#lol serious camera issues but whatever

[claypigeonpottery]

sold

dabbling duck

[sendhelpiloveyeonjun]

i'll see you there tomorrow~

yeonjun x reader

technically i don't think i explicitly mention a gender or gendered terms sooo.

synopsis: yeonjun has jealousy issues because he's silly and can't help himself

warnings: gaslighting? manipulation? LOL i'm not even sure myself that's sad. yeonjun is toxic and mean but hehe. dick sucking, deep throating, he pushes her head down, cum eating?

watching him perform has always been my favorite thing. he always looks so happy up on stage even in practice most of the time and today is no different.

they just finished filming a choreography video for a song on their new album called I'll See You There Tomorrow and i swear his eyes shine a different kind of bright for this one. i don't know what it is about this song or dance but it's like he just can't help but smile while performing it.

it's so cute and something that really makes him stand out as an idol--he really loves his job. and people are always commenting on it, he always appears to be having the time of his life. he's so goofy and silly and people call him the youngest trapped in the eldest's body. i can see why when he's on stage or in their little to-do show. he's special and it's admirable.

i guess that's why it's so jarring when he snaps. i like to mess with him as anyone does, but they only get to see the small bits he can show on camera. sure we see him get mad at gyu but he's not going to do anything serious. so why does my cheek burn so bad?

"why do you think it's so funny to flirt with my friends in front of me?"

yeonjun grabbed my face and forced me to look up at him, tears threatening to fall from my eyes. "do you like embarrassing me? do you like making me feel like shit?"

i shook my head as best as i could and he glared, "use your words." "no i don't like embarrassing you." he pushed my head away and i tried my best to stay balanced, rubbing my legs together and staring at the ground. why do i like this so much? being the only one who sees this.

"you're so mean to me sometimes, y/n."

i looked at him and he sighed, shaking his head, "you really make me feel like you don't actually love me."

"i do love you, yeonjun."

he stood close to me, towering, and staring straight down into my eyes, "i don't know. i think you're going to have to prove it."

i chewed on my bottom lip and slowly sunk to my knees, watching a smile grow on his lips. "such a good girl."

i reached up to unbuckle his belt and tossed it to the floor before unbuttoning and unzipping his pants. our eyes stayed locked, neither one of us even blinking as i pulled him from his boxers. "go ahead", he nodded and rubbed my head gently, "show me how much you love me."

i wish the ache between my legs would stop. i wish he could just fuck me instead of torturing me like this. how is my mouth going to prove anything? how is me choking and crying going to mean i love you? just put it inside me already this is so stupid!

"y/n? some reason you're hesitating?"

i looked up at him and then down at his dick, gripping it with a sigh. whatever.

i licked the tip gently a few times, avoiding all the spots i know he likes best. if it's up to me, it's up to me. his fingers tangled in my hair gently as i wrapped my lips around the head, slowly sinking down to about halfway before bobbing my head at a steady pace. soft panting came from him, a grunt every so often as he tapped the back of my throat.

"you can do better than that, hm?"

i glared up at him and his eyes had darkened significantly. his hair was messy now like he had been messing with it and his bottom lip was red and puffy. god he's so hot. he pushed down on my head suddenly and i squeezed my eyes shut, choking a little as he slid down my throat. "fuck baby, that's it."

i clenched my thighs together and swallowed around him, digging my fingernails into his thighs as he held me there. his hips started moving and he fucked my mouth slowly at first but as his other hand found my head i lost all the control i had.

"god, your mouth is heavenly. you take me so well." i hummed around him, spit dripping down my chin, and he groaned, thrusting faster into my throat. i squeezed harder, looking up at him desperately to get some air but he was so lost in the feeling he wasn't paying any attention. should i bite him? that could be fun.

i smacked his leg hard and he pulled back finally, my lungs rapidly filling with air. as i went to berate him for trying to kill me, he yanked my head back in, stuffing his cock back down my throat. "i'm almost there, you can take it right?"

i whimpered in protest but he just laughed, continuing to use me as he pleased. the ache between my legs was becoming unbearable so i slid a hand down, barely reaching my goal before he smacked the back of my head. "don't touch." i whined and gagged, closing my eyes and bringing my hand back to his leg. fuck you, choi yeonjun.

his thrusts became quicker and shallower as his groans turned into higher pitched gasp-like whimpers. "swallow me, baby. swallow my cum like a good girl." i moaned softly and looked up to watch him throw his head back as he stilled, pulling my hand up to wrap around him. i quickly jerked him off, suck hard on the tip as he groans through clenched teeth and cums over my tongue.

you would think he's been holding it in for months at the sheer amount of it but finally he calms down, panting and looking down at me as i open my mouth and show him it's gone. he smiles fondly and cups my cheek, rubbing his thumb over my bottom lip gently. "you're so pretty", i felt my cheeks heat up as i pressed my face into his palm, "thank you, baby."

"maybe don't try to kill me next time?" i glared, trying to clear my throat.

"no promises." he laughs and helps me to my feet, my knees really not wanting to hold their own. "let me make it up to you."

i have two fics up and they are both about sucking jjun off and i SWEAR the next thing i post will not have to do with yeonjun or his dick being in someones mouth.. i hope.. idk i really want to suck his dick i have a problem sue me.

ALSO i'm thinking about a part two where he returns the favor to apologize but that would make the reader gendered for sure so idk yet. also the gaslighting would be extra strong there which i love the idea of. idk no thoughts yet. we shall see!

[smoldworf]

*cracks knuckles*

I’m still not sure if we’re not all delusional and overestimating the writers of the show or not. I mean, maybe everything is as it seems right now? But, i’m so paranoid by now i don’t trust anyone lol

I mean …

🍎Phee. He was Non’s boyfriend, they seemed very sweet together. He was concerned about Non spending time with the gang, and prevented a suicide attempt. He also seemed pretty suspicious of Non spending time with Keng – and i wondered why he’d jump to the Non cheating on him immediately. It seemed a little weird in the moment? He even cried. idk.

He was the one to bring their relationship to the next level, he wanted Non to change schools, and even got his father involved to help Non. This could be just teenage impulsiveness – or show how serious he was. When the video was leaked he was deeply hurt; both bc Non lied to him when he directly asked if there was anything between Non and Keng, and bc he considered that cheating (it’s not, but bear with me). And in that moment, he reacted very, very badly. What he said to Non ist awful, but especially considering he knows about Non’s mental health issues. Also, there was again this underlying message of Non having cheated (or lied?) before. That made me wonder again. When Non vanished, Phee never got the chance to clear things up. To either make up or break up. He was left hanging, with the gang and the police claiming Non most likely left with Keng.

So, what did Phee know? He knew that the gang treated Non badly, but i’m pretty sure he had no idea about the extent – the camera, the details of the money laundering, the mafia. So, when New (I’ll stay with that name) showed up, he found an ally. Someone who also cared for Non (and who also felt guilty, but i don’t think they shared that), and wanted to find out what happened. I’m still not sure if for Phee it was more about finding closure for himself or make the gang answer for what they did. Either way, i don’t think he had murder on his mind lol

He could seriously have caught feelings for Jin. I don’t see the chemistry, tbh, but that could be copper’s acting. I also don’t see the common interests ppl talk about, but whatever. He was definitely torn between his feelings for Jin and the Plan™. And after seeing that news report about Non and Keng he pushed Jin away (and Jin is still hearbroken enough about that after 3 years to chomp on Phee’s dick lol). But I seriously struggle with Phee considering the gang his friends (like he called them in ep 10). Yes, he spent time with them and yes, they never treated him badly. But he knows they’re bullies. He knows something happened. It just feels ooc for him to just ignore that?

So where does that leave me? Idk i can see both. Phee wants to move on, and joined New in this last scheme to leave that part of his life behind. One last try and then he’s done. Find out what he can. So, when the guys start dying, and everything’s out of control, he confesses to Jin (we still can’t be sure if everything he says is true or just conjecture on his part tho). Giving Jin the water was just a brain fart, and he really found the axe by accident. And they hold hands on the way to the house, and he lets the axe thoughtlessly fall to the ground. It would be … unsatisfactory for me, but possible.

