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Double scan

so today was scan day 

any just like always i know nothing. no answers not even a clue as to what is going on with my cervix and uterus just more waiting and hoping to find out answers.

i have to wait a week which is going to take an eternity to find out what the report says from my scans. 

i think the highlight of the whole thing was watching my partners jaw drop to the floor when he saw the women put a condom on the probe that goes internally which was hilarious who knew mens faces could scrunch up that much. 

i loved how she started with the normal scan first then saved the horrible probe scan to last. 

safe to say i am now in pain, well even more pain and just want ice cream and a hot water bottle. 

eurgh. forever wishing this pain would stooooop. 

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This is a 100% me, with ollie he had to have fruit and veg at nearly every meal time and his snacks had to be organic, now with having two i’m just like here have some wotsits etc i still make sure they have their 5 a day and exercise but now i’m just like you want chocolate cake ? have it 

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This is 100000000% me.

everyday.

the minute he walks in that door i run to my bedroom to have five minutes to myself. 

don’t get me wrong i love being a mum and i know i’m blessed to have two beautiful babies but my god when they have been giving me crap all day from the minute they wake up, screaming, fighting, using me as a teething toy and climbing frame its nice to just lay down without having a mini me dangling off me.

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Post Natal Depression Full Throttle

recently i’ve been struggling. 

every day tasks have become next to impossible again, i don’t want to brush my hair, i can’t be bothered with make up, getting dressed is effort.

i’m snappy and irritable, everything is overwhelming, if a toy isn’t in it’s place i lose my mind. 

i try and find excuses to not have to go out but with ollie having nursery i’m forcing myself to go but i’m on edge.

today my fridge freezer broke and i was ready to give up on life.

just as i thought i had it under control this happens, i’m back to square one. no matter what i try i seem to go back to square one. 

just wish that i didn’t have my depression. 

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Lack of Sleep

so little lady was not about to get to sleep for anything or anyone last night.

she was up all hours crying her little eyes out, no matter what we tried little lady was still upset and fidgety. 

the only time she would stop crying for a few minutes was when mummy snag nursery rhymes to her whilst she laid on my chest as i stroked her back. 

it wasn’t until 5 am that she went to sleep but then awoke again at 7 but was exactly the same as she was a few hours before, back to bed she went and had a 3 hour sleep and then woke up a completely different child, i know she has a bit of the old sniffles on the go but last night was a weird night as she’s never been like that before. 

hoping tonight is a better night so little lady gets the rest she needs. 

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that cheeky little smile i get every time i pick little man up from nursery.

it’s taken four weeks but he’s finally finding his feet in nursery, he’s managed to part ways with his comfort blanket and dummy during his nursery sessions, which completely shocked myself and the nursery staff. 

he’s eating well at nursery and is slowing finding the confidence to go off and play with the other children now, he still makes sure his key worker is near but he isn’t gluing himself to her anymore which is good to hear. 

i am so proud of how well he is doing and how far he has come, i love how he is now trying to say more words and is humming the tunes to his nursery rhymes. 

one thing that has really put me at ease with little man being at nursery is that they upload photos to the parenting app on his profile for me to see and knowing that if i want to phone up and check on him they are more than happy to do that. 

definitely the right nursery for my little boy, he is showing his true colors and i love it 

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Nightmare baby group

Sooooo I officially hate stuck up mothers that attend the Friday baby group near me.

One thing that really grinds my gears is when people speak and look at you like you are beneath them. Like piss off 👌🏻

Friday morning I took olliver to a baby group ( he misses two of his Tuesday groups due to being ill this group specialises with dealing with children with suspected additional needs)

From the moment I walked in I knew this was going to suck balls.

You could already tell which where the clicky mums that you just want to punch in the face. The way they look at you and your child. Moving their child away, like who the fuck do you think you are, he isn’t going to attack your kid. This is what puts me off letting olliver around anyone, what if they reject him like this all the time, it was fucking heart breaking to watch.

Not only where there bitchy mothers but one of the women running the group had the nerve to tell me to go watch my child outside after she forced him outside !!! ARE YOU BEING SERIOUS WOMEN!!!! Then another turned around and told me my child wasn’t allowed his dummy, his dummy is his comfort in uncomfortable situations it stops him biting his hands and pinching himself. So I just turned around after she said he wouldn’t be allowed his dummy in THIS group I simply turned around and said that’s fine my son won’t come here anymore and walked off ... so here is a massive FUCK YOU to those women at that group who made my little boy sad and made him feel uncomfortable around others.

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Love these skirts on her 😍

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Terrible two's

Okay I was expecting Ollie's behaviour to get a tad worse but my god I was not prepared for this.

The tantrums aren't just at home oh no no no it's crossing the road and Ollie decided to launch him self in the middle of the road leaving me no choice but to hoist him up by his trousers and rush across the road with him looking as if he's reenacting a scene from James bond 🤦

Food throwing

Constant glaring at anyone and everyone

The constant fighting with cousins and his sister etc

On the bright side I now know what to expect when noaleigh hits terrible two's 🤦😂

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And so it begins ... time to go out and buy some locks me thinks before mummy ends up with no dvds 🤦🏻‍♀️

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Olliver's dietician appointment

Yesterday was ollivers dietician appointment, he has now been put on a high calorie diet which consists of fatty foods and him having to eat 9 times a day 😌 poor kid is now spending 90% of his day eating. Also his juice intake has had to be reduced so he doesn't get full up on that. Only weighing a stone at almost two years old I'm hoping this diet works. Find out in December if all this eating has paid off.

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Little lady’s new outfit 😍

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Trying to learn this driving theory is like pulling teeth 🤦🏻‍♀️😅 so much to learn

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The realist shit I have ever read

Re-post

NBR but this is for all you hard ass bitches 😘

Remember when you gave birth and you basically got your flaps sewn back on,

Or you thought it was all gonna happen out your lady bits but actually you ended up having major surgery -

and THEN you had to look after a baby and you thought you couldn't do it, because I mean - who the f has done something that hard before ?

And not even hard as in difficult, I mean hard as in....well 'ard.

Remember when you carried on feeding the newborn you weren't familiar with, even though it felt like you were getting electric shocks down the nip,

or you hauled yourself out of bed so tired you'd wondered how close you were to death - but you still made a bottle, you still held your baby and soothed him/her...

When someone asked you ' if they are good' you smiled and said ' of course', when you really felt like fly-kicking them into next week, because tiredness fucks with your mind, and the lines between reality and pure exhaustion really do get blurred.

Remember the time you sat and cried because you hadn't realised that you sacrificed your own life so someone else could start theirs, and no one told you, the bastards, what it was really like.

And now you were stuck here doing it, and you couldn't tell anyone because they'd say you were blessed with this GIFT, which you know you are, but you've never had a gift that kinda makes you feel like you are Marge in that episode where her hair falls out and her kids are being little fuckers.

Remember when you held your baby close, even though they were really screaming now - and you'd tried all the failsafes and the only advice you could get now is ' sometimes they just cry ' and you didn't realise that meant for hours, on and on until your actual skin hurt from hearing it...

But you still held that kid, running on nothing but love, even if you felt annoyed or like you were running out of patience or that this Parenthood lark was obviously not for you - because you were getting it all bloody wrong.

Well, you did all of that.

You got through every day that you were sure you wouldn't.

You continued even when you wished you could just, bugger off for a bit, and be left alone...

You got up to the same day on repeat, even though yesterday you swore you couldn't do this anymore.

And that makes you a hard ass bitch...

But that isn't so PC, so we just say a 'Mum'.

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