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[zooblesbutchpuppygirl]

I know I say this a lot but I really do think a lot about how much self shipping with Zooble has made my life so much better <:]

[orphiclovers]

'kim dokja would have kin tumblr' sure but you're missing the potential of real life fictional character Yoo Joonghyuk on kinblr at the same time. especially in a pre-scenario TWSA having world. unknowingly he saw a blog with his name and clicked on it.  kdj would be like 'no doubles' and yjh would be like '???' everyone would think they're two yjh kintypes from some obscure webnovel who are really really into it. they would have beef where yjh thinks his identity is being stolen and reports kdjs account. kdj would make more and they would continue sending each other deranged asks. sometimes kdj would do it in character as yjh. yjh would respond 'i do NOT sound like that' but to the outside world it just looks like hes in character responding too.

or like post-epilouge yjh making a reddit post on r/fictionkin like 'My [???M] boyfriend [???M] kins me. How do I deal with this?'

where the comments would at first be like 'factkinning is pretty controversial. talk to your boyfriend about having healthy boundaries.' but then yjh would respond 'I had to google this word. He wasn't 'factkinning.' I am a fictional character from a novel he read. I was the main character which he 'kinned' to cope with some pretty severe trauma he was going through at the time. I'm okay with it, I accepted it a long time ago.'

which causes confusion in the subreddit and people speculate that this is again two doubles dating and that yjh is more kinshifted than his partner. or 'op should be respectful of his partner having introjects of a character that they both clearly feel a deep connection to' since yjh mentioned kdj having trauma in another comment thread.

he gets really into defending his relationship on reddit. he has negative karma by the end of it.

hsy finds his account annd tells him that hes a freak and should get off the internet

[thenightshadowqueen]

Top ten SFTH character couples

(in my biased opinion)

Okay, first of all I’m so sorry to anyone who followed me for anything other than Shoot from the Hip content; I swear I’ll put in more variety. Someday. (Also go check out Shoot from the Hip.) Second of all, I did not join Tumblr with the intention of making a bunch of lists, but they’re fun to write and people seem to enjoy them, so here goes.

10. Justin x the Beetroots MC (headcanon)

Listen, I do NOT condone the whole “if they’re bullying you, that means they like you” bullshit. That being said, years and years later, after both of them have grown as people, I think they could have a really sweet relationship, at least after they work through everything.

9. André Beetroot x Xavier (canon, somehow)

I kind of ship this in a joking way, but also kind of not? They make sense together in a really weird, fucked-up way, and I’m so here for it. (I cannot believe that they’ve canonically hooked up. Multiple times. I love AJ so much for giving us this.)

8. Andrew x Nigel (headcanon)

It’s so toxic. It’s so toxic, and I know that, and it would never be okay in real life, but some dark part of me is really fascinated by the possibilities. (I cannot emphasise enough how much I am intrigued by this in FICTION ONLY.)

7. Jack and Jackie (canon)

Complete turnaround from the last two, but these two are genuinely so sweet. I honestly don’t even have much to say about them, but I love them. So much.

6. François x Mimi (canon)

They are so toxic. They’re horrible people, and they only make each other worse. And I love it. (You know, making this list did make me worry about my mental health slightly. Just slightly.)

5. Toby x the meth wife (canon)

First of all, this is the gayest straight-presenting relationship I’ve ever seen, and I love it. (I totally headcanon them both as bi/pan/queer/etc., but that’s not the point of this post.) And honestly, they’re so supportive of each other. They’re, like, genuinely a healthy couple (in a SFTH play? Can you imagine?). They have so much love for each other, and I could talk about them all day, but I’m fairly sure no one needs that, so I’ll stop.

4. Andrews x Betruva (headcanon)

Listen, I might be a little biased because they’re new, but they kind of have everything I look for in a ship. They have millennia of history, which is always a good start. They’re ancient nemeses. They founded a church named after them both???? Honestly how much more gay can you get?

3. Esmerelda x the vampire slayer (canon)

I like to imagine that Esmeralda survived, and they fall in love, and they have to work through the trauma of the slayer (I think I saw the fanon name Samantha? But I’m not sure) trying to kill Esmeralda. There’s just so much angst potential, and oh, now I want to write a fanfic.

2. Bubba x Jeramiah (canon)

They’re a fucking classic, okay, and they’re a classic for a reason. They are the best gay cowboys, and I love them so much. I know I should have more to say, but I feel like it would just be incoherent screaming.

1. Derek x Titch (canon)

Listen, who else could it be? They are so fundamentally amazing. It’s a classic case of “he fell first, he fell harder” (even if we don’t get to see a lot of the “he fell harder” part, I believe it with all my heart). I love Titch working though his issues and learning to open up, and I love Derek being so helplessly in love with him. I love them so much, and they deserve the top spot.

[destiel-wings]

I hope you don't mind me asking, but what are your thoughts on angel x buffy? :)

Hii i don't mind, thank you for asking 😊

So, I used to love bangel sooooo much when i first watched the show. I was 100% into it, (with a crush for Boreanaz too) and i cried so much for them in s2 and when Angel left the show in s3. And I truly, sincerely, unironically hated Spike too (I thought he was a great character but i just loved hating him, you know? Lol). When we saw Spike's dream of kissing Buffy I swear i felt nauseous.

... and then they aired Fool for love.

By the end of that episode I was left in utter existential crisis in front of my tv because i felt my whole world shift. There was a part of me that still liked Angel and Buffy, but there was also this new part that wanted her to be with Spike now.

