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It fascinates me how “transfeminine woman who is Vriska to the point of typing quirk” is an occurrence common enough that I would run out of space on my hands to count before I ran out of Vriska transfems.
To be clear: I have nothing against vriska transfems. I am aware that a similar thing happens with strider transmascs. I just wonder why this is a thing.
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istg the fandom is gonna give me an aneurism. "stop glazing curly" "why doesn't anyone admit curly fucked up" "fun fact curly isn't innocent" WHO'S GLAZING HIM????? WHERE????? i'm about to purposefully search for those people cause i haven't seen a single one and i wish i had. all i see is curly hate and i'm finding it harder and harder to interact with the fandom
#i'm seriously getting sick of this#hyperfixating on a character and searching for content of them only to constantly see hatred towards them#anya and daisuke and swansea are saints and curly and jimmy somehow belong on the same spot in hell#how the FUCK can anyone carry more blame than the perpetrator himself i have no clue#but apparently that's the general consensus of the fandom#curly being empathetic and a victim and failing to read a person he thought was his friend#being met with the fandom's constant judgement and hatred and blame#was not on my list of expectations#mouthwashing#fandom critical#captain curly
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A wee witch, two on the road home, three birds, four magical girls
#buruhas#project moon#lobotomy corporation#library of ruina#laetitia#the road home#scaredy cat#punishing bird#judgement bird#big bird#magical girl of love#magical girl of courage#magical girl of happiness#magical girl of justice#the queen of hatred#the servant of wrath#the king of greed#the knight of despair#o-01-67#o-02-56#o-02-62#o-02-40#o-01-04#o-01-73#o-01-64
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so many of you talk about the cruel adults in your childhood that negatively effected you and caused lifelong insecurity yet you're still perfectly fine with being that mean stranger to any kid that has the misfortune of existing around you and thats just really gross !!!
#like i get kids can be overwhelming for a various amount of reasons but its not going to kill you to treat children with basic human decency#adults can be just as overwhelming or annoying—if not more. yet if you talked to an another adult the same way you do to a kid#then ppl would fucking hate you and not want to be around you because youre not being cool and witty—youre just mean!!!#everyone has experienced the frustration of being a kid being mistreated by an adult. some more than others#rather its ignoring your bodily autonomy (from sa and assault to hugging you when you don't want to be touched to not letting you#make your own harmless choices like a haircut or whatever). everyone has been talked down to or had their opinion treated like its nothing#or that their thoughts or input doesn't matter. everyone has a childhood experience with a mean or judgemental adult#yet over and over ppl are fine just repeating that cycle of abuse and hatred#like youre a young adult and youre still getting treated like shit by older ones. but youre able to have a drink or you graduated or smthn#so now you feel like you earned that right to be judgemental & angry & mean to a group of people that didnt fucking do anything to you#anyways. this is because im sick and had to go to the store to get groceries and meds#so its a 20 minute walk to the nearest store in 108 degrees bc i dont have gas money and then in the store im ofc using a face mask#like im sweaty and feel disgusting and like shit but this kid was SO fucking excited about his spiderman toy and wanted to talk and#his mom said ‘i told you no one wants to hear about that crap leave her alone’ and like?? no fuck off let a kid be happy?? hes not fucking#doing anything wrong?? so we talked and he showed me the little tiy that lights up and asked if i saw the new spiderverse movie#and i told him i havent! so he asked why so i explained i have photosensitivity and what that means and why i cant see it#(‘even though i heard its super cool!’) and HE WAS SO SWEET... like immediately hid the toy because oh! flashing lights can hurt me!#and then immediately said dont worry because he'll tell me about it so its like i saw it instead!#and like. guys imma be honest with you. i stilm got no fucking idea what this movie's plot is.#but you bet your fucking ass i was pretending like i was following along & was going ‘no way!’ ‘so it's a parallel universe...?’ ‘oh wow!’#like yea its unnecessary. i felt oike i was gonna collapse and im still struggling to breathe at home now. but also i been the kid#who just wanted to talk about my interests and no one wanted to or was dismissing it.#i know it's not a end of the world deal but i also know that crushing feeling. you gotta be the kindness you want to see in the world yknow#anyways. be nice to kids or im not going to be nice to you. they're one of the most vulnerable members of our society and deserves kindness
