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I already had a post up to cover an appt and my meds, then I woke up this morning and tripped over the cord of our $270 air purifier and broke it. I have diagnosed asthma and chronic bronchitis. The air purifier is what keeps me from constantly being horribly sick. If you've ever had bronchitis, you can imagine how bad it gets without it.
I need to replace this today if possible because I was already going through a flare. I cannot emphasize how urgent it is. I work from home, don't get paid for over a week from now, and the air is already hard to breathe without it now. I am kind of panicking.
Please click on the link to my other post for more details about the situation. I will do art for anyone who helps with this, just message me at my art blog @theartistrans
Dm me for proof or more details, I don't mind, I just desperately need this to replace this thing. The entra $10 is for my meds, which we haven't quite covered.
PP $C V kofi
$0/$280
#as mentioned in the tags of mt other post id also love to cook dinner or something for one of my roommates as shes grieving a sudden death#of a family member who she will not be able to attend the funeral of
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it's the best when i see falmari ocs who still remember the kinslaying at alqualonde and still begrudge the noldor. even better when they mention a feanorian or fingolfinian by name
#as much as i adore the mention that they hearkened specifically to elwing during the war of wrath and have not forgotten#what the exiled noldor did to them#i need specific names. specific memories! who among their family was killed? how did those family members die? how did they learn#of those deaths? who killed them? etc. etc. etc.#also need to see more falmari and reborn iathrim finding connections and sympathy among each other in their shared#experience of being on the receiving end of a kinslaying from the noldor#kinslaying at alqualonde#first kinslaying#falmari#teleri#tolkien tag#tolkien#the silmarillion#the silm#silm#lord of the rings#lotr#jrr tolkien
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My grandmother is dying. She’s been in rapid decline for years with severe late stage dementia but the shift was just so sudden. I saw her like a month and a half ago and she was smiling and laughing and making jokes even though she could hardly form a sentence or remember who anyone was, but over the past couple of days she’s taken a turn for the worse and there doesn’t seem like much time left. She won’t wake up anymore.
Even though we’ve had time to prepare for this it’s still heartbreaking. This has been weighing on my mind on top of everything else lately and it’s made it hard to keep creating. I may also have to go out of town again soon depending on what happens next, so please bear with me
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getting called out by my boss for not being ‘my usual cheery self’ at work when she knows full on why i’m upset
#tw vent#tw death#tw grief#i lost a family member on tuesday#not to mention in 10 days will be the first anniversary of my closest guy friend passing#and my baby is at the vet#like yeah i’m sorry i can’t fake a smile#let me do my work or send me home then#i do not have it in me to pretend it’s okay rn#and it’s not really a joke so idk why she’s poking fun at it#₊˚⊹ ᰔ xoxo aims#tbd sorry
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First Anniversary update
Hi everyone, As I had mentioned previously, I was planning on doing a prologue comic centered around Fawnstar to celebrate the blog's 1 year anniversary, and it would start on January 1st. Unfortunately, there was a death in my family and then I got super sick over the holidays, so... I haven't been able to even start on the prologue comic :(
I start back to work tomorrow so I wasn't able to use any of my time off to build up a backlog either. For these reasons I am delaying Fawnstar's Origin comic to a later date.. and doing a "draw this in your style" art piece for the 1 year anniversary instead, with regular moon updates resuming next Sunday.
The DTIYS piece will be posted on the actual anniversary date of 12/31 and will run for 1 month! No pressure to participate though <3
Thank you everyone for your support and understanding throughout this year, and I really appreciate every like, comment, and reblog! I have no plans of stopping this blog anytime soon so you can look forward to many moons to come :)
Best wishes and Happy New Year!
-Foxy
#dont worry everyone i am okay now!#i am getting over my flu and recovering fine#the family member was my great aunt and she was very old so it wasnt a huge surprise#i will be fine <3#i am sorry that i cant follow through on my anni plans though#hopefully one day soon i can get the prologue comic started!#tw death mention#cw death mention#cw family death#foxy rambles
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Hey uh… I figured I should post about this…
So uhm… I am going to try to take a bit of a break, if I do post it’ll probably just be little doodles or something. It’s not going to be forever, just for a little bit, I will get back to requests when I can. There’s just been a lot things that have happened this past weekend and I’m still processing it.
I first found out that my cat that we’ve had for going on 16 years has leukemia, there is is treatment for it but unfortunately we can’t afford it and with his age— and the fact that he’s going blind and has hip problems— we aren’t able to get it for him, and if we do we fear it might do him more harm than good.
After that I found out that my uncle had passed away very suddenly and we had to find out through another family member because my aunt has too much of a grudge against us to tell us herself. I don’t know what happened between us, but she just doesn’t like talking to us. Not even her father in law (my grandpa who lives with us)
And on top of all that, I was helping my friend with moving things and something landed on my foot. I think it is just bruised but I’m going to the doctor at some point to have it checked for sure.
