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Hi, I hope you are doing well.🌹
Can you help by sharing my story, reblog, and donating if you can, to keep hope alive for me, I'm type 1 diabetes. I am calling on your humanity and kindness to help me raise $340.
This amount will enable the approval of an insulin pump that will help me better control my diabetes. Although I am happy that I have been approved the hardest part is the money to pay for the pump and equipment, please your contribution is important. Be blessed ♥️
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Greetings !! I must apologize for being this direct! I know times are tough and I might sound desperate but I’m hoping that you would be so kind to please boost/share the post I pinned for my cat who’s kidneys aren’t functioning properly and needs urgent help care as we are trying to raise some funds for his needs. if you have some time to spare, pls check it out as it would be so meaningful to me as I’m praying it would reach more people and gain traction at the same time, please 💔🙏
Of course, of course. Will do!
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no, but really, we need to talk about the casual objectification that has become the fallback discourse of the internet: if you're pretty and dressed nicely, you're a slut. and if you're even vaguely outside of their body standard, you're fucking disgusting.
too-frequently, people position sex workers as being "the problem". they sneer you're addicted to pornography, you don't know what a real woman looks like. but real women are in pornography. the real bodies on display are not the issue here: the issue is that other people feel extremely confident when commenting on someone's physique.
2000's super-thin is slowly worming its way back into the public ideal. recently i saw someone get told to "go for a run", despite the fact she was on the thinner side of average. not that it would ever be appropriate to say that: but it's kind of like sticker shock when you see it. people think that is fat? holy shit. do they just have no idea about things?
but what are you going to do about it? that's the problem, right. because chances are - you're a normal person. we can say normalize carrying fat on your body, but we are not the billion-dollar diet industry. we are not the billion-dollar fashion industry. we are just, like. people. who are trying to make content on the internet, without being treated shittily.
as someone who has been on both sides of things: you are treated better when you are thin and pretty. this is statistically correct. i am not saying that you cannot be bullied for being thin; i'm saying there are objective institutional biases against certain bodytypes. there are videos of men and women who lost weight all saying: i now know for a fact exactly how much worse you're treated. in the comments, some asshole inevitably says something akin to you deserved to be dehumanized when you were fat.
which means that ... the easiest thing to do is be pretty and thin. it is the path of least resistance, because of course it is, because any time you post a picture of yourself without a thigh gap, someone immediately comments something like you need to try a diet.
the other half is also dehumanizing though, huh, just in a different way. when i put on makeup and nice clothes, i am told i slept my way to the top as a professional. do you know how many women in STEM have told me they purposefully dress to "unimpress" because they already struggle to be taken seriously and if they're ever considered pretty - it for some reason takes away from their authority.
so they make it seem like it's your fault. you, existing in a body - it's your fault! if you didn't want shitty comments, don't have a body. they position us against each other like chess pieces; vying for male attention we don't even need.
and i can be an authority on this unless you think i'm fat and unattractive. when i am pretty and thin, i'm an activist. when i am just a normal person who makes a good point: i am immediately dismissed. nobody fucking believes you if you're not seen as attractive. you literally lose value. you cease to exist.
but the whole time, it feels like - is anyone actually grounded the fuck in reality? the line of "pretty and thin" keeps shifting. nobody seems to understand what "a normal weight" even looks like, because it's not something that exists - you cannot tell a person's health by looking at their body. even if you think you could tell that, even if you're sure a person is dangerously overweight - people are not your dolls. they do not need to be dressed up or displayed properly to soothe your aesthetics. you aren't concerned for them, you're stealing their agency. you don't get to say if they're "allowed" to take pictures and post them on the internet - you don't get to tell them how to exist.
people hide behind "the obesity epidemic" without any actual qualifications. they crow things about "normalizing unhealthiness".
but it's bullshit. i have visible abs. there is a pair of parallel lines on my body, even when i'm relaxed; where my obliques meet my abdominal wall. i am proud of this because it means i'm strong, because i overcame an eating disorder only to be ripped as fuck. it is genetic and physical luck that i even get any definition, i'm pleased as punch.
but it does mean that my abdominal wall sticks out a little bit. the other day i posted a video of myself dancing, and, for a moment, my shirt slipped. you could see a little bit of my stomach. i was cartwheeling to the floor. moments before this, i'd had my foot over my head.