OR (🤡): He’s in on everything. He may really like Jin or not, but he never abandoned the Plan™. What he tells Jin about Por’s and Dang’s deaths, again, may be true or not, but he confesses to Jin just to get a confession in return. He knew the water would be drugged, he knew where the axe was, and left it fall conveniently in front of the house for someone else to pick up later etc. Convoluted, but possible 😊 (i still think the markings on the trees were off)

🧪Now. New. He’s pretty straightforward, i think. He wants the gang to go down. He wants to know the truth of course, but he wants to punish them. Depending on Phee’s „loyalty“, Phee is either on his (s)hit list or his ally, both is still in the cards. He may have found another ally altogether, either one from the gang, OR the 9th person. It’s possible that the killing is his doing, just like Phee told Jin – he hates the gang, and it’s not like he has anything left to lose. On the other hand, we never saw him do any of it, we just have Phee’s story. And i don’t trust anything i don’t get to see with my own two eyes anymore lol

🎞Jin. Well. He has morals, but in the end they don’t mean shit. He’s nice to Non and tries to, idk, make the gang be less assholey to Non, but is ineffective. I personally think he’s just nice bc he likes Non, not because of altruism. (But i’m biased) And when it became obvious that Non not only wasn’t interested in him but also imperfect (being raped aka „cheating), he couldn’t cope. He took the video, he leaked it, he let Thee take a drugged Non away, and he lied about Non running away with Keng. And, like, three minutes after Non’s disappearance he fell deeply in love with Phee(‘s abs).   I found interesting that he „outed“ Tan as New, but not Phee as Non’s boyfriend. And that he claimed he’d trusted Thee. Sure you did.

💉Fluke. He’s a wild one. The most revealing thing he said until now was that he didn’t want to be like Non. He kept quiet bc he knew he could/would have been the next victim of the gang. Interestingly, he knows the most about the bullying, i think. He was there when Top broke the camera and Thee set up Non. He was there when Jin filmed Non and Keng. He’s a little like Jin, in that he knows what’s happening is wrong, but doesn’t intervene.

Maybe the drugs hit him harder bc he’s already high strung and stressed? Idk, i find him weird. I’m not sure if the most logical reaction to a masked killer hunting you and your friends is to … grab a gun and threaten everyone around you? But again, it might be the drugs causing this.

I don’t really see him as a secret ally to New. What would be his motive? Or more like, what would override his very strong instinct of self preservation? He has a lot to lose, and basically nothing to gain.

💰Thee. Ugh. His life sucks, and he’s a victim of his circumstances. I think, in a way, that’s what fuels his distaste for Non. He sees how similar they are, in a way – and like Fluke, he needs to distance himself from Non. When Non told Thee to get out of the mafia situation he’s in, i was worried. I think Thee reacts badly to percieved pity from the wrong kind of person. He did the most damage to Non, realistically. He supported the idea to let Non write the script (as soon as he heard there might be money in it), he set Non up to be the fall guy for the camera/the debt and pulled him into the whole mafia bs. And he drugged him and delivered him to his uncle.

I also think he’s (maybe like Fluke) the most realistic of all oft hem. He knows what he’s doing, he had to grow up quickly, he has no (or not many) illusions about the world he lives in. He knows his actions doom Non. I no longer think he’s doing it gleefully, but he doesn’t hesitate that much, he has too much to lose.

From his (re)actions in ep 10 i don’t really think he’s a secret ally to New or Phee (or Non), but i do see how he could be. I think he really cares about White, and wants to be better. He knows the gang too well to like them. And from the preview … he knows more than he told in ep 10. Maybe he tried to save Non, maybe he failed? Maybe it’s a tit-for-tat – i help bring down Uncle Joe, you help me bring down the gang?

Not that i believe that’s what happened, but let me clown, ‘kay?

👶White. Well, we know next to nothing about White’s backstory, so he has potential lol. Most importantly he’s an outsider to the original gang, like New, and like Phee. He could really be just a lil dude, on a terrible, terrible weekend trip with the boyfie. He’s cute, and scared, and submissive.

But he also somehow ends up in the focus again and again. The radio, the knife, the hard drive, … He’s so good at influencing Thee, it’s impressive! And … idk, maybe he doesn’t like guns, and doesn’t want his boyfriend to shoot anyone, and that’s both pretty normal lol. On the other hand „forget the gun!“ seemed odd to me. In that situation i most definitely wouldn’t want to forget the gun, i would want to have it, even just to make sure no one else had it. When he gets the gun, he (again!) puts it somewhere it could be easily taken (to what end, i have no idea, maybe just to cause chaos??), and later convinces to let Top be, bc he’s tied up now 😊 and won’t be able to get free 😊 after which Top gets free 😊 and is shot (😊). He also confuses me because he seems to go from tiny scared cinnamon roll to rational strong cinnamon roll.

So, if New has another ally, he seems the most likely candidate? For now? As of ep 10? But idk.

In the end, they’re probably all just confused idiots in a cabin in the woods, and Non somehow is out there, taking them out one by one. and that's okay, too.

[waitingforwinterwinds]

A Clash of Kings - 54 TYRION XII (pages 698-707)

Cersei tries to pull a power-play on Tyrion with the wrong hostage.

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As the swan was being served, the queen questioned him about the conspiracy of the Antler Men. She seemed more annoyed than afraid. "Why are we plagued with so many treasons? What injury has House Lannister ever done to these wretches.

*looks directly at the camera like we're on The Office*

"Joff's only a boy." "A boy who wants to be part of this battle, -"

Oh, pfft, no. Joffrey doesn't want to be part of the battle, he wants to OP Protag the crap out of people, like full Murder Hobo swaths of people with zero consequences and be lauded for his violence, he doesn't actually want to fight people who can fight back.

"And the whore?" He would not call her by name. If I can convince her Shae means nothing to me, perhaps...

Trying to do one thing, accidentally does another. iirc from the show, and knowing that Tyrion has been going to the brothel instead of his and Shae's place directly, Cersei doesn't have Shae, she has someone else who she thinks is Tyrion's lover. So luckily he didn't say Shae's name or Cersei would have realised her mistake. Deeply unfortunate for whomever it is she has. (I think it was Ros... Roz? in the show... it has been so long since I've watched the show. I feel like I've only seen one? mention of Ros way, way back in GoT, maybe. OC, ascended background extra, or her time just hasn't come yet? hmmmm...)

She hung between them, eyes wide and white in her dark face.

Oh shit, that's... wait, mother or daughter?

... "Whatever happens to her, happens to Tommen." Shit, Tyrion, that's dark. Like I understand you're trying to get her the best protection from something that should never have involved her in the first place, but damn.

"I will," he promised, and Alayaya bent over and kissed him on the brow. Her broken lips left a smear of blood on his forehead.

Alayaya, so the daughter... that actually makes sense as a guess between mother and daughter, given Tyrion's preference for... younger women.

Also, I don't know if it's just me, but that kind of felt like some kind of benediction, anointed with blood. Omen...

... Oh Lollys has some serious mental health issues and trauma, she is completely clocked out. Lights on, no one home but for the screaming of memories best left forgotten.

"All they did was fuck her."

"Fuck" = 🥛

... not loving the unsympathetic feels from Shae, but I suppose for her sex is a job, not a traumatic violation.

... I know I shouldn't laugh but, lol, the magic is gone, Tyrion's more interested in finding the secret tunnel than the one Shae has waiting for him.

[mermaidsirennikita]

who would you say are the greatest actresses of all time?

Idk, it's all personal taste and my taste shifts a lot.

Call it cliche, I think it's hard to argue against Meryl Streep's range and versatility, the full portfolio she's put together, as it is--her reputation is absolutely earned. I also think she does something consistently well, which a lot of actors, I've noticed as of late especially, don't even seem to bother trying... Accents. I've seen Meryl do Italian, Danish, Polish, Southern, different Southern, whatever the fuck Margaret Thatcher had going on vocally, Julia Child's super distinct voice. I'm not saying she doesn't fall back on some standbys at points, but I think she knows she can because Meryl phoning it in is often still kinda better than a lot of her costars. She showed up for like 30 seconds to sing at Amanda Seyfried (and Meryl doesn't even have the pipes like that lol) in Mamma Mia! Here We Go Again and I wept so.

Viola Davis is just incredible, and probably more talented when you get down to the bare brass. She's another one who can show up and do in like 5 minutes what everyone else can't get done without a 2 hour movie (Doubt, where she out-acted Meryl). She can do vampy high soap theatrics (HTGAWM), historical epics (The Woman King), biopics (Ma Rainey's Black Bottom). She's just beyond, and if it wasn't for the insane racism in Hollywood she'd most definitely have more accolades than she does. It kind of makes you wanna scream when you consider the amount of roles she should have been in the running for against the amount she has been in the running for.

