#misgenderer? NEVER

[cepheusgalaxy]

LOL

Whump Prompt #8

Supportive whumper giving their needle-fearing whumpee their estrogen/testosterone.

[queensectonia]

okay i just gotta make a new personal rule for myself to never go into the comments of any given elfilis fan work. the number of people in the EN sphere who just gleefully misgender this character is too damn high. it even happens on works where the creator is like "wow i love elfilis THEY are so cool i love THEIR design!"

comments: he him his guy man male he him man dude him

the bar is on the fucking floor

[our-transmasculine-experience]

ik correcting people who misgender me is really hard for me and i like never do it but i thought i’d share some ways to correct people that may be easier (were easier for me at least)

my teacher misgendered me so i wrote my pronouns next to my name on a worksheet. not only did he start gendering me correctly, he also felt bad so he went easy on me for a bit (didn’t grade as harshly and called on me before other people) NOT THAT MAKING PEOPLE FEEL BAD IS GOOD

you can have a friend gender you correctly in front of the misgenderer MANY times (it takes a lot of times lol) works better if they know you and friend are close

text them

have a friend tell them

pronouns pin (didn’t work that well for me, but it did get a few people to start gendering me correctly so give it a go if you want :)

not necessarily towards the person but mention your gender like “ugh being non binary is so hard sometimes” or like “i got that tboy swag” bc that may get them thinking and they may ask you your pronouns

you can put your pronouns in your email signature

say something along the lines of “and then brenda said ‘oh yeah [your name] is so cool [your correct pronoun] said my jacket made me look pretty’” so like say your pronouns… for yourself, yk? so for me it would be “and then brenda said ‘oh yeah Vince is so cool he said my jacket made me look pretty’” idk if that makes sense

thanks a ton for this! i know a lot of people who could use it!

[h0n3yk1tt3n]

The last post full of out of context quotes was getting long as fuck so MORE QUOTES WITH @biscuitbakerbecca LETS GO

•2024 is being a 2020-whore

•Phone a little confused but it got the spirit

•Whatever, writing gay fanfic on the clock in rebellion

•:(((((( Saddy Discord is homophobic

•"I did not have sexual relations with your daughter"

•Goddamn these dads just ain’t daddys

•Why must we have an organ that hates us so

•bby girl the food doesn’t go on the floor

•"Is it lazy of me to not change Jeremy’s parents names between fics or am I just Keeping Consistent"

"I'd call that consistency but that's just bc I'm lazy lmao"

•We don't talk about

Hands

•Apparently so scared I used the wrong “to”

•✨️climate change✨️

•The narrative has a cruel sense of humor

•NO NO ITS TOO LATE FOR ME TO THINK ABOUT AXE LADY

•Money can buy science

•You gave me enough dad feelings by putting him in a coma I'm never gonna recover

•GOD FUCKING DAMMIG

•DAD FEELINGS HAVE ENTERED THE CHAT THANKS BECCA

•Maybe if I pass out while writing I’ll dream up an epic fight scene to write poorly

•L2C Jer is full of rage but Jake still outclasses him in everything

•Pussy before pussy amiright????

•Abracaoof

•Deliberate misgenderers get the stab stab

•Jolly ranchers do not make up for your lack of proper gendering skills peasant

•THE WILDERNESS IS PLOTTING AGAINST YOU

•MICHAEL MELL DID YOU MANIFEST AS THE BUG I JUST KILLED???

•MY GOD BECCA WHOS NEXT

•i am not beating the angstlord allegations

•man i traumatized you so bad you blocked out the memory

•I love shoving customers under the sink

•fr we both took our childhood hyperfixations and went "what if blorbo" and just ran with it

•Like dude you just made a pez dispenser for your spider jizz

•…sighed is a word last I checked

•Idk what to put on the shoes

•I was hoping Jeremy would stab him

•American English is so dumb sometimes. No, I'm gonna spell cancelled with two Ls. I'm gonna spell worshipped with two Ps. SHUT UP ITS GREY OK MISS ME WITH THAT GRAY SHIT

•You only know how to write caffeine addicted hero Jeremy, I only know how to write overprotective nearing the point of obsession Michael