a guy slid into my DMs. a row of vomiting emojis prefaced: you should really lose some weight before you think about dancing.
i stared at it for a long time. there was a time when i would have been triggered by this, where it would have encouraged me to starve myself. i would have ignored the fact i'm flexible, agile, good at jumping: i would have lost the weight for a stranger's passing comment. i would have found myself and my body fucking disgusting.
and for what? to please what? because why? so that he can exist in this world without an unchallenged eyeball? what would my self-hatred even accomplish? usually i write paragraphs. obviously. on this particular occasion, in this body i've been at war with for ages: i just felt exhausted.
it shouldn't be even worth saying. it shouldn't be hard to explain. all of this emotional turmoil when he cannot even comprehend the most basic truth: i am not an object on display for him.
#spilled ink#writeblr#warm up#like if im getting fatshamed. babe......... wake up#is there fat on my body? yes :)#btw this behavior wouldn't be okay even if I WAS overweight!!! that is my point!!!#it is both that people have no idea what weight is supposed to look like#and even if they DID... they do not seem to understand that PEOPLE ARE NOT DOLLS#YOU DO NOT GET TO TELL THEM HOW TO EXIST#if you respond anything akin to ''but raquel there IS an obesity epidemic''#you're blocked and reported.#go fucking DONATE TO A FOOD BANK THEN. volunteer in a food desert. start a free fitness program#GO GET A DEGREE AS A MEDICAL PROFESSIONAL AND PRACTICE IN NUTRITION IN UNDERPRIVILEDGED LOCATIONS#FIGURE OUT HOW TO LOWER FOOD COSTS. FIGURE OUT HOW TO NORMALIZE AND STANDARDIZE#ACCESS TO FARM-FRESH FOOD. PROVIDE ACTUAL FREE ACCESS TO OUTSIDE ACTIVITIES#FIGURE OUT HOW TO TEACH PEOPLE HEALTHY CHOICE MAKING WHILE ALSO LOWERING THE COST OF MEALS.#THE AVERAGE GROCERY BILL OF THE AMERICAN CITIZEN HAS QUADRUPILED IN THE LAST YEAR.#SHUT. THE FUCK. UP!!!!!!!!!#you don't want to help these people!!!!!#you want to bully them but still feel like a good person!#you want to be justified in your hatred of an entire CLASS of people!!!#you don't give a fuck about how it makes them feel!!!!#you care ONLY about whether or not YOU get to VIRTUE SIGNAL that YOURE so thin and pretty!!!!#it is BECAUSE of people like you#and the fact you tolerate fatphobia - BECAUSE of that normalization. that men like the one who called me fat#feel like they can get away with it.#bc there's a line for you where you WOULD be okay with it. where if i WASNT thin you'd be okay with it.#which means the line can always be pushed in a certain direction. and it's always going to appeal to male aesthetics.#''well you didn't deserve it'' maybe fucking NOBODY does babe. maybe we should just all agree not to comment on ppls bodies!!
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DCA HALLOWEEN YCH SALE 24 USD EACH
like promised a DCA YCH sale for Halloween :D with original options aND the jack-o lantern variations as well, and if you can’t decide who you want! Both is also a choice!
SUN YCH (1/4) SLOTS
MOON YCH (2/4) SLOTS
SUNMOON YCH (4/4) SLOTS
JACK-oMOON YCH(1/4) SLOTS
JACK-oSUN YCH(1/4) SLOTS
DM me and sign the google form if your interested to tell me which one you’d like!
on a note, the UTMV sale is also still open if you want other options!
