#marriage tradition

[sarakipin]

Happy One Year Anniversary my Love 10.29.23

[luckykittens198]

That moment when you want a small quiet intimate wedding, but your mom wants to invite her friends and her friends' friends which is almost over 100 people.

No, I'm not getting married, I don't even have any boyfriend. It's just I know this is what will happen when I'm actually getting married. Asian wedding tradition is just painful for introvert like me🥲

Basically, in my religion, marriage just needs 3, the couple, someone from the government that will mark the wedding (it's called 'penghulu' in my country. Something like the priest in christian wedding? What was it called?), and witnesses. Even the witnesses doesn't need that much, just 8 or 10 people from each family? I forgot. Anyway, this part of the wedding can be done in the court. And it wasn't that expensive.

Anyway, it's after the oath ceremony that was painful. It's called 'reception'. And this is where the showing off wealth is. It's practically tradition, not actually needed in religious context. Just a very annoying tradition where you invites your friends and their spouse and children, colleagues and their spouse and children, and your parents' friends and colleagues and whoever else they invite for a party. Both groom and bride's extended family will be invited too. This is the painful part. The reception alone can have guests, at least 50 people up to hundreds of people. Oh, don't forget the neighborhood. At least the entire street where your houses are will be invited.

The reception usually start at 10 am and end at 4 or 6 pm. All those time, the groom and bride needs to wear those uncomfortable wedding clothes....

I just... dear mother, can I not get married, thank you???

[stepfordgentleman]

Stepford Gentleman's list of nonsexual forms of domination for dominants

-Ordering for your sub at a restaurant

-Choosing sub’s outfit for the day

-Giving a bedtime

-Corporal punishment for bad behavior

-Instructing the submissive to write your name somewhere on their body daily

-Training sub with non-verbal cues

-verbal cues to correct unwanted behavior in public

-sub must be at a certain distance & position when in public

-Training sub how to greet you(on call/in person)

-Sub must wear a collar/necklace w/your name/title on it

-Scheduling hypnosis time

-Choosing and/or putting sub’s shoes on for them

-sub must ask permission before speaking

-sub must ask permission before entering/exiting a room(could be in public, a designated play/comfort room, at home, etc)

-Sub may only sit on the floor, on a cushion, in a designated chair

-Scheduling exercise time for sub

-Scheduled chore time

-Controlling their alcohol intake(when they can get drunk, if they can’t get drunk, cutting them off)

-Monitoring water intake

-monitoring screen/phone time

-Monitoring a submissive's outfits while out

-scheduling a time daily/weekly for sub to sit on their knees in silence, repeating a predetermined mantra

-Instructing sub to complete scheduled chores in a required uniform

-serving Dominant drinks/food

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Let's add some more in the reblogs...

[arttsuka]

Blubs and Durland wearing wedding tuxedos

Because they are... buddies.

No they're gay for each other

Actually they're getting married

Bonus:

[mydarlingathena]

I may lose followers for this but it needs to be said;

Marriage must follow traditional Christian values. I know that back when I was an emo witch, I did not believe this, but times have changed; I am different. I don't even listen to MCR anymore.

What do I mean by traditional Christian values in a marriage? I mean that the marriage must begin in a blood ritual between a lesbian and a gender ambiguous ex-muppet and end in a suprise crucifixion.

If you cannot accept my beliefs please simply unfollow unless you wish to be blocked.

[geekygirl85]

How to be a Good Submissive Wife

1. Cook lots of healthy food for the family to help them stay big and strong.

2. Always wear pretty dresses.

3. Always wear pretty clothes and be clean, fresh and well groomed.

4. Never take birth control, children are a blessing.

5. Keep the house beautiful, clean and bright. Make it a peaceful home.

6. Help him relax after work by waiting at the door to greet him.

7. Be a good mommy to all the babies and never shout or get cross.

8. Be good, quiet, doting and adoring when in public. Let the whole world see how good a wife you are.

9. Stay fit and healthy, so you’re body is always ready to make another baby.

10. Never ever say no to him. He knows best, so you must trust his judgement and do as he says.

11. Be a good girl when out and about.

12. Be proud to be carrying his babies and don't hide the baby bump. Enjoy being pregnant by him. This is what you were born for.