•Scraped out of it with tinnitus and ptsd BUT STILL

•So what I'm hearing is they're switches

•I want Jeremy to fight people all the time the man has so much rage in such a sick Victorian child body

•Why did I think you lived with six people

•Mother nature is smokin some shit

•Discord are you smoking the same shit mother nature is

•Oh GOD ITS ACCUMULATING

•Twinkie: Lol

•Tbf this goes way too hard to be in a fast food drive thru

•Sex On A School Night WOULD be an awesome band name

•Fae portal closed before everyone could go thru

•Bitch ass tic tac

[crowsareverytired]

Hey are you doing OK?

no, i just laughed and cried at the same time, im never gonna finish high school, my boyfriend who "loves me" couldnt give a rats ass about me having a breakdown, and im in a depressive episode even tho i am taking my meds and i dont want to off myself but every second im awake my brain tries to convince me i do want to but i dont. i am not okay, im not near okay but in 20 minutes i will be okay because im also having crazy moodswings. i cant even tell which of my feelings are real and factual and which are just because im depressed and should be ignored. and actually its the end of the world because the only person making me stay is my boyfriend and recently its been like i am putting in all the fucking effort. and my mom knows im trans still fucking misgenderes me and deadnames me. fuck im sorry, i just haven't had anyone to vent to in forever

[unproduciblesmackdown]

april autism acceptance month posting, the musings of (going for Self Acceptance as well) from the desk of milo unproduciblesmackdown....

mostly just having reflected on like, huh, might be that By And Large one is more nonspeaking than one thinks....that i've Been like "well sure in person i'm usually markedly Quite Quiet but also secretly a mile a minute chatterbox." like already aware of factoring in the Quietness in terms of like, generally always having been in everyday situations where i don't Want to talk. which also means being aware of like, someone the other day was talking about how the ""normal"" approach (which is not even simply Non Autistic, just the "ideals" in any sense that are Not That, yet positioned as such, to the disempowering Othering of others/anything else) is that verbal exchanges are often nigh exclusively about coming into it with some Goal in mind and just being dead set on that exact inflexible outcome / the other person's input can probably really only get in the way of that. used to be asked How Was Work by family and if i answered in the accurate negative would be told how it wasn't that bad actually; then why even ask. nowadays i know i'm virtually only spoken to to say something At Me; the other day frustrated by this & had an "exchange" where, when being [Talked At] for a sec, didn't really verbally respond at all, which was not considered a wrench in the proceedings in the least, as i expected........relevantly as well, i'm v aware of Talking becoming markedly more difficult if drained &/or stressed (or, w/immediate relevancy, the Talking being especially miserable atm, causing that exhaustion/stress w/high efficiency). that somewhat more Freestyle "normal" communication can include "you have to speak to acknowledge another person's presence, or its hostile" and that speaking is the especially Hollow Scriptathon of things like, getting hit with the "how are you [misgendering]" which, absorb the punch of misgenderment, gear up for Speaking which also is already "wrong," too much delay, remember that you never answer How Are You with how you are, and sometimes just not Pretending to answer and just repeating the question is not particularly more negatively regarded than any other way you approach it

musing on the [it's all bizarre but definitely getting shit for being audhd / nonbinary] childhood / first twenty yrs of life mysteries, like, well when being lectured as it were, which was nothing if not an intensified hollow scriptathon (see: the perfectly harmonious resonance in "how you navigate existing around an abuser" and "how you navigate existing anywhere but expressly personally friendly/safe spaces, being autistic") too demeaning to be borne, where it would be wrong to not make eye contact, then making forced eye contact (and learning how to just like, approach it as a [go through the motions] detached thing) was also wrong, it was wrong to not seem distressed and also to seem distressed; and it's like oh yeah back then & even now i can be as Stressed as anything but there's always a shift where if i make myself Talk i may cry like immediately, which i virtually never do out of otherwise being unhappy/stressed. there's how one of my most genuine friendships in elementary school (the autistic time as well of: many/more friendships from all public school times were other people Deciding we should be "friends;" sometimes this being like, the friend In Charge, and then: me, conveniently) was one where i don't think we actually Spoke. may not be a typical neurotypical thing. there's also the fact our being Distracted by interacting, that is, [not talking] during not even a lesson where the stakes were like "you haven't put this sheet in your folder at the exact time Instructions demanded you to, no sooner or later???" was punished more dramatically (and individually. classic) than i ever saw anyone get for Being Distracted / Not Paying Attention or certainly for talking. very nd of me for that too; like the Especial disdain teachers would have if i Was talking and too caught up in the exchange to notice it was supposed to be the quiet times now, which of course was wilfull disrespect for authority.....like oh but believe me i have that too lmfao, and these instances do not counter it. f for my friendship with jacqueline b/c we weren't allowed to sit next to each other and the disproportionate/extraordinary qualities of the response made it so it was hardly clear we were even allowed to interact at all, for all intents and purposes. great

