a disservice by writing it off so quickly. if you don’t like to be uncomfortable watching media, watch something else. this is an uncomfortable show, it handles uncomfortable topics, and it’s going to be an uncomfortable ride, and if you’re not up for something like that, then you should take a break from it and pick up something else. you don’t have to get online and defend your own ideals while you watch a show that goes against your ideals.
#hazbin hotel spoilers#that’s not even touching on the fact that husk was an overlord too#he also owned souls that he used as currency to supply his gambling addiction#he’s also not a good person!!#the majority of these characters are in hell for a reason: they’re not good people#i quite frankly love the way this show blurs the lines between good and evil#our heroes are sinners and overlords and demons. while the enemies are angels. but that doesn’t mean our heroes are good people.#you HAAAVE to come to terms with that!! you have to stop seeing the world in black and white or you’re not going to survive this world#if you’re upset because alastor was cruel to husk fine! be upset! but explore why you’re taking yourself out of that world.#in this world sinners own other people. there’s no ifs ands or buts#‘oh alastor is a poc why would he own people’ he was a serial killer when he was alive do you really think you can apply your values to that#(and this is me speaking as a poc. specifically a mixed race poc.)#i cannot speak to who vivzie is as a person. but i’m interested in the message she’s writing and thus far i’m finding it compelling#it’s a similar story as the good place but it’s going the distance to explore even worse people than those in the good place#i don’t think it’s responsible to write something off just because unsavory things happen in it.#and she’s giving us so many different types of representation that don’t involve race (although we’re also getting a lot of hispanic rep)#just like cool your jets and maybe process some of the anger you’re feeling. and maybe nothing will change.#but if you act. instead of react. if you understand why you’re feeling some type of way and then make a choice.#that’s so much stronger and more responsible than reacting and not thinking anything through#hazbin hotel#alastor#husk#hazbin alastor#hazbin husk#anyway let me get off my soapbox#long post
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Be kind or be quiet. Period.
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#I didn’t need to be attacked first thing in the morning#by those gorgeous hazel ORBS burning back at me#into my SOUL#ill never be over it#he is fucking stunning#no ifs ands or buts#miles peter kane the man that you ARE#miles kane#omb era
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Multishipper, my Jewish ass
Show me a "wincest" shipper who thinks Cass is Colette and I'll call them a HELLER to their face.
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