I’ll be ok, I just wanted to let everyone know in case I if don’t post for a bit 💜🩷
#fangirl says things#important post#important#tw mention of death#tw death of a family member#tw death#tw sick pet#tw cat illness#leukemia#tw mention of injury#let me know if I missed tags#update#might delete later#idk
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i lost my best friend charley a month ago today and i can’t even enjoy christmas eve because i miss her so much :(

#not even exaggerating when i call her my best friend#she was with me every day for seven years and her death was so unexpected#realising this is the first time i’ve mentioned her death on here#we had her for the second half of her life and she’d gone through trauma#and she took her time warming up to us#like only sitting on our laps a few times starting this year after years of encouragement#i guess it’s nice we made the second half of her life better#my grandparents had loads of cats when my mum was growing up but they were always just pets you know?#charley was literally a member of the family#and my grandparents and i are grieving BAD
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I have been seeing a lot of people shaming people for shipping Vanco because "their relationship was written to be like brothers" and "they are parallels to Vi and Jinx"
and I just
I just want you to do some introspection, ask yourself, why the fuck do you think it is okay to police other people over a ship over something like "thematic parallels" they aren't actually brothers, adoptive or blood, hell, they didn't even know each other until they were adults (as far as I know, I could be wrong)
Caitlyn is supposed to be a parallel to Jinx, yet I don't see these people claiming Caitvi shippers to be shipping incest like y'all are
#arcane#vi arcane#jinx arcane#caitlyn arcane#caitvi#vander arcane#silco arcane#silco x vander#that isn't even mentioning that some people just straight up did not get that interpretation#we need to normalize death of the author#and also do some serious introspection on how normalized homophobia is even in queer friendly spaces#also this is not some proship thing#incest ships are nasty af and you should feel bad if you actually ship family members together
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Hey guys. Today I got some bad news from my dad: My grandma from my dad’s side of the had passed away. So send your condolences if you can.
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I swear to god if I see one fucking fanfic taking place at Liam’s funeral
#like it’s okay to mourn and to imagine what could have been#that’s totally fine#and a healthy way to cope with someone’s death#i’m not arguing that#but all the buzz about how his former bandmates might be handling it#not to mention his other close friends and family members#i just know some fucking larry fanfic is going to come out of this#i just know it#knowing this fandom#i would not be the least bit surprised#seeing such a complete lack of respect for their boundaries and privacy is what made me leave the fandom#it’s no wonder he was. in his own words. ‘fucked up’#i know we weren’t the only problem#but we were a big fucking part of it#we are not entitled to literally anything. at all. about these men or any part of their lives#let his friends and family mourn in peace#one direction#liam payne#rip liam payne
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roleplay idea: barton's trying to say this BS that he's 'good at processing grief' when your muse was a witness to the absolute rage-filled and deranged rampage that barton went on after julien was killed by the joker in which he brutally hurt all but one of his henchmen (he killed the last one because he told him he was 'crazy' and that he 'better kill him, or he was going to tell his boss that barton had been there' and he literally just snapped, went 'you know what, i think i will kill you AND also let the joker know i killed you so he knows to never come near my family again' then killed him. like HUHHH?) at the time with your muse being like this

#OF MONSTERS AND MEN: musings.#ooc post.#yeahhh 💀 man i wish i was joking about this you all but he really did put like three men in the hospital and killed one of them so...#he is NOT good at processing grief at all SKSKS and yeah the fact that they chose to ally themselves with the joker probably does say-#something about their own character but i don't condone violence or murder so it's still wrong even if they were... terrible 🫠#no but barton was honestly looking for someone else to blame besides himself for julien's death so he basically went to all of these-#henchmen and grilled them + asked them all whether they knew anything about how the joker was planning to kill his son#anddd when they all answered him with a 'no' was when thing's uhhh. Got violent 😬 like just imagine being one of barton's kids-#and mourning the loss of your brother in a normal albeit sad way on your own but then barton comes back home covered in blood-#+ it's obviously not his... like i don't even know if i'd want to ask him what the hell he just did because while barton is in mourning-#or grieving you do NOT want to be near him if you are the one that caused the death in question because you will get your-#shit rocked let me tell you ☠️ like the only reason why barton didn't kill the joker himself is BC he knew that that would attract-#batman's ire like nothing else and he does NOT want that smoke as much as barton hates him LMAO but DC muses... just to let you know-#or really any type of muse that interacts with him but those who are close to him in particular i would not touch a hair on any of his#family members head unless you want to have someone after you + i swear i'm not saying that to be edgy or anything BC ever since i#first mentioned that barton is always this 🤏 close to going off of the deep end even more than he already is i was not joking at all ASDFGH#tw: mentions of violence#tw: mentions of murder#tw: mentions of child death
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Anne's ability to hold the king off for seven years is part of her legend. The brilliance of her strategy was to cast herself in the role of the courtly lady, requiring Henry to play to perfect knight. Henry was nothing if not dogged in the pursuit of all the roles in which he cast himself—philosopher-king, warrior, even husband—and 'this persona of courtly lover...was fully formed in Henry and had been signaling...for an answering adept to come and lift its latch. In Anne, he had her: she was the mistress of Petrarchan contraries [...] the perfect [player] for the king's tender interest.'