certainly verbality at all can be a whole challenge too overall, but w/focus on the speaking....truly the mile a minute speaking / voluminous writing of things Happens, but it's sure when i get to talk About something, and the High Motivation boost of [whatever's being talked about] is quite necessary b/c it sure still takes effort lol....This is taking effort, to be sure. meanwhile there's also the damper of like, people's Disinterest / Dismissal meaning that just b/c you talk doesn't mean anyone hears you, to an extent it's nigh literal lol, beyond double empathy problem misunderstanding (plus that: ppl know they don't have to understand, &/or can choose to (pretend to) misunderstand / know they don't get it, but don't have to) there's also just like, not bothering to process what you say; being the one talked over like you weren't saying anything, lack of any response at all like you weren't saying anything, someone else cutting in and you may as well no longer be here / nth wheeling in any group. the times i've had to say something which needs a response / to be absorbed, and fighting for my life doing so / reiterating like half a dozen times / repeating this later, multiple times, b/c i know someone may give you the "politeness" of Looking At You / nominal spoken stock responses, while not absorbing it / forgetting it after 5 sec..........to be sure, times i've had an extensive, specific, belabored exchange (plus alllll the extra effort to emphasize Amicability in it) that got such responses, only to have it later clear they didn't actually absorb the point they'd apparently gone "right, okay" to. times i've [that] and then 5 min later had the person i'd talked to come over to be like "oh did you say [the thing i said to them]" only b/c some third party had overheard and actually processed it, then in turn had what They conveyed to that person i'd talked to actually listened to; had "i am once again asking" agonies multiple times over months & months only eventually fulfilled, spontaneously, by someone else entirely....

also that, when i Was able to having amicable, comfortable, in-person exchanges, my ""small talk"" friendly engagement to nonhostilely acknowledge someone / have an exchange involves Verbal Bits (running gag for Dinnermaking Convo to pretend to be on iron chef, and all named chef geoff, for example) or Nonverbal Ones (entering one's peripheral vision and dancing until acknowledged, to be funny, or ignored, also to be funny) or even simply that the amicability can come from other people, in spite of it all, by just not interpreting my operating while being myself and not constantly going out of my way to try to expressively reassure someone i'm friendly to them being met with [people just not deciding they hate me and/or i am beneath them] like, some great times lol. friendships where we didn't Really start talking for eons, and i go "guess people gotta be patient" like well sure lol. and then they gotta like how i Do interact

and the next bit of "can't believe you keep learning; realizing things" is just going like "ohh wait, was thinking of one's inherent value within a framework of [noninherent value you can so totally Bootstraps Earn we swear]" lol like....even in terms of like "nd people are the backbone of your fandom" type things like, well yeah they are; and that "sometimes people think it's neat that you can draw" like yeah it is and sometimes they really are; but that it's like, but Forget It re: thinking of that like "well so that Makes Up For [being autistic] as it might usually negatively impact socializing by 'normal' standards" like, to hell with making up for anything. i like to post about interests and draw about them and it's fun when people enjoy them and it can be fun to Talk About something / interact through that; it's not like "ableism: over" nor making up for anything, and what can really come of thinking it has to be Valued by how it might make other people see You as more inherently worthwhile yourself than they otherwise would've, right. i'm like "well i don't always express myself xyz ways but at least i do in other ways i suppose" but end the sentence before the But. i'm not As Good(tm) As Allistic through the [expressing myself] i do through drawing, and that's fine b/c autistic ppl having talents people value isn't the antiableism key lol. next i can be [tfw autistic ppl try to go Above & Beyond at work to "make up for" being autistic] or employers being like "hey maybe hire autistic people" not to be Inspirationally Inclusive in theory or whatever but b/c it's like, they'll be exploitable / valuable as exploited employee. like how autistic people get fired or burned out and then it's like whoops, we need like 5 new hires to replace them; who wasn't promoted, paid, or recognized as doing 6 ppl's work. everything being [popularity contest] actually. not to say Posting For Fun is the exact same as formal job lmfao nor randos like employers; but essences remain, see: that resonance with [reacting to abuser's attention] behavior and [interacting with randos out & about, trying to be deemed Friendly Normal Correct enough] behavior. the throughline that people won't regard you as having inherent value unless they regard people as having inherent value, on principle