So anyway, that's when i decided to switch teams and i became team spuffy, and for as much as i had been obsessed with bangel before, it was nothing compared to how deep i was caught into the Buffy and Spike relationship. I never looked back. They were just much more complex and real and compelling. And it made me reevaluate Angel and her relationship with him too. Angel never really knew Buffy, always treated her like a child, and let's be honest--and that's something that hit me only years later when I got older--she was a child when they were together. He was spying on her and falling in love with her when she was just fifteen years old and he was a 240-year-old vampire who had been sired at like 26 years old, and they got together when she was 16/17 and he broke up with her when she turned 18... I don't think that's something the writers did intentionally of course, because (as everything else in buffy) it's just meant to be taken as a metaphor for the ideals and struggles and the intensity of drama of a girl's first love, but it still comes off as icky.

And before anyone comes at me, I know spuffy isn't healthy either, but that's kinda the point and the appeal. First of all, it's fiction and a metaphor, and secondly, it's about two broken people that are supposed to be mortal enemies but are actually two sides of the same coin, so different and yet so much the same, who can understand each other as a whole, light and darkness, in a way that no one else ever could, who yes, hurt each other along the way, but whose love saved them from the deepest darkness, ultimately bringing them into the light.

This is what spuffy is to me, and this is why i think it's not only the superior ship, but one of the best ships of all time (thee best, until i saw destiel, now they're sharing the podium).

So anyway, to get back to your question, the moment i became obsessed with Buffy and Spike (and i have been ever since 2005, lmao, they've been my first real obsession, alongside btvs, until spn and destiel) Angel sort of became the enemy 😅. And I hated him so so so so so much when he appeared in 7x21 and kissed Buffy (pure fanservice, but okay) and brought the medallion that ultimately killed Spike. So i spent years very maturely holding my vendetta against Angel (like, rooting for every demon that fought against him when I watched Angel, lmaoo). In most recent years, I've (sort of) made my peace with the character, after rewatching Angel. I mean he's still the enemy (of course, duh!! Who am i if not eternally petty??) but i appreciate him in his own show.

So i don't ship Angel and Buffy anymore, but I can understand why someone would (as i myself used to), and more importantly, i respect other people's right to ship them.

If we're joking, I'm going to insult Angel and keep saying he's the enemy. But on a mature serious note, I think Buffy and Angel were a great first love (for Buffy), but they were supposed to be just that, the impossible teenage girl's dream of a first love, eternal but doomed to end and break your heart.

I think Angel was much more well paired with Cordelia (which is something I'd never think I'd say), and i found myself shipping them so much when I rewatched the show. It felt so much more mature and profound than what we saw with Buffy and Angel (and that's probably due to the fact that we got slow burn for them - as we did for Buffy and Spike- and could actually see the feelings growing, while Buffy crushed on Angel in the pilot and she was madly in love (as teenagers do) in 0.5 seconds for no apparent reason than the fact that he was hot and mysterious.

So when I say the kiss in btvs 7x21 makes zero sense, I'm not just talking about spuffy, but also about cangel. I feel like both characters parted ways and lived on in their own shows to grow and become their own persons, developing other relationships that were more adult and meaningful, and that kiss was just disrespectful for both (but anyways, it doesn't change anything).

I have so many thoughts about all this honestly, and I hope I haven't gone too much off the tangent with my reply, but i couldn't just give you a simple reply because that would've had to be something like "angel is the enemy and i don't like bangel" but as you can see my thoughts are a little more complex than that 😅

[miradelletarot]

It's Complicated

If you've been following my blog for a while, you are more than aware of my personal life shit. When I started playing BG3, my marriage was about to become a memory and my life was getting completely flipped upside down.

Things are better, but not perfect. That's okay though because I know, in time, things will get better.

*and here's where I am really hanging my ass out here because these are complicated feelings and I know I'm not the only one who has them*

A lot of feelings and words below the cut.

When BG3 found me, I was clearly in a very mentally and emotionally vulnerable state. My marriage hadn't quite become past tense, but it was nearly there. In that time, I buried myself in the world that felt safer and more stable even though it wasn't real. (which I can now safely acknowledge that this was very unhealthy behavior. Hindsight and therapy and all that.)

To that end, that's when Gale happened. I wasn't all heart eyes at first. he was charming, sure, but my D&D brain had me thinking that *this fuckin guy is gonna infiltrate my camp and try to poison us all.* Turns out, he was but a man with a lot of ambition, magically inflicted, and broken hearted. At least on the latter we had something in common. A lot of what Mystra did to Gale felt very similar to what my ex did to me with the mental and emotional ab*se.

This is where things get weird for me I guess. keep in mind, this is *definitely* my first rodeo when it comes to fictional characters. Sure, I have certainly thought some were hot asf, but I never developed real feelings for one. The more I interacted with Gale, the more I liked him. Somewhere near the end of act 1 was when I was gone. The braincells were well and truly rotten and Gale consumed the remnants of my feeble mind. (Had a friend running the game with me at the time so I missed a LOT in my first PT and nearly lost my chance to romance *anyone* b/c of it so that was a whole thing). Logically, I *KNOW* he's not real. He's pixels. Art. Crafted by professionals to give him a semblance of life. He was scripted by talented writers, voiced by an exceptionally talented actor. Gale Dekarios is a lovingly built fictional man with flaws and feelings (all scripted and thoughtfully chosen,) but it doesn't take away from the fact that as i interacted with him as my character, making choices that *she* would make, it still resonated so strongly with me because at the time, I was overly immersed into the world as if I was living it. Which, honestly makes sense, given that my fantasy was far better than my reality. The illusion of a life I wanted to have instead of the one that I did.

This whole experience sparked a jolt of creativity in me. I'm writing again! I'm on zine projects! Things I never expected I'd get to do. For all intents and purposes, this game has effectively changed my life for the better in a lot of ways. I have made lasting, forever friendships from it (three people specifically, I got to meet last year and will be seeing again this year.) I wish I could meet everyone, but alas, the land and sea keep us at a distance.

But I digress.