#I had allot of fun designing the jack-o’-lantern ones PFGngn I love them sm#but please reblog and share it be greatly appreciated!#I have allot of bills I need to pay for my medical expenses so this be a great deal of help;;#art#my art#commissions#art commissions#art commissions open#art comms open#ych sale#ych commissions#ych art#ych open#ocxcanon#dca halloween#dca fandom#dca fanart#fnaf security breach#fnaf dca#jack o moon#jack o sun#fnaf daycare attendant#fnaf sun#fnaf moon#dca ych#sun x moon#halloween art#halloween#halloween sale
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please don't mistake silence for hatred. please don't mistake unanswered plotting messages as indifference, or a lack of enthusiasm towards you. considering the ages of most roleplayers, many of us have bills to pay, families to take care of, medical conditions to treat, appointments to make, classes to take, homes to clean, and lives to live away from the computer that are far, far more important than writing on tumblr — life has a tendency to get in the way of hobbies and fun things like this. be patient with your fellow writers. if it doesn't work out, it doesn't work out. of course you can set your boundaries, keep your space comfortable, and softblock whoever you wish, but do so while recognizing it's probably not hatred or apathy that keeps them from leaping into your dms with message after message. they probably love this hobby just as much as you... but sometimes life gets in the way.
#rp psa#roleplay psa#rp help#roleplay help#roleplay advice#'the rpc has changed for the worse' that's your opinion#but have that opinion while also acknowledging the ages of those you write with#and recognize they have responsibilities and worlds to take care of#people who depend on them#financial strain. hardships. unemployment. housing problems#medical bills. local weather disasters#trauma in their life deaths in their family#you cannot expect instant messages or EXTREME enthusiasm from everyone in this community#when so many of us are also dealing with irl situations#that are MORE important than talking about our fictional characters meeting for the first time#would it be nice if we could all find a comfy balance#and put passion into this hobby like we did when we were younger?#oh sure!!!! but that's just not viable anymore
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I can’t be the only member of the unhealthily obsessed with gravity falls as a kid to unhealthily obsessed with malevolent as an adult pipeline
#yes these are some of the sketches that are old but I tricked you cause I did clean them up prior to posting#just so they like. make sense#the problem with these is that now I’m thinking about the implications and I’ve got like a whole au in my head#malevolent#my art#gravity falls#malevolent podcast#Arthur lester#John doe#dipper pines#kayne malevolent#bill cipher#anyway arthur and John circa season 2 get transported into the future and into Oregon and they wander into a shack in the woods with weird#signs looking for medical help because Arthur is once again fucking dying and dipper is like. yellow eyed BITCH oh wait no this is different#fuck what’s wrong with this British man
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Uh. I just spent $1000 usd on a dentist. That was unexpected. Sure. Okay.
The cat's bloodwork for his serious heart problem is ~$400 at the cheap vet tomorrow. Fuck.
This is the cat in question. He's dreaming but he's ALWAYS this huffy + puffy. There is fluid building up in his chest but now he's so far gone, he can't have surgery. All we can do is bloodwork, x-rays, and medication. His meds can't be refilled without new bloodwork.
I could use the help. Even $1 at a time.
$A - DanielOneiroi
I also do paypal, but message for email address <3
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Methinks its time to move back home actually
#i talked to my aunt about it and honestly like. i might as well#im broke im in a bunch of debt i have no access to medical insurance so i cant get therapy im alone depressed and my bills are always late#and ive been stuck in my apartment for months bc of this ridiculous registration shit for my car#so as much as i dont want to sell my car OR move im. thinking about it now#like at least id have the house almost to myself since my sibling moved out#and i could make the upstairs my own pretty much. plus ive been meaning to jelp renovate up there so#why not#plus i can save for tattoo stuff properly#i just feel like im giving up i was trying to prove i could care for myself and#I feel like ive proven km incapable pf being an adult bc of this it sucks#but at least my ma and my aunt are willing to help me as i figure shit out. im lucky to have them#mag.txt
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hai again ... my name is lain or araquius, im a seventeen year old pinoy trans lesbian. i am mentally disabled, visually impaired, and currently struggling in an abusive household with nowhere to go and just need funds to be able to take care of myself.. recently my glasses were broken after an altercation with a family member and i need to get new ones or else i wont be able to work on school or art. examples of my work are on my blog with the tag #professional drawer and you can also go to my kofi if you dont wanna sift through homestuck rarepairs and the like ! if you cant help thats okay, and if you can help thank you in advance.
#professional drawer#emergency comms open#emergency commissions#urgent commissions#urgent#i really hate begging for money online but i dont think i have a choice#art comms open#art commissions open#commissions open#commission#someone pay my medical bills pls#pls reblog#anything helps#i will draw anything
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I have no idea if this will help at all for my husband's dog, but we need to take care of him, as well as ourselves, and I set up a GoFundMe to try and help offset medical bills and a diet that he may need in the upcoming weeks.
