#me (Scared): i don't got this
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I've seen a few posts about women and pants now and many of them are very good, and not to nitpick those posts or downplay religious sexism or anything, but I have to emphasise:
Somebody who DOESN'T live in a controlling religious country/cult/family is also affected by sexism. We all know that, right? Secular parts of the first world also have opinions about how women dress, including when it comes to trousers, especially in childhood and in institutions like schools and the workplace
Me and many people my age (20s) remember being forced into skirts, punished and shamed by parents & teachers & peers & possibly then bosses about what we wear not being feminine enough, and it wasn't by deeply religious sects. Many updates to dress codes are very new and sexist views are still in place in many institutions. Normalised societal misogyny wants women (and people they want to treat as women) to dress femininely, down to what KIND of pants they're allowed to wear (compare a pink top and jeggings to mens jeans and tell me these two women are treated the same. Hating women in pantsuits is still a sexist office joke today, and even those outfits are feminine compared to male suits, which raise eyebrows when worn by women). The women I know who wear trousers regularly are literally otherwise feminine, and all wear dresses to events.
I know trousers have become much more normalised over the past few decades in secular society (yay!! the result of many many years of effort and lawbreaking) but let's not be absolute when we talk about the pants concept lol. Especially within a larger conversation about female/transmasc/intersex/transfem masculinity and social perceptions, especially in an age of rising fascism
#you know. misogyny?#transandrophobia#you're telling me only muslims and christians experience pants based sexism. in front of my salad?#i did not have screaming arguments with my nonbeliever non church attendee parents in the 2000s to have you lot --#sexism is Not strange or rare or fringe#pretend me wearing pants from then on was societally allowed. i got a talking to at school about pants.#i was scared i would have to wear a skirt at high school in the 2010s. thankfully the one i went to was more progressive#getting clocked as the only 'girl' in class wearing trousers without at leasts wearing a skirt over it#having older female AND male relatives pick up on the lack of a skirt/dress at events#yes some people think it's normal. and some people think being gay is normal. and some people dgaf if you're foreign or whatev#but existing some ways means you have certain experiences and there are certain risks hanging over you lol#just making this post bc some of you live in some extremely progressive USA city and have forgotten normal people exist /lighthearted#mum still shows me a polka dot dress i used to wear as a baby and asks me why i don't wear dresses. some dumb dress shes kept for 20 years#she wears trousers and dungarees sometimes. but that's the thing#pants are a temporary allowance. if that's all you wear then they hate that. you have to be Feminine when they demand#your wardrobe still carries sexist necessities before people start to look at you funny#if i went to an event like a wedding in a suit people would talk (closeted to most ppl irl)#anyway.#sending telepathic strength to anyone surrounded by so called progressives who have opinions on how they dress 👉👁️👁️👈
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Tl;Dr - I stopped playing the game but I like the characters and I wanna draw them but idk if the wiki I use is up to date for cards
Do u know any wikis that have up to date cards for all the twst characters-
Asking specifically bc of Malleus cause I can't tell anymore if he has any more new cards bc HE DOESN'T EVEN HAVE A 100 DISNEY ANIVERSARY CARD IN THE WIKI I USE 😭
Like compared to everyone else in Disanomia, he has 12 cards (in the wiki I use) and then Lilia has 17 cards 💀
Cause I think Malleus has a Bean's Day card as well, but that could just be a fanmade one, I don't have JP twst nor ENG twst anymore so I can't confirm it myself urhghrhevw 🫠
Malleus doesn't have a Beans Day card, so that would've been fanmade! and the 100 anniversary cards are actually the new round of birthday cards, so most of the characters don't have 'em yet -- Malleus should be getting his in a couple of days, when his birthday event starts! oh god my keeeeeys
I think the wiki.gg stays pretty up to date? it looks to me like they have everything that's currently up through JP, at least. :O I did go through and do a quick count just because I couldn't believe Malleus only had 12 cards, but. he really does have the least...defeated only by Silver with 13...astonishing. we need his gargoyle club wear immediately.