I'm lonely. I was with someone for 16 years. He wasn't good for me, and our relationship was hardly ever healthy. I'm not used to being alone. Gale kinda fills that void but only emotionally. And the scary part about that is...there's real love there. Feelings I *used* to have for my ex (when we were young and unafraid of the cruel word we found ourselves in,) I developed for Gale. It feels so strange saying this, but like...I am *in* love with him. There. I said it. Godsdamnit.

And I can't wrap my head around that.

He's not real, and yet I ache for him as if he were. I cried the other day, wondering about what if I get bored or out grow him and he's no longer an important part of my life? I think about lines from the game that he says to our characters and his voice brings me comfort.

It's painfully unfair that the universe put this fictional man on my radar, and i can't even have him for real. Because he isn't. he never will be. Sure, people say "there's a real gale out there for you somewhere," but it just doesn't feel like that's real either. Even with his (perfectly curated by a design/writing team) flaws, he's perfect to me.

I wish I could call or text him about my day or hold him at night when I'm crawling into bed. i wish he could run his fingers through my hair and knead my aching joints after a long work day and tell me things will be okay when I'm hurting. I wish for so many things that I can't have because *he's an illusion*. He doesn't exist.

Ya know what else sucks?? I'm demisexual. Not that that, in itself sucks, but the idea of being with a whole other person gives me the ick. It scares me to even THINK of trying to put myself out there and meet new people and try to have a relationship with them. I *can't*.

On the flipside to all this, we could always start a discussion about "what is real? what makes something/someone real?" But, I'm not smart enough for the depths of that very philosophical conversation.

[big heavy sigh]

It's just so fucking cruel that someone who means so much to me isn't a someone at all...he's a something. pixels. the stuff of pure imagination and it'll never be more than that. And that, my friends, is the most heartbreaking reality of all.

[milksnake-tea]

oh hello there. fancy seeing you here ;) god help me im so bad at this

Okay but for real though, I'm still blinking at this because we've officially reached (and transcended because I'm late) 2,000 FOLLOWERS !!!!! I'm honestly still in shock because I'm still recovering from 1k ..... I can't thank you all enough for the love and support you've given me and my silly writings, I can't believe my silly little blog has gotten this far sniffles

SO. for the event because i am NOT letting you all go empty handed. We are not doing a prompt drabble thing because I learned my lesson from the last event but WHAT WE ARE DOING. is like. this weird Q&A but like not. okay wait i'll explain it's kind of confusing but !!!

TLDR : I want to get to know you guys better (and you guys to know me better !!!), so I'll be doing an ask game! You can ask me about myself, my opinions on characters, and my headcanons on them as well !! It'll be more casual because that's easier for me (so it'll be me talking rather than my writing voice yall know), but I want this to be really fun for all of us :D

duration for asks: 3/19 - 3/26

rules

ABSOLUTELY NO NSFW. I am here to be silly not horny.

Don't ask me anything too personal or invasive, if you do I'll delete the ask altogether.

Don't ask for romantic headcanons for minor characters, arlan, or welt.

Be respectful, please !!! I just want to have fun guys :(

You can ask me things other than what's on the prompt lists, just as long as it isn't inappropriate.

Don't ask me on my opinions of ships, especially ratiorine (I mean this in the nicest way possible I just don't like that ship).

For my opinions on characters, you can ask about characters outside of HSR (as long as I know them), but for character hcs, keep it to HSR.

ask prompts - author !!!

What's set as your phone screen?

Do you have any pets?

What's your typical order at a cafe?

Do you prefer coffee or tea?

If you had to pick one character from ___ as your favorite, who would it be?

What's the last song you listened to?

Who's your favorite song artist?

Who was your first fictional crush?

What was the first fic you've written online?

How long have you been on Tumblr?

What's your favorite food?

What's your favorite color?

Name the WIP that's been rotting in your drafts the longest.

Name the WIP that you want to share the most.

What authors do you recommend?

Who are your mains?

What characters do you think you're the most similar to?

ask prompts - characters !!!

What are your general hcs about them?

What do you think their love language is?

On a scale of 1-10, how healthy are they in a relationship?

What's an unpopular opinion you have? (can be on a character or a fandom!!)

Character Analysis

What do you think ___ is like in love?

What kind of person do you think ___ wants in a relationship?

What's an ick you'd think a character has?

Who do you think would be the best partner, realistically?

How good at cuddling is ___?

What's a really stupid hc you have about a character?

What's a character duo that you really want to see interacting/see more of?

What character do you think is really underrated in the fandom?

What characters do you think would be the best friends or companions to have?

[tutelaryfauna]

I just have to get these thoughts out on paper AND THIS IS GONNA SOUND SO CHRONICALLY ONLINE IM SORRY

Growing up autistic and turning to fiction for comfort actually does something to you. At times it can be a healthy coping mechanism but there’s a point where it can become unhealthy. For me personally, I don’t think it’s negatively impacted me but there are things I notice in myself that are a wee bit concerning.

Feeling chronically isolated your entire upbringing is hard, so you find comfort in the shows and movies you watch. You might adopt an imaginary friend of a character or focus in on one character you really like. You may identify really strongly with one character and become possessive over it. You may even develop feelings for a character and it manifests into a strange parasocial (?) relationship.

These feelings can manifest in a possessive way, like jealousy. I remember feeling genuine anger towards people who claimed to love the same character I did, especially when I saw that character as obscure and unique to me. I remember feeling jealousy and insecurity towards people who identified with the same characters I did. And finally, I would feel jealousy towards people who had crushes on characters I had crushes on. I never acted on this because I was aware enough to recognize “hey these are literal fictional characters, it’s stupid to feel this way.” The point is that I still felt those feelings. At first it’s like, okay, whatever, but then you get to a point where you realize you were forming serious emotional connections with things that weren’t real.