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i am actually really angry that 2 people are suspecting 2 different people solely based on vibes it seems
#it's the coworkers that either wouldn't dare do pot or have and hate it and are quite judgemental#amd they're both suspecting people who look 'alternative'#like THAT'S the lead you've got lmao?#also not to judge people based on their pasts but the shitty coworker has told me stories of her going to work high on c*ke#and being dragged to(?) drug deals with big sums involved#that doesn't even make me suspicious tbh#i actually don't care whose pot it is#but i DO NOT like baseless accusations#i didn't say anything bc my immediate suspicion was based on personal hatred lmao#but it seems the owner doesn't rly care abt this anyways#it was so outta pocket tho when pur manager came to the front and held up the baggie in front#of customers???????#and assumed#it was definitely one of us#not like there isn't like 20 people with access to the room.....#for the record it is not mine#apparently I don't even know what pot smells like#now im pissed off to the max#and i dod not like the distrustful vibes at work today
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im a transsexual's transsexual. everyone is welcome in my community of course but I will RIDE OR DIE for transsexuals, survivors of necessary medical trauma, those of us who stealth pass. when your body is irreversibly marked and changed its a different ballgame, you're reliant on the compassion of doctors for the rest of your life. furthermore hiding in plain sight of people who'd just as soon hit you with their car if they saw what's in your pants is not a privilege. plenty of people who transition young especially the dolls are forfeiting the ability to have a above board work history because they're living in their truth, making sex work the only option. you have no idea the toughness and integrity it takes for that industry not to eat you alive, at least where I live.
coming out and pursuing medical and legal transition is shaping your own world with your bare hands. I have respect for anyone who rejects conventions of gender, but my heart and soul belong to those of us who said fuck it, I don't care what I have to burn down and sacrifice, I'm on this path and I'll fucking walk it. those people are my lovers and family and friends, because they understand what I've lost and sacrificed too.
#transsexual#and proud baby#come out come out wherever you are#find your real family let go of pathetic self hatred and judgements and fear and TRANSITION like you know you want to#the longer you sit at the fringes of trans community wailing about how hard your life will be if you transition...#... you are alienating the friends you could have who are currently living that life#don't tell me how much you fear and resent the life I live. build a life for yourself you don't need to fear#and transsexuals will be here with tools and blueprints when you are ready to use them
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#i love this fandom but some shits becoming so alienating 💀 the thinly veiled hatred for new fans (including me) really making me-#-wanna turn heel into places i know there isnt so much judgement#which sucks cuz this game has been very dear and comforting to me but it sucks im probably gonna have to block a ton of people#hate when fandoms pretty much force you to do that to have a good experience. block 90% of the fandom#oh well
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God Loves Everyone.
But I Don't. 😈
#Spotify#hate#hatred#contempt#satan#devil#hell#hellfire#goth#gothic#funko#i hate bad people#kim dracula#kimdrac#bullies#judgement#don't judge me
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Tumblr sorta needs a 'Mute' feature in my opinion. Like what if I don't want to block this user, what if I don't want to become enemies and in some days I'd like to interact. But also most of the time seeing how they avidly encourage everyone else whereas I get the passive-aggressive 'oh yeah very uhh... interesting... (please leave me alone I don't like your art lol)' makes me want to unfollow every single fan of these characters and never draw them again.
