Over the years, I've gotten a lot of cis people messaging me about how they should go about dating or courting somebody who's trans, and I always felt like my responses would almost... disappoint them because there isn't this magic secret to dating us.
Cis people, if you want to date us, just date us. We're human beings, we're not wild animals to tame! I promise you can have a healthy relationship with a trans person without needing to feel like the world will end if you mess up.
Trans people who date cis people often want to feel secure in your acceptance of them. You don't have to talk about our transness for hours on end to prove that you accept your loved one. You don't have to put on a display and cabaret about how Much You Accept Us. Just be a person around us, and let us be people, too!
I almost want to disappoint cis people by reminding them of this. Some of the best relationships I've had with cis people have been ones where my transness is acknowledged, sure, but it's acknowledged in the same way that my left-handedness is. It's not a joke to them, it isn't something to be horrified about, but it's also something that they don't objectify me for.
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One of my besties is getting married this month and wanted to incorporate our baby boy into some of the table cards and thank you letters so I got to design these little templates featuring the handsome man himself.
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Do yourself a favor and take a seat for this one fam 👍
I fell upon a point
The axis of the spectrum
To bathe in abstract joy
Or die without direction
Determined steps we take
But please, for goodness sake
We’re not gonna make it out alive
I sit for wasted days and toil in desperation
To weep beneath a sky of fractured indication
Let faith lead you down
But please, for goodness sake
We’re not alive; we’re just getting older
I would help you, but I can’t
Seems that time got the upper hand
To live yet never understand
Is there a purpose?
But you look like heaven crashed on your shoulders
And you look like heaven crashed on your shoulders
And you look like heaven crashed on your shoulders
And you look like heaven crashed on your shoulders
But you look like heaven crashed on your shoulders
(Do we)
And you look like heaven crashed on your shoulders
(Deserve this)
And you look like heaven crashed on your shoulders
(Do we)
And you look like heaven crashed on your shoulders
(Deserve this)
Live by the subordinate belief
That we are more than this we live
By the subordinate belief
That we are more than this we live
Okay so you guys are just gonna have to trust me on this one. This came from an(other) anon source since the link on Way Back Machine is dead. This was published to Ves's YouTube channel on July 15, 2012. The description said something along the lines of this (basing it off memory, it's very loose):
I wrote this song about the idea that humans have evolved beyond our means. We suffer implications due to our sentience and awareness of our world, which leads us to questions we cannot answer. Animals are programmed to fear death but they probably aren't aware of its inevitability, where humans most certainly are, but are totally powerless to stop it.
Update on this song as of December 2023:
Two different Anons provided me with more background info. The first screenshot is the original description that Ves had (he also worded things in a much better and more Vessel way than I did lol). The second screenshot is copy+paste text from the lyrics portion below the description. I updated the lyrics to reflect the text.
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Question about Frank! What is his fighting style? I know you mentioned he does hand on hand, but does he do any specific form of martial arts?? Or is it just kind of the basic, punching, kicking, ect. Also, does he have some form of magic, or is he basically like Howdy? (I'm just imagining they all play like.. actual table top DnD and Frank is getting irritated because his rolls are garbage-)
i'm not nearly well versed enough in martial arts to name styles or blend them - though i feel a "i need to know everything i can about this" fixation creeping up... so i might be able to provide a better answer later!
but for now lets just say he's adapted his own stylized form, blended from his childhood training, what he learns on the streets, and what he picks up on his travels / figures out himself. i imagine it would be an efficient, ruthless, and elegant personal style of combat
Frank has no magic! if he rolled for it he'd somehow get a 0! he and Howdy are the only magicless maidens of the group
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do i really wanna read it tho? U beta'd it but whats so good about it? I wanna know
I have good taste in things. Ask any of my online comrades, i scarcely reccomend bad things.
Good characterization all around for both major and minor characters. I'm particularly fond of how Natsu is written in the fic.
Ever expanding lore. The world in the storys constantly bein built and expounded on.
Good pacing. Lives up to the slow burn tag (though im evil and think it could be slower, but alas, Rougie thinks thatd be too evil to do.)
Great action. Might be graphic to some but its an M rated fic for a reason.
Theres romance there but it isnt slapped on, its actually something that progresses and slowly grows instead of bein like, speedran.
I did another post here before on this a while back
You won't know if you'll like it if you don't give it a shot for yourself :]
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Sorry if you’ve been asked this before, but are there any twst characters you dislike? I know you have a deep love for the fish mafia, but I’m interested in hearing about any character you might have beef with 👀
As much as I adore the sleazy seafood, I will always have beef with Jade. 200 SUMMONS FOR THE EEL!!!! (#`д´)ノ troublesome eel!!!!! To be so patient in the arrival time while I was haunted by a dozen Lilias..... aaaaaaa he knows he is a pain and yet I still love him. orz
I don't dislike any of the characters. Although back when I first saw all of the designs in 2019(?), I thought Azul and the twins were...ugly. Mera, the resident fish lover, the one who has penned many Azul thoughts, the one who has written an entire story for Jade, the one who dedicates hours to fluffy Floyd time, thought the trio were unattractive. OTL I was blinded by the bright brilliance of a certain Riddle Rosehearts (he really was all I saw back then;;;; the collar he had on me was too tight that I couldn't escape). But even so to think that about the trio I like so much now... it's impossible. Unthinkable. A tragedy!!!! T^T
Now my opinion has changed drastically. I am trapped at the bottom of the sea with the fish mafia. <3
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