From waaay back when, I think that Vivien Leigh comes to mind for me as an Old Hollywood actress. Might be controversial, but I think that you have to remember that Vivien did not act onscreen that much, so we only have so much footage of her performances... But like? How ever much Gone with the Wind has a fuckton of serious issues, I think her performance was pretty groundbreaking in terms of the amount of time she had to carry, the difficulty of the character and her emotions, and the kind of edgy quality to it all. Then she's arguably BETTER in A Streetcar Named Desire. The slow descent into insanity? Please.

Nicole Kidman is actually up there for me, because I think that when she is on, she does some of the best like "put your camera on an actress's face and watch her fuck shit up" acting. Her monologue in Stoker where she just goes off in this low voice about hating her child and takes in this shaky breath? So so good. She can do all the vampy campy shit with movies like Practical Magic and Moulin Rouge, she can do weird as fuck shit (Birth, Dogville), she can be the villain (To Die For).

Anyway, these are just a few--I also love (the work of) Michelle Yeoh, Angela Bassett, Sophia Loren, Gong Li, Isabelle Adjani, Toni Collette, Olivia Colman, and many more. I tried to stick to people who've been working or worked long enough for me to feel like I got their vibe? There are obviously talented younger actresses, but I think it can take a while to prove your impact.

[measuringbliss]

Spider-Man Read-Through 066 Prison Break (ASM 219-222)

MASTERPOST

In this post, ARMS! But also...

A fun team-up! (That second panel is really cool by the way.)

Well, that's certainly a cover. I'm intrigued by the idea, but dear Lord, Peter looks awful there.

Our issue starts with Spidey infiltrating Ryker's Island. He wants to prove to the administration that it's not secure enough through an article, which makes sense and is quite an exciting story idea.

Disregarding that last panel (at least his face)... Peter... respectfully... I appreciate your arms.

Inside, Peter interrupts a Harrow/Gargoyle/Mysterious Foe escape, but he gets caught by security (and they don't). His camera gets stolen by the janitor.

Later, Matt Murdock defends him (he's been appearing an awful lot recently!), but the accusation argues that he planned that prison escape.

ARMS.

ARMS. I'm sorry, there is a plot, but arms.

Anyway, Matt can't find Peter's camera, which would prove that the accusation, DuBroth, is actually that third Mysterious Foe from earlier. Instead... Aunt May and her geriatric friends pay the caution! didn't expect that.

Peter goes home and...

Oh wow, personality. Anyway, I need to cosplay Peter's look, because orange shirt and purple pants work so well...

Peter puts on his color-washed suit (since the other one's still at Ryker's), which is a nice continuity bit. At the prison, our evil guys are interrogating the janitor.

Spidey gets his good suit back and throws the other one (as well as his highschool webshooters) in the ocean. I wonder if someone will retrieve it...

DuBroth literally changes his name anytime he's called. DuBroil, DuBrow... All in the same issue! That's kind of impressive.

Nice plot stuff!

Soon, the others find themselves at the pawn shop that the janitor sold the camera to... (I said there was a lot of plot!)

Nice ending twists! What a nice issue. Definitely different from the rest, I liked it. The arms were nice too.

Yeah, a lot of it was wonky, but it still was quite enjoyable.

In #220, Moon Knight commits a heist.

Oh that's a fun concept, I love it.

MK needs 10 million dollars to become secretary of their "national directorate", whatever that means.

I need his babies.

I love Peter's expression in the second panel hahaha

Moon Knight gets home and... I get serious flashbacks. Haven't I read a very similar issue...? He appeared in earlier issues of SSM, and I feel like this specific scene was just pasted.

Alright, I see we're getting frisky in this issue. That's fine by me.

Later, at the Met, thieves want to steal stuff and win the contest, but MK doesn't like to lose, and he quickly gets rid of the thieves.

An encounter with Spidey later, and we learn that they're both on the same team.

Really nice panel.

Moon Knight gets the position, but he still has a final task to accomplish: kill Spidey.

Ooh, that guy in Spidey's suit jumpscared me!

Things go well.

Marc, you could... give him money. I think that could be nice hahaha

There's a second story afterwards, with May at a ball where punks play some music. She investigates a murder attempt (these care homes are dramatic!).

PfFfFf hahaha.

The culprit gets stopped...

Lol. Lmao even. They acknowledge how silly it all is. Also, May's becoming an actually fun character, who'd have expected THAT?

221 time! At ESU, Peter's job is put in jeopardy by his less-than-great grades these past few weeks. He also has an altercation with Ramrod, which apparently happened before in a Daredevil issue. Alright, sure.

MORE IMPORTANTLY.

Awww this is cute! I didn't expect him to keep appearing, but I'm still wondering if he'll be a bad guy...

Later, at the gig...

Bahahahaha, "ethnic"? Biff is honestly so funny here, what the heck.

Peter's Spider-Sense warns him off the beer, and it's time for the show.

He's inclusive! I like him. Also, his "I'm sorry, I'll go away" makes me so sad. He might be a villain in disguise, but I love him.

The whole bar, except for Peter and the barman, gets more agitated.

Aww!

His new song is apparently very dark, but people like it and calm down. Meanwhile, Spidey goes to see Dr. Kissick, whomst I assume was introduced in a SSM issue I haven't read yet. The doctor says where's the antidote, Spidey gets it, then gets back to the bar...

*insert Stacey Pilgrim's "What?!"*

Anyway, they fight for a bit.

Is our guy my new favorite character? So baby girl.

I'm a fandom anthropologist, I consider these comments part of my reading experience.

In #222, after a funny fight against some random goons (good jokes!), Spidey faces the Speed Demon. Spidey loses against our new thief, who says where he intends to steal stuff next. What's the matters? He knows Spidey can't stop him anyway.

Later, at the Bugle...

Jameson has a cute bowtie!

Peter's photos are mostly blurry, but one works for Jonah... one in which the Speed Demon gloats over Spidey, of course!

Peter expects his enemy to go to Bloomingdale's, and he's right. After the fight, Peter goes back to the Bugle. Jameson's less than enthused with these pictures of Spidey's victory.

Overall, not enough Peter, but I didn't really mind this time because the action was entertaining and the dialogue was great. In the comments, people agree.

Next post: Apes, an animated show, the Vulture, and more! Woohoo.

[ntuankhann]

RMIT Design Management Sem 1 - 2024

Team 9 - IRD VN Brief 2 & 3

Week 7: Filming

What's been going on in week 7?

Team's organization chart: Tam - main idea guy & director and video editor; Thao - communicator, storyboard and vid editor; Ngan - storyboard and editor; Khanh - stickers and presentation slides. Other than that all participate in pitching ideas for videos and making the video. Timeline: Now we're in the middle of shooting videos Individual contribution: the only individual stuff I did was the stickers but because I drew fast so it wasn't feel like a task at all. More like an excuse for me to draw. Other than that our team do everything together.

Peer review: I love my team lol, they're great.

For this week, we're shooting the videos. We did have many cafe meetings and all in order to figure out what will be in the videos but during the shooting days, we ended up changing a lot of stuff regarding camera angles, script and even the mood the whole video. Most of them were approved by all of us but the one suggesting them was Tam - our "director" guy. In my opinion, Tam is prossibly the closest to the definition of a "designer". What I mean by that is that he is always willing to change the entire thing if a new and better idea comes to mind while doing it, He's never stuck to the same idea that was agreed on from the beginning. That may sounds irresponsible but to me, that's what a designer supposed to do. He spends a lot of time to "figure" out what to do and then even change the script while shooting the videos - the script that he spent so much time to think about already. Tam isn't grounded to only a few ideas, but he is prone to come up with new ones and execute them on the spot. That's why his previous works are so deep and fun in terms of "design" rather than spending time on making his works look good. He's the kind of designer that focus on the meaning of his design more. As someone who is the direct opposite of Tam, I find it super interesting to be working under his "direction" this course. If i was the director, I would be fixated on the first script I made and spend the last 4 weeks of it trying to get that vision that I had and try to make it as visually appealing as possible. Working with him and my team has been helpful in terms of relearning how to "design" as well as "working" in general. In previous weekly reflection, I stated some concerns about worrying what to work on next for fear that I would run out of time waiting to confirm the script because we had been waiting for it for so long. In contrast, me before this course would confirm the plot right on the spot and start working myself to exhaustion to 4AM everyday. But this course, for the first time in 2 years of studying in RMIT, I feel healthy in a way I guess? The physical workload is tolerable, the thinking phase is comfortably long so I don't exhaust myself thinking about what to do; I even had time to buy groceries and cook myself 2 meals a day everyday and a thorough cleaning for my house every weekend - something I could only dream for the past 2 years since time for me was a luxury. Most of the little freetime I get was used to sleep so that my brain wouldn't get a stroke after staying awake looking at my laptop screen for 24-36 hours straight. Therefore, I'm serious when I say I don't mind whatever grade I get for this course as long as I pass, because what I get for this course is something I don't think I can't get anywhere else - a taste of a healthy lifestyle. This is what I truly want to aim for now, not DI or HD. I'm incredibly glad to be studying this course with this specific client and teammates.