It just sucks to realize that you felt so outcasted by society that you turned to ideas on paper as a substitute for human connection. Anyway, the reason I’m writing this is because I’m in a happy relationship and I’m realizing I don’t know how to do this. I do not know how to have human connection.

(I should probably throw in a side note of me being aroace spec, and for a long time I had accepted that I would never pursue a romantic relationship)

This is so all over the place, I apologize, but going back to me realizing I was treating these fictional characters like real relationships- giving characters I see romantically any attention at all feels cheaty. How stupid is that.

I am LONELY. That is the only explanation as to how someone can feel this way. I have a boyfriend, and I have so many friends. I’m close with my coworkers. And yet, somehow, on some level, I am still lonely. And part of me revels in that. I accepted that I would only ever have myself a long time ago, and that was comforting! But now I’m at a stage where it doesn’t have to be like that and I just don’t know what to do with it.

And don’t worry, I’m not sitting around every day thinking about fictional characters and stuff like that, it’s just this was something that dawned on me today, and I had to write down what I was thinking. It was fun devoting my days to whatever character/universe I was into at the time- going through Pinterest, customizing my phone background, making playlists, drawing said character- that kind of stuff.

Thank god my bf doesn’t use tumblr cuz this is a lame ass post 😭

[kats-kradle]

@sophieswundergarten GUESS WHAT I can’t find a link for your fic so I’m making one EVERYONE GO READ THIS

Fandoms: The Mysterious Benedict Society - Trenton Lee Stewart, The Mysterious Benedict Society (TV)

Relationships: Constance Contraire & Sticky Washington, Nicholas Benedict & Sticky Washington, Reynie Muldoon & Sticky Washington, Sticky Washington & Kate Wetherall, Constance Contraire & Reynie Muldoon & Sticky Washington & Kate Wetherall, Nicholas Benedict & Constance Contraire

Characters: Sticky Washington, Kate Wetherall, Reynie Muldoon, Constance Contraire, Nicholas Benedict

Additional Tags: Anxiety, this is a little dark, In terms of mental health stuff, Intrusive Thoughts, Obsessive-Compulsive Disorder, Hurt/Comfort, Emotional Hurt/Comfort, Angst and Hurt/Comfort, IT GETS REAL BAD AND THEN IT'S BETTER, Set somewhere around Riddle of Ages, BUT THAT'S JUST FOR TIMEFRAME REFERENCE, DON'T WORRY MOTH NO SPOILERS, Just me dumping all of my emotional problems on fictional children again, I am SO mentally stable /s, But really a lot of the stuff I've read reminds me of Sticky, And I very much wanted to write more of Sticky and Constance being siblings, So there's a healthy dose of that in there, I hope this is worth a read to someone

Summary:

He blinked awake. It’s only a matter of time before they leave you. Either by choice or by force, they’re going to leave you

Okay. Well, that was less than ideal for his first thought of the morning.

Please read the Author's Note real quick!

[dontcxckitup]

Role Play Comfort Zone!

A valuable meme for any roleplayer! Come display your comfort levels so your roleplay partners are aware of what they can do, and of what they should avoid! A healthy relationship between role-play partners is the key to a good time! While this meme shows the basics, please remember to communicate with your roleplay partners! REPOST DON’T REBLOG!

Key: BOLD = Yes. Normal = Okay/Ask me about it. Strike = No. tagged by found tagging: Anyone!

ROLEPLAY BASICS

LOCATIONS I am comfortable doing:

tumblr

email

kik, im, discord

google docs

skype

forum

other

PARTICIPANTS I am comfortable with:

One on one roleplays. 

Up to three people.

Up to four people.

Five or more people!

As big as possible!

POST LENGTH I usually write about:

One or two sentences.

One or two paragraphs.

Two to five paragraphs.

More than five paragraphs. 

A few pages worth.

I AM COMFORTABLE ROLE-PLAYING WITH PEOPLE WHO WRITE:

One or two sentences. 

One or two paragraphs..

Two to five paragraphs.

More than five paragraphs.

A few pages worth. 

Write me a book.

ROLE-PLAY REQUESTS I like getting requests from:

Anyone and everyone at any time! 

When I ask for roleplays.

From friends and acquaintances.

From friends only.

ROMANTIC RELATIONSHIPS ** IMPORTANT: Communication is the key to a real life relationship, it shouldn’t be abandoned for a fictional one either! Be sure to talk to your partners when considering romance

SHIPPING I am comfortable shipping my characters:

Never.

If our characters know each other deeply. 

If our characters know each other deeply, and I know I can trust the role-player.

At the first sign of flirting! 

Only if the role-player and I plan it.

It’s situational to each character.

If you want to ship with my characters:

Talk to me about it from the start.

Talk to me about it once our characters know each other.

Talk to me about it once they both have some feelings for each other.

Talk to me about it when they finally decide that want to go beyond hugging.

Talk to me anytime - there’s no requirement.

SPEED When shipping my characters, I like the romance to happen:

Swift as lightning!

Fast, but not super fast.

Happens in about three months.

Slow and steady wins the race.

Slugs know what’s up!

My relationships know no speed. They happen if they happen.

SMUT When my characters get intimate, I prefer:

To skip the act entirely.

To write the build up, but skip the act.

To write the act only if it is very special, but otherwise, skip it.

To write the act all the way through

ROMANTIC ARTWORK When it comes to artwork depicting our relationship please:

Do not post it at all without talking to me.

Post it if it is cuddles and hugs.

Post it if it is kisses.

Post it if it is N.SFW.

Only post it if it depicts N.SFW privately between us.

Do not post it at all if it depicts sexual acts!

Do not post it where I can see it, but draw what you like!

DRAMATICS ** Important: Always be sure to communicate with your partner individually if you think you are about to go outside their comfort zones even just the slightest bit!