Renaissance Prince: Elizabeth, Lisa Hilton
#henry viii#lisa hilton#'even husband'- that's all folks closing theme.mp3#so we see the relevant argument a lot that the seymours 'successfuly' replicated this which is kind of...yes and. no?#tl; dr it is really difficult to conceive jane managing to balance this tightrope for seven years (not to mention. three years thereafter#in a series of increasingly challenging circumstances)#(before edward vi is born i don't think their rise is comparable to the boleyns in the 1530s or the howards in the 1540s insofar as#the promotion of the queen-in-waiting's/queen's family members)#(it can be argued the seymours did maintain for longer bcus there was a plateau. in favour and rise. iyw. after edward vi's birth. or more#specifically: jane's death.)#is it possible? ig we don't really 'know' definitively#but considering anne was a successful intercessory agent even in her role as mistress#and jane was not even as queen. i...highly. doubt#there is of course the mystery of behind closed doors to be considered#(DID either of these women fully 'hold him off'? did they necessarily...want to?#but no pregnancies out of wedlock- well. elizabeth. ig. depending on who you ask- broadly speaking then#would suggest both did. and it's more likely in anne's case despite rumors for both bcus#seven years is a much longer period of time)#tl; dr the original quote is 'her blowing hot and cold was the perfect environment' WHICH#perhaps fits better for that argument- (they were the perfect players for those moments in time~ in henry's psyche as it were...#that by 1536 henry's tolerance for being 'challenged' by his lover had. worn pretty thin#however since we don't have anne's letters. i don't like summaries like that lol#we have no way of judging ourselves whether she was 'blowing hot or cold' or if henry was - maybe even willfully- misinterpreting her#whether they really were 'mixed messages' or henry was mixing them himself bcus they weren't what he wanted to hear#'my great folly' and all that. sooo.......
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It's really weird for me, knowing I have off this weekend, and I could technically do something fun or get out of the house for a while, but then remembering the reason I have off, is because I put in for that day two months ago in order to attend a funeral.
The service got canceled, for reasons I won't get into, so a part of me is saying I shouldn't do anything at all out of respect, but another part of me is saying I should use that time to my advantage and do something I want and/or need to do.
I think, at the very least, I need to get out of the house that day so I don't dwell on it, but that's what I would have been doing that day anyway and I just...
It's a complicated feeling.
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i don't know if anyone is awake yet but please keep midnight in your thoughts, i am so worried about her because she hasn't eaten in a few days so i took her to the vet and spend like $400 on tests and fluids and they still can't figure out what's wrong with her :( they gave me something to stimulate her appetite, but she still isn't eating. they told me if she doesn't eat at all today then my options are to take her to emergency or considering putting her down because she turns 17 years old this year and she's diabetic. I want to continue to fight for her, but I literally spent all of my money on her tests yesterday and I have nothing else left to take her to emergency. so my options are to either take out a predatory loan or just check myself into the mental hospital if she dies <3
#i would make a post on here asking for help but i feel deeply guilty about it#its just like whenever she dies i literally will feel like i have zero reason to live anymore i am not kidding#tw animal injury#tw animal death#just bc i mentioned it#she was the only member of my family who was there for me when i was being abused and i am not ready to let her go#in the past 6 months i have spent almost 2k on vet bills for her
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Brief Life Update
I'm going to be blunt. I might be slightly manic and in and out of attentiveness the next week or so. My wife just found out that her mother passed today, four hours away, in another city. She's not precisely dealing (and I don't expect her to. Grief is a process), but the enormity of it hasn't hit her yet, and I want to be close to her.
She has a meeting with her father and sisters at the family funeral home tomorrow to discuss arrangements.
I'll also occasionally interact to keep myself somewhat distracted long enough to ensure I'm there for her as she needs me.
I'm sorry if this is too much information, but right now- I'm a gummy in, and the honesty train is part of that. I love all of you. You're amazing, and some of my best friends- even if we've barely met. Thank you so much for the past few months, words, and your presence.
If you want to chat, eendee is my discord.
I'm working on commissions and card readings too. Your help/payments helped me find meat for sale that we could stock back for another two weeks to survive to the next paycheck.
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My grandpa just died recently and today is his birthday, I’m glad someone else can still have a good day. So happy birthday! 💜
Here’s a lemon 🍋 his favorite sweet treats were lemon so I give some to you :) (sorry if this was weird or insensitive I just needed to share 💜)
i’m so sorry for your loss!! thank you!!
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