#art#twisted wonderland#twisted wonderland spoilers#...maybe? tenuously? i have no idea#i think lilia and floyd are tied for the most at 18 each#twst loves the chaotic gremlins#granted card quantity is separate from card rarity/significance/whatever#i remember all of us losing our minds when vargas camp 2 came out and trey FINALLY got an event ssr after a million years#anyway i am looking forward to the upcoming magift cards and all don't get me wrong#but i am VERY VERY excited to see what the gargoyle club wear looks like#i NEED to 1) know what malleus thinks gargoyle fashion is and 2) see him in it#jade is also in a weird club by himself but at least that. y'know. has a gear theme and everything.#tangentially i do sometimes think about the fact that malleus and jade are both in single-member clubs#despite how in...i think lilia's robes story the music club was in danger of disbanding because they only had three members#although i do genuinely believe that crowley is too scared of both jade and malleus to tell them they can't have their clubs#so y'know. it tracks.
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Top 10 most compelling arguments in history
#I'm so proud of this teehee#giggling#twirling my hair#kicking the air fighting the air wrestling the air throwing a cocktail molotov at it#dhmis duck#dhmis#dhmis red guy#fluffybird#dont hug me im scared#don't hug me i'm scared#dhmis fluffybird#duck guy#red guy#dhmis fanart#FINALLY GOT AROUND TO ADDING A WATERMARK (it's carved in the coffin :3)#made his stitches visible here since it's newly done in this scene and later on fades#cw blood#← slightly I think
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lethal company is a workplace comedy
this prank got us All killed. btw.
#lethal company#comic#art#artists on tumblr#digital art#lethal company fanart#dat me#iirc we were on lake. it was foggy. i was so scared by Mask and i couldnt see thru the FOG i ran out and fell into the lake and DIED#one guy obvs sacrified himself for Le Prank and. i don't remember what happened to the 4th guy. mask prolly got him#AND WE HAD SO MUCH LOOT I WAS SO MAD WJHBDFGBHJDFG. ... IT WAS FUNNY THO NGL IT -WAS- FUNNY#im kinda ehhhhh (wobbles hand) about how i did the last panel and how i portrayed me running to the door but its. its ok#its fine its good enough i think#this wasn't supposed to be so involved DHJBSDFHJB#anyway i've been posting WIPs of this to my kofi page for members!! the Entire sketch is up over there#yknow. in case anyone is interested in that
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i swear sometimes i think people forget that Jon's s1 skeptic act was just that—an act. it was an act!!! he believes the statements!! he's believed them since episode one! do we so soon forget that he denied the statements were real because he knew the Eye something wanted him to be scared, and he knew that was bad, so he decided to act like the statements just didn't scare him? remember, he was working with extremely limited information ("when i record the tape statements, i feel watched, like something knows i'm afraid, and i don't want it to know that"), and came up with a genuinely solid solution with what he had! not his fault that the thing watching him was a literal unknowable eldritch entity that feeds on fear, and he was just some underqualified archivist.
#sorry. saw a post and got a little angry about it#like bro! he literally tells martin in a fan-favorite conversation that it! was! an! act!#we KNOW he's believed in the supernatural since age eight!#i'm so tired of the ''lol haha jon didn't believe the OBVIOUSLY real statements but they still spooked him'' posts#i will not take this blorbo slander#leave my guy alone he tried his best. and was scared out of his mind while doing it#the magnus archives#jonathan sims#friday chats#it's like 1:30 am if this is moderately incoherent don't come at me
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#the duck was always my favorite. red guy climbed up to the same place after the tv series. yellow guy is fine but not my fav. sad#don't hug me i'm scared#dhmis#dhmis duck#dhmis red guy#red guy#art#fanart#traditional art#can't believe I'm about to say this but red guy is the hot one#there. I said it. finally I got it out of my system
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'How many times you been caught with your hand where it doesn't belong?'
PICKUP ON SOUTH STREET (1953), written and directed by Samuel Fuller
#oldhollywoodedit#classicfilmsource#classicfilmedit#pickup on south street#jean peters#richard widmark#CUCKOO IN THE HEAD#this pairing has me in a chokehold please send help#they created a standard of perfect noir ship that scratches such a specific part of my brain it's ridiculous#i forgive all of the red scare hysteric bullshit just for this moment alone#even if i still don't know HOW this !!!opening!!! scene got past the censors#a big scale eyefucking AND pickpocketing as a metaphor for penetration???#SPECTACULAR NEVER THE SAME TOTALLY UNIQUE COMPLETELY NOT EVER BEEN DONE BEFORE#*turns up the heat a bit and laughs maniacally*#shitty things i do for love#memory of craving wantwantwant and the mouth ashes#classic hollywood#1950s
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get cleaned idiot
#dhmis#don't hug me i'm scared#red guy#yellow guy#duck guy#i tried making them look more puppet accurate here but i gave up when i got to duck FUCK that guy#martart
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I’m trying to plan out something fun to do, but it involves New Skills and Learning Software and the Mortifying Ordeal of Being Known, and my clinically-diagnosed anxiety is rearing up at every step. My mom’s life motto is “Work the problem,” so I'm trying to remember that every time I hit a speed bump. What's the next step in dealing with this problem? What question do you need to google, what article do you need to read, what peripheral do you need to research?