VIOLENCE When it comes to violent situations, I am comfortable with:

No violence at all!

I’m fine with verbal arguments!

Some violence, like a paper cut, or an accidental elbow to the face.

Mild violence, such as punching, kicking, hair pulling.

Violence, such as stabbings.

Beyond violence, such as torture and more.

If you are going to do something violent, please:

Don’t do it at all.

Talk to me about it first.

Surprise me!

DRAMATIC ARTWORK:

Do not post any dramatic scenes that happened between our characters.

Talk to me about it before posting!

Post what you like!

[zooblesbutchpuppygirl]

It's midnight I can post this now yayyy :D Anyway me and Zooble have been together for 5 months!! My first real and healthy relationship is with a fictional character but you know what. I am okay with that <3

Proshippers/adjacent dni. 100000 shark attack 🦈🦈🦈🦈🦈🦈🦈🦈🦈🦈🦈🦈🦈🦈🦈🦈🦈🦈🦈🦈🦈🦈🦈🦈 also Zooble self ship doubles dni

Also me getting emotional under the cut lol

These past 5 months have been so much more bearable thanks to Zooble. I'm genuinely doing so much better than I was earlier this year!!! They really have helped me with so much and idk what I'd do without them at this point

I think the craziest part is how they fell in love with me first. I had Very little knowledge of tadc outside of what I'd seen on my dash. I barely even knew any of the characters names. Zooble just like. Randomly popped into my head one day, which finally pushed me to check out tadc

I ended up loving it AND ended up falling in love with Zooble!! idk if there are enough words to even describe just how much i love them. They mean the world to me. They've really helped me cope better, they're helping me learn to manage my symptoms a lot better and through my self ship they're slowly helping me overcome my fear of talking to people!!

Zooble has done so much for me and I'm so thankful that they're apart of my life now. I love them so much <3

[ayakoito]

Role Play Comfort Zone!

A valuable meme for any roleplayer! Come display your comfort levels so your roleplay partners are aware of what they can do, and of what they should avoid! A healthy relationship between role-play partners is the key to a good time! While this meme shows the basics, please remember to communicate with your roleplay partners! REPOST DON’T REBLOG!

Key: BOLD = Yes. Normal = Okay/Ask me about it. Strike = No.

tagged by: stolen from @reevezs ♥

tagging: you ♥

ROLEPLAY BASICS

LOCATIONS I am comfortable doing:

tumblr

email

kik, im

google docs

skype

forum

other

PARTICIPANTS I am comfortable with:

One on one roleplays. 

Up to three people.

Up to four people.

Five or more people!

As big as possible!

POST LENGTH I usually write about:

One or two sentences. (a few exceptions like our muses texting each other etc <- i steal)

One or two paragraphs.

Two to five paragraphs.

More than five paragraphs. (rarely)

A few pages worth.

I AM COMFORTABLE ROLE-PLAYING WITH PEOPLE WHO WRITE:

One or two sentences. (again, a few exceptions <- i steal again)

One or two paragraphs.

Two to five paragraphs.

More than five paragraphs.

A few pages worth. 

Write me a book.

ROLE-PLAY REQUESTS I like getting requests from:

Anyone and everyone at any time! 

When I ask for roleplays.

From friends and acquaintances.

From friends only.

ROMANTIC RELATIONSHIPS ** IMPORTANT: Communication is the key to a real life relationship, it shouldn’t be abandoned for a fictional one either! Be sure to talk to your partners when considering romance

SHIPPING I am comfortable shipping my characters:

Never.

If our characters know each other deeply. 

If our characters know each other deeply, and I know I can trust the role-player.

At the first sign of flirting! 

Only if the role-player and I plan it.

It’s situational to each character.

If you want to ship with my characters:

Talk to me about it from the start. (there must be some kind of chemistry)

Talk to me about it once our characters know each other.

Talk to me about it once they both have some feelings for each other.

Talk to me about it when they finally decide that want to go beyond hugging.

Talk to me anytime - there’s no requirement.

SPEED When shipping my characters, I like the romance to happen:

Swift as lightning!

Fast, but not super fast.

Happens in about three months.

Slow and steady wins the race.

Slugs know what’s up!

My relationships know no speed. They happen if they happen.

SMUT When my characters get intimate, I prefer:

To skip the act entirely. (gimme all the details!!)

To write the build up, but skip the act.

To write the act only if it is very special, but otherwise, skip it.

To write the act all the way through.

ROMANTIC ARTWORK When it comes to artwork depicting our relationship please:

Do not post it at all without talking to me.

Post it if it is cuddles and hugs.

Post it if it is kisses.

Post it if it is N.SFW.

Only post it if it depicts N.SFW privately between us.

Do not post it at all if it depicts sexual acts!

Do not post it where I can see it, but draw what you like!

DRAMATICS ** Important: Always be sure to communicate with your partner individually if you think you are about to go outside their comfort zones even just the slightest bit!

VIOLENCE When it comes to violent situations, I am comfortable with:

No violence at all!

I’m fine with verbal arguments!

Some violence, like a paper cut, or an accidental elbow to the face.

Mild violence, such as punching, kicking, hair pulling.

Violence, such as stabbings.

Beyond violence, such as torture and more. (depends)

If you are going to do something violent, please:

Don’t do it at all.

Talk to me about it first.

Surprise me!

DRAMATIC ARTWORK:

Do not post any dramatic scenes that happened between our characters.

Talk to me about it before posting!

Post what you like!

[southern-belle-outcasts]

Role Play Comfort Zone!

A valuable meme for any roleplayer! Come display your comfort levels so your roleplay partners are aware of what they can do, and of what they should avoid! A healthy relationship between role-play partners is the key to a good time! While this meme shows the basics, please remember to communicate with your roleplay partners! REPOST DON’T REBLOG!