I remember two years ago the exact same thing happened when someone liked the same character and the same ship and I swear I was the only person in the fandom they bluntly left out and could not spare a single good word for. I can't even blame this on my art being "ugly" because this type of user always aggressively praises all art styles and all levels of skill, it feels more like 'a personal thing except we never fought a single time'. And now my toxic trait of needing approval from [cool person name] is back to haunt me years later! Add the unability to "abandon" this character/ship/whatever despite wanting to after facing so much unspoken passive spite, because I am a contrarian and the best way to trap me into doing something is to try to exclude me from it. I didn't face attempts to very aggressively bully me out of the yard/class/community/etc, sometimes with physical violence included, only to let something mid like passive aggression online finally do it.
I am really stupid and naive person despite my age, but in like 5% of the cases I will still understand the hint and understand what is going on. Yet I have to pretend to be clueless even in rare situations when I know someone hates me, because since they never admitted it, quitting will be perceived as me being "paranoid". But dear goooood, it hurts sometimes. I hope that one day I will be numbed to being treated as a tumor on an otherwise healthy body of society that someone is dying to amputate- and always a person whose approval I want, of all people. Knowing that this day will come is one of the things that keep me going as both a person and a creator. Things like viruses and diseases still try their best to persist, so even if I am actually one, I should persist. It doesn't matter whether I actually rot everything around me or this is just my self-depreciating delusion upon focusing on people that mistreated me and not people that loved me. What matters is persisting, I just still feel angry that it hurts. I can't respond spite with spite or passive aggression with passive aggression, I can't do the 'smug asshole' when I become aware that someone tries to starve me until I "die". I can just fall over and cry about it like a kicked dog, despite being so old, especially when it is a person I didn't have anything against.
And really.. It is as simple as turning the internet off, so I don't see The Person and can focus on doing stuff that I like, as if they never existed and can't crash my self-esteem. It is just annoying to keep doing this, a feature to not see them unless I am in the mood would be better. Like.. blocking is not an option. Not only it implies being enemies which is not my intention, but also it will be like an "evidence" that I was "crazy". They didn't do anything, right? Well, they know what they did, but it was never verbal, so it is my fault I "imagined things", right?
#/vent#/negative#/HEAVILY negative#fandomry rambles#like I started crying typing this do not read it unless you already know#it is just stupid how I don't even need any sort of drama to *just* annoy people to THIS severe point#like I said even before everything there was a very similar situation#I just evoke some primal hatred in specific type of people#it is probably what happened with maasanox but they apologized and moreover felt bad vibes from the stalker bully idiot#it is more like that meme from Lilo and Stitch#'ah yeah all artists and other creative fans deserve knowing they are liked and talented and supported...'#*katya walks in* 'EXCEPT THAT ONE!!!!!!!'#the punchline is that the two years ago guy and todays guy are fans of the same character#I swear the fictional bastard has abnormal ability to reveal the ugliest truths and bring out the worst in people#like the last time someone kinned the twink every single person here showed their true face and that was painful#not a single person got spared of showing what they were made of and me lacking spine was the LEAST of the sins brought up for judgement#you see this is why truth hurts. because people are terrible. truth is always ugly because WE are always ugly#I kinda love him for that but seriously can he stop making the worst things surface for FIVE minutes lol#in my excuse I am TRYING to kill my 'inner child' because these problems are too stupid but it seems impossible#I am a kicked dog with rabies in the past today and always
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I swear I've gone through every emotion known to man.... (And then some) today...