Other than that I also started preparing the slides for the presentation.

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How might I use the Quality, Time & Risk Management techniques I learned about in class to improve my life? - Solve the issue and get help if necessary. Always plan with your team before going for the conclusion.

What do I want to do when I graduate? - I'm not sure either, I enjoy drawing and somewhat animating so I'm looking forward to doing those stuff later on I guess.

What existing risks are preventing me from succeeding in my plans? - The only risk I have right now is that I feel like I don't "love" the stuff that I'm doing right now like everyone else. Yes, I do like drawing and I'm not that bad at it, but I don't draw every single day and use every minute I'm free to draw. I would rather use my freetime to spend with my family or stuff that benefits my mental health like cooking. The reason for that is probably after spending 2 years drawing for assignments, my love for drawing has transformed into a skill I use only for work and probably for future income. I still enjoy it, but not as much as doing it every second.

How do I mitigate those risks? - I don't really know either. The only goal for me right now is to just finish RMIT and see how things turn out. To be honest, I find peace in knowing and confirming to myself that I see illustration as a job to me rather than a dream like before. That means that I don't and won't hate that I will be doing in the future while also being able to have other hobbies outside of work as well.

[kwonhochi]

what are your thoughts about the fatphobic comments hoshi has made towards his own members. i am asking this as a genuine question but no hoshi fan whatever you guys are called wants to give me an answer lol

ok so i have been pretty offline and not keeping up w a lot of svt content so this conversation completely missed my radar ! i assume ur talking about this video since thats what ive seen recent conversation abt when i went looking.

- i do want to clarify i am not someone who has had to deal with fatphobia, so my word should not hold as much weight as those who have, and it should be important to uplift the voices of those most impacted by such comments.

we see comments like this often in kpop. an idol’s life revolves around being skinny and packaged of that perfect doll (and only a skinny one!), and the culture in korea (and east asia as a whole) further enforces that. however ! having HAD to deal with such pressure to be skinny they know very well how uncomfortable comments about your weight to be, no matter how joking in tone. in the video hoshi first makes a very unnecessary comment abt seungkwan being a “pig” - perhaps to make light of how peder had been commenting on how little seungkwan was eating - and no matter how the language difference affects the meaning of pig in korean, seungkwan very clearly expresses his displeasure with this comment (tho definitely exaggerated for the cameras). kwan has been dealing with comments like these for years and we have seen how painfully its affected his self esteem and body image, and the members know this. hoshi should definitely know better! right after the video cuts to when peder accidentally says boohae and the rest of bss joke to try and explain the meaning of the word thru their language difference. this also reads like theyre trying to make light of the situation, but dk telling peder to call seungkwan boohae again after theyd cleared up the misunderstanding is DEFINITELY crossing a line and i think thats the part i take most issue with, personally. these clips mostly seem to be the results of some poor taste in jokes taken too far.

ultimately, this is an issue seungkwan needs to clear up with his members, if it really is an issue. theyve known each other for (more than) a decade, so they can (and have) set boundaries about what to joke about and what not to - i’d be surprised if they hadnt already set boundaries abt this topic, but its not my place to pry into their personal lives and relationships with each other, nor it is my place to decide what they should do about this matter! there have been repeated offenses of fatphobic comments by various seventeen members so i do think it is very important that we talk with them about the harm these comments can cause, both to the people listening and the people they are talking about.

you are going to run into fatphobia in kpop spaces. from idols (both about themselves and the people around them), their companies, and from fans. but it really shouldnt be like that! it really shouldnt. this is a topic we do have to approach with nuance, considering both cultural and language differences, as well as the working conditions of an idol, but we cant simply excuse these comments because of that. idols should know better, and if they dont, we have the power to let them know that!

i hope we can continue to foster productive conversations about these issues and include idols in these conversations. i do firmly believe people are allowed to make mistakes and learn from them; we just have to make sure we are giving idols the opportunity to learn, and educate themselves, after making these comments. as fans, we are the people powering and funding this whole industry, and we do have power from this! i know its possible to make kpop a better space. it just takes time and a group effort. i have seen a lot of people write off serious, important criticism of groups as simply “hate” - which ultimately trivializes the whole issue and doing so does not accomplish anything. dogpiling on someone for a mistake can also make them feel attacked and adverse to changing if its not handled with enough tact. fandom spaces as a whole need to develop the skill of being able to seriously face topics that need addressing and learning how to then work together to solve/better these problems. the original(?) account i saw that posted the clips this month, a year after the videos posting, did have a history of posting derogatory tweets about hoshi, but that does not make the issue of fatphobia and body shaming among seventeen & kpop as a whole any less real, or any less in need of addressing. And scene

[stormblessed95]

hi storm! i just wanted to say that i have been following your blog since last year and i wanted to share my bts/jikook story in response to anon sharing how they came across bts and how bts motivates them to do/try different things. depending on if i get hate or not for this i will come out from anonymity as i think you might now know who this is :-) i want to state 1st that i am a music snob and i lose interest in music very quickly at least after 2010 i started to feel that way, i also want to point out that from 2010-2020 ( why did i pick a pandemic to not be depressed anymore? lol) i was what you call a functioning depressed person, so when i came across BTS music i became enthralled and moved by them something i never thought would happen as they have reignited my passion and love for music and they have kept me from relapsing back into depression and i will NEVER go back again no matter what :-) so anyways i became army between BS and dynamite ERA but it wasn't right away because i was still learning what it means to be an army so in the process of me learning all the members names i began to also learn about their personalities and jimin ended up becoming my ultimate bias but, would you believe that i actually didn't like jimin at first? i know right what the hell is wrong with me?? but its not for the reasons that people might think and i want to emphasize that i NEVER EVER hated jimin, hate is such an ugly thing to have in your heart there is a big difference between not liking someone and hating them. and this was all before i knew about the hate he was getting(for no reason i might add) this was something with me personally that i expereinced watching compilation videos of the guys so anyway in my binge-watching, i came across a video with jimin in it and he had pink hair BWL era maybe? so yeah in this video he was looking down at the floor and then all of a sudden he raises his head up slowly and looks directly at the camera like dead center almost like something caught his attention (if you can find the video pls share it because i cant find it no more) and i swear i know its not possible but when he looked directly at the camera i felt like he was looking through me like right though my soul because he had the most serious expression on his face and at that moment that he looked at the camera its hard to explain the feeling but i guess the closest would be a jolt like i felt like i got shocked i guess? in my heart? and that happened in that same moment which freaked me out and i was like WTH just happened? so i was like confused and weirded out thinking i was going crazy or maybe it really all was in my head idk, but i didnt like how it made me feel and because that didnt happen to me watching any of the other members, for like 2 weeks i kina avoided watching videos of jimin for fear i might experience that again lol but then i stopped being foolish and started watching videos again and i began to learn that the more i watched him the more i realize how very similair mine and his perosnalities are and i began to love him and love everything about him which brings me to say that anyone who hates jimin or any bts member for that matter clearly its a them problem/issue that they need to deal with and work though instead of projecting their insecurities on the guys(i'd like to think that they actually hate themselves and so they project that onto other people to make themselves feel better) whatever helps them sleep at night **eye roll** so now onto jikook i came across jikook when i started watching jimin more and i always noticed how jk would always be around/near jimin or just close proximity of him in general but i know that jk likes to be close with his members so i didnt think much of it until i started noticing that in their off work time that jikook would always hang out with e/o and then i started noticing the cute flirting/teasing and the WAY that they looked at each other and the soft tones that only they use with each other *** to be continued in another ask***