i do have peak success like, an art post is very tl;dr billboard for Your Existence lol. and then if people are interested enough in whatever brand of [saying shit] i do? probably promising start to whether interactions with me won't be [their interest is exhausted within a day] lol. find some fellow nd people by crossing paths via interest, which is a Talk About Something thing. and even then, of course, you're not guaranteed friends with every other nd person. Spontaneous Alignments, everyone's friend....while at this juncture it's like, hmm, maybe i Am actually not like. theoretically interested in [i want to have new friendships] lmao. thinking about what they're supposed to be? what i could even think of them hypothetically being? invokes no [i want that] feelings. thinking of someone else saying, in a different context, how he doesn't think anyone's Guaranteed any kind of companionship, which i agree with (vs. ppl talking about it like Bootstraps Merit like yes you can Deserve a romantic partner, and Deserve friends too, and a general appeal/likability/personableness will be concomitant w/a Deserving person); thinking of someone else talking abt, in a different context, how her experience being racially othered means she just doesn't end up liking being around people at all / prefers being alone. the first guy talking about how he doesn't Preclude new relationships but he also approaches w/deliberation like, navigating being content being alone. thinking abt stuff talking about [autistic ppl who want romantic relationships] that mention ppl having to go ahead and work on being okay with the idea they may very well never have one. the questioning of [relationships] and [community] in a consciously political context; what's it mean for someone to have Relationships, be in a Community, would that be Required of them for them to deserve / get to expect to receive [xyz] that everyone theoretically would. thinking of relationality as acknowledgment of the realities of ways things, incl people, affect each other, the results of that

that's about all lol might "ideally" be more nonspeaking than i gave myself credit for; only shifting towards "i give myself inherent value on principle and can only be regarded as having inherent value by others Also on principle" like no [bootstrapping earning shit] as a way to also see value in what i do either lol

[commander-diomika]

Had a dream last night where I was being used to demonstrate yoga poses in a teacher training (as in, hold the pose whilst a teacher explained it to others and they discussed etc) so I was being referred to in the third person a lot. As soon as someone used "she" pronouns I piped up and corrected to they/them, and this woman deliberately and pointedly repeated "the way SHE is holding this pose-"

Dream-Hank leapt out of the pose and demanded every single person who was unwilling to use they/them pronouns raise their hand. Two or three people raised their hand sheepishly, and the original nasty misgenderer did so defiantly. I remember looking to the teacher and they gave me the nod, and I booted all three of them, out of the class, out of the course, banished and never to return. I wasn't angry, I was calm but powerful as I told them to get out, and god the fucking power fantasy of it all woke me up with a grim smile.

The funny thing is I'm not even that bothered by people using the wrong pronouns, it was just the sheer viciousness in this woman deliberately ignoring my polite request that set me off.

[angie-j-kay]

My trans friends tell me about something called the "Egg Prime Directive," a sort of rule in the community that you NEVER EVER openly tell someone that you suspect they're trans.

If they are, then this makes them uncomfortable and slows their self-realization, making life harder for them. They HAVE to come to it on their own. You might even have just outed them on a public forum, and I shouldn't have to remind you of the queer code: NEVER EVER OUT PEOPLE.

If they're actually cis, congratulations, you just became the misgenderer AND reinforced the gender stereotypes. Might have even encouraged the not-egg into transphobia themselves by being such an ass about it. Yay, you.