The thing is, I've noticed that every time in my life I make a bunch of confident promises and give myself a rousing pep talk, my executive functioning folds immediately. Like a lawn chair. Just--gone. So we're not doing that this time; I'm tricking myself into not noticing that I'm accomplishing anything. We are all going to have to deal with my anxiety (and yours as well, if you want) and learn to accept it and work alongside it. Because I've noticed that when I'm--let's say, when I let myself be ~vulnerable with the universe--I tend to get further. Maybe subconsciously I reduce tension by saying, "Look, I never said I would definitely do it." On the other hand, maybe lowering expectations for myself makes me really want to exceed those expectations. (The only thing worse than being a perfectionist is being someone who wants to exceed perfectionism. I'm a recovering Gifted Kid™, yeah.) So, anyway, I feel like talking about it because I know you are out there, Anxiety Nation. I know you Get It.
How bad do you want this? What enthusiasm brought you here? Would anything explode, would anyone die if you failed?
#I've got free software#I've got friends who can troubleshoot with me#I have hit sales and discounts#'I'll use this for other things too' I assure myself#I'M SCARED#OKAY BUT MAYBE WE DO IT SCARED?#WHAT ARE WE EVEN SCARED ABOUT#I DON'T KNOW?#CAN SOMEONE READ ME BACK THE MINUTES OF THE MEETING?#my brain: no❤️#me for some reason#anxiety
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'buck's a grown up so treat him like one' lmao where was that energy when tommy was telling buck to put his phone away because it was past his bedtime lmao. people who care about you wouldn't encourage you to fight for somebody who dumped you lmao.
Are we talking about the time when Buck was definitely in a deep hyperfixation and couldn't stop surfing internet by himself? And when he was hurt and needed rest to heal? When Tommy was a caring boyfriend who brought him new ice pack, fluffed his pillow, asked what he needed, slept with him in the same room on a small couch in case of emergency, although could go home? This time? And remind me, did he took Buck's laptop away from him? I don't think so, he just told him to go to sleep because that's what Buck needed. So, all i see here a worried boyfriend.
Em, yeah maybe people shouldn't encourage their loved ones to fight for someone who dumped them. But shouldn't they care about their mental health? Buck is obviously struggling, he needs at least closure. And Tommy wants to reach out too, as we saw in the scene with babbling. So they really need to talk and people around Buck should see it and help him to have this talk. Considering none of them ever gave up on their loved ones. How many struggles Madney had? Henren? Athena&Bobby? And now they are strong. And shouldn't the fuck they encourage Buck to do something to get his happily after too? Even if just to talk to Tommy, understand why Tommy broke up with him, so even without their endgame Buck would know what the hell happend to the relationship he thought were good.