****continued from jikook story prev ask. i began to be sus of them and then i came across a jikook video (not edited) and well confirmed my thoughts and well you know... down the hole lol. so in conclusion to share how bts have impacted my life i view life diffrently because of them. namjoon taught me that its ok to be sad and get upset and not suppress your emotions and also to love yourself. jin taught me to not take life so seriously. yoongi taught me that you are never too old to acheive your dreams no matter what age you are (I'm in my 30's btw) hobi taught me to be happy even in bad times because life is too short to be miserable i love this sunshine! jimin taght me to be more emotionally intelligent and more compassionate person. tae is teaching me to enjoy life and to love unconditionally, i take borahae to heart, and as for jk hes teaching me to live life without fear to take chances and to have no regrets about life (rather be dead than cool right?) and because of these guys i am becoming a better person and i love them for that. and to you storm, with me following your blog I've grown as well as a person and learned so much from you as well and i thank you for that. i really do :-) so that's my story, sorry for it being so long lol

Aww thank you for sharing your story and so many sweet words about the members and even me at the end! I'm glad you found BTS! As for the video you described, was it the one with this gif of Jimins stare? That comes from this interview about a minute and a half in

[rebel-in-white]

Sam Wilson’s Feelings Towards Bucky Barnes

In this meta, I’m arguing that Sam Wilson, as he is portrayed in the Falcon and the Winter Soldier, has romantic feelings for Bucky Barnes. Before you think I’m overreaching and reading too much into this show, read on and think about the evidence I’m going to present. Could a simple friendship explain the differences in Sam’s interactions with other characters versus his interactions with Bucky?

Disclaimer: I’m not saying that Disney is going to show us a homosexual couple. Honestly, I don’t think that’s going to happen. I’m not accusing anyone of queerbaiting either. I don’t want to enter into that argument. I just believe that Sam Wilson is a man in love with another man. 

Sam’s Demeanor with Bucky:

In episode 1, we have a delightful scene between Sam and Torres, who seems to genuinely admire Sam. After taking a video of Sam speaking Arabic, the impressed Torres makes a few light comments. Sam responds with a smile but maintains a serious demeanor and cracks minimal jokes. He doesn’t relax or drop his guard. Compare that to his drastic change in attitude in episode 2. After only spending 3 minutes with Bucky, he’s talking about wizards and sorcerers and something about hats. 

And he’s always joking around with Bucky. He doesn’t let himself do that with other characters on the show, not even his own sister. This shows that with Bucky, Sam feels like he can relax more. For some reason, he feels safe with Bucky to show his true self.

Sam checks on him, constantly

In episode 1, we find out that Sam has texted Bucky post blip several times. Enough times that Bucky’s therapist, Dr. Raynor, uses that to gauge how well Bucky is connecting with other people. She admonishes him for ignoring Sam’s texts. In episode 3, we find out that Sam hasn’t given Sharon the same treatment. He hasn’t texted or called her, despite the fact that she had placed her career on the line for him, Steve, and Bucky. His only concern was Bucky and to see how he was doing.

Not only did he text Bucky, but Sam is periodically checking on his state of mind and well being, showing genuine concern and care. 

“You good?” 

“What’s going on in that Cyborg brain of yours?” 

Again, we don’t see him check on other characters like this. Bucky gets special treatment.

Sam lets Bucky do what he wants

The keyword here is lets. Sam lets Bucky do whatever the f*ck he wants to do because he’s weak in the face of Bucky’s desires and demands. Sam can be very stubborn, he’s just subtle with it. In the show, he refuses to give up on the boat, refuses to give into his sister’s demands, and tries to think of solutions for this problem. That bank scene not only hints at the consequences of the blip and other social issues, but it highlights Sam’s intelligence and determination. When he wants something, he will work hard to get it. That’s why he survived so long as Steve’s partner-in-crime when they were on the run. And he still hasn’t given up on the boat.

Yet, we see this intelligent, stubborn man cave into Bucky over and over again. First, Bucky wants to come with him on the mission in episode 2. Sam says no, but Bucky is sitting with him on the plane in the next scene. If Sam truly didn’t want Bucky to come, he wouldn’t have let him come. He isn’t a pushover- he gave up Steve’s shield because he couldn’t stand the idea of being the new Captain America. Some other examples: Sam lets Bucky go in to see Zemo alone and goes along with his plan to use Zemo’s connections to find out more about the super-soldier serum.

Sam keeps touching Bucky’s metal arm

He’s touched Bucky’s metal arm a total of three times. The first time, after rolling in the flowers, he lets his hand rest on it. This is almost a comforting gesture, one that is entirely unnecessary, but the camera lingers on the touch for a few seconds. Next, in the therapy scene, he pointedly slaps Bucky’s vibranium arm. In episode 3, Sam protectively grabs Bucky when he sees that the danger has increased in the bar. The touch helps snap Bucky out of his Winter Soldier mode. 

This shows a fascination with what makes Bucky different and dangerous, which could be the type of people Sam’s attracted to sexually. Let’s not forget that Sam had expressed physical attraction towards Black Widow, who is the embodiment of sensuality and danger. Sam Wilson has a type, and Bucky fits it.

Sam calls Bucky “Buck”

 It’s the nickname Steve had for Bucky, and it’s interesting that Sam seems a little bothered when Bucky says he couldn’t use it.

“Why not? It’s what Steve called you?”

“Steve knew me longer. And Steve had a plan.”

Sam rolls his shoulders, a gesture of discomfort. He says, “I have a plan.” Almost like he wanted to say, now, can I call you “Buck,” too? It’s also very illuminating to hear this nickname when Sam’s afraid for Bucky’s life in episode 3:

[Gunshots]

“Buck!” Sam yells.

The nickname shows a deeper level of intimacy between Sam and Bucky, something that Sam wants. That’s why he uses it, remarks on Steve having used it, and continues to use it. 

Sam lets himself argue with Bucky

Again, the keyword here is lets. Sam is a very controlled person. I’ve read numerous posts about all the things that Sam has to deal with - blip, institutionalized racism, Captain America’s mantle, that mantle being given to a lesser suited individual, losing his boat, losing his friends, and losing the connection with his family. Yet, Sam holds himself together very well. He doesn’t break dangerous criminals out of prison (looking at you Bucky), and he tries to follow his values in a world that is making less and less sense to him. 

Yet, with Bucky Barnes, he allows himself the freedom to argue with him. They argue in episode 2 numerous times, but I’m going to focus on the argument in episode 3. I loved that random back-and-forth in the middle of a fight scene. I cannot picture Sam doing something like that with Steve, and he definitely wouldn’t argue like that with anyone else. With Bucky, we see Sam let his guard down to bicker and voice his immediate feelings and thoughts. We don’t see this happen with anyone else! He’s usually more guarded with his true thoughts and emotions.

What does Bucky feel?

Unfortunately, I don’t see clear evidence that Bucky reciprocates his feelings. There’s evidence that some feelings are forming (I have high hopes for the pulling Sam’s hand closer to his chest scene!), and the genuine bond is there. As of now, Sam’s feelings run deeper. It’s understandable because Bucky is a man in transition. He doesn’t know who he is, and we can see that struggle in some small details here and there: for example, when Sam wedges his thigh between his in the therapy scene, Bucky places his hands over his crotch in an insecure position. Sam, on the other hand, is relaxed and secure in his identity. Bucky is still struggling to adjust to the modern world when he’s a 1940s man at heart. Plus, there’s Steve. According to Sharon, Bucky was “Mr. America” (LOL). He needs more time to solidify himself and his feelings.

Where did these feelings come from?

Sexual attraction (sexy and dangerous is Sam’s type)

Bucky is probably the only person in his life who makes sense. Everything else is so different and difficult.

He was Steve’s close friend, and Sam loved and respected Steve.

Bucky ignites his protective instincts. Bucky emphasizes this when he says that Sam gave up so much for him. (Interesting that Bucky doesn’t mention Steve, who wanted to save his best friend and helped to convince his current friend to help him do that.)