Also, as an ugly woman who often gets assumed to be a man... that stuff hurts, kids. Now you're transphobic AND a misogynist.

calling every gnc cis person you see an "egg waiting to crack" even as a joke is not cool or funny at all actually it is extremely invasive and weird and you are just reinventing gender roles but making it "progressive"

[roseverdict]

wait just a fkn minute

so like. my faed crew. yes? i poured my heart and soul into those four i love them sm.

i may have poured too much heart and/or soul into them aihskdhsksha

so like. i made them (mostly) all together, and i refined their characterizations to something pretty close to how they are now by the time covid first hit.

ramona, the cis(?) woman(?) who honestly doesn't give a shit how she's seen but regards herself as distinctly "woman." an agent of chaos

alex, ramona's sibling who happens to be questioning their gender during the events of the main plot. (i know how their gender journey winds up eventually but they don't yet and they won't until the plot is already long since over.)

leroy, an introverted cis man whose first introduction to queer people was the other three in the group and who doesn't really know how to describe his attraction, only that he is VERY in love with…

gale, a genderqueer agent of chaos on par with ramona and who picks and chooses bits of various kinds of gender presentation purely for the enjoyment of it all, all while not actually belonging to any one gender. fundamentally unmisgenderable, so long as the would-be misgenderer is not intentionally trying to box them into one specific gender

ok. so now let's take a look at my own relationship to gender.

started out a presumably cis woman, but one who didn't really mind when internet strangers used he/him pronouns instead of the she/her i was used to

started questioning my gender one day and just sorta…never really stopped. had no idea where i was going or what i was doing, only that "woman" was wrong and i was curious what would be right

settled into a sorta "masculine but to the left" gender but didn't really want to worry too much about more specifics. it worked well enough for me!

coining "bitgender" in my head- as in, whatever gender best fits The Bit™- for a little while but not really sure how to really describe it to others, ntm how being able to utilize different bits of gender presentation (like having a massive vocal range for both fem and masc moments) then discovering "funnygender" exists and has already been defined and that it fits me just like "bitgender" does and getting hit by the biggest fucking tsunami of euphoria i've felt since i looked in a mirror and mistook myself for my brother in 2019.

what i'm saying is my beloved childhood OCs i first created like a decade or so ago predicted my freaking gender

[femmesandhoney]

I've been starting to explore radfem stuff which is bizarre because just a month or two ago I would have NEVER but as a lesbian I'm suddenly like... wow the trans community has been awful to me actually and I never even realized it? Like I felt like I deserved it because I was privileged for being cis. I feel like I'm in the twilight zone or something because radfem ideas aren't evil like I thought they'd be? They just make sense? Do you have any other blogs like yours to recommend? Tysm <3

you are NOT alone, i was in your place only months ago. there are plenty of amazing radfem or gender critical blogs here on tumblr, so i won't be able to tag all of them, but for some starters off the top of my head:

@shes-unforgettable, @misgenderer, @ms-gay-frogs, @the-haunted-uterus, @opabiniawillreturn, @radfemblack, @gcdk, @dworkin, @sailorhater, @who-is-a-heretic-now, @sapphicdesi, @miss-shorty, @baby-fem, @radykal, @anothercriticallesbian, @kvetcher, @radicallyaligned, @radical-coffeeclub, @radicchia, @radical-girlie, @malepassing, @sapphos-witch-gf, @lesbian-lizards, @itsjustwokehomophobia, @terfiewerfie, @sapphic-schizo, @rudefemyukakoyamagishi, @queen-mayhem, @elgeebees, @ktmcgra, @gravebian, @hikkigf, @purge-the-poison, @she-volution, @shesay, @monstrousdyke, @my-feminine-rage

and im pretty sure you can find a lot of radfem suggestion blogs that have lists already made, but i have none on hand sadly. And if anyone wants to add their blog or other good radfem ones in the comments for this anon to see go ahead!

[troublesometrollhunters]

The trolls with a friend that's a lesbian (or even non binary?)

