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any advice with dealing with emotionally immature men? or just genuinely immature men?
im kind of losing it over here, he can't communicate, has low emotional control and thinks he can "tell off" adults.
there is so much more too I just can't talk about it all rn and I need to know if anyone has any advice
#emotional immaturity#low emotional intelligence#low empathy#just men ig#anything you can say that might help is more than welcome
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okay i put some thought into this
MALPRACTICE: Willingness and ability to break the law. Mostly a physical stat. How often to they break the law on a case by case basis. this is quantitative not qualitative. 13 and chase have both killed men on purpose, but kutner has set 3 different people on fire. INTELLIGENCE: Book smarts. Are you an A student or a B student. SOCIAL SKILLS: Ability to get along with others, ability to manipulate others, ability to make yourself be liked. CASE SOLVING: Different than raw intelligence. How many House MD Medical Mysteries do you solve. Let's call it creative brilliance. AMBITION: How likely are you to stab a dude to get ahead. CHUTZPAH: Taub's ability to score with 20 year olds. Kutner's ability to set people on fire and get away with it. Audacity. Doing wild shit and getting away with it. Taking big risks. EMOTIONS: How good are you at expressing your feelings and dealing with the feelings of others? Empathy is a part of this score but it's mostly a measure of how emotionally repressed are you.
#i'm sorry kutner's intelligence seems low. he's very smart. they're all very smart. but he's kinda ditzy#13's cautious nature also translates into weirdly low scores#half of chase's emotions score is based on how often he cries#btw the only correct malpractice score is a zero#btw btw the colors are exactly correct i won't take notes on this. taub's vibe IS purple. cameron IS red.#malpractice posting#house md#hatecrimes md
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Do you ever think about how Fitz treats Beloved like his manic pixie dream girl and they tend to come in conflict when he’s too human and has needs and feelings of his own? And he honestly does the same thing with Molly only he never really lets her break out of that mold?
#realm of the elderlings#rote#fitzchivalry farseer#the fool#fitzloved#molly chandler#I totally understand why he’s like that#he lost his mother young and thus lacked that unconditional love and support#and he is low on emotional intelligence and doesn’t know how to have healthy relationships#but it is very limiting for everyone involved#especially with molly because he never takes her off that pedestal and engages her as a fully realized person
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these frauds
#my art#caseybug#something about how casey is good at faking customer service smile but never means anything affectionate she says cuz she rarely feels thin#things like that/has trouble forming emotional attachments so her words are all empty#pathological liar..masking savant..lol..this is why i think it takes so stupid long to process her feelings for nell#a lot of times in the alternate universes we craft she doesnt even process them at all#vs nell whos a very sentimental romantic person underneath all those layers of repression and autism#but keeps it locked away out of fear of getting hurt or hurting others but if you were actually emotionally INTELLIGENT.. you might SEE it#that everything she does comes from the core of an extremely loving person#but sadly casey has such low empathy and so little experience dealing with other people on a deeper level than work meetings she doesnt#see the extent of her feelings#which suits nell fine. cuz she doesnt want to be perceived.#but ultimately it causes their relationship to be hashtag doomed in canonical ending#where they never discuss their realtionship on a deeper level and nell dies thinking casey will be fine without her#and casey only realizes after shes dead how much she meant to her#um anyways#long ramble abt their relationship under this picture. goodbye#nell
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can Kaldur file a racism report to the League because his teammates will not let him talk like damn
#ramblings#jesncin watches YJa#finished s1 ep 13 and the emotional intelligence of the team is at a record level low (I'm sure future eps will outdo it but for now)#when conflict requires a character to never consider "reasons why someone would keep a secret” you've got conflict with the weight of paper#conflict resolved by Kaldur finally telling everyone to shut up and let him speak
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pls don't remove astarion's shitty gremlintude when you adopt him for your interpretation that nasty little man needs it for enrichment
#Astarion#bg3#baldur's gate 3#pls take care of your fictional man#he needs his low impulse control and high chaos that's part of his charm#also a lack of emotional intelligence and foresight are crucial for actualization#I know you were told he was nice but#you shouldn't get your fictional man care tips from tik tok
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𝐍𝐄𝐆𝐀𝐓𝐈𝐕𝐄 𝐓𝐑𝐀𝐈𝐓𝐒
bold for always, italics for sometimes, strikethrough never.
aggressive | arrogant | authoritarian | bitter | brutal | callous | careless | cold/cold-hearted | compulsive | controlling | corrects others constantly | cowardly | critical | cruel | delusional | demanding | disillusioned | domineering | envious | emotionally stunted | greedy | grim | guarded | hard | harsh | hypocritical | impatient | impolite | intimidating | irritable | kidnapper | lazy | liar | lustful | manipulative | materialistic | mean | merciless | messianic | mistrusting | murderer | narrow-minded | obsessive | opinionated | over-bearing | over-critical | over-emotional | over-thinking | patronizing | proud | remote | repressed | rigid | rules with an iron fist | ruthless | sarcastic | self-righteous | self-indulgent | serial killer | taciturn | torturer | touchy | traitorous | unsympathetic | unpredictable | uptight | vain | vengeful
tagged by: @cxpperhead (thank you!! ♡)
tagging: anyone who hasn't done this yet!!