Perhaps, Bucky reminds him of Riley (would love to see a Riley flashback)

He feels a connection to the loneliness he sees in Bucky. Despite the people in his life and his natural charisma, Sam strikes me as a solitary figure.

Ultimately, we still know very little about Sam and Bucky, and we have three episodes left of the show, so many things can change! Hopefully, the change will be good for this ship.

I hope you enjoyed this meta. Thank you for reading!

[feelingofcontent]

DNP Rewatch: Internet Support Group 3

Date video was published: 06/18/2014 (X)

DNP Main Channel Rewatch: 230

Another Internet Support Group! It had been about a year since Dan’s previous one of these. He asked for people to send in problems the week before.

0:00 - I think his hair looks different again in this video. It’s longer on the sides, maybe? He did get a shorter haircut shortly after this. Still no white shirt yet. I like this dark one with the subtle stripes though!

0:34 - immediate wide eyes of unprepared-to-give-advice-on-this

0:36 - and realization that it’s not real.

0:45 -  As he says in the video description “And for god's sake people - URBAN DICTIONARY IT IS NOT MY JOB!” lol

1:05 - he’s so happy to get one he can actually address

1:14 - “the best way to save money is to not have a life” true.

1:34 - dramatic self-realization

1:44 - this one is cute to me, hahaha. And yet it’s somehow the one that makes him get out the wine.

1:53 - something happened to the computer screen in the background here. You can see the exact moment he realizes and then the jump cut to fix it.

1:57 -  Never see him actually take a sip of the wine though.

2:12 - Dan knows a bit about the “random” phase and regretting it 😳

2:43 - Dan does seem to try to take the serious ones more seriously and give actual advice.

2:58 - awww, Dan has felt that one 🙁

3:25 - “I frequently despair at the general population of humanity” sometimes it is jarring how different “internet” people are to real life

3:48 - Dan always stresses the importance of finding what makes you happy

3:59 - this was a real issue for them at the first London flat

4:00 - he never does actually drink the wine on camera

4:08 - that’s really not any better than whatever it ended up saying...

4:42 - it must have been warm; his hair is getting so wavy in the front! 

4:48 - this one was a very personal one for Dan at the time I would imagine. His eyes get all soft when he’s answering one he feels connected too. Oh. This whole answer. 🥺

5:18 - definitely relating back to his Fictional Friends video

5:53 - and again, very similar messaging to Trying To Live My Truth. He really thought about this stuff for YEARS.

6:14 - “I have ever seen...this week” lol at the “this week” part of that

I think this is my favorite of the first three ISG videos. I would still love to know how much prep he does on selecting and coming up with answers to questions ahead of filming. And selecting the order to put the questions in. 

Ahead of this in June, Dan went to visit his family and met Colin the dog for the first time (with outtake photos). Dan also celebrated his birthday (1, 2, 3, 4)! DNP went to the circus (1, 2, 3) and had cake at their house (1, 2) and then again at the radio station on Sunday. This is also the first year Phil posted a photo in his tweet for Dan’s birthday. 😊

[cinnamonest]

I present you with an idea:

Porn star au.

Imagine the reader is a porn star, a semi-famous one. and the Yan is the camera man. And he's the camera man of her videos 90% of the time, so at first he probably didn't like her too much, because "she's doing it for money and therefore doesn't respect herself/is a whore." While ignoring the fact he's also working there, just as the camera man-

Anyway, one day she invites him for coffee on their break or something and for whatever reason, he goes. And then he learns she's not a bad person, just in it to make some quick money she needed for whatever reason. Maybe she was really behind on her rent, maybe no other place would hire her so she resorted to becoming a porn actress, etc.

And then, after getting to know her for a few weeks, or even months, he catches the dreaded feelings. At first he denies it to himself, there's no way he would like a porn star. She can't be faithful, at least not in the physical aspect.

It's her job to have sex with different people on camera for Christ's sake!

But he still can't get her out of his head and he finds himself wanting to kill the other person she's having sex with. His grip on the camera gets a little too tight, he starts glaring at the other person, he tries to take up the reader's time whenever she's free, tries to stop her from "working" in subtle ways at first, but then it just gets out of hand.

I might actually write a fic for this but probably not.

Anyway, that's the idea of porn star! Au. And ngl, I kept thinking of Xiao when I wrote this even though he's the least likely to even work in the porn industry lmao.

Xiao the recently-graduated film tech/videography student who desperately needs a job and is like "well I'll take it bc I can't find anything else" for a porn job lol

I love the idea of him getting progressively more and more bothered by watching her get fucked by other dudes... and they start talking more and more regularly so he gets more and more attached... and it keeps him up all night. He can't sleep. In any universe, any AU, he's still our hyper-possessive boi, so just the thought of other people touching her makes his skin crawl, he keeps grinding his teeth and punching walls whenever he thinks about it. Starts having detailed fantasies about killing those guys he films her with. Tells himself she clearly doesn't like them at all, she just fucks them and goes. She doesn't have a bond with them... But she does with him, right...?

Eventually he snaps. Finds out where she lives. Shows up at night bordering on unhinged and saying she has to quit.

But what about rent? He says she doesn’t have to worry about that... she can... move in with him. He’ll take care of her. He can afford it, promise!

And of course darling is freaking out a bit because you barely know this guy, he's always been quiet and kinda abrasive, even has some antisocial tendencies, and now he's showing up at your door that you didn't give him the address to, going on about coming to live with him? Clearly he's got some serious issues and you're not safe.... So you back away, even run and lock the door.

He doesn't yell. He just kinda... Sighs. He was in a manic sort of state but once you do that, he realizes why you'd be scared... So he does the only other thing he knows how to do. He's a simple boy with simple solutions, not socially apt, not holding financial power, none of that. It's more straightforward than that - you can't keep your job if all your coworkers are dead <3

[jalebi-weds-bluetooth]

Hello Jalebi🧚!! sankiraizada here💃

First of all thanks a lot for being a sweet human ❤️ I love all your patient (not to mention thoroughly detailed) replies to all the asks!

You are one of many (god bless) ipk canon writers who brought back my love for the show which has been a SECRET guilty pleasure pre-covid years thanks to peer pressure (Desi soaps aren't cool enough for my stupid friends) Now I can shove good fanfics and all the amazing plot points you guys pick out from the original in their faces lol

THE ACTUAL ASK -------------

Have you noticed: for many precaps in the episodes when some serious shit is going on (ex : S5 ep41 on hotstar, police tell Arnav that Anju's car has been in an accident) they play a stupid bgm??? Like what!?

It's more Khushi pulling a prank or NK messing with Dadi than... idk Arshi escaping from kidnappers or Shyam planning to kill Anju lol

And it does not happen once or twice and as much as I understand they have to rush through final brushings by precaps but it takes away all the enthu I hold for the seriousness of the coming episode.

Sorry for the long rant and lots of hugs and love 🤗🤗

Omg hello love!!!!

Thank you for being very sweet and appreciating me <3 I am so glad you love whatever I write about IPK - that show has my heart, soul and everything. Oh God I hate it when people think liking soaps is uncool - that's not fair!

Lol I'd say those are editing issues. Like last minute they needed to send the edit to the channel to air it and couldn't probably find an audio clip so they made do with whatever clip they could find *lol*

I laughed at how they had edited the precap for the attempted consummation at the hut. I couldn't stop laughing cause it was literally intercut with the goons surrounding the hut. First of all, I can't think of sexy times if those goons are around *lol* and seriously, these guys are thinking of having sex when they should... RUN AWAY.

But sometimes I like watching the precaps cause they end up adding promos they've already shot or they add in another camera angle so I feel like I'm watching an extra moment of the show!!!

Thanks for sharing your thoughts here!

Much love,

- Jalebi

P.S: I love love love the emojis you used!