(Went with nonbinary)

How the Trollhunters react to learning your Nonbinary

Jim

Jim is understanding. You explain it to him and he never misgendere you again. He refers to you as they/them and is very respectful of your pronouns. He comes up with a fun nickname thats gender neutral so you know your supported. Also he'll totally make you a nonbinary cake or cupcakes in celebration of you coming out too him!

Toby

Toby is very careful about pronouns. They/them only and he will not hesitate to deck someone in the face if they try and make fun of you or misgender you on purpose. You are his friend and he will not tolerate any bushigal from those who want to hurt you.

Claire

Claire as a theater nerd has met her fair share of LGBTQ+ people. She is very supportive and uses androgynous terms so you feel comfortable. If anyone misgenders you she's quick to correct and educate them only if you want her too though!

Blinky

Blinky is unsure why your so embarrassed or maybe worried about sharing this. Mandrux the Many was a great Trollhunter and they too had no gender. Trolls who feel they are neither/ nor are very common and widely accepted. When he learns why you were so worried he wraps you up in a big hug and holds you close. For humanities many blessings sometimes they are truly foolish.

Aarrrgh

Arrrgh is confused when you explain that your nonbinary. He chuffs and nudges you wanting more information. You try to explain more but you aren't sure how. He nuzzles you. If you are not girl and you are not boy you are friend and he couldn't care less about what you call yourself.

Draal

Draals reaction goes kind of like this as trolls don't really understand the concept of discrimination against gender/sex

"So you are neither boy nor girl?" You nod yes and Draal taps his chin in thought.

"Then what are you?" Shrugging he hums before pulling you close head bomping you.

"Then you are a warrior!" He states. And that's the end of that. He never asks again and he never refers to you as he or she. You are a warrior and that's all there is too it.

[asymptoticway]

How would Terry react if she was misgendered as a male?

Hi there and I love this

Ok so what I think about the Jerrys and Terry having a gender is that they are probably sexless creatures (are they even creatures?) and that their choice of pronouns is part of their attempt to make themselves comprehensible to feeble human brains. "Humans have eyes so let's have eyes too" "Humans have arms so let's have arms too" "Humans have genders so let's have genders too". Think about how this facilitates their use of human language(s) as well!

This means they chose a gender. They weren't assigned anything at any point, they just actively chose what they liked the most (or just full on randomly because who cares?) and shaped themselves more or less accordingly.

(this is a theory tho. Personally I'm WEAK to the idea of Terry being somewhat intrinsecally female, because I was always attracted to her as a female, and femaleness was rooted in her character since its earliest stages of development; my artistic imagery of her is built around representations/suggestions of femaleness, and people misgendering her irl - happens all the time lol! - irritate me more than they should. However, I think it kinda makes more sense to assume she is sexless?)

As a consequence of this, I tend to think they wouldn't be too sensitive to misgendering. It's just not an issue to them because they are divine beings made of light and energy and have never been in contact with humans as a society. When it comes to Terry I think she wouldn't even react if she heard someone referring to her with the wrong pronouns. She would kinda shrug it off/kinda wait for someone else who is present to correct the misgenderer in her stead, just to enjoy their mortified look as they proceed to apologize to her.

[monster-bait]

Hey um quick question did you know you reblogged a post from a very open transphobe? The last moth post you reblogged, that you captioned as caught in this altogether, you reblogged it from a blog literally called misgenderer, and I wanted to ask whether you didn't notice or

Hi Anon,

When I started this blog, I made a point of following back just about everyone who followed me, and as a result, I follow literally thousands of blogs; a practice I discontinued when it just became too much of a hassle to taptaptaptap countless ‘follow back’ icons. When I scroll my dashboard, it's in short bursts and I literally never pay attention to the person I’m reblogging from, as I don’t recognize the vast majority of names. I *do* go on mass unfollowing sprees fairly regularly because I 100% do not care about seeing posts that have nothing to do with monsters, moths, and writing. If I was previously following you and suddenly unfollow, no hard feelings. I’m just not interested in seeing your new hyperfixation/political posts/opinions about Guam/Good Omens, etc etc.  There are a lot of people I probably follow whose personal views I do not/would not agree with. All I’m really interested in is seeing content I like. A quick look at this person’s blog confirms that other than this moth post, there’s not much I’m interested in or subscribe to, which is a good reason to unfollow. Thanks for bringing this to my attention.