We discovered when he wasn't feeling well, and we took him to an emergency vet, that he had a UTI, diabetes, and became blind. We were able to cover those costs, but now we are trying to move forward and help him as best we can.
A reblog, share, anything will help to at least keep our dog comfortable, and help keep him there. I appreciate everyone reading and reblogging this.
Thank you
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Well, I'm back and the shop's re-opened! All stickers are up, all keychains are for sale again, and the watercolor prints are available for sale again!
This blog's certainly gone way past just my artwork and i certainly advertise more for my shop now than I post art, but running my shop leaves me with the same feeling of satisfaction now that posting art does, so I'm having fun with it.
Per usual, everything is up for pre-order in my shop here!
Btw, my manufacturer did accidentally send me three extra Sun keychains on accident so if you manage to snag one of them your order should be sent out this month rather than next!
#ko-fi#stickers#keychains#fnaf sun#fnaf moon#please boost this as much as you can btw!#like just reblogging would help#all my profits that don't go into bills are going into saving up for some medical work i need done#i dont want to make this whole post about it but if you DO read my tags i'd REALLY appreciate if y'all could reblog if you like this as wel
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#13!! jamil was silver's chef event judge and i think he could potentially see some potential in silver and help him out#lil chef chef tutoring sesh!! he wants to do more than salt/pepper and jamil is the king of cooking itd be so good#their interactions in hw2 are so much i want more of them interacting. i actually want more of All the 2nd yrs interacting but i digress#2nd yrs have the least interpersonal shit built/woven into the story imo so i crave it. pls#also life update i managed to lower my medical bill by EIGHT HUNDRED DOLLARS by calling and saying im unemployed. sobbgin#finally one single good thing happening in my life. the test was awful too apparently i have an 83% chance of getting stomach cancer so :)#c'est la vie its fine its FINE im being so brave#twst#twisted wonderland#twst silver#jamil viper#suntails
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Fandom Gripes #24: Fans acting like the act of interfering in a rapidly deteriorating situation with the intention of helping makes you not only a bad person but also just as bad as (or worse than) the person/people causing the bad situation has got to stop. Blaming mxtx protags for not successfully saving the people they tried to help despite directly helping while others were either 1) actively trying to kill the people the protags were trying to help or 2) passively watching as others actively tried to kill the people the protags were trying to help is like irl when a good Samaritan saves someone’s life but then get sued later because saving said person’s life left them with injuries. Which is why we now have to have Good Samaritan Laws in America to discourage people from deciding that saving a life isn’t worth the consequences.
#mdzs#svsss#tgcf#human gripes at fandom#adding svsss because i think it applies still#but svsss does not have these discourses so it’s not a fandom-specific jab#mdzs and tgcf on the other hand…#in good samaritan law situations#the suer is usually castigated as ungrateful and evil-spirited for punishing the person who saved their life#(and we could talk about the usa medical system encouraging lawsuits as a way to pay medical bills on another day)#but somehow in fandom to be a good samaritan is to be an idiot#and the ‘correct’ response is to mind your business and not help
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❤️🔵🌸 NSFW ANIMATION COMMS❤️🔵🌸
Slots 0/3 Please message me with your date of birth and if you're interested.
#rent is due#medical bills are due#also i am moving back to ky so#any help is larg appreciated#also am -$32 in overdraft on paypal#🤪 peepaw things
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I was trying to warm up and all I could think about was him thinking about him
#trigun#trigun maximum#trimax#vashwood#vash the stampede#hand farts#I got a scanner for commissions and I'm trying to figure out how to use it#does this look better than just taking photos??? I have no idea I cannot be impartial about it#anyways I'm doing a donation drive to afford my bills while on medical leave- please help!! ko-fi is in my about me
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I feel bad for making this post but i need to raise 180 dollars before Nov 4 for my cat any donations will help me so much my work place isnt giving me hours and im struggling hardcore at the moment
its okay if you cant just share it around!
#shygirl4991#donate if you can#donate#need to pay off my cats medical bills#any amount helps or just share around
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