#bucktommy#911 abc#tevan#tommy kinard#evan buckley#yeah buck is grown up#and i stand with the fact#118 doesn't treat him like that#and i wouldn't call break up the “Tommy dumped Buck”#tommy got scared#he ran away#surprise surprise he's a human being and has feelings too#so yeah we don't know his past#and why he broke up with buck#but this break up was hard for him too#that's absolutely true#dumping someone up for me means the person who did it doesn't have feelings for other#it's clearly wasn't the case here
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Little guys :]
#art#illustration#fanart#dhmis#don't hug me i'm scared#dhmis red guy#dhmis duck guy#dhmis yellow guy#red guy#duck guy#yellow guy#his little guys :]#this was supposed to be a quick drawing but I got carried away lol#fav posts
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#hellooooo it's been a long week for sure#got my exam results. did a lot better than i thought i'd do!!!#also had an interview for a place in a community college which i got#but i hopefully got into uni (i'll find out 2pm tmrw) so i mightn't need it!!!#i'm so scared man i'm used to class sizes of like.. 8 😭#and now i've gotta get 4 buses a day to the city and back instead of a 20 min stroll up the road 😔#did a pub crawl saturday to celebrate. had a lot of fun#been having fun with bg3 too!! i'm still on act 1#my ear is blocked again 😔 it's €60 to get it drained ughhh i'll just suffer on#getting my first tattoo soon though 🥳#enough about me lol i need to make a personal sideblog one of these days#i'll def have a lot less time to be active with sims stuff if i'm starting uni so i'll be sure to make one ^^#ANYWAYS here's ms macmahon#/roxana#i swear to god i'm going to catch up with all the new kmik posts when i wake up tomorrow#if i don't assume me dead#ts4
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Doodle page and food court (haha get it)
(also random song for u to enjoy)
#when the fish dies but your toilet is sentient and isn't fond of sea food#i like to think that after the events of family#duck would take pictures randomly when he's with the other two#and fill the house wallet with the photos (like “proof” that they're a family)#and the pictures would either be a nice family picture or them doing something clearly illegal#i wonder what toy he got with the burger :]c#i worry might've drawn him too cutesy with the tie#dhmis#dhmis duck#dhmis red guy#dhmis yellow guy#fluffybird#duck guy#red guy#yellow guy#cw guns#i think eating at court should be allowed#don't hug me i'm scared fanart#don't hug me i'm scared#dont hug me im scared#dhmis fanart#digital art
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i can't stop thinking about dad xenophilius, left alone in the world with a little girl, who suddenly realizes that, to give her a perfect future, he should welcome her in his confusion but at the same time find a way to give her the order that pandora had brought into the house.
he abandons his agitation and his cruel humor, and becomes calmer and more patient, without however losing that madness that luna loves so much. and, scared of making a mistake, he raises her as he knows a little girl would like: in a fairy world. he buys her brightly colored clothes, tells her about the strange creatures he studies, teaches her a few little spells. she puts strawberry hair clips in his hair, and together they have tea with her stuffed animals.
he can't help but wonder if she looks too much like him, if pandora would have taught her to dress and behave differently. he's afraid that luna might forget her.
but, sometimes, he sees her looking at her mother's photos with such curiosity that xenophilius' heart melts. and she never cut her hair. it must mean something.
#he's such a girl's dad#when she got her period he was SO scared he didn't know what to do#and luna was like “don't worry dad i'll help you. my friends told me everything about it”#“sorry but shouldn't I be the one helping YOU?”#😭😭#xenophilius lovegood#luna lovegood#pandora rosier
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actually the thing that pisses me off when fandom talks about the titans tower incident isn't even just that people wildly misinterpret/overreact to it, but that they only care about it because it happened to tim
half the other unhinged shit jason has done towards heroes (beautiful and spectacular) is like. never brought up. the titans tower incident is just tim fans' way of angsting up their blank canvas
#none of you care this much about jason and mia's fight or dick and jason's thing#he's got nothing going for him and y'all need to accept that#tim pov in a jason centric fic drives me BONKERS#jason feeling remorse for attacking a child like they weren't both teenagers and both vigilantes#the guy was robin. he fought worse than jason. him losing to jason was pathetic and proved jason's point#tim was not suffering for months after that fight. he does not have ptsd. he is not scared of jason. the bats don't tell jason to stay#away from tim#come to terms with the fact that tim is BORING#stop making jason ooc just to make tim's perfectly normal life sad#anyways sorry guys i just read back to back fics of jason acting like he was gonna break down for hurting tim because he's just a baby#every once in a while i just have to vent about this character to air out my frustrations#jason todd#red hood#anti tim drake
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Neuron Activation Ranking - NU:CARNAL
it's list time. . .but i need to narrow down the criteria so it actually ends up a list and not a Blob of Varying Circumstances through which No Clear Tiers can be determined.
So here's a ranking of whose intimacy rooms i unlock first, based on Horny Potential🤔
Typically, i unlock rooms based on several criteria e.g., how much i like the specific outfit, how useful the unit would be in battle, whether i have enough intimacy gifts for them.
But let's pretend that EVERYONE has a unit in my box. All the above criteria are equal. In which order do I unlock them?