This is why I tell you guys to tag me on posts you want me to see. When you follow 2k+ blogs, you sadly miss tons. 

[jamiebaillie]

So today I got flowers from Pizza Hut. You are probably wondering ok what is she talking about? There is a story to be told here. So Sunday night I ordered good from Pizza Hut I hit a pizza and cheese garlic bread. The delivery guy gets here and calls me sir. I was not happy at all about that. I was quite upset about it. I am Transgender and when someone misgenderes u like this it just makes u feel like u are never going to fit and that u are not worth anything and will never be the gender that u feel u are. So I got a call from the regional manager who said he was definitely going to look into this matter and takes this very seriously. The regional manager is Mahmut Yildiz who is part of a company called Marble Group. They are franchisees for pizza hut. So the regional manager gave me a $50 credit too and then just today I get a call from the pizza hut head office in Toronto Ontario Canada and I spoke to Manish and he said they are looking into this as well and he said that he wanted to send me flowers too awww that's so sweet! So I thought she was just going to have a delivery person deliver them but no Mahmut showed up personally with the flowers and hand delivered them himself! Awww that is so sweet! Everyone has been so great and supportive and I always push companies to try and do more training on diversity and inclusion because I strongly believe that the more understanding there is about being LGBTQ2S+ the more acceptance everyone will get. The flowers are very pretty and Thank you to the whole Pizza Hut family for being so kind and understanding in this situation. Hopefully this driver will be educated and will come around. Thank you again Pizza Hut family for everything u have done in this situation! #pizza #pizzalover #pizzahut #pizzaporn #flowers #beautifulflowers #beautifulflower #lgbtpride #lgbtq #lgbtq2s #lgbt #transgenderwoman #trans #transgenderpride #transwonenarewomen #transgirls #transgirl #flowers #transgenderrights #transgendergirl #transgirlsofinstagram #transisbeautiful #transgendermtf #transgender #transition #pizzahutcanada #prettyflowers #flowerbouquet (at Edmonton, Alberta) https://www.instagram.com/p/CPUB8hKn1AM/?utm_medium=tumblr

[noocturnart]

This is very out of pocket but I just wanted to get it out of my chest

My gf has misgendered me and used the wrong pronouns like 2 or 3 times this week over text (currently is Wednesday) I don't understand why.

In Spanish I can't do anything because there are no neutral pronouns, but she knows I'm non binary and go exclusively by they/them in english.

The first time I didn't said anything because I thought it was just a slip. But the second time I told her to please not use "she". She didn't acknowledged what I said and skipped over it. I thought it was because she was embarrassed as in, "it won't happen again", kinda way.

But then today she sent me one of those ship dynamic things and it was literally two girls, like, that was the dynamic. Which I love, but she sent it to me and captioned it "us"

Honestly my stomach turns just by remembering it because it just feels so deliberate

I replied with "uh" "uh okay" clearly uncomfortable. But I just wasn't strong enough to call her out again. I sent her a tik tok I wanted to show her to kinda make it less awkward. And again she didn't acknowledged my reply at all, and just replied laughing at the video.

I just don't understand because she's never misgenderered me, or used the wrong pronouns, since I told her I'm nb (which was even before we were dating)

She also made a comment about me being "thicc" a couple of days ago. And after I replied, clearly uncomfortable too, she kept pushing it and calling me thicc some more. It just felt forced, I'm so confused.

Idk I just wanted to vent about this, I'm uncomfortable enough coming out as nb, because of the lack of neutral pronouns in Spanish, and I'm 5', with long hair and a high pitched voice. I get misgenderered constantly, my mother insults my binder and doesn't even think that being nb is a real thing (neither being asexual but that's for another day), she cares so little she forgets about it, I've had to come out twice, and probably won't be the last. Anyways

I came out to my gf because I feel like I can be myself when I'm with her, like she won't do as my mother and just brush it off. Because she's bisexual and knows lgbt stuff, I feel safe with her, like, she won't tell me my gender identity is not real and stuff like that.