[familiaanteomnia]

somebody about xav to nate: that unhinged creature seems the sort to do at home body modifications nathan knowing his twin just like: ..... i’m not going to tell you how incorrect that is but that’s one of the things he takes very seriously ironically -which like, some senior trying to peer pressure nate into getting a stick&poke at a party when he’s a freshman and him being like- as much this could earn me some belonging i’ll accept coming off as a stuck up rich kid because i value my health -those sort of antics are disallowed at vortex parties once he becomes fairly in charge (of course nate is like i really have no say in it- if they are going to nothing’s changing that but i will actively kick them to the curb because no thanks) not for like preservation of the club or risk control but him just really not wishing to remotely be in proximity to those choices -you would think xav given his being reckless,etc has been in those situations but it’s one of his no go’s which can be a struggle for him because of how much a people pleaser he is/his mental health issues so when it’s 3am and he really wants a new tattoo sometimes he’ll be like I could do it, properly sanitize and not be stupid about it to which he usually counteracts by texting his go to tattoo artist/or doing a mockup, doodling the design etc till he falls asleep -nathan finds tattoos cool but isn’t hit with the actual motivation to get any personally/does have his health issues,etc (certainly wouldn’t mind getting a horror tattoo of some nature, actually has quite a few he’s seen that were like “cutesy” horror that he was like wow that’s fucking cool style- naturally would consider getting a whale related one too maybeee as cliche or nerdy a camera) piercings are even more unlikely for him- meaningful would be the drive for a tattoo *as funny it’d be for him to get like comedy/tragedy for the lols* -xav is just a connoisseur of tattoos, piercings to the extent of hardcore passion naturally especially regarding piercing jewelry/theming stuff,etc (though his body tends to not allow piercings very easily, will heal things up too well/like if he forgets to wear a piercing for x amount of time it’s like that spot never got pierced so that tends to be a complicated matter) -like with many things xav has also managed to get ink when he was underage (due to the crowd he hung out with plus the ability to seem older than he is+a really good fake id etc) which he’ll admit was probably not the smartest or like morally right but as if it’d been like ‘ah yes i will take my 16 year old to the tattoo shop, pay for me to get one of my concepts like ~arson is romantic~’ *tbh in his adopted verse he likely did go to his parents like take me plz cuz that’s one difference* -regarding the style of xav’s tattoos/wanted one’s its a lot of he is down to genuinely mean “have fun with it” because really respects the persons art style, wants them to have fun *does also communicate very well in general plus sometimes back forth art nerding* some have meaning, others not so much (he finds colored ink really cool+uv ink as well but also a typical sucker for black outlined designs etc) plus sometimes he just wants “dumb” tattoos like he won’t take shit for getting like a vampire c.are bear if that’s what he feels like getting -related, xav is actually pretty picky sometimes about certain things like carefully painting water on a envelope seal to activate it because “my tongue can only get destroyed by salt&vinegar chips, sour candy, and dry cereal” which is pretty amusing -both genuinely kinda shiver when like passing by c.laires or whatever especially if somebody they are with goes ‘i should go get pierced lol’ depending might be met with ‘no no no plz if you’re serious i will pay for you to professionally get what you want’

[kanmom51]

I saw that answer about the whole issue with kpop idols and skinship.

I often see people going on these jikook videos and saying it's skinship because the company tells them to do it (and i never had a problem with that, cause I knew they were so deep into their narrative of them all being straight that it wouldn't make a deference), i countinued reading the comments (cause I like drama) and then i saw them posting a link to this picture

https://images.app.goo.gl/XMvbGmrspPP7CNMg6

I saw a lot of jikookers getting insecure because that picture has some extreme skinship, but one thing they always forget is that this picture is the reason why K-pop companies don't go to far on skinship anymore, to give y'all context: this band was pretty famous back in the day and to keep themselves relevant they often used skinship and one day they went a little bit to far and the whole of Korea draged them for promoting "gay" to a crowd of people and since then companies are scared to try some more spicy skinship, and some times they do it but it's never on the serious tone they that picture, instead of that they always try to make it playful and promote it as something fun like this one here:

https://images.app.goo.gl/BmU6n9tK4GPwqDR8A

they get a lot of backlash for it so they've been really careful about what they put out there.

And now let's talk about BTS and JIKOOK

JIKOOK as some of you might know is Korea's biggest ship to they often get promoted as a pair and Korea's fine with that but what JIKOOK has done has been raising some Korean eyebrows and that's why there's to much k-jikooker, and one thing y'all might not know is that JIKOOK has been getting similar backlash for what they've done at the BLACKSWAN performance and the Dynamite Christmas remix (basically Korean homophobes talking about how it should be between a man and a woman, although some people were pretty supportive about), and I'm not saying that it's a good thing that they're getting hate but it definitely helps people to realize that when i comes to JIKOOK cultural context isn't an excuse for what they do.

And i hate when people say that JIKOOK is just doing fan service because the company tells them, i wonder if these people know that BTS doesn't rely on skinship anymore (they used to rely on that back in the day, as they they grew on fan base and in popularity they just stopped), and even Tae has been distancing himself from making interactions with jungkook because of what happened with the whole taekook thing and the lies, fake narratives and bullshit that they tell.

Don't think BTS rely on skinship too much, because they don't and people need to understand that hatting on jikookers isn't gonna stop Jikook from being loud.

Sorry if it's too long and I hope u got what I mean cause I'm not sure even i do lol.

Hey anon, thank you for your ask. I have seen your first link, but didn't know the backstory here. I have never seen the second link, though I have seen some of those questionable 'games' the idols are expected to play, including BTS in the early days.

You speak of K-army or K-Jikookers, are you one? Cultural context is everything with Jikook, and it would be great to hear some more from someone who is privy to that.

You refer in your ask to skinship, but I think what you really mean is fanservice, no?

Skinship is more about intimate touching between two close platonic friends. It's the hugging, holding hands, playing with each other's hair, back massaging, bum smacking and more, all affectionate, but not intended to be sexual. This is something acceptable among male friends in SK, not only in the K-pop industry.

What stands out with skinship is that it is an acceptable way of showing affection between men, in ways that would be perceived as sexual or inappropriate in other cultures.

Skinship is something BTS do a hell of a lot, not only Jikook (they might even be on the lower scale of obviously touchy feely). The back hugs, the waist hugs, the hand holding, the thigh rubbing and so much more.

Skinship is not about the company selling, it's about showing affection amongst the members.

Then we have fanservice. That is what I think you are actually referring to here.

Fanservice is not necessarily about the interactions between the members. It's about, and I am going to be as blunt as hell here, getting the juices running for the fans. Yuck, I know.

JM tearing his singlet off and dancing shirtless during concerts, JK lifting his shirt during Fake Love (have you heard the screams when that happens??), idols performing with crop tops or shirtless, certain wardrobe choices as see-through shirts, collars etc., those are fanservice.

Using skinship and taking it a few more steps further is also a type of fanservice. Fetishizing it. It's all about creating the 'WANT' in the fans. If the fans 'WANT' the fans will buy. They will buy the albums, they will buy the photo cards, the fans, the whatever merchandise you can think of, because they 'WANT'.

I talked in length about fanservice in a previous ask, and recommend reading it.

Yes, BTS engage in fanservice, and so do JM & JK. No, not everything they do is fanservice. I would even go so far as to say that most of their interactions aren't fanservice.

I can understand how people can get caught in this trap. It's easy to mark everything as fanservice, as some kind of marketing stunt. But the trick is to look beyond the obvious, or what they think the obvious is.

The difference with BTS, and k-pop bands as a whole, is that you have so much more content hours than with Western artists. It's not only the MV, interviews and concerts. You have hours and hours of content, documentaries, live content, game shows etc. They are in front of cameras almost 24/7 and although there is a lot going on off camera, the level of exposure here is enormous. You can't act all the time. You can't hide your real self all the time. So we get to see a big chunk of 'REAL' within this content. Btw, that is also something done for the fans - trying to create a connection on a personal level with the idols.

I digress, and please forgive me for that.

Bottom line is, whoever claims the whole nature of Jikook's interactions and connection is for the sake of fanservice hasn't got the faintest idea what they are talking about. Either they haven't been watching BTS content (not compilations, but original content from over the years), or they are so terrified of the what that relationship may be, of what the true nature of the connection is, that they are wearing their "I don't wanna see no gay here" glasses (again, please forgive the bluntness). Thing is, they are so scared of the implications here, that they need to deny the actual close connection between those two, as something manufactured by the company.

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I just saw y the HYBE x Ithaca Holdings video and it really hit me with some realisations. HYBE partnering with them is bound to change some things in a huge way. Collabs and economics notwithstanding, Ithaca is home to NUMEROUS big name artists. I want to focus on the fact that: (1) Beiber is a heavily tattooed dude, I wonder if this fact will give some leeway for Kook to be a bit more free with his existing tatts or allow him to continue getting more. (2) Demi is an openly queer woman. This, along with how open Ithaca’s artists are with their support for the LGBTQ+ community, makes me wonder how it will influence HYBE artists who might be queer themselves (looking at Jikook 👀). I fully know that culturally Korea is its own thing and HYBE its own entity, but I think this might open up some doors for our boys both musically speaking as well as regarding their own selves. Dearest Goldy of mine, what do you think?

