#love the gender fluidity

[muzsmocsing]

No way on dianxia's green earth is Pei Ming cishet full time. First of all, he has to have at least 2 PhDs on the history and complexities of lesbianism to even qualify as a love god and second, who else would the sapphics pray to about their problems? Ju Yang? What could general shwing-shlong do for them? Nothing, that's what.

[scrumptiousstuffs]

In a world where idols/actors try to portray their perfection, it’s always refreshing to see an actor who is unapologetic himself 🧡

[littlesheeneffect]

Genderfluidity is a superpower.✊️❤️

Reblog or comment if u agree!😄❤️

[skebbles]

Aaaaah! Im late again! Have a headcanon! Happy trans day of visibility!!

[untilyouremember]

Cinderella Closet

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[schrodingersschlong]

Always having been less than excited about having double D's as a man VS your boyfriend loving it and boosting your confidence in having big ol titties

[sepiasys]

🦊/⛓️ is questioning if it's kin or source again

Leaning towards kin (or some stupid subtype or whatever (not trying to be rude)), but also. Still not sure, big doubt. We can't tell what it's like being a fictive versus kin.

[theinfernalcalypso]

📌

[sav-the-bi-queen]

Demi Bisexual

Aesthetic Wallpaper

🖤🤍💜 + 🩷💜💙

[oscargender]

to knowis to be loved and to be known is to b eloved. I want transgender friends who will know me and love me in a way that cis people usually do not

[daisiesonafield-blog]

I’m not english so what does men his sexuality is androginy!?

Hi dear,

Androgyny is not really a sexuality, it’s more about gender, more specifically gender presentation and expression I would say. Gender fluidity.

Here are a few definitions:

Androgyny is a type of gender presentation that falls between masculine and feminine. It mixes masculinity and femininity.

Androgyny is the possession of both masculine and feminine characteristics. Androgyny may be expressed with regard to biological sex, gender identity, or gender expression.

I think the term was more popularly used from the 70s-90s and kind of started to fall away a bit in the 00s. Now people use it more as a description of the blend of masculine and feminine traits, but more modern terms are centered around gender fluidity and expression. I’d say the term lives within the transgender spectrum, with more current and complex concepts being less rigid and going beyond the gender binary of only masc/fem characteristics and encompassing nonbinary gender expressions and identity and gender fluidity.

Note: related to this

[emersonfreepress]

happy pride! how do the ROs (including the cis ones) conceptualize their own gender? there’s a lot that goes into gender expression: it can be the natural expression of an internal feeling, for the lack of a better phrasing, but also in dialogue with external assumptions/influences, a "performance" element (like you’ve mentioned before some of vi’s gender conformity is put-on to fit into the social norm), and which aspects a character values (or doesn’t) and the amount of thought (or lack thereof) that goes into it plays a part in how they feel about their gender, why they present a certain way, and how they come across to other people, etc. didn’t mean to ramble there, but i just always love hearing thoughts about this topic! there are interesting insights that can be gleaned from the choices of even the most cis/binary/gender conforming characters imo :) thanks!

Hi there! I love this question, which is why I'm sorry I don't have a better answer 😅 I'm agender myself and part of why I like that term is that I sort of don't understand gender 😆 Not what it feels like to have one, anyway. So while I'm very firm in knowing that my characters are the genders they are, it's more about what makes sense for them than it is, like... any sort of indication that I'm qualified to opine on their personal concepts of it 😅 I could answer more specific questions about them all, but not really this.

I hope that doesn't sound like an avoidant answer! I just can't sit and pretend to write the personal feelings regarding gender of a whole bunch of characters whose genders I do not share. I just write them out and will leave the analysis to y'all.

[dianneking]

I ask @cissyenthusiast010155 the same thing but you are also a good person 2 tell I feel.

I’m a woman, I identify as a woman but like I feel something missing sometimes but @ the same time nothing but here’s the thing, if someone calls me a good girl I’m ready 2 pop a couple of teeth out and it makes me feel icky BUT if someone calls me a good boy I preen at that shit. I need advice 😭

Imma switch btw 👀

Hello there!

Thank you so much for trusting me with such a delicate question! I'm super curious to see what Olive has to say about it, as well, but here's my answer.

My suggestion is not to be in a hurry to give yourself a label. See how you feel about different things in your life that society associates with gender expression, and allow yourself the time to get to know yourself better, it's such a magical experience!

For instance: see how you feel about your body, about traditionally feminine/masculine clothes and activities. About how you like others to perceive you, and whether or not that changes. Also, how pronouns and labels in different languages feel for you, if you speak more than one.

You like to be called a good boy? Good on you! You feel something is missing? Try to see if you can find out what that could be.

The world is at your feet, you don't have to conform to any preconceived idea of what "being a woman" or "being a man" is or isn't.

Also, it's perfectly okay to change with time. To use they/them pronouns for a while and then realize you've moved past them. To see your body differently, to want to decorate it differently. To change your mind about things. To identify as something and then as something else. To use a label and then not recognize yourself in it anymore.

It. Is. Okay.

There is no right or wrong way to be yourself and to discover bits and pieces of your identity with time. Enjoy it. It is freeing and exhilarating and sometimes scary but 100% worth it, I promise.

[sunsoak]

Everyone’s all “nonbinary is included in every sexuality” until a nonbinary person who is on hormones prefers men who like men and women who like women and all of a sudden I’m being problematic and offensive to…….. well everyone I guess

[mourningmaybells]

i think the only reason i give fionna and cake leeway as an nb is because it's a work of fanfiction by a cis man born from the 90s (instead of a multiverse thing) like i dont think he was thinking too hard about the gender binary and at least the female characters aren't overly sexualized now (unlike other genderbends)

i will say. it was a choice for him to fantasize about himself as a milf while zonked out.

[thewitchoftheweed]

being a bi woman with a genderfluid partner is so great.

which genders am i attracted to? women? men? nonbinary people? yes.

do i have a wife? a husband? a spouse? yes.

really selected the 'all of the above' option for both my sexuality AND my partner.