#spiteful angry a little happy and proud judgemental upset sad mourning#the list can go on#its been a day#my thoughts#mom went to detox today and will be in recovery for a month#i already feel lighter with her gone#but conflicted because i wasn't there for her#but i couldn't be because she wouldn't let me#and genuinely i didnt want to be because she was simultaneously never there for me#but shes done more for me than i ever could've asked in some ways#but i also never asked to be born wish i was never born and feel like ive never belonged here#like i was meant to be aborted but was born instead#and yet despite it all I'm angry at the world for the cards she was dealt#for the way she was treated as a child#and the way no one was there for her and moved on pretending like all was fine#(some generational trauma she picked up and carried over)#upset at her siblings and friends for never being there for her like she needed (but i also understand that she pushed everyone away and im#In the same boat as them in that sense#but also shes my mother and im her child and shes never been there's for me so how could i possibly know how to be there for her#i hate being understanding because white hot anger and hatred is easier#so much easier#ignorance is bliss frfr#part of me is also proud of her for finally doing this#scared that she might get mistreated at the facility furthering her trauma scared of her relapsing and what that will look like#wanting to be a support fixture for her when she comes back at the end of the month but realistically knowing i cant#spiteful because where is her support system right now? everyone has failed her#spent years enabling and ignoring her#i hope she has a support system or can curate one because it cant be me#it just cant#mother wound
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wanting fucked up elements in your comic vs people have 0 media literacy and reading comprehension and will probably call it "irredeemable media"
#rrghrhrgrh#my o/cd makes me wanna kms like i am irrationally scared of this shit happening#even w stainstar i am so so deeply scared of that happening even though compared to other things#its far more tame#cat who cannibalizes other cats. the descendent of a great leader who is severely delusional and does bad things in his name. leader who#exploits and manipulates a child so she can boost herself to the top#a story all about corruption and hatred and judgement
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And when I learned the things he had done, things for which it might be said that despising was an inadequate response, I found it hard to summon back that youthful disgust; for by then [...] my own deeds had taken from me the right to be my father's judge.
Moraes Zogoiby (Salman Rushdie's The Moor's Last Sigh, page 170)
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An AU where aemond accidentally kills Jace after claiming Vhagar, grows up as a black sheep who already believes he’s damned and is completely unbound by duty or honor or the gods he believes abandoned him when he spilt that much blood on dusty stones
#consider; aemond who is not his mother’s favorite#aemond who feels his father’s fury and his mother’s revulsion and his sister’s hatred#aemond who can feel the judgement of every eye on him at all times#even better if we count Valaena in this au#that’s dead dove baby!!!!#aemond targaryen#hotd#asoiaf
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anyone else just have a whole Troy McClure monologue running in their minds while they cook? just me? ok....
#HI im Troy McClure. You may remember me from such educational media as 'I Can't Believe It's Not Fallout!' and#'So you want to start a cult?'. Now#there comes a time in everyone's life when they have to ask themselves#'Is my desire to see the wonders of the Grand Canyon greater than my fear of enduring my mother loudly correcting the tour guide thus#scarring me for life with memories of the judgement and hatred of man and woman alike?' If you answered#YES. Then this video is for you! Today we'll be covering that unavoidable trial every man faces: Traveling with the Family.#me speak
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art is fun except for the several times it's not
#I spent four more hours awake then I wanted to just for the drawing to not even look that good at the end.#where are the “suffering is integral to art” crowd. where is my applause for forcing myself through that hell over a truly mediocre piece.#maybe it's the burning hatred in my heart for this piece forcing me to being awake at such a truly awful hour clouding my judgement#maybe tomorrow I will be a changed person. one with eyes untained by the veneer of vitriol. ready to appraise this work on it's own merit.#today is not tomorrow though so. this is just how my day has been I guess#tired tumblr posts#saying stuff#where is my applause for my suffering arguably being integral to the creation of this piece.#I am listening ever so patiently for a single clap from the apparent oh so vast audience that says art is not truly art if it is not painful#I am waiting in a silent room. where is my promised applause.#(I'm mostly being dramatic because I'm tired)#(pink dni.) (you were most definitely going to reblog this with “this is what I mean when I say you're weird tokoyami.” and I know that.)#(that's what you did. if you were wondering.)
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i think some people are naturally kinder and more compassionate and some people need to work harder on that stuff but its work that you SHOULD do if you dont want to feel terrible about yourself for the rest of your life (speaking from experience)
#not saying that im a good or kind person on any level but at least im not actively awful or bigoted to other people. i hope im not#im trying not to be too negative or hateful towards other ppl 😭#a little bit of bitching is allowed of course but try not to let that hatred and judgement consume you#txt
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