#˗ˏˋ ༄ ──── 𝐃𝐀𝐒𝐇 𝐆𝐀𝐌𝐄𝐒 〳 ❪ helluva party ❫#italics are mostly situational#she's the type of villain to be VERY self-aware about her behaviour and not give a shit about the bad things she's done in the past#because let's be honest here she'll do it again 😭😭#had to italicize cowardly because she's faced bigger AND better enemies that could easily kill her#she MIGHT be impulsive but that doesn't mean she's a idiot#because louise is intelligent enough to survive in her workline#she definitely knows when to shut her mouth and keep her head low when shit hits the fan#i hope this list gives of queen energy because that's what i'm trying to aim for tbh!!#you are terrible miss lincoln!!#let it be known!!#forgot to mention that she is a very expressive person#she refuses to bottle up her emotions#crystal is more private and closed off than louise#especially when it comes down to emotions and trauma
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Oh sweet jesus I'm starting to hate this episode again
#destined with you#if miscommunication between two late 20s to early 30-somethings is gonna be a key plot device#then i'm just gonna take a shot every time there's miscommunication and make this into a drinking game#because there's no way of sitting through that sober#this low level of emotional intelligence is giving me whiplash but tbh shin yu has been like this from the beginning#OH MY GOD is this the only reason he didn't break up with nayeon before boy oh boy#all right i'll just shut up before i'm 70% through this ep in case things get better but if they don't#🔪🔪🔪🔪#ep 10#live blogging#spoilers#they really baited us with the cuteness of that first scene
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the most unrealistic thing about ofmd is that Izzy's underwear is black and it hasn't been bleached at all by his vaginal discharge
#you know that pussy ph is as low as his emotional intelligence#our flag means death#ofmd#izzy hands#shitpost#nsft
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Understanding and Addressing Low Emotional Intelligence Through Vedic Astrology
Emotional intelligence (EI) shapes our interactions, relationships, and well-being. While some people naturally excel in this area, others may struggle without realizing it. Vedic astrology offers profound insights into the planetary combinations and influences that can lead to low emotional intelligence Read more >>
#low#emotional#improve#intelligence#relationships#planetary#excel#struggle#profound#zodiac#planet#sensitivity#feelings#water#scorpio#câncer#satrun#moon#nakshatras#astrology#aiastrology#vedicastrology#astrologysoftware#astrologypost#astrologyposts#astrological#dkscore#astrologycrm#jyotish#jyotishmedium
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I can’t believe she wouldn’t admit to me that has send me mixed signals ??? Like I’ve just been sitting alone in my fucking room hearing voices telling me how “I wish i could treat you like a girlfriend” and “I wish things were different but I just have to be alone”
Take some god damn responsibility instead of acting like a fucking child
Idk if this is lovebombing it damn sure is manipulation.
Telling me shit like that
And then I told “‘maybe I’ve misunderstood what happened” and she just said “I’m just confused”
Like dude TAKE SOME RESPONSIBILITY
It’s not just me wtf. And you can’t tell me you think it’s just me creating stories in my head how you some feelings for me
wtf I can’t believe this happened to me again
either you’re fucking lying to me and lovebombing or you actually meant what you said but you wouldn’t admit and now I’m stuck here wondering if it was all in my head
and none of this is the behaviour of my future wife.