Key: BOLD = Yes. Normal = Okay/Ask me about it. Strike = No.

ROLEPLAY BASICS

LOCATIONS I am comfortable doing:

tumblr (i like having a central location)

email

discord (if we're very established and talk regulary can do short stuff there)

google docs

skype

forum

other- wire (if we have an established muse relationship)

PARTICIPANTS I am comfortable with:

One on one roleplays. 

Up to three people. (there's all of three people i'd be okay with doing this, it usually invites drama)

Up to four people.

Five or more people!

As big as possible!

POST LENGTH I usually write about:

One or two sentences. (I don't even consider three sentences enough to jump off of tbh unless we're doing real time rapid fire writing on discord which is…nobody)

One or two paragraphs.

Two to five paragraphs.

More than five paragraphs. 

A few pages worth. 

I AM COMFORTABLE ROLE-PLAYING WITH PEOPLE WHO WRITE:

One or two sentences.

One or two paragraphs. {So long as we're both pulling weight we can make it work}

Two to five paragraphs.

More than five paragraphs.

A few pages worth. 

Write me a book.

ROLE-PLAY REQUESTS I like getting requests from:

Anyone and everyone at any time! (provided you read the rules, you're free to ask!)

When I ask for roleplays. (I'll be honest I rarely do because I'm so busy if I get new partners, they found me not the other way around)

From friends and acquaintances. (as in mutuals only, like it says on the tin)

From friends only.

ROMANTIC RELATIONSHIPS ** IMPORTANT: Communication is the key to a real life relationship, it shouldn’t be abandoned for a fictional one either! Be sure to talk to your partners when considering romance

SHIPPING I am comfortable shipping my characters:

Never.

If our characters know each other deeply. 

If our characters know each other deeply, and I know I can trust the role-player.

At the first sign of flirting! 

Only if the role-player and I plan it.

It’s situational to each character.

If you want to ship with my characters:

Talk to me about it from the start.

Talk to me about it once our characters know each other.

Talk to me about it once they both have some feelings for each other.

Talk to me about it when they finally decide that they want to go beyond hugging.

Talk to me anytime - there’s no requirement. (for the established partners, I'm not a free porn machine)

SPEED When shipping my characters, I like the romance to happen:

Swift as lightning!

Fast, but not super fast.

Happens in about three months.

Slow and steady wins the race.

Slugs know what’s up!

My relationships know no speed. They happen if they happen. (I do not control these bitches I just write up the incident reports)

SMUT When my characters get intimate, I prefer:

To skip the act entirely.

To write the build up, but skip the act.

To write the act only if it is very special, but otherwise, skip it.

To write the act all the way through. (i'm fine with varying levels of detail, but this is a sex positive space so expect detailed to pop up if we're well established unless you've communicated otherwise)

ROMANTIC ARTWORK When it comes to artwork depicting our relationship please:

Do not post it at all without talking to me.

Post it if it is cuddles and hugs.

Post it if it is kisses.

Post it if it is N.SFW.

Only post it if it depicts N.SFW privately between us.

Do not post it at all if it depicts sexual acts!

Do not post it where I can see it, but draw what you like!

Do not post it unless you drew it, commissioned it, or received permission from the artist and credited

DRAMATICS ** Important: Always be sure to communicate with your partner individually if you think you are about to go outside their comfort zones even just the slightest bit!

VIOLENCE When it comes to violent situations, I am comfortable with:

No violence at all!

I’m fine with verbal arguments!

Some violence, like a paper cut, or an accidental elbow to the face.

Mild violence, such as punching, kicking, hair pulling.

Violence, such as stabbings.

Beyond violence, such as torture and more. 

If you are going to do something violent, please:

Don’t do it at all.

Talk to me about it first.

Surprise me! (I come from the old school rule of so long as you don't flat out kill my character or obliterate them, you can do just about whatever without asking first and we can sort it out after if needed)

DRAMATIC ARTWORK:

Do not post any dramatic scenes that happened between our characters.

Talk to me about it before posting!

Post what you like! (see above on art theft)

Tagged by: @kylo-wrecked

Tagging: you're it

[bananastarion]

I'm drunk and I just want to say, that my love for Astarion is real yo. He might not be real, but my feelings are real. You feel me? When I think of him, my heart just swells with joy. He fills me with a sense of peace I've never gotten from my real relationships. I am cringe, but I am free. I know it would be healthier to give all of this love to a real person, but there are no real people in my life at the moment, so this is a welcome respite for me. Thanks to all the joy Baldur's Gate 3 has brought me, I've been able to kickstart ending my marijuana and nicotine addictions, and have significantly cut back my drinking. I'm doing great at work and have been promoted to manager so I'm making good money. I'm finally getting back into art and writing again after my PTSD robbed me of that gift for 4 years. I'm thriving.

Even my therapist is like, gurl you go right on ahead and love on Astarion, you deserve to finally be happy after all you've been through. Any moment of happiness I get, no matter where it comes from, is a victory at this point. My entire life has been hell. She gave me the stamp of approval and said what I'm doing is totally healthy and a-ok. Well, don't mind if I fucking do, then. I've had crushes on fictional characters loads of times before, but simping over one that has 9k+ lines of dialogue is a new level of immersion that just totally hijacks my brain. I can't wait until AI and VR get advanced enough that I can be totally lost in the fantasy sauce. I think some people just need that to function at times, and that's okay. I'm still open to real relationships, but I have a lot of work to do on myself first, so for now this will scratch that itch. I'm not stuck thinking about my deceased boyfriend so much anymore, I finally have a distraction. I can finally rest. I'm finally doing okay, and I'm grateful BG3 showed up in my life when it did. It's not just Astarion, I love the whole game, I love my found family of companions, I love the story, I love the setting. I just wish I could live there, but maybe I can find some magic in my own little world eventually.