13. Tell him your problems. Don’t let them make you unhappy, frowny or grumpy. He will know how to fix them.

13. Tell him every how much you love and appreciate him.

14. Love and look after his extended family, he likes knowing you respect and care for them.

15. Always kiss him goodbye, hello and thank you.

16. Sit on his lap whenever he wants you too. Be a good girl and let him enjoy his innocent submissive wife.

19. Go to bed whenever he tells you to. A good wife is well rested, strong and ready every morning to make pleasing her husband the main priority of her day, every day.

[pandoramusicbox]

Wedding dresses.

I got some inspiration a few days ago to draw wedding dresses. So here are some weddings wear of scalipia and julner. On the left is a wedding coat form agura in southern scalipia. In center the blue forest and to the right from mournic and northern scalipia. I’m only covering feminine wedding regalia in this one, who knows I may do gender nuteral and masculine regalia at some point, as they are more exiting then just a suit and tie.

The auguran wedding coat. Colorful like much of the aguraen clothing, though specifics variety in the region the regalia is generally made up of, a ribbon crown, the ribbon drag, paper flowers, kester broach, and the “feather” or “petal” overcoat.

- ribbon drags: once made from scraps and sometimes paper, but nowadays are made of fancy lace, cut and full ribbons or sewn together into a single drag. It’s popular to use the colors of one’s homeland flag. Especially for those marriages that are for international couples (or polycules)

-paper flowers. Sometimes substituted with real flowers when available, usually one of the seven sacred flowers of Pandora but daisies and violets are popular too. They symbolize fertility but each flower has its own meaning, daisies being joy and violets fidelity.

- kester Broaches: named for a local symbol of luck, a large coin/broach worn around the neck. It is usually gold, silver or bronze, and is given to the bride for good luck and as a monetary gift for the start of her new life.

- petal/feather overcoats. The main attraction of the wedding outfit. Can be worn over pants or a skirt. The coat is heavily embroidered. Having several layers of tapered panels. These are often gifted to the bride and are embroidered by different families in a community.

The Blue Forest’s wedding dress. Relatively simple, consisting of a black laced vail, a bell band and the striped coat.

- bell band: on each side of the band (or just one side) there are five bells, the largest is gold, copper or brass, representing the sun. The other four smaller ones are often made of silver, tin or steal balls that represent the four moons. Traditionally tied right at the rib cage but often tied lower on the waist, under the bodice or even as hair decorations in some modern day weddings. The band is there to announce the coming of the bride. As well as there being superstitions around the belt, the bells are to scare of werewolves, tailed and evil spirits. Also encourage health.

- striped coat: made of cloth woven with striped or if that’s not possible made from several panels of colorful fabric. In the past especially poor or short notice ones are made by hanging strips of fabric from the bell belt. Though modesty decretive in the modern era the bodice of the past was often made from hardened leather or even metal. Forming something like a breastplate of armor. This is thought to have once just been armor one the past as there where a lot of warriors from here back in the day. A similar tradition of wearing wedding armor exists in Leona though no one is certain if it this originated in scalipia or julner.

Finally the Mournic wedding attire. Often a loose fitting dress (light colors, though not necessarily white) tied with a belt. Now the more important parts of the atire are the accessories. The shum cap, the starweaven cloth veal and hangs, and the ansesrol shawl. Do note this is a much less universal costume to mournic compared to the previous two for their regions.

-shum cap, small bowl like hat worn with golden twine to tie into the hair. It is seposibly able to ward off werewolves. Or if the bride is marrying a werewolf in hiding legend says that the golden twine will unravel and cut the creature before the bond can be legally sealed. Then of course legend continuous on about how the attendees of the wedding will brutally despose of the creature. (Lovely/s)

- starcloth: a shiny thin material that represents the devotion of the bride to time and to the goddess Praxis. Other kinds of veils are worn by different religious groups of Mournic, such as the stitched eye by the cult of the seer, a rose woven for luelless, a rain veil for the goddess iris, a white fringe for devotees of Pandora and neijfjel, a spidershrowd for the god fiveiist and his two wives. A grey veil for organdi the kin killer, yellow for hastuth, a half veil for babayaga, or black laced vails for devotees to the dragon queens and the divine chiors, so on and so fourth. veils are common practice.

-the Ansesrol shawl, often passed on in famalies, worn around the shoulders and decorated with symbols of friends and family. It plays a role in the ceremony itself as the tie that binds.