Hmmmmmmm

That's an interesting question.

I do agree that this provides a huge economic opportunity for BTS as a group and as investors in Hybe and for frankly anyone within Hybe labels- there's a lot of talents who would kill to be part of this company now. I just know it.

Hell I wanna be part of Hybe and I can't even sang. Lmho.

Cute, if you think I can dance. 🤣🤣🤣🤣

BigHit just got cooler you know.

But I think you are basically asking if this new acquisition will in effect impact the lifestyle of BTS, specifically Jikook as queer people in any way?

I'd say no- especially on the issue of tattoos. But I might be wrong. I just think it takes more than a business merger to undo a person's lifestlye and or socialization or even influence it.

Unless of course, this merger guarantees them certain universal rights and protections outside their culture and political system I don't see how it's to profit them as queer people in any major way.

Whatever impact I'd say is rather intangible.

If you know what I mean.

I've said a few times now how BTS by virtue of their presence in the international community, in my opinion, are socialized and are expected to be socialized a tad differently from the average regular conservative or even liberal S. Korean person with no external influences whatsoever on their socializations.

Your socialization informs your lifestyle.

Justin, Troye, RM and other artists have undoubtedly had and perhaps continue to have an influence on Jk musically and lifestyle wise, to some extent, but he has his own unique values and beliefs and morals that has been acquired and instilled in him through the years independent of these influences.

He is his own person afterall.

Plus did you see the arm sleeve on the director of the MV for Home? He is surrounded at the work place with people that are tatted too. It can't be just Justin B.

He saw a girl with tattoos and said that was something he'd love to have one day when he got of age and he got it- in spite of Suga's objection. He's always expressed interests in tattoos and wanting to become a tattoo artist.

He got these tattoos in spite of the inconveniences they pose to his expressions of self within his career and society- as tattoos are still pretty much stigmatized in S.K and aren't legally allowed on certain broadcasts within S. Korea. And he continues to add on them, draw over them etc way before this merger came into existence.

If he decides that's what he wants he will get them but it wouldn't be because Justin Bieber is heavily tatted or because his company expanded.

I'm not sure what you mean by leeway, but in a recent Run episode (the one with the famous chef) we saw his full arm out and I think that was the first time we had seen his tats on full display on run.

Contrastingly, he had his whole arm bandaged in the Let's BTS interview on KBS.

He covers his tattoos most times because of broadcast rules that prohibits (regulates) not just tattoos but alcohol consumption, cussing, nudity etc on public television that require specific ratings.

Merger or not he will still have to adhere to the laws of South Korea, including entertainment and media broadcasting laws and hide his tattoos as and where.

On the topic of queerness, I think now more than ever BTS would have to become socially, racially and culturally conscious and aware the instant this deal is concluded in May.

Ithaca has one of the most diversified group of artists under its belt- from Quavo who is black to Demi who is queer like you pointed out.

Now more than ever they are at the center of the global conversations we are having in our generation- from racism, to LBGTQ plus marginalizations, to all oppressions of minorities and minority groups.

And with that proximity comes a need to keep themselves in check now more so than ever- which include a check on the cultural appropriation bit, the queer baiting, drawing on queer aesthetics in their 'fan service' culture and other problematic issues that is characteristic of KPop.

What they do now matters more than ever- socially speaking of course.

When Jin started eating a lollipop JM gave him provocatively, JM asked him not to do that on camera but to reserve things like that for the group off camera.

If 'gay' is not gay but their 'culture' I think they know better to keep it to themselves off camera and act 'right' on camera- especially now.

I'm not about to stan a group that capitalizes on the trauma and oppression of me and my people in the name of entertainment. That's just tacky.

On the plus, I think it's great that they be surrounded by other queer folks in the business and be part of a community that welcomes and support queerness so they don't feel like they are the only ones.

That's not to say they aren't surrounded by queer people in their dialy lives.

I mean they have a large staff and I know damn well some of those staffers are queer as well- why wouldn't they be. Lol.

They've always had that 'supportive' environment to foster their relationship- well except for that one time a manager tried to bitch slap JK. Lol. Sorry.

It's not funny at all. Serious face.

They've always been free and loose in places outside Korea- Japan for one, to be themselves in certain 'controlled" areas of their lives.

I think if anything there's gonna be a focus on creating conducive and inclusive work environments and ethics for everyone not just queer people within the company at large.

I think Jikook can relate more, have certain essential conversations in the group, be exposed to and be part of the 'community' in a way that just felt so distant to them prior to the acquisition- in my opinion.

There is strength in numbers after all. Other than that those two companies might operate like night and day with a few eclipses in between.

The bigger question for me is how SK is going to react to Hybe as an international company from now on. No elite Korean company has openly admitted queer artists within their label. Such revelations presumably is bound to impact their social and economic standing...

Seems in acquiring Ithaca though Hybe have circumvented the conservative problem within Kpop and their culture as they have acquired openly queer artists.

Not that they care about an artist's sexuality. Bang have made it perfectly clear he prioritizes a person's talent over their sexual preference and thus hire artists based on their skills regardless of their sexuality.

But that is also not to say that the company wouldn't be met with harsh criticisms and suffer economic loss should they openly admit the sexuality of certain artists they work with.

I mean he did advise Jo Kwan on the risks he would be taking in going in the direction he wanted to go in with his heels schtick. So he is aware of the risks involved in going public with an artist's sexual orientation.

He talked about Korean companies playing it safe and not taking certain risks especially when it comes to deeds that are deemed 'rebellious' against the Korean conservative way.

-Watch and learn people, if you can't hire openly gay talents acquire their company. Problem solved. Lol.

From May, Hybe will technically officially become the first elite Korean company with openly queer artists under its labels that openly touches on and advocates for LGBTQ plus rights.

I'm waiting for Pride month with a cup of tea. Mu haha ha.

BTS has performed with queer artists in the past, dabbled in LGBTQ plus conversations which was mostly met with mixed reactions from the general public- some oblivious to who these artists were much less that they were queer. (Sis laugh with me. Hehe. If you know you know)

BigHit is gradually evolving the status quo.

It's an interesting development I must say, one I'm very much invested in at this point.

BigHit has always aimed beyond the borders of Korean commercial verse often straddling the line of conservatism, literally just became an international company within South Korea governed by both Korean and American laws that in all essence conflict with eachother morally and constitutionally.

Bang has some heavy balls I'll give him that.

Also, since this is an acquisition and not a merger I doubt if much will change in the structures of either company- the family photoshoots would be interesting to watch.

Imagine trying to get Arianna, Justin, BTS, TXT in one large studio for a photoshoot. I'm literally cackling. Lmho.

Scooter Braun will become part of the board of Hybe to manage the company and he is part owner of Hybe along with Justin, Ariana and BTS who also have shares in the company- until they decide to sell their shares that is.

That's about it.

I'm not sure how these Asian haters are gonna respond to an Asian company taking over 'America.' That's something to watch out for.

Then there's this whole issue of 'scandals' and both campanies view on it.

Western companies feed off chaos and drama and scandals, Kpop is the exact opposite.

Most of these Artists under Ithaca have had some pretty bad records and are prone to scandals and stuff like that. In case of an inevitable future scandal, the news would read 'BTS's so so and so.'

They are gonna make it all about BTS.

I mean when BigHit went public with their IPO and it went south it was all about BTS' 'failed IPO' in the news rather than the company it's self.

I have mixed feelings about this acquisition.

It's obvious BigHit is saving Justin Bieber's label. You don't sell unless you are in some huge financial decline blah blah.

Hybe is keeping them in business while building their own portfolio in the industry. BTS may not have a Grammy but Hybe has several artists with Grammys under it's belt now. Smirk.

The success of Justin, Ariana and all these artists are the success of Hybe which together with the powerhouse that is BTS gives Hybe more prestige- it's like watching the game of thrones but this time it's a bunch of nerds with chapsticks and Prada. Lmho.

At least now people will think twice before they peddle the 'they are not gay, it's their culture' nonsense.

Not sure if this answers your question?

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GOLDY