#emotional manipulation#emotional intelligence#is very low#damn I’m so fucking angry rn#can’t believe this bitch played with me#and SHE IS STILL PLAYING WITH ME#and in a nasty way#wtf#A
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I've seen ppl say marcia and milo wouldn't get together bc marcia would have too high standards. But this is the same woman who got emotional when casually told she should probably have more than 1 friend. So
#sep talks#marcia overstrand#milo banda#like. Im not saying she'd have low standards. But ive seen ppl say that she would not marry milo bc he couldnt like. Match her intelligence#and I disagree!!#she ALREADY has people to have intellectual conversations with#what she DOESN'T have is ppl who care abt her emotional wellbeing. Ppl she can Talk To#marcia is VERY VERY lonely. I just don't think it's necessary for her partner to be Super Intellectually Intelligent#as long as they can Be There For Her#admittedly milo was away at the start of thm but a) he came back and b) that's. That's his job. His job involves him being away a lot#marcia definitely knew this. If it was an issue she wouldn't have married him#(I say she doesn't have ppl to Talk To bc like. She's got alther i guess. But he's dead and also. Kind of her dad. Idk abt u guys but I#would not want to talk to only my dad abt everything going on in my life)#anyway yeah. Bad wording on all this etc etc. I just disagree with a lot of the points ppl make against marcilo#(@ ppl who don't like them for reasons outside of just not vibing with it. Pls tell me ur reasons I am curious)
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I'm sorry you had to deal with people invalidating your pain when you were a kid
Thank you for the sympathy. I appreciate it.
While I won’t say it’s okay that people did that when I was a kid, and it did leave some lasting damage (both physically and relationship-wise that years later I am still trying to repair), I also don’t regret it happening.
Like yeah, it really sucked, but it also made me stop listening to the “kids over-exaggerate” “you’re too young to be in pain (dismissive)” “kids/teens are just dramatic” “kids just complain because they want attention/bored” rhetorics that I heard all the time. If I hadn’t experienced that dismissal myself, I could have grown up to be unsympathetic towards people as well.
It was a personal experience in learning kids deserve to be listened to and acknowledged, and that youth doesn’t guarantee health, that I don’t think I would have truly learned otherwise.
#ghost answers#you-try-to-be#my family scores…low on emotional intelligence#years of generational abuse/health issues in some form or another that became normal#only in recent years that started to improve#i get angry about it sometimes but I also have to remind myself no one did anything maliciously#you just do your best and try to heal#and learn from the past so you don’t repeat it#tbh people still don’t believe me when I say I’m in pain lol#one time I said my side hurt and someone rolled their eyes at me#then I lifted my shirt to show my skin was raw on that side#then they believed me#don’t know why no one believed me tbh#I hated lying as a kid so I never did it#but apparently bc I cry a lot that means I ‘over-exaggerate’#I cry w a straight face and silently not even animatedly#it’s wack man
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it’s 2am over here and i’m having a long conversation with myself explaining different psychological mindsets of some kinds of people
#literally this started because of my interst in Sherlock Holmes’ mindset#aka a high logical intelligence vs low emotional intelligence#rinmiko ramble
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fighting the nick and charlie novella nick hates tao allegations by pointing out he was the first person nick thought to reach out to when he needed someone to talk to in vol5 THEY ARE FRIENDSSSS
#i mean ok in the show especially itd be an insane first choice considering how protective he is of charlie and is his best best friend.#BUT ALSO IN THE SHOW it makes perfect sense considering he is the person in their friendgroup he had the most meaningful conversations with#in paris abt elle. pre-prom abt charlie and coming out and taos dad.#i really do think it makes sense that nick would think of tao first. his emotional intelligence lows are lows but tbh his highs are high#his incapability of hiding his emotions means he has to talk abt them more often and he is a very caring friend yk he'll hear you#anyways. i love you tao and nick scenes#heartstopper#heartstopper spoilers#bc volume 5
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Again and again, today's popular media represents Henry VIII as lecherous, insatiable, callous, unfeeling and self-centered. The truth is a lot more complex. The character that has emerged over these pages is of a man of strong feeling but little emotional intelligence, wilful and obstinate but also fiery and charismatic, intelligent but blinkered, attempting to rule and preserve his honour against his profound sense of duty and heavy responsibility to fulfil his divinely ordained role. This was a man who channelled great loss and hurt into physical pursuits, intense theological interest and sometimes savage anger; above all , a proud, awesome, and well-intentioned but also flawed and self-deceiving monarch.
1536: The Year that Changed Henry VIII, Suzannah Lipscomb
#suzannah lipscomb#there are so few fictional portaryals that are...anything near is the thing which is like#so BSR was very shallow overall#i think the tudors played into this a lot as well (particularly ah. lecherous~)#but the bar is so low that literally anything depicting him as having even moments#of sincerity and/or humanity and/or vulnerability in some sense#gets a pass from me#the picture is complex and the projects that disclude those miss the mark#i would agree on little emotional intelligence as well#extremely sensitive and mature in some other ways but emotional intelligence was...not high#someone that was in denial of their emotion and looked for escape routes from it whenever it became unbearable#*felt unbearable#escaping blame and responsibility and guilt and self-critique whenever and however possible ; to ends#that no one could ever justify
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