But seeing her do this is painful, and I don't know if I'm overreacting too

Anyways if anyone read this, thank you for listening. I'm a very private person and don't like talking about myself online, but I just needed to put this out somewhere,

I'll start posting soon too, I have fanart I finished on the weekend and stuff

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Introducing Quail!

And I'll be happy to get suggestions on things to write for them, or just in general with a GN!Reader or the Boys!

Gender: Non-Binary

Sexuality: Pansexual

Age: 17

Physical Description: Brown-Red hair | purple eyes | short | a bit chubby | Often wears a cyan tank top underneath a purple hoodie with a cat on it and a blue hood, with black leggings and sneakers

Personality: They are one of two ways. They are very silent, with a resting bitch face. Only every responding with grunts, nods, shaking their head, shrugging their shoulders, and etc. But never really being mean to anyone just never seems interested, yet still listens intently when somebody is talking. They hide away in their room when they can, and try to avoid the others.. Always sticking to Satan or Luke and holding onto them, when they're out. When talking to most people, they're filled to the brim with either sass, annoyance, anger, or just nothing as though they are a robot.

Or...

they are very talkative and silly. Seeming to just never leave whoever they've taken an interest to alone. After spending a few months in the Devildom, everybody in the house of Lamination, (Minus Belphie and Luci, for reason that will be explained later) the other exchange students, Diavolo, and Barbatos have reached this stage with them. They'll happily tag along with them to do whatever, whether it's boring or not. And are more open with them, not completely hiding themselves. They are seen as innocent by the others, never really talking about or engaging in Asmo's horny inappropriate ways. But their mind is in the gutter. Yet, they are still easily flustered.

No matter what though, there are a few things about them that will never change. They hate bad grades, it makes them feel more insignificant than they already feel. They're adventures, always curious and wanting to explore the Devildom. They never liked themselves, and probably never will. They aren't very verbal about it, but they're always silently disagreeing with any and all praise they get. In fact, they don't share any of their personal problems. Opting to sort it out themselves instead of bugging others. However, if there is one thing that they make known is when they are angry. They won't be obvious about it if it's just something small that's annoying them like they're too loud. But if it's really working them them up, they can get close to Satan level angry... Yikes! And there are a few ways to make this happen, threaten the ones they care about? Prepare for a punch, dead named and misgenderes them?! Oh dear.. prepare for a screaming match..

Likes: Swimming | playing video games | reading | playing harmless pranks | making drawings/painting | listening and singing to music

Dislikes: Homophobes | Transphobes | Racism | Being forced into situations randomly, ie. Randomly someone drags them into an argument | arguments with friends | Being to warm | Bad Grades | Extreme Strictness

Favorite Brother: Satan, he was the first one they made a connection with. And as long as they don't accidentally upset him, he's pretty chill. He's well informed and reasonable, but still fun to be around in their eyes.

Least Favorite Brother: Belphie and Lucifer, Lucifer is strict. Too strict, while others still tried to get them to speak. He was probably the most forceful, while he doesn't do it often since he doesn't engage in conversation the most. When it comes to conversation with Diavolo, he only accepts real words not grunts and body motions. Yelling at them to speak and be "more proper for their lord". Then setting unreasonably high expected for them, reminds him of their father who they don't like.

Now, Belphie is somewhat a strange case for Quail. Really, they wouldn't mind him and would probably be great friends with him already... Iiiif it weren't for the fact they hold grudges for a long time! If they see a reasonable reason for why the brothers were demon mode, like Lucifer getting mad about the Grimoire is understandable in their eyes. Getting mad at them for something that happened thousands of years ago, then killing them, and manipulating them... Haha, no. Grudges are being H E L D. Even if it was just once, they don't care. Sorry Belphie, but currently you ain't liked.

(Don't worry, they'll get redemption)

Now if unreasonable anger is the reason for Belphie hate, then why isn't Satan also hated? Simple, Quail already likes Satan to much. And unlike in the Canon story line, they immediately accepted Satan's pact but also asked him to atleast calmly say it's for another reason other than to piss off Lucifer. Which he accepted and said it was because he liked them romantically as a friend and has respect for them, which in this timeline/AU whatever you call it is true. So he bursted for a reason that isn't MC refusing his pact.

That's all I have for them for now!