[kylo-wrecked]

Role Play/Shipping Comfort Zone!

A valuable meme for any roleplayer! Come display your comfort levels so your roleplay partners are aware of what they can do, and of what they should avoid! A healthy relationship between role-play partners is the key to a good time! While this meme shows the basics, please remember to communicate with your roleplay partners!

REPOST DON’T REBLOG!

Key: BOLD = Yes. Italicized = Okay/Ask me about it. Strike = No.

ROLEPLAY BASICS

LOCATIONS I am comfortable doing:

tumblr {i like having one hub}

email

discord {short stuff- if we speak regularly}

google docs {non-fandom threads}

skype

forum

other

PARTICIPANTS I am comfortable with:

One-on-one roleplays. 

Up to three people.

Up to four people.

Five or more people!

As big as possible!

POST LENGTH I usually write about:

One or two sentences.

One or two paragraphs.

Two to five paragraphs.

More than five paragraphs. 

A few pages worth.

I AM COMFORTABLE ROLE-PLAYING WITH PEOPLE WHO WRITE:

One or two sentences.

One or two paragraphs. {that are compelling or get us somewhere}

Two to five paragraphs.

More than five paragraphs.

A few pages worth. 

Write me a book. {lol absolutely not}

ROLE-PLAY REQUESTS I like getting requests from:

Anyone and everyone at any time!  {from mutuals. i also have an interest check, which is for anyone and everyone.}

When I ask for roleplays.

From friends and acquaintances.

From friends only.

ROMANTIC RELATIONSHIPS ** IMPORTANT: Communication is the key to a real life relationship, it shouldn’t be abandoned for a fictional one either! Be sure to talk to your partners when considering romance

SHIPPING I am comfortable shipping my characters:

Never. {? platonic/familial need as much finagling, i think}

If our characters know each other deeply. 

If our characters know each other deeply, and I know I can trust the role-player.

At the first sign of flirting! 

Only if the role-player and I plan it.

It’s situational to each character.

If you want to ship with my characters:

Talk to me about it from the start. Let's talk if and when we've started writing.

Talk to me about it once our characters know each other.

Talk to me about it once they both have some feelings for each other.

Talk to me about it when they finally decide that want to go beyond hugging.

Talk to me anytime - there’s no requirement. {so long as the desire to ship doesn’t outweigh the desire to rp}

SPEED When shipping my characters, I like the romance to happen:

Swift as lightning!

Fast, but not super fast.

Happens in about three months.

Slow and steady wins the race.

Slugs know what’s up!

My ships know no speed. They happen if they happen.

SMUT When my characters get intimate, I prefer:

To skip the act entirely.

To write the build-up but skip the act.

To write the act only if it is very special, but otherwise, skip it with sensual or poetic language

To write the act all the way through. {but i'm not a softcore porn bank }

ROMANTIC ARTWORK When it comes to artwork depicting our ship please:

Do not post it at all without talking to me.

Post it if it is cuddles and hugs.

Post it if it is kisses.

Post it if it is N.SFW.

Only post it if it depicts N.SFW privately between us.

Do not post it at all if it depicts sexual acts!

Do not post it where I can see it, but draw what you like!

DRAMATICS ** Important: Always be sure to communicate with your partner individually if you think you are about to go outside their comfort zones even just the slightest bit!

VIOLENCE When it comes to violent situations, I am comfortable with:

No violence at all!

I’m fine with verbal arguments!

Some violence, like a paper cut, or an accidental elbow to the face.

Mild violence, such as punching, kicking, hair pulling.

Violence, such as stabbings.

Beyond violence, such as torture and more.

If you are going to do something violent, please:

Don’t do it at all.

Talk to me about it first.

Surprise me! {keep in mind dark!ren and friends are OP af}

DRAMATIC ARTWORK:

Do not post any dramatic scenes that happened between our characters.

Talk to me about it before posting!

Post what you like!

tagged by:// @brooklynislandgirl

tagging:// steal it and tag me

[sonoftartessos]

Role Play Comfort Zone!

A valuable meme for any roleplayer! Come display your comfort levels so your roleplay partners are aware of what they can do, and of what they should avoid! A healthy relationship between role-play partners is the key to a good time! While this meme shows the basics, please remember to communicate with your roleplay partners! REPOST DON’T REBLOG!

Key: BOLD = Yes. Normal = Okay/Ask me about it. Strike = No.

tagged by: stolen from @ayakoito

tagging: anyone!

ROLEPLAY BASICS

LOCATIONS I am comfortable doing:

tumblr

email

kik, im

google docs

skype

forum

other

PARTICIPANTS I am comfortable with:

One on one roleplays. 

Up to three people.

Up to four people.

Five or more people!

As big as possible!

POST LENGTH I usually write about:

One or two sentences. (Rarely with the exception of text messaging threads. And I usually only do those with the hope they'll become narrative)

One or two paragraphs.

Two to five paragraphs.

More than five paragraphs. (When it's a planned timeskip or involves NPCs. But it's rare.)

A few pages worth.

I AM COMFORTABLE ROLE-PLAYING WITH PEOPLE WHO WRITE:

One or two sentences. (I'm sorry, it's just hard to get a rhythm with my slow style)

One or two paragraphs.

Two to five paragraphs.

More than five paragraphs.

A few pages worth. 

Write me a book. (I love reading longgg responses. But I always feel guilty about not matching!)

ROLE-PLAY REQUESTS I like getting requests from:

Anyone and everyone at any time! 

When I ask for roleplays.

From friends and acquaintances.

From friends only.

ROMANTIC RELATIONSHIPS ** IMPORTANT: Communication is the key to a real life relationship, it shouldn’t be abandoned for a fictional one either! Be sure to talk to your partners when considering romance

SHIPPING I am comfortable shipping my characters:

Never.