1! Eiden IF WE GOT REGULAR EIDEN UNITS HE WOULD BE FIRST BUT HERE I AM , REGULARLY EIDENLESS, . OH MY GOD when that anniversary banner offered galactic mist eiden i have never thrown my gems at a banner SO FAST SELFCEST KING EIDEN I DON'T EVEN LIKE YOUR YAOI MULLET BUT I NEED THAT HOT EIDEN ON EIDEN ACTION I NEED TO SEE THE GOD OF SEX DOING WHAT HE DOES BEST
2! Yakumo Sigh.
3! Morvay he gets priority because he has almost no content AND I AM SO CURIOUS. FASTPASS FOR MORV. that face he makes in Mauve Mayhem R5 ? where he's smushed into the pillow while being railed into oblivion? yeah. i think about that a lot. i would like to see more of that. please and thank you.
4/5! Garu and Rei it's a toss-up based on my mood. garu if i want to see someone submissive, rei if i want to see eiden getting pushed around a bit. How am i supposed to resist a powerbottom strutting around in thighhigh heeled boots? i can.t. No lie tho, I often have more incentive to unlock Garu bc i want to keep up with the MULTITUDE of puppyfans surrounding me 😂
6/7! Olivine and Edmond another shared ranking based on mood. oli if i want the juicy boobs and edmond if i want the juicy thighs LOL these two have dropped slightly in priority from my earlygame because i've unlocked more content with them and thus feel the need to balance by unlocking garu+rei first AHAHAHA but. two things will always draw me in: oli's freakiness and ed's b(oot)eautyness
8! Blade With the bottoms out of the way, I'll mosey on over to BB Blade. That wonderful weirdo often has something interesting going on, and I liiiiiive for The Novelty. What will e-droid bring to show and tell today? Maid dress? Chewing? Candle Darling? Let's see!
9! Dante kinda wanna see him and eiden do their silly sex competitions. maaaybe see him get fokin pwned by eiden in the battle of experience. maaaaaaaaaybe watch him struggle to suppress his stupid embarrassing romantic side . DEEEEEFINITELY laugh at how badly he's fallen for eiden.
10! Kuya i find kuya super pretty, but i end up unlocking him more for lore reasons. i love how he spices up the character interactions with his. . kuya-ness, but i'm not keen on getting edged into oblivion and bearing his bebbehs , yaknowwhatimean.
11! Aster Aster would be around here if his future SSRs follow the flavour of his current LongAster card. i'm too busy admiring him for his Stone Top vibes to summon much horny for him 😆 but i WOULD unlock him for potential morvaster interactions and, of course, the lore.
12! Quincy somehow, he doesn't activate any horny within me. idk. every time he says something's too troublesome, i'm just agreeing with him frfr. i'd rather nod at him respectfully as we go about our separate affairs in the forest than ride him into the sunset. also i am scared of his dick.
FAC (Frequently Anticipated Comments)
You could have just said you were a dom lol Nooooo little old me? i'm sooooo tired. imagine taking control for longer than 3 minutes. too much also, you think i'd be able to dom rei?! HAH i'm getting stepped on by birdcat heels. i'm not about to fight a futile battle.
3 minutes are all you need sometimes( ͡°( ͡° ͜ʖ( ͡° ͜ʖ ͡°)ʖ ͡°) ͡°) i'm not about to speedrun someone's cummies leave me alone
What about Bottom Quincy? i'm listening...
I completely agree with your ranking and am thrilled to have found a kindred spirit. Thank you, comrade. I am glad we could somehow find each other in this infinite swirling cosmos of time and space. 🤝
#there you go anon. you got your tier list... maybe i won't have to reincarnate into another vessel for a while#i know some of you are yelling at me right now about quincy's dick#what do you MEAN you're scared of his dick why aren't you scared of YAKUM-#I AM!!!!!! OK?! YOU THINK I'M NOT??!?!?#YOU DON'T THINK THAT PART OF THE REASON WHY I HATE IT HERE IS THAT I HAVE TO. DEAL WITH . THAT?#what do i even mean when i say deal with that. i don't have to deal with it at all. i can erase his dick like the dj of yore#BLAM! WHITEOUT! DICK-NO-MORE!#true yakufans scoffing at me rn like *tch.* i love every part of him. i'll accept ALL of him .scales and extendodick and all#bro i did'nt ask to be here. i'm just trying to take it day by day 😭#the clan's all here!#fhishe listes
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