[feministfang]

Men keep blabbering about how the real luxury in life is getting married and growing a family and every fool on this planet praises them for thinking like a good family man when the actual fact is having a family of their own is literally only a luxury for these men. It builds their social status, builds their legacy, gives them more credibility in society, makes them the authority figure which gives them a sense of manlihood etc. Whereas for women, it’s all about being a servant, being a sex slave, creating and raising kids only to name them after their useless husbands, receiving endless judgemental remarks from the society, having problems in working environment etc. Having a family is only the most luxurious thing for these men that’s why even the wealthiest men are desperate to find a perfect wife who can give them all of it and that’s why men are so flashy about it.

[tradmidwestman]

[healthilyathome]

[flwrkid14]

Eternal Bonds: Tim and Danny’s Infinite Realms Marriage

In the Infinite Realms, marriage is an unparalleled commitment. Unlike the mortal world, where love can be fleeting and easily undone, marriage in the Realms is something far more sacred. It’s not just about vows or ceremonies—it’s about merging souls, creating a bond that not even the vast stretches of time can sever. The very idea of marriage in the Realms is rare, almost mythical, because it requires two beings to love each other so profoundly that they’re willing to bind their very existence to one another.

For the ghosts and entities that reside in this realm, eternity isn’t just a poetic idea—it’s a reality. Time is meaningless when you’re no longer alive, when your very essence is bound to the afterlife. And because of this, relationships are viewed through a different lens. There’s no such thing as divorce, no “time apart.” Once a couple is bound, their souls are intertwined forever. To dedicate your entire being—past, present, and future—to another means accepting that their joys, sorrows, triumphs, and failures will be yours too. It’s a partnership where breaking the bond is simply impossible.

It’s why marriage is such a rare occurrence in the Realms. The ghosts, who have already lived one life and often seen the frailty of mortal promises, don’t enter into this kind of bond lightly. It’s only for the strongest of loves, for the most steadfast of commitments. Because once you marry in the Infinite Realms, that bond holds through eternity itself.

And yet, despite the gravity of it all, Tim and Danny find themselves willing to make that very commitment. Tim, a mortal tied to a world where things end, where nothing lasts forever, steps into the unknown. His love for Danny is so deep, so unshakable, that he agrees to a traditional Infinite Realms marriage. He knows full well the weight of it—he’s not just vowing to love Danny in this life, but in every life after. In swearing to this bond, Tim is offering his entire being to Danny, for now and all of eternity.

For Danny, this choice means even more. As a halfa, he exists between two worlds, knowing both the mortality of the living and the permanence of the ghostly afterlife. His love for Tim is powerful enough that he’s willing to make this eternal commitment, knowing that there’s no one else in any world—mortal, ghostly, or beyond—he would rather be tied to. For Danny, the bond is as natural as breathing. It’s a connection that deepens their relationship in a way that transcends the limitations of their two worlds.

Their marriage isn’t just a declaration of love—it’s a merging of souls, a binding that makes them two parts of the same whole. It overwhelms them with the sense of safety and belonging that they’ve both craved in their lives. In each other, they find the kind of love that doesn’t just endure life’s difficulties but thrives beyond them. Their bond ties them together forever in a way that no one else could understand, but to Tim and Danny, it’s everything.

They are each other’s home. And in the Infinite Realms, there is no greater honor, no stronger connection, than to be bound by love for all of eternity.

[blushcoloreddreams]

The routine of a virtuous woman to inspire your own

She wakes up earlier than all others at home - (Proverbs 31:15)

Dedicates her first moments in the morning to God (Proverbs 31:30)

Prepares the family meal with calm and organize her daily tasks (Proverbs 31:15)

Takes care of her appearance - not be complimented by people outside, but by her own family (Proverbs 31:25)

Takes care of her family needs and do the daily maintenance of her home (Proverbs 31:27)

Works with effort and dedication. Wherever she goes she’s a testimony of her family’s good reputation (Proverbs 31:13)

Tries to be creative and bring new investments and opportunities to her family (Proverbs 31:16)

Even at night she’ll save some energy and liveliness to use with her husband (Proverbs 31:18)

[thatgentlewife]

Please? 🙏 ❤️

[lovergirlforjesus]

all of the sweetness, all of the trust, all of the tenderness

[doll-fleur]

“What’s your dream job?”

You guys dream of jobs? I just want to get married to the love of my life, disappear to a cozy cottage in the middle of nowhere, raise my babies surrounded by nature and finally have real peace away from the chaos of society.

[geekygirl85]

normalize casual dominant conversation

"do as you're told"

"shh, men are talking"

"sweetie"

"atta girl"

"good girl"

"there's a good girl"

"be a good girl and *do xyz*"