#merf

[wafflepopbeerus]

Merf

Just Merf, if you are sad, take a Merf

(I completely lost inspiration)

[zexainias-doodles]

oh look, a sketchy Jax

Idk, this didn't really turn out the way I wanted it to. So I just added shading until it looked decent. Oh well, they can't all be winners -3-

[aux-squiggle]

y'know what would be funny is if we only referred to children/the concept of having children as daughters.

"Oh are you considering having a daughter?" to someone with no kids. (unless you know they don't want kids ygwim)

"I'm taking *name* to the daughter's hospital on Friday for her vaccinations."

Hey Google top Pinterest results for daughter's birthday ideas.

When someone asks why you assume daughters all the time just say "well a son is an abortion," in a tone like it's so obvious, almost like they asked you what colour is the sky. And refuse to elaborate.

[tays-daisy]

I'm not a TERF because I do not exclude trans men or nonbinary women in my feminism. I do specifically exclude all males from my feminism, though.

I'm a MERF

[silverity]

what i posted:

the Totally-Not-Misogynists in response:

[autisticfoxgirl333]

Here This! Imagine....

Marx as a cute jester-alien-merman with his wings on his back!

[dizzizk]

[1whitewitch1]

Leftist men will make offhanded jokes about Andrew Tate and jokes about porn and jokes about rape and they will giggle in their discord chats and they will tell feminists online to kill themselves and in their heads they will call us every misogynistic name under the sun. I know that this anger sits right under the surface with these men, because I've seen it in ALL of them. Push them a little too far and they will threaten to gutter stomp you. Or 🍇 you. Or doxx you. Or they will mock you with DV and sexual violence statistics.

What sickens me as well as the expected amount of men online is the women who are so brainwashed by gender ideology stuff that their pronouns in their bio are fae/faers or it/it's etc. I don't have an issue with pronoun usage (it's just virtue signalling or having a good complex at that point) in general, I'm just commenting on the fact that so many of them are women who use they/them and are so misogynistic and have so much internalised misogyny that they probably think they've dealt with. But they have not. And one day they will/might realise that and regret telling people to kill themselves online for wanting women safe. But today is not that day for most of them. Why are YOU telling me to go and buy rope and a chair? Why are YOU telling me to cut to the bone? Why are YOU fighting for males who would walk over your dead body in the street, and do - metaphorically.

Too many people online are literally still 13/14/15 and should not be engaging in these communities online in the ways that they are. Older people supporting hormone therapy, changing your body, it's okay to hate your body and want to change it, in fact that's empowering and radical.... 🤨

It is a saddening reminder of what their priorities are and who they care about. They want to line the pockets of big pharma and private institutions that profit off insecurities and literal children struggling with "gender" because of early access to the internet or they don't know about gender non conformity, and are supported by a bunch of adults (usually male) online.

It is painful and so saddening. Such a connected and beautiful community of radical feminists and radical learning feminists is constantly torn down by the other women we want to help.

Anyway I just needed a rant. XY make me very mad.

[autistic-and-radical]

there's nothing tender about womahood. It's fucking hardcore mode gameplay. Yes, it is beautiful but also tragically beautiful. What is beautiful is the way we're created, how strong we are, how we bond with our sisters. that's what keeps us standing, that's what keeps us going, because suffering and discrimination and experiencing misogyny is a big part of womanhood. But you're right, you'll never experience it.

[arctic-hands]

I keep saying this in reblogs to other posts but I'm going to say this in an original post now because holy shit

You cannot carbon copy paste queer discourse into other non-queer facets of life. Physically disabled people are not equivalent to terfs or "exclusionary" just because the cripplepunk community is for physically disabled people. This isn't any more exclusionary than a white person such as myself not being allowed to say a racial slur. Life doesn't work like that holy shit

[thebeingmerf]

Au character redesign! Phantom (Sabre + Ghost fusion) from my TSS fusion au :}

Old/original:

[radmalenia]

Excuse us?

Nobody gives a single fuck if you think it's unfair. Neither you nor anyone else is owed someone's body. No one is owed sex. No one is owed emotional validation for their fantasies. And CERTAINLY no one is fucking owed being able to get sex from a certain demographic of individuals so as to validate their special gender identity. "Unfair" to them?? Boohoo. What a predatory, selfish thing to say.

How about "it's unfair to lesbians that a certain demographic of people think they deserve access to lesbians bodies, and don't want the lesbians to be able to say no"? That's something that's actually unfair. That violates sexual consent and basic respect and human decency, too.

You're talking like women's bodies are a public commodity...and so trans identified males can debate their access to them, and about how the people within them should behave in return. That's pretty repugnant

yall i have pretty controversial opinions about lesbianism apparently but if u think lesbians need to be welcoming to penis in their sex lives please unfollow me

[autisticfoxgirl333]

IT'S MERMAY YALL!!!!!

[momett]

"cripple punk excludes the mentally ill!"

the thing is, we literally do talk about mental health. specifically, the intersection of disability and mental health. because, surprise, being disabled puts you at a higher risk for mental illness in general. any disability. including invisible ones.

don't you think it would take a toll on a person's psyche to have to give up things they once found joy in because of their disability? because they physically cannot do said thing anymore without severe consequences to their condition? losing friends because of it? losing partners because of it? losing people you once loved, who no longer care because you can't offer them what they think they're entitled to?

yeah, we totally don't talk about mental health. sure.

"cripple punk excludes the mentally disabled!"

there is a big difference between being mentally disabled and physically disabled. yes, we are both disabled, but the specifics of our disabilities are vastly different. so why would we allow able bodied, mentally disabled people into a community focused on the struggles of the physically disabled?

mentally disabled people already have their own communities. some on this very website no less. they already have their own organizations. give me a good reason why the mentally disabled need access to a community based in the struggles and solidarity of the physically disabled, if they themselves are not.

just say you want to call yourself a slur you have no right using because your entire personality revolves around labels and what you feel entitled to call yourself.

[lurkiestvoid]

"transmisandry/transandrophobia does NOT exist!! transmascs can ONLY experience TRANSMISOGYNY"

---> tagged "tme"