If our characters know each other deeply. 

If our characters know each other deeply, and I know I can trust the role-player.

At the first sign of flirting! 

Only if the role-player and I plan it.

It’s situational to each character.

If you want to ship with my characters:

Talk to me about it from the start.

Talk to me about it once our characters know each other.

Talk to me about it once they both have some feelings for each other.

Talk to me about it when they finally decide that want to go beyond hugging.

Talk to me anytime - there’s no requirement.

SPEED When shipping my characters, I like the romance to happen:

Swift as lightning!

Fast, but not super fast.

Happens in about three months.

Slow and steady wins the race.

Slugs know what’s up!

My relationships know no speed. They happen if they happen.

SMUT When my characters get intimate, I prefer:

To skip the act entirely.

To write the build up, but skip the act.

To write the act only if it is very special, but otherwise, skip it.

To write the act all the way through.

ROMANTIC ARTWORK When it comes to artwork depicting our relationship please:

Do not post it at all without talking to me.

Post it if it is cuddles and hugs.

Post it if it is kisses.

Post it if it is N.SFW.

Only post it if it depicts N.SFW privately between us.

Do not post it at all if it depicts sexual acts!

Do not post it where I can see it, but draw what you like!

DRAMATICS ** Important: Always be sure to communicate with your partner individually if you think you are about to go outside their comfort zones even just the slightest bit!

VIOLENCE When it comes to violent situations, I am comfortable with:

No violence at all!

I’m fine with verbal arguments!

Some violence, like a paper cut, or an accidental elbow to the face.

Mild violence, such as punching, kicking, hair pulling.

Violence, such as stabbings.

Beyond violence, such as torture and more.

If you are going to do something violent, please:

Don’t do it at all.

Talk to me about it first.

Surprise me!

DRAMATIC ARTWORK:

Do not post any dramatic scenes that happened between our characters.

Talk to me about it before posting!

Post what you like!

[brooklynislandgirl]

Role Play Comfort Zone!

A valuable meme for any roleplayer! Come display your comfort levels so your roleplay partners are aware of what they can do, and of what they should avoid! A healthy relationship between role-play partners is the key to a good time! While this meme shows the basics, please remember to communicate with your roleplay partners! REPOST DON’T REBLOG!

Key: BOLD = Yes. Normal = Okay/Ask me about it. Strike = No.

tagged by: stolen from @reevezs

tagging: *leaves it unattended on the porch with a ring camera.*

ROLEPLAY BASICS

LOCATIONS I am comfortable doing:

tumblr

email

kik, im, discord

google docs

skype

forum

other

PARTICIPANTS I am comfortable with:

One on one roleplays. 

Up to three people.

Up to four people.

Five or more people!

As big as possible!

POST LENGTH I usually write about:

One or two sentences.

One or two paragraphs.

Two to five paragraphs.

More than five paragraphs. 

A few pages worth. {{I do enjoy novella, but this is totally one of those ask me things}}

I AM COMFORTABLE ROLE-PLAYING WITH PEOPLE WHO WRITE:

One or two sentences.

One or two paragraphs. {I mean as long as there's enough for me to interact with, I don't mind}

Two to five paragraphs.

More than five paragraphs.

A few pages worth. 

Write me a book.

ROLE-PLAY REQUESTS I like getting requests from:

Anyone and everyone at any time! 

When I ask for roleplays.

From friends and acquaintances.

From friends only.

ROMANTIC RELATIONSHIPS ** IMPORTANT: Communication is the key to a real life relationship, it shouldn’t be abandoned for a fictional one either! Be sure to talk to your partners when considering romance

SHIPPING I am comfortable shipping my characters:

Never.

If our characters know each other deeply. 

If our characters know each other deeply, and I know I can trust the role-player.

At the first sign of flirting! 

Only if the role-player and I plan it.

It’s situational to each character.

If you want to ship with my characters:

Talk to me about it from the start.

Talk to me about it once our characters know each other.

Talk to me about it once they both have some feelings for each other.

Talk to me about it when they finally decide that want to go beyond hugging.

Talk to me anytime - there’s no requirement.

SPEED When shipping my characters, I like the romance to happen:

Swift as lightning!

Fast, but not super fast.

Happens in about three months.

Slow and steady wins the race.

Slugs know what’s up!

My relationships know no speed. They happen if they happen.

SMUT When my characters get intimate, I prefer:

To skip the act entirely.

To write the build up, but skip the act.

To write the act only if it is very special, but otherwise, skip it.

To write the act all the way through. {{I don't mind, but I can/will write it elsewhere if you prefer, I can ftb pretty well and pick up after the fact, my concern is everyone's comfort}}

ROMANTIC ARTWORK When it comes to artwork depicting our relationship please:

Do not post it at all without talking to me.

Post it if it is cuddles and hugs.

Post it if it is kisses.

Post it if it is N.SFW.

Only post it if it depicts N.SFW privately between us.

Do not post it at all if it depicts sexual acts!

Do not post it where I can see it, but draw what you like!

DRAMATICS ** Important: Always be sure to communicate with your partner individually if you think you are about to go outside their comfort zones even just the slightest bit!

VIOLENCE When it comes to violent situations, I am comfortable with:

No violence at all!

I’m fine with verbal arguments!

Some violence, like a paper cut, or an accidental elbow to the face.

Mild violence, such as punching, kicking, hair pulling.

Violence, such as stabbings.

Beyond violence, such as torture and more. {{Uhm, Beth has, in her natural habitat, a great capacity for doing and being on the receiving end of some really wild stuff}}

If you are going to do something violent, please:

Don’t do it at all.

Talk to me about it first.

Surprise me!

DRAMATIC ARTWORK:

Do not post any dramatic scenes that happened between our characters.

Talk to me about it before posting!

Post what you like!